Why Starting In The Friend Zone Is A Good Thing

[@averagecitizen863]

I started in the friendzone and now i'm in the brotherzone lmao

[@Kraftravioli]

His last video said to bever be in the friendzone. Hes just pumping out content

[@jms977]

Oof

[@RaviSingh-be3mx]

so what..im in the CREEPZONE!

[@averagecitizen863]

@MR Malek we barely see each other anymore so yeah i'm kinda there

[@solodolo_mma3971]

That’s brutal bro ! I rather be dead 😂

[@Malky24]

There's 2 things you need to get out of the Friendzone: 1) Actually be her friend. Treat her like one and don't place so much value on her like you would a crush. 2) Increase your own value. If you're interesting enough and have a bit of charisma you'll find your female friends start seeing you in a different way. A lot of my girlfriends have been girls who friendzoned me initially.

[@Ghostrida660]

"a lot of my girlfriends" haha you have multiple girls ;) LOL. Jk ik what you mean

[@stephencantnmbrs]

This is so fucking key.

[@boblester8641]

Don’t be at her beck and call

[@curiousrex5183]

You are getting "a lot of girlfriends"? Noice

[@pierrebriquet]

As non-monogamist, many of my relationships started with a cool friendship. Get out of the friendzone just needs context. Girls who doesn't like to get out of the friendzone are missing out, because relationships are better if they are built over authentic friendships. Therefore, I also had problems with a girl that was interested at first, but things got in the way, and she proposed we should be friends. Consulting, some of a friends that are good at this, they said "just invest in other girls meanwhile. wait for context to build sexual tension.. if she sees how women like you, she will think that she is missing something and can rethink her position". A therapist once said to a friend of mine after she was suffering from a breakup: "why don't you try your friend?" and she is with him until today.. she decided rationally that they could built that sexual tension as soon as she started to really flirt with him. Friendzone is toxic when: a guy invest too much in a hope that he will be rewarded. She is not obligated to reward your good actions with sex. And she can abuse this relationship keeping your hopes alive. Just kill hope, put her also in the friendzone, and use mutual friends to tell her about how good lover you are too. That's a smart route, but not the only route.

[@waterboyownall]

I think its a wonderful thing to start in the friend zone also... Main points why: 1.Well If your interested in the person for more than sexual relations it shows you want to know them 2. It shows your looking to learn about them before you get into a relationship with them 3. You learn the interests, qualities about the person before you make a mistake that might be bad 4. The person might have never really liked you other than your physical attributes [ Great for girls not wanting to be heart broken.. or guys too..]

[@wiseman4160]

Being just friends with women, I learned how crazy women are in choices of men. So being just friends with them gave me a negative view of women. On a positive note, if your a high value Male the tip in this video will work. If you feel like your invisible to women the tips in this video won't work, because women want men, that other women want.

[@paulbarnes9490]

Well I'm totally screwed then because no women ever wanted me like not even as a very young man. So here I am now a virgin at 44 years old and women have a damn cheek to shame me for being a virgin. It wasn't my fault as some men will always be invisible to the opposite sex.

[@aerohk]

Don't be her friend if you like her. Or be ready to be heart broken when she starts seeing someone else.

[@Goldblasterblaze]

no

[@Number48beats]

True

[@foreveryoung5277]

I've been in that friendzone but now she is my lover

[@isaacixtupe8983]

You lucky son of a gun...🤘🏽

[@KB1983.]

how??

[@foreveryoung5277]

I used the law of attraction

[@KB1983.]

@@foreveryoung5277 which one in particular in buddy

[@foreveryoung5277]

@@KB1983. everyday i am looking at her picture saying that you'll be mine girl visualizing that she will confess her feelings for me. But ofcourse i used the no contact rule as well so that she will miss my presence. On that moment i detach from her i care my self improve it know my worth. Then just one day she's the one who initiate a conversation with me, she confessed her feelings she said that she misses me so much.

