WHY WE NEED THE REMINDERS

[@debbiegalica2992]

I've been listening to Andrew, for at least 2 yrs. He's wonderful. He's spot on because he's lived it. I've walked away from the covert narcissist. No contact is the best thing. You can't keep going back..there is nothing there. He's a demon. Run!

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

💜😌🙏⛰️

[@IzabelaWaniek-i1x]

The narcisist insatiable greed will lead them to their downfall. They don’t know when to stop because nothing is ever enough and that will eventually expose their evil.

[@JHavaJoe2-m1z]

"They don't know when to stop."-- explains why you'll eventually be left as a shell of a human. They may adjust and hide their game and that prolongs the trauma bonding.

[@phillippeo]

Unpaid helper in a business partnership… gaslighting, triangulation, the fog, the smear campaign, future faking, and then the healing… I don’t know what I would have done without Andrew and this channel. Educating was the catalyst for change. Thank you from the bottom of my heart. 💪

[@christophe.vankeer8836]

You telling my story , I paid a Huge price but thanks to Andrew I’m healing and become myself again

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome..🙏💜😌

[@TheRoyalWe123]

I was the unpaid helper, walking ATM, only one working, often the chef, definitely the laundry and grocery person. Unpaid therapist. Emotional punching bag. Paid for trips and dates. Then got told I'm dishonoring God by filing divorce. All after many cycles of lovebombing and then devalue. This man is staying single for a while. 🎉

[@JHavaJoe2-m1z]

Good move. I wasn't so lucky. Only years later and learning the terms, I was unaware that I was a walking, talking, bandaged mummy of vulnerability. An unhealed brain may be far from being close to performing your best ( or competent) logical decisions. Toxic predatory types know when you're vulnerable and trying to put up a good front.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

😌😌🙏

[@bd3726]

@@TheRoyalWe123 hmm all sounded familiar. It's bas enough when tbey take no accountability let alone use God and devil to be accountable. Enough to put you off religion forever

[@bd3726]

@@TheRoyalWe123 I can eelate to this

[@bd3726]

.. Relate to this I meant

[@WiccanMumma]

Merry Christmas Andrew & everyone here 🥰❤️

[@AquariusWoman32]

Merry Christmas!

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you..💜🙏✨

[@sharonchristian8508]

Andrew this started for me in 1948. It takes a lifetime to understand what has happened to you at each stage of your development. Don't expect your recovery to be fast. You are on a lifetime journey but you must do the work to progress to your intended destination. You have unseen help to become but you MUST willingly learn the lessons to develop. That truely is the path of the Empath. I don't know where we end up but I am sure we are doing what we are created to be doing. I am too curious to give up when the going is rough. Maranatha

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

😌😌💜⛰️

[@bouncereightyone9337]

❤

[@Cherrybaby12]

My ex-husband is a malignant narcissist. He is the worst kind and very dangerous. I can’t even begin to tell you the stories. So thank you Andrew for your channel. You are the one who allowed me to discover who my ex really was and my sister. They are very dangerous people and going no contact is the best most productive way to regain your life and live at peacefully without them in it.

[@lizstraub6621]

Ex husband and sister. Exactly who I deal with. Big shocker: They HATED each other! They each knew what the other one was. NO CONTACT! Good luck @Cherrybaby12!

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome..😌🙏💜

[@christine8253]

Let me tell you that unfortunately I know it all too well. I am lucky to be alive and I am happy that you are as well.

[@christine8253]

It was the most terrifying time in my life. While going no contact is appropriate, they will continue to hunt you down, either directly or have people they hire to hurt you. Stay vigilant and watch your back always. Be safe and aware, please. If you have children, protect them...keep your car in a place where they cannot tamper with it because they will. It's so crazy!

[@nighthawkviper6791]

Same. Mine are my Father and StepMom and it took my 20s to outpace and outmaneuver their strategy and tactics their reptile pea-brain concocted and No-Contact was what allowed me to break away and fully realize myself. They used every system of control Murica gives them to attack and abuse me. Started in childhood. They haven't changed one iota, meanwhile I've come out of my protective cocoon and am flying now. (I'm a Pilot so that hits different now) You'll really see it when you've healed and not only support yourself Financially but in every other way.

[@mariefrancebourget1749]

The reminders are very important mostly if you are an empath and you are used to forgive and forget easily. It will help you not to fall into the narcissists traps again. It will change your life for the better. Have a great evening everyone 😊💜⛰️✨️🙏

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

🙏💜⛰️

[@JHavaJoe2-m1z]

That was me. Even after putting my foot down in a highly emotional way, I'd feel guilty afterwards.Being pzzd off and angry is justifiable at times ( no, nothing physical) , but never the "auto response" to feeling guilty after someone has smashed a boundary of common respect and decency.

