thought this would be cliche, but it was very personal and original. nice story, best of luck.
@rareliquid3 жыл бұрын
Thanks Eric haha appreciate it
@thisisjaylife3 жыл бұрын
Hahaha same. Subscribed.
@jeetenderkakkar75703 жыл бұрын
Story
@matthuang21 Жыл бұрын
As a fellow ex-investment banking analyst, I really appreciate the honestly in this video - it takes a lot to come out and talk about the challenges and struggles you faced while in banking. I think its so easy for people in high powered finance roles to be blinded by money and prestige, and lose sight of what truly matters in life. I admire you for taking a risk with the startup and choosing the path less traveled - thanks for sharing!
@xiao_lin_shuo3 жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing your story and the insights!
@rareliquid3 жыл бұрын
^^
@kendrickren24333 жыл бұрын
你也有很多insights,话说你不也JP的吗
@yurffiwang21853 жыл бұрын
🥰抓到lin了
@yvonnema62023 жыл бұрын
抓到了小lin奶茶店店主
@xiao_lin_shuo3 жыл бұрын
@@yvonnema6202 抓到了小马铃薯hhhh
@JokeinParis3 жыл бұрын
This is real stuff man. You opened your self to KZbin, no bullshit, no bragging, just being brutaly honnest with yourself and the world, I really enjoyed this video. Keep going, your content is high grade 😉
@rareliquid3 жыл бұрын
thank you so much! really appreciate the positive vibes~
@vladimirmest72293 жыл бұрын
Quit the chakra already, Rindra!!!
@zitianxiao6531 Жыл бұрын
omg ur reflections got me tears like listening to an old friend.
@cl24253 жыл бұрын
Sorry about your mom, and congratulations on following that little voice in your head. It's a brave move and thanks for sharing your story
@rareliquid3 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much!
@lidyajanette47443 жыл бұрын
Why don't you post on KZbin anymore!??
@YankeeLover963 жыл бұрын
This is insane. I found one of your videos and been watching some of your others as well. My Dad passed away from ALS, insane how we both had this life-changing experience. Hope your youtube channel continues to grow, you have an avid supporter right here.
@rareliquid3 жыл бұрын
so sorry to hear that michael :/ ALS is truly the worst and wishing you all the best for your family
@rareliquid4 жыл бұрын
Let me know if any other types of content would be helpful. Always looking to make videos that YOU want rather than just the ones I want to create!
@YungCoochieEater40004 жыл бұрын
what a kind soul
@filcap3 жыл бұрын
A video about how to get into IB
@primetimeedgetwitch32743 жыл бұрын
@@filcap I second this comment. :)
@triple9653 жыл бұрын
Seeing a trend lately where everyone’s leaving IB. I guess people realised $100K salary for 100 hours work is the same as $40k salary for 40 hours work
@rareliquid3 жыл бұрын
people have been leaving banking for decades now haha
@Arhtass3 жыл бұрын
You gotta consider the lifetime income, though. Yes, as an analyst the wage per hour is shit, but as you climb the ladder it pays off manyfolds
@TheGeorgeee133 жыл бұрын
100 hours really?
@DXmYb3 жыл бұрын
Every Dollar saved is then invested and working for you for the rest of your life. There is a big difference between what you can save when earning $40k vs $100k
@extremefitness13733 жыл бұрын
no.. it's really not
@win00443 жыл бұрын
Loved your story. A good Lifestyle is always better than than a higher salary. Rooting for you and I hope you achieve your dreams!!
@rareliquid3 жыл бұрын
Thank you! And nice user name haha
@moongal4563 жыл бұрын
My dad was in banking in early 90’s. He left after so many of his colleagues became burnt out or worse hooked on drugs to keep going. Yes, it was 100+ hrs a week. He never regretted leaving.
@Hananic3 жыл бұрын
I came here from Kchoi channel :) Have to say your story really hit home for me. This past few months have really taught me the importance of spending quality time with your loved ones. Although I have also deviated from not thinking just about compensation as much but sometimes it does get to you especially when you live in expensive cities where just the cost of life is astronomical. Happy to hear you are following whats right for you too!
