Why Many Japanese Women Do Papa-Katsu?

[@Meshida]

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[@AmbuBadger]

Well, there goes my dreams of opening a tonkatsu restaurant featuring my dad's recipes and calling it "Papa Katsu"...

[@downrightmike]

Opposite: You have a built in market :D

[@AmbuBadger]

@@downrightmike So... A love hotel that sells aisai bento and luxury bags to cater to both parties?

[@dannylo5875]

Genius. I take your idea. I like it and yes...more interesting...

[@vishakh69666]

How about Papa Katsudon? 😂

[@dannylo5875]

@@vishakh69666 they actually name it Papa sexy boy or papa handsomely or handsome pappilome

[@andross2]

There are some women who honestly just want money to afford luxury lifestyle like brand goods and holidays. They are not poor but just average office workers too.

[@gregh7457]

in the 90's they used to be high school girls called kogal's that did that

[@glennmarasigan7037]

Let's face it, PAPA-KATSU is only exclusive for the rich. But since I'm a poor guy, I can only afford "TONKATSU" as long as it is delicious, I'm fine with it!

[@dannylo5875]

What is a food whore...I have to ask...

[@jobe8764]

100,000 yen is only 691 US dollars. Way cheaper than an American woman/divorce.

[@rebeccazikode5558]

​@@jobe8764$691 is about R10 000 in South Africa. R10 000 for a night is not a bad fee. I should imagine.

[@alfjones6377]

@@jobe8764 agreed, but you know what, buddy? let's not make too many privy to this fact. Value is in scarcity, collapse in inclusivity.

[@zouzoudeparis1354]

Japan gives you a little vibe of le gai Paris in 1900 … lots of wealthy gentlemen assuring the life of very young attractive women .. in France we used to call these ladies … les cocotes , which means the little hens.

[@muurrarium9460]

That is a lovely sounding expression (but of course many things sound a lot better in French ;D / I do not speak the language btw, but I can appreciate the sounds)

[@FGBFGB-vt7tc]

My new dream is to become rich and retire to Japan to be a Papa-Katsu Jokes aside, love all your psychological and sociological insights under a guise of humour.

[@worldview730]

Sounds like you already have, too much Sake

[@arcticredpanda4598]

I was just in Tokyo. I stayed at the B Ginza. At check in around 3pm I saw a stunning young woman and a middle aged man also checking in. Around 6pm as I was taking the elevator down I ran into them again. They walked out to the front of the hotel, she bowed and thanked him profusely, he turned and walked away quickly and abruptly. He must have had the best 3 hours of his life.

[@ousi00]

He's an amateur. Usually the lady depart from the room first and the "daddy" leaves later. They seldom leave together unless it's a love hotel. And they sometimes arrive separately as well, or together with car/taxi and get into another area for check-in (some hotel status can grant you that, like Hyatt Globalist). Don't ask why I know.

[@ousi00]

@@sleightyabby Let's just say I know someone...

[@HankLafayette]

@@sleightyabby That's how Roger Stirling and his secretary go about their arrangement in Mad Men. Not Japanese, but a good depiction of how the pros handle things. (What a great show).

[@Radeo]

When I was a poor student in Japan I was the equivalent of a 'chameishi man'. I probably would have never been able to afford my tuition if women hadn't paid for the majority of my food. As for what that's called in English, I first heard the term "dinner wh*re" back in 2006. Chameishi is far too polite a term to describe a person who presumes that the value of their time is somehow greater than yours.

[@markwilliamson2795]

And you will pay for your daughters male school friends food in return...

[@johnnytate69]

wow bro, you are an inspiration.

[@AmbuBadger]

In my case, it was a 48yo social worker at one of the ERs, and I was a paramedic intern (27M). She'd buy things like meals and small appliances, and I'd accompany her to parties to show off to her friends. Granted, she was a Korean-Japanese mix and looked to be in her early 30's, but she was also crazy and tried to nuke my career when I broke it off. Anyway, the American term you're looking for is "kept man."

[@On11sama]

@AmbuBadger My generation calls that a "gigolo." I call it better than starving 🤷🏼‍♂️

[@Neonlight.]

Basically Mamakatsu, its in some ways what hosts from host clubs do for a living

[@Poe168]

I have a dream of working in Japan and I found your channel quite entertaining and informative. Ari ga to Meshida-san.

