Why Indian Immigrants Become Rich and Raise Successful Kids REACTION! | Valuetainment

[@VinodSharma-nc9xu]

Indian fathers are known for their toughness and as disciplinarian mostly for boys to train them as men. Who can take responsibility, has a strong spine ( metaphorically), so boys do not share their vulnerability with their dads. On the other hands they don't show toughness for girl child, that's the work of mother to discipline daughters for their role in life. That's why girls are comfortable sharing thoughts with father and boys with mother.

[@Aarnyx]

It does not applies to every Indian parent, my dad and mom are not like that LMFAO-.-

[@sanjaychauhan1116]

Whatever he said is true BUT they way liberals /wokes are destroying west (family value ,human values ) and in india our wokes and liberals are doing the same since past 75yrs they are not able to digest that how conservative in India is rising and bringing the old value system ,family system, proud of their ancient history and civilization .The success of Indian Americans is this conservative values but the 2nd &3rd generation are becoming wokes and they no longer able to sustain this ,they will become like average american people in terms of what I have mentioned above

[@surajpratap_1]

Yeah..Not all but most for sure..

[@FPL_Sassy]

Its like that in my family

[@LikeAButterFly7777]

Mostly ig not all

[@no_one4686]

The analysis is pretty accurate. My parents migrated to USA 30 years back when I was in 4th grade. We came here with 3 other families, all my mom’s siblings. Today we are all well settled. Living the American Dream you can say. My bother, sister and all of our cousins all have high income jobs and do pretty well. The one thing I remember is our parents emphasizing the importance of completing higher education and obtain a high salary job. Now that we all have children, we encourage the next generation to do better than what we did. I teach my kids the skills that I know they will need to be on the top of the food chain. We also help each other out weather it’s emotional, financial or cultural. Keep it simple. Treat others the way you want to be treated (not a new saying but very important one).

[@NEO-v7r]

Thats inspiring to others parents

[@DEVILOFSOULGAMING]

As an Indian, education is not an option, it's mandatory. All other skills or extra curricular activities are the add-ons. So when the kids are at the age of 16-18 they have multiple options to decide in which area they want to lead their life. That's why Indians are everywhere in the world in all types of occupation, business, sports etc. Proud to be an Indian 😊

[@induchopra3014]

Caste means professions. We get respect from professions. We are professionals since centuries Its in our DNA.

[@cegesh1459]

The reason is: Rich can move, the rest can't.

[@bobbyyohannan9869]

No job in India plus poverty

[@KnowledgeEnthusiast]

That will definitely gonna create more and more confusion in choosing most important decisions of your life. 😅😅😅

[@mukulagr]

​@@bobbyyohannan9869Yes that's why millions of people are on salaried job here 😂 That's why big tech giants come to India every year and set their business here with 100% Indian workforce. 😂 What are you on? BBC fed propaganda?

[@aswin123adam]

The mother-son and Father-Daughter relationship mentioned is exactly how it is in India. It has been like that for ages, It's just how it is.

[@sel9222]

12:30 I think it's true Boys loves their mom more And girl loves their father more When brother-sister fights Their are High chances that mother will take son's side And father will take daughter side. (But don't forget chappal is for both)😂

[@siddhantshukla8102]

In my house chappals are only for me cause "Beti ghar ki lakshmi hoti hai"😢😢

[@AnkitThakur-fs7sy]

😅😅✌🏻

[@anilkumar-fk8fc]

​@@siddhantshukla8102you're not alone😢

[@siddhantshukla8102]

​@@anilkumar-fk8fc good to know brother😂❤

[@lostsoul404]

​@@siddhantshukla8102 Bro so true, my grandma will kill me or anyone if they touch our cousin because she is the Lakshmi of the house, and no one can be disrespectful to the goddess 🤷🏻‍♂️🤷🏻‍♂️

[@chamku2010]

We as Indian don't belive in Multiple Marriages, We believe in Relationship building among family. We believe in Respecting people.

