Why When You Detach, They ATTACH!

[@AaronDoughty44]

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[@NathalieLazo]

“Stop trying to find the right person; be the right person. Instead of being with someone who makes you happy, first be someone who makes you happy.” - Jay Shetty 💛

[@rubin-healmysocialanxiety702]

Amen🙏

[@katt1134]

Amen

[@truthseeker1649]

I love Jay!💞 I have his book; How To Think Like A Monk. I'm in the UK and the bookstore had to order it for me 🙂

[@ludilight2948]

Sure ok that sounds easy enough......... why didn't I think of that .... oh yeah ............. ...... .... .. .. ....

[@24awesomesttlovenlife14]

well said!

[@AspireToINSPIRE1176]

To sum up... 1. Don't be attached to any kind of outcome! 2. Focus on yourself and your life instead of worrying much about what others think of you. This definitely works... I have seen and experienced this in my life as well!

[@chitrasivasubramanian2522]

Thank u

[@victoriakahtania]

me too, so often✨

[@neilbhonsle4879]

❤

[@yasin6118]

Definitely, it took some time but works!

[@chipskeetlark8102]

Been in a long distant relationship with a girl for a few months. At first, before we dated, I was less interested and didn't care much of the outcome, which was why she was so interested. I was doing me. Now I've noticed her become unattached and more busy and I realize my own insecurities and fears ( afraid of loss of love) has made me needy for attention and validation. Thanks Aaron for enlightening me and showing me a different perspective.

[@yadirect]

How is go, pal?

[@tuzzzz6]

Hey u guys still together?

[@yasin6118]

Long distance doesn't last long in my experience.

[@shayleejeanne]

To sum it up: • People pleasing = Manipulation • The energy you put out there is the energy you will get back. • Detach from outcome because it is who you are. • Energy follows value. • Be present, the rest will come naturally. Love and light to all of you ❤

[@alexe3449]

What ive learned from your videos, is that neediness, deep desire, obsession, etc etc. almost tarnishes your passion. For far too long ive been out of my center and being a cameo of other's movies instead of being a star of mine. Last week, i was at my breaking point. But after i discovered your channel, i started to change my way of thinking and started an overhaul of my consciousness. I'm not completely healed but im on the fast track to not only healing, but being better than i ever have in my entire life. My goal in this life is to do what you do but in my own way. You're absolutely a remarkable human being, Aaron. Thank you for what you do

[@Light-Shift]

This is fantastic. I also think there are different energies attached to pleasing others. Sometimes there is a sincere desire born from kindness and wanting to uplift another person, trying to make them happy, that has no sense of self mixed in. Just a desire to pull a loved one out of negative emotions. The desire to please can also be born out of love and not a need for approval. It's important to distinguish because we don't want to become islands. All energies have positive and negative. Empaths are usually very loving people. Like you, Aaron.

[@negtype13]

Amen!

[@kayeradcliffe703]

🙌💯❤️

[@dlfleming80]

Amen!

[@elle88263]

100%

[@EvolvedGiGi]

Yes

[@kolorkonexion]

When your energy is pure and you end up leaving, they always comeback... by then interest is lost✌🏻✌🏻✌🏻✌🏻

[@kristin4776]

I just want to get to the point that I don’t care about them liking me back anymore 😆

[@beverleyboateng566]

I love, love what you’re saying!!! Please teach us 0:15 more… thanks for this very interesting important message! I’m learning sooo, much! Thanks

[@rubin-healmysocialanxiety702]

“If the foot of the trees were not tied to earth, they would be pursuing me. For I have blossomed so much, I am the envy of the gardens.” -Rumi

[@24awesomesttlovenlife14]

Love Rumi!

[@Sunshinegoddess777]

I used to be the side character in someone else's life and over the span of the last couple of years i have truly become the mainframe character of my own story ~ As it should be :)

[@B3stfriend]

You know what, I just found out what the word beautiful means. "Be You tiful" is real beauty. Did you wonder why some people are beautiful in their way more than others? Cause they are being themself.

