Why I Quit Drinking | Six Months Sober Update | Lucy Moon

Celebrating six months sobriety with a drinking Q&A - the truth on why I quit drinking, how I knew I had a problem and whether I plan to stay sober forever. Hope you enjoy - and if you're struggling, I hope this helps you! 🤍
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☕️ Timestamps:
0:00 Intro
1:30 Why did you quit drinking?
9:12 How did you know you had a problem with alcohol?
11:24 Has quitting felt different this time around?
16:00 Did you notice any other addictive behaviours replace alcohol?
12:25 Have you noticed any positive changes since going sober?
16:42 How did your friends and family react?
18:01 How did you deal with negative reactions from friends and family?
19:14 How do you deal with social situations that typically involve drinking?
20:09 Do you miss drinking?
21:50 Why do you use the term "sober"?
22:33 How do you treat yourself/unwind?
23:55 What's the most surprising thing you've found
about not drinking?
24:32 What do you find hardest?
25:16 Will you stay sober forever? Why don't you just drink in moderation?
26:25 How can I support a loved one who is quitting drinking?
27:32 Final thoughts
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[@mariangeles1310]

I don’t know if I been sober today if it wasn’t because of this video, I’m 7 months alcohol free now, thank you!

[@fldombro]

I’m two years sober this June and I quit because it was literally harming my body. I felt like garbage after even a few sips and yet my social conditioning kept me drinking. I finally quit after a bad hangover and have not looked back. It’s the best thing I’ve ever done for my mind, body and soul. So proud of you Lucy - it’s a tough but incredibly healing journey

[@jeanieolahful]

I’m just hitting a year, and I feel like my body feels SO much better. No more sick stomachs, anxiety, guilt, shame. No more terrible hangovers. No more blackouts No more just constantly feeling blah, even if I wasn’t outright hung over. Even with all that I still get the occasional urge, but I do just what Lucy described, I think past the first few drinks, onto the fifth and sixth, and the feeling later that evening,and the next day, and that little urge passes pretty quickly. Breaking up was easy for me after I found Allen Carr, but however you go about it, if you feel like alcohol just isn’t working in up your life , at least consider a break. This Naked Mind offers a free 30 Alcohol Challenging that can guide you throughout it. There are many resources besides AA, and you don’t need to be labeled an alcoholic or attend meetings. There are definitely other options these days

[@DominiqueMickael]

I agree . One of best thing that could happened in life : stopping drinking 🙂🫶🏼

[@a.Janine.pretty]

I quit for 30days no problem and then I had some wine with dinner and then I drank again everyday for another month… 🤦‍♀️ no you can’t just have a sip and leave I know now it does not work for me either… hungover life is for the birds so I’m starting again and will stay busy doing things that interest me and away from it permanently…I felt GREAT when I wasn’t drinking

[@hanavaughan6956]

Seriously, it makes you feel absolutely disgusting:(

[@billmoore1936]

I am bill and I have been sober for going on 6 years and I can tell you is the best thing I ever did keep it up

[@eddiearniwhatever]

From 49 years of perspective, I can tell you that it is distressingly easy to relapse. I started quitting when I was in my twenties , and I've been through several cycles of quitting and relapsing. The longest I ever quit was about three years. My advice: Hang out with sober people. Remember that if you relapse you can quit again. And don't feel bad about yourself if you start again, you can always take control of your life.

[@andrewstorm8240]

Yes I found hanging with Sober help but also zero was helpful

[@BST-lm4po]

I think most drinkers gravitate towards other drinkers, and after a while your entire social group is made up of drinkers! So when you quit drinking you have to quit that social group!

[@ratelhoneybadger]

Thank you. So in essence, sobriety is a process, not a destination.

[@MixtapeVibes]

Great advise!

[@alienprincess3332]

YOU'RE AMAZING for talking about this. I feel like people don't really understand alcoholism. They tend to say "Just have one and leave." but it controls your whole body and perception. Thank you for talking about this I'm assuming it was difficult and triggering.

[@AutomaticDuck300]

I physically cannot have one drink. I don’t understand the concept of moderation.

