Why Indian Men Don't Want To Get Married?

[@everysinglelinesmeanssomet3648]

Well said - "The cultural context of the marriage is changing."

[@rockethealth]

🙌

[@DevarajSri]

Or rather indian.society being destroyed by tinder and likes. Only tie2 cities marry.

[@anantharao3573]

What was the default context?

[@dsbdsb6637]

Modern laws don't incentivize marriges.

[@Blah888]

@@rockethealth where did you get 25 percent couple prefer living in relationship data?

[@Salamander0521]

No Marriage, No Wife, No Alimony, No Kids, No child support, No Court cases, No Depression, No Drama = An uncomplicated stress-free happy life.. 😁 😎 😆

[@Rohan_Choudhary5]

For 10-20 minutes pleasure ,how can anyone destroy his/her 23:40 hours of each day of life?...life is so much greater than all these marriage and dramas...

[@prembuddy]

@Rohan_Choudhary5 10 to 20 mins stops after sometime for many men all over world not just india. A woman can say my husband is not satisfying and ask for divorce but most men does not do that as we loss more and from our gen taught respect women for minor troubles.

[@AsterRays7979]

Same for women 🙌

[@RohitOneWho]

Yep there cause but we can handle it its old age But if u earned goood money for 25 yers even save every month 7k U can live comfortably after 50 60 Yep just if u drink dauly and that not gona work But u live normal Even daily eating meat and normal bear is I think good Yep old edge homes are tsking care after 70 80 Belive me u cN not gona 80 Yep Solo living is not that t raly bad i live 3 yers not bluffing but its good Yeo washing clothes and food is bit problem but if im not gona do work In compny its realy good life Now i think why my mother are always energetic to fight

[@Thecannibalfrombeyond]

@@RohitOneWho if you are living in solitude, workout half an hour, eat good, i can assure you that without marriage stress and family stress, your bones will work til 100

[@aryamonmukherjee5303]

Never enter into a contract where the other party benefits from breaking it.

[@sourabhbhattacharya3411]

Agree, women have huge incentives in divorces...

[@ritam2864]

The best comment & one word answer you said ..lol i took ss🤣🤣

[@AjayKumar-e1z4e]

This is looking for 😂

[@kirank777]

Well said. Well said my friend. Indian laws are way too biased in favour of women and now many women are getting a sense of it and exploiting it a lot.

[@MackyMehra]

Well Said

[@PanakaluPoonakam]

Hell NO! My brother got divorced and completely F'ed up his life. And he was an IITB grad and worked at one of the FANG companies - nothing to sneeze. Still he wasn't enough for that woman. After divorce, she turned his daughter against him. Who wants that shit show in their life. Nah! I am just fine without it. My parents who saw my bro don't even ask me to get married. They are just fine me being alone.

[@rarara4111]

@Mysteriousman-b3y As someone said, Law for Women and Lawda for Men.

[@akashgiri7186]

India law के चलते मेरा भी मैरिज करने की इच्छा खत्म हो गई , 😢अगर डाइवोर्स हो गया तो क्या होगा अपनी हड्डी बेच कर भी maintenance and alimony का पैसा देना पड़ेगा

[@rushipatel8908]

can we connect !!

[@ShaalabhK]

​@@rarara4111Lawda judiciary lawda judges lawda kanoon..... Time to leave India

[@TADA00X12]

Don't marry an Educated woman, Find a simple village girl. Feminist will not like this but they're not worth Marrying.

[@hemangshrivastava9561]

i am 38 and unmarried happily. It was best decision of my life.

[@bharatbhushan4243]

I am 38 too. Abhi bhi time hai bhai. Itne bhi budhe nahi ho tum.

[@Bharatiya1907]

​@@bharatbhushan4243why do you want others to fall in a pit. 😅. You are married enjoy your servant life

[@bharatbhushan4243]

@@Bharatiya1907 Welcome to our slave world

[@abheekdas7595]

@@hemangshrivastava9561 me 40 yr. Divorced 4 years bck. Now living peacefully.

[@Rahul-ol9nj]

Now it's okay bro I'm 22 but living single is better than after getting divorce pay the alimony pay the children support needs courts permission to meet them and she's get half of your property this is hell and she can live with a another man and court is Fine with that.

[@aniruddhrao3489]

Few simple reasons 1)Laws being against men 2) Women don’t want to do their part of the work but still expect man to do their job 3) People being extremely selfish and not wanting to adjust to the other person and unwilling to work on the marriage

[@arshrajsingh443]

Finally the worthy answer

[@irose4066]

Many are thinking this generation women works hard than previous generations…..but actually it opposite….my seen my mother and many 40 above aged women in village works so hard to earn money……but this generation just want to sleep in bed and wants all luxuries from husbands salary….

[@abhiksarkar3829]

Absolutely right bro

[@vijyasolanki42]

Add Feminism

[@PracheeKorday]

Women do job + household work + kids + in laws. Men don't even know how to do household work. Men just want free labour + dowry

[@rishikeshwaghunde6347]

Considering the marriage and divorce laws which are so women-centric and gender-biased, marriage has become horror story for men. Women and their families are misusing the laws and blackmail men for alimony and maintenance.

[@sohanmisra5392]

The correct word is gynocentric

[@NoOne-kx7zs]

I decided not to marry. I am in 30s....... and my friends who are career wise way more successful than me..... are either running around divorce courts (Divorces in india are more common than developed country like japan)...or have turned to EMI cattle. Me on other hand have easily travelled multiple countries......and in multiple relationships.Literal Zero Stress😎

[@rushipatel8908]

definitely yes !!

[@Sanjeev1353]

Blackmail men in pretext of marriage by women also a women favouring and women empowerment commission aggresive process of women centric laws judiciary

[@AboveAll604]

Ofcourse.... selfish women always misuse laws and exploit men's expenses... unmarried men are more joyful 🎉 and balance the nature 🌿

[@vikasdhawan3451]

" 3 Cheers to equality " -To marry me, He should earn 3X than me but after marriage i want equality. - I can choose not to work outside, I can choose not to work at home but providing for the family is his duty. - I want my name in our matrimonial home but even if i am working, paying EMI is his liability. - I don't want his family name but I want share in his ancestral property. - I don't want his name in our child's passport but he has to fund our international/national holidays. - I have absolute clarity if my husband has an affair, it is cruelty. If i cheat on my husband it is my body my sexuality. - If wife leaves a husband it will be her new opportunity, If husband leaves a wife he will be shamed by society. - A separated wife always a victim, a separated husband is by default always guilty. Three cheers to equality.

[@dszaiwalla]

Duniya waalon ka dooglapan hain.... double standards hypocrisy

[@singhVarunVikram]

Note that these used to be conditions even by women of older generations but men used to get something in return, typically, youth beauty fertility and chastity. Now you get a 30's or 35+ female, dangling a leg in geriatric pregnancy, youth beauty lost to the career and yet somehow makes herself believe that she can enjoy female privileges when young and then at 40 will enjoy privileges accorded to males at later ages. So she keeps increasing her REQUIREMENTS and decreasing things she provides but is mentally deluded by feminism to thing 'the world' is against her !

[@anirprasadd]

Perfect summation

[@rahuljay5011]

damn

[@Sankkhamkar10]

U forgot high body count of women

[@hertgsesrht3499]

I built my career for 30yrs and then I don't want an emotionally unavailable wife who has been sleeping around with her boyfriends in the name of "Exploring".

[@AjayKumar77.]