[@dolumdoli7621]

Few months back ..somehow I ended in the friendzone ... numerous girls had crush on me and would here and there talk to me and try to start conversation with me and I would ofc avoid(Not reject) in a nice indirect way.... Oneday i tried getting out of friendzone by just confessing directly and as you have guessed... went horribly wrong... for days I was confused, sad and depressed ... I tried couple of more times but to no avail..... That is when I said Enough .... I completely stopped my things with her and treated her like just a friend not even a good friend just a friend.... I started to talking to literally all the girls that I used to dodge.... she realised all these girls who like, always flirting with me and writing their numbers for me.... I would purposely make sure she knows about all these girls and how crazy they are to me.... I tell you boys ... the impossible has happened ... at first she started acting all depressed and angry at me for no reason... the old simp me would have ran to her and asked her what to do for her.... I gave zero shit and didn't care... I didn't even try to talk to her even ..... then after she realised that I truly moved on( which in reality I did) she came back slowly... she started speaking to me slowly slowly.... after she started showing hints and then she dropped hints.... I immediately rejected clearly.... and made sure for her to see all the girls I have now ..... Revenge is sweet and I still do it ... she is just depressed now and Idc Moral of the story- Make Girls jealous My experience- Girls for some reason will eventually like the guy most girls like

[@westsideisdabest7825]

Some girls offer the friendship route if you've tried way too hard with them as an almost knee jerk response, because they clearly like you in some capacity, yet feel awkward due to the pressure you're putting on the situation and so see friendship as a means of reducing said pressure. If you back away as soon as possible, take your attention away from them, focus on yourself, stop blowing up their phone with messages and constantly begging to see them; they will appreciate it, and if they reach out you can reset the playing field in a way that is not as intense as it was before.. As this guy says, the "back door" route will never work, however some girls put guys in the "friend zone" because they showed their hand too early or became waaaay to intense.

[@coreymiller7317]

Happened to me recently, wasn't friendzoned because she didn't like me, she definitely does, but I'd been in a long ass relationship before this and got too excited to crush on someone new and I needed to back off for a while and reset, come at it a little less intense. This is for sure a real thing, glad you pointed it out.

[@bobgunner3086]

Thank-you! That sounds like my situation. I have been in the friendzone with my crush for years. We have been in and out of each other's life on and off for years. I have tried being "just friends" with her and she does not seem to want that either. Every now and then she wants a little huggy huggy kissy kissy. It drives me nuts. It does not take much for me to get really revved up for her and that's when she pulls away. I swear I don't know how to pull this off.

[@michaelmaruszewski5323]

This just freakin happened to me!! Went out on an amazing date lots of chemistry!! I told her to text me when she gets home safe...no response and I think I overwhelmed her with trying to set up another date a few days after. Claimed she’s been busy with work and applying to other jobs.

[@Monster33336]

Been friendzoned then it got to a point she said she'd leave her man for me. Turned it down of course, but it worked several times.

[@Zsuluap]

I think this just happened to me. Ex that i havent seen in two years got in contact. started flirting trough phone(long distance) Met up hooked up and had a nice three months of pure love. Then one argument and being needy and pushy got me in friend zone. At first after breakup i did not contact her at all cause she did not want to talk. After three weeks she called me but i was still being needy and apologetig. _> ruined attraction. In the months after we stayed in touch and had a few long fun calls. send lots of memes and even made some plans. By the time she came over i was so in my needy form that i just started crying a few days before. I did not listen to what she really said because of all different advises. We had a great weekend in amsterdam and had a lot of fun. But in between moments i was needy and sad. So i can recognize why and when she friend zoned me. Just want to know what it happens in this case. But i guess you will never know untill you know

[@peterhoatson]

That's an excellent point. We chose the friend path so we don't get rejected

[@cantorcarmen]

All the serious relationships I have been in I have been good friends with first. It DEPENDS how you do it. If you are kissing up to her, trying to impress her then you are a wuss. But if you do not try to impress her and you don't give a s*** what she thinks then it is great to be friends. You want to marry someone who you are friends with.

[@JonathonAslay]

The best romantic relationships are the ones when both people are good friends (along with romance). YES! friendship is key.

[@j.t.r1976]

You sound like a girl .

[@JonathonAslay]

@@j.t.r1976 or a highly evolved man.

[@j.t.r1976]

@@JonathonAslay lol,you say so.

[@marcosjuan3142]

you have watched too many hollywood movies

[@j.t.r1976]

@@marcosjuan3142 I'm not hateing on homeboy, just saying.that his idea is risky @ best.

[@raymeester7883]

Sees title: *What is this heresy!?*

[@linussaurian4000]

I told his chick yesterday that I hate friend zone and if I think she has me in there then I will bounce.

[@Doors067]

Thats dumb bringing up friend zone as a real thing is bad strategy around woman

[@supratrd900]

I know a guy that suffers from friend zone syndrome. He always get friend zone by decent looking chicks/ Never makes any move on them and wonder why he never gotten any them. He has taken some of them out and did favors for them. Never gotten sex from them too. Yet continues to chase them. He's hoping one of his friendship with the girls will turn into a relationship but funny thing is she has a boyfriend. Point blank if a woman was attractive and interested in you, it would've happen already. Makes me sick that brosky can't see this and move on and go for other chicks.

