Why is The Virgo Man "GHOSTING" You?!

This video explains 6 reason why the Virgo man may be "ghosting" you.
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Reason #3 7:47
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Quick Thought: 14:58
Reason #6 16:58
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[@lacrossslounge5403]

#Virgo we are natural HERMITS...We need & enjoy also appreciate time alone. Many of us are earth angels /empaths , we recharge #ALONE ♍'s are funny as shyt too💯

[@JonathanRWhitfield]

Thanks for the confirmation!

[@HoneycapzScrubCaps]

Very true!

[@HoneyCaramel]

I'm a #Pisces and I do all of this as well...

[@kdogg8037]

As a ambivert Virgo I tend to do that a lot after spending time with anybody or after a long week of work I need my weekend to myself sometimes.

[@20yearsofterror32]

Yes that's your tarot card too well ours" :)

[@fabfab5450]

Yeah, go ghost, but be prepared for her to be gone whenever he tries to come back. Her feelings are just as valid as his. No one has time for that childish bullcrap.

[@tianathompson2725]

I agree 👏💯 you tell them girl! ☺️❤

[@mly21]

Yeah :(

[@misiot9274]

I see a lot of women saying " these men ain't worth my time" all the time. You're not really innocent either. I feel like virgos are the direct imitation of women since it's a feminen sign. So y'all can't even handle yourselves 🤣😭😭

[@terrenceharris7163]

Who in the fuck will tamper with their girlfriends emotions are you literally listening to ever word detail cuz is saying before you comment

[@terrenceharris7163]

Did you know virgos in the zodiac are one of the most mature signs you childish bitch my nigga

[@AAA-pj4pg]

The more I listen to your videos the more am convinced that dealing with virgos is exhausting... & nobody have time to spare for all these nonsense🤦‍♂️

[@BarbCyberSurf]

Yoooooo lolololol What's your sign?

[@heathab...._-_]

EXACTLY Amanda

[@BarbCyberSurf]

It is exhausting. I have a platonic Virgo friend. He's a handful of crazy yet simply genius.

[@xweirda]

AGREE!!!

[@erickasterling6425]

For real. I'm a Scorpio and I feel like it's a game Virgo men play indirectly...its exhausting. Like Virgo men love to give you attention, ignore you, give you attention etc. People are always like "you should date a Virgo man, that's a match for scorpio." No tf it isn't!😂😂😂

[@PineapplesCoconut]

Virgo or not, you don’t ghost people just because you can, especially if you asked them out. That’s just cowardly and inconsiderate of the other person’s feelings. Don’t waste their time being fake if you are not honest.

[@smallbeanmusic2187]

pineapple_coconut3768 I don't ghost I just straight up ditch them and say bye

[@beauty4717]

You’re absolutely right. I am with you sis. My Virgo ex is fake as hell. His bday is on Sept. 4 & he talked about committing & taking it slow & then went ghost all bc an ex contact him for a second chance, so why commit & then go ghost. I felt used & disrespected. I am so hurt about this. Speak the fuck up & keep it real. I will never ever forget nor forgive this fake ass Virgo bitch ass nicca.

[@ghostd2859]

pineapple_coconut3768 VIRGOS GHOST and that’s that! All to do with OWN space! Cowardly I dare not agree with.... inconsiderate obviously. It’s a natural thing that CAN DEFINITELY happen. MANY MANY TIME depending on ur life. P.S. VIRGOs don’t really do fake as u say.....

[@nancygoldberg9104]

Old habits hard to break as you say it is it's only hard if you think and let it happen.

[@emmanuellao2248]

Pineapple_coconut3768 it is disrespectful especially in a relationship. Is it so hard to say I need space I'll chat with you later. That's all and genuinely use your space not being online for 2hrs and not responding this is where I feel absolutely disrespected. If you ghosting best ghost EVERYONE 😒

[@courtneyhughes6674]

I’ve realized that when virgo man goes cold , u go cold. don’t ask what’s wrong, communicate or appear bothered .. use the time to get nails done, hair done & enjoy life ... when he comes back around .. BE UNBOTHERED AND NOT BITTER because of videos like this that reassured you that U wasn’t trippin 💅🏾

[@andreamessiasgomes7118]

Courtney Hughes what's your zodiac sign.

[@Iamderricalyons]

This is very true. Dealing with a virgo now.

[@liyahsmom2011]

@@Iamderricalyons same here 🥴

[@godfavourersmeandsatandeli4493]

Sounds like a Sagittarius mood 😂we have no problem reciprocating that energy back to them

[@ruebenshaw]

Yeah that's if we go cold and if we do a real Virgo won't come back to you and he probably doesn't like you but otherwise we need our space and that's just something you have to understand.

[@viviennebabyB]

Virgo is just too much...don’t bother coming back...thank you, next!

[@a.alexander9221]

viviennebabyB Agreed. Unless they’re willing to apologize and work on better communication

[@viviennebabyB]

A. Alexander yep unless they’re willing to come forward and show effort in initiating the conversation, else they can kiss my crabby ass goodbye. 😂

[@nethabte2681]

Omgush.. it is easier to deal with a child than a Virgo man.🤣🤣. Don’t have patient for ins and outs. Stay out completely.. too much going in this life .. to sit down and nurture a Virgo man. 🤣🤣💃🏽.

[@nancygoldberg9104]

I agree it's better to just move on, that way he has all the time he now wants for his space.lol

[@posh1for330]

Some are too controlling. They ghost to gain control.

[@Maid4luv]

Its just excuses for emotional immaturity. AND they know it. Try ghosting a Virgo and see what happens. HELL HATH NO FURY. The Virgo takes a very long time to introspect and really take stock of why they do the things that they do. Most of it is because they are afraid of emotional intimacy because at core they are VERY insecure. All that confidence on the outside is just ego. Which is why they strive to do well in business and play prominent roles in the community. They NEED that affirmation and feedback

[@melicali8364]

Maid4luv facts

[@STME2003]

You hit that nail on the head girl!

[@Ama-qx7eq]

Very insecure

[@ellewonderful7145]

A read!

[@mista2738]

Nah had a girl ghost me and I left as well and this nigga started to try and argue with me after 2 months of no communication from her and she thought I was going to chase her or say “come back” but no, you left me... Don’t turn around after you left. Be confusing as hell.

[@vanessapean2566]

I’ve been dating virgos since I was 21 . Trust me when I tell you , don’t waste your time and DONT think you can change them , you’ll stress yourself out by thinking your precious enough to change him

[@X_nnx]

Ghosting is NOT okay. Tell me why you aren’t interested. It hurts my self esteem in the long run like i did something wrong. I like to be upfront these days.