Indian men are rejecting marriage, and can anyone truly blame Us? Look beyond the surface, beyond what’s said in this polished video. The real stories, the heartbreak, the betrayal, the fear, they’re all in the comments. Many women today have been with countless s*xual partners and are unable to pair bond, and if a man dares to marry one and later seeks a way out, the price he pays is devastating. He’s pulled into endless, brutal court battles where he’s bled dry, forced to hand over his hard-earned savings in alimony and child support, watching helplessly as his assets are stripped away. His reputation, his future, everything he’s worked his entire life for, gone. And now, with paternity tests illegal, he’s even denied the basic right to know if the child he’s supporting is truly his own flesh and blood. Why should Indian men be forced to play the role of a 'retirement plan' for some girl who spent her best years chasing 'freedom' and ‘empowerment’ while he sacrificed for his future? Why should they risk everything-finances, reputation, peace of mind-to pick up the pieces of choices they never made? It’s not fear of commitment; it’s fear of losing everything. And that fear is real.

[@GauravYadav-mh8jk]

@@AjayKumar77. You summarized perfectly.

[@Deb_deCoder]

this video conveniently hides these real facts.. must have been created by a fem journo 😂

[@Sanjeev1353]

Men physiological societal norms process with emotions men never accepted by majoritarian women empowerment society and women commission laws judiciary and mostly women instinct always search better but never seeks and do best

[@Albert-m3h]

Wait, the paternity test is illegal in India?

[@deusphyllis]

Omg! This sounds like a nightmare!!

[@amazingcalvin]

My friend married a woman against my advice. Then after their daughter was born, she went back to her parent's and refused to let him even see his daughter. She brainwashed the child to hate her father but also ask him nicely enough to get money from him. I told him to divorce her but he refused to listen. Today he is divorced by that same wife and pays both alimony and child support for a child he never sees and a wife who never wanted to marry him. Who knows if that child is even his? I saw all this coming long before they got married. The key is to keep watching what happens in the western countries. Because whatever happens there, will also eventually happen here after a few years. Those few years are the window to protect yourself from the inevitable import of western ideas, especially if they are negative ones.

[@AsterRays7979]

As a girl, i find it disheartening & disgusting 💔. Laws should be gender neutral!! He should get a paternity test, & do indian courts not allow "co-parenting"?

[@amazingcalvin]

@@AsterRays7979 Technically, provisions for co-parenting is there in the law but it's rarely used. Single full custody is always the norm, and most of the time given to the mother by default. And Indian justice system is very inefficient, corrupt and swamped with too many cases that things can take years to be settled, maybe even decades. Citizens can't approach courts in India the way they do in western countries.

[@AsterRays7979]

@@amazingcalvin justice delayed, justice denied!! Our courts really s*ck

[@drago4803]

Sir, what traits that u saw in that woman made u cautious?? And made u advice against marrying her??

[@biratbhowmick7291]

What did u saw in ur Friend's Wife that u recommended him to not Marry her? Pls suggest some Tips & Tricks 🙏

[@nobsguykeepitreal]

The courts have failed the marriage institution in india. It's okay if the wife cheats, you can move on and find someone new. The problem is that she cheats and takes away more than a third of your net worth with her. Even if the kid is not yours, you'll be forced to pay for it. Paternity test is not taken as an evidence of adultery. You are destined to be the ultimate loser despite not doing any wrong. No man who's actually aware of this would ever willingly sign up to be a clown.

[@Gauravkumar-jm4ve]

Indian courts 😢😢😢

[@ShaalabhK]

Lawda judiciary

[@Leo-rd7dt]

It's now the best decision to not get married, atleast the person could live a peaceful life 😅

[@karansharma2352]

@@Leo-rd7dt Well put dear. Try domestic travel - you can do it cheap and you can do it on a premium - all the best.

[@kdblr]

@@nobsguykeepitreal one small correction. Courts interpret laws that are made by parliament. The Guardians and wards act which is basic law that decides custody dates back to 1890. Shared Parenting as default law has been introduced in progressive nations like Denmark and Switzerland. But our parliamentarians foggies refuse to even start that discussion. They are the biggest culprits.

[@sukuvar]

Marriage is waste.. I got married.. and absolutely my wife is so demanding..

[@vijaykumarreddyt3287]

You show your power too, if she shows women prowess. Don't help her easily

[@ObitoUchiha10089]

It feels so good to see so many men feeling the same way 😅 We should form a club and grab a beer someday 😂

[@biratbhowmick7291]

@@sukuvar did u do arranged Marriage? Was she a Gold Digger from Beginning? Was there any Red Flags u Missed?

[@prashantumarkar2969]

I grab it every weekend bcoz I am single😂​@@ObitoUchiha10089

[@madhusreechakraborty7374]

In todays days, men wants to marry unemployed women. Men think these women will be like their mothers, cooking, doing thr household chores etc. The unemplyed women wishes that his husband is a progressive man with no gender bias and so will provide maid, cook, etc. Sometimes such men turn vicious and we see domestic violence cases and sometimes these women are vicious and we see false domestic violence cases. Working women knows what it is to earn even 1 rupee. They are hardly gold diggers. Working women are able to take care of themselves. Working wives = higher income. Most women share the financial burden when they see men sharing the household burden too. Expense becomes 50:50, household chores become 50:50. When the wives are working you are not expected to pay alimony after divorce, also if ur wife earns more than you, you get the alimony. But then again such households doea not see DV or false DV cases. Most divorces here are amicable and friendly. Cz both parties hold on to their self respect.

[@OrwellsHousecat]

Dogs live much longer than marriages

[@yadd13]

Dogs? Try hamster 😂

[@kirannemane2665]

​@@yadd13😂😂😂

[@Himanshu-kd3ml]

​​@@yadd13 My neighbour's marriage didn't even last longer than my semester exams

[@BatMan-vw2mc]

A dog passing away will leave an irreparable hole in one's heart. Wife running away with alimony will also leave you sad but for all the wrong reasons

[@nikhilsrivastava4172]

I have been married for 5 years now and I tell you with my pure heart. It's been a trauma for me. Never felt happy in the relationship and now courts are involved. Extremely difficult time.

[@anujadi8366]

​@Mysteriousman-b3y Good question bro🎉

[@nikhilsrivastava4172]

*False accusations, questions on my character, abuses my family, small fights led to years of no talking, never cared for anything.* Things I shared with her in confidence (money/property) all declared in public. Can't explain what I felt when I got to know all these false allegations.

[@Crymeareva]

Bhai kaash me aapki madad kr paata, but i hope you stay healthy both physically and mentally. Accha hoga ki aap doston ke sath rho, achi company me rho, Modi ji naari jaati ko jitna radically forward kr rhe usse lagra aage aadmio ko aur dikkat hone wali hai​@@nikhilsrivastava4172

[@youarelife3437]

My friend did the mistake like you. I still feel like slapping him because I told him not to increase his trouble. But he went on with it and now complains all the time.

[@vicky2rap]

@@nikhilsrivastava4172 it mean her mom runs her life and spoils your life . Indian women the cheapest creatures on earth

[@aayushdhall4067]

1. Law is against MEN 2. Women dont wanna cook & clean anymore 3. Alot of people have multiple partners in past - always comparing and looking for something better 4. Materialism and big egos

[@nareshkumar3526]

Exactly

[@Shelly-Manifest]

I thought most people have maids.

[@aayushdhall4067]

Yes alot of people have maids, but usually we expect women to be nurturing and take care of our needs, to be the annapurna of our home. Maid se bhi kaam karwana padhta h, its about responsibility which acc to modern standards women are not taking because they have also been raised the same way as men. Women are taught what to expect from a man but not how to treat a man. Men are taught how to treat a woman, but if we expect we become orthodox/patriarchal etc Sadly we are unable to find balance.