[@stantonpietersen9890]

That is bad ..you have to make a move 😂😂😂

[@sladetechnics3545]

Nah, nah, if a chick really likes you she will never make you do anything to waste your time, or piss you off like running errands for her or doing favors for her. She is going to immediately put you in the bedroom zone then the next stop is the boyfriend/man zone the possibly later on, if all goes well, the husband zone. All this other stuff is childish nonsense.

[@paulbarnes9490]

No the friend zone absolutely sucks.Why would it be good as you wouldn't get any sex from any women.Women only saw me as a friend so I gave up talking to them or approaching them as my situation was just hopeless.

[@rogersevers123]

Just ignore them seriously, once you catch feelings for one of them and she doesn't reciprocate, it's gonna emotionally destroy you. Actively avoid talking to them.

[@Monster33336]

Don't focus on getting sex, the more you're around women it kinda gives you status and women like guys who are like that.

[@ianbetts4435]

It does work, it's fantastic to be friends first as long as the girl knows from the start you fancy her to start with.

[@robertperry9926]

Only do that if you enjoy being raked over the emotional coals. Don't waste your time being friends first, why would you waste your time with a woman who sits on the fence when you can have ones who are jumping fences to spend time with you. Also the friend zone is a myth, it doesn't exist. It's just a pool of guys that she isn't interested in sexually or romantically. If you ever get the "Let's just be friends" speech then tell her what your intentions are and what you want. Tell her your not interested in being just friends and if she changes her mind to get in touch. Walk away and never look back, spend your time with women who truly dig you! The quality of your relationship is in direct proportion to the person you are dating and their attraction level towards you.

[@adimalaviya]

I see you are a student of coach Corey Wayne

[@milochamp1586]

What happens to most guys is they've been friend-zoned by her because either he showed too much interest or showed no interest at all though the guy liked her. How to flip the script by doing this - 1. if you show her too much interest, put her in the friend-zone by taking away your romantic interest. 2. If you show her no interest - start slowly showing interest - be subtle.

[@AnAstronautsLoveLet]

Being friends with a girl of fine if it’s clearly communicated that both are interested and are building a friendship to know each other and use it as a fallback in case the interest dies off. Other than that, I don’t have time or interest in just having new female friends, I have a lot going on with life and a few bros who are life long friends to keep up with. For me, purely being friends with girls after college never works and is pointless.

[@wra1th133]

Strated from the friendzone now I am in creepzone

[@joelcoley2606]

They call it friends, but would they help you fix your car at midnight on a Friday?

[@asnmdnss]

girl mechanics are very rare lol. I'd say if she's willing to pick you up at the airport or something like that lol

[@sawyerr9841]

I can tell why you made it to this video

[@leviasherpillay6800]

She put you in the machanic Zone

[@hootans.4293]

Time is the only valuable thing that you'll never get back, not worth your time playing games, pray and hope she may some day down the road changes her mind. If you are desperate, don't have the balls to say no, low self-esteem and not confident enough than you stay friends with her, but you always have to be ready and accept to get hurt all the time, the sooner you say no the sooner you move on and start dating someone who is interested in you.

[@TheTengior]

Don't wast time in friend zone!

[@Goldblasterblaze]

I will

[@wheelerking8380]

I texted this girl 2 days ago "I'll NEVER let you put me in the FriendZone!!!!" She hasn't responded.....is this a good sign you think?

[@omidnoori7800]

What you said is ok, but how you said it is NOT, you know why?! Cuz you was'nt in a position to LET her to do something! You could say it in more flirty way!!

[@mohlol2456]

It's not a good sign at all lol.The text you send feels kinda cringe. You are supposed to Say that, you're supposed to do or, that's different. And you probably won't have a respond since girls usually doesn't like to seem as someone being rude. You don't have many answers to give to this anyways, except something "No i won't let you there" with a smiley in order to sound a bit flirty. But i doubt it will the case. Btw you are supposed to mean what you Say, if you told her that you don't want to be friendzoned and she doesn't Reply, you should just move on because that what she expected

[@Malky24]

No. No it is not a good sign. It is a bad sign. Move on.

[@wheelerking8380]

Malky24 damn....u guys right....I screwed up BIG TIME with my Macho play....what a loser I am....IDIOT....I shoulda asked y’all 1st

[@Malky24]

@@wheelerking8380 we've all done stupid shit. You live and learn.

[@Juandinggong]

This girl called me friend and I quit talking to her.