[@andrewstorm8240]

Did you always have that

[@noelr1010]

@@AutomaticDuck300 I was sober for almost 2 years and felt the best I have in years. Started drinking again and was able to drink in moderation the first few months. Eventually I got to the point where I was going too hard again. I've come to the realization that I can't do anything in moderation, either I do something or I don't. I'll be going sober in a few days.

[@erin-leigh8980]

Just watching this in full hangxiety mode. I have been noticing more and more that alcohol triggers depressive episodes for me and it can take me a week sometimes to get back to feeling normal. Alcohol is a huge part of my social life with both family and friends, infact my brain always thinks 'what am I drinking' before I go to any event or meet up! I really need to take a step back. It's really reassuring to hear the experience of other young women. Thankyou for this video xx

[@coll6914]

I feel the same, it triggers like a week of feeling down and also being more likely to drink. Whereas I never have a regret when I don't drink, it's so nice to know other people are in the same boat.

[@chemtrailscountry2068]

@erin. I thought i was the only one. I dont drink..only like at christmas. The next day im always extremely depressed. I knew it was because of the alcohol, because i hardly drink. So now i have not drank in 4 years

[@noelr1010]

@@coll6914 I went sober for 2 years and felt the best I ever had. Literally felt like a superhuman. Ended up slipping and again, a night of heavy drinking leads to 4 days of not feeling all the way there. I feel down and depressed, and although I know the feeling will pass and life is beautiful, who wants to feel like that? Being sober is really the best way to live, alcohol is poison.

[@xxpollypocket]

Full hangxiety…I felt that. The day after I am literally beside myself like I’m losing my mind. I think if the worst possible things from the past and ruminate on them the whole day, next day and day after that. Also I go completely off plan with food - I go nuts eating everything. I’m generally not out of the woods until a week later. Such a waste of time!

[@x3lea866]

Learning about gray area drinking was the light bulb moment for me. It’s easy to think you’re either an alcoholic or a “normal drinker” but for most people it really is a spectrum.

[@Kasiabobasia]

I watched this video a year ago but it didn’t really register with me. I just wasn’t ready. Here I am a year later, 1 month alcohol free, watching it again and relating to everything you’re saying. Thanks for sharing! ❤

[@neonMETEOR]

The way you described your relationship with alcohol is almost identical to mine. I’ve ruined my life a few times over (seriously) because of my black outs. I’m currently just over 3 months sober and just finished a weekend working behind a bar at a festival - the pressure to drink was HIGH and CONSTANT. I wont lie, I was tempted a couple of times. I didn’t search for this video but I’m glad I found it, it makes me feel less alone. I recorded a video talking to myself, for myself and I also dislike the label “alcoholism”.

[@asma_tique]

thank you for sharing! I'm proud of you for resisting the temptation, it must have been distressing :)

[@JadeAshly]

Hey I’m not sure if you’ve heard of the ‘I am sober’ app, but they have a posting section from people all over the world talking about their experiences that quit at the same time. It’s been very helpful to feel less alone 😊

[@AutomaticDuck300]

Make it easier for yourself. Find out why you don’t want to drink and identify yourself as somebody who doesn’t do those behaviours. E.g. I’m somebody who doesn’t make bad decisions and alcohol makes me do that. I’m somebody who lives in the moment and alcohol takes me out of that. I’m somebody who likes to be in control and alcohol makes me lose control. Whatever works for you.

[@Jumpingjackflash123]

I think everyone has ruined their life from alcohol black outs. I’ve damaged every aspect of my life due to alcohol. The hardest part is socializing. I’ve socialized ten times less due to quitting

[@graceosullivan1367]

​@@Jumpingjackflash123 Not everyone has ruined their lives. It's not normal.

[@141592635eg]

5 months and 22 days sober from alcohol and weed. So excited to hit that milestone! Congrats keep up the good work

[@boatymsboatface3929]

That’s really great! I can wait to get that far along- I’m at 3 months now, and really happy to have stopped drinking and smoking cigs!

