Why so many celebrities commit suicide in Korea

[@Koakoa45]

The biggest issue I see is loneliness. Actors and Idols are shamed for dating and falling in love, they can lose their jobs. Then you got no friends or people you can trust when famous. Being at the top is very lonely. Yes, Korea has the most viscous haters and until the government puts a stop to it, it will stay out of control. Celebrities need to start suing the shit out of these people. I know some Idol entertainment companies do this and now others must. Haters are mentally ill people who feel they are untouchable, and they need to be held accountable. If you have trouble with people becoming famous or successful to the point you want to lash out, you need to seek therapy, that is not normal or healthy. It's like no one taught them how to get off their own behinds and work for what they want. If you wanted to be a famous Idol and you are at home online complaining it is your fault, you do not have the actual passion for it or drive. So shut up and go do something else.

[@arizonagirl6474]

Exactly right. I've also noticed that idols and actors/actresses can't really defend themselves. They are attacked and just have to deal with it while staying quiet. I can't imagine that. I've always said that the government needs to step in and tell these delusional people that they don't own these celebrities. The culture they have created in Korea is now biting them in the butt. It needs to be addressed.

[@verenamenzel8958]

toxic culture and dependancy from social media, terrible fans, loneliness, solitude, no friends, no family around, pressure everywhere leads to burnout, depression, suicide. We know this but it seemes as if korean society is ignoring it and nobody cares.

[@leefrankel4191]

@@Koakoa45 The haters need to get a life of their own. My suggestion is to volunteer to help people who are in need.

[@pinkypilot]

We're living in a era where social media seems to dictate our mental health. We've become influencers and thus, also influenced. It's a double edge sword. What's happening in S. Korea isn't any different from any other country, just more pronounced and magnified. The obsessions on plastic surgery, wearing designer labels, making lots of money, having a title, being thin...etc. seems to be the main focus. It's such a sad picture.

[@lorriestrickland7448]

Just bravo to these wise words!

[@TAKIZAWAYAMASHITA]

Yes the social media craze coupled with the insane pecking order we have in Korea unlike the west, where as a celeb you can be forgiven or ignored for many things unless its insanely serious/criminal. But here? NOPE people will harraass and hate on you for the smallest things, turn everything and nothing into a controversy. Go back and try to dig up your past or the past of your family and friends in an attempt to cancel you, have crazy as stalkers aka saseangs constantly bothering you, some may even assault you ( this just happened to a member of the boyz) Then you add on mental health being a joke in Korea and not taken seriously ontop of the already anti social behavior thats "typical" in east asian countries so adding this isolation/lonliness no friends etc then the double whammy of being a celebrtity on top of it. You have less than 5% of this shit to deal with as a celeb in say the usa or another western country. So its no suprise that many of these Korean stars are dying 24/7 yet the same issue is nonexisent in the west. obviously we need some serious change as a society and culturally but unfortunately this shit will take generations to change in Korea and by that time it might be too damn late.

[@Orientalbackyardgarden]

Yes, I think it is very sad, double edge sword.

[@Nadeeyahh]

@@TAKIZAWAYAMASHITA first time I’m seeing a Korean admitting the mindset and behaviour of the people need to change. Cos any time I come across these issues, Koreans always give the excuse of “that’s just how it is” and “every country has its bad side” blah blah blah. And my reaction is, can’t you see how this is literally taking away your own citizens? aren’t there social groups and advocates that fight to stop these crazy social behaviours that leads to people unaliving themselves? Korea for sure has to rise up and citizens shouldn’t wait for government to do something. Social change actually starts from the grass roots, tackle the problem amongst yourselves and maybe change will happen even faster. How can your own people be unaliving themselves like chickens and you still havent risen up to fight this horror? Nah, Korea definitely has to also enact laws to handle these crazy antis and advocate for change fast, the survival of the country depends on how active it is to correct these harmful mindsets

[@vister6757]

Maybe it's best to use old fashion phone so you don't look at social media so much. I also felt that it's the entertainment companies that are giving them a lot of pressure too.

[@machupikachu8349]

100% agree about the haters and jealousy in the Korean community. My family in the US doesn’t keep in contact with some of our relatives in Korea bc they feel either monetarily superior or monetarily inferior. even amongst the Korean community in the US, there is a lot of hating and jealousy- it’s really sad to see.