[@TheMediumChannel]

Hey, My ascendant is Sagittarius. The reason for the attachment tendency is the human survival instinct. To make this great teaching from this video work in your life is to develop presence, when you can be in pure presence you disassociate from the human survival instinct and you begin blending with Spirit… where there is no need, no want, because in that state of presence you know that what you “need” already exists and all you need to vibrationally match it is expand the frequencies of the heart, this brings you back in your frame, back in your power and ad you open up more to the master frequencies of gratitude and compassion through heart expansion you become super attractive and magnetic.. all “need” dissolves and love rules…

[@cattmantin]

So letting go is essentially being present and developing pure consciousness?

[@TheMediumChannel]

@@cattmantin An important foundation for sure, and what I wrote requires a good deal of spiritual discipline so it ain’t easy, when you get present stop the thoughts and. expand the barrier between conscious vs subconscious begins breaking down and one must face all they’ve been repressing… not easy staying in presence at those times, dark thoughts, emotions surfacing and such, it’s a journey but we can make it easier by resigning to discomfort, inviting Spirit/God in to guide us and surrender and allowing and it is so amazing. developing the heart center activates everything particularly the brain… that keeps you in the eye of the storm, namaste 🙏 . .

[@rensii-e8b]

I’m a Sag Asc, and totally understand what you’re saying ❤

[@512dalila]

@@rensii-e8b me too.

[@SR77736]

Sadge rising too

[@75futrinka]

Dear Aaron, over the years you have helped me so many times, that I just wouldn’t be able to ever express the level of gratitude I feel towards you and your work. Thank you so much. Bless you

[@alikikrouska6014]

I confirm all☺️ I detached but i was acting.. But,day by day something changed in me..i' m feeling better ..🤗and whatever will be..will be..thank u🌈🚀😘

[@negtype13]

Fake it till you MAKE it! 🤘

[@truthseeker1649]

Wow!! Thank you Aaron; I REALLY needed to hear this right now as I go through difficult times with a guy I like. You have a great way of explaining things & not only made me look at the behaviour of the other person but to really look at myself!👌💞💯

[@kellidavis7532]

This tho ⬆️....I'm with ya..

[@lululemon6647]

Omg !!!! This one really made me understand !! Energy is value! Brilliant Aaron!!

[@Bunker7]

Developing the habit of the mind is really a worthwhile skillset to obtain. Your videos help the start of my day, reminding where I should put my heart constantly when I watch any of your videos. Dis attachment from any form of outcome and just enjoy the present. When you live inside the frame, just the first breath you take will feel different.

[@TimHouser-j2j]

His best video so far. Thanks bro

[@bbeeez]

Signs are coming to me each day that I’m getting closer to finding the way I need to be spending my time for optimal fulfillment. I have enough info to TEACH like this. This helps me get towards sharing helping and creating my livelihood through personal content. Life experience when shared this way is powerful and influential. This helps bring the dollhairs and joy in creating, inspiring, being inspired and sharing. I’m so close it’s fun to be in this space right before it comes! Flowing lf!

[@DevinGarcia-y9z]

To really feel good to be detached you need to first be attached into something you like or love could be object or a person or external material you let go all that you will feel good and release and nothing to worry about lossing anything

[@colcooper9928]

One of your best to the point videos to date. Thank you Aaron.

[@dollyjuhasz865]

Thank you Aaron! I struggeling for a long time because i was in a toxic relationship for too long.And the end of July i broke up with my toxic ex, whom i was pleasing for 2 years. I tried everything to get back to myself.Honestly this video was very helpful to feel better.

[@jonjbivins]

Been watching your videos since May… this is my first comment. Thank you bro. I appreciate you. You didn’t lie one time

[@illuminatedCrowsHeart]

I would love to see a video about social anxiety/phobia. I feel myself becoming alarmed and hypervigilant around people. It feels like I'm literally scared of people. I am overly kind out of fear.

[@intuitiveartmediums]

I find that I feel that way too and end up isolating myself because I'm frozen in that fear. Its not unusual when one is struggling with PTSD. Its just our fear that's trying to keep us safe and when we learn to not abandon ourselves we step back into our power and reclaim a little bit more of who we are.