[@RosieBlacher]

I quit drinking for largely all the same reasons as you - girl about town, always the last one standing (I STILL AM), started blacking out towards the end of my drinking, tried to moderate cut down and quit many times before. My drinking wasn't considered by anyone that knew me to be problematic, but I knew deep in my heart that it really really was, I was just very high functioning. I didn't "drink in the morning" or "drink every day" or all of the things you're told make you a problem drinker. But I've been waiting for this video from you for ages and I'm SO glad you made it. I'm coming up to 2 years sober next month and legit best decision I ever made and the time does FLY by! Power to you Lucy, there's hardly any content like this online that I desperately wanted when I was in the early months so you're going to be helping so many people! x

[@leilahannah4806]

Look up Melanie Murphy's videos on the subject too if you haven't already!

[@melaniemurphyofficial]

❤️❤️❤️ SO beyond proud of you xxx

[@lucymoon]

Thank you for being there for me Mel 💕💕💕

[@Lauren-yf8op]

I have lost several "close friends" after I said I need to stop going out to bars at night. It was bringing me so much anxiety. I was simply surviving vs actually living. My life dramatically improved once I started to living a sober life.

[@AutomaticDuck300]

Yeah, a couple of my friends are pretty much alcoholics. Luckily they’re also a-holes so it’s easier to stop seeing them so much.

[@desertpinevintage162]

I quit drinking and the hardest part is having to explain yourself to some people around you.

[@Jumpingjackflash123]

Yeah def lost friends to not drinking. I’m fact you almost WILL lose friends. It becomes isolating especially if you’re introverted. You slowly adapt tho. It’s better to be running on 9/10 than a 6/10

[@ilhan691]

Make more friends who don't drink! Lots of sober people or people who choose not to drink for religious reasons !

[@vanessawithers1870]

i don’t drink because my mother was/is an abusive alcoholic, and my step father would become violent when drinking. when people find out i don’t drink, they are almost horrified and demand why. i don’t think it’s anybody’s business, and there’s never a good answer when it comes to not drinking so i have no idea why people ask. knowing when you can’t handle alcohol is a powerful thing. i wish more people could be sober and avoid harm. thank you for talking about this.

[@jenniferreads6536]

as a person who also does not drink, I really relate to doing the things people do drunk when sober on a nightout. I have always gotten into the same 'vibe' als the people around me, I just have much more control over my actions. and so the next morning i can look at my actions and take full responsibility

[@HeidiSholl]

Same, for phobia reasons I've only had about 2 sips of alcohol in my life and it made me panic. But when I'm with people who are drinking, I don't feel like I'm enjoying myself any less (up until the point where people start getting risky for vomitty reasons, and then I go into fight or flight and then I hate it). But I call it "contact drunk" because you do get silly and a bit more daring, but the "stop" button is always there

[@annaw6630]

currently in sober living, been here for 5 and a half months after 60 days in residential treatment, been almost 7 and a half months without drugs or alcohol thank you so so so much for talking about this. I'm 23 and there aren't many young people sharing their experience with addiction and/or sobriety

[@sadie414]

I almost never post anything online - but I just wanted to say a huge THANK YOU to you, Lucy. It really takes courage to acknowledge that something that is so culturally normalised can be harmful. It doesn't need to be at the point of being the stereotypical alcoholic to realise that something is wrong. As someone who has grown up with an alcoholic parent, my perception on alcohol has always been different to my peers. Alcohol is at the heart of socialising and making friends, so I have spent many years in my teens/20s feeling really lonely and isolated. But seeing videos like this makes me feel so comforted and I just can't thank you enough

[@dustyoldhat]

what a nice comment

[@BST-lm4po]

If you can stay away from alcohol you're doing your health and bank account a huge favor!

[@Umekias_Corner]

@@BST-lm4pothis is sooo very true! Not only does my body feel amazing but my money management has drastically improved!

[@cpnstbn1266]

I don’t feel like I have it in me to quit forever but I’m trying each day. It will be one day at a time for the rest of my life. I hope you stay strong and stay healthy and happy.

[@imjennim]

Thank you so much for sharing this, Lucy!

[@lucymoon]

Thank you Jenn 🤍

[@tiny.giant1]

15 days alcohol free! Love this and happy you are on your sobriety journey as well

[@blakeyr6003]

Ugh 8 days for me - lol seems not long but it is for some of us. Good job, you got this!

[@timothygibney159]

It's been 4 months since you typed this. Did you stay sober?

[@catagecat]

How’s it going? If you’re back to consuming: this is your sign to quit again. You got this.