@rareliquid3 жыл бұрын
Yup it can be tough forsure especially living in one of those expensive cities. Glad to hear you've been spending more time with your loved ones and thank you for watching! Wish you all the best~
@lopezfam73173 жыл бұрын
God bless you and God bless anyone reading this! Hope you have an awesome day! Seek him while you can! Jesus is the way and the only way and he is returning soon! Whenever you think you aren't loved... Remember the ultimate sacrifice was for love! ENDING YOUR LIFE IS NEVER THE ANSWER! For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life. John 3:16 KJV The wages of sin is death (hell) but Jesus paid our debt on the cross, for our salvation! We must turn to God and away from our sinful ways, Confess Jesus is Lord and believe with our hearts that he was risen from the dead by God, and we must be baptized in the name of the Father, the Son and The Holy Spirit and live by His word and Commandments! Trust that God will help with the rest! Seek God today before it's too late! Today could be your last day on earth! Have a blessed day! -💯💯🚨🚨❤️❤️❤️
@磁力菇3 жыл бұрын
I just graduated from college 7 months ago and your insights about your career and life are quite helpful for me. Looking forward to your following videos~
@rareliquid3 жыл бұрын
thanks!
@phuocha48863 жыл бұрын
Great story! I’m currently job hunting for an opportunity to enter the investment banking and I have promised myself that I would only stay for 2-3 years for the money and experience. Eventually, i would still love to start my entrepreneur path. Thanks for sharing your insights! Keep grinding!
@explorerteddy61703 жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing. I need to hear this to assure myself I was not a dumb to quit my glorious job.
@gdanny80952 жыл бұрын
Thank you Ben for sharing your personal stories! I am a class of 2015 Berkeley undergrad, now working as an executive for a public listed manufacturing company in China. I have always wanted to experience what it’s like working as an investment banker and your channel gives me the taste of it. Your videos are really clear in logic and genuine in contents. Anyways I appreciate your efforts sharing with us your experiences and stories. Best wishes to your mom,
@sri65673 жыл бұрын
It’s scary how I’m being recommended so many videos on people quitting investment banking when majority of the activities and classes I do in school is basically paving the IB pathway :’)
@rareliquid3 жыл бұрын
aha you may have clicked on one and YT is feeding them to you. I still believe IB is a great field and I have no regrets going through the experience
@bagariapiyush3 жыл бұрын
lmao same
@filcap3 жыл бұрын
Which faculty are you attending?
@jeetenderkakkar75703 жыл бұрын
Investment
@vio15833 жыл бұрын
@@sri6567 don't do it. There are a lot of other finance related jobs. IB is just slavery for McDonalds wage per hour.
@i1234569876543 жыл бұрын
hey ben, thanks for sharing! i'm really sorry about your mom but i'm glad that she inspired you to start living the life you want now and take risks...i know starting a business is hard but hey, if it doesn't work out...you can always go back to investment banking...you're a good guy ben...i wish you the best and good luck out there! also, thanks for sharing the links to those books! i will definitely check them out...also, i really loved how you shared your personal story about how not having electricity motivated you financially...i think we all have a similar story to this and can relate...so again, thank you so much for sharing!
@rareliquid3 жыл бұрын
Thanks for the message! I appreciate your thoughts and wish you all the best :)
@MrLLable3 жыл бұрын
This was a really heartfelt sharing. Thanks for sharing Ben!
@rareliquid3 жыл бұрын
no problem, thank you for watching!
@cathylovesyu3 жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing Ben! Diving into the corporate world and then business school, I often ask myself "what is the point of all of this?" It's cool to see you find things that you are passionate about and then chase after it. Looking forward to following more of your journey!
@rareliquid3 жыл бұрын
Thanks Cathy appreciate it and best of luck with all the stuff you have going on!
@StockSpotlightPodcast3 жыл бұрын
There is no point to ANY of this. And that's what makes life beautiful.
@omairraza92134 жыл бұрын
I’m glad your bringing you whole self to YT
@rareliquid4 жыл бұрын
Thank you Omair!
