Why Kids Lie and How to End It Now! by Bryan Post - Live

[@quingplutoestarr6123]

Who else watching during quaritine I love my kids and want the best for them I needed this

[@SusieSynth]

Me and I'm about to go crazy! She's a sweet kid but since she turned into a preteen, she says shit like "I need time alone" she's so unappreciative. In fact she's getting a package today. She ain't getting SHIT!!

[@christopherburbidge972]

I’m just watching this for the first time right now. It’s very helpful for sure! With my issue with my daughter, I feel is a lot more complicated because she lives with her mom 2000 miles away and her mom hates me because I called her mom out on lying to me about her birth control and so on that she lied to me about stopping so she would get pregnant. Before that, her mom said that she wanted nothing more in life than her own child. Needless to say; she got it and then fled with the beautiful child and forgetting about me before and during the process. My daughter is almost 19 and treats me like a third dad. My heart can’t take it anymore.

[@heyhoneyy]

@@SusieSynth everyone needs time alone hun. I hope that alone doesn't upset you. I know I don't know the whole situation but parenting is HARD we always want to make sure we're raising decent children so we are extra hard on ourselves but a lot of the time all we really need to do is relax and be present for them.

[@mtm5264]

I wish I'd seen it during the pandemic.

[@jrnate4ver]

Thank you for the video. Let me say I have two boys 5 and 7. My 5 year old started to lie all the time even about small stuff. I know I was doing something wrong. The eye opener was when I told my 5 year to come here and he said, "I am scared." That was it, I read books and listened to parent seminars trying to fix my concept of parenting. I am so glad I came across your video, it made me cry and hate that I was putting this type of fear in my kid. I applied it and it worked. It has been three weeks now with no discipline just giving my kids choices and staying completely calm doing all of it. Not easy at all. I had to get inside my own head and literally calm myself down before I give any response. It took about three days to really learn to stay calm. But I literally have compliant kids. It is nuts. When I am in distress they are as well. My 5 year does not lie anymore. He has no fear for my reaction and the consequence. He takes responsibility for what he has done. It is truly awesome. Thank you again

[@t.j.huckaby1924]

What is your method for ensuring accountability will be upheld after the acceptance of responsibility? Honestly curious. Thanks.

[@509drone2]

@@t.j.huckaby1924I’m very curious of this as well. We have an adopted daughter, and our counselor recommended this strategy. My concern is if this doesn’t work, it will only make the child that lying is ok, and it actually works.

[@sallyjrwjrw6766]

​@@t.j.huckaby1924this is 4 years later but I really wanted to respond. First, praise your child for their honesty. Then they have to make amends and clean up their mess. So, if they broke a toy then apologize. Accept their apology, throw the toy away, and move on. If they keep breaking toys, then maybe they need to pay for it somehow. But telling the truth should be met with gratitude and acceptance. Your child generally just needs reassurance that accidents happen and you still think they are good. My daughter borrowed a necklace and broke it. I told it I still loved her but she wasn't allowed to borrow any of my necklaces again. I didn't get angry at her, mostly because I let her borrow a necklace I didn't care too much about. Sometimes, I will say, "Let’s do x to prevent an accident." "Let’s move this cup to prevent an accident." My daughter did knock over a cup and made a big mess. I just told her that she had to clean it up. Ask yourself, "What would I do if I had done this myself? What self-talk do I want my child to have as they get older?"

[@suzcam1]

I just hope I can remember this in the heat of the moment,will watch it over and over. Thank you

[@patiencebolorunduro5628]

OH my God just what I was thinking…

[@Cheesecake.496]

Lord knows, I needed to hear this today.. thank you so much!!❤

[@Fadilanse]

6:45 When he act out that line, two lines of tears roll down my cheek, and I'm a 28 years old guy, I guess I never moved pass something in my childhood. I didn't expect it to effect me this much. I guess I still carry a lot of fears from my childhood

[@postinstitute]

Its a gift to become aware of these things that are buried in the subconscious. Breathe, allow the tears, connect with the feeling. You’re safe now warrior

[@dawnalongoria8362]

This makes me feel super bad. We just got permanent custody of my step daughter and she has a huge lying problem. We have been putting her in time outs and everything for lying it it is not stopping. She would get in trouble for telling us what was going on over with her mom. We been putting more hurt when she already has internal issues. She has been in counciling but I feel this may help. She has never had stability so telling her how much we love her and all this good stuff would most likely be good for her to know. We know we love her but I'm sure it can never be said to her enough how much we love having her here safe with us.