[@Joseph_Drag0nki70]

Fr tho I’m like a 17 year old Korean American dude who is middle class and some Koreans here in States refuse to associate themselves with me simply because I’m not as interesting, popular, or as rich as they are.

[@erikaalvarez5121]

😮

[@bourjoism3917]

I’m pretty sure jealousy and hatred are everywhere it’s in our fundamental as human beings the problem is how to deal with that will make the difference,belief and principles are the key here .

[@dasheyuk8416]

i think it's the same with any country

[@traceryibo853]

@@dasheyuk8416not as bad as Korea

[@yvonnegerard7951]

Rest In Peace Song Jae Rim.

[@arizonagirl6474]

😢💔 rip beautiful

[@wHiPpEdFoRJeOnJuNgKoOk]

Korean society is very harsh and unforgiving

[@shawnleong3605]

To me, and no offence, South Korea is a country with a lot of cultural contradictions. They want to be westernized, but they are so glued and tied to their conservative cultural roots that they are actually suffocating them. They want to mimic the openness of western civilizations, but they are not willing to be open to their ideologies and values. I am not saying either one is right or wrong, but being so indecisive and wavering of their identity is a mental health killer. I don't live in Korea, but I have a Korean neighbor who avoided me like a plague, giving me a disgusted look when she was aware that I was dealing with mental health struggles. They are not willing to be truthful and accepting to and of themselves, and that destroys them.

[@hollypatterson8959]

Every time I read about another Korean celebrity committing suicide my heart breaks. Of course we really don’t know why Song Jae Rim decided to leave this world. However, I wonder if it is worthwhile to be a famous person these days. With social media, the celebrity can be stalked and bullied in such a cruel way. Rest in Peace, Song Jae Rim. I will always remember you as the bodyguard in Moon Embracing the Sun 😢

[@average_korean_man]

May rest him in peace...

[@uzurimaisha]

Me too.... it leaves me shattered 😢

[@dasheyuk8416]

i was thinking along the same lines. why would you want to become a celebrity?

[@MissMort1]

Yes, this made news here in UK, I didn't know about the stalker though, poor man 😢 The pressure on these celebrities must be horrendous, it's almost like they are the property of the fans. Thanks for your perspective on this AKM

[@heatherwilson9485]

I also live in the uk and I had not heard of this person until I watched Moon embracing the sun that is the only thing I have watched him in and acted his part well but what has happened is so sad I feel for his family may he rest in peace

[@SongRim23]

@@heatherwilson9485 Yes I have seen that. I’m also in UK.

[@Orientalbackyardgarden]

Very sad

[@carolinepaulino8649]

they are also hard on themselves....

[@rsainz1296]

Jealousy is like poison. Very sad. Feel sorry for him.

[@malilian8282]

I’m so angry that these stalkers never seem to be held accountable and probably just look for a new victim. Imagine how jealous and envious you’d have to be to hound a celebrity to this point. It’s beyond tragic and my heart breaks not only for him but his family and friends.

[@thechocolateglasses]

I heard about his, and it’s truly sad. There’s another saying, “Comparison is the death of joy.” I agree, live your lives and be the best you can be! Pursue your passions and do everything in love!

[@alfahchong2850]

When we observed the frequency of commit suicide cases of celebraties happens mainly in south korea compared to other countries. Something needs to be done.

[@samaritaDeath]

I think the pressure on actors and idols is beyond belief in Korea. Grown men and women can’t date otherwise it becomes a “scandal” which can affect their job and earnings. Even when they go out there are people watching them and taking photos so everything they eat/drink/ say/ becomes a “scandal” . People come out of the woodwork and accuse them of terrible things, and even if there’s no proof they can lose their jobs. Even when they try to do something good they haters accuse them of terrible things. Like when Jimin from BTS was accused of encouraging gambling because he lent money to someone.

[@verenamenzel8958]

when I recognized, that fans and whoever is commenting for WEEKS! about a kiss in a movie or series, I thought they may live on another planet, making a kissing scene to s.th. criminal. Whats wrong with Korea?

