Why Japanese Guys CHEAT So Much

[@trayfor]

That little kid that tripped in the background at 5:41

[@Javasius]

😭😭😭😭😭

[@novivianngo]

lmaooo

[@clonkyy]

epic

[@OtakuSadEyes]

I LMFAO(Laught my f ass of)😂😂😂 thnx man

[@joshuamagdaraog5468]

BWAHHAHAHA

[@Purpleavatar96]

For a culture where honor is so important, they sure normalize an extremely dishonorable act

[@teamojesusss]

Literally. I'm so confused

[@Cat-tg8nk]

It’s because a lot of Japanese talk the talk but can’t walk the walk. They act like hard workers because that’s what their culture expects of them but when I worked in an office the Japanese would do less work but refuse to go home first so as to seem like a hard worker and protect their pride.

[@kennix2914]

Agree. Ever watched anime? There are lots of harem genres where the males got many wives. They sure normalize this kind of behavior 😢

[@teamojesusss]

@@kennix2914 Vice-versa too (female with many men) but more male.

[@pandaman1331]

Strictly speaking, Japanese were woke before that concept even existed. It's all about the image of being a morally superior human not about actually being one. That's basically what Tatemae and Honne is. Only foreigners get fooled by it with the "different culture" argument. Japanese themselve know it's bs and wouldn't get fooled by it.

[@l6e6i6n]

How can you hate being cheated on and at the same time enjoy cheating on others. Thats some stupid logic

[@gordonbgraham]

Ever watch sports? How can they love winning but hate losing? Same logic...

[@exoticme4760]

Uhh that's with the enemy teams ... Being a couple isn't a competition with someone you hate but damn.... Cheating is so bad ugh... It's like you weren't worth it 💔😭

[@gordonbgraham]

@@exoticme4760 In a relationship you're competing for attention. You're competing for time. You're competing for wants and needs. Ever been married? It's a constant battle about money, the kids' education, where you're going to live, how you're going to spend your time, where you're going to go on vacation, whose friends get to come over and how often etc. etc. etc.

[@exoticme4760]

@@gordonbgraham what you're saying is too difficult and complicated. It feels like headache and a waste of time. It is simple, you become ONE when you're in a relationship then everything is simple. I guess you've been with the wrong people or you yourself could be the wrong one with the right person or maybe both are wrong lol

[@gordonbgraham]

@@exoticme4760 Becoming one sounds nice and fuzzy warm, but it's not reality. People are individuals whether they are in a relationship or not.

[@kellypalusis6399]

I lost some braincells when the one guy tried to explain how it's okay for guys to cheat but that women should never cheat. If that's going on a business trip, he can just leave and never come back.

[@akshaini.]

True so fucking true

[@BowserMedia]

When guys cheat it’s literally just to fuck. Kind of like taking a piss. No bond or connection. Girl cheats she dead to me cause for girls to have sex 90% of time they need to be emotionally invested to some degree

[@artthounasty5877]

Fr, I feel like my IQ dropped while listening to that shit...

[@alexthemobster5849]

frrr...

[@audreyhill6859]

dw these guys probably never finished hs lmfao smart girls wouldn't ever get with them fdksjdsjf

[@josiebobi]

i never understood cheating… if u wanna sleep around just don’t commit to a relationship with someone 🙄

[@emperorhideyoshi3223]

They aren’t committing to a relationship that’s why they be cheating 😂 u just answered ur own question

[@cee_el]

@@emperorhideyoshi3223 yeah but they were leading the gf on by claiming they’re official

[@captainvanisher988]

You don't understand cheating from the male perspective because you are a woman. Women cheat when they fall out of love (usually) or find a better suitor. Men cheat because they are biologically inclined to do so (usually). It's like taking a p*ss to pump a dumb for men. By cheating they do not express nothing other than the desire to get off and procreate. They will probably still love their girl as much as before they committed adultery. Now, the question is if it is wrong. Well that's for each one of us to decide since religion is no longer what drives and keeps our societies working.

[@Okayme8080]

True

[@vcaesium]

Istg

[@chloert]

The second to last and the last two guys were such a nice breath of fresh air I was going insane watching those other guys talking about how many girls they've cheated on

[@funkthat]

Hey girl its time to wake up, whether you know it or not all guys cheat (at least the ones that you are attracted to and actually like) we just wont tell. Poor or rich young or old, chances are if you are attrracted to a guy, guess what, your prolly not the only one! Haha see how that works? By default if you like him prolly hundreds of other girls want him as well. So you better be prepared to compete for that man and share him OR just date a safe guy who is prolly not exactly your standard BUT he wont cheat. BYE BYE

[@Aynii95]

Right like. How are they so cool abt it

[@meinhofexe3955]

Culturally fucked up, no wonder NTR's, ugly bastard, and rape are commonly found in the Japanese pornography. Their mindset/customs are just "different" from mine in that particular view, horses for courses, I guess.

[@gordonbgraham]

@@meinhofexe3955 snuff porn in the US...scat porn in Europe . What country are you from? What is their mindset? Let's do a deep dive...in the closet

[@meinhofexe3955]

@@gordonbgraham Do those have anything to do with "affairs" or "ethics"? No

[@neesan_tv]

It's one of the things that shocked me the most living in Japan. Most people (who are sexually active, which is not everyone) had already cheated or been cheated on and they were normalizing it like crazyyyyyy. The thing I also noticed is like, as we can sense in the video, there is still a huge gap in stigma between women cheating and men cheating. Even celebrities. Some celebrities after a while, are invited back to TV shows so they can laugh about the scandal and everyone says "well he's popular with women, shouganai haha" but when a female celebrity cheats, it leaves deeper scars for her reputation as a "good wife/woman", that's why Japanese girls have a harder time admitting to their cheating because they know how much harsher they will be judged. Something else I noticed when I tried to understand WHY culturally people are cheating so much is also because a lot of young Japanese girls have a hard time saying "no" and I am dead serious. The men are very pushy and manipulative and take advantage of drunk girls (drinking culture not helping), I've seen it first hand many times. Japanese men also have a way with words and promise things they don't mean so some girls accept the cheating in hope of finding better love but are almost always left disappointed. Of course, it's not an excuse to cheat in a commited relationship at all! I just saw a little deeper the roots of such light cheating and was shook.

[@twilightprincess994]

you are absolutley right! Japan just is not all that beautiful. Every country has its flaws.

[@qiuyinghuang5907]

Well said. The stigma double standards for women and men is the root for the double standard bullsh*t showcased in the video. “For men it’s like business trip, for women it’s like changing job.” The nerve. 🤢

[@katalystcruz8864]

Nope. Its because its all more difficult for men to get laid. To cheat a man must be attractive. A below average obsesse women still has more options than a average dude.

[@mealovesyu]

@@katalystcruz8864 you don’t really have to be attractive to cheat, it’s really about right place right time

[@jamalahmed6957]

"Japanese men have a way with words" so does every other man in this world lol

[@seiramatsuda2644]

as a japanese i am truly ashamed that these people think that cheating is okay

[@tiffannyranger8134]

😭😭

[@beeslaughter7674]

優しい人です!

[@helixxia9320]

yeah me too im baffled. like just break up with your girlfriend and be in a open relationship or polygami instead or something

[@Childeee444]

They’re like guys can cheat but girl shouldn’t,what even is this rules??🤨

[@myintmadi6053]

@@Childeee444 fr

[@oomay1925]

I honestly don't care if people want open relationships and treat lust and love as separate things, but if you're cheating on your partner in secret and you know they would be hurt by it, than you suck. Just don't be in a relationship if you can't commit to it.

[@terriermonisgod]

some of these people might be scared the pool of people to hook up with gets smaller, which it maybe does, but these days to me it seems like in the west its common to be open about what type of relationship you want

[@chickenfoot2423]

exactly! its all well and good saying lust is natural and you want to be able to act on it, but thats not all you’re doing. you’re purposefully getting into monogamous relationships with the knowledge that you will lie, hurt and deceive them, and also possibly put their sexual health at risk. if you want to follow your bs biological nature, dont date? the guy with red hair literally said homosapians didnt date in his spiel 😭

[@mikylejoubert8347]

Like I get if they both agreed on an open relationship, it’s 100% fine then but while you swore to be monogamous is crazy

[@christine_15_26]

When cheating is taken so lightly, something is wrong. It's simple. If you want multiple partners, don't commit to an exclusive relationship. Cheating is very traumatizing and I can't fathom how some of these guys can talk about it like it was just a game. I feel very lucky I have a loyal Japanese man.

