Why lust left me miserable

[@Uncharted_Escapes09]

Lust truly is one of the worst addictions as it destroys not only the body, but also the soul

[@tangbangblue]

Your right.

[@sejangamer]

Agreed

[@Uncharted_Escapes09]

@@Username80020 i feel your pain, it truly is a struggle to escape its claws, however every hard chalange comes with a just reward

[@Jio_W]

Yeah true similar to drug addictions

[@IntrovertMaxxing]

Absolutely. It almost destroyed me. Most only stop when they get a disease they can't get rid of...

[@ososanity3795]

Man Hamza is so real. Telling this story so vulnerably.

[@777goncharovv]

Thanks bro, spit on it next time

[@WrathofFenrir99]

This man changes his entire life trajectory every other day, then calls you soy because you're not disciplined/consistent enough.

[@Distortion-wk5cw]

@@777goncharovvbro 😭

[@TheAnalyst_]

@@777goncharovvmay as well swallow at that point 😂

[@Captain-Ameeer]

@@WrathofFenrir99 can you please explain what you mean by he changes his life trajectory? i saw him after the same goal for over 2 years now so maybe i was living under a rock. can you explain?

[@pogking-sc3xx]

If you are going through some stuff Hamza , remember that there are people who will always stand by you and that those are the people you should value most. I can't speak for other people but I genuinely appreciate life lessons like this especially since I don't have a father. Thank you bro , stay strong

[@karlmagbanua4410]

Same, I don't have a father too

[@Chilundoo]

Hamza is such a g for exposing his personal life and the mistakes he made for our benefit. You've helped me a lot bro, and I'll always be grateful for you. I'll be here whenever you need, brother❤️

[@777goncharovv]

Thanks bro, spit on it next time

[@negativephantom9590]

I honestly think he shouldn't talk about his sexual experience with her cause that will decrease her smv

[@randomman2938]

It’s to his benefit to make money off of this video lol.

[@randomman2938]

@@negativephantom9590don’t use the term SMV that makes you sound like a loser.

[@LorenzoBertotti]

Am I the only one that thinks that the act of making love (which is different than having sex) is much more sacred than this? I'm not religious but doing the deed the first day you meet a girl doesn't sit right with me. Having intercourse is something that shouldn't be rushed so much

[@RookyRxb57]

I completely agree The deed is such an intimate thing to do with someone It's way more than just physical It's emotionally, physically, and (in my opinion) spiritually connecting with someone

[@LorenzoBertotti]

@RookyRxb57 Exactly

[@judekiv]

I strongly agree, i view people less and their relationship as more shallow when i learn they’ve done that

[@jatorresh]

Marriage first

[@SCROTUMM]

When you are making love in marriage. You are becoming one under God.

[@vasilvasilec5259]

The GOAT is consistent

[@777goncharovv]

Thanks bro, spit on it next time

[@AbidMuhammed-x6q]

bro really jinxed it

[@EpicDragonfall]

Can’t take him fr anymore. I try but I seriously can’t. The inconsistency and half regrets of degeneracy isn’t inspiring

[@omererenylmaz413]

And the moment he seems like he's starting to show some humility he just goes "oh no no I'm successful btw totally not a loser" which makes me feel like he's quite insecure beneath the surface

[@TrueSideFlick]

Intercourse before marriage is never never never the right choice

[@SCROTUMM]

Based chad

[@buddybrick]

Depends

[@TrueSideFlick]

@@buddybrick no it doesn't

[@nKarje]

According to you, an incel or religious fanatic

[@SCROTUMM]

@@nKarje "wait till marriage" "shut up Incel" Yea you're probably addicted to porn/sex or just incredibly miserable.

[@officialerickgastelum]

you made this video at the perfect time for me so everything happens for a reason

[@ibrhmkonkni]

For me too, Can you please tell why you said so?

[@EmanuelCastroChannel]

Epic. Last few month's content has been revolutionary.