[@Juliesotimi]

Korean society is competitive, and the opportunities are limited. life is tough. i've heard many koreans saying living in korea is like hell.

[@kitschyoyo78]

You're right. I noticed that many Koreans (not all) are not happy when someone is happier or richer especially getting richer. It's sad. In Germany, there is a word, schadenfreude, the emotional experience of pleasure in response to another's misfortune.

[@colettemch3656]

Great perspective.. So sad to hear about his death. It's unfortunate that bullies and haters affect so many amazing people. 😢

[@Pingukruemel]

I agree. It's very sad. Hope celebrities get more protection and support in the future.

[@beatebender]

I am now interested in K-Pop for about 3 years, and so I get interested for SK as a whole. There were times when a celeb committed suicide every month, I was really shocked ! I read about it, that it is often because the high expectations from the SK society. Dating no way, the celeb belongs to his/her fans, smoking oh no, drinking, everyone but not the celeb! Being a bit lazy, oh no forbidden, just in the COVID time accepted! And now the reasons you mentioned, are we really talking about humans or robots?

[@Orientalbackyardgarden]

So sad

[@gwendolynrobertson7337]

Beautifully spoken young man. Thank you for explaining the reasoning why this happens so often in SK. This is so, so sad. 🇨🇦

[@bethregullano5293]

Toxic society at its best,,, if people just learned. How to respect,, humanity exist and hate is not a disease this world have ,, this kind of choices won't exist in the first place ,, it's just so sad , and my heart is aching for those who choose to end the unbearable pain they have 😢😢😢😢😢

[@Orientalbackyardgarden]

True

[@lissav8111]

I wish every person could be so level headed like you! It is so sad when the world loses wonderful people. I wish there was more help for them before these things happen

[@TheMaverickUSA]

This is incredibly sad! How many more do they have to lose? I don't understand fans in Korea who exhibit online harassment, aggression, and obsession. Their main goal is to take these artists down. Mental health is also taboo, making it difficult for these celebrities to seek help. I think the worst fan behavior is seen in the K-pop industry. It's unbelievably Toxic! When SHINee's Kim Jong Hyun took his life, I walked away from it. Talented, young, and precious souls are gone forever due to the actions of other human beings (if we can call them that).

[@verenamenzel8958]

I would advice korean stars to leave the country and look for an alternative employment in Europe or USA. Korean moviestars are very beloved in other countries, I saw positive comments from all over the globe.

[@christinebaukus8281]

Very interesting video. Korean seems to have a really big problem, and it’s permeating society in a very negative and dangerous way. These incidents are heartbreaking; suicides, hate messages, banners and buses, funeral wreaths, trying to ruin celebrities careers, it’s all an indication of a very immature and mentally disturbed element in society. It maybe fueled by social media, but nonetheless a red flag for the future well being of the young people of the Korea.

[@Mic_65]

So sad this is happening so often 😢

[@justlibby2142]

Thank you for this. I hate that idols are treated. The media should be held accountable for allowing bullying

[@culdesac8339]

Thanks for the insight. I've watched a few K dramas with my daughter but the one that stuck me the most was the first one - 'Doona' which I hinted at some of what you were saying. In fact, we were talking about this the high rates of suicide when I dropped her off at school this morning. I'm so sad for these people. I think extreme poverty may make some people more competitive. My dad's family were like this too and he emigrated to the UK from Mauritius in the late 60's and worked really hard for everything he achieved. He would hear his brothers talk bad about him and even rip him off. That must have made him sad as he was a very kind gentle soul and would help anyone out. Now I realise they were just jealous.This is a very low vibrational emotion and when that energy is thought of, it gets sent to you through the ether so you must always protect yourself from energy vampires. TY.

[@videoboysayscube]

Chasing wealth never leads to true happiness. I know because the richest people in the world continue to seek wealth. More money will never satisfy them, much in the same way another drink will never satisfy an alcoholic.

[@leefrankel4191]

Every time I hear about a suicide like this, my heart hurts. I think celebrity can come with a lot of loneliness which is very painful. It’s beyond sad that this young and successful actor felt he had to end his life.

[@joonbi3]

Thank you for addressing this difficult subject, AKG.

