Why She Makes Life Hell! 20 Plus Traits To Identify A Narcissistic Wife

In this Hindi video, I discuss over 20 traits & behaviors commonly displayed by a narcissistic wife & which her husband gets to witness in his life with her! This will hopefully help one identify better if their wife/long term partner might be on the NPD spectrum. Of course, as with all narcissistic personalities, the degree or presence of any of these traits will vary depending on the intensity of their clinically diagnosed narcissism & their specific narcissistic personality type. Time stamps given below.
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DISCLAIMER: The content shared here is only a tool to help create general understanding & awareness. It is not a substitute for professional support. No information shared in this video is intended to diagnose or cure any individual or any health condition. If you are experiencing any concerns with your mental, physical, emotional, or psychological well-being , OR feel you or a loved one is might be a Narcissist or is being seriously affected by a Narcissist, please consider connecting with a clinical therapist who specializes in dealing with Narcissistic Personality Disorder.
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05:15 Emotionally Unregulated, Toxic, Disagreeable
06:38 Angry, Explosive, Abusive
08:00 Insatiable, Dissatisfied, Ungrateful
9:32 Incapable of True Emotional Connection
10:35 Regular Blame Shifting & Gaslighting
12:47 Projection & Punching Bag
13:54 Shames, Humiliates, Criticizes
14:47 Portrays Victim Mode
15:44 Hypercritical, Nitpicking
16:52 Extremely Self Centered & Entitled
17:40 Unsupportive of You, Sympathetic To Others
18:35 Hypersensitive To Criticism, Suggestion
19:22 Disastrous, Disorderly, Irresponsible Home- Maker
20:10 Financially Rash, Dis regulated, Controlling
21:06 Uses Sexuality to Control & Punish
22:38 Fake & Superficial, Image Conscious
23:28 Compares You To Other Romantic Interests
24:40 Inappropriate Behavior With Other Men
25:30 Ongoing Smear Campaign
26:18 Sabotages Your Support System
27:48 Sneaky, Demands Micro- Control
28:20 Destructive, Disruptive
29:18 Inflicts Emotional, Psychological, Even Physical Violence
31:02 Extra Revengeful & Threatening During Divorce
32:50 Manipulative, Abusive Co-Parent

[@nishantarongpi9973]

Your right....I also suffered a Narcissistic Relationship... but I got out now 😮

[@lifeafterlife8386]

सबसे बड़ा RED FLAG यही हैं की किसी के बेहेवियर के बारे में जानने के लिए गूगल पर जाना पड़ जाये आपका भी धन्यवाद आपके वीडियो से बहुत जानकरी मिली 🙏

[@SoulfulnesswithShuchi]

I agree. Online Research can help give a clearer & more consolidated understanding of certain complicated behavior phenomena but our 1st & permanent tools are always our own intuition, self love, & inner awareness, which unfortunately most people never develop through their lives! This is exactly what I talked about in this earlier video kzbin.info/www/bejne/j5vWi4WwiJp5o5I

[@lifeafterlife8386]

@@SoulfulnesswithShuchi आपका एक एक वीडियो कई कई बार देखे अभी तक देखता हु जब भी helpless महसूस करता हू

[@pradeepborada5258]

Your vedios change and save my life my depression.. ❤ now i relief thankyou

[@SoulfulnesswithShuchi]

So glad!:)🤍 God bless you

[@NI99T]

Husband to fir bhi bahar jada rahte hai ,but wife narcissistic ho to bohot bura hota hoga na sirf husband k liye but kids k liye

[@backs.chandra]

For every person in family agar brother in law hai toh unke uppar bhi galat galat ilzam lagate hai even on father in law par....

[@NI99T]

@@backs.chandrakoi moral values hoti hi nhi inki......Ek aakh se roo skti hai dusri se hasti hai.....Inko supports ki bhi kami nhi rahi.....Ase victim cards khelti hai....

[@backs.chandra]

@@NI99T i know, badi he ajib personality ho jati hai ego ehenkar me chur ho jate.... generations kharab kar dete hai

[@temporary_world]

Female narcissist aane wali kayi generations me bhi narcissism ghol deti hai.