[@Warp75]

I’m 49 now I won’t be falling into anymore traps, but I think it’s good to stay frosty. I actually enjoy studying people’s behaviour nowadays I’ve become very interested in it, I think to get well you have to become a half decent psychologist!!

[@mariefrancebourget1749]

@JHavaJoe2-m1z i know what you mean. I wish you a very happy holidays 🎄😉💯🙏

[@mariefrancebourget1749]

@@Warp75 i agree 💯 i am studying about human psychology too. It helps me to make better choices in my life. Wishing you a very happy holidays🎄☃️ 💞🫶🙏

[@JeanSheridan-c5c]

Thank you for the reminders. I realize how nice life can be without toxic relationships. I am so lucky!

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome..😌💜🙏

[@chazbickel4518]

Great video Andrew!! The reminders keep us from going backwards. Wishing everyone clarity and peace... 🙏❤

[@JHavaJoe2-m1z]

It's simply that! 👍

[@marieeakin8534]

Appreciated & needed survival safety blessings 💥 👍

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you..😌🙏💜

[@Cassiemom-1234]

I started writing down reminders about a year into this journey. Once the fog, confusion, and depression started to lift, I wanted to make sure I never went back because empaths are very forgiving people to a fault. My reminder list is getting longer and longer from decades of toxicity. When I remember something, I write it down. No going back, ever.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

😌🙏💜

[@kimsteed9401]

2 years ago after I first started watching this show, I felt so confused that I didn't even think I'd ever be able to even trust my own judgement again. I got through that with the help of your show, and now am starting to have a little confidence in myself again. Thank you!!

[@JHavaJoe2-m1z]

After this education, my self-assurance shot up the scale. In any conversation, I'm well aware when someone is dismissing what I have to say, doubting on their part and have no rational rebuttal. I'll shut off in half a sec. and be on my way. This education opens a clear path to believing your senses vs. the interference of too much self-doubting.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome..😌🙏💜⛰️✨

[@emilywilson7308]

Clarity! It's like you were under a spell.😮

[@The160879]

@@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone Andrew I believe my younger Sister is involved with a narcissist the 2 of them are always together and we very very rarely get to see her. Only on special occasions and he never comes. This has been going on nearly 10 years and I’ve only just realised this could be the case as I’ve been busy raising a young family at the same time they have been together. Is there any test you can use to be 100% certain. I’ve got an idea of a few things to try but right now he’s convinced her to stop texting me and she blanks all my communication. Andrew you are a true Solider of God my Friend. A beacon of light 💡 in a very dark subject. Merry Christmas 🎅 to you and your Family you absolute Legend 💪

[@bernadettekelly8165]

Thank you for having our backs, Andrew .........❤

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome..🙏💜⛰️✨

[@lisamallinson8148]

Another Amazing video ✨ I learned first hand how important the reminders are when I listened to people who said you need to stop watching those narcissist videos and only think about your future. The Hoover came and I fell for the trap because my cup wasn’t full and it was by far the worse round in the ring with the narcissist. I lost things I can never get back and then experienced the dark night of the soul. Each time we go back the abuse is absolutely worse than previous times so please keep watching Andrew’s videos, stay strong, no contact, and be unhooverable. It can save your life❤️🙌🏼.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you for sharing..😌🙏💜⛰️

[@marieeakin8534]

Reminders are essential to remember the traits & cons the narcissists share so we Never Never Never...Ever Ever Ever... get entangled with them again!!! Be Well, Be Wise 🌈🎀😘

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

😌😌🙏💜

[@chazbickel4518]

Reminders are essential. After we remind ourselves of the narcissists cons, its important to remember our pros. Remember we are the opposite of all of the negativity they possess. The awareness keeps us from going backwards, and knowing who we are keeps us moving forward..... 😊😊❤❤

[@marieeakin8534]

@chazbickel4518 Absolutely! 💪❤💥👍

[@chazbickel4518]

​@@marieeakin8534 😊 ❤

[@JHavaJoe2-m1z]

You may run into a Narc again and chances are, they might seem all aglow with niceness ( like nothing ever was intentional on their part). Har! Mask no. 37 after a car wash, polish and Jiffy lube ... Keep on going Narc. I saw what was under your hood and it wasn't good.

[@lizstraub6621]

I got a HUGE reminder right after Thanksgiving. Just when you think they may have changed...the "Silver Hammer" comes down upon your head! ONE FINAL TIME: NO CONTACT! Namaste and thank you Andrew!