[@editsforyou1.0]

No one is perfect hamza not even you. I promise to be loyal to you as a younger brother ❤

[@777goncharovv]

Thanks bro, spit on it next time

[@editsforyou1.0]

@@777goncharovv yeah like you do 😂

[@attilagogh5506]

aww this is sweet

[@barissahinbaz]

Hi Hamza. I am a 24 year old guy who is from Turkey. I discovered you from your 'Delete Instagram Now' kinda video 2-3 years ago. It made me teary you saying that 'No one really reached out to me and ask me if I was OK.' and 'It's always sad to see a comments like ...now I dislike him.' Fuck. I have ups and downs, I have times where I make very intelligent and good decisions and there are times that I don't. Which is fuckin okay because that is the description of life. It is very hard almost impossible to sit a fuckin chair and talk about your absolute failures with such opennes to the whole world. You are a big brother to me. You have changed my life for the better. I really like you with all my heart. I hope that you keep doin what you are doing. Lastly, that video has so much value in it that I really wish that every man sees that. Love you. Take care of yourself. (English is not my main language, sorry for the mistakes or the formality :).)

[@christiankline3434]

Powerful video. I learnt this recently after my last relationship. Trust your gut and never settle….

[@msc1132]

Yeh true. So much things related in this vid that even myself cant tell the right words/answer to my friends why i chose to brokeup with her, even she is so cute, clingy, and made me feel loved again. I know my decision is true. And jn from hearing hamza's words.. i know im in the right path.. Alhamdulillah.

[@GodwinOgbuagu]

Apology accepted. I hope you’re doing okay man, I know how you feel and wish for you the best and grateful for all the work and knowledge you’ve given us and the wisdom from your life experiences. Much love Hamza, you’re the big brother I’ve always wanted.

[@theBenStrothmann]

Really, really good video. This is genuinely a gem. I disagree that there's no point to figuring out your values more intentionally though - because your gut feeling is strongly influenced / disrupted by the society you grew up in, and some of the values perpetuated by that society can be very bad. So really figuring out what's you and what is outside influence in a calm, secluded context is important for a lot of folks. Especially young men who grew up with the influences of woke culture, if they want to be able to trust their gut feeling or rather be able to tell it apart from the brainwashing. It's really just reflection, like on anything else.

[@thewarrior4724]

MashaAllah

[@alaaproductions4716]

this new hamza deserves +infinite respect... commenting for algo

[@ayla7375]

5 months ago I was in my worst possible state glad I found you,thx man I’m really grateful

[@vickypresident1020]

Your age?

[@ayla7375]

@ huh?

[@vickypresident1020]

@@ayla7375 age?

[@thespot6839]

I love these daily videos. I always watch them when I am getting sunlight in the morning.

[@onuhehe7888]

Do the hard work, especially when you don’t feel like it.

[@ruthik102]

U forgot the "Muaahhhh"

[@onuhehe7888]

@@ruthik102 I will remember next time. I want the old hamza back

[@Monkaii]

I respect the transparency here Hamza.

[@adhithya2906]

Just broke up with my girl with whom I moved in with a year ago in NYC. Feels like the dream eh? Especially for a guy from India who planned everything perfectly along with his under grad girlfriend to escape from the home country so that we could lead a life together in the city of our dreams. Pursuing our masters here, everything started going downhill when we both slowly uncovered new layers of flaws while living together and eventually now moved out to a different place and pretty much in the similar situation as Hamza right now emotionally. Whatever he has been saying in this video cuts my heart open as I wanted her to be my girl so much but life doesn’t always play out the way we would like it to. Just thought about sharing my thoughts on this video so that people do realize how much pain it can lead us onto when we push too further with the wrong person ending up hurting each other. Totally feel you here Hamza on the final parts of the video on how lonely you might be feeling right now just like how my own circle blamed me for this disaster that I had caused. Of course we know the blunder we had made and definitely feeling accountable for it. But as humans, I feel that nobody is perfect and it’s in these moments that we feel that people actually understood our side of the story as men and had some kind and comforting words for us instead of the backlashes for the mistake we are already in pain for.

[@pag3160]

I get your Pain Man ( Means Your words I can get it through not your Heart feelings) But Them Telling you You're Wrong is Actually a Good Thing That's the Good Way to Get Yourself Up Cause you are the one to take the Blame And overcome It ,

[@taylan.kailas]

Bro these flashbang transitions gonna kill me. Pls a more casual transition

[@KrishnaSingh-kv8dd]

Tu baatein seekhne aata hai ya editing ko judge karne ya video ke maze lene?