[@kushgarcha5324]

Why can’t celebrities just quit the industry instead of suicide. They are either being blackmailed or worried about tarnished reputation. Some netizen have no sympathy toward their celebrities. The ones that are gone have suffered before committing. Hope he finds peace.

[@Nadeeyahh]

Not quit, they should move out or find work abroad and spend less time in Korea. But I think the biggest issue they have with that is the lack of fluency in English and they’re insecure about that. Because if I was a celeb in Korea, I see nothing that will stop me from leaving that country. If I was an idol, I’d look for how a company abroad will sign me, same way if I was an actor too. Enrolling in classes to learn English is easy, plus one doesn’t have to be fluent in English before they move to the west for opportunities.

[@Alexis_419]

Thank you for speaking out about this! One of my newest favorite K-pop group has been severely impacted by haters. The group is RIIZE and because of haters, member Seunghan was placed on an indefinite hiatus for over 10 months. Then once SM announced he would return to active status, the haters lashed out with a vengeance even sending 100's of condolence funeral wreaths to SM demanding his permanent removal. Less than 48 hours later, SM announced that due to the backlash (and against the members and SM's decision that the group should continue with all 7 members), Seunghan would actually be leaving RIIZE and RIIZE would continue as 6 members now. It so sad since this young man didn't do anything criminal, nor anything which hurt or potentially hurt others. Right now, I thank every day that there is no announcement of his departure from this world. I hope that the OT7 boycott against SM becomes successful and he gets a chance to return to the group. Haters just can't be allowed to win, let alone have a big company like SM condone unwarranted hateful and irrational behavior by them and make business decisions based on it. I also know there is a disconnect between my family here in the US (from Korea) and our family in Korea, because of what each values. Materialism is a serious issue in both countries, but it's the level at which people compare and judge each other because of it that is the difference. Really, it's a problem in the Korean community, domestic and abroad, but domestic does seem quite worse.

[@ellinorkruse8406]

Very interesting information about the sayings that is so deeply rooted in Korean culture. Thanks.

[@alfonsowillock5801]

I did see it on u tube yesterday. I just couldn’t believe. I watched this young man in a few dramas. My condolences go out to his family. I know how his parents is feeling right now, because I want through this three years ago. I pray that God will give the family his peace in this time of grief. I know that these actors and actresses in entertainment industry goes through a lot. People pretend to be their fans and say how much they love them. But as soon as the actors make a mistake they bring them down. That is not love. Love have forgiveness. Because no human being is perfect we all sin. And what u said about people in Korea being jealous of others achieving and having more than them that is something that in alot of humans all over the world jealousy of talent material success it bad. That people behave did way. I would say to these actors please around urself with people genuinely love u. No what u have but u. God is really needed there life. He brings love peace and enjoy.

[@jyd9591]

I feel sorry for them, especially the younger ones who feel this is the only solution to their pain. As the saying goes, suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem. I don't know about Korea but here in the US we have a suicide hotline to call 24/7 to receive guidance and help. May this young actor find the peace this world could not give him.

[@lindae7013]

I’ve been wondering about this. So much mental illness and pressure to appear happy

[@CaroleMcDonnell]

😢 I still am in shock. Human life is so hard at times. Because of other humans usually.

[@justmytwocentsdontgetmad]

4:24 That's called "Crab Mentality". The culture and mindset is unfortunately the same here in the Philippines.

[@culdesac8339]

You probably mean 'Crap' Mentality because that's what it is...

[@ilonaodametey8620]

I think, everywhere you find such people. If you get to success, you loose a lot of friends or you find jealous persons around you who try to control or harm you. 😢

[@zzar2park232]

Thank you for sharing more of the background why there are many haters. Not only for the celebrities but to anyone successful. The root is jealousy and it’s really vile.

[@anitar3136]

Just subscribed to your channel and I am excited to follow this channel. Thank you for your honesty! Finally a channel created by a Korean man living in Korea that appears to be quite informative. I wish you the very best👍

[@erinlee5936]

On the heels of this, there are some news reports that are coming out that female stalker fans are harassing male Korean celebrities (actors, singers, ETC). Why is that? I think there should be a discussion on this as well. What is happening to Korean women that they do this? Something needs to change here.