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome..😌💜🙏

[@lios583]

After a narcissistic relationship you often doubt your memory of events, conversations, etc. This cognitive dissonance can be overwhelming, it takes work to see the world clearly and stay true to yourself and control your life, so REMINDERS are important through communication or journaling. Thank you Andrew, good night. 💜🙏🌲

[@phillippeo]

My brain was utterly scrambled.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome..🙏💜😌⛰️

[@emilywilson7308]

Absolutely! For many years I thought I was crazy because nothing made sense.😢 Hope you are well, Lio.❤

[@lios583]

​@@emilywilson7308🎄🙏❤ Merry Christmas, Emily!

[@Jesus_Resurrection_and_Life]

So well said, Thankyou 🙏🏻🌷 Took me ages, and I kept getting drawn back. Im glad I put in all the hard work, it was definitely worth the time and effort, even though there were times I thought I’d never make it through. Peace, blessings, healing, clarity, freedom to everyone 🙏🏻🌷🌸

[@bradmcewen]

As a veteran of the narconut psychic war....I approve of this video 100%. You see...a few minutes a day do indeed remind the soul, yet not trigger me. I believe in narcissistic abuse you create a mental block. I journaled the experience. Never did that ever before. But i havnt read it in years. But i got it. It in fact is retraumatizing, to a point. Things you now cannot believe you put up with. These talks are the best medicine.👏 Absorb, say hell yeah, then onto normal, peaceful, narc free living. You're never alone as long you self care. Desperate loneliness is in a relationship that you have no idea where you're at or really what your with. ✊️

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you for sharing..😌🙏💜📝⛰️

[@emilywilson7308]

Amen!

[@dorothynegri9924]

Awesome reminders! Thank you, Andrew, for another week of beautiful flowers, words of wisdom and great videos. Enjoy the rest of your evening. ❤️🤗

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome..💜🙏⛰️✨

[@lesabrydson2526]

I was the unpaid helper...... House chores, secretary, accountant.....cleaning his evil behaviours👿👿👿. Exhausting hell. Power Persevering in Prayers Psalms 1-150🙏🙏🙏

[@seameology]

But according to your partner, you did nothing. Am I right?

[@lesabrydson2526]

@seameology indeed

[@TrinidadAlmanzor]

Is a narcissist lazy?

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

😌😌🙏

[@crystals6352]

I was vulnerable in the beginning. A family member died. The narcissist targeted me for comfort. There were red flags from the beginning. It wasn't a romantic relationship but I saw all of the signs.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

😌💜🙏

[@amandajohnson-williams7718]

Thank you Andrew x also Happy Christmas to you and everyone on the channel! XXX

[@crystals6352]

Merry Christmas 🎄

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome..💜🙏😌⛰️

[@BionicBunny333]

We need reminders because we’ve been isolated and do not want to jump from the frying pan into the fire. 🔥 thank you Andrew

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome..🙏💜😌

[@BionicBunny333]

@@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAloneyou really know your stuff.

[@emilywilson7308]

Andrew has saved many lives by educating us on the healing path and encouraging us.❤

[@BionicBunny333]

@ 💯✌🏼❤️

[@matthewjohngrabow9365]

Andrew, you truly have a gift. You mentioned once again that we need to deal with "childhood trauma." I would love to see a video on that topic. I'm wrestling with that issue. Perhaps you have already made one. Thank you for your contribution to the world.

[@MaureenBonanno]

I was so wrapped up in trying to get the narcissist to care for me, I am sure my children were neglected.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

😌😌🙏

[@Karen-fx8ek]

I’m back to the reminders; I need them again! I appreciate you Andrew! Keep em coming; you are very needed! Have a blessed CHRISTmas Andrew and everyone!

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you..🙏💜😌⛰️✨

[@emilywilson7308]

God bless you Andrew! You have saved me and countless others on the healing path. Sending love and light to you this holiday season💕 ❤️💓God bless every soul on this channel too!💗🌹🙏

[@kindredinspirit]

Yes yes and yes! There are times I feel a little melancholy about everything ending and starting over at 61. I had forgotten much of who I was before him. I am focusing on remembering who no was, what I liked about myself and what others said they liked about me. I think maybe I can endure this longer to see if I can make do… then I tell myself to remember many many things that led me to the place that I knew I needed to escape and it immediacy validates my mission to depart. I don’t ever want to forget, there are just way too many reminders, daily reminders, thousands of solidifying reasons never get complacent about leaving for any reasons or fears of starting over, you only have one life, they will end yours sooner if you don’t leave.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

😌😌💜🙏

[@Jesus_Resurrection_and_Life]

God Bless you. I hear the strength in your words, well done. Inspiring, thankyou 🙏🏻 Take good care. Blessings, Peace, clarity, wisdom, comfort, help, provision, good guidance to you for the new life chapter 🙏🏻🌸🌷🕊

[@Domi.V.I]

Thank you. I'm 62. I'm concerned for my son who married a controlling girl who doesn't talk with me by the way. Pls pray for me to find a job, a mission, money, so that I can regularly leave my husband.

