Why it is important to accept your child the way they are (Hindi) | Riri Trivedi | Wellness Space

[@learnerspoint87]

True ❤

[@JD0509]

I agree with you. I was very extrovert person and I faced so many problems in my life because of my extrovert nature. I prefer introvert behaviour over extrovert.

[@muhammadsauood2089]

Thankyou so much

[@sunitabania1156]

❤

[@nikunj6300-b6p]

love mam

[@karthikreddy4755]

Can please talk something about golden child abuse? This so little information online.

[@Love-dz1um]

Maam parenting differences ki situation mein kya kare.. E.g mere 5.5 yrs bete ka abhi annual function tha. Wo performance ki practice kar raha tha. Ghar pe b enjoy kar raha tha. Kids k makeup ki pic aayi for reference aur usne participate karne se mana kar diya even future me b participate karne se mana kar diya. I accepted his decision and we watched the live telecast of school function at home. I asked in between how are the kids looking.. And by the end of telecast, he himself said," next year I will participate" But when his father got to know about it that he is not participating. He sarted arguing ki sab bachche kar rahe hain to isko b karna chahiye tha.. isne kaha aur tune maan liya.. yeh kya matlab hai. Another incident - bachche ne monster ki drawing bananyi 2 din se wo dikhane ki koshish kar raha hai papa ko par he us busy.. jab dekhi to.. monster kyu draw kiya bhagwan ji ki drawing karni thi.. bachcha irritated and started shouting on his father with valid reason ki mujhe jo aata hai wahi to karunga.. aapne sikhayi hai kya koe drawing karni ? Fir yeh bachche ka bad behaviour count ho jata hai.. main bolti hun ki agar appreciate nahi karna to kam se kam criticise mat karo.. let him draw the way he wants . Its just a way to express his thoughts and feelings.. Mera maanne ka reason tha ki main use enjoyment feel karvana chahti hun jo b wo kare, sab kar rahe hai isliye nahi.

[@Love-dz1um]

Ma'am please suggest which of the 2 approaches in 2 situations shared above, is right for child?

[@chaitalisaha5160]

Mera baccha baby girl 5.5 years of age bahot gussa karta hai baat baat mein, kuch v sunti nahi us waqt, uska gussa dekhke mujhe v gussa aa jata hai , main aur meri bachchi isse kaise bahar ayun?

[@dishachaubey523]

How to deal with teachers who always bring out the negative points of a child in class??

[@Love-dz1um]

Show the mirror to the teacher that probably child is learning the negativity from the teacher . Tell her to look and highlight positive about the child; results will be visible to the teacher by herself.

[@riritrivedi]

You can bring it to the teachers notice that it is affecting your child

[@Bimlakprakash]

Hi mam maine aap se pahle bhi question pucha tha aapne bola tha usko activities mai involve karo lekin mam wo gusa bahut karti hai or baat bolo samajhti hi nahi hai know she is 14 year running she was not taking any response for anything like school and hum bolte hai ki aapne ye work nahi kiya toh she was making bad face and abhi o badi ho rahi hI us mai kuchh samjh nahi aa rahi kaise usko samalu samjh nahi aata mam khud se padhti bhi nahi hai study ke liye bolo toh suna unsuna kar deti hai bar bar bolna achha nahi lagta mujhe mam bahut chid chid karti hai

[@riritrivedi]

Ma’am for such specific issues I need a lot more information before I can guide u. I have to know about family, environment, dynamics between family members etc - I cannot give specific advice without specific information. Pls schedule a consultation with myself or Anagha nagpal for parenting consultation