Just cuz he comes back doesn't mean you have to take him back
@nutterbutter52552 жыл бұрын
“Women, you are not rehabilitation centers for badly raised men. It is not your job to fix him, change him, parent him. You want a partner, not a project.” ~ Julia Roberts ❤️
@blackbirdhollow38892 жыл бұрын
The men who come back are usually the ones who can’t take care of themselves.
@kimsmith8192 жыл бұрын
Facts! He doesn't even know how to work the stove or washer & dryer
@diamondjack-cooper53222 жыл бұрын
I learned some men just use women for their own SURVIVAL, UNUSUAL SEX ACTS, SUPPORT,COOKED MEALS and HELP! Most guys see women as the HELP and a TOOL! Beware of these vultures! AMEN
@TheColieweber2 жыл бұрын
Facts 💯💯💯
@hayleywibbels63792 жыл бұрын
True
@537082 жыл бұрын
Yep they broke as hell
@frahelis_betzaida84662 жыл бұрын
They come back because of the benefits you provide it’s not always LOVE, it’s convenience, comfortability. & most of the time they don’t want you with someone else , act of selfishness . It ain’t always love or genuine intentions .
@diamondjack-cooper53222 жыл бұрын
This hurts my heart
@shantalbarbot58012 жыл бұрын
Truuueee
@diamondjack-cooper53222 жыл бұрын
Where are the genuine and selfless people at?
@heavenlydivinetarot2 жыл бұрын
BINGO!!!
@heavenlydivinetarot2 жыл бұрын
@@diamondjack-cooper5322 here!
@africanqueen22002 жыл бұрын
They don't appreciate us when they have us. It only hits them AFTERWARDS or when their replacement doesn't treat them as good as we did💅🏾💅🏾
@BabyFaceRose2 жыл бұрын
COULDNT have said it better 🥲😭😩😩🧡
@ashm6762 жыл бұрын
They don't really appreciate women at all in the first place coz if they did, they wouldn't treat us the way they do
@antoinettestefani58512 жыл бұрын
Agree
@jadesims6129 Жыл бұрын
I couldn't agree more
@shondahamilton7522 жыл бұрын
Guys come back when they discovered your replacement ain’t you. Not stupid. Just believe in trying to make things work. Even under difficult 😣 circumstances. Don’t lose your Queen 👑 for beans lol 😂.
@ScaryToRemarry2 жыл бұрын
This mistake is all to common with guys 🤦🏽
@shondahamilton7522 жыл бұрын
@@ScaryToRemarry I know right. When are they going to listen 👂? They like learning the hard way.
@TheLionessLo2 жыл бұрын
😄🙌💯
@ScaryToRemarry2 жыл бұрын
@@shondahamilton752 well, I’ve learned my lesson!
@shondahamilton7522 жыл бұрын
@@ScaryToRemarry That’s awesome 👏🏾! I’m proud of you. Your wife is in a good position and relationship. Each one ☝️ teach one.
@hopefaith93302 жыл бұрын
Moral of the story they don't want to see you moving on, and loving someone else..
@lolabrini37582 ай бұрын
yes! they leave you in limbo on purpose
@lady29522 жыл бұрын
TRUE STORY My ex: "I tried to replace you, but I can't." Me: "I know." ✌🏽Dueces That was probably one of the most real things he ever said to me, way too late.
@whitneyandrews24382 жыл бұрын
Because why would it sound pleasant in my ears that a person despise me enough to the point they have convinced themselves I am worthy of being replaced
@kairosunltd1302 жыл бұрын
I remember how much I prayed for him, the relationship, our business and our child, good God Almighty! Anyway, Thy Will Be Done is all I'm praying now.
@laurajoy11802 жыл бұрын
He's gotta go through Egypt to come back. 400 years.
@glee1052 жыл бұрын
That made me laugh
@lisajones23412 жыл бұрын
Lmbooo , absolutely on a 10 lb baby Jesus and the sky is falling
@laurajoy11802 жыл бұрын
@@lisajones2341 Yah otherwise he'll be a chicken with his head cut off.
@taylorp85552 жыл бұрын
I’m dead!