[@tiny.giant1]

@@timothygibney159 Hi, sadly i did go back but i will be 2 months on 6/22 :)

[@ChardeeMacdennis339]

Your story sounds SO much like mine!!!! I just hit 8 years of sobriety in April 😊 to everyone reading this, you got this! It’s hard but knowing we’re not alone makes it so much easier ❤️

[@AnneleenRoesems]

So proud of you! Everytime I go out and stay sober, I feel so much better the day after, it's like wow I had so much fun just dancing and not drinking a single drop of alcohol and I feel great the day after. Truly the best

[@Lucycxs]

I know you say that you think your last video about alcohol was a disaster, but i remember so vividly watching it and realising that’s what I needed. It wasn’t clear to me until I saw someone basically repeat back to me (you) how I behaved with alcohol. I have been pretty much sober ever since (3 years) and it changed my life. So thank you!

[@sarahmfnyc]

I’m 7months sober yesterday - as a 28 year old in NYC with alcoholism in my family, I totally relate to how you talked about your journey, quit lit, and how the way my friends think about it is so different to me. So happy to see you happy and also it’s nice to see someone else who quit too. ❤

[@Sophie-tz1tk]

Oh wow, I’m six months sober tomorrow! Glad to have found my sobriety twin, haha

[@milikoshki]

Really enjoyed hearing your perspective. I had kind of the opposite experience- growing up in a family of binge drinkers, I have always been so turned off by heavy drinkers/messy drunks. In my mid 20s, I ended up feeling somewhat pressured into drinking because that's the main thing people do for fun. I always felt miserable, like I'd compromised my moral integrity when I caved to having a drink because of the social pressure. At some point I just decided I'm done feeling responsible to keep the "vibe" fun for others - if they're insecure about someone not drinking that's their issue, not mine. I would literally push around some lukewarm drink all night, to try to fly under the radar but still not drink- so dumb and wasteful! It feels so much better to just be me and do what is right for me. It sucks that it's scary to deviate in such an objectively small way from the norm, so it's nice to see more people talking about being a non drinker.

[@evercuriousmichelle]

"I'm done feeling responsible to keep the "vibe" fun for others - if they're insecure about someone not drinking that's their issue, not mine"--YES! Well said!

[@LeonardoDiCapri-Sun]

I love this. I’m similar, I’ve never been drunk because I had bad experiences with drunk people growing up and I also have an obsessive personality so kinda don’t want to risk it. In social situations I’d just say no to alcohol and people would wrap their heads around it pretty quickly and wouldn’t question me about it for too long which is nice. I don’t know if you’re the same but other people’s drunk energy rubs off on me anyway so I can have fun without actually needing to drink.

[@LunarKnitsbyLori]

I’m so happy this video randomly came into my life. I’m currently 10 days sober. Everything you said in this video about when you were drinking hit so close to home. I’m already seeing so many changes and I can’t wait to see where I’m at at 6 months!

[@noelr1010]

Hope your journey is going well!

[@annafaitdesvideos247]

been sober for a month now, just because ! Money saved, skin glowin and body feeling very good!!! you've inspired me

[@eva1601]

this video is really really interesting, young women as a demographic not really associated to sobriety. thank you so much for sharing your experience with the world. you seem to be doing great and your channel is thriving! I am parasocially really happy for you lucy :)

[@Itsbreezebby]

My problem are the blackouts as well, just had one for the second time in the same week and it’s having a negative effect on my relationship with my family. I don’t mean to do it but it always ends up happening. Quitting for good!!!

[@charliehobson33]

well done. I'm 42, currently 9 months alcohol free. amazing benefits. better mood, better sleep, better memory. enjoy music way more. don't listen to nay sayers, you are doing the right thing.

[@thaiholiday]

Thank you - going sober for awhile - probably close to xmas and maybe beyond. Realised it is jut not good for my brain or body. After drinking my way through the pandemic it is time to give it up.