[@timmenhoff]

imagine commenting shit like this. you are A loser

[@lillgryn7388]

Flippin awesome video, teared up a bit when you talked about all the backlash from the breakup and how no one checked if you were okay... heroes are humans too Keep it up, you're the realest one out here!

[@Valkyrae2__]

Lust ruined my life

[@FrenchBaguette-d2n]

Well your still here so is that true?

[@SCROTUMM]

God can save it

[@tran-zam]

brother, God is here in us let him in

[@ElliotOwens-pw5pq]

Same bro, but God can guide us away from this horrible thing

[@Self.improvement6]

How if i may ask

[@hamzajahangir9529]

Never commented on your videos bro. But the end of this video made me do it. All I wanna say is that what you do is unreal. It's like helping people without expecting anything back from them. So glad to see that you have learned from your mistakes. You're an amazing human being and many of your followers including me will love and appreciate you no matter what. You've helped us all even if some people disagree. God Bless!

[@Shubh-it2ii]

As a man don't expect anyone to give you anything and help you when you are just in a downgraded bad situation. If the appreciates you he will help you no matter the situations and those people are true brothers. The only best thing a man can do is follow his purpose, ambition and family.

[@aadarshbisht2692]

Thanks a lot for everything Hamza. You probably do not know me but listening to you made me think I should also have tried to support you during the hard times of your breakup and I am sorry for that. Its always a one sided relationship with a youtube and a subscriber but incase u ever wanna talk about it, I am all ears man. THANKS for exposing ur life so we can learn from your mistakes. God Bless you!!

[@Imangadzhi1244]

Now hamza is really speaking ❤ love you brother

[@ChadCampion]

I broke up with my first girlfriend 3 weeks ago who i loved very much, after going back and forth with her for months. Im now seeing growth and will be taking the lessons i learnt and am still learning into my next. im 19 and to any other young man, time heals all. just make sure that time is well spent. :) Great vid

[@randomlobbit6926]

Thank you Hamza. This is exactly what I need right now, thinking of taking a break with my girl. After watching this, I'm now convinced not to

[@oliverwalser1369]

It is a difficult journey and we all make mistakes trying to figure things out. I have a lot of respect for you brother and I always wish you the best. You have truly changed my life.

[@b0ydama851]

Thank you, Hamza for this video. Keep up the good work.

[@damn5563]

I am thankful for help, it guided me trough a difficult time and helped me to understand a lot of things about the world and also myself. I can also honestly say that you can be proud of yourself, your change in the recent days has really motivated me to keep going and most importly to go harder. Thank you Hamza.

[@pand0ku171]

Thank you! Im grateful to have found you years ago.

[@jamieconnor3505]

much love brother

[@calebpratt8270]

These recent videos plus hamzas vlog channel really prove that he’s really growing and striving for greatness. It’s really inspiring to see. Keep it up man and continue inspiring this broken generation 🔥🔥🔥

[@izngoodgood]

I guess this is my first time commenting under your videos(been watching you for 3 years) its impossible to explain how hard I relate to this video, thank you Hamza, a lot of insights

[@oscargomezbha]

Best dating video I've ever watchad, so HAPPY you make this type of content. 🔥

[@mr._.dynamo]

I'm sorry for you brother. I promise you no matter what others say, I'll never turn on you because that how much I'm grateful for what you've done to me.

[@frigontv6083]

Hey Hamza. Loving somebody like no one else and planning your whole life with them to the extent of thinking about having children and raising them together - as you told us here on KZbin - only to find out, that all the love and connection you had towards that woman was based on a lie, that was to justify lust and sexual desire… Bro, that’s gotta hurt. I am once again deeply grateful for you sharing this to us and help beware us from such pain. I hope you are alright and find a way to move on.