[@HealthySansaar]

Yes. Kuchh had tak.

[@shivsingh-hw5nq]

No doubt whatsoever u have explained in video regarding narcissistic wife is absolutely correct but suggestions/remedies are missing how to deal her in right way. Pl. post also a such video to get relief from such hellishness.

[@SoulfulnesswithShuchi]

There are no remedies for this; the narcissist in any relationship is unfixable. The victim can only work on their own self awareness, spiritual understanding, physical & emotional boundaries & protection etc. This is not one day but in-depth work & part of our larger life lessons. I have already posted quite a few of such videos. You will find them in my narcissism playlist as well as relationships playlist👍

[@NI99T]

Mere bhai ki wife b asi h , cook k hote hue bhi ,dinner nhi banvati bhai k liye, bacho ko din me sula deti h or bhai jb aata hai to bache unko raat 2-3 baje tak sone nhi dete or vo so jati hai .Bilkul pagl kr diya tha bhai ko, jhoothe iljaam laga kr mere parents ko raat ko uski maa ya vo 2-3 baje call kr k paresha krti hai,

[@veenaomdhawan6115]

Sadly my daughter in law is a narcissistic wife. I can see her misbehaviour daily. Feel extremely worried about my son. She just hates me and picks up fights daily and my son is very sweet and humble. She comes from a very low grade family. She is always abusing me emotionall mentally physically. I am old and sick now I have suffered since she got married. Could not see my son and grandson suffering. Given her unlimited gifts practically every thing. But she is never happy. I have gone no contact but she is happy. I feel exactly same di to as you are saying.Now she wants me to take care of house as she wants to go out. Always manibulating. What should I do. Can't decide. Always beating nagging her son. What to do. No happiness she is self centered. She always showing off. Does not work but spends our money crazily

[@SoulfulnesswithShuchi]

If you see it as misbehavior, why do you accept or suffer it then? And why do you give her gifts on top of that? Just stand up for your boundaries & limits & do what feels fair & right. And stop giving in to anything that doesn’t feel right or sensible even if she throws tantrums, & increases her misconduct. You might be surprised how just doing this can change things for you. Stop repeatedly identifying yourself as a victim. Also your son is grown up. He should be doing the same for himself. If he chooses not do, please stop trying to fix their relationship much as it might pain you. They will have to learn their own lessons.

[@sukhwinderbhagat1681]

You are 💯 right everything make true sense to me .

[@indiantravelsome]

I was always against arranged marriage set up but now after watching this, im even more against it. Im dealing with my narc bhabhi, she has ruined bhaiya's and their kids' life . She has all these traits. She is constantly comparing herself with me. Extremely manipulative and victim personality. She doesn't leave a chance to tell others how bichari she is.

[@jeevankg1]

I had all this experience from my wife from last 35 years, you told every word point to point is true to point , Thank you mam ,

[@SoulfulnesswithShuchi]

You’re welcome & I wish u awareness, empowerment, & healing🤍

[@Amolraut-qm3pe]

Self centric, I am the greatest type attitude, political in nature, stereotypes, non acceptance of the mistakes or problems , keep justifying for their actions no matter how wrong they are, Sunki, Voilent. Unreliable. Taunting Nature, Arrogant, do not think before act, Vighna Santoshi, restless, ruthless, short tempered, Power hungry, Always liar, Always wanted to control others, unpredictable, Toxic Mind, no respect to Husband ...Now exactly I know why the hell. Does this get transferred through genes? Is there any treatment?

[@Ghazanferali100]

Madam, I am from Peshawar, Pakistan. You provided deep insight into the matter. I am facing Narcesstic Wife for last 33 years. You video help me a lot to tackle the issue. I am very grateful. 👍👍👍

[@SoulfulnesswithShuchi]

Happy to know! You’re welcome🙏

[@NI99T]

sexually to narcissistic pati bhi bohot torture krte hai , multiple relationship me rhte hai or ,patni ko kuch nhi , bus torture

[@DilbagSingh-jl5pk]

Yes, u r right.