[@pawankumarrao638]

TQ God at last I found one gem 💎

[@aayushdhall4067]

@@Shelly-Manifest also most of india doesnt have maids, even if they do , ye galat mentality ban gyi h ki maid hee cook and clean karti hai. Isliye ladkiyo ko ghar sambhalna maid banna lagne lag gya hai.

[@kdblr]

Right trend. Happy they are taking the right decisions despite not having faced 489A and women centric custody laws.

[@gonnacry4513]

We may have not faced such things, but we have seen others face this

[@itsakingfisher4354]

Still some foolish men are getting married

[@bdl1-i1f]

Stay away from woman.. don't give to much importance.

[@anakein]

Exactly. The reason I chose to go the solo way. Besides, being single doesn't mean being alone.

[@krishnakoushik7920]

@@gonnacry4513so as per ur logic in ur route u have witnessed a road accident instead of going cautiously u will just skip the route and never go to ur destination right?..

[@pinxtownington4645]

My son's answer was i have dated five educated inteligent young indian girls but they seem to carry baggage, they are all Princesses

[@youarelife3437]

He's right. Everyone carries baggage. You wont find a single person without baggage because the whole world has been through countless traumas in the past and 2 world wars. Traumas and mental diseases also get handed down to the newer generations.

[@Dipsie-mg2hf]

Just make sure his idea of someone with no baggage is realistic. Given the world we live in, it's unlikely that there is anyone with absolutely no baggage at all. Society is broken at large.

[@sannjd]

I highly doubt those girls are intelligent in the true sense of the word if they feel like they are princesses. This whole princess psychology is neurosis and degeneracy in itself. I am very sure your son is right about baggages as well. A lot of today's girls carry enormous amount of toxic expectations in themselves. They just want to dump that on their partner and expect their partners to fix them. That's irresponsible of them. I think your son is intelligent for sure not those girls so much.

[@JusticeAboveAll-ro3sm]

That's why you should marry young. But, then, who will fulfill expectations and achieve medals? Modern life values achievements and not happiness.

[@VishalSingh-gh7qz]

"Educated" There's your answer !

[@gauravdas5302]

My neighbour's wife divorced him after 8 months because her ex bf came back to her life. He lost property, alimony, got into depression and lost any hope of getting married ever again. There is absolutely no benefit in getting married for a man in 2024, just keep a girlfriend for lifetime or if she pushes for marraige get another one. The entire system, law and society is against us.

[@thestoryteller24-q1z]

keep a girlfriend for a long time, if she asks for marriage and you push away, she can literally file a case against you and you will find yourself in prison for next ten years and this is how Indian law works.

[@manjunathmnm]

​@@thestoryteller24-q1z 😂

[@Lilomen_AD]

​@@thestoryteller24-q1z nah bns 69 is upheld by sc. It not in effect.

[@satyaambler]

Ever heard of BNS section 69 ? Girlfriend can send a man to jail for 10 years for breaks up💔😭 .

[@Joebiiden]

Don't get a girlfriend. When girlfriend ask for marriage and avoiding her for that... Is fatherless behaviour. It's good not to have a girlfriend and pay call girls for your needs in bed

[@karanyadav-dm6fb]

Right now, I’m 34, but I gave up on the idea of marriage a long time ago. Finding the right person felt like an impossible quest, so I chose to let it go. Instead of dwelling on it, I shifted my energy toward building a successful career and creating wealth. It’s a decision I’m proud of, with no regrets, as I focus on crafting a life that truly fulfills me.

[@sum5687]

India​@@AlaaNasinza

[@karanyadav-dm6fb]

@AlaaNasinza India

[@AsterRays7979]

Sahi h!!! As a girl, i support you bhaiya. It's so hard to find a suitable person today. Or Ghar se hamesha pressure rhta h shadi ka, aise ki agr meri doli nhi uthi to arthi uthegi

[@suchetabasak6825]

Hey.. I am almost 35 years old. Never got married and 2 long relationships have made me realise that we are in the battle of sexes. It has become men vs women rather than man and woman. Everyone having unrealistic expectations and not being adaptable to this fast changing world is already a challenge that is hard enough to suck your soul. We are all soulless here. Being alone atleast gives you a little sense of control which is so refreshing.

[@akshayl3694]

​@@suchetabasak6825Gender hating is at peak right now. So many unsuccessful marriages in recent times.

[@PKorp-PriyankaKalyan]

It’s not “Indians don’t wanna marry”, its about “Indians are becoming conscious of their choices”.

[@OrdinaryMan24]

true said

[@SPQR-uz4ld]

Its not conscious dear, men are getting awarihow lunatic a woman can be and how the system is hostile and rigged against men.

[@r1a933]

I don't believe in marriage bcz of one sided marriage laws. Also with the average 20k salary, it's good to be alone and happy

[@Sab_ka_baap_007]

Bhai with 20k salary your just alone and broke.

[@SahilSethiKing]

20k main tension naa lei koi nahi aane vali

[@wowser2153]

@@Sab_ka_baap_007he should marry a working woman

[@rajeevjaiswal1955]

​@@wowser2153 being alone is far better than being (u(k to women sleeping with rich bosses. It's not true for majority of Indian women, but its where it is going bcoz courts are supporting the idea of women using you financially and then moving on to other relationships. Good luck to you for such a life.

[@Siren1234-i6d]

​@@wowser2153 Why would a working woman want him? Unless he's capable of doing love marriage where a girl might compromise.

[@BHEESM]

1.My body my choice 2. Article 498A 3. Cheating/ adultery 4.always complain/ pseudo feminism

[@Alien-_-ゝ]

why is point 1 wrong?

[@InvocationMaster]

@@Alien-_-ゝ "my money my choice" is this wrong?

[@thirupathijuttu436]

This is how fake faminism works in India.

[@PriyabPati]

@@InvocationMaster yes it is bcoz money given bcoz of service and from a long time women are giving free services like giving birth , changing her name , raising his children , cooking , cleaning etc etc they should be given money..

[@selonphilesparrow]

My money my choice Me theka liya hu खिलाने का ​@@Alien-_-ゝ

[@KarthikBharathi]

if they legally recognise prenup agreements in India, then more men will be interested in marriage

[@dannyshett]

I'm 54 still unmarried but I'm living happy life. Marries is unnecessaries if you can't find partner of your choice or matching charecters. Single life is hundred times betterthan unhappy marriage. I don't care if society or parents presuure youto get married. It's your life and your own responsibility. Marriage is gamble of life not a match made in heaven

[@abhijeetpanda2765]

Smart....🫡🫡🫡

[@ronitsharma1414]

great thing sir

[@Secularismkasecurityguard]

1. many guys feels they can't live up to expectations of today's girl in marriage 2. many prefer girl with no past ( no rlshp/ virgin ) 3. girls and their families prefer a boy who is better financially than them ( in an env favoring women hiring and promotion in corporates many men are simply not eligible fo rhtis criteria ) 4. boys are not that confident that a girl will stay with them for life ( through job losses/ economic problems/ health problems/ taking care of parents ) 5. many boys come from household who live in rented houses with parents, girls want separate and own houses 6. cheating, extra marital affairs, hookup culture so normalized that for boys its too risky 7. add to this the horrible stories of divorce cases, estrangement from children, DV cases against entire family, false dowry cases. Why should boys take the risk ? for girls to have all the fun.

[@abhisheksoni303]

And marrying a non virgin girl is risky because of emotional baggage and pair bonding...

[@Lilomen_AD]

​@@abhisheksoni303 non virgin is still better than a girl with multiple body counts because that woman if she is not selfish will take care of you in your downfall until you rise again.

[@aiquantum9]

i have seen many girls families who fcked up their daughters life just to fine better guy in finance . they could find simple guy with normal earning but for sake of social status they wanted to give daughter to rich guy .