[@TheBlueboy7777]

I also wanted to work in japan...but i gave up on it, unless i started open my business in japan and hire those poor japanese.

[@NimsChannel]

You'll quickly get over your dream if you ever actually go.

[@ousi00]

@@TheBlueboy7777 Be your own boss, or work in an international company and report under a US/European manager.

[@AmbuBadger]

You could always open a restaurant that serves chicken katsu, tonkatsu, and Papa katsu...

[@nyannyan123456]

I like this channel. You learn some serious stuff in a humorous way.

[@On11sama]

Meshida-san, your shared insights into Japanese culture continue to captivate and entertain me. I wish you much success in the years to come 😁

[@hollywoodninja]

Another excellent video. it was nice meeting you and Ken at your stand up comedy show in Tokyo.

[@floatingpoint5860]

the idea of Mama-Katsu is very interesting.😁

[@TheCyberMantis]

Wealthy Obasan's looking for young dudes!

[@taotzu1339]

They call it Hagmaxxing here in the US.

[@geralt7144]

Why not have all three? A meal with tea and adult as dessert

[@ousi00]

Put them altogether and you have a proper trip for a day or two ;) Why not?

[@s208richard8]

Young man - lots of time, no money, lots of energy Middle-aged man - no time, lots of money, lots of energy Old man - lots of time, lots of money, no energy

[@pantherman8719]

And thus, the path of the working average man.

[@angelustt]

I have been in Japan for 1 year, and I have seen this a lot, specially high school girls. It is easy to tell by the way they dress, purses and behavior. What I dont know is how they find and communicate with their clients.

[@unixtreme]

That last sentence sounds like a self report 😂

[@goldenresin5221]

What are some of the behaviors?

[@WANDERER0070]

Line is prefered line of comunication in Japan 😊 now IF only I could read Nihongo 😢

[@Neonlight.]

Usually Twitter and Instagram, japanese people use SNS for everything, even 18+ content

[@manchagojohnsonmanchago6367]

Was app for this and in the past.. Before the internet there was services, magazines, papers ect for teenage "daughters" to find customers

[@orenjineko646]

Nice video as always. Hello, Meshida san. I heard that you prefer the older women. So, for the next subject, please discuss about mamakatsu. Is this really a thing in Japan? Thank you very much.

[@panama-canada]

It’s popular because it’s cheaper than marriage.

[@mayshusakuhanamurasufferli5438]

You dream🤡

[@steveburke7675]

...and far cheaper than divorce.

[@derrickcox7761]

It's the easy way...and meaningless.

[@alfjones6377]

Not only cheaper than marriage, and divorce: but you get more action and gratification from it with a woman who knows not to breach the unspoken stipulation of her "contract"... Unlike in marriage where, especially in the west, A woman is rewarded for breaching the terms of her contract and the man has to pay handsomely for it even if he was monogamous and a hard, assiduous worker to provide and dote on his "fair" missus

[@studijasymrov7630]

7:33 Why is everything diametrically opposite in dating apps? On the contrary, inflation occurs in them, not deflation.

[@DonS90]

Nice video senpai

[@ayanokoji888]

Lol, feel sad for blocked Papa's

[@kaholeung9443]

Very informative

[@fullmindstorm]

This channel is very interesting 😊

[@nathanielcarreon5634]

Papa katsu is popular everywhere in the world.

[@muhdfauwazel-emin2132]

I'm so enjoying watching all your video. Full of pro and con. And in those app of dating, not many were English speaker. Such a shame, I really wished to get one once I come to Japan for touring.

[@60vik]

good explanation meshida san, thank you

[@zacktrever1878]

Learning a lot about Japan Super thanks

[@Thedark.q123]

His accent killing me😂😂😂 so funny

[@RobertoTorres-gi8vh]

Very interesting 🤔

[@clee1173]

Please come to the USA for shows too please!!

[@williamburg2735]

Legal...... lots of politician daddies . Those numbers are kept secret 😅

[@dannychane]

Thank you teaching me the term "Papakatsu"! All Japanese people laugh their butts off when I say this word and wonder how I know about it 😂

[@singyiutse8386]

this is a special culture in Japan Society.