[@Bethemaster520]

Serving the best content on youtube 🙌 lots of love keep awakening . .agar ho sake to baki youtubers ke saath is topic par colab kariyega ❤️

[@SoulfulnesswithShuchi]

Thank u❣️🙏:)

[@saddamkischool4486]

Love you didi for make Knowledge video for teach us good lesson. Thank you so much ❤❤❤

[@user-ef1lm5jv3z]

Aapki ek ek bat shi h,meri mother aur father dono narc h,pr ye sb chize wo mere father k sath krti h,ghar me kaam ho ya ya bahr ka kuch bhi,meri mother itna jaya devalue krti h,mere father ka maths acha nhi h,pr onka humanities acha h,pr kbhi wo humanities ki baat nhi krti, publically ya humare samne bhi bs onki maths ka mazak bnati h,bohot bar meri mother ne mujhe tk use kia,mere father ko kisi se friendship nhi rakhne deti h,sare relatives me father ko jhuti baton se badnaam kia hua h,wo hum bacho k samne acha bnti h,pr ab dhire dhire mujhe pta lag rha h relatives se ki wo humari sb se burayi krti h aur wo sb batein jhuti h,mere father k koi bhi friend koi bhi on k relatives se wo mil nhi skte itna control krti h,khud ki job h mother ki toh idhr udhr dikhane k liy rupaye waste krti rehti h,pr whi hum bacho ko jarurat ho toh kbhi nhi deti,aur father k rupaye ki jhuti kahani sunati rhi itne salon se ki wo ghar me rupaye nhi dete tbki aesa kuch nhi tha,mother ki age jaldi hi 60 honne wali h jaldi,pr hum bacho se compare krti h mirror me,humare undergarments tk chura leti h bs ye btane k liy ki me bohot tmyoung hu,mere father ko humesha devalue krti h ki mere liy itne ache rishte aaye the,on kex k bare me btati rehti h,female friend father ki h office me onko bat nhi krne deti h,aur khud apne office k male friends se ghar me do ghante tk bast krti h,on k sath bike pr apne office jati h,father ka smear campaign chalaya h,yha tk ki hum bacho ko itna jhut bola h ki jisme kich bhi shi nhi tha,pr ab dhire dhire pta lag rha h,hr kisi k samne rone ka drama krne lgti h ki jis se pta lage mere father kitna dukh dete h onko,aur bohot faltu rupaye udati rehti h,father k phone ko check krna hota h kis se bat kr rhe h kis se chat kr rhe h, password chahiye hota h father k mobile ka

[@SoulfulnesswithShuchi]

Thanks for such detailed sharing of your experience. I’m sure it also helps validate the suffering of others in similar circumstances. However, just based on your sharing, I’m not sure if your father also is a narc. If he was, he would have been doing the same things to your mom & you all. It would’ve been a never ending fierce battle for control! An xtra hell! He sounds more like a weak personality jo apni peace rakhne ke liye apki mom ke saamne koi sahi stand lene ki himmat nahi rakhte hain. Also, since it sounds like you are grown up now. So, please be independent & marriage or no marriage, get out of that home & create your own life!

[@user-ef1lm5jv3z]

@@SoulfulnesswithShuchi haan ye sach h wo weak personality h,pr jo narc father krte h wo sbhi chize wo mother k sath krte h aur humare sath bhi, onhone hum bacho ko bachpn me hi discard kr dia,kbhi humari financially ya emotional koi responsibility nhi li,jb onhe dikhana hota h ki on k bache kitne talented h kitna ache dikhte h toh wo humko aesi jagaho pr le jate h bohot ache se baat bhi krte h,pr ghar me kbhi onhone na humse bat ki na hi kbhi humara naam lia h,jb hum bimar hote h tb bhi wo dono humko mrne k liy chor dete h fir chahe ek mhina kyo na ho jaye,hum khud se hospital jate h,os k baad wo dono hi ye bolte h ki on k rupaye waste kr diy humne hospital jakr,aur dono bohot galiya dete h jhgdte h,jb kbhi humari education se related hume kuch chahiye hua tb bhi onhone humko shi time pr chize available nhi krwayi dono ne tbki dono ki govt job h aur ghar me koi financial issues nhi h,aur jb bhi hum padhayi krte dono ko hi problem hoti h,osme father ko sb se jyada..wo kbhi nhi chahte ki humari kisi ache ladk se shadi ho ya humara carrier secure ho,jb bhi kbhi ghar me achi family se koi rishta aaya wo log aane wale hote mere father ne bhayank ldayi ki,mera poora mood ro ro kr khrab ho jata tha,pr tb me ye sb kuch smjhti nhi thi... Me yha ye sb isliy bta rhi hu taki ji bhi padhe ose smjh aaye,kyoki sbhi narcissist k patterns same hote h