[@aiquantum9]

as a man i only fear about law and police ... i fcking dont care if marriage will stay or she will cheat...as man you are not allowed to complain ...only hurdle here is law ...bc kuch upar neeche hua to as husband mere he L lag jayenge kuch na kiya ho fir bhi

[@VishalSingh-gh7qz]

​@@aiquantum9 why is it that you don't care about those things ?

[@shinchanninja]

Discriminatory divorce and alimony laws are the real reason why indian men are avoiding marriage. Police, lawyers and judges all have their cut from the alimony amount. Thats why divorce is being encouraged by the legal system. Whatever a counteys govt encourages is bound to increase.

[@RandomThot]

Marriage was always discriminatory - Just that now it is tilting heavily on other gender's favor which is absolutely opposite to what Indian society is use to !!

[@abhisheksoni303]

50 percent is looted in the name of tax, inflation and corruption...

[@ankitjain4377]

36 still single, after reading comments it seems horrible to get married.Better delay...and see what's God plan for me

[@anujrana7707]

Not getting married isn't that bad too, good luck friend!

[@AlaaNasinza]

Men of this generation,are full of lies i rather be single than wasting my time on them

[@ankitjain4377]

​@@anujrana7707 yes you are right, career is not set 😔 it will bring troubles

[@biratbhowmick7291]

​@@ankitjain4377will u Marry a Girl of ur Age? She won't be a Virgxx....would u Mind to Accept that?

[@Mr.Eminem]

​@@ankitjain4377 carrer and money should be main priority ..if u not stable don't bring marriage in ur life

[@paramjitsingh-uk9fl]

Never marry city girl, go for a traditional girl in the village, this is your best chance

[@Dhruva213]

Dream on... what goas on in villages will steal your night sleep.

[@paramjitsingh-uk9fl]

depends on the upbringing of the girl, I married a virgin 20 years ago like my relatives.

[@paramjitsingh-uk9fl]

Odds of finding someone genuine is better than the city

[@Lilomen_AD]

Village girl are way more dangerous than city.

[@aavlogsusa]

Never marry traditional girl

[@markuslandington2593]

Indian men know very well how easy it is to stay within the Brahmacharya ashram, bypass Grihasta ashram and then jump directly to Sannyasa ashram at retirement - this is the new age trend in Kali Yuga. Scripture didn't say men have to experience all 4 ashrams in sequence.

[@gonnacry4513]

Yes

[@tradingwizard562]

😂 , but men experience huk up nowdays . No Brahmachari , nothing .

[@Tony19997]

​@@tradingwizard562 what's problem.

[@terranowa2080]

Marriage is a huge responsibility, I'm 40, never married, and never will. I sleep with pretty women. i have the choice.

[@MarkStuart-qe5jc]

@terranowa2080, bro i want to talk with u about ur life ,im curious 😂, to know more

[@gonnacry4513]

How do you sleep with women? Prostitution?

[@BroZedd1]

oof bro

[@akhilbansal5507]

I need that life 👍

[@biratbhowmick7291]

🎉🎉🎉

[@scorpio9414]

Not wanting to Marry coz thats how i am and Scared of marriage due to biased laws are two diff things we need to focus on latter.

[@hiphopsaikrishna09]

I'm 29 And Single By Choice Bcz I suffered a lot after my Father Passed Away At my Age of 16 😞 Now I am totally Exhausted With Life,Just Living For My Mom and Dreams....❤

[@aiquantum9]

marriage is ritual created by society ..just earn money and enjoy life with mom ...i respect you for this

[@vijyasolanki42]

Damn bro

[@SuryaAshte]

Anything in excess is always bad. High cost of living, increasing inflation, unrealistic expectations from their partners without extra effort, raising kids in a volatile and risky world, etc

[@rockethealth]

🙌

[@popimelanoo6103]

#Tangping #lyingflat

[@riscnx]

dude Atul Subhash made 70LPAish. "cost of living, increasing inflation" wasn't a matter for him. He is victim of of prickry that mom of 90s born girls have done.

[@Warezzfan]

Getting married is not a problem, the problem is about finding a good partner to build a great relationship

[@rockethealth]

🙌

[@AlaaNasinza]

This point am with you ❤

[@sandipanaich]

With the cost of everything rising, it is difficult to have a family. With children, middle class men/women almost give up their lives to make ends meet. Add cherry to the cake, home assignments from schools do not really help. At least the wife has a husband to vent her frustrations, the man only has the bathroom to go.

[@rockethealth]

🫂

[@roninyeagerist4152]

Dude.so well written.

[@shivkapoor3302]

yes

[@popimelanoo6103]

Ive been in a situation which made my mind clear not to marry SCENE : My manager bashes me disrespectfully in front of everyone...i sent it back right to his face and told the senior manager to sack me off and idc of this job Would I be able to do the same if I was bound with the responsibilities as mentioned by the main comment?

[@rajpatel8988]

@@popimelanoo6103kids is were most loose that pride. No kids no pressure

[@nareshkumar3526]

Because modern feminist women doesn't want to take responsibilities of Sasural after marriage.

[@Shelly-Manifest]

I dont wanna liv with someones parents

[@mrimperfect6555]

@@Shelly-Manifest wish your brother's wife says the same thing and leaves your a****** parents alone

[@Day-je4um]

Did your mother also did the same ..? Just curious​@@Shelly-Manifest

[@thecontrarycontrarian4230]

​@@Shelly-Manifestwom en like you are the reason why men are afraid of marriage. Femin ism and it's laws

[@saumisardar4932]

​@@Day-je4um ma ke sath agar domestic violence hua hai to u bhi apne sath same kam kare, Truman pass mat karo, tum apni sas, sasur ke sath rahoge

[@pviveknair]

You just have to ask, "What does the person get out of the said situation?". You will have a long list of positives for the woman and if it does not work she can just get a divorce and take all the money as well. So, if the marriage succeeds, the woman get to enjoy and if the marriage fails, the man is punished. Any unfair system will be forced to recalibrate.

[@shivkapoor3302]

precisely

[@aditya_91196]

80% of indian women are interested in only 2% of indian men. Im scared of marriage because of hookups shit cultur . You cand find a real loveable women in these-days. 😞😞😞😞

[@rockethealth]

🙌🫂

[@vishaldas5758]

Where are you getting those figures from??

[@RahulShinde-wk2yv]

​​@@vishaldas5758andrew tate ? he started men empowerment

[@gonnacry4513]

​@@RahulShinde-wk2yvHe didn't start it. It has been going on since decades in other countries. He just made it go mainstream with his radical views.

[@blank4381]

@@RahulShinde-wk2yvhookup and all that is still not into Indians,may be you are looking at just the 2% or else you are a foreigner.

[@whatsnxt9144]

In next 5 years the birthrate is going to dip big time. People don;t want to get married and married people don;t want to have babies

[@OrwellsHousecat]

✅

[@dejocourt]

it is going to be a islamic majority country in next 20- 30 years.😊

[@rajpatel8988]

@@dejocourt or most likely Indians

[@prakashsinghgautam145]

​@@dejocourtyes, they have their own muslim personal law and not bounded by these hindu marriage acts or succession acts 😂

[@neet_preparation685]

​@@dejocourtso be it then. Stop your nonsense even muslim womens are lodging false 498a on their husbands.

[@XavierList]

Look for these red flags : 1. Narcissistic Personality (EGO, Grandeur) 2. Less flexibility 3. Manipulative or Controlling Behaviour 4. Dishonesty or Lack of Accountability 5. Unrealistic expectations 6. Lack of Empathy or Apathy 7. Compulsive behaviors and Substance abuse 8. Observe how they treat her family members and others, because she will treat you the same way she does for them.