[@tiannadaly7440]

The way you talk about sobriety reminds me that you don’t have to a raging alcoholic to identify that you have a problem / bad relationship with alcohol. Thankyou for talking about this, it’s encouraged me to check in with my own habits !! Big love and congratulations on 6 months +🏆💖

[@extremeSchinkenTV]

2 1/2 years sober for me now, honestly, it really helped watching you talk about this. Putting it in a much more real and honest perspective. Thank you. Seriously. Cheers love

[@h0lzical]

I set myself a target of 50 days sober which I achieved. Had my hen do this weekend an had a blow out, I had the BEST time. However it definitely put a lot of things into perspective for me, and will be continuing my sobriety from now onwards. I definitely recommend ‘The Sober Girl Society Handbook’. To those of you thinking of starting your journey, you’ve got this and you can definitely do it 💖

[@zazz1103]

Good job!! I'm happy for you!

[@roxyvicc]

I related to this so much! Congrats on 6 months!

[@felishametsch6643]

I had a pretty bad relationship with alcohol in my 20s (I'm 33 now). I quit because I thought it was causing me anxiety which is crippling. I quit drinking for a year and a half, and for me my anxiety got so much worse. I realized for me that taking something away and saying you can't do that for some reason just set me on a bad path. I brought drinking back into my life in October 2021. It has made me realize what I was doing wrong before and how I can fix that for myself. I have worked very hard on not binging. Everyone's relationship is so different. Good for you on your journey! That's amazing 🥰

[@Dlibassi93]

im so glad you're talking about this. my boyfriend and I had trouble controlling our behavior when we would drink, getting into ridiculous fights that sober us couldnt comprehend. so we decided to stop binge drinking, stop going out and we honestly lost a lot of friends in the process...people just didnt understand why and thought we were being boring. now we'll have wine champagne and beer on special occasions, but its rare we cross the line from a drink or two to binge drinking and our relationship is so much better because of it.

[@youtimeful]

Love how you said, you just romanticize your life. That is what it comes down to-living our best life and seeing ourselves in that role.

[@VintageGal2]

Thank you for making this! I really appreciate this so much ❤

[@elizabethcontreras942]

Aww amazing video! thanks for share it! It was not my plan quite alcohol because i loved, but because i had a bodybuilding competition i had to stop drinking, my first weeks were prery boring, then after 3 weeks im star feeling great! OMG I CAN NOT DESCRIBE having so much focus and clarity in my mind, my sking looks amazing, no more hangovers im saving so much money and i feel more confident when im talking cuz im not sayin stupid thing as when i was drunk. great!!!

[@alysmanning4490]

This just makes me feel soooo much better. I’ve just decided to quit after getting black out drunk and being an absolute cow to my boyfriend. It makes you feel shit when you can’t remember anything. But this genuinely makes me feel so much less alone💕 thank you so much for this video x

[@ericaages8887]

From the description of wanting to drink, not wanting to drink, limiting the drinks, to the constant thoughts of drinking, the thyroid problems, negative impacts of alcohol, etc. this video and is me to a "T". Thank you for sharing this, it was the motivation I needed to set myself on a better path. Kuddos to you for sharing your vulnerability and setting boundaries for yourself.

[@LauraRevnic]

Very proud of you! Thank you for doing this video! ♥️

[@Samalys71]

Thank you for being so vulnerable in this video 💕 XX also congratulations 🥳

[@notactuallyfine]

Congrats on 6 months 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻 Really enjoyed this one, so interesting!! 💘

[@lindaauld5423]

well done !!! i've been sober for 13 years now and it's the best thing i ever did , i used to get depressed and this has disappeared also have had so many amazing holidays that i would never have been able to afford when i was drinking alcohol , keep up the good work .

[@TheKateP]

Congrats on 6 months sober, Lucy!

[@KaylaJoyce98]

Congrats, Lucy! This is huge ❤️

[@user-iv8fk3wi4f]

So much of what you say rings true. I have just learned that if you scratch an itch it only makes it worse. Only took me 63 years!

[@susanbiggart7027]

This is such an incredible video. I find it so relatable - thank you for making it!

[@clairebrown1753]

I gotta be honest, I had stopped watching your channel a few years ago because I found the mood quite depressing. But watching this video now, your energy radiates and it's amazing seeing how happy you seem after making this change. I also stopped drinking almost six months ago now - from when I'm watching this video - and you really motivate me to start enjoying the sober life I've decided for myself. Thank you

[@chamazful]

So amazingly helpful and relatable, thank you xx

[@RainbowBluety]

really enjoyed this update, the first video on alcohol was really interesting and eye opening and this video is too! Really value your openess on this topic!