[@postinstitute]

Dawna Longoria sounds like you gained some important understanding of what she’s needing. Work on that connection and relationship and as you said helping her feel loved, secure and safe. All the best to you and your growing family

[@finnliengaard4482]

Amazing! Thank you!

[@MrRoberthafetz]

Every behavior has a goal or a purpose. A lie has a goal. Often the child isnt aware of the goal. The best response is to determine the goal align with the child and acquire the goal. In adoption and foster children the goal is to feel connected or securely attached. So then we address the goal not the behavior while not approving of the behavior. First validate the emotions the child is feeling. Then create an attachment experience. Verbal responses wont work because you are dealing with limbic processes.You must create an experience that sharply contradicts the childs emotional state in the moment. That experience is created by a touch, hug, eye contact, calm accepting voice, and body language. Spoken words wont be effective.

[@dcampbe91]

guardians, parents, childminders, concerns citizens we all can relate and appreciate these tips...thx

[@pguti778]

Oh Lord, you're so right!! so right so right

[@xjoanna89x]

Gave me shiver! My son says he is too poorly to get up every morning before school, funnily enough he is fine at the weekends and holidays. I am going to have to give this a go!

[@stanblue8055]

Great advice!

[@j.k.l.1756]

I like the approach, much better than most. Thank you.

[@evangelinespruill3101]

Helpful advice.

[@toonsmindmusic4204]

This guy is a great teacher

[@omegadragoon1544]

Kids should always have the integrity to be honest.

[@sallyjrwjrw6766]

Integrity doesn't come naturally, it is developed by good parenting.

[@richellelemon3137]

*wow* his ability to *be* in a child's shoes or better, mind state, is nothing short of amazing. Thank you for opening the cage.

[@sgtbrownty]

Before I react to my child lying to me, I always try to put myself in their shoes. I also lied as a child, but if I got caught and punished, I would not do it again. My child had not learned that lesson.

[@conspiracylibrary2848]

That kindness broke my heart. In a good way!

[@EriBarr]

My son (13)came up to me and asked how long until summer.. I thought it was an odd question and just said in a couple months why? And he looked at me and said ‘well because I wanted to know how soon it was coming up so I can go stay at grandma and grandpa’s for a bit so I can go work with grandpa and make some money.’ I asked him if he needed money for something that he was thinking of that.. and he said really slowly’ well umm I was in my room and saw the boys were outside so I knocked on my window to get their attention and it broke.. so I want to go work with grandpa to make the money to fix the window’ I could tell that he knew I was going to be really upset about the broken window.. I do tend to get upset under stress and since I’m a single mom of 4 and rent.. damage to the house is a huge stressed.. but the fact that he let me know instead of hiding it and having me get even more upset was great lol the thought process and solution to the problem that he came up with isn’t new.. Ine summer he came home at 11yrs old from my parents house with an envelope with $150 and handed it to me saying ‘here mom this is for you to help out.. It’s some of the money I made working with grandpa.. I did spend some of it on stuff I wanted but I heard grandpa saying how he worked while going to school and always managed to save a little to send to his dad to help out.. and since its just you at home I wanted to help you’ ( I saved that money and used it to buy a replacement game controller when the one he had stopped working ) I remember one time I had my daughter and my bestfriends daughter with me while going to the store.. their neighbor likes to give the kids money randomly when he sees them outside and each of them got $20 and he handed us moms $100 each.. he’s really generous when he’s had a few drinks and gets insulted if we reject the money so we just take it lol.. anyway on our ride back home my daughter gives me her change saying here momma.. I asked her if she wanted me to save it for her or just hold it and she said ‘nah you can keep it’…. It was about $5.. my friends daughter gives her a wide eyed look and says ‘you could buy something else with that much.. your just going to give it to your mom?’ And my daughter replied ‘yea why not? She gets me everything I need so I don’t need the money.’ 🧐 I don’t know what I did or do to to have my kids think about money this way..

[@postinstitute]

Beautiful story.

[@victoriawelch1112]

My boys almost never get in trouble, for the most part, they're well behaved but my 9 yr old is starting to lie about simple stuff and it's pissing me off. The first time he did it I whooped him and made him do a shit load of chores. I thought he learned his lesson but he just lied again this morning and now my 6 yr old is starting to do it too. I don't want to whoop them but there has to be consequences for this behavior. Hopefully this will give me some insight.