[@PSL1969]

How are those girls viewed by their friends/family? I wouldn't want my 18 year old daughter to go a sell her body to some 50 year old horny dude.

[@Californiansurfer]

Meshida. Jealousy 😂😂😂😂

[@bantran5782]

The same here in Vietnam, total cost to support her finance is just 1k usd each month

[@glenglen6386]

Frankie Boyle on your shelf. You have good taste Meshida. One of the greatest Scotsman to ever lived. Along with the legend Billy Connolly and Bible John.

[@Account.for.Comment]

What is the difference between this and enjo kosai? seem like it has always been the case. I remember the Koukou Kyoushi tv series in the 1990s.

[@LukasVokrinek]

Enjo kōsai can specifically involve high school, even underage girls. It means compensates dating. While there's certainly a possible overlap, papa katsu does not specifically focus on that demographic.

[@Account.for.Comment]

@@LukasVokrinek I understand the difference in term, but I felt like why the shocking news? If girls and old men already has paid dates that in high school, they would be more willing to do so as an adult when money is more important.

[@LukasVokrinek]

@@Account.for.Comment I don't think the news is shocking. It's been part of the Japanese culture since early history. The Western audience might not like it though. And also, Japan has had to make sure it's not something the media talks about much. The high school ages are generally considered the golden ages and so they're idolized a lot. You can see a lot of anime doing that which reflects one aspect of the Japanese culture. Hence the compensated dating

[@lukasvandewiel860]

@@LukasVokrinek It is the same as young ballet girls in de West who had their patrons. They were paid to get out of poverty and in exchange they provided erotic services after the shows.

[@Account.for.Comment]

@@LukasVokrinek It has been always been the case everywhere, but it used to result in marriage, rather than prostitution. The ways Papa Katsu was talked as sth new, surprised me. But I guess it is only on western news and social media, that viewed it as shocking. Somehow, in the this decade, in the west, age-gap relationships became socially undesirable, that I seen people genuinely shocked and concerned when they see any young woman dating or marrying an older man. I' m glad I lived before the internet.

[@studijasymrov7630]

If there is Papakatsu, are there other type of family members' activities, like Mothers', Sisters', Grandmothers' etc ones?

[@arcticredpanda4598]

Yes. Be careful going down this rabbit hole.

[@ridoing9969]

You don't wanna go down the Cousin Katsu hole

[@afrotrooptv]

​@ridoing9969 Oh yes you do!

[@brianlew86]

I am definitely a middle aged thin daddy wishing for Papa Katsu type of money. Lol.

[@alfjones6377]

The apple doesn't fall far from the tree... But as a Papa-katsu I like a nice, lush, plump apple resting on my wood.

[@edisonchin2463]

That is so godamn expensive for tea and meal.

[@wateezit]

Hahaha...is there really a movement called 'papa lives matter' on twitter? Finally I've got a chance to use my Japanese - '出会夜游大好，食欲兴旺'😂

[@RonaldoSanchez-g1y]

is there health delivery for tourists?

[@jackrabbid8619]

Bro, great insight into this current phenomenon. Your description brought to mind the plot of;"memoirs of a geisha." There is a twist you didn't mention, which not only affects Japan, but rather the whole world :"Hoeflation." 😅 social media gives way for these chameishi to just squeeze every bit possible from these thirsty men. I understand the law of supply and demand leading this trend, I get it. Both parties can benefit. However, paying a woman for their time just to sit down, chat, and drink tea, HELL NO 😅😅😅 how is that any different from kabakuri, which is also weird as hell?😂😂😂

[@kira_y]

"in Japan it is a cry for anyone under the age of 80 to be a daughter." "the frequency of sex is overwhelmingly higher with studies than in a married relationship." "but even women who are over 40 years old have the chance to become adult." wow.

[@clee1173]

also i will be in Japan in Nov...will you be having shows then? i'd like to attend!!!

[@lyutemfofrance6178]

Спасибо! Я перевожу эти видео с помощью субтитр и искусственного интеллекта и так учу английский по своим любимым и интересующим меня видео))

[@ilvpowerrangers]

Yep, I've heard of this which we got it here too. I myself don't care one way or the other about it. I'll never do anything like this so it doesn't effect me.