[@Zazz-u9p]

This is worthy of respect. I’ve been critical when the content leaned more toward the red pill clickbait. But this is a message that is truly positive. Wholesome Hamza is back. This is why we subscribed in the first place

[@Aur9345]

Thank you from the heart Hamza, great video I commend you for sharing how you felt during the time leading up to the breakup, you inspire my self to be more courageous in terms of articulating my emotions wisely. Greetings from Germany

[@richardx277]

Hamza you've changed my live and even though and didn't like every move that you did here on KZbin, I'm still loyal and watch your videos almost every day. Thank you for everything

[@GgGg-kv8wc]

Hamza you the goat you changed my life

[@BeamHam]

Bro respect for admitting mistakes. Keeping it real with your community. Keep up the good work man

[@steezyyeeter6141]

Thank you, Hamza. Been in love with a girl for about 8 years. She's motivated me to get in shape and go to the gym, so it's not all bad. But it was too late. Been falling out of love lately but this is a really good articulation of what I've been feeling. W video.

[@headru2053]

26:24 don't u worry broo, we're only human after all... I'd very much appreciate what you've doing here, and that's what matters 👍🔥💯

[@vivekkulkarni9952]

It's not the man that never fails is successful. It's the man who fails more times then anyone can count. Hamza your failure is what makes your advice the most valuable, there is on youtube. Thanks Hamza for all your work.❤

[@tankthepitbull520]

You’re a very talented storyteller hamza.

[@flyingguitarist7026]

I just observed his storytelling patterns

[@aldorodriguez7310]

This got me centered. Thank you.

[@pablomena9051]

You save my life

[@robertminnie782]

Thank you for taking a chance and being vulnerable and honest. We all know how tough it can be to do it, but it's also because it's *right*, and the right thing is often the hard thing. This has been genuinely thought-provoking and not *thot*- provoking XD and I definitely have benefitted from seeing it. Thanks again, Hamza. Stay authentic, stay *you.* Take care, bro. ❤

[@BeniGoku]

Thanks Hamza. This video was everything I needed to stop overcoming that gut feeling of mine. I'm sure you know how awful that feels but yeah; I'd much rather listen to you than to lust.

[@تٌآلَقُيَ.يَ]

One of the best videos, hamza❤

[@AdonisCoder]

Hamza you are awesome, we forgive you for your mistakes.

[@Vansh27]

Hey mate, I've watched your videos for a long long while and one of the reasons I found my best friend was because of you. The greatest video you ever made in my eyes was around a 50 minute long vid, completely raw when I was on the precipice of becoming a f*ckboy and you just said that being degenerate, just wasting your time in all of these relationships was not worth it and I genuinely cried watching that vid. After that, after seeing you end things off with that girl was a slap to my face (at least it felt like it, no offense) and I thought of you as an important chapter of my life which I needed to now move on from and become my own self. I should've however considered that you were probably not in the best mental state after that breakup and the fact I didn't even consider was immaturity on my part. I'm genuinely thankful for your work, for everything you've taught, for every meaning you've made out of your sorrows and that I wasn't able to see that you were hurting and in the process of recovering. As always, even with your mistakes you teach us Hamza, thank you- I wish I'll become more like you in that regard.

[@Dylan_Thomas999]

I know this is just another comment, but keep it up Hamza. Good shit 👏 ❤

[@juanordonez5667]

Hamza in his GOAT era. Keep it up brah

[@mertbriann6062]

Hey Hamza, I hope you are doing well brother with all the trials and tribulations that you're going through this life journey. In the last section, where you were talking about the followers not reaching out to you, I wish back then I could have asked you or seen how you were doing after the breakup you had before. I thought that you were already over it because you have close friends that when you talked about it you were doing fine, but as time went by I also realized that you're past videos weren't as effective as before. I also realized it that when that happen I didn't even like watching your videos, and I can't blame you. You went through something that time would heal you up until now. I hope you are doing well brother and I wish there would be a way that I can call you or text you to see how you are doing. Stay safe brother, and keep up the great work. We are grateful to have you in this place called Earth

[@balazskalmar7094]

Very useful message in this video. Thank you Hamza!

[@lukashellesch5513]

I watched your videos when you had only like under 100k subs and i really missed this type of format, just you talking to the camera and giving advice, no bullshit cuts and dopamine videos like all other. Please dont go back to the dopamine videos and stick with these ones. I love your content

[@Ng1n3]

This is a very important video for Hamza to have made. Also very valuable for the viewers. More content like this is in demand, not only on YT, on the internet in general. If nothing else, one thing you must give Hamza is he's an honest man and tries his best to benefit his audience.