[@vee815]

Am having the same problem with my son he's lying, stealing not obeying me with simple chores I tell him to do he always says he forget he even shattered my TV an act like he didn't do anything what should I do I have to cut his behind because am tired of it now I usually don't spank him but I feel the need to now Cuz how else will he listen and behave himself

[@fuunkadelicbreakfast5339]

I wouldn’t tell the truth if I was scared of my mom either. Shame on you. Spanking is for lazy and uneducated parents.

[@serenalynzaat6595]

Some good thoughts. What happens when you approach your child in their safe state and tell them that their lying/behaviour hurts and the child just doesn't care, they simply have no empathy and no desire to change?

[@cmeza1985]

I would love to know how to deal with that

[@kp5496]

Right. That is what I am dealing with. My foster brother is borderline sociopathic, has ADHD and lacks empathy and remorse. He does not care if I am hurt that he is a liar.

[@blackbutterfly4739]

My stepson is the same ...he lies and steal and doesn't care ...I'm so over it and want him out my house!

[@salchallenge6269]

Yeah this only works with Kids who have good attachment / respect/ empathy for adults.

[@David_Michael_Perez]

@@blackbutterfly4739 probably missing the love part then

[@Eugenie13]

Woh, so simple and still, thank you for this wonderful parenting lesson, I now know how to deal with my children's lies.

[@tzunammi]

I'm heart broken... My wife told me my son said a horrible lie about me. I'm crushed... He did it because he was influenced by his mom against me... I'm devastated. I hate this life.

[@MissAprilMarie]

Hey, how are things now? I’m so sorry you had to experience this. Just know that in the long run, your wife is doing more harm to herself and the relationship she has with your guy’s son than anything else.

[@1realOpinion]

Will try this

[@sallyjrwjrw6766]

Well, did this technique work?

[@joslinnick]

Kids lie because it's a protection mechanism. Lying is a means of telling the parent/teacher/adult what they want to hear so they won't become enraged and/or violent.

[@postinstitute]

The root is fear. We can not always see what the trigger to fear is, sometimes it's real a present, sometimes it's rooted in the past, but fear is most certainly the root.

[@ms.chelita.7773]

Children lie because they are afraid. We need to remember we were children once. And try to meet them with patience, love and not impose force or instill fear in them. Be approachable to our children. So they can trust us with anything they need.

[@deutschrapoderwas]

The essence is to interact with kids on equal terms. They are little human beings, not pets, slaves or idiots. I think we should respect people. Unfortunately the most parents don't respect their childs like adult human beings. Although they are more sensitive, that's so cruel.

[@katjathesaurus3800]

Coz.. The kids dont respect... Truth from childs mouth? .. I dunno what they learn ... But they carry on beating eachothas heads in. On level

[@oksills]

siemenssx1 You are SOOOOO correct. I was afraid comment on here was going to agree with this “very confused” person! Thank you for not doing so and for having the courage to state the truth!

[@perminderkaur8160]

Totally agree

[@CamiandLorenzo]

wow, beautiful words teaching such an amazing lesson. I am so excited to do this with my kids from this very moment.

[@matthewchandler2647]

How do we use this technique while also teaching responsibility for their actions? Those two seem counter to one another

[@ST-xg3gy]

My daughter is a pathological liar and recently has become a kleptomaniac. Not sure what method works for that.

[@klaz1533]

great job love this

[@TheRealWitchHazel3]

I really needed this

[@ameliaRN]

Wow, that was amazing.. Speechless

[@blockfit8312]

You're amazing. thank you I will use your technique and report back Love and light

[@sallyjrwjrw6766]

Well, did this technique work?

[@t.j.huckaby1924]

I agree that this does seem like it would be an effective method but how do you stop the disobedience that causes the temptation to lie in the first place?

[@t.j.huckaby1924]

The only thing that was accomplished here was that making the child believe it's okay to keep getting cookies when they're not supposed to as long as they tell you the truth about getting the cookies. I don't think it's okay to kill people as long as you tell the police that you did it. This is not something you want to instill in your child's mind. I guess technically this will stop your children from lying but unfortunately the lying aspect isn't the issue that needs the most attention.

