WHY I QUIT UNI

[@Amourd08]

I'm glad you mentioned that getting a degree is a privilege. There are millions of people around the world including in South Africa, the country you're living in, who would do anything to have the opportunity and economic means/support from either their parents or financial institutions to study in a University and obtain a degree to provide a better life for themselves and their family. It's not about happiness or being personally fulfilled, it's about survival and economic security. I'm sure you understand that you're privileged in numerous aspects in society which affords you the position where you can make this decision without facing the same reprecussions other economically disadvantaged or marginalized people would face. I just hope you appreciate and acknowledge the fact that you have both the freedom and privilege to even make this decision. I wish you luck in your future endeavors in whatever you choose to pursue.

[@Amanda-be7eq]

Very true. I'm South African and doing my 2nd year in Uni. I'm very depressed and I keep failing but I can't leave because I need to secure a job right after my degree and help my family out :(

[@LindoMtsweni]

@@Amanda-be7eq hi...I hope you have graduated and proud of yourself now .. Im currently in 3rd year at Wits

[@janals2]

Hey!! I have a super similar story.. I finished high school in 2015 and then travelled around Europe for the summer and then returned to Australia to start university. I was just doing a generic media communication degree, and almost instantly I knew I had made the wrong choice. Because I didn't like it, I was unmotivated and didn't care at all, and so at the end of the first semester I decided to leave. Then I worked for 7 months and bought a one way ticket to Paris..and now it's been 6 months living here and I love my life SO much. It's amazing. I think within the next year I want to go back to university but I have learnt never to rush anything or do something that feels right because you will end up regretting it .... Xxxx thanks for sharing!

[@iwonag7537]

You actually helped me in making an important decision I'm facing right now! What an inspiration! It's never too late to do sth that you love, and if you don't know it yet, just take your time! Thank youuu!

[@oudomchan3678]

90% of your works is just happening in my life now I want to quit my University but I’m afraid to tell my family 😭😢

[@serine.r4746]

Same

[@yazzyb4009]

If you cant take it anymore DO IT

[@yazzyb4009]

@@serine.r4746 do it then love for you, you can always go back another time

[@k4mi11e]

Thank you so much for sharing Janine! I'm considering quitting for the same reasons and it's great to know there are other free-spirited, entrepreneurial, creative types out there who don't find college (or uni if you're not in the States) to be quite the right for them. I admire that you have the drive to act on your intuition and gut feelings. Much love

[@JulesCecilia]

So proud of you no matter what! You are the most aspiring person I know and will achieve anything you set your mind to. Love you girl

[@NessaBlack]

I felt the exact same all through my college career but I didn't have the guts to make the decision to drop out and it took me 3 years after I graduated to get my life/mindset/career path on track to where I wanted to be because of it. You will not regret following your heart on this, it may be a slightly more undefined path but you've already started to pave it 😊 I'm excited for you!

[@vg5384]

Follow your heart and you can't go wrong. It's your life, do what makes you happy :)

[@WildDoveX]

You're so "right on" about everything in this video. Congratulations on coming to this excellent understanding and the courage to change course as needed. You're totally "in your energy" now, even if your conscious mind hasn't yet seen how things will unfold. The Fashion Marketing program in London sounds so perfect for you !!!

[@kristhelioness]

When you embrace uncertainty, everything is possible and everything opens up. ❤ Du hast die richtige Entscheidung getroffen, ich bin stolz auf dich! Ich kämpfe mich noch durch in der Uni, weil ich in ein paar Monaten fertig bin aber wenn ich erst am Anfang stehen würde, würde ich auch abbrechen. Konzentriere dich auf deine Leidenschaft, das ist am allerwichtigsten. ☺

[@lauramodder1742]

First of all I love reading your blog and watching your videos! You are so honest en genuine. This is your decision to make. You're not a failure because of quiting uni. If you're unhappy now, I think you have to do whatever makes you happy again and maybe then new things will come to you! Go for it and goodluck! Love from Holland

[@joliejanine]

Thank you so much Laura- your comment made me smile :)

[@redemwale6557]

YOU ARE BRAVE AND VERY RIGHT..."THREE QUARTERS OF THE STUFF WE LEARN AT VARSITY IS RUBBISH" FOLLOW YOUR HEART HAVE GOALS ,FOCUS ,WORK HARD AND HAVE SUCCESS...I HAVE NO ROOM FOR ACADEMIC IN MY SUCCESS STORY...WHICH IS WHY I AM ALSO GOING TO QUIT VARSITY AFTER THIS DECEMBER VACATION AND FOCUS ON MY COMPANY THAT I LAUNCHED LAST WEEK ON THURSDAY....