[@insaneskarma]

From my experience Jaby, my parents did encourage me to learn Tabla, a Indian Drum and noticed my talent in painting, enrolled me in drawing classes. But education wise, they insisted I had to become an engineer and thats what I ended up becoming

[@Aarnyx]

an Indian drum*

[@arpanabinaswar1811]

Mereko toh ek baar galti se Drawing au Violin bajane ka Bimari kag gaya tha usko dekh ke mereko Jabardasti classes me dal diya . They are like : Tujhe pata nahi hai but tu bahit Talented hai😂 Same 2 class me mereko Fancy dress competition me jabardasti bhej dete the jhaadu , Mahatma Gandu, Bhagat Singh bana ke

[@abcdeeeeff]

To isme kya gulut ho guya chutiye. Jaa k drum buja phir agley 50 saal tuk.

[@sanjaychauhan1116]

Whatever he said is true BUT they way liberals /wokes are destroying west (family value ,human values ) and in india our wokes and liberals are doing the same since past 75yrs they are not able to digest that how conservative in India is rising and bringing the old value system ,family system, proud of their ancient history and civilization .The success of Indian Americans is this conservative values but the 2nd &3rd generation are becoming wokes and they no longer able to sustain this ,they will become like average american people in terms of what I have mentioned above

[@AkashSingh-nf5ey]

My father told me to join karate class... He used to ask me daily wheather i will join or not... Once i was telling a story of my school function to my mother... And telling her how a student danced very well ... After listening to that conversation my father started asking me to join dance class

[@shainakhurana2256]

As an only child… I got a lot of attention to a point I used to feel overwhelmed especially as a teenager when you just want to be cool and wild… but now I feel blessed to have such emotionally supportive parents…super close to both mom and dad…and indeed I guess the amount of time you vest in your child does make a whole lot of difference

[@rodneysingh1373]

My daughter tells me things and my son is close to his mom. Indian parents always push for perfection. When our children become successful as parents we are proud. Most of the kids take summer school so they can stay ahead of the other students

[@SJ-qr4eb]

As a child you can think why Indian parents are so strict But when you're an adult watching the society full of mental you realise that you didn't fall into this crazy world because of your parents.

[@elevateinfinity]

yes but some adults still dont get it.

[@ashlarcreatives]

Amen to that!

[@ashlarcreatives]

@@elevateinfinity Amen to that too!!!

[@mitanshu95]

And we'll carry it down to our kids.. and even work on mistakes that our parents made..

[@aryan109a]

Hallelujah man! Well put 👏

[@RameshPatel-ph3ie]

my wife and I both did two jobs to put boys through a private nursery school and later to higher education which has helped us to retire early as both did well in their studies and the boys having seen how hard we both sacrificed our time for them they have always kept in close touch with us

[@bijitgoswami3187]

Read the whole comment section and felt gratitude towards all of our Indian parents. Above all felt gratitude towards our unmatched Bharatia Civilization and its values. No matter how irrational it may seem to the rest of the world but we still believe in our values. Not because our parents told us to but they showed us too.

[@debojyotichakraborty1255]

💯 % true

[@ankitmohapatra22]

its all true Indian parents do sacrifice a lot and we also love our family the whole of it there are good times and bad time but family comes first i left a high paying job to stay at home and work in my own state so i can take care of my mom who was sick at the time

[@ankurbhuarya1383]

Respect+ bro 🙌🏻

[@sanjaychauhan1116]

Whatever he said is true BUT they way liberals /wokes are destroying west (family value ,human values ) and in india our wokes and liberals are doing the same since past 75yrs they are not able to digest that how conservative in India is rising and bringing the old value system ,family system, proud of their ancient history and civilization .The success of Indian Americans is this conservative values but the 2nd &3rd generation are becoming wokes and they no longer able to sustain this ,they will become like average american people in terms of what I have mentioned above

[@Al_Nar_]

Respects bro 🙌

[@kitchenusa]

take not。 key word sacrifice

[@cinemasymbiote]

I'am a lower middle class indian and from my experience most of the things about parents is true. especially sacrificing lives and carrers for their children well being. they support their children till their last moment. family values and relatives stuff is also true. children sometimes might feel parents are being little tough or breaching their freedom. I feel child knows the value of the efforts put by his/her parents into his future well being much later. Also with all this comes expectations and mental disturbance for some people. there's an whole other side to this story.