[@user-ef1lm5jv3z]

@@SoulfulnesswithShuchi aur jb bhi meri mother pregnant hui ya bimar Hui father ne abandon kia,jese wo bacha onka h hi nhi..

[@deepaktupare2979]

Really perfect content you gave to all of us thank You so much for making such fruitful and social awareness video

[@pakistanbeauty4155]

thanks maam

[@sumanchauhan7086]

Madam make video on rude boys vs narcissist girls please

[@bilalahmed-xu8to]

Very well explained pr pta hi bad me chalta hy JB pani sir sy guzar Jata hy

[@user-ef1lm5jv3z]

Hum bacho k sath bohot jyada physical abuse kia h mother ne,itna maarti thi jb tkwo thak nhi jaye jb tk onki heartbreak fast na ho jaye,aur daily hi maarti thi,kitne dande tod diy humko maar kr,kyoki mere father bui narc the onhone kbhi os maar se nhi bachaya wo bs dekhte rehte the

[@NI99T]

Mother India me Bohot jada bade level pe mani jati hai, but its really very painful to have narcissistic mother.....

[@deepak-maan009]

@@NI99T my mother also destroy my life

[@NI99T]

@@deepak-maan009 I can't feel ur pain....Its beyond my understanding.......But i can understand that its unbearable and cause destruction that never ever curable.....

[@sfact1722]

Ase mahole me plne wale Bache bade ho k ase hi toxic relationship bnate hain . Hmare as pas boht se ase log hain lakin hm un se alag bi ni ho sakte Kya kren .

[@user-bj8vy4vq5w]

Mein 25 saal se aise adami ke sath reh rahi hu tab mujhe pata nahi tha ab pata chala yeh video dekh kar mein bahut dukhi thi ki mugh mein hi koi kami hai ab mein help less feel kar rahe hu

[@user-rv5hq8po6b]

Thank you mam

[@onlinegyandeepcoachingclasses]

100% perfect after observing 1 year.

[@sunshine1873]

❤ thank you

[@DrNaziaGulfam]

Very well explained 👍

[@amittaneja1411]

Mam aapse baat karni hai plz ho sakta hai aap koi solution bta de

[@Zaheer06dpim203]

Madam apne Jo Jo points batai wo saare k saare points meri wife me milte Hain...jabki Maine apni family ko samjha k shadi ki thi...!

[@linkinpavan4633]

I am completely agreeing with you. I am facing one. I dint even heard this word Narssisam earlier. Most of the time I feel I have spoiled her life....thanks aka for preparing me for divorce....I am subscribing your channel.

[@raghavsadhu]

Can u please tell me how to divorce a narcissist wife in indian scenario? Any strategy you have to get out ?

[@SoulfulnesswithShuchi]

Please consult a legal professional.

[@vinayssshhh]

Narcissists person will always cheat,find some proofs and in that ground you can file.

[@kalpeshpatil5596]

I found myself relating to everything you said about the traits they exhibit. My wife and her mother constantly try to control me, and they only talk about their own problems without considering my issues with my wife. My mother-in-law often misguides my wife, and I feel like I'm trapped in a toxic relationship. I'm writing to you to seek your advice on how to deal with my situation. I feel like I'm at a loss and don't know what to do. Do you have any suggestions on how to talk to my wife about her behavior and set boundaries? Or perhaps you could recommend some resources that could help me navigate this difficult situation.

[@SoulfulnesswithShuchi]

There are plenty of videos on my narcissism playlist. I also have other relationship based playlists. You can watch whichever seem appealing/ relevant to u & apply the understanding & insights to your own self work & your situation🤍

[@riderguylucky7539]

What is the issue brother? How is ur health?