[@silentlessons4221]

my 2 cents advice. if u hv invested lots of time and money and are half way through, the best is to just finish. Over the years I hv started many careers and find i couldnt complete bcoz of some other reason bordering on "satisfaction". I have learnt now that for such people the best is just to master the art of finishing and just complete whatever it is u r doing. Even if u make a mistake that thing u did will lead you to your next destination. No time is wasted time.

[@clmk28]

Good advice

[@jessicairwin4589]

I literally came from the same situation and feel exactly the same about my course. I'm from the UK and moved to Malta last year and did a year long voluntary scheme...when I decided I wanted to stay in Malta I applied for a masters at the university. Nine months down the line I'm still asking myself the same questions and realised it is just for the piece of paper you get at the end. Finishing this semester then taking the summer to decide if it is worth continuing with the dissertation. Good luck with the next adventure!

[@alyssanaylor]

everything about this i relate to 100% and i am so happy you made this video because it made me not feel alone about this topic. You are amazing, please dont ever change !!

[@jiliciousjourney]

Ich freu ich so sehr für dich Janine. Erinnere mich noch an unseren Chat auf IG... und ich verstehe dich zu 300%. Ich glaube das Video wird ganz viele Menschen positiv inspirieren. Schick dir ne Umarmung! x

[@joliejanine]

Aww Jil, ich freue mich so über deinen Kommentar :) Fühle dich auch ganz doll zurück gedrückt xx

[@かずみ-k1i]

Im so glad you made this video because I felt alone like everyone is against with this idea and everyone tells me stay in Uni but I really feel something’s not right.

[@sigridlarsen7438]

I am so glad to hear that i am not the only one. I thinkit is really good that you share this, I am unsure if I even want to study, and hearing that I am not the only one that want something else than a "A4" life is very good. You are amazing I wish you good luck🙋🏼

[@paradise9970]

Thank u for sharing ur story it rly made me feel like i'm not alone and not the only one :)I just graduated from highschool And i studied science to become a doctor but deep in my heart i never wanted to do this for the rest of my life as a job and life Everyone here want to become doctor bc it pays well and as u said bc of a degree one of the biggest reasons I went through a lof of depression in my highschool years bc of that but then i realized i should follow my heart and work for what i want to do for the rest of my life

[@EG-ge7lz]

What are you studying?

[@americak1758]

I love how you and Julia do like the exact same thing, I can't believe she quit too, I love Julia's attiude and identify with yours, I think Julia is so funny and must be a great support for you. I personally just quit my job and this video has made me feel like life is not over if I chose to not do something that does not give me fulfilment. And that quitting doesn't mean you don't ever do something else even greater and that''ll make you feel the bliss that you deserve .

[@LilacsAdore]

I don't think badly of you at all! In fact I really admire your ability to know yourself and what you want which is something I struggle most with. You're also incredibly lucky to have the emotional and financial support of your family.

[@sandras.1887]

Man muss run, was man liebt. Ich habe erst mit 26 angefangen zu studieren und es war die beste Entscheidung meines Lebens... Ich habe alles hingeschmissen, was ich davor hatte. Das Alter sollte nie ein Hindernis sein.

[@joliejanine]

Es tut richtig gut das zu lesen! Danke dir :)

[@theverasilva]

I'm wishing you all the luck 🍀 I believe you'll find what you love and I'm sure you're going to be successful! Love from a Portuguese dating a South African 😘

[@thebohemianbenita]

Ich kann dich so gut nachempfinden! Damit wirst du so viele Leute inspirieren und Mut machen. Mir selbst fiel die Entscheidung super schwer mein Studium abzubrechen, weil alle dagegen waren und ich wusste, dass mich viele deswegen verurteilen werden. Auch meine Familie. Aber ich bin froh, dass ich es getan habe, denn jetzt mache ich, was ich wirklich liebe und hatte sogar die Möglichkeit durch Südamerika zu reisen!Benita Xo

[@paublusamericanus292]

jolie talks about not feeling stressed living in a country, suffering from the worst drought in living memory, and everything is cool. that might be because she is beautiful. pretty girls, (except scandinavians in morroco) are pretty much doted on everywhere.