[@marcusfirby]

At the end of the day, Hamza, you make videos on the experiences you’ve had and the lessons you’ve learnt in life. As humans, we never stop gaining experiences and learning new things. Our opinions change based on new information that we learn, so you “changing your opinion on certain things” all the time is just a natural human tendency. We make mistakes, and that’s what half of the stories you tell us are about - mistakes that you e made in the past. Just because the story is from more recent times, people think they can get angry about it, not sure why, because there’s still a lesson in there, which is why we all subscribe to you - for the lessons you’ve learnt and are teaching us. If anything, the fact that you’re actually addressing it all and still being open enough to share these contradicting opinions and new experiences you’ve gained knowledge from, is very respectable, as you know the backlash you’ll get for it, yet you still do it. You do the difficult task, even when you know the hard consequences. Respect. Keep it going bro, looking forward to seeing where the future takes you. 👊💪🤝

[@EtienneLeBoeuf]

Its self lust that makes you miserable. Its a feminine trait. Learn to be more masculine and you will get more life enjoyment. The art to masculinity by james Francis

[@benoehlrich]

Hey Hamza I know you dont know me but you are the big brother that guides me through life, the friend I never had. Its wierd to say this cause we dont really know each other but you are truly an inspiration and "brother" figure to all of us.

[@jawlig]

The same way easy access to prn is so damaging, the same can be said for easy access to women. Except it can be worse because there's another person involved and they're getting damaged too

[@LEO_FERNET]

I really like your few last video's style and your new vlog channel, thank you Hamza!

[@I.m.m.A.n.U.e.L.]

Loved the description details bro!

[@adampalenik1988]

actually good video after a long time good job

[@raphaelrico1]

Same happened to me with my ex-girlfriend. I new from day one she will Never be my wife but I still ended up in a relationship with her just for the access to Sex. Did’nt have the balls back then. Even told her I loved her, 100% lie. It’s disgusting what men will do out of pure lust. Today I’m mostly retaining my seed and I can see and choose clearly.

[@Kumari_44]

My absolute top three are that •she dresses modestly/•doesnt show off her body for sexual attention. •Doesn’t keep close guy friends/keep guys from her sexual past in her present. •And that she doesn’t go to pubs, clubs & bars or any other degenerate party-like environment where the norm is to be open to hookups or casual sex. Real talk, guys. I will not lie. Having just these three values alone will drop your dating pool *SIGNIFICANTLY* I’m talking like a solid 90% all of a sudden you’ll find yourself swiping left on almost every girl on hinge and ignoring most girls you come across irl, even if they are attractive. Because society and the media have literally brainwashed and indoctrinated the majority of young women into being the complete opposite of those three values i mentioned. And thats why it’s extremely difficult to find a good wifey material girl, whilst getting sex and one night stands is unbelievably easy. Too easy, in fact. But they’re values that will literally save your life and ensure you never end up with the wrong girl. So I’m so thankful that I’m self aware enough to see the traps of those red flag behaviours a hundred miles ahead.

[@biryaniboy0427]

50 slow pushups, alright soldiers, Bismillah 👏🏾 edit: I did 55 slowed pushups.

[@danielelkinton2429]

Christ is king

[@mejirearigbe1174]

Done bro. Thanks alot man. Took me 10 mins

[@تٌآلَقُيَ.يَ]

❤

[@um.rs7]

@@danielelkinton2429 Bismillah is just saying In the name of God in Arabic, Muslims just use it alot however you don't have to be muslim to say that. Just like God is Great means Allahukbar, a chiristian can say that, anyone could its just that the majority of muslims say that. Allah also just means God in Arabic stop confusing the vocabulary, your missing his point of the comment of the actual pushups now go do them

[@hillsawyer]

done

[@AbdurRahman-k6y6s]

love you hamza 😍

[@Notalx2nice]

Wow, number 5 was exactly what I was thinking. I couldn't help but think about her throughout this video. Thank you for this video, Hamza. I remember everything you went through and how many people were hating on you, but I supported you no matter what. I know you're a good person, and I appreciate that you want to help us young men avoid making the same mistakes you did. Thank you, man

[@michaelskarpho1914]

Bro no matter what anyone’s says you’ve helped millions of young men including me and absolutely no one can take that away from you

[@JustCynical]

hamza has been searching for ''something'' for the last few years, moving back and fourth etc. in that time my life has changed so much it's crazy. but i know exactly what he has been longing for...and thats god.