[@illuminatiON_LINE]

@bishoprook2616 looks like you are being tortured by your parents brother... If you have any problem you can contact your nearest police station too... Haven't seen an Indian having so much hatred for his family...

[@LaughOutLoudLOL7777]

It's not a sacrifice per say... I am women I would let go of careetin second for well being for my child and his growth as a human being

[@cinemasymbiote]

@@LaughOutLoudLOL7777 that's mother greatness but from child's perspective when one becomes adult and if he had seen parents struggling to make tough decisions and finally bet everything beyond their capacity on child's future. At a point he feels everything he has till now is some kind of sacrifice of his parents. somehow he tries to compensate that by making them happy , basically by making them financially stable and stress free. this all comes into picture if you are in low economic and social status. if socio and economic status is solid then these issues might seem alien. atleast in my place I see people going through this and I did too.

[@GurpreetSingh-zj9nh]

Father-daughter and Mother-son relationship is so true.. i have also observed my circle and felt it.. My mother is so close to me that i would even share my crush, girlfriend's details, someone bullying me etc. Parents' experi3nce is generally very useful in dealing with problems that you may not know how to handle gracefully but a female can use masculine energy and male can have a feminine energy guiding them which makes a lot more stable... only time my father stepped in and talked to me was when it was an absolute emergency (a very serious breakup and slipping into a near depression experience) Also, hobbies and creativity go hand in hand with STEM. Many punjabi families insist on learning singing, instruments or dance (maybe all) as it helps grow your brain.. research shows being able to play atleast one instrument help your thinking ability and learning ability as it helps you see a different perspective. Its like being able to think from a different dimension

[@mandeepsinger9583]

Indian father are very kind to their Daughters, It's a true thing you can to any Indian

[@sn5847]

One can pursue passion along with mainstream STEM professional careers. Even thousands of years back, Indian culture never ignored math and science. Indian temples are great examples of STEM skills and art. We know how to maintain a balance. I have two uncles; one is a doctor, another is an engineer, and both are highly acclaimed writers and recipients of the prestigious 'Sahitya Akademi Award (in literature). All my cousins are in STEM while pursuing their passion for music, dance, and theatre. Leading by example, they encouraged me to pursue my passion for painting, and supported me with everything I needed; but not at the cost of mainstream education. I am thankful to them that now I have a steady mainstream career and I am also an artist.

[@sreenivasann6345]

I live in Sweden and I agree with every single word he said, And all of it comes from our upbringing and my parents back then 😊❤

[@kbgamingstudio7573]

It's true my mom is always for me, she is my best friend and beautiful woman in my life and i love my mom, because she understand me and she always support me and care about me more then my father, I love my mom so much ❤😊 and indian father is also careing 😊❤

[@adityasshukla]

13:20 That is true. Most Indian parents (if they can afford) will encourage their kids to try many different things. For instance, I learned to play guitar only because of my dad. He put me to classes forcibly. I also played table tennis thanks to my dad again. That being said, most Indian parents do not view these creative/sports fields as valid career options. They want you to pick up healthy hobbies, mostly for fostering creativity, building essential values and as a good way to chill after work. The academic focus is always on STEM and when time is of the essence, they'd themselves ask the kids to focus more on studies and less on hobbies (even zero!)

[@josekaiser007]

key thing in indian marriages that makes it work is that it's never '' you vs me'' it's always ''us vs the problem '' that is the reason for the low divorce rates

[@FromAsgard1234]

Ya it's true son's are very close to her mother and daughter are very close to his father ❤❤

[@sanjaychauhan1116]

Whatever he said is true BUT they way liberals /wokes are destroying west (family value ,human values ) and in india our wokes and liberals are doing the same since past 75yrs they are not able to digest that how conservative in India is rising and bringing the old value system ,family system, proud of their ancient history and civilization .The success of Indian Americans is this conservative values but the 2nd &3rd generation are becoming wokes and they no longer able to sustain this ,they will become like average american people in terms of what I have mentioned above

[@maitrichheda8601]

As an indian child i am very close to my mom then my friends we talk about everything and they are quiet understanding as well and we study plus we are also encourage to learn other talents that we are good at . Indian parents are happy to compromise or sacrifice for their kids later the kids payhuge respect to their parents for that and it doesn't cost them anything because are values says family comes first ❤

[@pusc_smasher]

Yeah that's true. I can share everything with my mother but scared to share it with dad.