@ANuStart82 жыл бұрын
And they also have to realize moses never entered the promised land!!
@kimsmith8192 жыл бұрын
I can forgive, but can never ever forget
@ashm6762 жыл бұрын
I'll never forgive. What he did was low.
@sharenee74282 жыл бұрын
I’m not forgiving him. I will forgive myself for allowing him to treat me the way he did!
@Madelena71423 күн бұрын
I can’t forgive, but I can move on.
@creating1_c19992 жыл бұрын
He's right. All of my relationships, men told me that a lot of favor came into their life because of my spirit. The moment their lives started getting crazy, it was because they broke covenant with me. Seen it a ton of times.
@reneemassey-2827 Жыл бұрын
Yep! I've had 3 men tell me that....
@kamys61332 жыл бұрын
My home girls past unknowingly "situationship" has been reaching out to her off and on for the past 5 years smh. She left when she realized he wasn't serious. Its CRAZY!
@aminabesmilin46912 жыл бұрын
That’s me… 2 years in and he keeps coming back../ I just don’t get it… like leave me tf alone, you have options, so move on.
@glamgurl56185 ай бұрын
They be trying to keep their roster going
@tamikagamble34082 жыл бұрын
Facts, Derrick. At least I can truly say that I am properly loved by God.
@dawnserrano7372 жыл бұрын
Yas, my lord showed me, no way I'm going back to that!
@rhodettaroberts91102 жыл бұрын
Oh yea
@OnlikeDonkeyKong4222 жыл бұрын
ALL my exes moved on and tried to come back to me with a full blown relationship/family. My ex husband is the worst
@beefaye182 жыл бұрын
Damn !!!!
@littlelily42 жыл бұрын
a whole family and he does that damn...I hope that never happens to me
@elizabethvice4888 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for bringing these messages and being our brother and looking out for those of us who don't have this assistance elsewhere!! I haven't stopped learning from your videos!!
@xv_20464 ай бұрын
If they normalize ghosting, we normalize blocking. Forever.
@AnnikaPitts-gi6gy Жыл бұрын
Facts 💯 but be aware! I went no contact for one year with an ex and he reached out a year later! How he never met anyone like me and no one can compare. I fell for it and went back and then left me again in the exact same way. Never again
@mstwelvedeadlycyns3 ай бұрын
Leopard never change his spots!
@madisonandthefarm2 жыл бұрын
I’m not taking him back, I’m replacing him 😆
@Tasha76562 жыл бұрын
They come back cauze like one lady said on here , they cant take care of themselves. And/or they found out grass wasn't greener!
@nicolemichele13432 жыл бұрын
As much as I miss my baby daddy and I really love him and care I'm better off without him this back and forth breaking up taking breaks is making me more dependent without him. His lose my gain 👑🦋
@staygold12852 жыл бұрын
The # 1 reason they come back is coz they cudnt find you in the replacement. Period
@verarobinson67592 ай бұрын
Yes in all cases 😅
@mikesvoice56252 жыл бұрын
Once I’m gone I’m gone I ain’t pressed on you
@ANuStart82 жыл бұрын
Literally!! They will show up even 3 years later asking about you.
@ashm6762 жыл бұрын
He came back after 3 years, yes. But he wasn't asking about me. He said his guilt was killing him. Always selfish reasons. Never coz they care about a woman emotionally.
@TheColieweber2 жыл бұрын
Even 20 years later they will try it
@ashm6762 жыл бұрын
@@TheColieweber oh jez, hope mine doesn't
@ally52792 жыл бұрын
Mine came back after 4 years and I took him back. I wish I never had
@TheColieweber2 жыл бұрын
@@ally5279 that's usually how it goes. Remember what made you leave and let them stay gone because nothing has changed in most cases
@StormEternal2 жыл бұрын
Your Absolutely RIGHT.
@jerryhall57592 жыл бұрын
Let's keep it 💯.... guys tend to come back, usually because they're bored and have nothing better to do and/or want to eventually get his rocks off with that certain woman(because it was that good to him)..