[@zackwyvern2582]

If he's loyal, then appreciate him. Don't let anyone try to sabotage your relationship by stereotyping him as a cheater too.

[@obey_forever_mae]

@@zackwyvern2582 when did they say they were stereotyping him... weirdo

[@It-sMazie]

​@@zackwyvern2582 Nobody stereotyped him.

[@user-kw1hq-r8o]

read the other comment above@@obey_forever_mae

[@ncrest4365]

@@zackwyvern2582 appreciate someone for not cheating even though it should be the standard for all loving relationships, ah...the bar is rock bottom lmao.

[@oreoluwabello1329]

Cheating is disgusting. Period

[@YoonJintae98]

Says the person with western value. You doubled period too

[@oreoluwabello1329]

@@YoonJintae98 I'm African actually. Christian. And yeah. I wanted to just use full stop like in British English bit period is more forceful you get? Two, even more lol And forget Western values. Everyone there is cheating and getting divorced lol.5

[@YoonJintae98]

@@oreoluwabello1329 in Japanese culture, sexual activity isn't considered a family thing, so if u r married and have sexual thing not with your husband or wife is ok. Heck back then in sengoku time the Shogun had little boys as sex partners no one was angry. That's true Japanese culture. It's changed since ww2

[@tt-ir4im]

@@YoonJintae98 so youre saying "true" japanese culture endorses cheating and pedophilia... and this is a good thing? how???

[@sunoo_love923]

@@YoonJintae98 huh. back it up with a source

[@opaloktapiana3923]

As a men i found this weird and disgusting... How can you mad when your cheating but you also cheating on her. Wtf

[@yasmeen9592]

Wow, you're a very rare and good human being. It's rare to see a man like you nowadays. Most cheaters, whether man or woman, are all disgusting

[@teamojesusss]

​@@yasmeen9592 True. It's so sad that there's so many people justifying cheating. Very disgusting.

[@yasmeen9592]

@cumeloia cumellia yeah, besides porn isn't good for people's mental health.

[@asves4536]

Most people aren’t cheaters and are good people, but it’s the bad ones that make it seem like everyone cheats

[@aaaduccs6667]

@@yasmeen9592 fr I agree

[@lightsoul2096]

I’ve been cheated on and it’s the absolute worst shit that’s ever happened to me. My confidence, the way I see myself in the mirror dropped. My ability to trust was damaged. And worst of all, all that time I spent loving them and they were betraying me and telling me I was “paranoid”.

[@BreathlessGust]

Hope you find someone better.

[@neetfreek9921]

I'm sorry but I'll never understand how people tie their entire self-worth and self-confidence to other people. Just move on, this isn't a soap opera. For this to be the worst shit to ever happen to you, you must be living a pretty dam good life. Whether they made a mistake or were genuinely malicious, who cares. Make up or break up and stop internalizing things when there could've been a million other reasons that caused the cheating. You are being paranoid, maybe not about the cheating, but most definitely about your self-worth. This isn't sustainable or even remotely healthy. Kill the romanticism and treat people like people.

[@TT-ee1vv]

​@@neetfreek9921 If they didn't lobe that person they wouldn't be hurt in the first place. It's like your mother, sister or friend betraying you. Imagine them mocking you, stealing from u or hurting you behind you back while you go about loving them and being loyal and supportive, it's heartbreaking. Hope you never experience that though. It's still hurts but it's true that instead of carrying the burden for yrs ppl should try to move on and heal.

[@neetfreek9921]

@@TT-ee1vv There is a difference between being hurt and spiraling into a depressive episode. And how you practice said love Will effect either outcome greatly. I’m saying that we need to practice love responsibility and reasonably. Not to forgoe it for the sake of security. Look into romanticism as a philosophy if you want to learn how the definition of love has changed over the decades.

[@TT-ee1vv]

@@neetfreek9921 Okay, I understand what you mean

[@novivianngo]

I always heard how normalized cheating is in Japan, it’s really sad. I’m sure even the loyal guys that don’t cheat, when they hang out with their other guys friends that cheat, they tell them they should just cheat on their gf. The two guys that were justifying how it’s okay for men to cheat gives me the ick. “Spreading the seed” is all I need to know that he probably isn’t being safe and putting his girlfriend at risk by sleeping around with so many girls. Cheating is only okay if the men do it apparently🙄 the ego of it all

[@funkthat]

Hey girl its time to wake up, whether you know it or not all guys cheat (at least the ones that you are attracted to and actually like) we just wont tell. Poor or rich young or old, chances are if you are attrracted to a guy, guess what, your prolly not the only one! Haha see how that works? By default if you like him prolly hundreds of other girls want him as well. So you better be prepared to compete for that man and share him OR just date a safe guy who is prolly not exactly your standard BUT he wont cheat. BYE BYE

[@俺はGrey]

I agree with you, however it goes both ways, women in Japan should also not cheat... most of all though, men should stop being pigs.

[@山田菜々-s8h]

RIGHT!! I was thinking the same thing!! so sexist...lmao

[@user-cc7xy6jn6p]

喋んな。日本に来たらお前もするんだから。

[@user-cc7xy6jn6p]

@Mina M 間違いない。あいつらピル飲みまくって浮気しまくってる。

[@leeettuce]

女の浮気は無理とか浮気する男が言うな👎 浮気する人間はみんなキモいよ…

[@sean10kyo]

true. totally agree

[@goodmorning2386]

私もそう思います

[@NailoBo1]

Real my g luv woke the ones 🙏💯

[@hey_you.]

Exactly...

[@itoshisaegf]

facts 💪

[@Minaoda.1202]

As a Japanese girl It's sad to see how they're laughing about cheating. This is one of the reasons why I've never dated a Japanese guy lol

[@Alvun416]

No. You never dated a Japanese guy because you are typical gaijin hunter with a fetish. Don’t blame them for your problem.

[@purpleplanet888]

and then japanese guys get sad that 'their' japanese women go for foreigner guys like make it make sense

[@xuxiongming]

Go for other races hahahaha.

[@srose1088]

So, do you live in Japan then? Seems like alot more work to avoid Japanese men if you are.

[@SMCwasTaken]

¿Que piensas de los Latinos?

[@chloert]

I'm begging you to do this interview with Japanese girls

[@BobMaoui]

Yeah

[@JT-574]

But they’ll never tell the truth on camera. They’ll just act like they’re virgins because in Asia women are not supposed to be sexually forward.

[@krio_0120]

Up 🙋🏻‍♂️

[@AnishNair09]

I think some other people have already done something similar

[@Light-vc9ku]

I don't think japanese girls will answer honestly

[@soybeans4580]

Kinda sad to see that this is normalized in Japan for both men and women. The guy who said that it’s human instinct to cheat gave me an ick. Though that may have been true back then, but we’ve grown past that point. We’re now at a point where we can choose to cheat or not. Sadly, these guys choose the latter.

[@captainvanisher988]

The name suits you well. But that's besides the point. Male nature isn't specifically to cheat but to procreate as much as possible. And we definitely haven't outgrown our biology. How do you ask? Porn is a perfect example. It showcases what guys would do if they had access to these many women. There are guys that bust to 10 different women a day. The social restrictions of religious marriage were the only thing that somewhat kept people in check (especially women) but that's far gone now. We are living in the progressive age now, so if you don't like it then advocate for religion.

[@DavidCruickshank]

@@captainvanisher988 If you want to procreate with loads of people then do so, never a better time. but don't enter a relationship with someone then cheat on them. It's very simple. Furthermore porn stars do not have good sex, they have good looking sex, it's a job.

[@captainvanisher988]

@@kanotakt112 That's false. Monogamy has only been fully reinforced in the West the past 100-200 years. In human history 40% of men have reproduced whilst 80% of women have reproduced. That alone indicates that some men had multiple wives/partners/baby mommas whilst other had none or died before getting one.

[@captainvanisher988]

@@kanotakt112 I never said that women let any man into them. What are you on about? You need better reading comprehension. And yes you are right. Women preferred a high status and financially secure man that could provide for them. Some men could provide for one, some for two, some for 5 and some for hundreds. Is it a low percentage of men? Yes. Is it 1%? Who knows? But we know that for every 1 man who reproduce 2 women reproduced. Meaning that society practiced polygyny by default.