[@sanjaychauhan1116]

Whatever he said is true BUT they way liberals /wokes are destroying west (family value ,human values ) and in india our wokes and liberals are doing the same since past 75yrs they are not able to digest that how conservative in India is rising and bringing the old value system ,family system, proud of their ancient history and civilization .The success of Indian Americans is this conservative values but the 2nd &3rd generation are becoming wokes and they no longer able to sustain this ,they will become like average american people in terms of what I have mentioned above

[@divineangels2102]

Yes. I'm a girl and i can share everything with my dad like literally everything. And i'm a little scared to share with my mom😅. My father is my best friend and the most caring dad ever.

[@rohankumar74]

Strong family roots and cultural values is a important factor

[@ShahPadayachee]

Firstly I am proud of my indian brothers all over the world, and not only in the USA but all over the world, we learn from early age the value ,respect, humanity, discipline and education which is very important our parents installed in us ,saving is important from young age, that's reason the indian diaspora have become progressive and not forgetting our motherland India ❤

[@pankajsharma-pd3ul]

The moment Child is born in Western Countries, saparate room is assigned to Baby....This does not happens in Indians....This is the reason why Child is more attached to parents in India, compared to Child in Western Countries who lacks Kinship, emotionally attached to parents....

[@anindita1405]

indian parents (working or not) make it a routine to tutor their own child every evening. EVERY SINGLE EVENING. we didnot know any other way when i was a child

[@ananyaaa401]

don't tell me y'all got copyrighted for 'the romantics' and won't be reacting anymore😭

[@aniketmansinghka8023]

Yeah 😂

[@parallax936]

no, he said ep 3 will come before monday in yesterday's livestream

[@nabarunguha9565]

I think that's quite likely. Though their reaction to the first two episodes are still on their channel. Generally, in case of copyright strike, they remove the video.

[@shubhamrawat9248]

Thank god😌

[@smilealways6708]

Yes... That's what I am guessing also 🥺

[@Vishv_Deshwal]

This is absolutely true, Indian Fathers treat their sons with a soft corner in heart but tough hand from the outside to make them tought to handle the unexpected things of the world whereas the same father treats his daughter like flower petals, promoting and taking her sides even if she is on the incorrect side. Opposite to that, when father is tough to their sons, mother comes to their rescue. Son feel close to their mother because they can share most of the things to their mothers and hesitate to resiprocate same with their father. So, it is nearly accurate that point

[@murariarvind578]

Yes that is true Mothere are too friendly with son and father's are friendly with daughter

[@sanjaychauhan1116]

Whatever he said is true BUT they way liberals /wokes are destroying west (family value ,human values ) and in india our wokes and liberals are doing the same since past 75yrs they are not able to digest that how conservative in India is rising and bringing the old value system ,family system, proud of their ancient history and civilization .The success of Indian Americans is this conservative values but the 2nd &3rd generation are becoming wokes and they no longer able to sustain this ,they will become like average american people in terms of what I have mentioned above

[@subbiahsivakumar]

Mst important thing is the tremendous power of culture to which they belong...many of their values go back thousands of years

[@statap880]

Bro you think that is sacrifice but we feel amazing for sacrificing for our family.. That is different for you , your happiness gave you pleasure but for us.. smile on our family face gave us that feeling that you cant imagine

[@bijitgoswami3187]

Very nicely said

[@bjbuddy5635]

that's 100% true ,, I have 1 older sis and 1 younger brother and I'm the middle one my mother loves me and I tell her everything and my father loves my older sister,, when she loved with someone she told my father and ask him what she can do then my father talk about this to my mother and that's how it's work ,, that's sounds crazy but we Indians believe happy family means happy life,, you live you're life happy and work hard success will follow you

[@kyubtauji7]

I am 27 and a pilot in India ! My mother is my best friend , I share everything with her ! FOR ME IT'S A FLEX!