[@kalpeshpatil5596]

@@riderguylucky7539 My marital relationship has been deteriorating, and I'd like to provide a detailed account of my situation. About a year ago, my father tragically passed away in an accident. Just two days after his funeral, my wife began raising issues about my lack of attention to her during that difficult time. We had an inter-religious marriage, and she argued that I had time for my mother and brother but neglected her. I tried to explain that my mother and brother were deeply affected by the loss and it was my responsibility to support them, especially given the legal procedures and police involvement due to the FIR filed against the person responsible for my father's accident. Despite my attempts to clarify and handle the situation, my wife reacted with anger, refused to speak to me, and eventually left our home after a week. When she departed, I asked about her plans, and she made it clear that she had no intention of returning. We sought therapy, but it did not yield positive results. Things took a turn for the worse when she began threatening divorce. I was already emotionally shattered by the loss of my father, and her lack of support made matters even more difficult. A few months ago, my wife became upset with me over a mistake I admitted to making. We engaged in therapy, but she remained unwilling to acknowledge the issues I was facing in the relationship. Later, her mother, along with my wife, came to my home and engaged in a heated argument with both me and my mother. They checked into a nearby hotel, and my mother-in-law secretly confided in me, suggesting that her daughter was frustrated and angry. She implied that if I continued talking to my wife normally, things will eventually improve. She advised me to maintain communication even if my MIL returned to her hometown. However, after a few days, my mother-in-law invited me to a restaurant early in the afternoon. Due to work-related commitments, I couldn't arrive promptly. When I finally reached the restaurant, I was taken aback to find both of them drinking alcohol. Once they finished, we went to the hotel where they were staying, and there, an ugly confrontation erupted. Both my wife and her mother were intoxicated and not in their right minds. This incident left me deeply shaken. I tried discussing it with my mother-in-law, but she suggested that encouraging her daughter to drink was a form of punishment because I had arrived late. Now, my wife is refusing to listen to my concerns or feelings. Even when I attempt to calmly communicate with her, she resorts to threatening suicide. I have been profoundly affected by these events, but I am working on rebuilding myself through self-care techniques.

[@veenaomdhawan6115]

I'm totally listening to my sons wife. Point to point corelating my family. How helpless a mother feels.worried about my son. She has succeeding in throwing me out of house. Distroying family

[@veenaomdhawan6115]

Pls give some solutions. There has to be some way out of this madness

[@ronaldekka11]

what would be the best way to proof a narcissistic wife is court during divorce?

[@SoulfulnesswithShuchi]

You’ll need to consult a legal professional for such advice. Of course, keeping any possible valid records of abuse might be helpful.

[@user-rv5hq8po6b]

Pl help

[@vinayssshhh]

A narcissists person will always cheat,abuse if you can record or have some evidence then on that basis you can file a divorce but in India laws favour women more so it can be very rough for you.

[@vinayssshhh]

In extreme cases with the help of lawyer a women can make your life hell so always keep that in mind

[@babatakeup7302]

Mam...agar narcissist girl 5 yrs baad second time fhir aaye Hover k liye tu kaise deal kare.... narcissist girl se...plz kuch bataye mam

[@lifeafterlife8386]

Bhago 😜

[@babatakeup7302]

@@lifeafterlife8386 bhagna aab mere ko nhi h aab tu narcissist ko hi bhagana ha..

[@SoulfulnesswithShuchi]

By becoming wise enough to ‘NOT Deal’! Do u want to re-start the loop of drama again? If not, block completely. Do not engage, answer, respond in any manner.

[@babatakeup7302]

@@SoulfulnesswithShuchi ok mam.. thanks 🙏👍

[@nikiroy6196]

@@babatakeup7302 ....haha...i know...there is a book called run to the hills. My hubby picked fights for nothing. If i get sweets, he would say why i got it and if i didn't, he would say why didn't i get it. One day we were in front of indian store and i said...i am getting veggies ,do you want sweets, i thought i cant do anything wrong while we both are here. He said..dont, so i didn't and when i came back he said, where is sweets? I couldn't say that you just said no because that will make him aggravate, so i said...let me get it now and he backed up his car and said...thats why i dont like you and starting lashing out. What did i do? Had similar episodes often.