[@maddiefoulsham5271]

Summing up so many thoughts I’ve had and not heard many people our age talking about. Thank you for sharing this Lucy

[@221gisele]

Oh my god so relatable and with London life! Best thing I have ever done was leave and move to Bali. 7 month sober today

[@luciejanotova1949]

Thank you for this vulnerability, you're amazing :)

[@meredithhodson4121]

This was an incredible video, I am in awe of your courage and vulnerability 💖

[@fenellamclaren2306]

This was so heart felt and you explain it very well . Congratulations

[@gemmaamclean]

Love that more people are talking about this, thank for the video :) 'The Naked Mind' is another great book, I read it accidentally thinking it was a personal development book and it ended up being about quitting alcohol and I'm so glad I read it! It came after a big hangover after a work party and I just didn't ever want to feel like that again! x

[@harrietthomas-bush7274]

Congratulations!! I've just hit 10 weeks and I've genuinely never felt better. Thank you for inspiring me and helping me really look at my life to figure out alcohol was a problem for me

[@leotichat]

A huge thank you to have the courage to open up like this ❤️

[@karenmunger9070]

Thank you!! So inspirational; something i really need right now.

[@user-iv8fk3wi4f]

So well done and thanks for sharing

[@n.sundari889]

Wonderful talk on the subject thank so much for sharing 🦋

[@theuncommonviewer]

You spoke about this amazingly well. I feel you really "spoke your truth". Thank you so much for sharing.

[@kvhjaen]

Hey Lucy! I stopped drinking in 2019 when I was 26 and I do not regret it at all. I was living in Ireland at that time so it was difficult because it is a country where alcohol plays a huge role. In the beginning, I felt judged by my decision by people and friends. However, I knew it was the best decision for me. After almost 4 years I can say that I feel more connected with myself and I feel healthier. Keep doing what you are doing!

[@michaelcorleone7598]

Congratulations! Keep up the good work you’re doing. People watching this are doing so for a reason, and you’re giving them the courage and confidence to go sober.

[@Theawrench]

It’s great to see you looking so happy Lucy! You look like you’ve got more of a sparkle in your eyes and I’m so glad you’re finding your sobriety journey a positive one - thank you for sharing this! 🥰

[@kyracoulthard3683]

So grateful to you for talking about this, I feel like you’re describing exactly my experience! It can be so isolating as a young person to try to talk about your experience with alcohol and be told that it’s just uni or it’s just that you’re young and you’ll grow out of it. I so appreciate that more people are talking about how alcohol impacts them and choosing to be sober at an early age. Thank you! 💕

[@katelinsu]

I love this! I have a very bad physical reaction to alcohol (ie one drink and I feel horrible and sick) but often use to force myself to drink bc of social and societal pressure. Just recently I decided to stop doing that and it’s been great but also hard in those moments where people first start drinking and before they get really drunk. Support your journey!

[@chemtrailscountry2068]

@me too. When i drink , the next day i have a huge depression. I knew that it was bc of the alcohol. Because i hardly drink. Cut out completely. Feel super

[@victoriarosebrown_]

This is such a vulnerable video, huge well done for talking so openly about your experience. You have been a massive inspiration to me to go sober, I've been sober for almost 4 weeks. I used alcohol as a way to cope with any family gatherings, I have a very narcissistic and abusive family and anytime I had to be in a room with them I'd just drink and drink not caring about any consequences. During lockdown, like everyone, I started drinking more frequently, 3 times a week instead of maybe one, and I then would count down the days until my next drink. Strangely what's happened to me now is that my body has built an intolerance to it and I just found out I'm actually allergic to alcohol after abusing myself for the past 2 years. So in a way, I'm so thankful I now have not only a mental but a physical aspect to going sober. Sending huge love your way xo

[@singer6032]

Fantastic video. Thanks for sharing. Wishing you the best of luck, you seem like an amazing person!

[@ConnyvanderMeer]

Literally like hearing myself talk. Thank you for this!