[@postinstitute]

Hi TJ, thanks for your comment. lying is rooted in stress and fear. When we build trust and work at the brain level to increase Oxytocin and reduce cortisol the "temptation to lie" is diminished. We have an incredible book on promotion that breaks all this down www.feartolovebook.com

[@t.j.huckaby1924]

@@postinstitute should there not be a certain level of fear related to the consequences of our actions? If not, what should be the motivating factor behind not breaking laws or rules besides the obvious answer of moral principles?

[@t.j.huckaby1924]

@@postinstitute and how do we instill that level of moral competence into young children when normally this is something that takes 10 plus years of A relentless dedication to mold our kids into someone who will even consider allowing the idea of right or wrong to dictate their decision making within the reasoning process of any given situation? I greatly appreciate u responding to my comments. Thank you!

[@sallyjrwjrw6766]

​@@t.j.huckaby1924only a sadist would think a child should be honest to get punishment. If you want to punish your child for taking a cookie then punish your child for taking a cookie, no need to demand honesty first.

[@tiffytoo]

This is SOOO TRUE!!!!

[@kaleemhussain6686]

This is a good video well done 😇

[@jennorr382]

So what happens when you've done this for years and the lies continue? I'm sure this isn't the case for everyone but it's been my experience that this hasn't worked. I wish it had bc we just had another extremely serious lie come up and I just don't know what to do anymore.

[@jaimepelaez-piedra715]

Jennifer Orr probably the child is comfortable doing it, kinda like an addiction. I mean we are human beings, evil dont discriminate.

[@Trytocookthis]

state level?

[@fredocorleone3280]

Better summary of what this guy is trying to say: Act calm and don't get emotional when you want to find out the truth with your child. Ask your child calmly if they are lying when it's obvious. Keep questioning them in a calm manner. Tell them how it makes you feel when they lie to you. Their fears of you will perpetuate any lies...don't make them feel fearful.

[@samyraalexander1710]

fredocorleone Thank you

[@digachica]

He specifically says NOT to ask the child if they are lying. Just tell them (at a later, less emotionally charged time) how it makes you feel when they tell a lie.

[@brandigreen9389]

That's what I got from it the child will lie when they dont feel safe. The security is in the connection.

[@postinstitute]

This makes my day - thank you.

[@cherihoward]

Question: what if your child has memory problems and may or may not remember the lie they told, even just a couple of hours ago? Will this technique still help? Should the delay be shorter (say, an hour)?

[@janehorney5996]

This is a good question

[@1trayhart]

that is for a certain type kid totally excluding teenagers.what is the receipe for lying teenagers in high school

[@gabrielewilliams]

I'm dealing with a 14 year old,and boy i am having it up to my neck

[@novanoir8309]

Well my parents do that most of the time so... i learn from them

[@postinstitute]

Nova Noir do you mean they lie or that they help you feel safe? Tell me more if you’d like.

[@novanoir8309]

@@postinstitute no, they lied to get me to do something, a false promise. "Oh if you can do this we will gave you this" vice versa, im about to done with it, haven't been talk to them for a year. I hate liar. I despise it. Oddly enough they never do this with my younger siblings. So yeah, i don;t really trust my parents whatsoever, they're both hypocrite

[@postinstitute]

Nova Noir I understand. I’m sorry it’s like that.

[@vernonjordanii.240]

immediate impact for real, kids need attention like you dont believe. i was raised on whoopins, no talkin', BREAK THE CYCLE, talk to your kids not at them

[@1970brenz]

How do you deal with the consequences though?? You may get the admission and they know it's wrong but how to give a fair consequence also is sometimes hard to figure out.

[@postinstitute]

Excellent question. How about first we breathe in all it took for that to happen and celebrate that your baby feels safe enough to tell you the truth. Big breath, huge heart celebration. Maybe in the morning with a heart of love and celebration and preparedness you can ask, “baby what do we need to do to make this better?” (Is an apology what is in social alignment? If so don’t force it, this is where you slow it down to let the amygdala calm and the hippocampus to catch up. For both of you. Continue the calm. There is time. There is grace. Breathe and take little steps.

[@lie-anne4221]

I am trying to this to my son...i hope it'll work

[@sallyjrwjrw6766]

Well, did this technique work?