[@norrisjohnson6032]

I don't know what to say. I'm just a 32 years old wizard.

[@dannyhariansyah7960]

The other day someone dm me offering mama katsu and I thought it's some cutlet 😢

[@pantherman8719]

🤣😂

[@HattaTHEZulZILLA86]

Seriously, you Japanese REALLY LOVE double meanings in your phrasings.

[@Affalterbach1967]

Respect for the Frankie Boyle bookshelf.

[@HotaruZantetsu]

I lost it at #papalivesmatter

[@choirulabidin9890]

Funniest part for me is. If its not a prostitution. Why you banned under 18yo girl to take a part. Actually, this kind if "Relationship" also happened to my classmate back in 2005. I ask her "how much pocket money you get from your parent?!"(because she bought a lot of snack everyday during school hour). Her answer is " its not from my parents, but from my UNCLE(S)". and yeah, 15 yo me doesnt get it what she called UNCLE is.

[@dannylo5875]

Id ask a question. Why are there many poor students attending Japanese universities that kinda need to pay off debt. I mean, America has fafsa and student aid toward your first BA. But why can their be anything better for students. I heard that school aid, scholarships and loans hace to be paid back and its not like the usa. So it's the reason many students fall unto poverty or hard times. Because of this they start trying to get side gigs or side hustles.

[@umihereuminoumi6177]

Shirking responsibility is the theme of the activity.

[@TenchiBushi]

I want to be rich enough to do papa-katsu.

[@vivoslibertos]

Now I understand why there's bukkake udon on the menu but there's no papa-katsu in the menu tho legend said papa-katsu is by product of oyakodon.

[@worldview730]

For Christ sake, should there also be a "Momma Katsu" as well?😲

[@speedopuncha]

There is Mamakatsu as well !

[@worldview730]

Wow, I would love to serve her@@speedopuncha

[@brandonb9664]

I will now remix notorious b.i.g ...i love when they call me big Papa...katsu😅😢

[@734ch3r]

So they are part-time husbands.

[@serijas737]

Bro I asked "Nani?!" out loud when I heard the "Adult" Date Explanation ☠

[@ousi00]

During my stay in Tokyo, I was lucky to stay at pretty great hotel (Andaz in Toranomon Hills, Grand Hyatt at Roppongi Hills). I see this very often. Often times they are with Chinese men too since they are mostly pretty rich.

[@henrytep8884]

The real question: is meshida-San a papa-Katsu 🤔

[@thepopeofkeke]

Need to papa crème pie and get those birth rates up

[@katsuyaki7605]

Isn't this also referred to as "compensated dating"?

[@SharapovaFan]

This explains all the Daikokuya branches you see everywhere.

[@AmScEn]

IT7s not "free love" if you have to pay for it.

[@scottianson5133]

I live in Australia but have visited Japan before and would happily pay to have a meal with a nice woman. Just a meal, nothing else.

[@PlayerHeader]

how to find mama katsu in japan?

[@ArchDuke_JD]

hmm.. I was wondering why my bachelor cousin moved to Japan as soon as he hit 40 lol

[@dukelavish]

Wow that's crazy, I was wondering whether you were going to touch on this subject nearly a week ago and you have. I live in Japan and one of my friends who is 39 years old and has a son does this. He does the tea and dinner with girls that are 18 (some still in high school) to about 22. Then anyone above 24 he does the adult. I asked him why and he said the high school and college girls are fun to talk to as opposed to the older women

[@GinJ1337]

interesting. I am in my mid 30s and want to move to Japan next year. I am open to do this. I have 0 interest in marriage, especially in Japan where most marriages are terrible for the husband. Are there apps for this ?

[@Vaquix000]

" he said the high school and college girls are fun to talk to as opposed to the older women" This. I'm 34 and the women around my age take themselves so seriously and are serious all the time. It's grating and miserable. NOT all of them, but in general.

[@Zalen88]

@@GinJ1337 watch that other video he mentioned early on with the lady in the mask. I think there are various companies that assist with this endeavor.

[@RobertFoley]

Hmm so are these "simps" who are getting ripped off? At least in Japan both parties are totally open to their intentions. In America many women do exactly what you are describing and yet would never admit it out loud.