[@Peace704032797]

But, this is unacceptable. I cannot understand why would a grown man who is in a committed relationship.. can't verbalise that he needs some personal space to recharge etc. Just ghosting a person without any explanation, is very juvenile, selfish, as well as disrespectful. In that case, what is the purpose of the relationship? It doesn't makes sense. They might as well stay single and keep it moving, and not waste somebody's else's precious time. Its ridiculously immature. It is so high school like behavior. Btw, I am a Virgo woman, and don't understand Virgo men. If a man is in a serious relationship with a woman, he has made a commitment, then, honor it. Learn to communicate, and speak up... it' s not a rocket science for crying out loud.

[@Channyg4lyfe]

Agreed!!

[@nancygoldberg9104]

You. Mention that the Virgo heals you, but they don't because they need to much time ,for themselves,so how can they heal you, that doesn't make sense, sounds like he up to no good.

[@lvfan8141]

Sister Soul I was seeing a Virgo and he ghosted me. Now he keeps telling me he wants to see me etc and that he wants me in his life etc I’m so confused on wtf this man wants. He likes me a lot a lot but I ain’t got time for this shit.

[@beyondlimitless5414]

@@oneonly8561 these chicks like niggaz thats predictable WRONG MOVE WITH A VIRGO MAN 😂🤷

[@nancygoldberg9104]

Right the Virgo only want to figure you out but once we figure you out your gone.

[@firstlast7300]

“we naturally push ppl away.” FINALLY! this is admitted. i knew i wasnt crazy...and i will never fuck wit another virgo ever again.

[@SpirituallyGifted888]

If you need or want solitude, then just say that! To just up and leave(ghost) someone without explanation let alone warning is childish. Don't blame it on your zodiac sign. It's called accountability and responsibility. We all have things going on, I understand everyone handles things differently but damn🤣I too am an earth sign(Taurus) and I am very patient, but I don't have the patience for bullshit🤷🏾‍♀️🤷🏾‍♀️🤷🏾‍♀️ miss me with that nonsense please✌🏾✌🏾✌🏾

[@JonathanRWhitfield]

it's not planned, it honestly just happens, no Virgo plans to do this, we hear this from family members as well. Communication is the the key. Also, Virgos tend to get in a funk and just not think to tell others.

[@SpirituallyGifted888]

@@JonathanRWhitfield I hope you don't take this as me disagreeing with what you are saying lol...I'm speaking in general 🤣🤣🤣

[@Peace704032797]

Exactly, extremely juvenile behavior . If they need space.. then, speak up like an adult about it, for God's sakes.

[@a.alexander9221]

SpirituallyGifted I agree with you and disagree with this video completely

[@gorgeousmone6151]

I’m a Taurus as well. Very patient and understanding. But I will NOT tolerate foolishness on any level. My Virgo ex missed out and I know he’s regretting it! ✌🏽

[@sweetlicorice]

Being in a relationship with a virgo has been one of the most painful things I've ever experienced in my life. Because one day he is talking about marriage the next day he is ghosting me.

[@crystalcormier9376]

Damn!!! I'm sorry to hear that sweetheart. Damn smh. I guess that's why they say you have to have patience to deal with virgos and capicorns. Cause both zodiac signs come with alot.

[@SheriCheri94]

They are a trip

[@MelissaMisinco]

Yup!

[@galis2014]

The exact thing I’m dealing with. I’m throwing in the towel though

[@itsmek868]

I just experienced this! Im workung threw my depression. Its crazy unbelievable! Hopefully he finds me happy with someone that is real and not fake!

[@ItsLotus89]

You’ve just earned a new subscriber 😊 This just helped me. To leave Virgo’s alone before I get my feelings crushed 😩😭

[@JonathanRWhitfield]

Glad I could help!

[@imhotepimhotep7380]

Wow! Wow! That's all BS, sis. Your up bringing is 95% of the way you deal with others and your perception overall. Not a zodiac sign.

[@ItsLotus89]

imhotep imhotep 🤥

[@andreamessiasgomes7118]

@@imhotepimhotep7380 it's true just cause your nice doesn't mean all Virgo Men are like you so don't feel hurt but don't say stupid things about upbringing and all.

[@carmenhayes8680]

Being in love with a Virgo man is a LOVE AT YOUR RISK. I get tired of being confused. This is a sign that may be loyal and a good husband IF they choose to settle down, but that's a big ass MAYBE. I truly love this Virgo man. I tremble EVERY TIME I see him. Our time is quality. Not one minute goes to waste. I'm TAURUS. Steady...strong and brutally honest. Not every woman is ready or equipped to love or be loved by him. And remember, it's them not you.

[@kristineray8422]

I’m going thru the same thing wit my Virgo man n I’m a leo

[@SheriCheri94]

It’s them yup

[@emrysariana4397]

im a virgo and after dealing with a virgo man for 5 years and before that with another virgo too. what i gathered is that virgo man is childish, playboy, indecisive, when we ask too many questions to work things out he went into his cave. and worst case come in and out your life like a yoyo. too many mind games. he is also a slow moving person. he analyse everything. even im a virgo i dont understand him sometimes. whats good about virgo man that he is a family man and show his love by action or doing. but enough. virgo man is a playboy. fullstop

[@Lexiannasam]

yup agreed i thought it was only me viewing this but seeing so many ppl say the same things i feel confirms it all. toxicity at its finest.

[@cinnamin77abbachild15]

Me as a taurus girl left a whole 2page paragraph about virgo Men,, maybe a night in the sack ,, but after that let their ass go home,, a bunch of problems ,, and drama, that you dont need.trust me!!!

[@shanika8]

I like female virgos no homo though my best friend was a virgo but she went to the military

[@kenrowland7864]

Ladies/Guys....this type of behavior is straight up INExcusable....NEVER Lower your standards.

[@harrietshaw667]

I just let my Virgo guy go due to bad or poor communication. I am a Taurus & very patient but this Virgo was not ready for me.

[@JonathanRWhitfield]

:( hate it had to happen, it may have been for the better

[@harrietshaw667]

@@JonathanRWhitfield Thank you, You have shared some great topics about Virgo men. A Taurus is an earth sign as well but I must say a Virgo male doesn't really know what they want and they are great thinkers but they overthink too much and are always concerned how others view them. This behavior hurts the relationship. Being judgemental and picky doesn't help either. I don't want to sound negative but most Virgo's I know even up in age are still single. It makes sense. But I send my love to them. :)

[@SR77736]

Same sis.

[@Robert_11911]

Virgo is all about communication, If they aren't communicating then they aren't happy.

[@rrb2895]

I agree. I'm a Taurus. He was very slow to ask me out. He was calling every day. Talking. Enjoying each other. Her told me he was talking to other women. But when I verbalize the same. His whole attitude went different. Not sure if it's the Virgo thing or just the male thing where they prefer to see other women But the woman not do so. Even when nothing is exclusive. Plus. I think they know exactly whern they are ghosting and why. All this "from the virgin-mother-from the earth,,,stuff is an excuse". The best way to deal with a Virgo man is stay very aloof and keep other options.