[@masti_time619]

Indian father know their daughter and mother know boy's much each other... it's true

[@padrinozerocool]

Also we Indians have strong culture. That's play a big role in how we think, our values. We have deep roots, probably deeper than other races (only Chinese and Japanese can rival us on that).

[@surbhishrivastava90]

In india you will see when ppl are young they do party, travel and sometimes crazy and reckless things but as soon as ppl get kids they first discipline themselves to raise kids properly and it’s because our parents did it for us. We see it as a lifetime obligation to raise a proper child -and yes there is a cost but we have trained for this by seeing our own surrounding and we take is as a life long responsibility and I think that thinking doesn’t let it burden us.. mostly parents do it happily.

[@tarreddy114]

creative is not only arts, they can be creative in STEM

[@nandhiniselvam329]

That's very true indian moms are close to their sons and daughters are close to their father's..

[@vijayanvipin]

Yes, Indian mothers are close to their son and daughter to their father.

[@GauravKumar-c8w9e]

As an Indian guy, I can understand the love and devotion we can give and its upper level I love it beleive it or not but but this culture is different....

[@Elysian80]

I as a daughter was very close to my dad... And my brother confides in my mother... So that sounds quite true. Might differ for others.

[@sithu2256]

Ohh definitely about girls being closer to dad and boys closer to mom. I am so much closer to mom that anything I would share anything to my mom, I would think many times before sharing anything with my dad.

[@samweerahandi4471]

I can appreciate the way Indian families care about their children and stay married. No wonder UK PM is Indian, and before long we might have an Indian president!

[@nitimisphotography]

yes i definitely agree to the point moms and sons are best friends and father and daughters

[@solplay5039]

The father and daughter and son and mother friend part was spot on... I am indian and my best friend is my mother

[@hardybouy]

I am in India, Earning from USA and UK and other west countries and bringing money to India... I am in IT 😅😅 IT wale like karo

[@gauravsharma6323]

Same

[@hardybouy]

@@gauravsharma6323 Kool.. we re officially ethically looting dollars n pounds

[@hamza_dev]

Remote Zindabad.

[@sys9208]

IT labour.

[@Zenox79]

Han bro me v agle saal se lootunga in goro ko hopefully agar campus mil gaya to 🙂

[@varungowda5098]

AS AN INDIAN : WE ARE JACK OF ALL AND MASTER OF SOME. I can confirm point 3 & 5 both are correct. An Indian child excelling in STEM will definitely have some background in dance or music or drama somewhere in school if not at university level.

[@thebillionaire9228]

I can vouch for the lines where he said boy are mother best friend and girl are confide to their dad.

[@Akash_Bardhan7]

12:36 yes that's true. I'm more comfortable to share my secrets & problems with my mother than my papa 😊

[@charlies2359]

It's hard truth as an Indian i confide alot to my mom and as my sister do confide same to father it's pretty normal in India

[@AJAdithya]

i satisfy with 3rd point of parenting its totally satisfies as fathers are closer to daughters and mothers are closer to their sons

[@theeddytor3490]

13:28 yes everything is FOCUS on STEM but most indian parents would still send their kids for swimming, musical instrument class, karate classes, dance classes. what they do is they want you to see STEM as money Point index while other activity as way to love yourself or find inner talent (that parents can show off to other relatives and neighbors 😂) my dad was scared i would get drowned yet i went for swimming for 2 years... my dad NEVER let me go for school trips because there were many cases were kids would die in car crash or kidnapped and lost... still when i turned 15 and on last school trip he let me go jaipur. not to mention he spend over $500 todays currency to by me right suitcase, clothes, clothes for dance performance. he literally spend 1000$ of current time money on that one school trip. he is a tiger parent too but he also saw me punching air so he bought me punching bag 6ft with leather gloves which i STILL HAVE IT and use it. and mind you i am not in america i am in india... i'm just saying the parenthood isn't gonna change that much. and yes boys get closer to their mother more. i mean my mom knows every single girl that i am friends or been bf of.