[@ORIGINALREDY2MIX]

im a child mentor, i have 2 sisters, one of them will lie, constantly, you can see her in the mist of doing it, and she will still lie, she keeps getting kicked out of school, she is 9, she wont let me help her, its so sad, the mom needs help, and i wanna help her, help the child

[@charlesthompson3937]

ORIGINALREDY2MIX yeah...... I'm sure

[@Alia-yc8fg]

There's a limit to what you have control over it's definitely sad but the environment she is in might not be emotionally safe and no one can convince the child she is safe without any change in the factor that makes her feel that way be it the mother the father the neighbor you never really know your frustration is relatable

[@jc-lonecryptoranger6065]

This video has helped me understand my son a little better.

[@fennyandreas6815]

My son has been lying so many times he will only confess after a long time if asking him he even went to an extend of lying about a teacher that he beat him....Now we have to go apologized at school....I feel like he has been lying and I haven't notice before...What should I do to make it right?

[@postinstitute]

I’m thinking go to him I. A connected space. “Son I’m sorry I’ve been so busy that I didn’t see the signs of how stressed you are. When you say things that aren’t true it hurts my heart. I want to be your safe place.” This may need to be repeated a few times and you may need to make a point to get still and quiet and connect at the heart with him.

[@venusbeautygirl]

What about for a rebelious 13 year? I heard you say foster and adopted children, what about step children who doesn't respect or care about you?

[@postinstitute]

Noemi, thank you for your comment. There are 3 videos that Bryan has here on KZbin on the topic of the disrespectful child. Adding a step parent to your life is big transition for many children. Helping our children feel that adding more adults to love and support them is a goal to aim for all the adults involved. It can be complex especially if the adults are on different pages about this. Our parent coaching services are available for all parents. That might be helpful.

[@postinstitute]

that is the whole thing - practice mindfulness.

[@viniciusamancio8009]

Who watches this in 2024... Legend

[@dacharlesx]

This is freaking genius! may i ask how you stumbled across this understanding of thinking postinstitute

[@onlyonepurpose]

I was asking Alexa if the technique to stop the lying was successful since she said she was going to try it 1 month ago.

[@hannahzain9517]

i might be the only one here that aint got kids ,i am here cause i used to lie and a lot!! even when i dont need to lie id make up a whole movie and belive it mt self .. now that im 22 and looking back the horrible lies i said and ruin some ppls days , any explains ?? is it okay as 12-16 kid to lie this much and belive without any cares worrys? thank u

[@postinstitute]

Sending you love, as you review life and find healing and love

[@vanessayvette_]

My Son 17...Tells Lies For No Reason. Silly Lies..Sometimes Hurtful Lies But Mostly Lies Just To Lie...Will This Technique Work For Children His Age.

[@estherwilliams6666]

Nah, there are some pychopath children out here that I have witnessed manipulate and lie to their parents like no body's business.

[@melissahopeful9489]

I agree. Especially kids with ADHD. It can be compulsive, impulsive, and even a dopamine high to challenge themselves and see if they can get away with a lie. My 13 year old son has severe ADHD and OCD, and he loves the idea of being a con-artist/master manipulator and being able to convince adults that he's behaving well, while behind our backs will get into fights, steal, and does drugs. He says he's stopped and I hope it's true but in the back of my mind I know that he could be lying, and no amount of crying, begging, pleading, sweet-talk, ignoring, or empathy on my part can change his behavior. I'm hoping with time, as his brain develops, that maybe he will outgrow the desire to manipulate.

[@VTconductorchris]

Don't let yourself be manipulated. Don't reward the lie. That's not really ignoring it. You don't have to give in to ignore it.

[@vee815]

I wanna know when i find out they were lying how do I deal with it cause it can be something that that child can put you into expense or conflict

[@twoyears23]

Good advice! I had been doing the opposite.

[@ralphperez2735]

I can see this working for little kids but not for teenagers. The problem is is that you are making this personal and about your feelings. What about the consequences? When does not come up?

[@alexaubinas7621]

I am going to try this on my kids lets see if it works on them. Thanks

[@sallyjrwjrw6766]

Well, did this technique work?

[@butterflytiffany]

“ you’re no longer my mommy you’re a threat to my survival “

[@rateloveable]

No you are wrong the only person I lied to was my mother who never beat me because I knew I could - But at my father who gave me licks I knew I could not get away with it EVER so I never lied to him

[@Alia-yc8fg]

But how old were you younger than ten? Also what if your father adapted this strategy of emotional maturity and talked you into doing what's right from a logical perspective as in convense you and respect you as much as he would an adult would you still lie honestly?