[@freshclean7036]

I never had a man to ghost me. If a man ghosts me he may as well stay gone. I don't have time for someone to be in and out of my life. Virgo or not.

[@jaeminlikeshisdonutswithja288]

Fresh & Clean ikr

[@snazzycat207]

Its the painful way of saying that its the wrong guy so yea you got your priorities right. Don't bother going back

[@ialwaysbesingin]

"I'm not ready." Men are afraid, plain and simple. Don't get mad when people move on.

[@QueenQueenly]

It’s exhausting to live with a Virgo. He leaves all day and night. He has many secrets. I am drained and mentally and physically exhausted

[@elizabethhartman3924]

Aww, hunny, you don't need that in your life. My sisters a Virgo and they like to live they life in a strange depression even tho they say they want to be happy, they don't... I'm Gemini, she always ask me how do I do it (stay motivated even on my bad days) I let her know that it's nobody's responsibility to make us happy. We have to make ourselves happy and keep moving forward. Try not to dwell on the past even tho it hurts. God loves you no matter where you're at or what your sign is!!💕

[@cinnamin77abbachild15]

I know all to well sweety I had 8yrs of one full of heartbreak and disappointment and depression dealing with a virgo Man.

[@mly21]

Mixed signals

[@sweetlicorice]

@@elizabethhartman3924 are you still with him? Did he change?

[@patricialeahy1066]

I am a. Gemini and i can not deal with a virgo guy at all.mentally and physically draining and exhausting..to many lies to many secrets..critical anal and narcissist never own up when they are wrong..im done with virgo guys...i guess i cant speak for every one of them but i knew enough to know better...

[@emmanuellao2248]

I'm tempted to ghost him as well but my heart can't take it bcuz I'm a dependable human being 😔💔. If I'm online I reply not ignore your messages period. Communication is all I want. I'm tired and I want to resign 🤦

[@PickoneLoki]

Same 🤦🏾‍♀️

[@emmanuellao2248]

@@PickoneLoki update. I learned that disrespect triumphs my dependability so I resigned.

[@gorgeousmone6151]

I’m a Taurus, my ex is a Virgo. We dated for a year and a half. The first few months was butterflies. I felt like I never met a guy like him because he was so sweet and caring at the time. Months later, things began to slowly change. After him making a mistake in our relationship. Instead of him apologizing and trying to fix things, he took his frustration out on me and got distant for two months (while trying to stay in contact every other day) I did not allow it. When he came back, he asked for another chance. I told him that’s not how things work! Thanks for this video bc after understanding this, I truly don’t think I would be interested in another Virgo again.

[@lee3225]

Exactly 👍🙏

[@barbarasbraids]

Taurus

[@jeniagiri4999]

Same here. My virgo man after what he did to me..I'm like get the fuck out of my life

[@siphookobama8344]

Remember we all are different souls, focus on ourselves, more often improving ourselves, what we are is what we attract....

[@vanessaanders1619]

what changed?

[@lvfan8141]

I was seeing a Virgo and everything was ok then he ghosted me on a date. Sense he won’t leave me alone and he wants to see me again. He says he’s ready to make changes and wants me in his life but idk I’m not trusting him. I don’t wanna hurt again. I feel like I am too beautiful for this.

[@ksmetalchick6546]

They can also be hard core stalkers

[@lvfan8141]

ksmetalchick65 really lol so you think he stalks my FB lol I wonder now 🤣🤨

[@ksmetalchick6546]

I'm sure he's stalking and they love playing hard to get

[@ksmetalchick6546]

He blocked me for month's and then unblocked me but didn't say anything and that made me believe he was checking out my Facebook profile

[@ksmetalchick6546]

Virgo men are sneaky and always pay a visit to their exs through social media and will probably stalk in person ... just do the Google search about the dark side of their personality

[@lee3225]

Ok so what I get from this vid is that they are immature, judgmental, suspicious, possessive and selfish....👍

[@staciannreaves843]

It's rude and doesn't show respect for you

[@x.mono.x4011]

VIRGOS the most immature sign

[@Robert_11911]

Totally disagree

[@AnubisFenrir]

Take of the "im" and your correct

[@Lexiannasam]

@@Pr.nce_youngg its true . though....

[@Lexiannasam]

factsssssss no cap frfr

[@glossypeach777]

I strongly disagree, but they are capable of doing some childish things, but in their mind they are right.

[@ranikster9955]

No more Virgos in my life. I get that people want to have their own life. But if he doesn't have 2-3 hours to meet or if he doesn't call after a date he just thinks he is too good for you

[@quangutusuranu]

In my experience, ghosting never ends well. Take it as a form of rejection and nothing more.

[@evolvedempress8953]

Man’s Rejection is God’s Protection & Redirection🕯🙏🕯💖💞💖

[@PS-qn4oz]

@@evolvedempress8953 I love that!

[@ksmetalchick6546]

Not only do they ghost on you, will also stalk you..

[@nita8337]

Lmao

[@deborahjoy2620]

So true one ghosted me but always be checking out my status. Its such a emotional roller coaster. I hated his behavior.

[@fireforeknowledge5624]

I swear this makes no sense lol

[@nellgeez]

LMAOOO- My 1st love was a Virgo. He did a NUMBER on me and is the cause of many of my emotional and relationship problems now. I didn't realize it until I started to work on myself. But he's on his second marriage and has hella kids, is blocked on everything except instagram because it's public and when I saw him follow me I figured whatever we're grown now. But he looks at all my instagram stories. It's creepy.

[@naima.ouiteb]

Fucking psychopaths n🤣

[@shevettejackson.]

I am a Virgo woman and I dated a Virgo man and I still don't understand Virgo men. SMH

[@JonathanRWhitfield]

WOW! The main difference in this would boil down to the differences between men and women.

[@jfreeman2422]

Diddo

[@zephyrus7257]

There is no justification for ghosting. Ghosting is just so unattractive, that it’s a turn-off on its own. So I’m like Ok thnx & next. Just respect people & be honest. Everyone deserves honesty.

[@jaeminlikeshisdonutswithja288]

a virgo man literally left our convo hanging and ghosted me for 5 days, then he saw me again and texted me right after he saw me. i found it weird and rude idk why lmao

[@deborahjoy2620]

That's exactly how all of them are.

[@KsBadass88]

i had one do the same to me but he was gone for 8 months

[@cinnamin77abbachild15]

Once I leave I'm not coming back,, but virgo men ,,like to run in and out of ur life!!!

[@eloisaromero89]

Sounds like a virgo

[@betonme1]

IK!!!!!he ghosted me for a whole week!!!! I just can't handle it

[@angeliquecook-hayes7605]

Any man....virgo or not....who does that ghosting stuff is not worth a woman's time. If my virgo man did that to me.....he would see me ghosting......permanently! No one has time for that nonsense.