[@illuminatedCrowsHeart]

@@intuitiveartmediums yes I agree, thank you for adding ❤ may we find our truth and light

[@beyondtransaction]

Your videos always come at the right time. Blessings for your wisdom my friend. Wishing you much love and happiness 🙏🏾

[@michellaliberte]

what you say is resonating inside of me, thank you Aaron!

[@sylwiarausendorff2067]

Dear Aaron, your advices changed my life. Thank u 🩵 God bless u

[@cass8546]

✨✨✨ this is true, just walking down the street being present looking at the butterflies and flowers, people are just staring at me like I’m crazy 😂😂 definitely magnetic energy 😌

[@OnyxSoulAlchemy]

Ouch!!! People pleasing is manipulation - this is so raw for me who likes to think I would never manipulate but wow you have flipped this on its head. I am getting totally roasted in my head and heart and loving it. Wonder if there is a limit to how many I should do of these a day hahaha

[@Raj-cl7he]

I swear these types of preaches should be taught in church this is very powerful

[@chrisrosado1507]

This video came up in my feed and actually hit what I'm going through now. Have a friend but things happened and now I feel my neediness is showing and it seems like she is detaching. My ex girlfriend died 3 weeks ago and she was our friend we were there for each other the entire time. From this video I should just become detached and see what happens.

[@michamohe]

my man you have no idea how much you sound like the man that taught me shamanism

[@ytchannel1682]

this video is so valuable, you hit so many key points on how to have the best life

[@rajmardania831]

I'm going through a tough break up at the minute, and been severely anxious and depressed for the last few weeks. I'm so glad I came across your videos as they're helping out so much. Along with working on myself your videos have taught me to reframe my energy inwards and to let go of outcome, which I am finally starting to do after weeks of clinging onto hope that her and I would get back together. I can't show my appreciation enough to how important these videos are right now, keep up the great work.

[@Hopscotch_24]

I relate so much right now. Stay strong. ✌️

[@tomsammons6480]

Bro! Fox has a plan for you. Relax and enjoy yourself the right girl is already on her way into your life , be patient she coming. You’ll look back and laugh at your ex one day

[@tomsammons6480]

God not fox

[@savead6628]

Be strong king.

[@rajmardania831]

Thank you all for the support, I'm really struggling today, but have to believe as hard as it is at the minute, that everything happens for a reason.

[@jacksoncox2343]

Thanks for the video and all the effort that went into making it! I hope you have a great rest of your day

[@bradleybrooks6636]

I was meant to learn this today. THANK YOU, I just accidentally hit this video in my pocket

[@Adam444Tv]

Probably the best video you made. Top 5. I can really understand what you are saying. I’ve been trying to put it into practice. 🎉

[@JustMyNterputation]

Damn, this is so real! Wow, I stumbled on an excellent video. This man's delivery is everything! I love the real life vibe on the fly feel.

[@Librajen1004]

You have helped me so much!! Thank you, Aaron!!

[@kayeradcliffe703]

I have played this over and over. Fantastic video thanks for sharing your knowledge @AaronDoughty 🙏❤️

[@motivated_stoner_420]

Ima be honest with u I seen at least 20 of your videos and put it into use and it literally works .. u gotta realize your self worth first tho then everything else falls into place . They all chase u when u stop giving them recognition

[@shonamiller5340]

You are absolutely amazing!!! So wise!

[@shonamiller5340]

I binge watch your videos btw 😊

[@joshuaanzalone2060]

I love telling people no now and I still help some but I also now love myself to where I won't tolerate disrespect or being bullied by family. I'm cutting people off one by one and it's a lot easier than I thought it would be

[@Maryam-cy6cv]

That was so eye opening thank you🤍

[@beaesquivel6524]

I’m liking the shirt. ♐️ “detachment”- exactly.

[@shuvangideb549]

Thank you for these kind of videos 😊🙏ur an amazing person ✨✨

[@jasminevincent9282]

Thank you for your knowledge and wisdom. Beautifully said 🥰🙏✨💫

[@mansisachdeva248]

Thank you for this video.