[@VigneshD25]

29.. Like pressure is off the roof.. I seriously gave consideration to get married and find my life partner but looking at expecations form other side in an arranged marriage setup where love isn't even a thing, I think I lost the interest to get married. I feel being single is the best.

[@blank4381]

Only till you hit 40s and you have to keep calling up to join events or make appointments to have fun.

[@SavageShaunak]

@@blank4381 there are plenty of solo travel groups and also one can have hobbies that doesn't require another person to enjoy. Most men don't really need another person to enjoy life, coz we are not wired to seek attention, nor are we pampered or simped over throughout our lives. Most men have lived their lives without special attention and hence developed hobbies to stay happy and entertained even without a partner, no reason these change when you turn 40 as long as you stay fit.

[@rahul0898]

Don't listen to this kid you will feel lonely but you have to keep girl for fun thats it give money 👍🏻

[@apoorrvgupta1658]

Why is Responsibility only a Man’s Responsibility?

[@funny-hg9wl]

Society😢

[@aiquantum9]

aray bc jo karna hai karo life ...sare rules samaj ne he banaye hai ...bus aisa kaam mat karo jisme jail jana padega ...baki jo karna karo mai to bhikhari se bhi utna he respect karta hu jitna amir ka ...for me all are equal except barbaric criminals

[@VishalSingh-gh7qz]

This is how civilizations and societies have always been. Not just ours, but across the world.

[@apoorrvgupta1658]

@@VishalSingh-gh7qzYou Answered it : That’s how societies ALWAYS HAVE BEEN. Before only Men were the Breadwinners. Now Both Genders work in Current Economies. Either its Time for a Change in the Family Dynamics or The Family System would Gradually Disappear. Though the latter is inevitable because Biologically we r wired to live as We have ALWAYS in societies.

[@VishalSingh-gh7qz]

@@apoorrvgupta1658 Weak, feminized societies will surely disappear.

[@betruthful5162]

Look at the Prime Minister, he himself has left his wife. Then why not the youngster .

[@turbofan9522]

Sab uski tarah namard nhi.

[@agrawalgeorgia6370]

If he had stayed in marriage, he would be a improvished still tea seller.

[@aavlogsusa]

😂😂😂😂😂

[@aavlogsusa]

​@agrawalgeorgia6370. 😂😂😂😂❤❤

[@VishalSingh-gh7qz]

And why is one supposed to follow the example of a politician?

[@spiritwarden9769]

Marriage is not for someone who wants peace.

[@patrunidileep4802]

Nobody is talking about job security Inflation , future uncertainty What the fuck are they even talking

[@bestelevated]

it is a valid point too, because no marriage means chaos in future

[@patrunidileep4802]

@bestelevated it is also valid point no job no future don't need to think about marriage

[@NoOne-kx7zs]

cos that's not the main issue....main issue are ultra biased marriage laws. If a man gets divorced in india..he will never recover from it.

[@Gauravkumar-jm4ve]

That's not a major issue, if u r skilled capable no one is going to stop u from getting jobs in private sector But the main reasons are horrible women centric divorce laws, where men can't defend themselves

[@rockethealth]

🙌

[@eddy5985]

India has had a rich tradition of Brahmacharya (Celibate Monkhood) for a reason. I believe a large section of men should take this path considering the current situation of our society, especially regarding heterosexual marriages. Stop chasing toxic women in the hope of getting love and intimacy.

[@vidhansahu]

Toh fir 3 kids wala rss ka formula kaise kaam karega hindus ki population khatam hojaayegi 😂😂 hindu ladkiya toh waise hi Abdul ke pyaar mein pagal hain

[@rajpatel8988]

Mgtow already a thing. Catch up

[@pratik6342]

I am taking the path :)

[@anirprasadd]

Even average to below average women want a man who is tall, earns a very high salary, has own house, and others. Meanwhile the women wouldn't even be average looking and have average jobs earning 30k - 40k

[@wowser2153]

@@anirprasadd some women don’t have any job , BA pass , lower middle class family but want rich handsome husband

[@biratbhowmick7291]

U forgot Past Physical Relationships

[@ginyouforce616]

@@anirprasadd this a really big problem. The tantrums they throw are not commensurate with what they bring to the table.

[@VishalSingh-gh7qz]

​@@biratbhowmick7291 Modernity. Bad parenting. Absence of values. Shameful!

[@BREAKBALLYT]

If APJ and TATA can survive why can't we

[@shubhamghanekar8881]

Good one bro❤

[@youarelife3437]

I was clear about not marrying since childhood. I never understood the obsession with marriage in this country. In movies, stories, songs. Understanding people now as a grown up, it's even more reason to not.

[@ankurkumarleoleo]

Humans will not be born if marriages stop like in japan .. what u have to say on that ?

[@praveenmalakar8396]

I am a 35 year old man and have convinced my parents to never let me get married... I am fond of playing violin and singing, after finishing my 8 hour job I sing songs with my friends! And I feel God has given me a very good life which I do not want to spoil with anyone!

[@rahooblack]

What garbage? Why these people are not speaking truth? Seems like some softies are being interviewed. Talk about those extreme cases where men's lives have been ruined because of marriage. Loyalty is a thing of past. Men should focus on their career, make money and just have peace at home.

[@rahooblack]

this is a red flag. hear that girl talking in this video "sense of security" she wants that legal shield for herself so that there are only consequences for the man who she marries

[@VishalSingh-gh7qz]

Or may be men should accept Islam and marry four wives as per Sharia.

[@AntonNilakson]

I got married at 27, now im 30, marriage going well, no depression, just happy amd normal life. I guess people have commitment issue and just dont want to take responsibility. I feel marriage creates a character development and gives a meaning to your life

[@SuganthanHarmless]

I certainly agree, people here are generally optimistic about their career but when it comes to marriage, they are pessimistic about quoting negative experiences. Road accidents happen, does that mean we stop travelling on bikes and cars? Marriage certainly is a big responsibility and sacrifice for the good of the family. I'm happily married, at least mostly. And I'm very much satisfied. I am honest to say we have had big fights but we have never ever given upon each other or turned our backs doing ugly things and we never will. The hope and trust are something we build over days along with the selfless love for the family, the marriage will last. I wish everybody all the success.

[@drago4803]

One positive comment❤❤

[@remora8829]

exceptions don't disprove the rule. few exceptions to a rule don't make the rule wrong

[@SavageShaunak]

this is only true if you get the right partner. Don't get me wrong but 3 years is too short a time to know if your partner is the right person. Often, initial 5-10 years after marriage are fun and free of drama. Things start getting complicated afterwards. Even then, if the person you choose is right, it can be a beautiful thing. But one can never know whether they're choosing the right person during time of marriage. Even many love marriages turn to divorce nowadays. You can say, without taking risk, how can one progress in life? But marriage is not a "progress" - it's a choice of life. Also high risk usually comes with high returns, but in this case, the returns are often not that great for guys unless someone is craving companionship or gets depressed due to loneliness (physical intimacy dies out for most couples 10 years down the line, sometimes even sooner). If a guy is happy alone and has enough hobbies to keep himself entertained, he has no reason to risk half his net worth over a woman who may not even respect him after a point. Should he be open to marriage? Sure, a good woman can actually make him 2-3x better in every way. But should he get pressured or forced into marriage even when he hasn't got the perfect match? I wouldn't recommend so.