[@alizelmarieamba279]

Why can't you tell the truth that mostly virgo disappeared because they already found another chik

[@alizelmarieamba279]

If you really love that person you must take time.. no many excuses..

[@alimei1983]

Another chick to ghost? I’m currently ghosted by a Virgo ;/

[@irisward4925]

My virgo has hurt me so so so bad...yet no apology or acknowlegment one thing is to be logical another is to be heartless...

[@ksmetalchick6546]

The Virgo man ghosted me because he said I wasn't paying attention to him, he was just way too possessive and showed narcissistic behavior, I'm a Sagittarius and he didn't like me being independent and having guy friend's

[@Lexiannasam]

join the club smh

[@sannyvain7196]

Whew Chile sag here and I can agree

[@fireforeknowledge5624]

Leo here! He didn't give me enough attention at a point and I had to bounce. I apologized and he ghosted completely but stalks my social media religiously

[@cinnamin77abbachild15]

Yess ,,,SAGGITERRIOUS IS A MUTABLE SIGN AS WELL AND FREEDOM LOVING AND WILL PAY THAT VIRGO BULL SHIT ,, NO MIND ,,SAG,S GET WHAT SHE WANTS FROM HIM AND IGNORE HIM,, BIG TIME ,, UNTIL SHE WANTS HIM FOR SEX AGAIN,,,

[@kandikane99]

Same here! I'm a Sag lady and if they can't handle our independence then...bye..thank you..next

[@newmove7068]

It's happening to me right now. He's not answering my call or text. I'm not calling or texting again. I don't know what to do so I'll just leave it alone. The silence is so loud. As a Capricorn, tell me something.. Damn. No message in a bottle, no smoke signal..just gone. I'm glad I enjoyed his company when I did. I hate that he move like this. I don't even know what I'll say if he reaches out. Maybe he's doing me a solid, rejection is God's protection. Everything happens for a reason. I'm not chasing him, I don't know🙄😔Thanks for the video

[@lovely7464]

Update? I’m sorry 😞

[@aaeeshahendricks6359]

Ghosting within itself indicates an inability to maturely communicate. For reasons of "justification" to be given is almost an act of supporting ghosting. At the end of the day, everyone has their own set of issues, however, the more evolved of us make an active effort to treat others the way we would like to be treated, regardless of our issues. If you're going to engage with HUMANS, then you've gotta be prepared for social interaction of all kinds, not just on your own terms. Instead of ghosting, learn to communicate your reasons for needing time out, as a show of respect for the next person. Otherwise, you're just coming off as inconsiderate, immature and self-centred.

[@JonathanRWhitfield]

I disagree

[@aaeeshahendricks6359]

@@JonathanRWhitfield Let's dialogue this. Why do you disagree?

[@lyricdupree771]

I have a Virgo best friend of 20 years and after Analyzing Virgo ♍️ men here’s what I’ve established… Virgos are Indecisive sometimes they want you ,sometimes they don’t! The ghosting comes in when they got something else they wanna do. This isn’t no difference than anyone else, I like how you making every excuse under the sun for the actions for a grown man that supposedly be so perfect but very much immature. Communicating is the best option in any relationship, Ghosting is the kiss my ass way of doing things , lack of respect.

[@pockahantiss]

According to "Astrology For The Soul' by Jan Speller, Virgo's should avoid daydreaming. Its a form of escape. In her book, she discusses that she had a (Virgo) client who daydreamed about a perfect relationship. In his mind, the woman was almost a reality. The Virgo client had gone through many relationships, but couldn't fully commit because none of the women matched the woman in his fantasy!-That explains soooo much. This tells me that Virgos live in their heads more than facing reality!

[@sunshinesunflowerz1647]

Indeed they do. This is why they attract or like Gems and Leo’s.

[@51844mj]

@@sunshinesunflowerz1647 well Geminis don’t want them lol 😂 they can pick a different sign lol 😂

[@itsmek868]

This leo is fed up. He took my kindness for granted! Hopefully he will find out that he is losing good women giving them cold shoulders when we tolerate there attitude and all that clingy... but. Nothing was brought to the table as i mentioned to him... and he vanished.., thats lame and user status...! Good luck to his needs with whoever can baby him all day !

[@Set-vt]

We are idealistic for sure, but we honestly need to go through the cold hard truths of reality to cut that stuff out... it's built-in, we want perfection -- an evolved Virgo can learn that perfection doesn't exist, therefore their partner will always be short of it. Just need to learn to adapt to your surroundings and be as grounded as possible so that the daydreaming or idealistic mind doesn't take over you and make you run away because your partner did something you didn't like.

[@wokedream9837]

As a Virgo from Jamaica 🇯🇲 it's truelol

[@katrinawilliams5928]

Ghosting is disrespectful and rude!

[@lovelyladystyles5818]

The Virgo man sounds bipolar emotionally unstable not sure of what they want and for sure don’t know how to communicate. So whomever deals with one will also become an emotional mess. If a Virgo man knows that he flies ghost who should communicate that to whomever he is dealing with like I said before Virgo men seem to be unstable by what you are stating in this video

[@beckslouise4741]

So true they are hard work alright. Won't open up emotionally

[@beyondlimitless5414]

@Cancel Ok virgo men know how to filter women out intuitively so if you have alot of issues with him most likely he sees some inconsistencies that you eithwr arw unaware of or just refuse to see 🤷

[@heathab...._-_]

Waters signs should NEVER date this sign we need the physical an we feel deep an we need your soul we are emotional so all that in an out crap will have us stalking them going crazy on them threaten their life just to much

[@AnubisFenrir]

@@beyondlimitless5414 exactly all these people not understanding that virgo saw something they didn't see and he's actually being considerate trying not hurt anyone feelings cause soon as we say something we're over critical i wish these mf makes up they mind

[@cinnamin77abbachild15]

You have to give virgo men the same energy they give you and keep ur options open,,,, in other words date other men.And I'm a taurus ,, trust me I know!!!!

[@randabunnell2366]

Can I just say I love the sound of your voice it actually just put me to sleep lol but not from boredom. Thanks for your input. I have many Virgos in my life and your videos help explain the confusing parts as well as the positive.

[@HoneycapzScrubCaps]

Thanks for this video. I can definitely relate to what you're saying but as a virgo woman. I usually tell people that I need a lot of space when I meet someone and try to communicate if I need that space.

[@ericalockwood1607]

If virgo man is a healer that means he helps heal someone just to break them again. Ghosting really hurts.

[@bettyboobanksta2625]

This really enlightened me on some many levels. Thank you dear.

[@adarodriguez6316]

It's a blessing I came across this post.

