Why we don't feel loved by Krishna??? | ABC Class 1 | Vraja Bihari Das

[@harekrishnaarindam]

### Key Takeaways: Why We Don’t Feel Loved by Krishna and How to Feel Loved by Krishna** 1. **Judgmental Mindset** - Our minds are harsh and constantly judge us, echoing childhood conditioning where we internalized criticism from others. - This harsh self-judgment prevents us from hearing Krishna’s reassuring love. 2. **Misconception about Krishna** - We project our own nature onto Krishna, assuming He is judgmental and only values us if we perform perfectly. - Subconsciously, we think Krishna’s love depends on our achievements or ability to “please” Him. 3. **Attachment to Enjoyment** - We view others (and Krishna) as providers of enjoyment. When they fail to meet our expectations, we distance ourselves emotionally. 4. **Lack of Awareness** - We are too preoccupied with our mind’s noise and judgment to perceive Krishna’s unconditional love, which is always present. --- #### **How to Feel Loved by Krishna** 1. **Accept Non-Judgmentally** - Practice *non-judgmental acceptance* of yourself and others, as Krishna loves us without judgment. - Shift your focus from criticizing others to seeing their sincerity and potential. 2. **Trust in Krishna’s Love** - Recognize that Krishna’s love is not based on your achievements but on your intrinsic connection to Him. - Your worth is not in your work but in belonging to Krishna. 3. **Stop Seeing Others as Objects of Enjoyment** - Start seeing others as souls connected to Krishna, rather than through the lens of your own expectations. 4. **Appreciate and Bless Others** - Offer prayers and blessings even to those who have hurt or disappointed you. This opens the heart to receive Krishna’s love. 5. **Gratitude Journaling** - Write down your blessings, successes, and good qualities to combat feelings of inadequacy. Reflect on Krishna’s presence in your life. 6. **See Krishna’s Encouragement in Your Efforts** - Krishna celebrates your sincere attempts to connect with Him, even if they are imperfect. --- #### **Practical Applications** 1. **Forgive and Bless** - Send blessings to those who disappoint you or fail your expectations. This helps shift your perspective to Krishna’s non-judgmental acceptance. 2. **Adopt Krishna’s Perspective** - Try to emulate Krishna’s love by seeing the divinity in others, even when it’s difficult. This will help you feel Krishna’s love for you. 3. **Pause and Reflect** - Before engaging in self-criticism, pause and remember Krishna’s unconditional love. 4. **Celebrate Progress, Not Perfection** - Focus on small wins and incremental improvements in your devotional life. --- ### Sutras to Remember: 1. **“Krishna loves me as I am.”** 2. **“My worth is in who I belong to, not what I do.”** 3. **“Judge less, love more.”** 4. **“Bless others to feel blessed by Krishna.”** 5. **“Celebrate efforts, not outcomes.”** By practicing these principles, you can gradually align your mind with Krishna’s unconditional love and experience it tangibly in your life.

[@soulshilpa4880]

Hare Krishna,thanku fo sharing👏

[@soulshilpa4880]

Hare Krishna prabhuji dandwat pranam 👏it's been so long ,I was not in continuation of hearing,it was like on and off. Hearing your divine words always give me strength and positivity. Thanku so much prabhuji👏

[@vaishalisawant4538]

It's like blessing of one more generation is added the message becomes sweeter - krishnadas

[@sandhyasajith2512]

Hare Krishna Prabhuji. Dandavat pranaam. Every session of yours is filled with great lessons. When something goes wrong in my act or sadhana I conclude that Lord will hate me. In this session you opened our eyes that we are considering ourselves as enjoyers and hence such kind of conclusions. A heavy topic you explained in such an ease. You are one of the well read, well travelled and very knowledgeable spiritual masters. Your examples are so relatable. I take two great learnings - we are not the enjoyers and our worth is not in what we work but whom we belong to.

[@akashgupta-ft5dj]

Hare Krishna 🙏

[@vaishalisawant4538]

Prabhuji , This concept blessings one step ahead of gratitude is revolutionary

[@sunillarisha8072]

Hare Krishna prabhu ji 🙏Dandavat pranaam🙇‍♀️ Was feeling miserable and now after hearing from you, heart feels so much lighter... Thank you so much for sharing real life experiences🙏🙏🙏

[@brizlallnobaub874]

Hare Krishna Prabhuji....thanks you much for this last question of judgemental n dynamic answer ...this amswer help me much to correct my mistake....Shyama Kunda Dasa fr Mauritius

[@govindisking5992]

Thank you Prabhu ji, I was suffering from this Harsh Judging Syndrome too much from last 5 to 7 months and I was like Dead seed. Thank u so much Prabhu ji for uplifting. 🙏🙏🙏🙇

[@RAHULPANDEY-gx1mb]

Amazing thoughts

[@tamalraha8951]

Thank you Prabhu 🙏this lecture helped me so much.

[@vaishalisawant4538]

Prabhuji , I've heard Guru Maharaj say that the message becomes more sweeter the lower you go down in parampara , by hearing you I'm realising that

[@RamanujDas-f8v]

Hare Krishna pr Some points fron Lecture: 1. Prayers First in our KC. All other thingsshould be secondary, our Job, family, interest ect 2nd PRAYERS FIRST TO Krishna. That will make us Loved by Krishna and we will feel that Love.

[@yashaswinibhise7772]

Wonderful lecture. Thank you so much Prabhuji

[@snehjasrivastava]

hare krishna prabhuji. please accept my humble obeisances. it was so insightful prabhuji . prabhuji i wish to join community . i am sorry i missed the last date. is it possible now ?

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Prabhuji touched upon my doubt on dot

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Hare krishna How can I attend this lecture live?

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Hare Krishna How do I attend those zoom sessions in real time ?

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[@aanand0805]

Constantly judging ourselves and thinking of Krishna also judging me that way... Eg- Andre Agassi We don't like/hate anyone..Main reason is that they basically don't fulfill my enjoyment/expectations Speak the same love language like Krishna ❤..then we will surely feel Krishna's love...!! Your worth is not due to ur work...your worth is to whom you belongs too (Krishna) Become brilliant in Basics ❤