[@anakein]

@@SuganthanHarmless Road accidents do happen. So you've doctors and hospitals. And emergency departments. And people end up getting married to evil people with ulterior motives. And you should have a functioning, unbiased and just legal system to address that, when/if things go south on you, when the proverbial sh!t hits the fan. But that's not the case with a staggeringly anti-male judiciary/legal system that is determined to break you, exploit you further, and profit off of your misfortune, while uplifting the wicked that they are in bed with. Just because you're one of the few lucky ones in this messy chaos of a world that got to walk away with the goodies of life doesn't mean others need not be warned of everything that would most likely go wrong should they choose to play with fire!

[@DawnJastremski]

I hit $113k today. Thank you for all the knowledge and nuggets you had thrown my way over the last months. Started last month 2024. Financial education is indeed required for more than 70% of the society in the country as very few are literate on the subject.

[@ChristopherWilliams-wi7xh]

wow this awesome 👏 I'm 37 and have been looking for ways to be successful, please how??

[@DawnJastremski]

It's essential for you to have a mentor to keep you accountable. Myself, I'm guided by Evelyn Vera. for years and highly recommend her I focus on him. To be honest, I almost didn't buy the idea of letting someone handle growing my finance, but so glad I did.

[@echaimnadnaddvc]

I would really love to know how much work you did put in to get to this stage.

[@DennisValdez-t1p]

Wow! wow! please is there any way to reach her services?

[@DawnJastremski]

Sure!!..I have her WhatsApp digits

[@narendraskudlur]

Im 38 and a happy single Bachelor se ek like to banta hai ji 👍

[@abhisheksainani]

Those who say marriage is a challenging responsibility must be joking because they clearly haven't experienced challenges of Parenting. Even healthy cheerful children are a challenge for initial few years.

[@extras6604]

What if that's not your children? Even though you know, after some time you may think that child has nothing to do, but everytime you see that child only your wife's betrayal comes to mind while she happily enjoying all rights and nights daily with whoever she wants. Even all capable DNA test is not taken as proof by our Honarable lndian courts and so called Honourable laws. That's the reality today bro.

[@lookintoit4537]

1. Marriage is expensive. Ending a marriage is even more expensive. 2. I think there should be very open discussions about what marriage means, personally, socially and legally. 3. All those moronic movies, scowling uncles, giggling aunties, raging feminists and trolling woman-haters make things very confusing. 4. Older generation should be more open to live-in relationships. Younger generation should take relationships a bit more seriously and learn to adjust a bit. A couple of years of living together before marriage helps build confidence between partners. 5. Let laws meant to protect under-privileged women protect under privileged women. Women who are as educated and earn as much as their male counterparts dont need mollycoddling. 34 yr old man with no intention of getting married. Fortunately, my parents are cool with it.

[@aiquantum9]

bro in india ....you will be jailed in living relationships also ...she can put false cases of abuses on you ....present day biggest monster is law and judiciary in india.

[@Jetha-Lol]

As for men: Other reasons are Girls taking advantages of laws which favoring them, So many cheats post marriage and if the husband gets angry (which is an obvious reaction), if he doesn't do something, she continues, and if he does (I don't support physical abuse), he has to face the law and giveaway senseless amounts of alimony. We have understood that many women are not loyal. So, the efforts don't mean anything. 2nd is family ego clashes

[@biratbhowmick7291]

What is Family Ego Clash?

[@abhisheksoni303]

And 80% are not even virgin and comes with emotional baggage and bonding issues...

[@InvocationMaster]

hit.man just a call away

[@nanditasen94]

The laws which exist because of the decades long torture and violence faced by women BECAUSE of men ? .. Well surprise Patriarchy screwed you up as well didn't it

[@marecare77]

When parents preassure you to marry, get a binding document that they are willing to cover your possible divorce costs...they want you to marry 4 their image but if a divorce comes, you deal with it.

[@VishalSingh-gh7qz]

That's not how it happens in India. Or anywhere else other than the West.

[@Harish-ou4dy]

modern laws incentives women to take divorce via frivolous complaints. this disentivises men from marrying. why would any sane person get tied to laws which are intentionally righed against them. I am 100% sure maker of video came across this point while researching the video. and chose to skip this part from showing in video. understandable from side of a woman.

[@agrawalgeorgia6370]

In the West, there is two old famous sayings: Dog is mans best friend. Diamond is girl best friend. The Dog analogy is meant to mean that Man values Loyality and Friendship most above all. The diamond analogy is that Girl values Money over everything. So, married man expects from and gives loyalty and friendship to his wife. The married wife loyalty is only to Diamond type wealth. In South Asia, the Diamond is replaced by Gold. The reason western girl demands expensive Diamond engagement and marriage ring is that it is large money that is easily transportable when abandoning the husband for a chad.

[@herjitpannu2282]

Perfectly said. Just perfect. Women are cunts and never to be trusted. I agree.

[@ancientgamer3090]

i'll remember that

[@AnonymousG2325]

M 28 years being man is not a joke 🙂💔we have to do something or anything to get money then only we got respect and love from families friends and society which is very depressing 🙂💔and thinking about getting married is more depressing 😑😴

[@sarkar5325]

i am 30 and still single and i am very happy being the same i dont want or need any partner to fulfill me i had some pretty hard bad phases in my life and still ongoing no matter how hard i tried or how much of my best i try to give people always judge you ny their way of perception they dont even give a damn about whats happening with you judging somebody is way to easier than being in their position and understanding them these days there are no love no compassion no respect nothing people are so pathetically egoistic worst mentality worst behaviour and character so maybe i dont have a female in my life but atleast i am way much happier and in peace than any other average couple out there there is a huge difference in seeing a happy couple and their actual reality the grass is always greener on the other side

[@VSSC1992]

Here's the problem You stay together -You pay She leaves- You pay you leave - you pay

[@pratik6342]

😂

[@whatpraveen]

Nailed it

[@rikysingh_8800]

Im 35, waiting for pr in abroad,(Europe) settled, unmarried.

[@hiteshagarwal8833]

congrats...not all are lucky

[@aiquantum9]

dont marry a girl for beauty ...keep this in mind ...

[@rikysingh_8800]

@@hiteshagarwal8833 I know bro😓

[@pratik6342]

what's pr?

[@rikysingh_8800]

@@pratik6342 Permanent Residency Card or Citizenship.

[@ginyouforce616]

I think because of our outdated culture we have created an environment where demand exists but supply has been greatly restricted.This has artificially overinflated the value of women in the marriage market wherein men are being forced to buy an inferior product worth 2Rs for 20Rs(earn a very high package or visa).So, we are not getting what we deserve.

[@Risharishh]

Women r no product

[@Crymeareva]

Actually the opposite is true. Its modern marriage laws made by woke politicians which is to blame for demise of marriage system and gynocentric laws for hyperinflated egos of females. USA doesn't have so called Outdated culture, its a pretty new civilization yet so F up . India would've been a much better place if it was left to Cultural nurturing. Woke laws are problem, Culture actually keeps females in Check

[@aadisankararun8633]

why do you think ours is an outdated culture though ??

[@wowser2153]

@@aadisankararun8633 he is talking about female feticide that had caused a shortage of girls

[@biratbhowmick7291]

​@@wowser2153west didn't Faced Feticide.....Where Men are also Suffering. The main Problem is Wokism & Feminism.

[@newgodxOmega]

Its better to be single its safe its peaceful its financially safe I am extreme mgtow no sex for life not helping women in survival situation I want to feel safe

[@DaveSustain]

Most people experience bad relationships and give up on marrying someone. Also people have become extremely impatient, they don't choose to work on things if they go wrong slightly, why work on something when the next person is a swipe away. Content on social media is extremely polarising, your partner has to be perfect, if he/she has x quality it's a red flag, they're a narcissist etc. Therapy speak has been weaponised and we have non-certified psychology content creators/dating coaches/red pill culture/'feminists' spewing venom, creating doubts in the minds of people about their partners, destroying relationships. Not getting married makes a whole lot of sense.