[@annawallace3264]

Remember Community we come first, second and third, stay strong and stay safe! I survived living with a Narc and you can too.

[@JHavaJoe2-m1z]

Being reminded is imperative.Everyone is distracted by their daily "going ons"with thousands of things to do, other thoughts, etc. For myself, it takes "practice" to break a lifetime habit of forgiving too quickly or easily ( a Narc will again read it as weakness or an easy mark) , making excuses for, doubting whether I was imagining a red flag, etc. I never want to slide back into that default mode ever again.

[@marieeakin8534]

Very important, yes! I had to tone down the niceness in me & reserve it for those who prove to be safe. No longer a walking target for these dark force predators. 😈😠😵 💪☕

[@chazbickel4518]

😊✌ That's radical acceptance. Never a day without practicing. Good reminder Joe !!

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

💯💯💜🙏⛰️✨

[@emilywilson7308]

I am very suspicious of people. Especially if they are charming with charisma.

[@marieeakin8534]

I'm cautious with everyone I meet...it sucks but it has to be that way. Hope you are ok Emily. ❤🙏

[@peacelovedove7080]

They’re not just looking at you as if you’re weak, they’re saying it to your face with emphasis and disgust in their tone as they stand over you and watch you crumble in grief and pain and fear which makes you sink deeper into confusion and despair 😞 You start questioning yourself in every way unfortunately just when you need love , compassion and camaraderie , someone to just sit beside you and not say anything at all because there really are no words for the shock and trauma that you’re going through at certain moments, 😢😭 Anyways, thanks Andrew ❤I’ve been following you for a few years now and I truly appreciate you being 🙏here for all of us throughout the years. ❤👍💕💕💕🌟

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome..💜😌🙏⛰️✨

[@emilywilson7308]

Me too! Andrew is an angel on this Earth!❤

[@shellwoman1]

Yes, I know I NEED reminders! Thank you! Peace ☮

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome..😌💜🙏

[@the-writerofmyownstory]

I never understood then why my compliments, opinion, gifts, and time didn’t measure up to other’s, and often ignored. It always made me feel awful and dinged up my confidence-devaluation. Knowing the terminology pretty well now helps not only to identify the past treatment but the traits to look out for when mixing with new people in the future. All the reminders you give are welcomed and important, thank you Andrew.

[@JHavaJoe2-m1z]

Been there. Weird and Yucky feeling and you resist the voice in you saying: "?? Wait a sec.,what's going on here??" Now we know what the 'ell was going on.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome..🙏💜😌

[@the-writerofmyownstory]

@ Yes, thank you for your insight and other reply’s where you get what I’m feeling and saying and offer your words. I comment but still feel vulnerable doing so and ride it out as part of my growth and healing. Merry Christmas to you 🎄✨

[@user-yy9be9mi6n]

The forest in the background IS beautiful! You think of eveything! Thank you Andrew

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome..💜🙏😌🌲✨

[@TEMPLEVALLEYGENETICS]

Did you get a new camera is it a Sony lol? Looks like good improvement brotha happy holiday😊

[@edwardspriggs5076]

We all need to wake up and understand, that we are in a world wide narcissistic war of wicked spirits. We need to keep the faith and keep our cup full of knowledge, wisdom and help others. Oh but God loves us hallelujah and keeps us and will send others to walk with you and heal with you, just like Andrew and this channel family.

[@cynthiawlaughlin5435]

I know you listen and read these responses because 💥 you are hitting the nail on the head for what I needed. I got a sudden realization today because of a little reminder from that time. I realized he divorced me but I never really “ divorced “ him mentally… 💡 moment of why the nightmares snuck back in.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

😌😌💜🙏⛰️✨💡💡

[@emilywilson7308]

That's a great feeling of putting together pieces of the puzzle.😊

[@virginiathompson5320]

It was my unanniversary yesterday so it was hard. I bought myself some red roses to celebrate. Do I miss him. Absolutely not.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

😌😌💜⛰️

[@seameology]

I could sweep the floor and he would sweep behind me to find dirt. He said that every woman he's ever lived with is a slob.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

😌😌🙏

[@user-yy9be9mi6n]

Wow. They're nuts

[@mayk89]

Mine called me back after I had cleaned, while I was studying in my study, to show me the ostensible patches of the floor I didn't mop well enough.