[@ouui]

It's kinda weird that everyone thinks that it's common to cheat, but that if it happens they think there's something wrong with THEM. Never with the fact that cheating is normalised in society. They give up to this lol

[@K3ROKO]

When I studied in a uni in Japan, me and my other foreign friend went to a local bar at night. Two Japanese dudes came to the bar and sat with us. I know Japanese but my other friend didn't. We chatted and the other guy started to express to me that he was interested in my friend. He asked me a lot about my friend because he didn't know any English. Then he started to show pictures of his WIFE and CHILDREN. And he still was coming on strong my friend and asking me whether she was interested or not. I was very astounded how openly he declared about having a wife and kids and still wanting to hook up with my friend... Nothing happened because we were really uncomfortable and after they gave us a ride (was stupid of us to get in their car) closer to home (not all the way because we didn't wanna let them know where we lived), we said our goodbyes.

[@christellen3077]

😢

[@It-sMazie]

😢

[@thoughty4257]

Holy fuk

[@alinasmith5737]

Dont ever, EVER get in that car again. No is a very important word and anger a very important emotion to learn.

[@clinton4161]

People that want to have multiple partners should be open about it and find each other. Leave the people that want monogamous relationships alone.

[@Denji.99]

the problem is these ppl want both at the same time

[@purpleplanet888]

most men dont like polyramous relationships as they are with rules and such they like the thrill of betraying and its disgusting

[@clinton4161]

@@purpleplanet888 I don't know about it really being most but I agree it's messed up that people will hurt others just for a thrill.

[@werallgnnadieintheend]

Yes, exactly.

[@markuchiha7737]

HIV

[@as-dg8sq]

As a Japanese, I found this part of society sooo disgusting. Since I was a young, I heard guys talking about this kind of sh*t, and that makes me don't wanna date with Japanese guys. Personally I've never cheated nor been cheated, also I've never dated a Japanese guy. I think Japanese culture has still a lot of patriarchal parts

[@lyuuy7477]

Cheating is common amongst both Japanese girls and guys. It has nothing to do with "muh patriarchy"

[@lyuuy7477]

Dont make excuses for being a gaijin hunter.

[@massalleh5255]

@@lyuuy7477 Nah, I'm not a gaijin. But if a woman want to have a normal monogamous relationship. Japanese men is the last man she should go

[@rukia01wubbaduck]

​@@lyuuy7477 while it's true that Japanese girls cheat too, did you completely miss those guys saying men can cheat but women shouldn't? Used The rape apologist argument too. It's clearly disproportionately common that Japanese men consider it their right as men.

[@Kitxne]

Ours is different. When he knows his 20 year old gf is pregnant the father runs away and never seen again.

[@PisCean]

9:27 - This guy: "I think a lot of people are too posessive", "Hanging out with the opposite gender shouldn't be that bad..." 10:01 - Also this guy: "My girlfriend went to Disneyland with a guy, 2 girls and 2 guys... I really didn't like it. It was borderline cheating for me." Which one is it then??💀💀

[@It-sMazie]

HAHA

[@jomr4249]

Maybe he was trying to make himself feel better about the situation by acting like it wasn’t a big deal lol

[@venzchan]

Bruh himself is confused about his thoughts

[@guesswhosse]

that is what i was saying when watching

[@Pixy_lee]

But I think going to Disneyland and just hanging out are 2 different things yk?

[@JDPrimeShots]

I think one of the best things about your interviews is how naturally everyone seems to act around you. It almost feels like the "wall" around strangers in Japan don't exist when you interview it!

[@tellallyourfriends27]

I think that's because he's half Japanese and they feel more comfortable around him. Plus, he's a native speaker and would get all the nuances that a foreigner interviewing them wouldn't.

[@jonglopez5400]

learning how to at least maintain common conversations gets you a long way.. even if you are not a native nor a half.

[@Ok-oo2kh]

@@tellallyourfriends27 Nah, its bc hes half japanese, dnt make sense at all lol

[@Ok-oo2kh]

@@tellallyourfriends27 I mean its not bc hes half japanese, asian people are very open certain thing

[@verreal]

True. It's a gift.

[@nia-cs3yd]

Those two guys at 7:00 are the type of guys I never ever wanna associate with lmaoo the double standards

[@Aynii95]

Never ever!

[@KNOWLEDGEREINGS]

Then they put on a fake personality around the women just so the can get sum…

[@nia-cs3yd]

@@KNOWLEDGEREINGS they're the type to say "men who cheat are scum" but they really think like this..

[@ashleylove6840]

Same, their personalities are trash. In general they are trash humans.

[@alexis44444]

They’re young, careless, and dumb fr i feel bad for the girls who will fall for those geeks

[@laviniagaillard3412]

I was in Japan one month ago, in Tokyo, and one night I met a guy that I liked so we just hanged out together untill he told me he had 7 girlfriends at the time, none of them knew about it ofc. I was so shocked but he didn't seem to see the problem, je was laughing about it a lot, that just disgusted me a lot, so unbelieable to tell things like that in Europe and joking on it. He even told me one of them was a teenager and a virgin, poor girl must loved and trusted him a lot ! So yeah, this video made me realize that my experience with Japanese guys isn't so strange in that country

[@poubelle429]

oh my thats gross

[@mysteriousplayer248]

Having lived in Japan I can confirm. I was shocked at first with the attitudes on cheating, but often I heard that same argument that as long as you loved each other having a side thing from time to time was not really that frowned upon which was a bit strange to me coming from a culture where cheating is heavily frowned upon.

[@mookieyoe]

Japan is well known as beautiful country yet disgusting country nowaday

[@_CL]

Yeah, and cheating is not just emotional betrayal: you don't consent to the possible STDs your cheating partner could bring.

[@kikulele]

Do they even love each other when they know that cheating could hurt their partner? If they knew the person wouldn't mind it they'd be open about it.

[@Mighty.Matcha.]

For real, I have no idea how they think

[@sarahs6165]

I feel like it's still wrong even if it's culturally more accepted in Japan.

[@scentedlikerose2931]

6:00 almost had a brain aneurysm listening to these two. cheating is disgusting.

[@anikatasnimsaba]

He's japanese Andrew tate

[@moonliqx2211]

I really don't know how they pick up girls 💀 them laughing about it made me cringe.

[@Zebiuiui]

They are disgusting but strangely proud

[@sysonic917]

​@@anikatasnimsaba I have no idea how you even linked it with him when that's on the contrary to what he believes.

[@childee5912]

@@anikatasnimsabaFR

[@blast10734]

I am genuinely confused as to why so many men say that they “can’t resist” sexual urges because it’s “part of their nature” and why many think this makes their behaviour somewhat justifiable. How come the vast majority of men have these kind of instincts but (most) women don’t? For example, I have heard men who chikan on the trains etc. say that they “can’t resist if she’s pretty” as if it’s some inherent instinct, but I really don’t get how this is supposed to be a proper excuse… Why don’t most women act like this towards handsome men? How is it any better that men act as if they’re wild animals with no sense of self control? And why are they “unable” when there are normal men out there?

[@tarabooartarmy3654]

Yeah, I hate hearing this excuse. And that’s exactly what it is - an excuse. It’s like alcoholics who say they couldn’t resist a drink, or overweight people (like me) who say they couldn’t resist another slice of pizza. Please. Yes, you can resist. You choose not to. You don’t want to. But you CAN if you want to.

[@TheReMorseCode]

They believe that women don't have sexual urges, while men do. Probably because women are fucking bored when they sleep with Them, so they assume all women are that way. Just exposes how repulsive they are to women

[@CatsNCoffeee]

I watched this with my Japanese husband and he was getting disgusted and calling most of the men stupid. Just from their voices, he said they sounded idiotic and like they were just trying to show off.

[@melisonline_]

those aren’t men, they are BOYS!!! Its so disgusting how they think its funny to cheat. like they really need to grow some real balls and get a grip on reality. It also shocks me that one of them even said that men should cheat but not women???

[@teamojesusss]

To be honest, it's hard to believe your husband after this video. Maybe he says that because he knows you would be mad at him for it. Sorry but yeah...