[@mayshusakuhanamurasufferli5438]

Nobody owes men🙄

[@studijasymrov7630]

1:18 Fathers in Alabama are as supportive as daddies in the example

[@noelhaynes119]

What about maman katsu 😊

[@joltjolt5060]

Used to be, 20 year old woman married the 40 year old men. Now, its papa katsu.

[@rebeccazikode5558]

#PapaLivesMatter 🤣🤣🤣

[@TheCyberMantis]

At 10:00..... wow. 😍

[@pie1485]

For some reason the way you speak Papa-Katsu you sounded like Filipino Meshida-San 😂❤

[@ger13nunyah56]

This is the way

[@soonersciencenerd383]

this video made my week!! PAPAS LIVES MATTER!!! (and so do o-nee-chan!!)

[@bentairyukiba]

Why am I thinking off the h-aime papa -katsu

[@ceresbane]

girl's gotta get that bubble era money and feed it back into the economy. Girls are saving Japan.

[@zerononame1522]

If they really have good intentions in this papa-katsu relationship... it is good if they end up getting married~

[@manchagojohnsonmanchago6367]

Marry a 14 year old prostitute?

[@customsongmaker]

Yes just like idols marry their fans

[@zerononame1522]

@@customsongmaker mmm...🤨 you think so?🤔 I think this is different.

[@customsongmaker]

@@zerononame1522 It is the same. The number of idols who have married their fans is the same as the number of papakatsu prostitutes who have married the men who pay for dates: 0

[@zerononame1522]

@@customsongmaker Many idols are married to fans, but I think it's hard to find a papakatsu prostitutes who is married to a rich men. (Same number???)🤨 Stop that joke, you think you are God?🤣

[@brothadarkness9995]

Being honest quite the racket for the women, just going out for tea or a meal nets them a nice amount of money since im sure most probably line up dates for the day. Heh must be nice to be loaded and able to afford stuff like this.

[@LucTaylor]

I wish this existed in USA.... Maybe I could buy tea or meals for a girl sometime

[@williammartin8366]

I'm pretty sure it does exist! I've seen young ladies and their Sugar Daddies.

[@GinJ1337]

it does. there are entire sugar daddy / baby websites

[@arejetko]

Japanese culture is so different! In the west we judge you by our standards. I don't feel that is fair, But if a westerner acted like that in Japan, his friends many criticize him.

[@Zalen88]

those prices are not far off from escorts in Las Vegas

[@arjunsharma3573]

❤

[@Philson]

I want to be a Papa now.

[@Righteous1ist]

Also because of JAV of course

[@WingWong]

Really sucks that the socio-economic pressures essentially create and sustain this system. :/ it isn’t much of a choice if all the other options are removed. >_>

[@arejetko]

Your perspective is both insightful and funny - not may channels have this combination. I love your buddy who says STFU. But he's not as clever as you. In Canada, Chameshi girls are called wives. No offense, but it seems Japanese women are much smarter than Japanese men in this situation.

[@PSL1969]

Japanese culture keeps surprising me 😂

[@ridoing9969]

Pretty sure sugar daddies exist everywhere

[@cameronsaunders9020]

Right lol people need to stop fetishizing Japan. It’s like any other place

[@PSL1969]

@@ridoing9969 Yes but not in this manner. The Japanese are very polite/Their culture is a lot different than western culture. So it surprised me that they had fit sugar dating into their culture and made it follow their social rules, norms and customs.

[@The.Mr.JBiggs]

If there's a Papa-katsu market, wouldn't that mean there's a Mama-Katsu market?

[@IngenieurKane]

Maybe I should move to Japan.

[@silverchairsg]

Don't understand why some guys pay for dates with tea and dinner only. One might as well drop the pretence of getting to know them and just go right for the sex.

[@armartin0003]

I think these papas shouldn't want to have sex with the girls and instead just support them and be happy if they can thrive. If they do fall in love and have sex for free that's another matter. However, if you have sex for money or casually it makes it harder to have a real relationship in the future. And that's not in the girls' best interests. If the papas really cared about their daughters, they would never expose them to this type of pain.

[@warrior_of_da-Tetragrammaton]

Papakatsu wa sugoi!------

[@1stNationer]

The idea is fascinating. Leave it to the Japanese people to find a niche for this. I guess it’s mostly done in Tokyo…not smaller cities?