[@emilywilson7308]

What an assh*le!

[@Plumduff3303]

This is a vital daily channel it saved my mind thankyou doesn't really do it. Life saver is more apt. Many thanks andrew

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome..💜🙏⛰️

[@flyawaybutterflyhealingchannel]

Definately need those ....ty and Merry Christmas Andrew. Hugs and love❤

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

😊💜🙏

[@69ChagerRT]

I recently went no contact and then I think I miss her so much then I wonder what the heck do I really miss? being alone is not fun but definitely better than being treated like some second class human being

[@marieeakin8534]

It hurts & takes time to heal & rebuild . Blessings 👍❤💥🙏 🌈🎀😘

[@shellwoman1]

Yes! Our lives are better without the toxic person in our lives. We can keep good memories and discard the rest. Peace!

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

😌😌🙏

[@witta505]

"I'm calling it out the way it is." This is the biggest first step in healing, and it needs to continue every single day going forward to stay out of the fog. Thank you, Andrew. HH to you and yours.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome..🙏💜😌⛰️✨

[@mary-anncarleton7578]

Happy Solstice and Merry Christmas Andrew. Thanks for the reminders on the daily. Remember to remember to remember, cuz we easily forget and end up in the wheel of hell. I am so grateful to be on my own and off the wheel of hell. Still I question myself after years of self doubt from hellscape drug induced states. He claimed to be a shamen but in reality is a exploitive sick person manipulating women through drugs and places to stay " at a cost ".

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome..🙏💜😌

[@minnieleec]

Thanks again for the reminders, it did help.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome..🙏💜⛰️

[@jordanmadaley]

I came back to the channel a few months ago so I could get reminders. I’ll never forget how horribly I was treated. Even though I’ve healed, I still like reminders of what I went through and why I should never go back.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you for sharing..💜😌✨🙏⛰️

[@jordanmadaley]

@ you’re welcome. Thanks for the daily videos! They’ve helped me out a lot!

[@cynthiawlaughlin5435]

No he discarded me right before Christmas… wretched people who do that at a holiday season are not right. He even put on the divorce papers December 24 but I got before the judge and corrected it.. December 15! I remember exactly when it happened

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

😌😌🙏💜

[@CarolynCostello-i1l]

I was discarded right before Christmas and around my birthday too. Completely ghosted. Now I have to pack up my whole life , literally, and start again. Brutal. I appreciate you Andrew and everyone in this community ❤️

[@pablomardones2295]

Big reminder (just one of a long list): My birthday's day, she sent me a fancy flower to my office, with a card and love words. Next day, with no reason, she made an inimaginable act of cruelty and violence (it makes me sick to describe it here), and then discarded me. I was so confused, no explanation about why she did what she did. And by the way, I knew later that she was dating with a dude who met at supermarket from about two weeks before all happened. Months later, I was dragged by hoover. Bad mistake. But, as expected, cycle repetead over and over (and worse every time). Today, I can tell a different story, keeping strong with no contact, for good and forever.

[@faith22112]

These videos are getting better every time. Thank you Andrew. This is hard because I have to move away from the narcissist in a couple of months to another state. I’m thinking about my strategy and what I have to do to walk away.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome..💜✨🙏⛰️

[@emilywilson7308]

Good job! You have a plan!❤

[@faith22112]

@@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone Thank you for helping me understand what it was to be in n the narcissistic fog. It took me awhile to wake up and realize that I wasn’t alone or taught this in school. You’re continuous reminding and repetition as a teacher finally got me to see it.

[@faith22112]

@@emilywilson7308 Thank you for your encouragement Emily and for commenting. It honestly helped !

[@roslyncerro1263]

If, like me, you are headed for a solo Christmas, God bless you..❣️

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

😌😌💜✨

[@tathe3786]

Feel hugged! 🤗🎄🕯️

[@emilywilson7308]

Being alone is better than spending the day in a house full of narcs!!! Or a house full of drunk narcs! God bless your beautiful soul, Roslyn!❤

[@Jesus_Resurrection_and_Life]

My first solo Christmas was so peaceful, calm and restful, felt a bit strange, but I embraced it, took things at my own pace, my energy was nourished and replenished rather than drained. Had moments of sadness but realised I had made progress. God Bless you deeply this year with lots of Healing 🙏🏻🌸🌷🌸 take good care xx

[@Thedisgardedoptimist]

One year today..... Whooo hoooo! Don't give up... With work, guts, fortitude, time, patience and love for self, life gets better.... 🐬☮️🐬💜

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

🙏😌💜✨⛰️

[@emilywilson7308]

Yes!