@henryedwards24983 жыл бұрын
Sorry to hear about your mum. My mum has been diagnosed with the same disease and I have been considering going into IB but this has made me rethink. All the best.
@rareliquid3 жыл бұрын
dang so sorry to hear that Henry I feel your pain. If you're able to pay for caregivers and she's able to live near you I think it may be okay to pursue IB at the same time. My mom was in Korea while I was in the states and I was an analyst for a few years, so it made more sense for me to quit and be with family while working on my businesses. Wish you all the best~
@sk-yooni64903 жыл бұрын
@@rareliquid seeing this level of detail in a comment response is so fulfilling/wholesome to me. Just found your channel, so straight-up and honest, great content. More than that, a comment like this shows you actually care. Wishing the best of luck with everything Ben!
@rareliquid3 жыл бұрын
@@sk-yooni6490 aw thank you so much haha i appreciate this! i always try to answer thoughtful comments
@heidiguo26783 жыл бұрын
life really is fragile regardless of how much money you've made or are making.. it can be taken away so easily at any point.. so yeah, start living and pursuing your dreams!
@rareliquid3 жыл бұрын
agreed! :)
@OzzyCat163 жыл бұрын
Former baseball player here. I'm so sorry to hear about your mom's diagnosis...I hope the future brings you and your family nothing but happiness
@WildestWildMan3 жыл бұрын
I just stumbled upon this while actually working a late night in a similar situation. I have been in this mindset for a bit now and it is nice to know I’m not the only one. Thank you for this, it is what I needed to hear in this moment!
@Jasonyhlee3 жыл бұрын
what humble and genuine guy
@rareliquid3 жыл бұрын
thank you sir~
@BillXiongFilms3 жыл бұрын
This was super helpful brother. I am finding myself in the same boat. I'm graduating with my MBA in International Finance this August and currently in a Relationship banker role and just not in love with it.. I find myself not loving finance and feel stuck because of how far I have gone with my education. I'm so lost so I am trying to figure out what I truly love and enjoy and not chase the money.
@rareliquid3 жыл бұрын
you will find your way if you put the time and thought into it!
@scgrigsby3 жыл бұрын
U were fortunate to learn the lessons you did at a young age. Most people will not learn them until into their 40's. For me it was war at 18 that taught me life is fragile as you mentioned but it is also very short. As you iterated there are more important things in life than money. Best wishes to you and yours.
@celiacui97383 жыл бұрын
As a newbie in financial field, thanks for sharing the insights! Wish all the best!
@rareliquid3 жыл бұрын
Glad it was helpful!
@derekbystander3 жыл бұрын
Great video! It is the most honest video I have seen and I could relate as I have recently changed my career path from banking to recruitment at the age of 30+ where I could regret. It's tough but will not give up as it's really personal fulfilling and I guess everyone really need to take a risk to get the right fit.
@rareliquid3 жыл бұрын
thanks for the thoughtful comment Derrick. Wish you all the best in your journey!
@JenPurple20223 жыл бұрын
Composed, clear and well presented. You will be very successful with how you perceive the road. I am gonna share this video with my team.
@rareliquid3 жыл бұрын
thank you so much Jen!
@markplymale3 жыл бұрын
I really enjoyed this video! So sorry about your mom man
@rareliquid3 жыл бұрын
thank you mark i appreciate it!
@poorinvestor3 жыл бұрын
You’re fortunate for you to make life decisions and still young enough to have more to come!
@rareliquid3 жыл бұрын
thank you!
@jeetenderkakkar75703 жыл бұрын
Lìfè
@monsieurx93813 жыл бұрын
Actually very nice to hear someone who doesn't criticize IB like they hate it. Love the videos!
@rareliquid3 жыл бұрын
thank you sir~
@heeyeoonzhang26753 жыл бұрын
thanks for sharing. It is really a good story I should know before I turn in my resume to JPM
@Thaddeus06153 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂 “not set me back a lil bit, it set me back a lot” funny guy. I love watching him talk
@kat95873 жыл бұрын
I greatly appreciate your story. Thank you for sharing :)
@jl18763 жыл бұрын
respect and so true, you can make all the money in the world but you can never get the time back
@sparshdalmia13 жыл бұрын
That's really nice of you to tell all of these personal things here! It was surely helpful picking your mind, thank you! All the best!