[@urmipsychiatryhospitalluna4379]

Nice explanation of psychology… R u a clinical psychologist or consultant psychiatrist?

[@SoulfulnesswithShuchi]

No, I’m not. My ‘About’ section shares my info:)

[@gazenderyadav5839]

Meri bhi choti choti bato se 15din tak bate nani karti

[@ajaykushwaha9517]

4 year pahle meri arrange marriage Hui thi ab ja k pata chala wo NPD se grasit h Kisi se uski nhi banti Jindgi ghand kr rakhi h

[@yamunathlomte80]

Use ghar ke bahar akela kabhi maat chodana....ghar mai camera laghayo.....bharosa maat karo unn par

[@yamunathlomte80]

Paisa ka wallet kabhi maat uasake haath laghane dena

[@Zaheer06dpim203]

My wife is a biggest narcissistic personality...me and my whole family is going through very much mental problems due to her...how can I survive with her..1 three year old son is also with her ..!

[@SoulfulnesswithShuchi]

Decision apni zindagi apko khud ki wisdom se lena hoga positives & negatives madhya nazar rakhte hue… This playlist provides guidance for this kzbin.info/aero/PLZJgNLVULTLrbvSlscFcVuqSuWKqbfEmP&si=jaJEeZ6F_m_LLWEQ

[@sfact1722]

Meri walida bi asi hi thi Or us k baad meri Badi sister bi asi hi bn gai thi . Lakin ase logon k sath hm kesay guzara kren ye btaya kro .

[@ZoroX1]

Its been 8 years i have lived with my narc wife..initially it was good, then after 1 yr i think, things started to change, at that time i was naive nd thot its the way all wives are, (little drama) but unfortunately, things took a turn for the worst after she started insulting my family. Cherry on the top was, she didnt stop her nonsense even after getting pregnant via ivf after 5 yrs. Nw my daughter is 1.5 yrs old. But now i know her tactics, i have decided to leave her, but the only thing that is killing me is my daughters future. i love my daughter too much.. i cant leave her with this evil person. what should i do... anyone can suggezt me anything ?

[@rizf800]

I will suggest you make video or audio recordings if her abusive behavior towards you and your daughter so that when you file for divorce you can ask for custody of your daughter with proof that your wife is mentally abusive try to Trigger her into hitting you or your child a couple of times so u can frame her as physically abusive too. You can discuss this matter with a lawyer who will tell you things that can guarantee you custody after the girl becomes old enough a lawyer will guide you best but try not to let your wife know your intentions as it can become dangerous. You are taking a right decision. Remember you can't take care of your daughter unless you take care of your metal health first. I have seen the parent going in depression etc to keep the marriage (my mother) it will hurt your daughter to see you like that speaking from experience leave but stay in touch with your daughter Learn coparenting with narcissists that's a good option if you don't get custody narcissist don't hurt their children until a certain age (10-12) not sure but until that age your daughter won't remember any things she will say to her so live for yourself and come back for your daughter

[@ZoroX1]

@@rizf800 i thank u for ur response...i truly thank u... i have taken sm of ur suggestion. thnk u..god bless u

[@riderguylucky7539]

Can i talk to you?

[@ramanuj9151]

क्या इनकी बढ़िया से सुताइ करने से सकारात्मक परिणाम आ सकते है?

[@OmPrakash-cu2oo]

ऐसे लोग शादी क्यों करते हैँ? क्यूंकि शादी मे दो फैमिली इन्वॉल्व होती हैँ? Is से उनको kya मजा मिलता है Plz answer sumone?

[@SoulfulnesswithShuchi]

Aise log shaadi KYON NAHI karenge?! Narcs are deep dark empty bottomless wells who cannot survive without supply! They are dependent for this supply on PEOPLE. Ek Husband ya wife se behtar kya tareeka ho sakta hai life long supply paane ka, khaskar agar unse bahut saare benefits bhi attached ho- like looks, money, care, power etc.?!🙂