[@deb2319]

Daily Reminders Keep Us On The Healing Path! Tnx Andrew!

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome..🙏💜⛰️✨

[@susanruggiero589]

He called every woman he ever met “sweetie” including his own mother. I was never anything special to him, until he hated me, then things got real interesting. I fell in love with a lie. My biggest mistake, staying as long as I did, lying to myself! Once that lightbulb moment happened I should have run as fast as I could and never looked back!

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

😌😌⛰️🙏✨💜

[@healing1106]

He called every waitress sweetie and doll....and ended up marrying one down on the Texas Mexico border!

[@susanruggiero589]

We are special to ourselves, I had to endure hell to figure that out.

[@romanator915]

Last time I EVER fall into this trap,! Tolerated less than…never again

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

😌😌🙏💜

[@Rugbymom]

Great examples..realized how this was my life for many years…the cleaning example … YES! All the time! Thanks for the reminders…

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome..💜😌⛰️✨

[@susancarol4735]

Thank you for the reminder, as the holidays stir up weird, residual nostalgia! Btw, you have a great smile! Blessings to you! 💜🙏

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome..💜😌⛰️✨😊

[@SS-zy5dc]

Im still struggling with the sheer lack of respect for another human being he has gone ghost not a peep utterly dispresful behaviour his shame and guilt will remain with him until his dying day

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

😌😌🙏

[@leeseoflife2483]

Have a peaceful xmas andrew, thsnks for the constant reminders :)

[@leeseoflife2483]

"Thanks"

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome..🙏💜😌

[@mothersandy2022]

Thank you 🎉for the reminders it was horrible to go through. But I am at peace loving myself once again family, friends , More me time!

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome..💜🙏⛰️✨

[@nigelbrickell4936]

Really helpful Andrew, very early days for me, been to hell and back with a very evil narcissist.. you are helping me to understand the process of healing. Nameste, Nigel in U.K.

[@chazbickel4518]

Glad you found the channel. Time to be as stoic as you can be. 💜

[@Honeypepper.]

We definitely speak the same language, Andrew, and don't forget that once you see it, you can't unsee it. That fact keeps me safe in the cocoon of boundaries.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

💜😌🙏⛰️✨

[@dahliaseraphina]

I needed to hear this today. Thank you, Andrew, for your wisdom. 🙏❤

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome..😌🙏💜

[@Beth00009]

100% we need reminders (cognitive dissonance is a heck of a thing) don't be supply again you're no one's host (especially not to a sociopathic parasitic human) ps, you look so very well Andrew, blessings everyone! 😙💞 🤗🎁

[@steenkristensen6351]

Thanks Andrew and have a good Day 👍🙂

[@cathyferran7291]

Andrew , We do need the reminders and I watch you everyday and I am healing and still learn more everyday and it never stops to amaze me when we feel strong the narc sends flying monkeys and now I just think of the Wizard of Oz Andrew and I follow the yellow brick road away from their toxicity and I'm never engaging again, due to the fact it was all a lie Ya'll no matter how sincere it sounds, keep walking and ignoring, our light needs to shine bright not be snuffed out, I didnt know the term narcissism, I would have just said selfish and no substance before

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

😌😌🙏💜⛰️✨

[@DanielAllenJudy]

Thanks for this information. I had no idea this was a thing. I was discarded a month ago for the third time. A google search on discarding led me to narcissism, the trauma bond, then your videos. I really thought I had someone special. Someone I had known since I was a teenager, that I started dating in our 40’s. I wish I had this info 4 years ago. She did all of the things, triangulation, gaslighting, isolation, silent treatment, belittling, unpaid helper, smear campaign, eating all my time, blowing up holidays, no closure, etc… I see now that she didn’t respect me, value me, or care. Even after I spent weeks in the hospital with her family, twice. Remodeling houses for her, etc… She’d drop me every time I needed her. I feel that she would’ve let me drown while on a boat with life preservers. Thanks again, I have a feeling I’ll be listening to these for a long while.

[@JHavaJoe2-m1z]

Glad you found this channel! You lost some precious time, love and energy out of your life, but cutting ties - You gained wisdom for a lifetime and saved a major chunk of your life. Don't look back- you can't unsee it and she'll never improve.

[@rhealitytv.9999]

😊❤😊 so true!