[@gordonbgraham]

Men always play innocent in front of their girlfriends or wives...I'd be careful of the ones who "protest too much"

[@verreal]

@@teamojesusss I think it's a little of both. When guys talk, they often strut, without anything to back it up. Some of the interviewed guys were probably exaggerating.

[@shafuimcoming5151]

Keep your eyes on him bro.

[@Quitelife-c1u]

I hate cheating because I put all that love and effort for just one person and the fact they abandoned that to go get “love” from someone else saddens me.

[@NailoBo1]

Nah fr g world just full of fuck up ppl remember what Tupac said tho “I’m not saying girls are perfect, ‘cause we know that’s not true. But why be unfaithful to her if she’s always true to you?” Real onw right there ❗️💯

[@nivritiray800]

@@NailoBo1 i like alr love you fr bro

[@taishihayakawa3148]

As a Japanese, I am truly ashamed of these people

[@giuliab8484]

Don't be, not everyone thinks this way

[@alexa_depphil7542]

But you're society has many sex clubs and many slut ....so its pretty clear that you are aware of this.

[@It-sMazie]

Well there are alot of people out there!

[@hazelmint6671]

Glad you are not the same. 🤪

[@martiddy]

5:25 This guy has a very twisted definition of love, how can you even say that is okay to cheat on the gf that you allegedly love?. That's not love, that's hypocrisy.

[@mealovesyu]

@@sanman-uj6oy I would also admonish them, but I’m the same so 😝 cannot really say much I’m also freaky and they’re hot so that probably why they say such things seems to be a common theme

[@pappico]

he's also ugly lmao. the gall

[@Unknownplsyer]

They are narcissists that's what

[@dancingcorpses5750]

Exactly! If you love someone, it means you care about their feelings. I don't know how some of these people proudly say that they're cheaters while smiling. They should be ashamed.

[@venzchan]

Yeah they want to leave offsprings but don't want to take responsibilities, even animals are far better than them lol.

[@rem6093]

really disappointed with the responses of some of these guys... it doesn't just "happen" - maybe its bc im just an unexperienced korean teen whos never been in a relationship nor grown up in this culture, but its really shocking to know that love and loyalty can become so worthless like that.. like "spread my seed" ??? come on...

[@gordonbgraham]

"spreading one's seed" is the biological catalyst that initiates male sexual activity. It's nature. All the romantic dressing is an illusion...It's a beautiful illusion but an illusion nonetheless

[@anasian8894]

I'm shocked as hell as well. Cheating among married couples is illegal in my country.

[@gordonbgraham]

@@anasian8894 Cheating being illegal is far more shocking than cheating.

[@yuki._loves]

the "spread my seed" was something...

[@NormalGUY___]

@@anasian8894 Where are you from sir?

[@noneofyourbusiness9267]

Wow, I never realized cheating is so normal. As a woman, glad I know this now before my trip to Japan.

[@Kat-mu8wq]

Id advise you to never have unprotected sex either, East Asian men, particularly Japanese and Korean can carry and spread hepatitis B via "body fluids" without even knowing they're a carrier.

[@karensurgery3845]

it's not normal

[@goldenhourss]

@@Kat-mu8wqEWWWW

[@rifqimujahid4907]

@@Kat-mu8wq whites can carry smallpox without them knowing, it led to the decimation of native americans

[@hggpi]

​@@Kat-mu8wqhow do you know this much genshin pfp man?

[@XGaMeROo]

I love how Jesse calls them out, like he'll listen to them respectfully but he doesn't vibe with their bs

[@dhimankalita1690]

He definitely vibes w them . He is a experienced cheater himself

[@kimbo9793]

@@dhimankalita1690 How do you know?

[@cheese6760]

@@dhimankalita1690 he vibes with them to exposure them, its kind of, reading the air situation

[@lorenebonsu146]

@@dhimankalita1690 you made that up, if he was criticizing then do you think they would talk? 🤦‍♀️. The moment he expressed he didn’t like what they are saying they would leave the interview or refuse to answer. We get to watch this because he makes his guests comfortable wether he agrees or not.

[@mars__1400]

"Doesn't vibe with their bs" *vibes with them throughout the whole interview*

[@user-zt8iw9dd9o]

そんなに色んな人と関係を持ちたいなら付き合わなくて良いんじゃないかなって思う。浮気をしている人は相手を蔑ろにしている人が多いと感じます。侮辱的です。

[@sarahs6165]

Laughing about being a cheater... It's a good way to turn every girl you meet off. I find it interesting the concept that girls won't cheat because they're more about that emotional connection than physical. You would think that would encourage them MORE not to cheat - more hurtful for the girl. It's just a sign of the person's character and disrespect for the girl. It sounded pretty sad for the guys that have been cheated on too.

[@IxoraNera]

If it is accepted in society like how I feel through this interview, it's surprising, It's the society that instills the values.

[@fioreolivares1638]

Well, to be fair he only interviewed guys. I've known girls who were just as stupid and hortible and cheated for laughs. They disgusted me just as much as the cheater guys in this video. Cheating no matter the gender is just disgusting and disrespectful to the ones they claim they "love". Sounds like they just want someone they can control while they go do whatever they want and tell others that is what love is. Gross. They're gross.

[@IxoraNera]

@@fioreolivares1638 Actually after wacting this video I got a recommendation from youtube about the video of same topic in which women as ones interviewed by the ASIANBOSS channel. It was so bad, it's disgusting, they were saying they cheated like it's a common household mishap. From where I'm from cheating is the worst thing a men/women can do, it's spretty much social suicide. If you have done it, you keep it under wraps so that you don't make YOU or Your family look bad, because it affects the cheater and cheated equally, And here they talk like it's an everyday thing.

[@beeslaughter7674]

I hope this video comes back to haunt them severely

[@IxoraNera]

@@beeslaughter7674 Don't think so. They don't have to worry if it's pretty standard like that and accepted by society. But that doesn't go for any other country, I'm pretty sure most companies fire you if they see you causally talk about cheating.

[@ChelleMT]

If cheating is something common, then the only thing left to hope for is for them to take STD tests regularly. At least be safe, for yourself and your partners 🙄

[@ohsweetsummerchild5141]

The fun part is, majority of Japanese people don't, most just go to the next, then to the next partner without tests... according to a Japanese podcast for 20s women. And the hosts were like, they were envious because "STD-testing culture is prevalent in the West unlike Japan". My online friends thought I was insane when I had myself tested after a long term relationship and had some time-off before jumping on a new one. Tests are also costly so that may be a factor too.

[@ansha17]

There are doctors here that will tell you if you're sleeping with a Japanese person then you don't need an std test because Japanese people are clean so

[@odysseus0990]

They don’t and they won’t. It’s a joke among foreigners to be careful in Japan bc stds are so rampant

[@dorothykelly3231]

@@ohsweetsummerchild5141his is why they are struggling with syphilis nowadays

[@acutelilmint8035]

​@summerchild5141 ya my friends friend said this. guy was cheating g on several girls they got stds..

[@BaranoJosei]

I think it would have been interesting if you had asked them if going to a brothel counts as cheating on your girlfriend. It varies by person of course, but I have some guy friends here in Japan who don't view going to a brothel as cheating- I guess for them it is more like a 'business trip' as pink-hair guy said because there are no feelings involved. I think this was probably my biggest culture shock about moving here because in my home country going to a brothel has a negative image and is seen as something only done by desperate guys who can't get laid otherwise.