[@mjordan233]

I can confirm that most of this is true. I hated studying but only did cuz of judgements from extended family and pressure from my own family. That's the same reason I'm doing my masters too right now. But It all led to my own benefit. I am a 25 yr old Making 6 figures, living with my family and Saving 70% of my income by doing so so that I can invest and retire early.

[@yeshwanthsm5298]

I disagree with the creative field. While most parents encourage their kids in India including mine to explore different things when they are in school. it all stops once they are done with high school. Things turn into a sharp left and especially if you're doing academically well, the amount of persuasion you get from your family and relatives to choose either Engineering or medicine is enormous. It was the same in my case too. But, my parents supported my decision to pursue a career in Life Sciences. We or most of us choose careers based on the type of high-paying job we get. Not, because we love studying it.

[@VersatileHindu]

it is very true.. fathers turn boyt to men by being strong and stern with them and pamper their daughters as princess... while mothers pamper their son as prince but she disciplines her daughter....

[@The_champion810]

When divorce rates are low, it indicates greater stability and longevity in marriages, fostering stronger family units and providing a sense of security for children. Low divorce rates also imply reduced emotional and financial burdens associated with the legal process, such as the division of assets, alimony, and child custody battles. Furthermore, low divorce rates contribute to a more cohesive society by promoting social stability as intact families often provide a solid foundation for community... development and support networks. Lastly, lower divorce rates can potentially lead to improved mental and physical health outcomes for individuals, as they may experience less stress and trauma associated with the dissolution of a marriage.

[@jokernews8018]

Jaby you should have known that the Indian boys are very close to their mothers if u look at the movies in India which has done very u will see there is also mother son bond is shown example kgf.

[@yogidhamijakonde]

I’m an Indian parent in the west so I can totally relate to this. Not bcoz I’m lauding all the positives but the points he was mentioning I felt like he was a fly in my house 😅. I can give one example. My daughter wants to be a movie director and wants to join a film school post her high school. So she has taken Drama as an elective subject in the school and she is active part of high-school musical club but she is learning Sci-Tech with Science and technology as major. So that’s a balance and plan A plan B type of arrangement.

[@AmericanAnnachi]

I am happy someone talked about mental happiness! That should be included in the numbers! Success means nothing without happiness!

[@swapnilvaidya3133]

We are deeply rooted to our tradition. We do live with our parents even after marriage bcoz we want them in every decision, in Every phase of life with that they share experience to take good decision in our life.they correct us every steps. Indians first priority is always family..some of the countries are also saying that we are developed but our families are getting distorted with the time.

[@prerna2304]

Say that indian men live with their parents after marriage because women are expected to leave their parents and move to someone's house and treat his parents as her own. So it's not that indians live with parents after marriage, just Indian men who do.

[@swapnilvaidya3133]

@@prerna2304 this is called feminist.

[@illuminatiON_LINE]

@@prerna2304 it happens... But not everyone is the same...nowadays I think indian men don't differentiate between their parents and inlaws... Yeah.. they do love their parents more.. but .. don't mind their inlaws living with them in later half of their life... My maternal grandmother lived with us for sometime...but she wanted to live with her son..The problem is indian mothers are attached to their sons more than their daughters.. so they basically end up with their sons at old age..

[@sairamgangisetty8730]

14:01 indian parents intrinsically want their children to do science math but least of the least it depends on the talent that the child possess in case talent is not found they prefer to join them in the intrinsic way

[@nehaht]

I am an India American. I have always been more close to my dad. He was my best friend, mentor, guide, and confidant. I felt that he understood me more than my mom. So I can relate to the comment that Indian fathers are their daughters’ best friend. My sister had similar equation with my dad. Not sure how this is true on macro-level.

[@manojprajapati167]

Indians ruling the world indirectly.. through their knowledge and skills ..