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

😌😌💜⛰️

[@marshat.ordureau3121]

DAILY reminders! Keep me even more focused on my Healing Path & keep walking with my spirit full of PEACE🙏✨️💜🇫🇷Thank you Andrew,, for showing us the way!! I only surround myself with people in my best interest!!! I REMEMBER 2 & 1/2 years ago sending a winter vest ,, hand made in France,, mailing it ON TIME to Colorado,, USA,,, then the Narc/ sister told me it was the Wrong size,,, after she had sent me her measurments!! She mailed it back,, I resent it,,, she MAILED the 2nd one back!!She was & is a DARK CLOUD OF jealousy !! Sure grateful I do not have to running back & fourth to the Poste ,,, for her this Christmas😂💜🇫🇷enjoy your Monday Andrew!!

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome..🙏💜😌⛰️✨🇫🇷

[@emilywilson7308]

My sister did the same thing with a set of cookware! So mean and rude! I learned a lesson.

[@healing1106]

Been visiting this channel since summer of 2022. Best thing that has helped me heal and continue to heal are these reminders on the channel. We really do speak the same language which unites us....not divides us which is the life of the narcissist. Best reminders that have helped tremendously....heal childhood wounds, block the narcissist and all flying monkeys, journal, counseling, and educate yourself on narcissism.

[@WitchyHocusPocus]

Yes, you are speaking the truth, you are telling it exactly how it is. Horrible people. They do not care how deeply, or damaging they are killing you and destroying you. EVERYTHING in life is just about benefiting them. And always having the upper hand on every issue, and every important element in your lives and in the future together. They want to be in complete and total control of you on everything, and everything. Think about this for a moment......."That is really sick"

[@michellepurcell8703]

Thanks for your reminders and help for so many people. Have a wonderful Happy peaceful Christmas Andrew, and everyone who watches your videos 🎄🎅❤

[@crystals6352]

Merry Christmas 🎄

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome..🙏💜⛰️✨

[@krheyhey]

@Andrew amazing videos as always. Please do one on holiday hoovering /stalking! Love you ❤

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you..💯💯😌💜

[@dr.cynthiabroughton1240]

We all need reminders to help keep us strong. Thank you so much, Andrew ❤

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome..💜😊⛰️

[@Aonexia]

Been with you from the start mate... Thank God for your soul and guidance through this life filled with toxicity. Thank you from the bottom of my heart for teaching us this hidden human evil that has trapped so many beautiful souls. Thank you so much!

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome always..thank you for being here..💜🙏😌⛰️✨😊

[@Pia-mia]

What I am learning is that they will never change. No amount of therapy can help them. And as an empathy we have to make the hard choice to choose ourselves. I left and went back and it was amazing until it wasn’t. The mask was on and I knew it walking through it the whole time but that empathy in me was too forgiving and trusting. Wanting so much to believe they were capable of change. The journey is not easy but the education helps. Thank you Andrew.

[@chazbro101]

Letting the past go- and looking forward to the non toxic future!... Indifference almost there.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

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[@bd3726]

I was discarded few months after my mum died even tbough tbey said they would be around more for me as i was experiencing trauma, tbe narcissist just gave me more trauma to deal with.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

😌🙏💜

[@bd3726]

I don't understand whatvthere is to like about this

[@Jesus_Resurrection_and_Life]

⁠@@bd3726so very sorry you were put through all that , may all the trauma be validated by safe people, the right people. Take it steady, and be gentle on yourself. Losing a Mum is very traumatising, I’m so sorry. Peace and deep Healing to you 🙏🏻🌸🌷🌸

[@CayteBarbe]

THANK YOU ANDREW!! I so look forward to viewing your channel when i get home from work every day. You truly make my day, I am truly greatful for your counseling and wisdom. Sending you heartfelt thanks, and best wishes for a blessed and joyous holiday season.😊❤🎉

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome..🙏💜😌✨⛰️

[@EzoterraTarot]

I know these messages are serious but when you do the head turn to the side it feels like good belly laughs. Keep up the great work 👍🏾

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

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[@emilywilson7308]

I know! Andrew is so cute!❤

[@clydare]

This content is so welcome. Yes we do need reminders all the time. It’s a very difficult time if the year at the best of times. Thank you for all the support and wisdom you give us daily. Wishing you a blessed and peaceful Christmas 🎄 🙏🎄

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome..😌💜🙏

[@nvbccjarbohum]

I thought I was way better than I am. I realize that anything I do the Narc is in my head and I am thinking about if he would approve of it or criticize me. He sure did a number on me and I let him and most of it was over the phone. And I did not realize it. Today was a bad day but I am feeling better than I did. I am so tired of it but thankful for this group, for Andrew, and for all of you here. We will overcome, I know but it is not easy. It is like being in a bad dream and struggling to wake up. I love you all and my love for everyone keeps me connected and moving forward. ♥💛💚

[@emilywilson7308]

You can do it!❤

[@collegegirl201418]

thank you for the reminders love you andrew dumb youtube isn't notifying me for your video uploads 😑🥲

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome..🙏💜✨⛰️

[@leerichards7016]

Thank you Andrew.You were with me through my healing from the start.I appreciate the harsh truths I needed to learn.I lost myself bowing down and bending over for my narc ex wife.I have my power back after a 2 year journey of discovery and healing.Thankyou my friend.