[@josianocasio2459]

I am in my friends zone with me female friend for 9 years I hope one day we become friends of interest

[@Carybackup2]

When Jesus returns soy boy 😅😂

[@bobross1829]

I don't like this advice because it only really applies to guys that are cool and have options that are not all in on a girl and really want them, but are playing the field with options. If you are not the jealous type, have options and are not crushing on the girl, yeah, just being "friends" for a while, especially if you are dating others, can be a way to almost be like a hot woman with your own orbiters, give you girls to hang out with at bars and clubs, and gets you that all important "you are seen with good looking women so they want you" thing. But reading the comment, many guys are clearly crushing and have one-itis and were clearly rejected. Telling guys to keep being friends gives them false hope. If you have been crushing on a girl "friend" for years, it is not happening.

[@ParlonsHabsTalks]

' i am the mayor of the friend zone ' Quote from Friends

[@Dino-Savage]

I got friend zoned by a girl a few years back and it led to me dating one of her friends who was just as cool and pretty.

[@acdragonrider]

I am talking with a girl in grad school (haven’t known her that long in person. Only met once. But we’ve talked via WhatsApp up till now). She openly texts me first, wants to hang out with me and I’ve teasingly rp flirted once where she said “you love me 😆 ,” and I replied “when’s the wedding?” She joked back. But she also has called me “her best friend.” Thoughts? School’s starting soon and we’ll be in close proximity on a weekly basis. I feel I can be direct and ask her out but I hate hearing “friend”

[@In_brightest_day]

When she says 'friend', that's all you are to her.

[@fangrider007]

WORLD:- work from home...... TRIPP:- I've been doing this for so long you know............ ;)

[@TrippAdvice]

haha.

[@kudzie3215]

what if this girl who is your friend does not want you to date anyone lol

[@blackcaramel8175]

Starting in the friend zone isn’t a good thing. It’s like working a job clocking in do you job clock out. Without getting paid when a female doesn’t like you or she dumps you . You move on with your life she tries to give you the let’s be friends speech . You say this , say no I’m not interested in being friends I have enough friends. Tell her how you feel about her but I don’t want to be friends that doesn’t work for me . Give me a call when you change your mind that’s if I’m still single if I’m single maybe we can talk then.

[@vukvukovic5411]

Well...aren't there so many examples of people being friends first,developing relationship and marriage from this fundament?

[@sp610]

Highway to the danger zone...

[@TheMadVentriloquist]

The motto of the friendzone is simple: "Simping Macht Frei".

[@kreyaturr7960]

That title sounds like, why being a simp is good

[@cellii2907]

We hv been staying like friends for four years now. He dated so many girls and so did I. We just see each other once a year but we've always been in contact. Last Sunday, we caught up after not seeing each other for more than a year. And now, for no reason, I want him as my lover .. I dun know why. I hv been thinking about him all the time after I came back. This is so bad huh

[@Ja.abbatta_V]

Can she put you in the friend zone if you don't like her like that and don't care because you don't want that kind of relationship with her?

[@Malik_Hoff]

Dudes be scared to be an attractive girls friend. Me included. This open my eyes

[@ibrahimkamara599]

She told me, she relationship with a friendship first that her requirement.

[@maxhobangcolomba6552]

You believe her?

[@jtmtheghost5287]

What if your in the friendzone but she still cuddles with you and sleeps in your bed with you when she’s at your place?

[@adeking1214]

When yr friend with a girl u have access to her friends..... That sounded wrong asf 😂

[@Its_just_zell]

I got it lol and that's true. Friends, sisters, cousins. Its benefits to it

[@ciphergalm1174]

especially if she's bi

[@dannychang9662]

Everyone has different tastes. This video is assuming all women are the same. I don't know about anyone else, but I'd rather get to know someone before having sex. Makes it 10x better. How many people do you know where they might have a one night stand with someone only to realize they hate their personality after?

[@Ayhaninho892]

I cut that off right away. I haven‘t got my brain transplanted 😂 Why would I just watch her from afar ? I‘m good enough!

[@jonlegacie]

Hey Tripp, thanks for the invaluable information on this channel! I need a favour. Where can I find this hoodie???? It’s absolutely amazing

[@StarOn427]

Thanks🙏🙇 boss for this video

[@TrippAdvice]

You're welcome.

[@David-ln5zu]

In the current self isolation scene....surely the friendzone is the only option!