@danasmith8390 Жыл бұрын
These are 💯 FACTZ. Thank you for sharing this message
@glorytogod1002 жыл бұрын
I listened to your webinar ;Secrets to Make Evolved Men Crave You' Master Class and I wish I had this class 4 years ago. It would have save me a lot of stress and disappointment. Going forward, I learned so much, and applying it to my life now.
@springfauna1465 Жыл бұрын
Me too!! I even took notes!
@courtenay19862 жыл бұрын
I had a dream and in my dream my ex-boyfriend wrote a letter stating how he was sorry for doing me wrong and how I didn’t deserve that and how she (new GF) ain’t me.
@judy63712 жыл бұрын
I've heard so many times that men say that to women. They are just trying to ease their own guilt for treating another human being poorly. Anyway, bless your heart.
@veebee99422 жыл бұрын
If you dreamed or even day dreamed it then it is sure to come soon💯
@titudela15882 жыл бұрын
He comes back i called him out.. asked to give me back my rings that i forgot at his place.. and he ghosted again... 😮💨
@itsmek8682 жыл бұрын
Yup, keep going. Cause he playing his self
@chantehowe77982 жыл бұрын
Its alot of men that has that pride and Don't say all that and just don't tell you what's really going on in they life
@jozejeaux39625 ай бұрын
I'm a woman and I have no idea why men come back because, I've never allowed it. I've experienced it but, after the breakup I did wonder what in the hell I was thinking
@TheLionessLo2 жыл бұрын
Your content is amazing! 🙌
@Thatgirlisagun2 жыл бұрын
3.28.22 " I " great insight ... this helped
@darleneyarusinsky251Ай бұрын
I everything you said is so true about him !
@dawnserrano7372 жыл бұрын
Hoovering..the devil you know..nothing working out for them..fk that!
@sharynbennett75962 жыл бұрын
Mine called me after he had someone else. Found out that I had someone else and was getting mad at me. Why
@naimam39762 жыл бұрын
Why are you calling him yours, hes an ex factor. Please treat him as such, hes just as irrevant as the stranger next door.
@ericabelcher87602 жыл бұрын
@@naimam3976 💯💯💯💯
@bcodih29362 жыл бұрын
Yeap he's in a relationship right now and still reaches out. Smfh
@beefaye182 жыл бұрын
Just ain't S...
@bcodih29362 жыл бұрын
@@beefaye18 I agree with u on this hun
@sayless14452 жыл бұрын
"I" most definitely
@maryamzizi132 жыл бұрын
I love you so much Derrick ❤️❤️
@newseason44172 жыл бұрын
Another great video!
@whitneyandrews24382 жыл бұрын
Idk how I ended up here But this video is the scary truth
@lizzynugen5622 жыл бұрын
😳, you hit the 🎯
@stephaniehenley24412 жыл бұрын
Absolutely 100%
@wannef9802 жыл бұрын
So wonderful to be single! Geez🙌🏽👑💜
@melissafoster97019 ай бұрын
He is a drunk without me yet he comes back and says I'm crazy
@foreignbaby1012 жыл бұрын
love from florida ❤️❤️
@leogoddess42982 жыл бұрын
Yes my ex is guilty of wanting to return
@BETTERTIPSFORYOU2 жыл бұрын
I haven’t heard from any prior partner. GOOD!!!!
@kimsanders8262 Жыл бұрын
Me either thank the Lord
@a.b56252 жыл бұрын
Long story short ..men come back because we CAN...and we know the more you take us back the weaker you become regarding your standards and expectations..before you know it we are only back physically..these coaches won't tell you the cold truth ladies
@ashm6762 жыл бұрын
Saying a woman becomes weaker implies she the one who should be blamed for men's low quality, when it's men need to fix men, it's not a woman's job.
@tracyrooster2 жыл бұрын
That's true and the fact the other females got partners and don't want his sorry arse so they come back to the weakest one and it's to test ur still there
@debraboyd541019 күн бұрын
No your women took you back, there is a lot of strong women who say hell no, not on my watch.
@ebonyprince882 жыл бұрын
Facts. But kick rocks. More than one at that. Prefer to be single.