[@tresaS58]

Best video so far

[@thebullwhisperer916]

Thanks for the free info.

[@STAR-LIGHT.1111]

I was not aware that I was doing this, not even with an evil agenda. I notice that I say yes because I want to continue to be loved I have been abused a lot in my past for my authenticity. I have to intrigue this more in my life because with pleasing I make myself so incredibly unhappy.

[@fatimacurry5844]

I’m a new subscriber-thanks for your informative content, and NICE SHIRT!

[@leo.nittis]

As Edward art said~”so you no longer use the outside world to fulfill yourself within. you let go to fearing and controlling the world, for what you fear you try to control. instead you change from the inside out you hold on to your new change within, knowing it’ll express itself for man is the expresser of imagination” he’s literally saying when you’re feeling desperate you try to control the outcome on how you want your manifestation to come because you fear it’s not gonna go your way so it takes longer or it probably will never show up (the same applies if you’re being double minded or constantly search for results). but when you “live in the end” in imagination, not worrying on how or when it’ll come your manifestation will come a lot quicker because you’re detached from the outcome and are in a state of trust

[@leo.nittis]

Because you fear that it ain’t go your way.Or that it won’t come^*

[@CAPRONRICO]

Love this song . Salute this a masterpiece fr

[@andreaf3084]

Thank you Aaron 🙌🏻

[@ElliottPiano]

Thank you so much for being that present for us .

[@rajdeepsingh7928]

Bless you Aaron. I got the picture

[@yaseming19]

I understand what you are saying and I saw this happen in my own life multiple times. But I still don't really know HOW to let go. I mean how to do it. What exactly should I do? I really want to let go. But making the decision to let go is not automatically erasing the neediness. I am trying to let go but I still feel needy and triggered and attached sometimes. How exactly do I fulfill my own needs, so I don't feel needy and attached to other people anymore? So to sum it up, I understand WHY I should detach and I really want to. I do not understand yet HOW to do it and how to fulfill your own needs. I am trying to focus on myself and working on my goals and career. But whenever I have nothing to do, I think about this person and feel so attached. Do I have to decide to let go every single time I think of them? How do I stop thinking about it without making myself busy all the time? And even when I am busy I still think about it so much. Do I have to decide to let go every single time I think about it? I want to finally not feel attached to people and needy anymore. I want to feel okay and good enough on my own.

[@trishclarke9354]

I agree with what you are saying, I know I should but it’s the HOW I struggle with. x

[@yaseming19]

@@trishclarke9354 thank youuu I am glad I am not the only one who feels this way!

[@itsj888]

Same!!!

[@bunnyboo6295]

busy is the only thing I know of. Before the attachment who were you are you connecting with you during the busy distraction or just doing things that need to be do creating a new distraction from self. Sometime when someone becomes the focus of your life you lost yourself sitting alone you now empty don't know who you are without because your being became about them about serving creating the need to be there servicing them, so you have no clue what to do without the purpose of serving this person. If that could be it learn to serve yourself like who where you before what things that you once loved did that was sacrifice and lost. do you just keep busy for the sake of busy blocking getting to knowing yourself. Get busy with things you enjoy if you lost that find the things that spark joy

[@dinofamous4ever]

This is exactly what I feel after each video of aaron... I know the information... but how do we shift pur behaviours???

[@kathleenknevett5971]

Thank you Aaron, Your work has really helped me x

[@KT-lt4fy]

Wish me luck guys! I’m going to detach so that people will like me more :D

[@ankita_sharmaa]

Your videos always ping at the right time.. Much love from your fan since 5yrs from India 🇮🇳

[@Devilnoob371]

Why you Indians always wants to put a tag that "you are a Indian" and all that.

[@joanna9856]

Aaron! Man after my own heart 💜 fellow Sagittarius ♐️

[@radiatepositivity3643]

You speak so well! But it is just so hard to detach!! Emotional turmoil :(

[@LONEWOLF..314-S-T-L]

THE LAWS OF DETACHMENT - SALUTE 👍🏽

[@johanfalk2263]

This is brilliant

[@J-Waz]

What a great video brother. Thank you

[@mwloos1]

Also, you'll need to prepare yourself that the current acquaintances that you have might leave as they benefit from your people pleasing.