[@aliceorlik7737]

It's absolutely insane how perfectly timed in my life this video has come. I'm 21 and relate to your blackout experiences immensely. My best friend doesn't actually drink and I really think I just need to quit. I always think maybe one day I could just "have one and leave" but I just don't think that's a reality for me. THANK YOU for this video. I've been watching you since I was a teenager for years and I remember your first video about this. That was before i even really had a close relationship with alcohol. It's crazy how I'm now here and I relate so much to your story. Thank you.

[@zazz1103]

Admitting to yourself what is going is not healthy is defnitely so hard,I hope you figure something out that works for you and wish you the best! I believe in you!

[@chrishnah]

You will be light years ahead if you decide to quit when you are 21.

[@aliceorlik7737]

@@chrishnah you have no idea how much this comment has just reassured me. Getting a lot of pressure recently from people saying I'm too young to quit

[@Yolkgurt]

Thanks so much for sharing! Your videos about this have gotten me thinking a lot about my relationship to alcohol (especially in the summer for some reason). Much love 💗

[@katetucker1452]

Thanks so much for using your platform to contribute towards "normalising" sobriety, Lucy, and celebrating it! Congrats on your hard work. I'm so glad you're reaping (and espousing!) the benefits. They sure are countless :)

[@felicityhemming9987]

So good to see people talking about this! I've just given up alcolhol for the first time in my life (like as a conscious decision) and it's so much better - the moderation thing wasn't working out for me either so this is great for now at least.

[@aliceg1226]

Great video, thank you Lucy!

[@wuneightytw0]

Lucy! This is amazing. I found your channel YEARS ago when I was trying to moderate/cut back on drinking. You really inspired me by sharing your journey. It took me a few years later to finally quit, but now I’m 3 years sober from alcohol. So happy you are back on this journey and feeling great 😊 Keep it up!

[@christina-olivia5655]

Congrats on 6 months Lucy 💛 my story with alcohol feels so similar to yours. I’m 25 in August and I’m definitely joining you just before then (as well as quitting all nicotine intake) well done you beaut! X

[@justsmilelaet]

Thank you Lucy, I've been slowly going sober this last month, while still having a couple of drinks here and there. Went to my first sober home party saturday and it was great, woke up the next morning feeling tired, but so much more energetic and less worried (i'm a big black out girl too) ! This video really convinced me to stop completely, thank you for your honesty !

[@peskyfreckles]

Congrats Lucy!! Thanks so much for your thoughtful insights and I really appreciate the courage it takes to chat about this openly. Also just had the most hilarious (disconcerting?) experience hearing you say “Alcohol is everywhere” and immediately getting a mid-roll ad break for Whiteclaw.

[@daniserrzuni4516]

I first found you through the first video and it was one of the final nails to stop me from drinking. It makes me so happy to see how far you have come. Thank you for being honest with us again. I haven't really found a proper way to drink yet, when I do it sometimes feels like I am catching up on times I didn't drink.

[@abuzzingbee]

Big respect for you! Staying sober can get tough, but you will get tougher ❤

[@candiesymes1124]

It’s so amazing to see your experience and see you are doing well 💕🥰 I’m now nearly 2 years sober and it’s one of the best decisions I’ve ever made!

[@oliviaturner351]

It is so incredible that you have offered up your story to us. I grew up surrounded by alcoholics, including one of my parents, and it is so emotional for me to see you speaking about this in such a measured, rational way. I carry a lot of trauma related to alcohol, but hearing you speak about it in the way you do inspires me to continue having those important conversations and getting to the root of my trauma. Thank you, and well done❤️

[@smileypants100]

I've similarly been re-imagining my relationship with alcohol this year and really appreciated hearing about your journey! Also a blackout girlie so thank you xx

[@cm-yu6gu]

I think what many people outside of the UK wouldn't realise is that not drinking in the UK is almost seen as a cardinal sin The country has an enormous problem with excessive alcohol consumption to the point where people can no longer identify the line between what is too much alcohol and what's socially accepted. What is considered alcoholism in one country would still be normal/unalarming amounts of alcohol in the UK It's not just the frequency that British people drink, but the intention behind it. Most drink to get drunk, rather than in other countries like Italy where having a glass of wine each night with dinner is normal, but getting hammered or having more than one glass is not. For them wine with dinner is more seen for the sake of enjoying the taste, rather than the goal of becoming inebriated. So sober in the UK is literally another level of achievement. Thank you for sharing. Good luck on your journey 4 years sober myself and am so over it lol (as in over alcohol). I also started out like you saying never say never but I can't see myself touching a drink ever again.

