Why men will NEVER CHASE if you are too nice

Relationship Advice & Dating Advice. Relationship Advice for women so you can understand love in the modern dating world. This is dating advice for women who are struggling to understand how a man thinks and what he wants from a woman in their relationships. I will also break down how to create desire in a relationship with a man so that he can chase after you and you can have the relationship you want! How to become an attractive person that attracts other high-quality potential romantic partners into your life. It's so important to understand that attraction doesn't just consist of your physical traits but there are also plenty of mental, spiritual, and energetic traits that also play a role in someone's attraction to you. How to position yourself in the right way in the modern dating world so you can have access to as many men as you want and build the relationship of your dreams. Not only do we discuss outward techniques and strategies but we also talk about many mindset changes that must take place for you to see real changes in your dating life. We discuss things like manifestation, the law of attraction, affirmations, and the law of assumptions as just a few of the many tools in your toolbox that will help you have the love life that you desire! There are also so many aspects to improving yourself and taking accountability that also play a role in getting the love you feel you deserve. We don't only focus on how to be better for men but we also learn how to be better for you. The better your life is, the more whole you are, the more confidence you will have, and the more attractive you will be to everyone around you. I will use my experiences in the dating world to help give you relationship advice and dating tips to get the type of love you seek!
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[@josaphatadrian2956]

Drop any man who gives you anxity . Leave him . Love is not anxiety . Turn the table and move on

[@roser8911]

That’s why I’m talking to 50 dudes at once lol

[@josaphatadrian2956]

@@roser8911 of course

[@user-gu2pb7km8f]

AMEN 🙏

[@karinazrzu]

@@roser8911👏👏👏👏👏

[@ak-47intelligence75]

I put distance between me and the man once he steps out of line.

[@smores8982]

Never be a people pleaser and/or a doormat. It will cause people to take you for granted and turn people off at best and at worse some will use you.

[@josaphatadrian2956]

Don't do nothing . Don't do nothing for any man just for yourself . I cook for me only . Keep being a young girl . If you feel like calling him , do it , if you feel like flirting do it , dont let him touch you at all , if he want to go anywhere with you take another adult with you .

[@worldisbeautiful399]

It comes from a childhood trauma when a child grew up in a dysfunctional family and doesn't want a repeating cycle of conflicts experienced. They would shy away from conflict situations that resurface this pain. That's maybe an explanation of a "good girl syndrome" and need for peace. So it's not as simple as it seems on surface. Relationships are seen as source of pain rather than joy, some stay single for this reason and need a lot of healing work.

[@samxsara]

Yeah people pleasing for survival at a young age… need to do the total opposite while growing up tho

[@xoxobutterfly]

I ended it...he can't even call me or take me on dates 😢 I'm out Thanks for the video ❤ amazing work

[@user-gu2pb7km8f]

🎉congratulations 😊 zero 👏 tolerance for any drama or disrespect & no 2nd chances

[@aquastone5870]

The guys I love the most gave me the least anxiety. I'm not interested in guys that cause me stress, doubt, fear,

[@samxsara]

Such a good point

[@Ilianaisme]

I love this channellllllllll. Literally think I finally found the one after more than a year of fboys and lovebombers that I give squirtle to too early. Now I feel secure in my approach and not giving up my squirtle until we are official

[@natnat8199]

Lol to see the word “squirtle” typed out. Yes girl, no more giving up that squirtle too soon!:)

[@user-gu2pb7km8f]

🎉if ur ring finger is naked ur body shouldn't 💍 be. get married 1st or at least engaged before getting na-ked

[@elishevaforman7175]

There’s no way women are out here buying men a PS5 😭

[@IOSALive]

Tomisin, nice content keep up the amazing content

[@josaphatadrian2956]

Do not cook for any man unless he's your father

[@mae88b.16]

Love your channel i never watched videos those long but you kept me engaged specially you dramatize situation

[@jessiiica07]

That’s not me. My time is valuable. When the guy goes to message me I’m already out. I’m also gone as well. If the guy messages and acts like nothing happened I will tell him I’m no longer interested and I will not elaborate. If he says why ? I’ll say he knows why. He didn’t have the decency to even let me know what was happening. If he wants to try again, I say no. I will say my time is valuable and he doesn’t have what I want in a man . I am very selective and he didn’t make the cut. Usually men cry after. If you’re not making him beg for it or chase you- you’re doing it all wrong. Stay in your feminine. 🗝️ One key for a lock. Not every guy can be that key or combination. Not my problem either. Stay in your feminine that is where your power lies and where you set those boundaries.