[@braydenmckaskill629]

Ive be lying its not good i regret everything ☹️

[@toonsmindmusic4204]

6:50

[@carmensnippets]

Wow I've just been rapped over the knuckles for my response to my child's constant lying... I will be having some time out tonight and from tomorrow trying this method. I came here in desperation after another lie blow out but feeling like there is hope now.

[@cq1433]

Carmen Botes how did it work for you

[@TheYoungVeganUK]

Please add some new posts, ESPECIALLY anything on inability to manage emotional states. Please please please. Thank you

[@thebrokenboi6944]

I stole and lied and it took 5 years of flipping bricks running and extensive exercise and I still do it sometimes you ain't saying nothing new

[@harukatakahashi8822]

This was uploaded on my birthday :3 hehe

[@dawnshafer4816]

Kids lie in large part because their parents do… Meaning all parents do and kids are fully aware of it.

[@adamleen595]

Children do not lie just to get out of trouble. what about exaggerating on the truth? what do I do for that because it happens all the time

[@TemeryN]

that's not just children tho - don't you know any ppl who fish? They are always catching whoppers (not).

[@onlyonepurpose]

did it work?

[@postinstitute]

let me know what you find...

[@brandigreen9389]

An awnsere prayer!!

[@TitoMitto]

Lie is a skill that is taught to a child either directly or indirectly by the parent. So a child that lies to the parent is just a mirror. Change yourself first then pass it down. Children are not born liars we teach them how to be liars. They are born ready to learn. Clean like a sheet of paper ready to be written on.

[@russellnadin2480]

Sounds like you've never had kids. All kids will lie at some point at the very least just to try it out and see what happens. Everyone lies. Everyone. You are not morally superior to parents.

[@postinstitute]

Can you be more specific? Did what work?

[@kp5496]

I have a foster brother who keeps lying. I told him mom is going to send him back if he keeps lying and he cried. That may not be the best approach but I also can't use a belt or get physical either so...... whatever works.

[@lilacspring2556]

It wouldn't work if my parents did this with me honestly but it depends what relationship the 2 have

[@alyssareynolds1253]

Us kids IDC 😂💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯

[@meghanv7517]

anyone try this and have it work?

[@VTconductorchris]

yes. Two other things we do along with it: we don't like to the kids and we tell them that (different from their previous experience); and we don't reward their lies. So if they are trying to get something, they don't get it. So no accusation of lying, but also what they want doesn't happen. Result: the lying stopped (took a few months).

[@azaramoon4027]

I got attacked for telling the truth!!!!!!!!

[@jonhamm6068]

atleast these are cool parents...some of the parents beat the shit outt of them or killem over this stupid shit that kids ALLLLWAAAAAYYYS do its in nature ..thumbs up on aaa video that the kids get a learning experience rather than a funeral experience forever good job mom anddad

[@definitelyluigi]

Who else just searched how to tell if your child lies because your the child and don't want to get caught XD

[@TemeryN]

good liars have exceptional memories so if you want to get really good at lying then you'll need to sharpen that memory, keep the lies straight. It's very hard to do, I can honestly tell you it's much easier and happier to simply tell the truth.

[@replayreviews6339]

Also body language. Your non verbal communication says more than your words. You’ve gotta be very self aware and extremely methodical with this. A lot of it is subconsciously wired. The little things you do while you’re communicating that you don’t even realize you’re doing. It all sends a message. Figure out what behaviors send what messages. But yeah. It’s a lot easier to just tell the truth.

[@akaSheilaalien]

My current boyfriend is a sweetheart but such a liar. And a terrible liar. His lies never make sense and he uses all inclusive statements like he doesn't know ANY women WHATSOEVER, he doesn't talk to ANYBODY at all, he doesn't hang out with anybody, he NEVER went to this or that place etc... If he's really feeling called out on a lie he will just resort to yelling no matter how calm I stay. So I am here to learn how to deal with an adult Who's acting like a child

[@kevinhawley1342]

Parents in America teach their children to lie. The problem with that is we are all one heart beat from death and facing the judgement of God who is all knowing. No matter what your parents taught you, you can't BS God so stop thinking that you will talk your way out of his judgement because you won't. Your only defense is the blood of Jesus.

[@victoriawelch1112]

STFU

[@newwavepressure6478]

How about when there to lazy and just wanna play Fortnite and not take the time to brush their teeth lol

[@grandmastermario3695]

Learn how to be a good parent and learn propper parenting skills and propper punishments and then maybe they will get out of there lying habbit