[@SpiritedDancer17]

I’m a very big fan of Song Jaerim and am in the middle of rewatching “I wanna hear your song” when I heard the new, and I thought it had to be fake news. It doesn’t seem real. It is very sad. He’s always so alluring in every role he portrays. His smile was so bright and genuine. He brought a lot of light to not just his family, friends and coworkers, but also a lot to us fans. He will be deeply missed by many. May he rest in peace 😔 🙏🏻 🕊️ 🤍

[@Cletus_the_Elder]

Despair, utter hopeless, can be so overwhelming that it can swallow a person whole, as it did with this young man who passed. I cannot judge people who feel this way, but I wish I could tell everyone who is contemplating such a final act that there is always hope, sometimes hidden, sometimes only a slim sliver of hope, but enough to carry you through the darkness.

[@maureenb6485]

Its horrible ! This was wonderful. Thank you. You missed alters pick their favorites. No one is any better that who they picked. So they hate on, lie about and spread rumors and others accept them as truth with nothing other than some unknown persons lie. They can destroy a persons career, destroy them income options, disrupt their complete life and at some point it’s over. That’s enough to drive a few people straight to the edge I can’t stand hearing that another Korean actor or singer (including those from other countries that are here working ) has taken their life. There are no laws to stop it and no plans to fix it and I have yet to hear it spoken at a higher level. If it was, I missed it.

[@d2791]

Thank you for sharing your point of view. I enjoy listening to you 😊

[@runtsgal]

It’s tragic. It’s time for the entertainment companies to start talking better care of their actors and singers. The celebrities make their money but there doesn’t seem to be any help when they struggle emotionally. Is there a stigma about seeking therapy, like the agencies fear scandal etc?

[@hungchoonghow5857]

Very insightful. Thank you.

[@morningglory8720]

It's the same outpouring every time this tragedy happens !! we need to protect them , we need to do more etc !! But nothing is ever done about it !! It will always stay the same !! Celebrities living under the thumb of a judgemental and toxic society dictating how they look , their love lives, and their private lives !!

[@FueledSelf-Discovery]

In loving memory of Song Jae Rim, may he rest in peace.

[@irenevalencia448]

Once you compare your life to others, you can't be happy or content. Celebrities should also think that they should not only live for the people around them, like their fans but also prioritize themselves. There is no point in striving for success and fame if you let people around you control how you live your life. Mental and physical health are vital when working in a competitive and complex world.

[@lisarodriguez8887]

He was a good actor and it was so sad to hear of his passing. I agree the haters need to stop and just focus on their own life.

[@curtpadgett40]

RIP to that young man....Shame that a Stalker would make someone kill them self......Thanks for the Information...😊😊

[@LissetteLissie]

Those jealous and envious people need to find God and believe in Jesus as their Lord and Savior. Never covet what others have, love your neighbors as yourself, treat others as you want to be treated. Pray and be kind to everyone. Pray for your enemies and those that try to hurt you. I'm not perfect. Life is difficult. But life is also precious and can be beautiful if you look for the beauty. Many people believe in reincarnation and think they have four lives to live. No, you have ONE LIFE, ONE CHANCE, ONE OPPORTUNITY to live correctly. Although we cannot be perfect, we can be kind. I'm so sad he's Song Jae Lim is gone. He was so beautiful and deserved to be alive and happy. I hope South Korean learns to stop hatefull comments and protect their people. I hope they get a suicide phone number for people to call. Song probably needed a hug or a kind word to save him. I'm sad I wasn't able to help him but in his honor I will try to be even kinder and watchful of other's pain in case I can be of help. If anyone reading this is having a difficult time, please 🙏 make it to tomorrow. Always, make it to tomorrow. Reach out to as many people as you have to without shame. Ask for help. Tell people how you feel and what thoughts you are having. Remember that thoughts can be good or bad. Feelings and thoughts are not the same. Try to separate your feelings from your thoughts and try to make a rational decision and understand that even if you think no one cares--we do. You matter and you are needed in this world. The pain you feel may ve the same pain another is feeling. You can use your pain and your experiences to help others and kindness heals. In your most difficult time, show kindness and don't give up. Don't leave. We need you here. Otherwise, the world will be too dark. Be the light in this world.

