I think more than anything the little things have started to become a big issue for you is because of pampered growing up. Everything is given on the plate, you have no idea what hardship and hard work is, ask those women who work without chapples in 45C heat in the field or laborers who work in the construction field. The uncle who was telling you about Thailand trip or asking why you arent married yet, do you know cooking etc was hitting on you, be careful.