[@ancientgamer3090]

very accurate..its rare to see someone who truly sees the big picture and says it like he sees it. its almost impossible to completely ignore the informationn as well, as some are factual.

[@thilakkumar2181]

Control your desires Then live life on your own terms

[@kevinsam9278]

Previousy, marriage was considered "holy" and a means to continue a legitimate blooodline. Now its just another contract which currently has noo benefits for men (thanks to the justice system), So over the course of time this establishment will fail,

[@VishalSingh-gh7qz]

Actually, the society/civilization which believes that marriage is just a contract - will eventually be replaced by a stronger assertive society/civilization.

[@BadBoy-hy9do]

​@@VishalSingh-gh7qzbhai aap kya karoge future mai kuch suggest karo aapka kya plan hai aap karoge marriage ya nhi

[@VishalSingh-gh7qz]

@@BadBoy-hy9do Bhai aaj Mahol bahut kharab ho gya hai... and ye sab dekh ke koi bhi soch sakta hai ki mat hi karo... But then we have to think long and hard about such important decisions...

[@aayushisharma8051]

The fear is on both side: Women in "Marriage is scary" trend wale videos: Marriage is scary, what if he abuses me? Men in the same trend: Marriage is scary, what if she takes all my money?

[@Suhanyy8]

Finally a sensible comment

[@aiquantum9]

one of my friend married just recently ..he is a such sweet guy ...soft spoken and humble guy ...her wife demanding divorce just after 6 months but crazy thing is that she is demanding 10 lakh if guy dont want police case of abuse and dowery .

[@VishalSingh-gh7qz]

Side effect of modernity.

[@vidhansahu]

​@@aiquantum9lol he is a chomu guy I feel no sympathy for him people like this only marry for ghapa ghap without any research it's sad but it is true that these chomu looking sarkari Naukri waale guys gets married only because of their money

[@Trutifruity]

Yup best is to not get married or get married to people of other countries.

[@Portraitpainter1998]

After the case of Atul subhas I am genuinely now scared to get married. Indian law is sh*t a man can gone through hell for the things he didn't do. And the many girls in this generation (Genz) are so fuc*ed up and thinking themselves too modern that they think relationship is like clothes aj ek pasand aya isko pehenlo parso kuch aur. Cheating is so common in today's time of social media. So no I don't want to get married and distory my life.

[@shyamagopinathadas2940]

Please join Iskcon as a Brahmachari and learn to love Krishna through Bhakti yoga and go back to the eternal spiritual abode of Goloka Vrindavana. Marriage is just a absolute waste of time, energy,, emotions, efforts. Hare Krishna ❤

[@marajevomanash]

God does not exist. The feeling of happiness is purely due to biochemical processes in your body. When your mind is distracted through chanting, it becomes relieved of stress. That's all there is to it.

[@ancientgamer3090]

Hare Krishna!

[@shivasahu8]

Divorce in Marriage has become "Sati" custom for men.

[@Ashutoshh608]

Sati was not a custom,it was a choice...Divorce has become a custom

[@shivasahu8]

@Ashutoshh608 most of the women were thrown into sati. That's why it had to stop. Either widow women had to serve sexually to the family men desires or to the high class priest to save themselves. Same is divorce, either one has to serve women and her family desires or face divorce and anyway get robbed of hard earned money. Prostitution is the future.

[@oliverdmello6417]

This world, this society, forces people to get married...but what they fail to realise is that there r personal issues with everyone, not everyone is made for marriage, marriage puts pressure on an individual...So be a hero...go against society and let not the society and the world make you dance on their fingertips

[@shivasahu8]

In previous days, our mother contributed indirectly like stitching, taking of old age parents, taking care of relatives, taking care of society. Helping hand to family economy by doing some house work outside of required. Today women wants all the luxury ,taking care of her parents, her family at the cost of pleasure of few minutes and that too at her wish. Just ask yourself what is the contribution of a women in family. And you will know

[@Imrankhan-dj3cl]

I’m now 30 and not married n I’m genuinely happy ☺️ n literally I don’t want to get married whatever I earn is enough for me, so I am happy with my life🥳

[@yogesh4997]

Once a legend said "The more lonely I'm, the more respected I'm.

[@indian9632]

Feminism destroyed it

[@Morpheus_neo_trinity]

💯. I just came right after watching a video where all the comments were urging women to use men as just procreating tool, that men aren't needed and children are enough to live a Happy life. I will tell you the level of misandry is unbelievable. When questioned one of the user said it's payback for all the injustice that men have done to women in the past. India is still new to feminism and the day it gains as much momentum as it has in western countries it's game over. Protect your daughters from feminism

[@Slasla1610]

Don't blame feminism. You don't even know the meaning. It's for helping people who are being assaulted by their relatives and husband, helping to bring up women, helping the wife who was left alone by their husbands, even Barathiar is a feminist, he didn't tell women to cheat or not abandon her duties, he was against child marriage and support women's freedom. Not to support some selfish married woman.

[@biratbhowmick7291]

​@@Slasla1610... Helping them by giving them Accountabilityless Power to Assault Husband & his Family with False Cases & Custody. & Legally Loot their Money, Property & Use his own Child against him. Make him Pay even if the Child isn't Biologically His.. Sure Nice Help ✌️

[@Lia_365]

Blame pseudo feminists not real feminists. Real feminists are the ones who'd support guys in such situations because that's what they believe in.

[@Ashutoshh608]

​@@Slasla1610No excuses can justify poision spread by feminism 😡😡😡

[@ShivMathur]

People have forgotten the definition of marriage

[@basaiahable]

Due to stress and life style. People are getting easily reactive for everything. Nowadays youths have lost patience. Maintaining relationships is difficult. Its requires decipline and patience and Mutual respect

[@gonnacry4513]

Youth are reactive because of the environment left for them by their parents. They enjoyed things and left this rot of culture to be dealt by us. This argument is not the main cause of issues. The main cause of the issue is the systemic inequality faced by men nowadays

[@aadisankararun8633]

@@gonnacry4513 i dont think its the environment, more like the regulation. we have access to a lot of things, but don't know how to use them properly.

[@amankumar990]

I got married at age 30. It was the best decision of my life.🎉❤

[@Tony19997]

Maybe you are lucky enough to find a real woman . God bless you

[@siddharthkaria8704]

Hope it doesn't turn out to be the worst decision of Life

[@jacobfrye510]

Congratulations.

[@satyabratachakraborty675]

09:15 Absolutely, sickening society will always run after you until you get married and than the same society will fight against you until alimony is provided. Than the same sickening society will take the hell out of you stating its all your fault. Getting married is a whole new equation all together. You lose freedom your ambitions your dreams all trashed.

[@Iamtina-3]

One of uncle have 3 sons .eldest got married n they always misbehaved with their daughter in law she ran away with another guy then they choose their relative girl for middle son but did same thing with her too .even she left home with her baby but they bring her back for the kid n now their youngest son don't wanna get married after watching his family drama

[@roninyeagerist4152]

Toxic families exist,good comment.broader perspective is need instead of blaming just 1 thing

[@Iamtina-3]

@roninyeagerist4152 yeah they don't let their D-I-l to sit on sofa 😏 .she was literally their maid

[@ChandanKumar-g6k8h]

​@@roninyeagerist4152 you are ri8

[@Crymeareva]

This sounds like a one sided story. Misbehave in what sense?

[@vicky2rap]

Indian families are the world’s toxic dumbasses

[@dummydumber133]

marriage is now the most boring & most difficult topic nowadays., dating got so much easier while real marriage is so much harder nowadays.,

[@jaydx314]

why are NICE GUYS Don't Want To Get Married? Yeah . . in all the answers you will hear RESPOSIBILITY . . . . . People are not going by 'whatever happens, happens' mentality.