[@pamr1629]

I am studying to be a therapist and just know that talking about your story is helping so many people struggling with alcohol use. Please continue sharing your story and best of luck on your sobriety journey!

[@nickjones6186]

Thanks so much for sharing. Ive also started a sober journey, and i cannot emphasise enough how much I relate to everything you have talked about here. Stay strong and keep doing your thing 🤩

[@weirdoevil]

Lucy this feels so full circle from when I saw your first video God, six years ago now? I remember at the time feeling in such a similar position and I cannot tell you how helpful it is to have a woman my age being able to objectively look at their relationship with alcohol and say it's not making them happy. You've grown into such a well rounded adult ☺️

[@abbiconneely]

Thank-you for talking about this. This topic is so so so important and needs to be spoken about more! I’m a student and 9 months sober, and run a little sober Instagram to try and raise awareness and normalise not drinking ❤️

[@lais.v.m]

congrats on your six months!!! it's not easy to stop drinking and it's not easy to talk openly about it but this video is so important; I'm freshly 19 and I'm 2 years, six months and 15 days sober but recently I've been thinking a lot about drinking again since I don't consider myself an alcoholic (I don't use the word lightly as I have six family members who are addicted to alcohol, two of them being my uncles who passed as a result of it); it's hard being a young person who wants to have a social life and doesn't want to/can't drink but just knowing that I'm not alone and that are other young adults in a similiar situation it's a huge deal and it's giving me the strength to... keep trying. thanks for sharing

[@lovebrannlund3167]

I needed this more than you’ll ever know. Thank you so much for reminding me I’m not alone. 🤍

[@jacquelinejennings8503]

I can relate to a lot of the content you shared especially the blackouts and the shameful behaviour. I've been sober for 4 months so far. I look forward to another update of your progress. You got this 💪

[@bethanymonday3726]

I totally relate to you about struggling with the perceptions of other people about your sobriety. I'm so insecure about the fact that I don't drink- especially since I'm at uni right now. Before I found "my people" I felt left out, boring, like I was making a point of being healthy or better than everyone when I wasn't! It's nice to know other people feel like this top. Great video and I wish you the best with this journey!

[@knightshopper]

this came at a perfect time for me, THANK YOU for making this! I come from a long lineage of alcoholics (Irish) and I feel that for many people in GB alcoholism is normalized to a scary extent. It wasn’t until I realized my grandfather and I have the same drink of choice that I understood this was a cycle. The same goes for my father, alcohol was a way for us to bond but I believe they are in full support of my sobriety (love that word but I would need to use it loosely), either way I appreciate the perspective and support offered from this video and to everyone else struggling, WE GOT THIS! learning to take it a day at a time, almost a week in and needing to keep the strength, just knowing there are so many benefits such as saving money, feeling better physically etc. on a bit of a health kick either way but would just like to thank you so very much for this extra boost to support through the weariness. god bless

[@Dbb27]

Kudos to you for being so frank and honest. I’m in my sixties and just couldn’t tolerate it any more. I’ve always binged. I watched Andrew Huberman KZbin on alcohol. After that I was totally turned off. Thank you for your honesty. It takes a lot to expose yourself as you have but so helpful to everyone. Hugs.

[@amwoWOAH]

Thank you for sharing! What you said about the big alcohol industry is so true, and I’ve definitely noticed it especially in regards to women’s alcohol consumption. And I think also a lot of women don’t realize they have a problem because what we see in media and stuff as alcoholism is the angry, agressive middle aged man who chugs ten beers every night. We don’t realize what it looks like in women, especially younger women. And we don’t realize what counts as borderline alcoholism. Even what most people consider normal “social drinking” would be flagged at most medical providers as alcoholism or at risk for alcoholism.

[@darsongsify]

Congrats to you and everyone who is now sober! I am 2 months and feel great! I am on meds for depression and anxiety and they definitely help!