@rareliquid3 жыл бұрын
thank you sparsh, i appreciate the positive vibes!
@beaudeseo12033 жыл бұрын
Sincerely love the personal brand you are building geared towards guiding others and providing value. You inspire me to want to start my own!
@rareliquid3 жыл бұрын
thank you and you should start one!
@jungeeboi4 жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing your reflection and wisdom from your personal experience with us Ben. Much love and respect to you and your family, God bless
@rareliquid4 жыл бұрын
Thanks Joe, appreciate it and hope you're doing well too!
@raven27473 жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing your story, as a business school student i find this very inspiring! Wish you all the best in your future endeavors.
@yuxinjiang68012 жыл бұрын
Surprisingly sincere sharing!
@RichPlusHappy3 жыл бұрын
This was beautiful. Congrats on your brave decision.
@ChaitanyaVaddadi3 жыл бұрын
Your life journey is very moving and heart touching. U got a very good clarity of thought, which definitely leads to success. yeah there are many times, where a small thought keeps running in the back of the mind but we never peruse that. But at the end always regret that we should have perused it instead of having the dissatisfaction, that we didn't.
@australiansavant23642 жыл бұрын
I hope you know that you and this channel genuinely add value to our lives. Thank you.
@jordanpower55683 жыл бұрын
great quality vid, as a young grad entering the industry i took a lot out of this
@rareliquid3 жыл бұрын
great to hear that jordan!
@honusquare3 жыл бұрын
Saw your post from AHN and wanted to say I couldn't agree more about when to jump into entrepreneurship. It varies for every person so it's reassuring to know that you encountered this thought as well. In the end, I finally came to this: A job will always be there but the moment to pursue entrepreneurship might not always be
@rareliquid3 жыл бұрын
thank you for watching! and yes totally agree and wish you all the best with you endeavor as well :)
@yourtaegirl2 жыл бұрын
Your humility is so endearing! Great content😊😊
@liveforfunb45543 жыл бұрын
Incredible! It’s really hard to take the risk and give up the incentive of money. I admire your mindset and courageous decision.
@jiahaoguan63273 жыл бұрын
As a third year finance student, thanks for your sharing:)
@andrewsokulski89222 жыл бұрын
Very inspirational! Thank you very much for sharing this.
@healthyrichjoe8884 жыл бұрын
Thx for the story. Wish you success in your KZbin channel. Glad you made those changes in your life. I like to pass this on to my kids who are also working long hours in the accounting and financial industry. Making good Money like you were but definitely there's a price to pay as there's no work life balance.
@rareliquid4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your comment and wish your kids all the best!
@NobitaSwag3 жыл бұрын
Ok I'm working long hours in the finance industry with no worm life balance but I'm underpaid.
@d_157452 жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing such a personal story. Your channel is amazing and you are such a humble person. I get nothing but good vibes from you man! God bless you!
@simaszavistauskas63903 жыл бұрын
Ben, thank you for this video. I find myself already waiting in angst to create a business of my own, but I lack the experience to do so. Your video put my head in the right place.
@rareliquid3 жыл бұрын
Glad it was helpful! best of luck to you simas
@bersah45173 жыл бұрын
Ben, I'm sorry about your mom. The bay area has a fast pace culture where you kind of lose track of time and either work a lot or buy unnecessary things. Leaving that after some saved up money probably would have been a bit safer but since you had a serious family problem you worked with what you had. You did better than most would have done under the circumstances.
@rareliquid3 жыл бұрын
thank you i really appreciate that. best wishes to you :)
@aaronmichaelmusic_3 жыл бұрын
Ya bay area really does feel that way tbh
@sophiadu69103 жыл бұрын
Hi Ben! Great and moving video! I can definitely empathize with how it's easy to just go through the motions and follow the beaten path. I’m so glad your video touches on the importance of taking a step back and re-evaluating where we spend our limited time! I guess as humans we are naturally inclined to be optimistic about the future. At the expense of sounding super creepy, I also went to Cal (go Bears!) and met you at a networking event once. I just remember you being one of the kindest people I met there and making it less intimidating. Somehow kchoi’s video showed up in my recommended and I immediately recognized you and was so happy to see you had a channel of your own! I’ll be staying tuned to your future videos and I’m so glad you have this platform to reach and inspire more ppl 😊!