[@ChelsRaeMoore]

You are really brave and I am really proud of you! I go to UCT and I love what I am studying but I know that there are many students that hate what they are studying. Not many people are as brave as you to take that step in the right direction. I hope everything works out for you in the future

[@joliejanine]

Aw thank you so much for your encouraging words :)

[@Lyn_DS]

Proud of you that you dare to share this online, must not have been easy! Take your time to find what your thing is, whatever it may be. Everybody is different and has a different life so nobody can judge you, remember that! I'm actually the total opposite of you : I've known since I was 5years old that I wanted to become a psychologist (I couldn't speak this word properly but I explained to my mum what I wanted to do) and it never changed. Unfortunately during health circumstances I haven't been able to start uni yet while normally I'd already have my masters degree.. I'm still hoping that I can become a psychologist and in the mean time we'll see.. nobody can know what will happen in their life. What I've learnt from my health issues is that you've gotta do what you want! So you, and everyone else, do you! We will all get there eventually :) Keep going with your beautiful photos on Instagram and interesting blogposts/videos about the way you see life. You're a true inspiration ♥️♥️♥️ xox Lyn

[@nilukakavanagh509]

I think if you were clever at school then you shouldn't stop the academic pursuits (this doesn't necessarily mean university, but doing something intellectually stimulating that will help you in future). Looks + Brains is the biggest weapon of them all. Love x

[@joliejanine]

I totally agree with you here! xx

[@nilukakavanagh509]

[@cheristagrace2458]

omg this is so true

[@ericasloan5625]

i relate so much to this, i just finished my first year of general social sciences (was hoping for a social work degree) and am having the exact same feelings! there is so much pressure that you should get post secondary education but im really feeling that it isn't for me and not worth it if im wasting the degree and my parents money. I also have a side business of doing microblading and eyelash extensions and it's been going well so now I'm trying to figure out what to do as I'm still enrolled as of right now for next year but not thrilled at all to go back 🙄 It was so nice to watch this and know that there are like minded people like you that are going through the same thing since it's such a tough decision!

[@cheristagrace2458]

even with degree you still in difficulties to find a job.Well in my country it happen.

[@shadiaizzatiabubakar5574]

OMG the way you think same as what I'm think. I want to quit but right now my family dont allow me to do. But after watched your video I need to stand by my own right. Love from Malaysia.

[@martyler48]

Hello Janine! Firstly I'd like to say that I'm proud of you for making this decision, there are so many better things that you can do out there and the most important thing is to be happy. Personally, I'm studying archaeology and even though I love the subject and I would love to work in this field I don't do as well as I'm having trouble studying. I'm thinking about quitting and maybe getting a job but I'm scared of letting down my parents and myself. I'd really love to hear your opinion if you'd like. Much love! xx

[@PieLova1191]

I really enjoyed watching this video since I love listening to different perspectives. If your WHY isn't strong enough, then it will be hard to pursue whatever it is you are trying to pursue. My WHY are my parents and grandparents that worked so hard their whole entire lives since they never had the opportunity to have an education. It's a sacrifice when you are working for your degree but my family is my WHY and I just want to give back to them. I hope to receive my bachelors in Psychology one day.

[@cz6900]

I feel the same way, but I still don't have the courage to disappoint my parents. I am in my 3rd year of University now, with one year left. This past 2 year has been a struggle for me and I have no motivation at all to continue to study to just pass my next exam. I'm at a point where I rather fail and get kicked out of university than telling my parents the truth that I just want to quit. I have zero working experience, and the financial support of my parents is what scares me the most. I was "forced" by my family and society to think that after finishing high school I MUST go to University and get a piece of paper that will "guarantee" my success in the future. I am lost, I am really trying to figure it out what I want to do when I quit Uni. I am scared of not having my family's support any longer, and like you said, University is super expensive and the only requirement for my parents is that I finish it. I've been lying to them for the past 2 years whenever they ask me if I am doing well in school. Reality is, I am not...

[@shyhping5590]

Hi Jolie. I’m also studying for a Degree in the university. I also have the same circumstances and I’m so struggling now. I’ve been thinking of quitting the school or transferring to other courses because I don’t really enjoy. I don’t know if my choice would be the right one or I would regret if I quit. I know what kind of life I desire and I know I’m currently out of the track but I don’t know if I continue studying the course in the school,it may brings me some changes or something I wouldn’t have been expected that I would gain. I would like to hear some opinions from you. Sincerely,SP.