[@PikaJess123]

It counts as cheating if your girlfriend isn't okay with it id say - its up to you two to work out boundaries within the relationship and follow the rules you set

[@she5139]

these types of people shouldnt be surprised if they die lonely and unfulfilled

[@emperorhideyoshi3223]

Damn you’re mad ash 😂 they’re really fulfilled lol they’re basic ppl with basic goals and they’re meeting those goals so what’s ur problem dude stop sipping on the haterade

[@marsfrog104]

@@emperorhideyoshi3223 You're just saying that because you're a cheater trying to make yourself feel better, as if we all didn't see your other comment 💀💀💀

[@emperorhideyoshi3223]

@@marsfrog104 lmao how would that be the case since I don’t have anything to feel bad abt if anything I’m just trying to help u 😭 it’s not healthy to get angry over stuff u can’t change

[@marsfrog104]

@@emperorhideyoshi3223 I don't understand how you're helping me, cheating is a lot more than people fulfilling their desires, breaking the trust of your partner, spreading aids, unwanted pregnancies. It's like saying to a drug addict that as long as their fulfilling their desire it's okay

[@cee_el]

@@marsfrog104 lmaooo you called him out and he’s still there claiming you’re mad when he likes to cheat. What a loser

[@irohsslipper6155]

From personal observation (7 years living here, talking to a ton of people across a wide variety of age ranges in-depth about life, love etc): 75% of Japanese people don't know how to: a.) Love, b.) be loved. Isn't evident from this video? These strutting young men, talking about relationships, love & cheating as casually as you would talk about the weather. Not realizing the immense psychological, emotional and spiritual damage they cause both themselves & their partners. The pressures of society, the obsession about how one presents themselves, the strict and narrow path that most Japanese people have to walk in life, the lack of space & time to get to know oneself properly, they all result in: People getting married before they're ready. Having 0 time to reflect on their true nature, or on that of life. Having children because it's the "thing to do". Not loving their partner, cheating etc while also hating their job and life situation (but continuing anyway because they've achieved some level of success in society's eyes), not loving the child properly, the child grows up with a hollow hole in it's heart. The cycle continues. Despite all that, some of the most loving and open-hearted people I've met have been Japanese. They've all been "non-typical". They spent time reflecting on their own adventure in life, and integrated the lesson they learned, perhaps they lived abroad or simply had the courage to do things their own way. In doing so, they became far more whole and well-rounded.

[@darkdrake13]

Beautiful analysis

[@luc4465]

oof i wonder if japanese ppl have even experienced love lol

[@brendonprophette8890]

Words of wisdom from uncle Iroh

[@kaelart5876]

this is so sad

[@captainvanisher988]

I have to rebut you on a couple of points. Early marriage is by far the best way to go about it. Especially marrying your first sexual partner. By statistics alone these relationships tend to be the happiest and the longest. Besides I know for a fact that marriages of older generations were far stronger and happier and loving than today's marriages. "Taking your time" isn't a good answer to this. What is a good answer though is growing up with values and a mindset of "the woman/man that I will first bed and marry will be the one I'll live with forever , so I got to choose wisely and I got to do everything to make it work". There's no such thing as "having kids for having kids". Kids and marriage are by far the best predictor of longterm happiness especially amongst women. As for "Japanese not knowing how to love" . I have one thing to say. Most people today in the first world don't know how to love. Love is something that you build upon, not something that happens nor just a simple feeling. If you are not determined to love someone then you do not know how to love. Something our grandparents had understood yet somehow this wisdom was lost by the decades of heavy societal change. The boys that boast about their cheating are a product of a valueless and directionless society. Where everything goes, whatever you feel is reality and you should act the way you feel and only do what makes you happy. No responsibility, no duty, no values just raw nature. And sadly or not, naturally men are polygynous and are inclined to procreate with as many women as possible. Without the societal boundaries this is the men you create.

[@jackthejoke3298]

I just kept smiling while watching this train wreck go on and on. The red haired guy had me losing brain cells with every syllable. “Don’t attack us” I mean I don’t even use Twitter bestie but I surely will have an I eye ticking every time you speak

[@ran_haibara]

i know 💀 he's not even that attractive to even cheat 😭 its his personality at this point but man youre not even good looking to be so proud of it

[@chuuyaette]

honestly this is just wild imagine the girls they cheated on watching this bro that’s just messed up.. and when he said because there Japanese they forgive easily. bro wtf

[@nothnx3210]

F'd up as heelll. I wish girls in japan had more backbone and common sense to kick these mofos to the curb.

[@NailoBo1]

Nah fr tho shit messed up to the max dude got all that confidence and shit thinking he all that like bro needa be humbled

[@MrKewlKhan]

@@NailoBo1 fr

[@Kat-mu8wq]

Japanese women are often known as meek. That's why Japan has a serious chikan problem, because the women don't stand up for themselves.

[@It-sMazie]

They should no not every japanese women is meek

[@lavenderlillymi]

As an Asian I can agree 💯 even my dad did it many times I cried but I saw it 4times even my uncle cheated I mean they were in a relationship with the other person without even divorcing my mom my mom is strong she withstand all the pressure and is living her life just for me I hope I find a guy who is loyal and true Please 🥺

[@vampirehunter9299]

You are right as an East Asian. However, this is not the case in South Asia. Cheating is a crime in South Asian society and everyone in the society looks down on that person.

[@GadisBaliLivesAbroad]

I'm Asian and I grew up with Dad, Mom, uncles, and aunties who are loyal 😊. So, not everyone thinks cheating is healthy in a committed relationship.

[@he2295]

You will. I would try not to obsess and find things you're passionate about. Through those passions you'll find someone

[@ghhhggrtes-rx1gx]

White men never cheat ❤️

[@bobbykite8705]

Just depends on your standards. it's easy to find a nice, loyal, regular guy who will cherish you and not cheat. the question is, are you okay with regular. the choice is yours.

[@sheisasaki]

Cheating causes deep trauma and anxiety. Cheating thoughts consume you, drain you, and make you feel inferior in So many ways. So to those cheaters, please be with someone who plays like you do. You might be enjoying each other’s ride.

[@user-bk1ud7ru4r]

I'm a Japanese high school student and I had no idea people were cheating so much.

[@gordonbgraham]

You'll soon be a university student...and come to understand

[@josi8366]

Please don’t follow in the footsteps of these people.

[@catbeara]

Open relationships and polyamory would be a good solution to this lol.

[@frenchtupac6181]

@@gordonbgraham Whats your point?

[@gordonbgraham]

@@frenchtupac6181 He’s going to encounter a lot of promiscuous young adults in university

[@StarMercurian]

If you feel confortable cheating on your girlfriend then you don't love her. 🤷

[@yasmeen9592]

Too true, but do you know what these guys will say to justify their atrocities? "As men we destined to spread our seed, we only cheat because of lust, but don't worry, I only love you!" LOL sickening freaks, if they really loved a woman, they would be considerate of her feelings and try not to hurt her! But oh no! Their lust is more important than their significant other.😡🤮😒

[@teamojesusss]

Yup

[@Rainbowpandemonium]

But this goes both ways japanese women too cheat a lot, many guys said they have been cheated on by women.

[@stillfangirlingtoday1468]

I don't think men in general love women. Some do, most don't. Very sad really.

[@teamojesusss]

@@stillfangirlingtoday1468 Oh, and most women do love men?

[@Timotarius_]

If you cheat or have thoughts of cheating you are scum of the earth. If you no longer feel loyal to your partner , before you cheat you have to break off the relationship before you cheat.

[@kyogal8628]

This is just sad.

[@funkthat]

Hey girl its time to wake up, whether you know it or not all guys cheat (at least the ones that you are attracted to and actually like) we just wont tell. Poor or rich young or old, chances are if you are attrracted to a guy, guess what, your prolly not the only one! Haha see how that works? By default if you like him prolly hundreds of other girls want him as well. So you better be prepared to compete for that man and share him OR just date a safe guy who is prolly not exactly your standard BUT he wont cheat. BYE BYE

[@kyogal8628]

@@funkthat This comment was made without the presence of intelligence.

[@josi8366]

And they still think they are the smart ones and they are the winners. Great illusion.

[@captainvanisher988]

Are you married with kids? Did you marry as a virgin? Are you religious? If not then how are you gonna call a societal structure that you actively participate in "sad"?

[@jackfloc0]

@@captainvanisher988 fr these little girls are mad for what?😂

[@Gazzy.]

Bro this is wild, so open about it. (Like they either cheat or get cheated on, at least that's what it seems like)

[@idk-lz4nl]

its mad - but i wonder if its like an urban thing or just something extremely widespread

[@xjmmjbnqfstjdijoj2044]

@@idk-lz4nl extremely widespread... I think this is also influenced by the fact that Japanese culture has barely come in contact with monotheistic religions such as Christianity or Islam, where infidelity is deemed as an extremely serious and unforgivable sin The word for cheating itself "浮気 uwaki", which loosely translates as "fluttering or fluctuating spirit/energy" makes it sound like it's not a big deal, at least to me. Moreover they seem to differentiate between sentimental love and physical sex/libido...so cheating is usually seen as "serious" only when your partner actually falls in love for an other person

[@Reefir_]

The only reason I ever avoided dating Japanese men that taken fancy on me was because of this. I asked someone before about this and they were like those two other dudes that did everything to justify men cheating but women not allowed. It was so hypocritical, it was such a turn off 💀 As said, for a country that loved to go on about honor, they do love to do dishonorable acts. Either way, thats only one thing that I dont like about Japan, I still like other parts of their culture

[@Kat-mu8wq]

I mean the samurai also cheated, with men no less. They had their wife and a younger male to "play with" shall we say.