@rareliquid3 жыл бұрын
Hey Sophia, thanks so much for your comment! Glad our paths crossed again and hope you're doing well. Best of luck with whatever you are working on and thank you for watching :)
@avlog50612 жыл бұрын
Great video. I empathise with you since my mum went through mental problems during my studies in 2021. Love all your videos btw.
@leonbar13913 жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing, one of the best videos I’ve ever seen
@rareliquid3 жыл бұрын
Wow, thanks!
@bergen08023 жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing your story. I worked both at sell-side and buy-side. But I truly agree money is not everything. My mother in law just passed away with multiple scenarios. I am glad to find your video.
@lncw983 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this extremely genuine video! Got me to start thinking my career in law too ...
@lauracerva97163 жыл бұрын
I think your thought process is sound. Thanks for sharing
@国忠杨3 жыл бұрын
really good story!I hope you and your parents will do the best and be proud of a son like you.
@hninthitsaraung21873 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing your experiences. It is really helpful for us.
@kirangaddam42513 жыл бұрын
Thanks for Sharing Ben..!! Hope you had Great future a head..!! ❤️
@joeymiller65513 жыл бұрын
Greatly appreciate all the info. Thank you for sharing and I’m sorry to hear ab your mother
@krasuch3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your honesty. Be yourself and take care!
@rareliquid3 жыл бұрын
thanks you Piotr!
@rickyleung87283 жыл бұрын
Thanks for your sharing , this is touching and take care of your Mom 💪
@rareliquid3 жыл бұрын
thank you ricky i appreicate it!
@vickykumawat59913 жыл бұрын
I too have a same story of being middle class and want to earn more money so my parents can live better life, but I am confused or rather scared how things we turn out, this video helped me in all the way ❤️ Thank you brother for sharing this And All the best for the business 🙂
@rareliquid3 жыл бұрын
best of luck to you as well vicky!
@ChristysaysRawrr4 жыл бұрын
Could you make a video on your experience with creating aesthetic studios and things you would've done differently if you were given the opportunity to do it all over again? Love your videos!!
@rareliquid4 жыл бұрын
That strays a bit from this channel's current focus of finance / investing so I can't make a video like that in the immediate future but if I do end up branching out into other topics I will be sure to keep this one in mind! I do hope to make videos on entrepreneurship one day so this will be the first on the list :)
@lubrinokim91383 жыл бұрын
Hi Christy. Is the person to your left DH Lee???? ^^
@bigpoppasmurf18132 жыл бұрын
This was incredibly insightful and really raw and honest. Thank You! Thinking of you and your family. :)
@Ban003 жыл бұрын
Loved the perspective. Subscribed! I'll be your OG subscriber when you hit 100k soon
@ClaraWsfreedom3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this brilliant video!! It really helps as I am currently a college junior and what you said about everything made me confirm my core beliefs and values in life.
@kchd963 жыл бұрын
Loved the earnest reflection! Thanks man
@rareliquid3 жыл бұрын
Glad you liked it!
@andyhan4ever4 жыл бұрын
I loved hearing your stories 👍
@rareliquid4 жыл бұрын
Haha thanks Andy
@przemeks92543 жыл бұрын
Stay strong my man! Thanks for the story
@rareliquid3 жыл бұрын
no problem!
@JaneNP883 жыл бұрын
I have alot of respect for your honesty :) thanks for sharing your journey
@zakkhan60543 жыл бұрын
this is an amazing vid, love it!
@rareliquid3 жыл бұрын
Glad you enjoyed it!
@melforddavidson61563 жыл бұрын
I quit my job as an Engineer last Two years ago after almost 12 years in the field. It was not an easy decision, but life is too short to dread going to work everyday. No amount of money can buy real happiness Lol 😁 but friends I'm not asking you to resign from your job or Abandon your business but be wise!