[@ristegorgiev3277]

I am in a situation like this which means i meet a girl on Facebook i find out that she have relatives i spent 2 and a half years on her chatting and hoping for better each day was miserable with this i want to say i was too good for her i was always there for her whenever she needed attention from me i message first i am always here for her but what i did with all of this nothing even that she said or kinda lied me only faking about that she loving me and want me as her boyfriend also i noticed she came to my country on vacation she have relatives cousins etc but the bad thing is she not though about myself as something like who are you to think about you i have more important things and i realize that this will going to end soon or later and guess what she called me and offered to be Just Friends and insisted on this

[@dannyortiz9070]

The only way I learned to be friends with a cute female, is if she currently has a boyfriend and as long as they both agree having opposite sex friends, if they're not married.

[@Thornus_______]

Friend zone sucks

[@johannreva]

Nice 👍

[@talkingpictures9107]

all your videos HATE the friend zone. Which is it?

[@juniorodunuga5123]

client show yourself.

[@dr.kenzotenma780]

how to approach close-minded gril

[@monchichisekiguchi6477]

i dont get invited into their social circle? any suggestions then. most just say lets be friends and after a while they stop responding to your text and i delete them

[@tychostation2423]

Friend zone is like shooting fish in a barrel.

[@Jeanninecomeau]

I like you. You aren't offensive. Haha!

[@donchinovelazquez7706]

What if all of the friendzone woman's homegirls are all uglier than her? How will I be winning by staying in the friendzone by a 10 while trying to hit on her homegirls that are 4s and 5s?

[@michaeljeacock]

social proof. it doesn't matter if it is a friend. you hanging out with women makes you more acceptable to other women. i have some lesbian friends i hang out with who are great for social proof lol.

[@Fuski01]

Is good for long term relationship and can be playful at times if you play the correct role

[@TrippAdvice]

What do you mean?

[@Dharmabrot]

phantastic albums

[@drewmantia]

saw the title like WTF?!

[@TrippAdvice]

Haha.

[@drewmantia]

Tripp Advice Kinda clickbaited me then it paid off. I’ve been doing this for the past year! I have a specific friend that is a model I met but we didn’t have chemistry. Good friends now though, we collaborate on art projects and I meet her other model friends 😎

[@akferren1]

I put all men in the friend zone and the ones that don’t pass the test go to the brother zone and they will never get another chance with me

[@jdoe7674]

That’s why girls usually end up with guys that are abusive because instead of dating someone they get along with and actually know they find strangers on tinder that look good and then the girls be shook when they find out they didn’t have a clue who this hot guy actually was and now he’s beating the shit out of her everyday because he’s pissed off because he feels like he got cheated because he didn’t know who she was either

[@Carybackup2]

Why you a string artist 😅😂

[@j.t.r1976]

Start in the sexx zone.Anything/where else is abserd!

[@mejustme7943]

You should only be in her friend zone to get her female friends lol

[@jdoe7674]

Or to get to know her before you actually commit to a relationship with her and end up getting cheated on or killed because she turned out to be an evil person pretending to be a good person and u didn’t know that because you jumped straight into a relationship with her

[@Doors067]

Put her in your friend zone. Better yet tell her she has to work to be your friend

[@SitoAlvina]

people who watch these videos are your average , day to day bucktees - this approach does NOT work . say no to friendzone . you’ll end up wasting your time .

[@TrippAdvice]

I dont think you watched the video in full because I agree with you!

[@ajarnrichard5386]

Nahhh! By being her friend your a setting a precedence with her friends that you’re beta.

[@Ultra_Dark_MAGA_Man]

Exactly, and then SMV plummets. Its better not to dwell in the friendzone at all.

[@starofthemidnight5411]

I Give Up On Girls

[@alexandramaria7754]

I would date you, for sure ;)

[@TrippAdvice]

That's nice to say!

[@alexandramaria7754]

@@TrippAdvice well, it is the truth! When we are in our 30's we crave for this awareness and self-education in men. Thank you, for that :)

[@Carybackup2]

Soy boy knowledge

[@rexarnold3950]

Okay I’m calling this bullshit once your in the friendzone your stuck there until she gets into a relationship than she cuts you lose because you never mattered you were just a pillow for her to cry on or a shoulder to lean on. I been that nice guy for 8 years but after being cut lose by another “best friend” I’m done being that chump

[@jdoe7674]

So we’re just gonna ignore all the lifelong relationships that started with friendship’s?Relationships are failing so fast nowadays because people move so fast and people are always pretending to be something there not to try and trick the other person into sleeping with them the happiest relationship I ever had is my girlfriend now and that’s because we started as friends and we were always honest and clear with each other there was no act she knew who I was and I knew who she was and that’s who we decided to get into a relationship with so nothing switched up afterwards we’re both the same people and we’re both happy and if other people did the same thing relationships would last much longer because there would be more honesty

[@Carybackup2]

Exactly