[@mybless4]

I'm new to your channel and I would like to say a big "THANK YOU"!...I have been struggling with a situation,trying to understand what happened to a person I had an instant and somewhat familiar connection with, that I had never felt before with anyone in my life and they just vanish, but you just gave me clarity because this person was a Virgo masculine and now I see clearly where the mistake was made,it has been hunting my 💓 for over a year now. So I thank you so much for your insightfulness and your mission!.Much Love!

[@JonathanRWhitfield]

I appreciate that! Glad I could help!

[@danaglover6801]

My experience wit the Virgo male... Distance hermit like one day talkative the next don’t have nothin to say don’t express feelings and sometimes talks in riddles. He approached me! But Y if he knew he really didn’t want shit. Eventually I was ghosted. I was upset mad and confused at first but now I think abt it and it’s been for the best. I’m a grown woman and he’s a grown man. I don’t have time for games or foolishness.

[@goddesstreshay9657]

I guess there's a lot of Virgo men that will never find true love and never experience being so filled in love and that's so sad because there's so much love out here and I'm pretty sure there's a lot of people that was willing to give it no wonder why Virgo men have so much Bad Karma because of all the hearts they broken there's no excuse to have someone fall in love with you and then leave them behind but at the same time Virgos don't like when people do that to them if you knew better you'd do better Virgo need to understand the mate is there to help them through the anxiety through the depression through the doubts and fears a lot of Virgos need to understand being alone is not going to help nothing at all it's the unity between two people love each other cherishing each other being there for one another through the good and bad loving each other unconditional that's what's going to help Periodt

[@AnubisFenrir]

I actually have good karma.... maybe you should think about what you put out into the world if you vibin on low vibrations of course you're going to attract a low vibrational virgo. Maybe it's not virgo but the person they're dealing with i see all these people complaining about virgo but not saying what they did to virgo 🤔🤨

[@tianathompson2725]

@@AnubisFenrir listen, people dont have to necessarily do or say anything negative to a virgo. Because I've experienced being with 2 and I have never done anything to them apart from show them attention, respected their privacy and show them unconditional love. And what did I get in return!!...mind games, criticising me constantly, playing with my emotions and cheating on me. So dont you ever assume that everyone has done something to a virgo because you lot are far from perfect and the biggest narcissist people I've ever came across. You virgos need alot of mental therapy, redemption and stop blaming others for your toxic personality. 👏💯💯

[@miraclewilliams777]

Right

[@EloraSelah]

​@@AnubisFenrirvirgo looks good only in the grave.

[@theenicolej]

I’m a Capricorn woman who loves her me time but nothing is more infuriating then dealing with a Virgo man who does this over and over again and feels it’s someone’s job to just take it til they are ready to come back. Virgo men are just too self focused and selfish to have any type of healthy romantic relationship that feels equal and balanced.

[@paigeviper244]

Yeah aiiiet! Try that with a Scorpio. Not only are we mysterious... but we’ll fall of the face of the earth in a heartbeat!!

[@lionelsmith679]

Emotional unavailable Virgo !

[@joycelynwalker269]

Virgo men and all their excuses. I am not their dumping ground. Throwing all your family problems and baggage on the people who cares. Selfish, disrespectful and want to control. Want to change me from the I am that I am. Play mind games. Communication is a no, no, brings nausea feeling. So they nervous about being in a relationship. But not nervous to make a fool out of someone. I'm ghosted. He can keep his distance.

[@alyssasuepat95]

Thank you! I saw this video that you had showed me to look into on a previous virgo vid. I talked to him last night and he finally opened up a lot more than usual, and I'm glad he let me know that sometimes he does need space, and I respect that. From now on he's going to focus on telling me when he needs space so I dont get that feeling of being pushed away. Seeing all these comments, I'm glad that he is going to help make some positive change in our relationship!🙌

[@nadiahnorakmal5566]

How to getback with virgo man ? And make he open up

[@deborahjoy2620]

Stop trying to please these punks and move on they don't know how to respect women.

[@Enhancerliyah]

I’m an Aquarius woman and with a Virgo man.. The communication is offffffff. I’m giving my all, and he hides his emotions. He “ghosts” me unexpectedly, and he says he doesn’t mean to do this intentionally. I see this as disrespectful. I feel like he could easily just communicate and tell me he needs time alone. I’m just confused at the moment. This shit is draining me, and I’m like.. am I the one for this man? We always have fun together, but this is really a turn off.

[@piccoullini]

He ghosts, you understand him and his vibe, don't communicate, catch up whenever and then he blurts out before you walk out of his life that he adores you. No pressure, I'm pretty independant too but...why do they give out emotion in doses....small...every time...it's ridiculous...he's a grown man, I know he wants me, when he is with me can't resist me but he shuts down afterwards. ..???? Has told me I am his and he wants exclusivity, ownership and controlling issues if you ask me but can not deliver....or live up to my expectations?! Can you give any advice? Sounds like he is stringing me along.

[@mfernandez5011]

Thank you a million, this makes so much sense. Thank you for sharing, saved my relationship. I thought for sure we were doomed. Sagittarius and Virgo, I can work with this!!!

[@whitneymoore1975]

How is it going with your Virgo guy?

[@blackspanese]

Looking fresh. You nailed it again! Happy Holiday's,

[@JonathanRWhitfield]

Thanks, blessings!

[@maxpower935]

My brother thank you for being an ambassador for Virgo Nation nobody will understand us but us that's why at time people don't get our thinking process which leads to misunderstandment everything you mentioned about us virgo men are 1000% true we read people like books and see through that mask off top body language says alot about them as well I feel u on every video from one virgo to another keep doing what u do it's all FACTS 💯💯💯💯

[@JonathanRWhitfield]

💯💯

[@1960rochelle]

He is not communicating with me, he text me and ask me how I am doing about once a week, then I don't hear from him, till he do it again, I don't like it at all

[@erykkanicole1212]

I feel your pain girl

[@hell0br00klyn]

❤️I’m a Taurus and I’ve had a couple successful relationships with Virgo men. Although the breakups were a lil messy🥴😂...I still prefer a Virgo man. Most Virgo men are super neat, businessmen, family oriented, intelligent, & dapper...which absolutely irresistible. Yeah, they’re players...but very similar to Taurus it’s bc our partner became problematic, too demanding, or a slob. When we care we care, when we don’t we don’t give a single damn lol. Taurus are also notorious for ghosting too and Virgo men are seemingly the only ones who get that.

[@vanissaballard4531]

Girl you just said everything about me cause I’ll ghost a Virgo fast but they will find a way back to me lol . We have strong personalities we are similar in a way to them and that’s why they can’t leave us alone

[@kristlegarcia2009]

I’m an Aquarius and will ghost not because I have a problem with my Virgo it just me needing to recharge he does the same 😂 but we understand that about each other and give each other the space we need and just keep the communication going

[@jazzyphatphat15]

Very true I am a Taurus and I ghost a lot now having it done to my by a Virgo man I know how people I’ve done it to feel

[@kayde.8731]

I like your comment very much. Yes its true. I do ghosting. Cause i dont want too much nonsense arguments. I avoid it as much as i can. Maybe you gonna hurt me or i will hurt you. Just leave it. Keep it inside. "Give me space". I dont say this words. Bc for me i think that must be in the mind. Not all of words must to say to understand. Then am out. Thinkin maybe shes not for me. I admit. Its ok. Everythin is goin to be fine. This is me. I dont know about other virgos. Maybe they're different too.