[@NidhiVeer-q9l]

Its true that in india children go to lot of creative skills classes .But as Syntell said they are supposed to be good at their studies too.And mostly children attend these creative classes up until they are in 12th and usually not after that

[@SC-hp5dn]

I would say Syntell got it spot on ! Most of the things he disagrees with are true. The point made about cost of children's well being is very true so is the divorce one. In most parts of India divorce is still a taboo and people are often scared to leave the security of marriage due to social conditioning. Low divorce rates might not be proofs of happy marriage like Syntell pointed out. About tolerating other religions and castes, well I can only say not all parents are the same. While they never teach to disrespect another culture, race or religion there is always a strong warning given right from childhood about marrying into a different one. The children, due to the naiveté of young age often see it as this other culture is bad, and end up being hostile to different groups among peers. Confiding about secrets to their parents is another point maybe the generation Z might be able to relate with but for us 90's kids it wasn't true at all. In fact most of our parents would miss out on 50% of our lives and experiences because they wouldn't approve of our choices and therefore we would share anything with them.

[@pemadamdul]

Spot on, these videos(not Jaby)are making huge generalized statements to win likes and views. I think the main reason(out of many) that our Indian brothers and sisters are doing better than average Americans because they are cream of the cream at what they do, that's why they are represented pretty much only in one sector. Expats in all around world always earn better than the average citizen of that country. In fact, they should be earning more. Because a white person with the same talent will most likle be paid even better.

[@promitoporonjoy167]

in south asian culture normally puts their kids in a specific study like stem but also normally has something extra curriculum like sports or arts.

[@d.eepak2002]

Papa's Princess and Mummaa,s ..Ladla ( Lovable)..😊😊 very famous concept of Indian society.

[@yushiwal]

You all had a good understanding of most of the parts! Love from India :)

[@ManishPatel-wb5cq]

In India marriage is not of individuals, its saying its marriage of 2 families. Collective family supports in multitasking, care & in times of hardships.. Unlike no bonds its much more better at least have some peoples by your side.

[@Bakaranger2712]

As a Bengali from india I can confirm that parents push their kids to be all rounder….I am from stem background but also dancer as well as painter….most parents atleast in Bengali culture…will push there kids to do creative stuff while maintaining stem background 😅

[@Jesusiscoming38]

I think what he means by nurturing the creative side is supporting the kids ventilate their creative side through art dance music etc while they prioritise solid careers .

[@grandpiano6605]

It is the emotional support the children get them. Every parent is living for their children

[@pschaliha]

That is true…. As the first love of Indian son is their mom and the first hero of Indian daughter is their father.

[@noahmartin1596]

That's why we called girls" papa ki pari" which means daddies princess.

[@Anurag-93]

12:46 yes that was right.for about he's mother was his best friend for a girl her father

[@JustEnjoyPDx]

Yes in India , father cry more than mother when daughters are married off , same as mom's love towards son. Don't get wrong that parents love equal or not equal . It is the fact that both love them equally but something is called an extra over the top attachment. Mom's love their son as their success define the mom's standard and stature in society. Daughter is good valued then father's image is boosted . i guess you might have got that .

[@cksudhir5662]

As Indian what been order from grand parents respect every human every religion also older then you no matter who they are never heart any body feeling believe in karna allways helps those need as much you can leave every great good thing you done for humanity keep secret

[@kenpatel2001]

I am in the US since 1986 and now I am a grand father of two beautiful girls (each son has one). I am kind of semi retired. My son who lives in Denver called us to babysit her daughter while he has to go out. Even this coming weekend, we are primarily going to baby sit while they attend wedding due to 'no kids' allowed policy during the wedding. This time, I asked my younger son to join as well with her daughter and make a family event where girls bond with each others. Who is going pay - I will take a majority chunk but that nothing when it comes to my family. Bottomline, we sacrifice time and money for the sake of family. We teach values and respect to elders. Last weekend my younger son who lives near me left her two year old daughter with me for two days/nights while they were out. This how you attached to them. Also, what I learned that kids may not listen but copy you (like yoga etc) so you figure out what you want them to teach - Lead by example is sure way to succussed.