[@mihaela9820]

Hi,I just start to follow your chanel,cause I love,I adore your country,I wish so much to come there 🙏It's so sad to hear how Korean celebrities commit suicide in every year You have a ill society and this seems that never stop,on contrary...it's so inimaginabile how it's possible to happen something like that.Sad,sad,sad😢😢😢

[@phoenixrisingflying106]

Unfortunately I have seen this happen several times in the kpop industry. You never really know what a person may be going thru behind a beautiful smile in any walk of life. Thank you for speaking on such a serious subject and giving the average korean man perspective. *I don't think you're average* I think SK has the highest suicide rate in the world and the lowest birth rate in the world (please correct if wrong). Many prayers for those that are hurting. 🙏

[@average_korean_man]

Lowest birth rate is correct but not the highest suicide rate. But it's one of the highest countries.

[@calistaashdown2535]

May Song Jae Rim rest in peace 🙏 That is so sad😢😢 He was a nice guy and great actor! I cannot imagine what his friends and family are going through! ❤❤

[@grimmmunro2279]

Terribly sad,😢 he was a really good actor and so young.his poor family and friends.

[@cjandrews6967]

The people who are jealous could take all that energy and make their lives better

[@MayaTheDecemberGirl]

May his soul rest in peace. It's so sad that such things happen. I've read that such suicides often do happen because of people being harrassed by haters (and that also in this case it could have been like this). I think that how actors, singers or other celebrities are treated in the SK much differs from how it is in many other countries. Even if everywhere there are some gossip portals or magazines, which some do read just for fun, no one is obsessed with private lives of these people so much to pay much attention to it, not so much to hunt someone down with hate, to dictate them how they should live. We separate someone as an actor or singer from their private lives. And everyone has the right to do with their lives what they want - unless they commit crimes or other really harmful acts, for which they are sentenced and punished legally, not just by haters. It's hard to imagine that for instance a bunch of some Internet trolls or haters may destroy someone's life just like that, and that it's not so rare, and that no one really tries to do sth about it. It wouldn't be possible however if the rest of the society would oppose to such hate and truly condemn it. We don't really have such things as celebrities being dictated so much how they should live their private life or for instance having to announce publicly that they intend to officially meet or live with someone, we don't have something like "going public with a relationship" (that I've read that celebrities in SK do), we don't idolize celebrities like it probably is in SK. And for sure everyone deserves to have appropriate, effectively enforced, protection against harrassment in Internet, protection of privacy, of private data, of reputation and good name and against defamation.

[@tabithamorse1679]

It is so sad this happened. I truly enjoyed his dramas. He was very talented. I hate when these things happen to these wonderful people. It happens too often & I hate that people can be so mean & judgmental. They deal with so many harsh situations & horrible people in the industry. They need to be protected & not abused like this!! Shame on those who do this!

[@_filifjonkan4290]

I’ve also been wondering about that and I came to the same conclusion as you: jealousy is a factor. I’m shocked by the enthusiasm with which Koreans attack successful other Koreans when they get a chance, some seem more keen on hating than on celebrating their success.

[@saikeomany5686]

Its too bad some feel that they cannot blocked out or just live your life and enjoy everyday when you wake up everyy morning. Its the culture that make it that way too hard not to care.

[@waynesworld5855]

It sounds like there is a lot of JEALOUSY in your country. I wrote it in capital letters because it is a very big problem in the world, but many people don't realized they are jealous of others. They justify their hatred toward another person or group of people by blaming them for one thing or another and villainizing them. A word of advice, you always have to be on your guard against JEALOUSY because it is an easy trap to fall into and a very deceptive one!!!

[@jennymcgraw855]

In one of your recent videos you displayed what was most important to countries around the world...South Korea values material good- money. No wonder people in South Korea hate others who are successful and famous. They are lacking love in their hearts, not loving one another. As a Christian, I celebrate someone elses accomplishments and successes! I want the best for my friends and family! Love destroys hatred!

[@theTopCat-1]

cool. you don't have to be a christian to have good qualities and be a decent human. sad that you have to push your personal agenda everywhere under the guise of love.............