@maryamzizi132 жыл бұрын
I love you guys so much ❤️❤️
@debraboyd541019 күн бұрын
The red sea will have to part again before I take him back. 😊
@Jeanninecomeau2 жыл бұрын
What about guys who keep coming back to dump you.
@naimam39762 жыл бұрын
They dont want you, they just want to use you to boost their ego and then dump you when they feel better about themselves.
@inqui-13942 жыл бұрын
If you have set your standards and they don’t commit to that after a second chance you shouldn’t let them back
@DeeEsmeralda2122 жыл бұрын
Thank you
@nedalove46682 жыл бұрын
Both trying the one that got away
@teresajura25754 ай бұрын
Definitely! Just happened
@danasmith839010 ай бұрын
I've listened to this several times. All factz
@JaxnVideos10 ай бұрын
Hey Dana, I'm so sorry to hear that you're struggling with feeling unappreciated in your relationship. It's really tough when you feel like your efforts aren't being recognized or valued. Remember, communication is key in any relationship - have you tried talking to your partner about how you're feeling? It's important to express your needs and concerns in a constructive way. If you're looking for more guidance on improving your relationships, I recently launched a new master class that addresses common relationship issues and provides practical tools for building stronger connections. You can check it out in the link in the description of this video. Hang in there, Dana. You deserve to feel appreciated and valued in your relationship.
@caroleharrison88842 жыл бұрын
I, all the way!!!
@countrygyrl41212 жыл бұрын
I have had that happen to me
@imhereforit61732 жыл бұрын
"I"......had been married for years and tried it
@nurseannesinspirationalwellnes2 жыл бұрын
Thanks
@Judybell1959 Жыл бұрын
Me married 22 years I move out he still trying
@caelevstephan42832 жыл бұрын
guys come back cuz they’re down bad
@PraiseandPoise2 жыл бұрын
What’s does this mean?
@PraiseandPoise2 жыл бұрын
What’s does this mean?
@tanyamontgomery31722 жыл бұрын
That was me at one point.
@Judybell1959 Жыл бұрын
He did go down now he wanting to come back
@janellalittle99892 жыл бұрын
I have been through that
@anastasiawilliams78682 жыл бұрын
Facts
@SynedocheofMyself2 жыл бұрын
Is this also true of men who send friend requests and then orbit on social media?
@teanna456923 күн бұрын
They play them self…. We was in a situation / relationship but my intuition said he was hiding something… come to find out he was about to get married 😮
@yolandasaffold52732 жыл бұрын
"I"!!!!!
@afrintayeba29812 жыл бұрын
Not always...am i wrong?
@moniquemendez86562 жыл бұрын
Yes
@cakes3D777 Жыл бұрын
The grass is greener where you water it
@LoveEndures711 ай бұрын
Ive never had an ex not try to come back to me. The most recent ex was the most bird 🐦
@nashantarogers52202 жыл бұрын
"I"
@sharonbushong95592 жыл бұрын
I agree
@taymikataymika49622 жыл бұрын
😭😭😭😭 oh he back on these KZbin streets
@mrsbutler64112 жыл бұрын
I signed up for your class it starts today at 3:15 where do I go
@mrcurtisbrantley2 жыл бұрын
Sorry No reverse here 😁
@alexinecraig12592 жыл бұрын
I had that happen
@rosalind57372 жыл бұрын
I got a lot from this
@mauigirl95272 жыл бұрын
Yep! I…
@amyrowe535 Жыл бұрын
WORD
@carlanemnich68342 жыл бұрын
Yep
@myraquick9691 Жыл бұрын
I!!
@orbithubble96627 ай бұрын
They also come back because their new upgrade can't match your sex game. Men think, oh well, I can teach the new woman how to, but they can't. The boring sex eventually drives them insane & they'll come begging back to you.
@courtneyirby35042 жыл бұрын
I did
@1nite19892 жыл бұрын
I never went back, came back, been back. Keep my rotation going no need for a steady relationship. Dating is dead in 2022.
@ANuStart82 жыл бұрын
As long as theyre on the same page there is nothing wrong with it.