[@swadeshtaneja3512]

They value children life more than their own.

[@prabhatbajpai5935]

yes that's true we all love our mothers while daughters love the father and vice versa.

[@kaustubhshirpurkar8093]

mothers and sons, Dads to daughters thats absolutely true. and about the extracurricular that is absolutely true I am an Engineer in school i had player valleyball for my state, I love 2D-3D animation(leant some),I use to do B-Boying, I do sketching. Was fond of skating. Now I am working in an Ecommerce giant from almost 6 years, Married recently. LOL thats how multiple things we do you dont have to be best at different things those are hobbies keeps you active, sharp, stress free and helps you focus to your career.!!💖

[@sahidanowar1977]

In india there is concept of mom's boy to show the bond between a mother and her son. other is dad's princess to show bond between father and his daughter. every girl in india love their father more and trying to find same qualities in their life partner while a boy is trying to find same qualities in their partner that is in his mother.

[@hemangitrivedi5403]

Yup . I always can talk to my father easily. To be honest Indian father will choose their daughters over anything and everything. And that’s what even a male child learns in family . To respect female in family like mother and sister and when he becomes dad he also dotes to his daughter.😂😅

[@undertaker5512]

12:42 it is true, that's why they are called Parents, perspective each parent brings is what completes the nourishment of a child

[@spacetime3]

Its not Stem or creative stuff, its common to do have a focus on Stem say, and then growing up you do dance, singing, music, and sports(cricket/hocky/socker). And Yes parents sacrifice for there children and children sacrifice for them too. As 3rd gen brit-indian, i can say most of the positive stats are all due to family/support(each other)/socializing etc I think these things help with stress and mental strength more.

[@businessswot1003]

Sanskar is what makes u perfect

[@noborders4890]

After all this INDIANS have better mental health among all

[@Im-21-]

❤love from India 🇮🇳

[@jimmssv9238]

Listening to Syntel is really great.. he is well read well mannered person..👍👍

[@kgarikapat]

As an Indian Mom I spend most of my time with my kids education,dance practices,Musical sessions from age 7,sports ,Instilling cultural values by being friendly with them,taking to vacations to India on a regular basis just they don't loose connection with ancestors,Family,and relatives.on a daily basis .On every indian visit going to one Holy place is a must so that they know the value of culture.Teaching the Regional language and speaking only regional languages at home (Now a days kids learn languages from dramas in hindi,telugu,tamil etc),rather than English,In a nut shell watching their behavior in a subtle way on adaily basis and when you see changes talk to them about these.

[@yashkhemka]

Its true in my case, I'm able to open up to my mom easier than to my dad. Everything goes through Mom first and then it is eventually relayed to Dad.

[@amruthag7322]

Yes for the context here, usually mothers were not educated so it’s really tough to share our outside real life worries to mother because mom always comes with protective angle on daughters because she is scared of outer dangers so fathers come into rescue to make us stronger and break those rules from mothers and bring a change in our life so girls confide to fathers because they want us to withstand the problems of life and still work and achieve things

[@kanchachina3363]

In India,dads call daughters PAPA KI PARI affectionally(dad's Angel)

[@RajnishMirikar-bq5cv]

yes thats true son tell evrything to mother and daughter tell evrything about her to father☺

[@winstonbachan9661]

I'm west Indian this is the same in Guyana 🇬🇾 Suriname 🇸🇷 Trinidad 🇹🇹 Barbados 🇧🇧 And Jamaica 🇯🇲

[@justcurious40]

STEM vs Art -the focus depends on what is in demand or projection of demand. If sports is becoming big then there are enough people who can make a career out of being a coach or running an academy… it all depends

[@ex-muslimraj8652]

STEM is a field that requires EPIC levels of creativity. And As he said, we are going to study in STEm, but still learn other things.

[@chipblade4181]

Quoting the rare scenarios of individuals being successful without a degree is what has misled the youth in the US. Thats why its important to see the stats, what percentage of successful have a degree vs not.