[@SongRim23]

@@theTopCat-1. Agreed. Plus Christianity not really a thing in Korea which is a largely Athiest society

[@btd389]

@@SongRim23 26% of Koreans are Christian/Catholic

[@jenniferjeon3153]

Korea counts as a Christian nation. Whoever is not, is some type of Buddhist, which is even better. The world's been witnessing what Christians have been and still are doing, and it has NOTHING to do with Jesus. 😧😧

[@SongRim23]

@@btd389 Actually I read 20% but how accurate can these stats be. ? In any case preaching that Christians hold the moral high ground in this sad post seems somehow inappropriate

[@sanrio8058]

Thank you for speaking on this

[@riccooper5689]

This is such a sad situation.

[@garyliu6825]

"Friends and Family wish you well, just not better than them" - a very common reflection of asian societies. I have a feeling this is caused from inequality?

[@jongmul1965]

Good afternoonnn!! Yeah! It´s very sad! But actually Reaching this point often stems from numerous social pressures, especially for Korean idols. Constant pressures-financial demands, the strict control of managers dictating what they can and cannot do-alienate idols from reality and their surroundings. These relentless expectations distance them from genuine relationships, leading to depression. For Korean society, suicide has thus become a more critical issue than any other illness. 사회로부터 소외된 관계의 단절이 결국 죽음으로 내몬 것 같기도 하고, 사회적 관계보다 자신의 우울증이 빚은 심리·문화적 공황 상태가 원인이기도 하기 때문이다. 그만큼 자살은 그 어떤 질병보다도 심각한 한국사회의 문제가 된 것이다.

[@marianaize773]

So sad,thank you for this video so importan

[@dvdv475]

I have so much respect for 이승기 . He must have had a really hard time when everyone seemed to have an opinion about his in-laws and on top of that he was being gaslighted and abused for most of his career by people he trusted. You have to be very strong to go for the love of your life and keep going in life. Could have gone differently with him.

[@tonyamclellan]

Rest in peace,Song Jae Rim

[@sen-hs7lo]

It's more likely that this poor actor was a victim of sexual assault and abuse. This equals chronic mental torturing. On the outside everything looks fine, but mentally it's a vulcano. The entertainment industry is an unhealthy toxic environment full of predators of all kinds. For instance Harvey Weinstein in the US who's now in prison. Johnny Kitagawa in Japan, who was a founder of talent agency for boy bands who 'allegedly' assaulted and abused several hundred teenagers for decades. It wouldn't surprise me if the Korean authorities will do everything in their power to silence the unfortunate suicide. Don't stick with rumors. Who started it? A crazy fan is just a scapegoat. The entertainment industry is worth billions. A sex scandal would ruin many things. Take care. (sen/15-11-2024/Belgium/Europe).

[@chcc3934]

has anyone in S.Korea felt that kind of jealousy themselves? I mean in a more normal citizen level from other individuals.

[@bourjoism3917]

When there life there is always hope..

[@Plutomoon79]

you look a bit like Ji Sung, my favourite Korean actor.... :)

[@yvon6307]

So sad..Song Jae Rim was such a good actor. RIP.

[@Nadeeyahh]

And for the actors and idols, it’s the whole system in the industry that makes them become victims. The Korean entertianment industry is so controlling that they give fans the power to dictate to the stars how to act inorder to fulfil the fantasies of the fans. It’s like the stars are forced to cape for the fans continuous love and support so they have to act how the fans want or else….. Give these celebs autonomy and change the system. Let them date and live normal lives and take away the power to dictate from the fans. If they can’t support an idol or actor until they feel like they have to project their fantasies onto them then they should stop being fans. Artists&Actors will never lack supporters for their work and the fans don’t have to have control over them for them to succeed.

[@Bondiblu2]

Sad to hear about this guy's passing.

[@joycegoh8628]

Stems from a very competitive environment, where people are just aiming to win over others. This is in all developed cities I guess.

[@ailecdreifuss8627]

It is sad the frequency of these acts. The citizens and the government should do something to prevent this and yes celebrities and money bring a lot of opportunities but also a lot of opportunistic people.

[@pinkneon1125]

You said there are some people who don't want to see other people become successful? Well, that's what we call "crab mentality" in the Philippines. We have a bunch of people like that here, too. They will do anything to pull you down so they can go up. Just like crabs right?