[@Reefir_]

@@Kat-mu8wq oh I’m aware of that. A lot of culture that went on about honour were dishonourable. From Japan to Europe. There’s no difference. But in today’s society, Japan still hasn’t ‘gotten on with the times’ like most part of the world where any form of cheating is generally taboo. Instead for them, whether you are a man or woman, cheating is seen as normal in their everyday lives as if it really is morally okay.

[@goosebump91]

Japan is a very patriarchal society. Honor only applies to how you treat other men

[@hggpi]

Yeah sure cope

[@kcrayzme2341]

It's disgusting that's all I have to say. I say this because I've seen what cheating and adultery do to a person and to many families

[@Kat-mu8wq]

Yep, it split mine up.. It was my mother that cheated, then within weeks of my father moving out (we still saw him much to my mothers dismay) we moved in with a man I never met before.

[@Lucyfae]

If cheating is normal in Japan... I salute to all those people who never cheated

[@jasmincita2000]

I like the fact that they are very honest about it. It's not like they pretend or give you what you wanna hear but they openly answer with the truth.

[@goosebump91]

I think they're only honest about it because it's so normalized and accepted. If the culture looks down on it, they wouldn't expose it so openly

[@rubyrose7858]

This is probably just my opinion, but the reason why we get upset and hurt about cheating is not just the act, but that they lied to you. They broke the trust. So If you brought it up in the beginning before dating, saying that you can't stay with just one girl/guy for whatever reason, then no one would be super pissed/hurt because they already had a heads up. (the other person can 'cheat' too lol). Of course you will have less candidates for dating, especially if they are looking for serious monogamous relationships, but at least trauma and stuff may not be severe. Even if you want some thrilling adventures, tell them in advanced too or throw yourself over a tall building, maybe that'll help too.

[@temiloluwaamusa2810]

Find a girl who's down for a open relationship

[@madamadadane7989]

I am not even surprised. Cheating about in Japan is very normalized and that is why I tell people who have any Japanese man fetish to just cut it out before they even try. Seeing them spoke so openly about it is even more sadder. The reason why it's normal is because the cheated on party will feel like they are to blame for it bc they think there is something wrong with them. It's very hard for them to practice self love.

[@teamojesusss]

So true. I had this love for Japanese men until now. So sad.

[@misato...]

I'm not surrounded by girls or boys who cheat. I don't even have to ask the people in this video to know that they cheat by the looks of it. As the saying goes, 'like attracts like.' People with bad brains attract friends with bad brains. Japanese people can understand that they are stupid people just by looking at their mood and the way they talk. They are not the norm for Japanese people 💔. I don't like such dim-witted people, so naturally I didn't get involved with them. They are so dumb that they can talk about these insane original theories and logic as if it is natural. Of course I have lived and seen people who seem to be as dumb as the ones in this video, but I don't think there were many of them when considered as a percentage! And there will always be such dim-witted people in your country. (I have seen many such people in other countries, and I have seen many such people in other countries. Of course, I understand that it is normal to dare to choose only such crazy people when making a video in order to create a buzz, so I would not make the mistake of thinking that all people in that country are like that.) Do you think that just looking at these interviewees is all Japanese people? I am also surprised at the fact that there are people who talk about cheating as if it is such a normal thing to do. I am surprised to know that there are people who seem to be so stupid that they act with such a pet theory. This is because I have never felt that this is the norm in my life in Japan. Of course, there may be people who have many opportunities to interact only with such people, but I never talk to them in the first place because I can immediately tell just by looking at such dim-witted people that conversation is not going to happen. Normal people know that they can't have a conversation with people who are stupid, so they naturally avoid them. This is not a bad thing, but because I find it impossible to have a conversation with people who are not right in the head. I don't want to get involved with people I know are not sane, and in fact, I feel I was not wrong when I saw them talking about crazy things like in this video, as if they were normal. The interviewer seems to be targeting only those who would dare to cheat on their partners. Because they don't show a single person who looks serious. I use a translation tool.

[@goldenhourss]

same for men who have a fetish for jp women

[@Kat-mu8wq]

I will always adore my Daisuke (from the band dir en grey) but after my 2 experiences dating Japanese men, I would never go there again.. One of them, as beautiful as he was (which is probably why he manged it) 7 women, and he had the cheek to say the 7th didn't count because I found out about it. I was litterely about to commit murder. I was fuming he could do that to me when I had been loyal to him.. Must have been one of those "culture differences"

[@hhsERyR4]

外国人で日本人男性フェチとかめちゃ少数派やろうし、気にせんでもええやろ笑

[@Amiraurgirl]

I was dating a Japanese guy for a few months not knowing he had another gf the whole time and way back before we met ?? I’m 18 so it’s not as bad for me as the 28 year old gf who he promised to marry. But that experience has changed my whole perception on dating and now I’ve got major trust issues and will legit never get close to someone unless I check his messages and phone

[@Ceylin_Kurtbogan]

using a lot of big-brained "logic" for cheating while still hiding it from your gf is super funny to me. Find someone to have an open relationship with then. Why hide if it is all natural and ok? I gotta remember these faces vividly to avoid them completely if we ever come across lol

[@teamojesusss]

Take screenshots

[@Alex-up2lh]

Because these guys don’t want to be cheated on. They want to play around then have 1 girl only belongs to them. 🤡🚮 Totally trash kind of human right there.

[@Those2menoverthere]

I'm 26 years old and I'm glad I have never dated, I want to stay out of that kind of misery. Dating at a young age is pretty much useless. It saves me my time and money, lmao. Sleeping around just seems like an unnecessary mental pressure that could be easily avoided. Maybe I'm just too much of a "goody-two-shoes".

[@robz6306]

You should check out a channel called Justpearlythings here on YT. Really goes into depth on both sides with many different people.

[@YoonJintae98]

I met my wife when I was 16, I wish I had kept jxxking off.

[@Those2menoverthere]

@@YoonJintae98 F

[@mikeg3536]

sad, if you want to live as a background person

[@Those2menoverthere]

@@mikeg3536 Oh so you have to be in a relationship, friends and family don't count? My bad dawg.

[@chiedawson]

I never heard about women cheating while I was growing up in Japan. Cheating by men were not that rare even back then, I think. I haven't lived in Japan for many years and wonder what happened to the Japan I used to know in the 60s and 70s. I am saddened to hear this.

[@It-sMazie]

Oh then japan must have changed alot

[@yukii3138]

Honestly at this point that’s just so sad. Cheating should not be normalized and people should start thinking about how their actions could cause consequences in the future. Personally I think that’s just so wrong and disgusting in many ways. How could people be proud that they cheat? Honestly I think if a person cheats, they should feel ashamed because that’s literally betrayal in so different ways. Also causing problems for other people such as the lover themselves and also giving a bad image to the society and country itself. Cheating is just so gross and disgusting. And people honestly should start considering what they can do to put a stop to this act. Cheaters should rot in hell basically. And cheating is wrong for all people not only for males or females or what’s in between.

[@XGaMeROo]

Funny how one pair viewed being Japanese as cheating/being open or whatever his argument was and the other said being loyal was part of being Japanese

[@ababa8594]

I'm Japanese but please don't be thinking the majority of us are like the horrible people in this video. Some people horny af and thinks body count is something to be proud of. They don't love their partner, they love themselves being able to be "popular". Us normies are having a healthy relationship. None of my friends are like this.

[@alexa_depphil7542]

Nah you're Japanes porn says alot even Jdrama , Anime so cringe so many wierd relationship

[@jamesrian1578]

Out of curiosity, in what life stage are you in? High school, university or working adult…? How are the people you know casually? I’m genuinely curious to know but you don’t need to answer!

[@ababa8594]

@@jamesrian1578 University. They're just normal couples. Never heard of anyone cheating around me.

[@jamesrian1578]

@@ababa8594 ohh I see, that’s a relief to hear kinda

[@ababa8594]

@@jamesrian1578 I really wonder what kind of environment the people in this video are in.