[@anifatus_saidah]

@@vanissaballard4531 hahaha..true, taurus too strong and independent, care but not clingy

[@TeganM.C.]

Merry Christmas Mr. Whitfield! Not watching for virgo insight but for support! 🎄☃️❄

[@JonathanRWhitfield]

Thank you!! Blessing to you!

[@estellelumpkin1049]

He told me today that he’s feeling down and needs solitude. Thanks to your videos, I suspected this was the reason he went ghost 👻. Thanks for sharing your incite! 👊🏾

[@lovely7464]

How long did he go into solitude.. my Virgo just came back after EIGHT months.. I’m tryna see if I’m crazy or not

[@godslove7363]

I'm a 50 year old virgo woman dating a 54 year old virgo man. We have been together for a year as of November 30th.. he goes ghost every holiday... He is ghosting me now for three weeks... I'm so in love with him... These actions have really hurt me... I feel like I have wasted a whole year of my life with him.... I was in orientation for a job and he came to meet me... Before I could get outside a younger female he used to work with was talking to him. I waited for a break in the conversation, I then told him I thought we were gonna go here? He blew up on me in front of this girl... It was so hurtful to me and disrespectful....

[@JonathanRWhitfield]

:( this guy does not represent anything in my vids (check out the bad sad of a Virgo man), he blew up because he was embarrassed and caught up, ghosting on holidays is a no, Imo I think he's two-timing. I can't condone this at all.

[@MsPrice-pn2py]

See the signs honey and🏃‍♂️🏃‍♂️🏃‍♂️🏃‍♂️ that behavior is not cool from any sign...

[@Peace704032797]

That's horrible

[@godslove7363]

@@Peace704032797 yes it is!! Was a no show for Christmas again... I'm done!!! I will never date another virgo man again... I can't believe my sign as a male is like this... I know everyone is not the same but myself being a virgo would never treat someone like this... I will always tell the truth even if it hurts... That's respect

[@angeliquecook-hayes7605]

You don't deserve to be treated like that!! My Virgo man is 50, and the Leo in me does not tolerate the nonsense. I know my worth and I communicate my needs and expectations. You deserve respect and love.....in fact.....you should demand it!

[@debzuba93]

everyone is entitled to their time alone...i sure as hell need it. I have a Taurus rising so i get it, despite being a Libra. Its a case of mature vs immature basically, it all ends and begins with communication.

[@shatorahmchenry474]

Thank you so much for this.

[@mariemarlene7658]

Merry Christmas!!! Looking good Mr. Virgo.🎁🎄🎄

[@knowledgeismusic3729]

Ghosting then coming back.. watching my social media until he’s blocked and trying to connect with me spiritually🙄 I gave him what he asked for which as to be left alone idk why he wants to come back now

[@eloisaromero89]

Knowledge Is Music how long did it take for him to come back?

[@intentionalgreatness]

Same thing happened to me..especially the spiritual connection part smh

[@Pink-ew5wm]

Mostly virgo and aquarius men are interested in spirituality. The most detached zodiac sign and hard to get. When you are in love with them,be patient. Do more spiritual things i mean tarot,telepathy all. I'm a virgo and when someone do that to me, i claim it.

[@anifatus_saidah]

@@Pink-ew5wm exuse me, between aquarius man and virgo man. which u prefer with..? in long relationship to be your destiny ?

[@Pink-ew5wm]

@@anifatus_saidah virgo men :3

[@ambersmith5931]

This was so helpful 😭😭😭 Thank you. I have been so patient and understanding. Almost 2 months now and he just started staying in contact again. We talked about hanging out today but he hasnt called or wont pick up. I was just sitting in my car crying. Lol Your voice is comforting and makes perfect sense..i needed some sense! Im still gonna be patient. I just know he's a great guy who needs a great woman!

[@doaasobhy3649]

great men doesn't make you cry

[@bibahani1884]

U need mind and a pride

[@madelenealvarez]

Thank you for relieving some of my stress with your explanation.God bless❤❤

[@Uniquaization]

Brave of you to tackle this topic! These Virgos out here leaving women in shambles!! (sorry they're beating you up about it though...)

[@yanab8338]

Wow, I am an Aries sun with a Taurus Moon, (Mars in Virgo) and I am a Hermit. Everyone says I'm too calm for an Aries. Now I know where I get these qualities from. Earth signs

[@journeymylocs8702]

Definitely feel like it was the last reason...his feelings got the best of him and he didn’t know how to express it 🤷🏾‍♀️ doesn’t make it right but we were vibing way to well...definitely shocked when he ghosted me!

[@richgirlro]

Thank you.. very informative helped alot

[@Theia8219]

This is so true my father is a virgo an he does that even with us family. But I understand him because of my Virgo Rising, I do the same without realizing as well.

[@barbss.7578]

So where can I order the Virgos instructional manual?

[@melissalewis5383]

I can tell you 💯 ! I’m a Scorpio married to a Virgo. Also I have 2 kids that are also Virgo’s! I know the ghost thing, also you have to let them be! I want MY time as well....

[@Sandrahans]

@@melissalewis5383 i new talk to you privately 😭😂

[@bradyevabs]

@@melissalewis5383 Melissa im dating a Virgo man and im also a scorpio and he ghosted me over the weeknd and im so confused...can u explain em to me? Just started seeing him 5 weeks now

[@NenaRosey]

Virgos are just weird AF PERIOD!!

[@andreamessiasgomes7118]

@@bradyevabs do the same as he does n don't try to ask him just focus on yourself and don't be clingy their attracted to non clingy ppl , try not to show that your mad be as aloof as he is .

[@SpirituallyGifted888]

Merry Christmas handsome!

[@cindym4679]

Thank you for the info

[@Bizarrebarbie]

My Virgo and I are a yin yang, we’re at total peace w each other. Throughout 7 years we always come back to each other. He always is giving toward me, buys me things w o me asking, loves me staying the night in his personal space, calls me randomly to see how I’m doing and make sure I’m eating, this weds was magical. He called the next morning saying “I’m taking you away this weekend” and completely ghosted for 2 days. Weirdest thing ever to happen to me, and I’ve known him 2 years. I’m a Pisces btw. I know he likes me a lot but idk

[@cee2811]

Virgo dealing with Virgo.. this insight probably saved my relationship.

[@powerwilliams4489]

And also if a Virgo man ghosting u it’s either he like you to much and scared to push up or he don’t like you.