[@coco8386]

This is so deeply enlightening and therapeutic. Now I understand why all of my past boyfriends whom I cherished so dearly not only didn't return my love but actually hated me! I could never understand why MY LOVE was such a big turn-off! 🥴? It is at least comforting to realize that I'm not the only one who was ever blind to a man's perspective.

[@emyywolf]

Ok. I don’t think desperation literally comes out the pores 😂. But we get it

[@queentells9031]

Cheers to 10k subscribers 💃💃

[@racheljohnson4699]

Thank you for opening my eyes!!

[@olegirl]

ipad analogy was perfect! great listen

[@tfushtfushtfush]

He didnt reply to a nice message i sent him 4 days ago. Tonight he called and i didnt answer. I am so sad because I need to stop ✋️I am loosing interest because he is not consistent

[@fionaquesada4052]

These videos are so good, game changers ❤️

[@andreeamalin2022]

What is Tomisin teaching us is to having a conscious relationship with ourselves and with the other.in those moments of loneliness , stay with it, our balance is tipped over, our cup is empty.the polarity isn't there either, because if he fills that cup of neediness we might feel resentful and not liking the man anymore. i fill that we are first to become whole ,everyday,without the need to look outside(in the man we want) of us to do it.

[@user-oe1ow7qs2n]

The world of love & romance sounds like a big….game of the sperm chasing the egg😂😂who wld win?

[@miathomas8493]

I never listen to videos this long....this is very good content

[@oyungerelchuluunbaatar2756]

I listen to your Chanel everyday thank u ❤

[@lovestartarot333]

This is great!

[@user-gu2pb7km8f]

🎉NEVER give a boyfriend husband benefits bc he's Not nor is he the prize. No exceptions. ur body is sacred. keep ur legs closed until marriage or at least an engagement 💍 ring. then you'll c how 🤔 he really feels about u?

[@natasha2877]

@ Tomisin The chocolate chip cookie analogy is genius. BTW some people grow grey hair in their 20s 🙃.

[@nicoler.4356]

Yes, I've had that happen with a date. But I did address it and he made up some excuses. I ended up breaking up with the guy after if happened several times.

[@Tnc874]

For the 21yo dating the 31 yo , stop having pineapples. They use our squirtle for release but we cant get their money??? And your 21?? He knows he is supposed to be kicking out cash. Withhold the oineapples because you are stressed out over bills that he refuses to help you with. For the 17 yo they don’t know hire many people to been with unless you tell them, so keep your mouth and your legs closed

[@benjaminadeltoro2233]

To bad that man doesn’t value good women that will do anything for them when we loves them They rather have mean girls that treat them like trash 🤷🏻‍♀️ I will not change being a nice/ transparent loyal & strong woman & if a man doesn’t like that, I’m 💯 ok with that. It takes a strong & a smart man to appreciate a strong woman with great family values that would do anything for him. I rather stay on my own till I find a real man that will appreciate me. 😉

[@RacilleAshley-sf7yv]

Hi WHY does it, seem like a woman has NO peace with a man. It looks to be like a rollercoaster, men and woman relationship I'm talking about, . Poor woman have to go through, all kinds of changes, then some women have to raise children AND GO THROUGH with a MAN, this is a sad life. Your ADVICE can help set a woman, on the right SANE path, in this life. THANK YOU! . . . ,,

[@angelalynn4225]

Facts

[@chisomoffor6877]

You ate the church girl up, I can’t , I’m laughing so hard, number 15 is crazy

[@andreeamalin2022]

hello lovelies ...so you said ,not many phone calls...and i agree to some degree...but what happens when he calls ...cause he is showing interest...do you answer the phone? ...have a quick chat ?

[@oyungerelchuluunbaatar2756]

Ahhaahh this part i wanna till i drop so funny way to express man

[@jacquelynsimmons6131]

It's so unattractive when guys drool all over you I can't stand it I'm much more than that, Thanks for the video!!! ❤❤❤❤

[@Lovely-vl8zr]

You're so funny

[@MorganQuinn-wn2br]

Do you have an email for advice

[@nurseannesinspirationalwellnes]

Maestro🎓T

[@Ana-jp9nr]

❤❤❤

[@yrLLeeeee]

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