[@StayingTop1Percent]

deep video , amazing content , you changed my life

[@adamz7282]

Wasn't this the perfect girl who was on a self help journey, who used to bake tasty healthy meals for you, and was in andrew Tate's "hustlers university", who also was fit and went to the gym, and was ok with you sleeping with other girls even tho she's loyal to you?? How can you say your values didn't align when all you talked about when you dated her is that you have the same values...

[@michał_tuziag]

Hamza, We need You, please come back

[@DarkSitari]

Is this Anastasia who was in his videos with curly hair?

[@Kumari_44]

Yup. The one with the humble personality that everyone really liked.

[@szopanda1662]

"do the hard work, especially when you don't feel like it", because he forgot to say that today

[@pedrolima-eu4pb]

hamza is outsourcing his advice to chatgpt now

[@rickostern7860]

Been in this kind of relationship Now that I am single I feel powerful. Still would open myself to more fulfilling relationship.

[@alphonsopowell6461]

Thank you for this

[@firicel_0753]

im sorry for you hamza god bless

[@Rafe-ham]

Hamza, you spoke of the comments where people don’t like how you change your videos. I disagree with those people, as if we follow the advice you give we come across similar problems/ lessons that you talk about on camera. I love your kickboxing sessions too, I can see your progress every video.

[@Gowtham-qg3ym]

I remember that video you posted 9 months ago, and everyone was hating on you for being real, I was traveling in a bus watching that video, and someone did a video on not to take relationship advice from hamza lol.

[@casualbartender723]

Real doesn't mean righteous

[@emstv5869]

i have been in this situation recently and i've become stronger after the break up

[@Its_NICHOLAS]

Hamza i am sorry if u are watching this i want to be the member of your cult but my inner self just can't just digest you being my leader i just don't i don't know why but whenever you say being the leader of the cult. I know it feels disgusting it feels odd but i don't know i just told you what i felt. I just want you to tell me what had happened to me man why the hell am i like that?

[@YusufHayder-c4m]

Thank you Hamza , you've changed my life. I might do a video on this. But lust is very temporary. Also I think putting video of women that aren't in your life anymore in this is a bad thing to do.

[@joelbrothers7785]

Thank you hamza

[@official.option]

This video is so informative i love it brotha.

[@vlad.7]

I don't know if you realise but you use a lot of biblical principles

[@SCROTUMM]

Vive le roi ☦️☦️☦️

[@antoniooorivara8931]

Love you bro

[@danielriemer9936]

Did you mention that the Scotland arc happened months after your Dubai stay, where you got your ball surgery?

[@JosephSorenson-s4h]

God created us for love not lust and that is why we feel horrible when we do things that are bad for us and corrupt us. Sin is bad for us. God loves us.

[@karlmagbanua4410]

I always be ur follower bro trust me i promise, and if i became successful i wish i could meet you personally

[@Svelbar]

21:51 this actually represents my situation from a while back. I was talking to a girl and everything was going amazing but I found out she had lost her v-card with her previous boyfriend who she would still frequently mention. It started eating at me and even tho I liked her I broke it off. It just didn’t feel right to me.

[@xucuna8664]

I have a girl exactly like that. It’s crazy how much guys can get hurt when they hear about girls sexual past. The only way is to just have fun with her, get your dick sucked and make fun memories but you should always remember that she’s not your future wife.

[@MV-gl6mz]

Amazing vid bro

[@dreamteam9460]

Hamza it's fine if you do it for the views bro. This is your business. How else are you gonna find more people to buy your product? Just try to find the balance between what will get lots of views and what will actually help the viewers! Also thanks for this, obvi I'm going through this right now. I've learned a lot from you. You're like a father figure/older brother to me... the one I never really had. Thank you. Still thinking of joining your course. Liking the new style of editing! Not too much but not too little either.