[@ankurkumarleoleo]

But responsibility was always there for nice fathers of 1950s , 1960s till 2010 infact of 1880s till 1940s .. has responsibility came recently ? May be people are more demanding now but then economy has also risen since 1960s to 2024. also salaries of people as well . See office responsibility has also increased so are salaries ... I think people are finding excuses of not marrying and will face consequences after the age of 45 till the age of 80 Actually we cannot control many things and for that life is Actually whatever happens ... Even rich people in world's best cars meet up with accidents and accident could be because of driver error or someone else mistake - this is example of whatever happens .. anything can happen at any time don't be so much scared of marriage .. it's paranoid behavior . human being first job is to give births and build good character in children to build nation for our lovely world 🌎 we are here on this planet to sacrifice for human civilization

[@jaydx314]

@ankurkumarleoleo yes it was. But then people were more relaxed to enjoy non material pleasures like Love and leisure and they had relatives to push them into marriage. Families living together and sometimes within minutes reach an added sense of security of going into that responsibility. Things changed too quickly. Too much insecurity in life. We want to be alone but need to be in the society. Stupid parents making children would take the world in the wrong direction in after 20 yrs

[@ankurkumarleoleo]

@@jaydx314 today also one can be less materialistic and can be more into making families , even today people who make families socialize together ... I think these all are excuses .. parents are not stupid .. even having a single kid with spouse gives emotional and social support till death .. se between the age of 45 to 85 life becomes difficult as age pass by for people without marriage ...

[@jaydx314]

Yes agreed . . . ​@@ankurkumarleoleo . . . . Still everyone is insecure and want to settle down but cannot

[@vidhansahu]

​@@ankurkumarleoleomost children today doesn't care about their parents anymore plus if their children gets married too then they will be eventually get separated from them so we r totally becoming like a western society with broken family system

[@spg6651]

compatibility is biggest issue in marriage -- in my case is 100 % incompatible -- 200 % arranged marriage - My working wife is totally in contrast to my thinking -- We are living under one roof and that is it -- With great difficulty we produced one Child and our sex life ended after my baby is born -- 9 years into marriage we started sleeping separately .. No movie / no temple / no tour / nothing -- eating sleeping -- I could have easily gone for Divorce -- But i was scared of Alimony which is huge -- Hence I decided to undergo suffering --- Marriage -- Not worth it..

[@154_abhishekkumar2]

she is cheating bro , cause if she isn't getting it from you she's definitely getting it from somewhere else

[@wowser2153]

@@154_abhishekkumar2 not always. Most women are forced to marry men they are not attracted to based on his job. Most women are not interested in sex anyway but do it just to avoid fights.

[@kamartaj3010]

Giving up on marriages still 1 crore marriages a year and 2.5 crores kids lol😂😂 do indians even know what is the meaning of giving up?

[@saravana3375]

Attitude of giving up started now, slowly increasing..its effect will come later..

[@dude7741]

please read carefully specially for men: ask yourself when you marry what are you getting from it days are gone when their would have been emotions tied to relationship, now these days imagine you got married to a woman who is demanding moneywise and she will allow only to have sex whenever she wants, she wants to have baby only at her choice, she will work in office and earns lakhs of rupees and she will not contribute to a single penny in household expenses because she will say you are man you are supposed to pay and moreover she will tell you to cooperate in kitchen which is absolutely ok to cook food for your wife but the hypocrisy comes when a man ask his wife to contribute in travelling and entertainment expenses , school fees then the society says you are not a man because you are not taking any responsibility. That's why before entering into a conventional marriage talk to your partner about the fair deal n make an agreement if anyone of us leave no one is going to pay any sort of compensation in terms of money. choice is yours. The reason i am telling you is because woman are not absolutely wrong in entering into marriage as they have all the fingers in ghee makhan so its a value deal for them but for men, its a total loss.

[@nikitafernandes461]

Everywhere marriage pressure and competition of having a grand wedding I cannot understand why the society is so much puts pressure for a unmarried woman

[@thestoryteller24-q1z]

I don't think any man will care about a grand wedding, it is always a woman's farce and dreams for 'tHaT sPeCiAl dAy'. And even in society it is the aunties who has a habit of chatter and looking into other people's lives, basically the drama, women crave drama, men do not.

[@PradhanmantriBruhh]

Because a woman getting married and having children is how you sustain life, culture and civilization 🤡🤡 Look at Europe and look what's happening there. They decided not have children and now bearing illegal immigrants from middle East who are basically tearing their culture apart.

[@vidhansahu]

Indian society is like that only they put pressure on you for everything first ur study and job then for marriage even for boys just ignore them they will stop at one point themselves

[@whatpraveen]

Nowadays in India it is all about grand marriages and not about marriage life after that. Marriage is no more sacred and has lost its value but as per law it is sacred and will benefit only and only women.

[@amarg2199]

The biggest trauma is marriage & followed by divorce. 😂😂

[@paintremedies4216]

I am going through divorce. Even though everything I made I kept in her name. Did everything she decided to part ways and yet even my lawyer says sir for bhi paise to dene hi padege. Disgusted how being a Hindu men in this country of appeasement has destroyed Hindu men. The total ecosystem forces men to get converted.

[@SamSam-ws6cz]

India is following now, western world had learned this before we as indian are very far from reality marriage is not for everyone alone life is best life

[@BijoyDas-jg1fk]

Why bother when you can rent those for 400, 500 on the streets

[@sonireddy6696]

A lot of girls kidnapped and trafficked in those scenarios you should not go to them

[@randhirkumar6262]

First of all - there will not be a right person or perfect partner unless until you're the luckiest guy. People now a day's are like I will only marry if a get that ideal partner which I was idealizing or imagining. This is the main issue not the marriage. Every relation wants some courage, efforts, understanding, respect, love if both try to understand each other's need. They can do wonders in their marriage life.

[@ginyouforce616]

@@randhirkumar6262Yes, it has become a huge problem because now women are financially independent but somehow dependent on their parents for choosing a life partner.They wait for their ideal partner until they turn 30 and then when the fear starts to bite they lower their exalted standards and marry someone just to tell the society they are married.This could have been done when they were 25!What an absolute waste of time and youth.

[@rahul0898]

​@@ginyouforce616& marrying a innocent guy & also have multiple body count at 30 so it's better than single at 30

[@YSubbarayudu-z2j]

No marriage no wife No Court No 498A NO 5 crores Alimony

[@GeopolitikandHistoryBuff-b2y]

As a Man, the only thing fear is that the woman they're to gonna get married to will have illogical demand like expensive trips, expensive gifts, expensive this lavish that. All while themselves being broke as hell, unrealistic demands. The biggest fear is she'll leave you at your worst and the Indian Laws being so female centric that you'll be treated as offender by the law, pay her half your property. That's unfair, every situation is different. Problems are a part of life, they'll always be there at every step, someone who's there at both good and bad times is a true partner. As a young Adult it's fearful to see so many cases like these, Finding a True Partner is more difficult than earning your first million.

[@dineshreddy2313]

Truly guys don't get married unless you are very very sure. Better happy than rooming around the courts and the pain of loosing your hard earned money.

[@freecoder522]

Always remember which party gets the benefit after breaking the contract .

[@Poetical_prosing]

I have always asked this question about why people get married because most couples that I have seen in my life are always fighting and are unhappy, so what's even the point.? I truly don't get it. And someone might try to lecture me otherwise, but I will only tell them that they need to see and meet more people may be , if they do meet more people, im very sure they will see for themselves how horrible things are in most households