[@timeasarina8492]

Thanks for this video Jolie, I want to quit my uni too and I was looking for someone who made this decision too. It seems we think very similar and big thumb up for being vegan! ❤

[@theresethorhus639]

2016-2017 is my first year of a Bachelor of Business Administration, here in Norway. But my dream is to go to Australia. I will stay here at school till December, then (hopefully) start over in Australia in February. I might be "dropping out" from here, but I feel it is the right think to do, if I'm going to follow my ambitions. I want to go abroad! Get good English skills, learn about a global culture, see things from different perspectives, learn to surf, and get a tan! Therefore, I had to see this video, and I think it is so cool what you do, because you to it for you!Wish you best of luck. - Therese, 22 y/o

[@LindoMtsweni]

I'm currently doing 3rd year in aeronautical engineering at Wits ...South Africa 🇿🇦

[@bybyrei1079]

I hate uni and I have 3 years left of it. Best part is I'll have to study another four years after finishing so I can try to get a job in my field. By the time I finish I'll be 30 and wanting to die. Ugh.

[@かずみ-k1i]

Im so sorry my dear

[@lenahoster2705]

I feel the same way. Pushing for my big time goal to be a teacher. I totally understand what you are saying! Studying and learning new things is awesome but uni just doesnt really give thay

[@ambrechambon9584]

You are so lucky to do an online course at Saint Martins !! Can you do a video about it and explain what's your feeling after doing it ? Love your videos ! xx

[@philippawood5047]

In my opinion, university was the best decision I ever made. I discovered a totally new way of thinking and opened my mind to so much that I could never have anticipated. Sure, I didn't get to go to the beach or eat out a lot because I had to budget and do assignments, but honestly, I feel like uni made me awaken my calling. Sometimes it was hard, and boring, and I felt like I was doing the wrong thing, but I stuck it out. Having said that, I went to one of the best universities in the UK and I know that the South African education system leaves a lot to be desired in many respects.. :) Did you consider just changing courses to something with more interlinked subjects? Like maybe doing English language and literature? Also, is Julia still attending UCT? Hope you don't mind all the questions, I'm just curious! Good luck with whatever you do now! xo

[@joliejanine]

I totally agree with you- the education here is a bit different than in Europe. Which uni did you go to? Julia also quit, but she is going to make a video about that on her channel too :) xx

[@philippawood5047]

I was lucky (or crazy) enough to go to Cambridge; I think it is probably a bit of a unique uni experience. I look forward to hearing her perspective too - it's good that we can have an open conversation about the fact that tertiary education isn't a one-size-fits-all. x

[@kaeviktoria]

Philippa Wood love it that you said crazy enough to go to Cambridge. why though? :D

[@philippawood5047]

Haha, once you've seen the libraries you understand. Any bookworm's heaven! ;)

[@kaeviktoria]

Philippa Wood haha I love libraries, any country I travel to, I have to check out what the uni is like. Bookworm's heaven :D

[@simonevanrooyen518]

I resonate with this so much. Thank you for sharing your story Janine! 💕

[@Vanessa-jl4pj]

go have a look at the courses they have at VAGA in Cape Town. otherwise the AMD in munich could also have things that interest you! Good Luck! im sure you'll finde the right thing to do and your path! Lots of love

[@darriellemccray2369]

you're so brave! thank you so much for this heartfelt video

[@MsLinoi]

ich bin gerade etwas neidisch auf deinen Abi schnitt:O da ich nächstes jahr abi schreibe versuch ich auch einen recht guten schnitt zu haben damit ich relativ gute möglichkeiten danach habe. naja mal bezüglich des themas: toll dass du so ehrlich bist und darüber redest und wenn es einfach nicht das richtige für dich ist dann solltest du damit nicht deine Zeit "verschwenden" zeit ist so wertvoll und man sollte das tun was einen Weiterbringt und/ oder was man wirklich liebt 😊

[@cheristagrace2458]

for me university is all about assginment.They gave to much assginment.i wanna quit but im afraid tht my parents will be mad at me.since the first day i got into university all i ever had is stress ,crying every night and always got sick.I told my parents but they only say just be strong.U will be find in semester 2.IM NOT ENJOYING MY LIFE NOW.