[@average_korean_man]

Wow, that's a very interesting phrase you have in the Philippines

[@michelleforte8669]

RIP Song Jae-Rim😪🙏🏽💔🌹

[@pattyheaston4235]

I think the REAL reason isn't people borrowing money or being envious. Even with the "famous phrases", that's not a valid reason for a person to take their own lives. None of these celebrities took their own lives out of jealousy. The problem is the excessive bullying of Korean "fans", the boundary violations and sense of entitlement they have to the celebrities lives both publicly and privately. Parasocial relationships that are forced by the entertainment agencies lead the general public to misinterpreting their place in the celebrities lives. It's not even haters, "fans" of celebrities expect them to live lives beyond reproach based on the "fans" expectations rather than letting them be human beings with human flaws

[@tradebucket3562]

The culture of hate, insecurity, jealousy and materialism has to stop in South Korea. The government should regulate and hold accountable those who bully the celebrities to the point that they will self exit. Its so toxic. Rest in peace Song Jae-rim

[@carolinepaulino8649]

Thank You For explaining and revealing why the Korean society is in so much pressure. So much pressure that even having children has become a problem. I think when one's life becomes too much about the self always comparing one's self to others. Always needing to be more than others. Too materialistic and too worldly even your own success is not enough. The pressure to keep and elevate one self becomes unending. Criticisms from people becomes unbearable. Money and Fame does not bring joy in life. One becomes isolated and lonely. These celebrities are too alone despite being surrounded by people. They are not able to trust people. This also happens in Japan. Very sad Lord have mercy on us.

[@moboo7549]

Do Koreans care about mental illnesses or do they still feel ashamed of needing a psychiatrist?i think few of them go and ask for help.

[@ЛолаМурдашева]

Really important topic

[@shahinabegum8632]

"Do not look for the others' faults and do not spy, and do not be jealous of one another."❤Alhamdulillah

[@tingwang336]

Excuse me, why do you say that excessive harassment by Japanese fans is a rumor? That is a fact in instagrame. I saw it with my own eyesI saw it with my own eyes.Hate people now appears not only in Korea but also in other countries.Have a plenty of words, have a plenty of behavior. I agree with what you said. Live your life well.Every country has A very bad person badpeople hope very human can respect others I am expressed his deep condolences.to handsome talented talented talented actor

[@gwenjoyce7405]

I watch a lot of k dramas in the Uk I saw him on shows it is so sad that he died

[@karenbee4014]

I loved Song Jae Rim! He was so talented and seemed like a wonderful person. May he RIP.

[@travelw.b12oo3]

Haters in Korea is mixed with jealousy !!!

[@lorrainegmoore5042]

It's so sad , its as if the fans become so fixed on these movie , music stars they they believe that they can tell the actor what they can or can't do . The fans become overwhelming and make the actors lives a living hell😢. It seems to be an Asian / Korean/ Chinese problem, where they want to be westernised but the strict rules from their own culture overpowers everything .

[@chaweewanfamwan3366]

So sad beyound words😢😢😢😢😢😢😢

[@brandiverstraete1684]

I feel like there is too much pressure put on kpop and kdrama. They get to the point where they dont have any privacy, any life outside of work, any off days. They seem to go from enjoyment of their work to dreading work. Once you take someones passion and make it miserable its no longer going to be their best work. Then you add stalkers, bullies, social media, society and family pressure, jealousy. I wouldnt want that for anyone. It truely is hearbreaking. Bless his soul❤ qnd all the other young souls that have been lost.😢

[@Linaelinaeya]

This shouldn’t be a topic of discussion. The answer is obvious.

[@niawohl3377]

In the US we call it “crab bucket mentality”

[@dannylo5875]

Society is quite trash or toxic. Would these people even choose to go this route in life if they could!?

[@Orientalbackyardgarden]

Very sad, very sad...it should not be like this. Very wrong, there should be livht and laughter. How come there are so many haters? Why is this so imbedded in the culture? Because Korea looks so nice. And there are many very nice and intelligent Korean people. Very sad.

[@average_korean_man]

Well...every country has pros and cons. We have good things but also many bad things 😕

[@Orientalbackyardgarden]

@average_korean_man 🥲

[@ArturoGarzaID]

Burning is a pretty cool movie.