@proactivethinker81793 жыл бұрын
I don't like my Job but I love what it provides for me and my family. This pandemic has people rethinking and working
@melforddavidson61563 жыл бұрын
@Vargas Mendez While I was still in service I planned towards early retirement,my first income I do a normal 9-5, my second income I put it back to work more money because I'm not just after money but the freedom to live on my terms Lol.
@melforddavidson61563 жыл бұрын
@Miles Cooper yes I was able to make about 2/3k weekly as extra income from my investing trying so much to build more side hustles and extra income
@melforddavidson61563 жыл бұрын
@Philip Benjamin There's a lot of investing options (real estate, Airbnb, stocks, crypto ETFS) but my best advice get a professional lead you into profitable one.
@melforddavidson61563 жыл бұрын
@Philip Benjamin I work with a pro (Virginia May Wynne) she's great expert and has been influential to my financial Journey. I recommend her to everyone.
@jonathanfink92233 жыл бұрын
Like your videos. Inspiring and interesting. You have achieved quite a lot and gained a lot of experience. Stay healthy!
@rareliquid3 жыл бұрын
thank you jonathan!
@sebastianpolanco63522 жыл бұрын
thanks for sharing your experience, great perspective
@sallysun26463 жыл бұрын
totally understood.. i also started my career in finance, but left around 3rd year end. understood the passion, the reason why leaving. And i'm running own business ...
@rareliquid3 жыл бұрын
nice and congrats sally!
@zazakoch69353 жыл бұрын
A family member having health concerns is HARD!! Keep up the GOOD work!!
@rareliquid3 жыл бұрын
Thanks!
@michaelz10163 жыл бұрын
Hey - sorry to hear about your moms diagnosis. Thanks for sharing your story
@rareliquid3 жыл бұрын
thank you michael, appreciate the note!
@pratiksharma35983 жыл бұрын
Loved your honesty. Long way to go buddy
@rareliquid3 жыл бұрын
thank you Pratik!
@lemonadechristian3 жыл бұрын
This was a great insight and a very personal video!
@rareliquid3 жыл бұрын
thank you!
@emilylee40073 жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing! Appreciated your sincerity!
@rareliquid3 жыл бұрын
My pleasure!
@thaddddeee53553 жыл бұрын
Thanks dude for sharing your thoughts and experiences
@rareliquid3 жыл бұрын
no problem!
@StressStrings3 жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing your experience of life. Very useful. Regards from Brazil
@rareliquid3 жыл бұрын
Glad it was helpful!
@MitjaShi3 жыл бұрын
Great and inspirational video, also a touching story!
@rareliquid3 жыл бұрын
thank you Mitja!
@alwynjohn-thesimpleinvesto47303 жыл бұрын
This was an amazing video! New sub. Very top of the line content and I really support all your decisions. What are personal story you shared that is super meaningful and really puts things into perspective. Keep up the work! You are very humbling and genuine.
@rareliquid3 жыл бұрын
Appreciate the thoughtful comment! Sending you positive vibes as well
@vismitrekhan9353 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing this! loved it
@rareliquid3 жыл бұрын
Glad you enjoyed it!
@tabithathecat-k3b3 жыл бұрын
Hey Ben! Great video and reflection! Sorry to hear about your mother, I'm sure she is proud of you and your pursuits. Your video got me thinking of working on an idea on my own as it feels right. I wish you every success in your life
@georginaxiong90473 жыл бұрын
Thank you for such a genuine sharing, that’s very inspiring.
@rareliquid3 жыл бұрын
Thank you Georgina!
@cowboybuddhaful3 жыл бұрын
This is a really cool channel, Ben! I find your story very inspiring, and I'll be following your progress and journey. All the best!!
@rareliquid3 жыл бұрын
Thanks!
@ypranganai16103 жыл бұрын
Appreciate the message shared here, thank you
@rareliquid3 жыл бұрын
Thanks for watching!
@ehsanzahoor6073 жыл бұрын
Great video ! thank you for sharing your personal experience.
@kevm11213 жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing!
@ilona72103 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing this very important thing to think about