[@julianna8275]

it’s so wild seeing them laugh about cheating (and getting cheated on) 😲 do japanese people have hearts of steel? ✋😭

[@emperorhideyoshi3223]

Nah most of them are soft but we are just rational about it everyone compartmentalizes and justifies their behavior and this is why some are delusional

[@NailoBo1]

Nah fr tho in America they'd getting popped by angery Brothers,Sisters,Dads,Uncles,Nephews he better be glad he ain't see what we can do to him

[@ciello___8307]

cheating happens everywhere though. Not just japanese people

[@julianna8275]

@@ciello___8307 of course it happens everywhere. what im shocked about is how it feels so normalized there (well based on the video)

[@Kat-mu8wq]

From my experience of 2 men, they have no heart at all. The Korean wasn't much better.

[@Nekomikuri]

Living in rural Japan and noticed that. Japan doesn't have a lack of sexual activity. I think it's the opposite, everyone is getting it on and it's so encouraged here. I guess it's no different from American Universities, but I notice my club culture is very much about sleeping around. There's a lot of pressure when you see your friends do it and you wanna have some fun, yet everyone still basically lives with their parents and feel pressured to quickly get into relationships. The result is people forming boyfriend - girlfriend with others because of initial desire, then realising they want to experience more fun and going off with multiple people instead But then again I heard the west is the same yet doesn't have this problem - Maybe because they're more clear on the friends with benefits thing and don't hide it under an actual relationship I feel the same honestly, I keep going on dates and feel it just doesn't work out, and I stop pursuing it. Most are more serious and do want to date, but I only really want to do it if I feel compatible. My friends will tell me to just make a girlfriend and then continue dating so you can experience both and find out what you want. Aka sleep around while having a gf lol

[@ifyouloveChristyouwillobeyhim]

The Bible has all the answers when it comes to all these questions. What are our hearts longing for? What is a good way to find a life-partner? How should men and women treat each other? Why do people cheat and why is it tempting to cheat? Reading the Bible has been what's helped me most, way more than anything else.

[@bartenderhd]

@@ifyouloveChristyouwillobeyhim Wrong crowd, homie.

[@gordonbgraham]

@@ifyouloveChristyouwillobeyhim The Bible says love Jesus or be tortured for eternity. How compassionate!

[@josi8366]

@@gordonbgraham Wrong. The Bible says that all are (without exception) condemned for their own sins, but God by his infinite grace (grace that the human being does not deserve) paid the debt of humanity and gave chance of salvation to all who believe. As Jesus paid the price, it is through him that we find salvation.

[@yuki._loves]

@@gordonbgraham Well it's kind of like the guy who was in Bachelorette said. He thinks that his actions dictate his fate. If he dated this girl then he thinks that he shouldn't get mad that she cheated on him.

[@Hi98765]

"it happensss" ... lmao no it doesnt you brute! be good to your woman/ man !!!! love the guys take at 8:34 theyre so adorable and honest

[@lisamarie161]

Oh noooo lol I never knew this about Japan. I bet they tell their girlfriends they are loyal lol. If I was single and living in Japan I would have trust issues and avoid dating 😂

[@gordonbgraham]

Where do you live? Do you suppose men and women are so different there?

[@captainvanisher988]

@@gordonbgraham probably the Us or the Uk which is far worse there 100%💀

[@rubyrose7858]

For reals. I'm sure there are loyal guys, but it's rare. My first ex was a Japanese guy and it was chaos 😂 because of him, I dislike Japanese men lmao. It's even more sad because I'm hating on my own people now 😂 sigh.. international marriage it is then lolz

[@ootenba5910]

@@rubyrose7858 Same. My Japanese ex tried was psycho abusive. Never again.

[@teamojesusss]

Same for me now

[@daphnethegamer]

Just be single if you want to sleep around, not that difficult lmao

[@tessawong433]

I have never been so icked out until I heard what the guys at 5:14 have said. Their justification on why cheating is okay(ESP THE RED HAIR GUY OH GAWD) and their deeply ingrained misogynistic attitudes truly make me hope that any girls that they chance upon in the future do not take them seriously.

[@UCJInlzu1DhjQOOc3omg0FtQ]

i feel bad for japanese women for being cheated on, but also because they're being cheated on by ugly guys like these.

[@gordonbgraham]

Japanese women are doing the same

[@PeyloBeauty]

Fr like they’re not on l cheating but be ugly while cheating too 😭

[@solrun9524]

“People shouldnt be too possesive” “My girlfriend went to disneyland with 2 guys and 1 girl, its borderline cheating” LMAO

[@upthedown1]

Solrun there is such a thing as friends going out to have fun. If they are flirting or like each other that's different.

[@lurkerran]

Guy is jealous because his gf didn't tag him along 🤣

[@verbadoo]

Depends on how long you've been dating before you can trust eachother. In this case if your gf doesn't invite you then you dump her on the spot. There is no way for you to know they're not cheating. Not going to take the chance on being cuckolded. Personally I think being possessive is fine. But I prefer a relationship where I just don't have to worry about it at all. So I usually only date severely introverted antisocial types.

[@upthedown1]

@@verbadoo Haha coward!

[@lnnn4351]

I do not think so, why he is not invite but another guy on the trip, this setting in Asia is typical of going out-dating.

[@chingompiew1]

I've been in Japan for 30 years since I was 17, speak and read fluent Japanese and worked in different environments. Still don't know how they think or if they even think at all.

[@NoctLightCloud]

I'm certain if a girl said 7 guys in 2 weeks she'd be considered the worst of the worst...

[@Ceylin_Kurtbogan]

well, this is how we perceive him as well though honestly. It literally made me nauseous how cheap he is

[@NoctLightCloud]

@@Ceylin_Kurtbogan Yeah but the image of a dirty person is less extreme in our perception compared to if it were a girl :'(

[@hey_you.]

​@@NoctLightCloud sad tho

[@Kat-mu8wq]

Shed definitely be considered a dirty skank.. probably full of disease So I guess thats what makes him too.. Fair is fair, all is equal here 😂

[@abhichodry8849]

If a lock is opened by many keys then its called a worst lock but if a key can open many locks then its called a Master key... I think the life of Japanese men's are on this principle nowadays 💀💀💀

[@imizamonster]

I was interested to know what they consider cheating. My husband is Japanese & we established early on what was considered cheating for us both. Luckily we were the same on this. But my other Japanese friends had different levels. Some even like the guys in this video that cheated a lot "as long as there's no emotion & no one gets hurt (aka caught) then it's fine"

[@annamaria1984]

My japanese husband was like those guys. So when He was invited by his senpai who is also married and has a pregnant wife, to a brothel, he defend himself by saying that it’s part of his job. After that I was so broken hearted and even attempted suicide, but my husband went to brothel even more. I divorce him after he abuse me not only mentally but physically.

[@jirou6228]

​@@annamaria1984 your first mistake is marry a Japanese man

[@temiloluwaamusa2810]

@@annamaria1984 sorry

[@cee_el]

@@annamaria1984 glad you left. “For a job” haha. I live in Japan so I get the senior-junior concept but if the senior is going to go that far, quit and find another job. Your ex is trash and glad you are at a good place now

[@moonliqx2211]

​@@annamaria1984this might be insensitive but how are you doing now (u don't have to awnser if you don't want to)? You didn't deserve to be put through all that 😭

[@akoden2667]

I don’t understand how anyone could ever cheat on someone. It shows a total lack of personal honor not only a lack of respect for others but lack of self respect too. Id rather just ask my partner if they want an open relationship than betray them

[@Waryfuls]

0:08 bro belongs to the streets

[@Kazoku4]

Belongs in a coffin 6 feet underground.

[@marsaaas]

he is really fucked up.... everyone who cheat is.

[@J.Crime123]

This video Shows exactly why i could never get into a Relationship with a japanese. Cheating is the absolut worst and there is no excuse whatsoever. But what do expect from people whos Favourit tags are cheating and NTR by the amount of stuff they produce of that, drawn and with real people.

[@teamojesusss]

X2

[@lanceshadow7335]

Lots of western ppl love those tags too, don't generalize lmao.