[@raefamupnorth1580]

Guys. This is all accurate UNLESS your dealing with a narcissistic person lol. They will either, play a game with you and mirror for power or they will get angry by your energy switch. Just sayin

[@BikeFitOdyssey]

Exactly 💯

[@Caolan-b6r]

That word narcisist gets thrown around far too often. When someone calls someone it I tend to believe they aren't one

[@a111oveWrldWde]

Thank You! ❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥🌏🌍🌎

[@udayakumarkk2578]

Very good video. Wonderful. Insightful. Thankyou.

[@majakirsten4101]

And how do I not seem just unbothered. Like where’s the difference between not being attached to the outcome and just don’t care? I really like your videos, they do help me a lot and are very eye opening 😍💪🏻keep going!

[@penigan85]

I guess INFP's are screwed. We mostly need validation, neediness because we are super emotional/empaths. I think INFP's can achieve it, but we are handicapped more than most I think. Any other INFP's have actual success with any of this?

[@Itssimplyaisha]

Omg as an infp it’s really not easy. I’ve been doing Aaron’s detaching meditations and it started working

[@leeannzoe8547]

Holy shit, I never realized pleasing is manipulation. I thought I was just watching this video for a refresher on things I already knew, and got blown away with that. Fuck, THANK you.

[@gabriellegibson5507]

💝💝💝 sending lots of love Aaron! Thank you always for all your work and content . Thank you thank you brother🙏🏻 always right on point with the energy

[@danaavram7837]

You're right! Thank you for this !👍💯

[@lisascales9582]

I love all your videos keep up great work 👏

[@masikike]

Yessssss ! This is absolutely true! Thank you because I needed to hear this today

[@ErahimP]

One of the best videos. 👌

[@k16903]

Love your T-shirt! ❤ and videos :)

[@MissSunny1966]

Love your videos and sharing them with others. But I have a request on Narcissists: What does a person do when their Narcissist dies. Please help.

[@nicolamarie8534]

So so very true!! Thankyou for this Aaron....😊

[@returnofthemack6295]

Live like your already have your sp but also not focus on it just live as it is already happening and focus on yourself

[@Bigkahunatype100]

Detaching means you are over that person yes it works yes they fall in love when you’re aloof and no longer showing feelings fir them its so weird but its life

[@jillkx]

I kid you not, whenever I tried ”to manifest“ something with techniques, it never worked. The moment I just told myself ”there’s nothing I need to do.. whatever…“ things started to shift

[@king-hi7fu]

Thank you for this message

[@Nambozobev]

Your insights are invaluable

[@fabsnuffy1283]

I always learn something from you & I truly enjoyed this video. I don't want to sign up for anything or become a member, but I am curious why this video was taken in the garage?🤣

[@AuroraAscends]

One of the best videos ✨

[@lavandeworld]

Omg ofc you're a Sag 😍 Love from a Leo x

[@HighValueTargetRacing]

It all makes sense now🧘🏾‍♂️🖖🏾👍🏾

[@solinothman506]

Love it!

[@akshayyadav3141]

Though the Aaron has only one motive for his followers with similar content, however everyone should watch his video even though the content is much more similar what it makes that you are aware every day that you should detach

[@lovepositivity2632]

OMG today I was thinking of my sp the very same way as in the thumbnail 😂😂 as if I'm leaving and my sp is holding my legs and begging me not to go !!!! Here I'm seeing the exact image on the thumbnail 🤣🤣

[@sylvier333]

You got it! ❤️🌻

[@barbaramariadasilvadasilva3226]

You’re a genius

[@janatonijana6556]

I ❤️ yours energi. Thanks

[@craigmertz5688]

Cool bro...I'm a Sagittarius as well!

[@TommytheEmpath.]

I absolutely love that shirt. Aaron, please tell me where you got that shirt. I'm a Sagittarius.

[@aileensavage4431]

Hey Aaron, I’ve joined the group and am just curious when it actually starts. Thanks :)