[@brandedej4162]

Then that’s one big fucked up way to deal with their emotionally intelligence

[@Mcdowells]

as a Virgo, I only shut dow) when I've been really REALLY hurt and that's after I've exhausted all attempts of trying to save a relationship. Ladies, if you find the Virgo man in love with you YOU WILL KNOW IT!!! Also, people need to check the rising sign and moon sign of their significant other..there's where the bread is baked. I will say my best relationships have come with other earth signs especially Capricorn and Virgo.

[@sunshinesunflowerz1647]

I am a Virgo magnet 😖 Aquarius Rising; Pisces moon; have several Sags in my chart and Gemini Chiron.

[@FAB-bk7yv]

Virgos appear to be selfish. You can not be part of a relationship or family and seek to be alone. To place someone in the position to be 2nd or 3rd Place In your life is selfish. Love your partner enough to leave them alone. Keep your energy. Especially if you can’t balance life and love. Btw to love is the foundation on which life is abundantly had.

[@sammyy9223]

Gemini here, I feel you. I can be the same way sometimes and that’s ok :) ❤️

[@prettypk_]

there’s this virgo that i have unconditional love for that has been in my life for years in & out. even though i love him so much i could never give myself to him for these things i’m about to mention. we started off as friends that worked together then 6 years in we started hooking up and got into a situationship. we made a whole mess from the jump. I was for sure a party girl at the time mostly focusing on myself and my work as a designer so i never treated him like a boyfriend cause i didn’t want a boyfriend however with time we became super close and i started to fall in love. I didn’t realize i loved him until maybe 2 years in but by then our situation was so messy that a committed relationship was off the table for both of us which has lead to so much heartache. i was never sure about how he felt until 2 years ago cause he wouldn’t fucking tell me, but i always knew this man loved me because to this day (7+years later) he always calls when i answer, he pours his soul out to me, is always there when i need him, he has never said no to me, and mostly i can see it in the way he looks at me, but he’s not the man he wants to be yet and this has gotten in his way. He’s incredibly insecure about starting a relationship because of two things i think; 1. i’m an enigma to him and 2. he’s not where he FANTASIZED where he would be in life (he grew up his whole life working towards getting signed by the MLB then had a career ending accident while playing professionally in mexico. now his new goal is to be the best music producer.) and won’t be confident until he fulfills his dreams and goals and doesn’t want to commit cause he’s indecisive and a big time player (moon and 1st house in libra). I’m a leo with a huge heart and so much love and affection that comes so natural but sometimes he is so rigid and cold that i too lock up and even though i want to hold him and love him i just can’t. I know he craves the kind of love that i give and gets mad/ frustrated when i don’t but he doesn’t make it safe for me to do so because he is always so hot and cold. Like when we’re together every little moment feels magical (even the not so good moments) almost like the universe set it up and is guiding it. and when we’re apart he will disappear for weeks and come back like he didn’t just ghost tf outa me. I let go of the idea of being together years ago but he’s someone i care for so deeply and he literally has no one else that understands him like i do (his words not mine) that i refuse to abandon him like everybody else has (his own fault) but he knows there’s no future for us, i have a lot of love for myself and wouldn’t allow myself to be tied to a man that is so selfish and inconsiderate of my feelings and wants and needs. However, inside I will probably love him till the day that I die. disclaimer: i have dated other virgos and they all be on the same bs, super obsessed then cold and go ghost then get upset when you move on with life. they are not for the weak, i am incredibly confident and strong minded so i can handle this but i think this kind of behavior could really break a good woman.

[@MIMIDSH]

Learning a lot, binge-watching a lot. The Virgo I'm seeing reminds me, just when we're getting close and cozy, that he doesn't want a relationship, etc etc. I have reassured him I'm on the same page. I'm a Capricorn and I need so much alone time, and I'm extremely private. He always explains why he can't get together- he's got other things to do and while yes it's a little disappointing, I never let him know that because I don't take it personally-- he's not "at fault" for doing his thing. I want him to know my true colors and I'm sure the only way for that to happen is time. Being such a private person, I make it difficult for people to know the real me. The more he feels for me, the less it seems he wants to be with me.

[@4reelfutrell825]

Been dealing with a Virgo man a couple of weeks. Had a great time on our date, talk/text everyday. I talked to him this morning when we both ended our night shift. Haven't heard from him since! I don't know what to think except he better be in the hospital!

[@4reelfutrell825]

Still ain't heard from him 😑

[@sharnashields7118]

@@4reelfutrell825 sorry sis Virgo men are like this 😓. Update plz .

[@4reelfutrell825]

@@sharnashields7118 Smh, he recently moved to Atlanta.

[@doublepisces]

I just found this video. Since end of 2018 I’m dealing with Virgo man (I am sign Pisces and ascendant Pisces, so basically WALKING freaking EMOTION 🙄 he is sign Virgo and ascendant Virgo). The day I met him, I will never forget - the most magical day, I felt like we know each other forever. Next weekend I was already meeting his family at lunch, friends, etc. First month was really nice, we were communicating the whole time, he already in the beginning told me he loves me, he has a fear that I will just go, disappear, because he had a bad experience before... second month was already a bit rocky, third month was already bad. I saw some weird activities on Facebook, he was very active checking photos of the other girls, leaving some likes, hearts and so on. I was keeping it inside until I exploded - what is very important for me is that I can express my emotions. I asked him to think about what he wants and let me know. He ghosted me for 8 months straight. Finally we get in touch again, he told me he is not ready for a relationship, I should give him time, he has much going on due to work, etc. Ok, I accepted. We were seeing each other for next 6 months, when I am with him, he really do many things, cooks for me, etc. But when we are not physically together he would not send even a msg for like 7 or more days. And activity on Facebook is the same like before, and every time I ask about it, his answer is ‘it’s just Fb, nothing serious’, but if he is liking constantly photos to the same women and adding new women constantly on his Fb, sorry but that looks to me like he is trying to get attention from them. We didn’t saw each other for 1,5 months due to Covid19 and I really don’t know what to do about this situation. I truly love him and can imagine future with him, but I’m not sure how much more patient I have and strength to deal with it. I find it somehow the same - with him I’m suffering, without him I’m suffering from the distance. 🤷🏻‍♀️ It’s a circle. I am grateful for him because during this whole mess my spiritual awakening was triggered and I’m more focused on self love, self worth, getting rid of the old believes, being more aware of my thoughts and trying to be more optimistic about life. I’m sorry for a very long comment, but I don’t have anyone else to talk to right now. 💕

[@alimei1983]

Going through that rn and I’m on the waiting/trying to get over the Virgo •~• A good 90% accurate to my situation

[@krissykay1842]

Thank you so much for sharing. I am experiencing a spiritual awakening as well that was triggered by a virgo ghosting me. This was the most positive takeaway from the entire situation.