[@arvhee_kim]

Honestly I'm not even shocked at this point. I might be generalizing people but idc at this point. The most well-known countries that produce massive animation series, movie and so on or anime, which is now pretty well known internationally, which also produces massive series about "1 mediocre guy and 5+ girls harem" type shit. It is just a porn with a little bit of plot created of the overworked and unpaid people as a cry for help to escape their unfair situations. Which now made me realize that maybe because it is a normal thing there. But then again it must be engraved in the minds of most japanese people, considering they see it as a common thing to do. I have so much respect for the clean and reserved images of Japan by the things I see and hear about them on the internet, but I guess not all are clean outside and inside.

[@vizx8574]

@@lanceshadow7335 people love war movies too .. does they mean they want war on their or other country ?

[@amayikairuj1102]

A word to describe these people: insecure. Taking cheating this easily suggests that an aspect of them is extremely insecure--they would not trust anybody of not cheating. It would eventually show up in a form of testing and manipulation... by setting up an extremely low borderline for cheating. They would catch their partner casually hugging somebody for greeting as cheating, give a constant discomfort/threat whenever that "casual cheating" takes place, compel the partner to hide his/her personal life, and there it is----his/her action is now "legit cheating"; therefore they can confirm "all humans are dirty" and so their actions are legitimate.

[@efghabcd7538]

I think it's a great video with truthful responses! If they all say non-cheating, comments would be 'Japanese people have this facade they put on and don't speak their minds'. Just know that cheating is only normalized among cheaters and usually doesn't mean the whole population is like that.

[@teamojesusss]

But after seeing so many talk normally about it, it gives you big trust issues.

[@summermotley8975]

These guys shouldn’t even be in a relationship. Don’t drag good people into your miserable life.

[@captainvanisher988]

They don't seem miserable at all. They seem actually very happy (even happier than the "non cheating" guys). People should do what makes them happy right? It's women's fault this is happening not men's. The sexual liberation movement helped men like this. So don't complain.

[@arisashizuku2005]

@@captainvanisher988 💀💀💀💀

[@captainvanisher988]

@@arisashizuku2005 Am I wrong?

[@dumbplings550]

@@captainvanisher988 keep oinking. Piggy

[@captainvanisher988]

@@dumbplings550 keep getting dogged by Chad and Tyrone 304

[@adishreekundu3840]

The way they talk abt it so casually so mind boggling 😮 i would've thrown some punches 🥲

[@marcelooliveira7380]

This is disgusting. Those guys should just be honest with their girlfriends and propose an open relationship since they can't live without having sex with others. At least that's better than hurting someone's feelings by betraying them. It's just so weird how hypocrite people are. If you're not monogamous, just accept that shit and stop pretending to be a person who you're not.

[@MelvinGeremillo]

7:59 あああああ男性が浮気するのは大丈夫って言ってるけど、女はダメ？　めっちゃ昔の考え方やなー最低

[@luizaoliveira7034]

Here in Brazil there is this discussion many times that those who love do not betray, and those who forgive betrayal are fools

[@emmiii-ir3qe]

I vaguely remember watching a documentary on this topic. A woman said she didn't mind her husband cheating as long as he didn't give away his heart..that stuck with me

[@singinghalf]

Name?

[@shunqi-br4xu]

Omg, idk if the guy on the left from 5:14 was being sarcastic or not 😭. The reasoning for guys being ok to cheat is just mind boggling. Sounds like they're a miso lover lol

[@captainvanisher988]

The reasoning is this: Men are biologically inclined to sleep and procreate with as many women as possible. Society tells them that they should do whatever they feel like doing and whatever makes them happy. It tells them that they should be intune with their emotions. And that's what they did. This is what an effeminate and irreligious society looks like.

[@Remilia-p1s]

外国人は街頭インタビューが客観的なデータだと思っているらしいw

[@marisakiri6813]

Having trust issues as I'm watching this very red-flagged video.

[@emperorhideyoshi3223]

lol why 😂

[@GA-ik6pi]

I had NOOOOO idea that this was normalised in Japan 😱! It’s shocking and surprising to know. We know people cheat, my ex husband cheated n I kinda figured it out due to his whole shady demeanour. It’s not nice to find out you’ve been cheated on. But those last two guys were spot on, and truly can see the not so normalcy of it. I think it’s also age groups and society too. Cheating on your partner is never ok👍🏾

[@w3livewelovewelie]

im learning japanese language and wanted to move to japan at some point, but this video blew all the desire away

[@user3040lili]

私は日本人ですが、浮気が一般的だなんて嘘を広めないで下さい。迷惑です。私の周りではそんな話聞いたことありませんし、パートナーがいるのに浮気する人なんて世界中にいませんか？ インタビューに出てきた人達の話を聞いて心底驚きました。彼らは日本人の中でも浮気に対して独特の価値観を持っています。絶対に一般的ではありません。断言します。

[@natsubprojects4425]

教えてくれてありがとうございます。 この動画をみたら、正直怖いと思いました。「浮気する人がどこでもいるってことは当然ですけど、日本にそういう人は人口の2分の1見たい！」とか思ってしまいました。だから、userさんのコメントを読んでちょっとほっとしました。私は日本人じゃないですから、何が本当かインターネットで探さないと分かりません。 でも、何かがまだ気になっています。それは、JESSEOGNさんは浮気する人をたくさん見つけたことです。どうしてでしょうか？JESSEOGNさんは運が悪かっただけですか？または、浮気する人が多い町とかにいるでしょうか？

[@user3040lili]

彼がどのような意図でこの動画を制作したのかは分からないので何とも言えませんが、たまたま浮気が当たり前だと思ってる特殊な考えを持っている人達にインタビューしたのかも知れないですし、そうじゃないかも知れません。地域によって違いはなく、単純に都会には沢山人がいるのでそういう人達もいるんでしょう。外国の事を知る手段としてインターネットを活用するのは今や常識ですが、全ての情報を鵜呑みにせずに、あなたのように直接その国の人に質問するのはとても大切なことです。 私は英語が多少出来るので日本に関する動画も沢山観ますが、中には恣意的な意図を持って制作された動画があります。日本や日本人の間違った情報や日本に対する印象を悪くするような動画です。特に注意しなければいけないのは、日本語字幕や日本語の音声が流れない動画です。日本人に観られると反論されると困るので日本語を使っていません。この動画は日本人にインタビューしているのでまだマシですが、浮気が普通だとはあり得ないです。長くなってごめんなさい。それにしてもあなたは日本語がお上手ですね😊

[@NabSekitomyhve]

海外に目覚めちゃったハーフの人って大体こんな感じ　日本のネガティブな文化を広めるインフルエンサーが本当に多いですよね

[@sam_riddyy]

But ​@@user3040lilihave u seen a video from Takashi from japan. He made a similar video about cheating culture in Japan

[@animeoeshonikako730]

I think the problem here is, when the other s/o finds out they got cheated on, instead of having normal standard and going “you cheated on me? Once is more than enough, we’re over.” And dumping the cheater, they instead go “what did I do wrong?” Not blaming the cheater or seeing the cheater in the wrong whatsoever, and as we saw in the video here, they often forgive as well.

[@つり-c4w]

red hair bro sounded like he was spilling some kinda cult philosophy with the DNA and breeding insticts lol

[@Cronus1xx]

Do this but with Japanese girls. That’s a banger. 😂or somehow find the 7 girls he cheated on and interview them 😂😂😂 that would be next level hilarious

[@josemartin6646]

On god🤣🤣🤣

[@goldenhourss]

lmfao

[@erinsexton5706]

Omg whoever is doing your subtitles is amazingly talented 😂

[@komaeda_juice4983]

7:36 THE DOUBLE STANDARD...... WOWWWWWWWW

[@seokyumin]

This episode was equally parts ridiculous and hilarious. Great job with the interview!

[@muuukhhu7534]

8:05 that guy was so nice and his view on cheating 🫠take my heart out ..plus his voice 🤧💗

[@summerfatima2525]

This video was so interesting. You could tell it was thought provoking for the audience as well, they seem more intrigued than past interview questions. I hope you do similar interviews like this in the future. (About morality and meaning of life etc) They’re awesome!

[@plywood7894]

If you understand Japanese, look for content in Japanese and you realize that a lot of women in Japan cheat

[@agiagi_pan03]

日本人だけど浮気は病気だと思ってる、こんなに浮気する人多いのショック…彼氏も信じられなくなりそう…