[@godzillafart6531]

Hi Jolie i can understand you on a personal level... Like if someone post hates replies on a comment i made on a video just pulls me down...

[@tatumtruter1033]

We support whatever you do🌿🌸

[@PayneMaximus]

I recommend the book "So Good They Can't Ignore You" by Cal Newport. He talks a lot about this.

[@sofiewa6818]

Wo hast du deine wunderschönen Ketten her die du im Video trägst ?

[@filippavivianne]

You are really wise! Keep doing you! Thank you for sharing, hugs! ❤

[@saadiabegum5006]

The only reason why I am in uni because I want to make my parents. But I don’t even want to go (stay)

[@BeOutstanding]

1. You feel it may not help you much 2. Not fulfilling/no enjoyment 3. Just doing it for the degree 4. do not feel like yourself Other reasons why people quit 1. Fees are too high/already made money from another source 2. They already have a good network of friends

[@begoane]

What about Julia? Is she still in uni?

[@4tellaleau]

Hello Janine, I am so glad to see this video because I was having the same feelings. I have always worked hard in school and get really good grades, and it has always been my dream to study in a top university in the U.S. I am now on my gap year mainly because I didn't get in the school I wanted to attend and decided to reapply this year and travel at the same time. However, I am begging to think that maybe university isn't the right thing for me now. I still want to attend a university, but I'm not sure if now is the right time. It's quit ironic because I've always wanted a PHD and hoped to become a professor one day. I am so proud of you for making this decision and posting this video! I hope you the best! p.s. I'm worried what my parents would react to my thoughts. It would be great if you can share how your family reacted to your decision. :)

[@angpita6617]

Du solltest zur Maastricht University kommen!:) Wunderschöne Stadt, Internationale Studenten und das wichtigste natürlich - 1A Studienfächer! ganz anderes System als in Deutschland z.B. Man diskutiert viele Praxisszenarien, hält oft Präsentationen und ist auch oft in 15er Gruppen aufgeteilt:) Hab das Gefühl, dass man da wenigstens fürs Leben lernt! Hört sich so an, als wäre International Business oder Economics&Business economics was für dich! Informiere dich mal darüber wenn du magst oder schreib mich einfach an:) Du wirst da sicher angenommen mit deinen Reiseerfahrungen und Abschluss! Verstehe aber auch, wenn du Kapstadt nicht verlassen wollen würdest.. die Stadt ist echt zu schön.

[@Pinkoflove3]

To gain knowledge in anything it takes reading. Doesn't have to be with a group of ppl in a room.

[@guillaumec.lajeunesse8534]

Very interesting! Authentic.

[@paulrichardson5892]

its no big deal dropping out, just try to find what you really like and try to align it with your talent. For example if you are top rate at maths try some type of engineering or science course. If english is your best subject do a course that fits, marketing,law social work,teaching and so on. there are many options. good luck. Or, you are young ,travel some more then later do uni. by the way dont do a degree for the money . You must enjoy , the money will come.

[@maria.r5999]

all love. :) college is not for everyone and your happiness is top priority.

[@taniahino]

danke für deine Ehrlichkeit :)🌻💋

[@re3mai]

Do you think that you wasted your time in high school doing IB if you didn't go on to get a degree? I understand your reasoning and I'm just wondering :)

[@joliejanine]

No not at all! A good basic education is a must. With my IB I can choose to do whatever I want to now- if I want to go out there and study something else, I can.

[@crystalgrace289]

Reema Ismail

[@oudomchan3678]

School is scammer.

[@anna-mayramnarine6034]

your eyes are gorgeous all the best

[@bonsyboom4531]

R u still living in south africa after u dropped uni? If so on what visa?

[@desiree7808]

Super Video und ganz viel Glück weiterhin 🍀

[@ainhoaborges4491]

Did you do 1 or 2 gap years?

[@LucievAmerice]

Exactly, thats just how it is. If you dont feel like you want that degree, like its gonna help you in life/personal growth then why do it ? Just wasted time. Good for you to do what you want =)

[@Evie170]

Well done! 😊

[@karinaklucha3914]

are you 21 now? or when u started uni.? :)

[@charlottev3396]

♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️ big inspiration!

So you are not a STEM kinda gal.

[@bayley5459]

Education is not preparation for life. Education is life. Sorry for you just staying in the youtube world....

[@blattlicht]

Education doesn't have to be in school ;)