[@annawallace3264]

I need this reminders to keep me moving forward and healing. NarcHusband passed away almost 5 mos ago but I stay tuned in because I need to. Thank you Andrew for the info. that reminds me it wasn’t me that had the issues thru the MEGA years of the marriage and I can make my own choices now…………it’s heavenly-no more being being abused, no harassment, control, negativity, competition nor retaliation from him and no more of his extra supply nor his flying monkeys. Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year to you and your Family!

[@emilywilson7308]

My narc died 7 years ago and it takes a long time to heal. This experience has been a catalyst for a more enriching life!God bless you!❤

[@jfabian6802]

Going into 2025 Narc free! 🎉

[@magataramaotswa]

Me too🎉 Yay . It's really great on this side.

[@ednamason4784]

Thank you Andrew. I’m needing reminders often. When I start to feel down, I find one of your videos that help on a particular subject. Could you make a video on what to tell or not tell your adult children. I am afraid that he will take advantage of them now that he has no supply that I know of. Thank you❤️

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome..💜🙏😌

[@pogofish1]

New Year/Hogmanay is my darkest/most difficult time thanks to the Narc. It is when I need the reminders.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

😌😌💯

[@darmac8519]

Thank you 😊

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome..💜🙏😌✨

[@cinthial7220]

We need it because there’s times your mind plays tricks on you and you feel like giving the 22 nd chance. Then you watch these and rember how bad it really was. And you can never ever go back.

[@patriciapartridge8217]

Thank you Andrew. You are so good at helping. Bless you

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome..🙏💜😌✨

[@TheDaragh]

He lied about something so simple yesterday...getting ready to go non contact in 2025.

[@emilywilson7308]

Good for you! Make a plan. We are all here for you.❤

[@DeaFBRED]

Triangulation, like when my ex invited her friend to stay in the house with us.And I wasn't for it so I basically left

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

😌😌🙏💜

[@jswan312]

The daily reminders are the best tactic I’ve found to break through the fog. 🙌

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

🙏💜😌

[@christinawilding2355]

It's been a year and a half since I left him. I look 100 💯 better,having more fun,enjoying life better,keeping my job, but I internally still suffer from the narcissistic abuse I dealt with. It occasionally haunts me. I have past, reoccurring thoughts of how he humiliated me, situations I ignored an accepted. I feel like a fool. I'm afraid if relationships even though I'd like one. It's an ongoing battle.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

😌😌🙏💜⛰️

[@cheryldaniel8841]

I’m definitely needing the reminder today. I’m struggling this holiday season to keep him blocked and expecting that holiday hoover 😞

[@pandamakeuppics7772]

13:48 he ended his life this year on Oct 30th. So now everyone will think of him around Halloween (my family's favorite holiday) my mother's birthday is Oct 31st. My mom was hated by him, because he knew that he could never fully control me with her already doing it...😮

[@emilywilson7308]

Wow! God bless your heart, Panda!❤

[@barbarakrall1184]

Hey, no kidding. Ya think you are getting better and then...plunk! Merry Christmas and Happy Holidays Andrew!

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

🙏💜✨

[@gavinwilliams1687]

You can never be too rough on a narcissist,they are EVIL .

[@Eli_J_]

It’s amazing how many times Andrew explains something exactly how it happened in my narc relationship. She has a phD and a good job but used to buy me cheap gifts worth about 99 cents while accepting expensive gifts from me every year at Christmas.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

💯💯😌🙏

[@tedtuira6415]

In my early stages of recovery and discovery, I took out a full sheet of paper and started writing down all of her wrongdoings. I filled up both sides and wrote up the margins, squeezing as much in as could fit in the pages. It only took roughly 5 minutes and my pen never stopped moving. Whenever I felt the rumination or weakness, reminiscing about the long gone honeymoon/love bombing stage, I would go look at the long list of horrors that she committed. It helped remind me to stay strong and never forget or go back to that stinking narcissist!! Stay strong and beware of the holiday hoover.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

😌😌🙏💜