Why I Hate Hanging Out as an Adult

[@SheilaTrueLove]

Hello, I'm a new Subscriber. I'm really enjoying your content. I am completely SINGLE and I LOVE it. I was married twice but when they cheated I divorced them. I don't give second chances in that area. I was engaged to be married a third time but said "hell no", and I am so happy that I dodged that bullet. I have my Son, Friends, Meetups and Fellowship meetings I attend when I feel lonely which is not often. I enjoy my own company because being single for me is so much better because it's EASIER. I am not a fan for drama, dysfunction, abuse or people who are mentally lazy. I enjoy my own company so much because I have so many interest, projects I'm working on and hobbies. My home stays clean, there are no arguments, I don't have to put up with anyone elses moods and attitudes and what I love most is I DON'T have to do anything I don't FEEL like doing. When it comes to sex, I have my partner BOB (battery operated boyfriend) in my night table and I take care of myself once a week, and I'm good. I LOVE my life.

[@Socute4u]

When you said, "Do I have a rash here?" Reminded me of times when I couldn't think of what to say to other adults, I would blurt out something like that, which would make them eventually walk away 😄

[@teresalarge3088]

I am content as a loner. My husband is quiet different, he loves a crowd, & all the chaos. Not me!!! I even get hyperventilating episodes just thinking of getting together with people. It makes me dread Holidays & birthdays because we have a blended family that NEVER blended, & it's hell!! It makes me dread all the special holidays, because of this. 😭. Sometimes I just want to run away! 😳 I'm totally ok with a boring life or boring day, but my husband wants to always stay on the go & run wide open. It's true, opposites attract, & I don't know why! Lol!

[@Bloominescence]

Hi Teresa! I hope you are well! Ugh, that's the worst. When families can't even get along, what's the point?? It really makes you not want to attend events. You can't even enjoy the holidays with your loved ones! LOL Opposites truly attract! It's a mystery. Maybe it's the balance? 🤔 Nah, it's a mystery 😂 My husband comes from a large family. He's 1 of 10 siblings, so he hates being alone! I was lucky enough to grow up with 4 cousins, with whom my brother and I played. Now that we're all adults, I think half of it is some just want to run off on their adventures and the other half is some wish we could still be just as close. Everything was easier when we were younger! I'm definitely more comfortable now with being a loner, but honestly that's only because people changed. Growing up sucks!

[@teresalarge3088]

@@Bloominescence I feel your pain, & I totally understand. I just hope if you & your husband have kids, you stick together thru thick & thin, because divorce shatters a family in many ways. When we try to start our lives over with someone, & stepkids are involved, then it's like climbing MT. Everest everyday for the rest of your life 😠. It's always a thorn in your side that you can't pluck out, & if they really hate you then they make your life a living hell. I wish you all the best in life filled with pure happiness ❤.

[@emersonpicks]

Can you please do an updated skincare and adapalene update? Your skin looks so clear.

[@Bloominescence]

Sure thing! Thank you for requesting it 😊 Oh, Idk if you know this: I do my Differin updates every 3 months now because my community voted on that instead of every month. But my next update will be next month!

[@emersonpicks]

@@Bloominescence Thank you. I'll be waiting. Do you still use it twice a day?

[@Bloominescence]

@@emersonpicks I did the math wrong; my next update in due in October :s But I might do it this month since you requested it! No, I stopped doing that last year. You can follow along with my journey here: bit.ly/DifferinJourneyPlaylist. My last update shares what I've been using.

[@maypanarts]

I am the same as you. I loved hanging out when I was younger. Like everyday! I hated being on my own. Now that I am older, I am very selective with who I hang out with and enjoy my own company a lot more than I used to. I look forward to spending a few days to myself 😊 I don't relate to adults either 😂 luckily my friends and boyfriend see the world the way I see it. When I walk down the streets of London, all I hear are adults talking about work, finances and mortgages 😑 So boring 😑

[@Bloominescence]

I wish I could have every day alone 😂 I always knew I worked best alone, but I have the most fun with others. It's sad to lose so many people in your life with whom you spent a big chunk of your life growing up. But, such is life. Everyone goes their separate way. I can admit I alienated myself at some point, and I could never recover from that 😅 But I was under so much pressure and stress from school. I was always misunderstood. Unfortunately, my husband loves company, so this LDR thing ain't workin' lol I made a promise to myself to do everything I can to move over to him once and for all! I totally feel the same way. When I walk around Manhattan in NYC (you know, where all the people in suits are lol), I'm like, Wow, I don't belong here 😔

[@CyndyTangerineyyyy]

I also used to hang out a lot back then, but now I'm a lot more selective in who I choose to hang out with and what I choose to do with my time. I wonder if it's b/c we've done a lot of things already that we don't feel the need to hang out as much, or it's less appealing. I feel like I might have hung out a lot back then due to fomo, but I rarely get fomo nowadays and just do things on my own terms.

[@Bloominescence]

I was definitely lucky to have an active time as a kid and teen. I spent all my time with my relatives and then with friends. I think adulthood sucks the life-force out of us that we just want to turn in early on Fridays, and not wake up until Monday for work 😂 I'm with you on that, too. I've gotten comfortable with myself to know who I want and don't want to be around and also where I want to go. It's been great answering to myself 😄

[@ohshiet6726]

I was a military brat in my younger days, so hanging out was out of the question because I kept moving to different countries, and states. Now... I agree with MaryMarshallArts, it depends on who the person is. The only thing I expect for someone from whom I'm hanging out with is to have common sense. If you ain't got that, then I'm boarding the N.O.P.E. Train. Preferably, I like "me-time". Treat yourself, don't cheat yourself.

[@Bloominescence]

You and I definitely think alike 😁 I realized how my brain doesn't function the same as a lot of others'. I don't care too much about maturity or your age (though those definitely make a difference), but, as you said, if you don't have any common sense, I really go off the rails. It doesn't take a lot for me to say something, which is why it's difficult for me to deal with certain comments I get on my videos. I don't know how I'm going to deal with being on the internet 😂 But I definitely hold a lot of weight to the people I choose to have in my life. And that's why I don't have many! 😎

[@alezandradavila2581]

Lol

[@alezandradavila2581]

Yea u get busy with school