[@doublepisces]

@@krissykay1842 This was posted a long time ago. In the meantime we broke up again. This situation pushed me into the Dark Night of the Soul and life isolated me completely, closed all the doors on me for a good year. Than things started to be a bit better for me, my ability to manifest came back, life started to kinda work out for me again, but my Virgo in that exact time met someone out of nowhere, she got pregnant very quickly (after like 2 months into relationship), they got married and he became father in January this year). I am on the other side going through the Void, crying and giving up on life every other day. I’m crying right now. If we put all the struggle on the side that we had, that was the only man I could imagine to be my husband and father of my children. But life had completely other plan for us, for me. I wish I can tell that Spiritual Awakening is a path full of Milk and Honey, but it’s not. You basically have to became no one, nothing, to detach from everything you posses and everyone you ever loved. Finding Nirvana is a greater task of them all and I’m not sure if I’m able to do it. Thinking to do Ayahuasca to help me heal at least some of the pain and get some answers why everything needed to happen this way.

[@krissykay1842]

@@doublepisces I pray you find the healing you need and the love you deserve❤️

[@vanissaballard4531]

That means he’s up to no good or he’s depressed lol

[@divadeb1907]

Hey Jonathan, hope you and yr family have a great Christmas!!!! It's funny but a lot of signs are ilke the especially earth signs, but reality is we all need each other at one time or another i think ghosting is rude, technology is so easy now, it doesn't hurt to just text someone back and say i need sometime for myself. It gives people the weomg impression to the other party. I still will enjoy listening to yr channel!!

[@JonathanRWhitfield]

I agree with you 110%

[@golden88goddess84]

Heartbreakers! Indecisive MEN..RUN🏃Flip Floppers will truly BREAK YOUR HEART AND LEAVE YOU INSECURE EVEN WHEN THEY KNOW THEY NOT RIGHT THEY WILL NEVER BE PLEASED AND LOOKING ELSEWHERE BUT THERE, THE MEN AT LEAST..

[@LifewithMrsLewisss]

My Virgo man has been in and out (ghosting 3 or 4 days at a time) but still with brief communication when we see each other at work or through text. No hard feelings here because I too am an earth sign (Taurus) so I need my space as well but it's obvious as hell that we both miss each other. We hit it off immediately when we first met and have an undeniably strong connection. Two weeks ago he told me that he felt himself falling in love with me and he got scared & that's the reason he has been distant. I spent 3.5-4yrs healing after being in a 7yr toxic relationship with the father of my children so I am healed and ready now. How long should this type of "ghosting" last? This has been going on for about 3 months now

[@HMJM777]

The virgo I was with did it the entire 7 years so good luck

[@rmbhn]

Can we get an update on the situation? Are you both together now

[@LifewithMrsLewisss]

@@rmbhn sure! No we are no longer together. The ghosting was getting extremely immature. I'm totally okay with the need for space but it got to the point where it felt like gaslighting when I would mention how it made me feel. To me that is disrespectful and after doing the years of inner work to heal myself and prepare to love and be loved, I refused to go back to toxicity. Doesn't make him a bad person just not the person for me. We split around Nov 2019 and haven't been in communication since. Not on bad terms or anything. Honestly I believe it was a test from the universe to really see if I was totally healed bc I met the man of my dreams in April 2020 through a mutual friend. He proposed on Christmas Day and we are getting married on the beach on 2/22/22! It all works together for your good!😊

[@tomeishasimon5622]

So it's normal for them to just up and stop talking to you like that

[@twineyez3109]

You hit it on the nail... I’m seeing a Virgo man and he went ghost on me! I hit him up one day and it was unlikely of him not to respond. So I waited tried again the next day same thing. So I’m saying to myself what’s up with him- is he okay. Well a few days went by I didn’t here from him and boom a week later he hit me up. At that time... I was like rolling my eyes at the call. Btw I’m a Pisces woman😌. Any who... he texted me this long paragraph on why he been missing 🤔. He went by saying that he is going crazy about me. And he don’t know what it is. (Crazy thing we weren’t even intimate). He just kept saying he loves the vibe between- and that its driving him crazy. He catch himself doing things for me that he doesn’t normal do as well as just thinking about me. And me I’m just confused. Like.... really! I was stuck on how do you go missing on someone. He kept saying I will never understand and that at least he is explaining because that he don’t normally do. But with me he feels like he owe it to tell me. So wtbs... listening to you message today makes a whole lot of sense😩 and what I am facing too🤨😂. But thank you because he is sweetheart... so I see all of his behavior in the past was because he is really into me. Ohhhhhh, and I like my time so I’ve learned to give him his time too. So it works out for the both of us🤷🏽‍♀️!!!!

[@m3gh3ad]

no he was playing u😂😂 and im sure that never worked out huh?

[@michellerhyner1477]

Very informative ❤️🙏❤️

[@jazzyphatphat15]

This video was very helpful I’m a Taurus was recently set up with a Virgo man by friends he is the first Virgo I ever talk to the connection was so crazy to me I’m usually very shy when I first meet people but he made me feel so comfortable we talked for hours literally stood out alnight just talking about are lives past relationships family issues everything he was very flirty affectionate I’m not a affectionate person but he really brought that out in me but then he disappeared and comes in and out he told me he thinks about me a lot but he doesn’t show it he texts me sometimes ince some times twice a day but I can’t get a feel on him he does have a lot going on in his life with work family so that just maybe why me being a Taurus I go within and think about a lot also so I can seem somewhat detached to he said I have to show more interest which I do need to work on I’m use to dating fire signs who are more fast and push more of a hard line with him it’s more slow moving and doesn’t push things hopefully things will get bette I really like him I’ve never connected with anyone or felt comfortable with anyone like I have with him

[@RockinReadings]

I'm a Capricorn Sun sign woman and I've never dated a Virgo man in my life, up until a month ago. One of THE MOST difficult signs to work with, get a hold of, and communicate with. Ignores me and recently ghosted me. Will talk/see me when HE wants to. The [tarot] cards said he's going to communicate to me, but by the time he does, I wouldn't want to take his ass back. Definitely going to stick to Aries sun & Sag sun men since they compliment my Libra rising, Libra moon, & Aqua venus. I'm glad I've avoided Virgo men as long as I did and now that I've experienced one, NEVER AGAIN will I try for a Virgo man. NO THANK YOU.

[@tanashiaw6792]

If he wanted to, he would! It takes 2.5 seconds to respond to a text. if he doesn’t have 2.5 seconds in his day to respond to you, he’s probably not the one. Simple.

[@JonathanRWhitfield]

This is not true, love

[@brandedej4162]

Very true!

[@cadiahbeatty4411]

This is CRAZY was the EXACT situation with the last man I dealt with! Wow! Only thing different is he keeps hitting me up to this day! Explain that one please 😂

[@betonme1]

Thank you now I understand 😌