WHY WOMEN CHEAT AND HOW TO HAVE HER LOYAL?

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In this episode of Khalish Times, Yasmeen and relationship expert Sadia Khan explore the realities of long-term relationships, discussing how to maintain attraction and navigate betrayal. Sadia shares insights on the importance of staying curious about your partner, the impact of physical appearance on desire, and the complex dynamics of infidelity. Learn practical strategies for sustaining love and trust over the years and how to rebuild a relationship after betrayal.
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[@edwardtalbot5556]

As a man married over 30 years I live by one sentiment...always be ready to let it go...

[@ankitjain3310]

This really hit it. Thanks sir!

[@sampari6358]

That’s always rule 1

[@per_growth]

maybe at 30y married, your children are adults and can survive on their own - there are concerns about those who are 'stuck' in a marriage because kids are involved.

[@supers0nic77]

As a commenter, i agree.

[@edwardtalbot5556]

@@per_growth ...oh trust me I know we were stubborn over a decade bc of the 4 children we have together...now there's also 4 grandchildren...marvelous thing, but after steak every night for over 3 decades a salsd from time to time would be delightful

[@bryanp8606]

Once a woman cheats, the respect is gone! It is over!!

[@lawrencechukwu1742]

Once a woman cheats on her man, the man should let her go because she'll never be the same in the relationship again.

[@sircefiro]

100%

[@michaelagyare6349]

True true and it’s my personal experience.so the lesson is men should not give up all of themselves to women…it doesn’t matter….it means nothing to women when they are not emotionally attached or connected to you ,they will only be pretending to love you but their feelings and hearts are saying something else and that’s makes women dangerous and wicked people.and as a matter of fact women are more heartless than men

[@OnderHassan]

"Don't let yourself get attached to anything you are not willing to walk out on in 30 seconds flat if you feel the heat around the corner."- Neil McCauley (Heat)

[@lostchilde8922]

Gangster asf

[@jononioo2857]

I literally just watched that movie the other day.

[@rodigan1974]

Almost 30 years later and I still haven't forgiven that mofo Waingro ...

[@daniellundquest8252]

Well you know for me? The action is the juice, I’m in

[@Hfgnb]

Don’t attach to the external.

[@omertaez]

If she is cheater dump her because she doesnt respect him anymore. Period

[@allmywdwrk]

When it comes to cheating always remember. “If they’ll do it with you, they’ll do it to you”. 💯 of the time. End of story.

[@LocPham-kw5ut]

Men should forgive, but keep their boundaries. If she cheat, give her the gift of missing you forever for the rest of her life. It's the only right move to do. Keep her then she will lose respect for you, be mad at her then she will lose respect for you. Send her away with love, that's all a man could do, there is no turning back once a woman choose to cheat.

[@charlie_remi]

@LocPham-kw5ut I agree why is it ok for a man to cheat but a women can't men don't like a taste of their own medicine cheating is wrong regardless of gender

[@dustinmezz461]

@@LocPham-kw5ut love this message, not forgetting this one 💯

[@DeathsInverse]

It's over if she cheats. That's all there is to it.

[@haywood0457]

Stop. When a woman has relations with another man, there is an emotional feeling and connection she likely has. For her to open herself up to another man and let him dip in waters is a huge issue because it’s difficult for women to move to the next at the flip of a dime. Men are more so able to have relations with little to no emotional attachment. I’m not absolving men or women from cheating. But to say what you said means you have very little understanding to our wiring as different sexes. There are DISTINCT differences between men and women.

[@nobleidowu4919]

​@@charlie_remi I think traditional, religiously and morally it's only right for a man to marry a woman or women and not the order way round. Men must be men and women must be in their place and space

[@arvijeffery6859]

Men forgive, if he has biological children with the cheating wife. When you say forgive, it really is partial, temporary forgiveness, so as to give the children a decent home environment. If he loses his temper and divorces her, she will tell the judge that she is a virgin saint, deserves primary custody, alimony, child support and any drug dealer guy she chooses, can move in with her and the husband's children. Just trying to help. Evo Psychology is essential, if one wants to understand these dynamics.

[@perpetualprocrastinator]

💯

[@iamjosephx]

Nah men forgive before they know how entitled women are outside and who’s gonna deal with taking women out & impress them & get yourself accepted by them & get to know them & play games with them etc so rather than going thru the whole hassle, they say they forgive but they actually ain’t good enough to replace the wife

[@arvijeffery6859]

@@iamjosephx Don't go thru the whole hassle. Divorce, and go MGTOW. You don't need them, unless you are weak.

[@hectorr6299]

I would rather be alone than in bad company.

[@sigm7a827]

Find a God fearing woman. That’s the answer.

[@stoundingresults]

AMEN! THE Church ladies are old school loyal.

[@ArizonaAirspace]

I think the reality is initial physical attraction fades over time. Unless there is an emotional connection to begin with, speaking for myself only, once the physical attraction goes away, it is very difficult to stay loyal. I think it is the same with women. I used to think we, as men, are more likely to cheat but my personal experience has been that women are more likely to cheat while in a relationship because she gets so many more temptations and offers from other men.

[@rabinraj15]

Agreed... We don't realize that women has evolved especially in the past 30 years... They’re a different breed & I'm not sure whether the available academic literature on the topic still covers the topic accurately.... 🤔 I highly doubt it, though 🤷🏽‍♂️

[@per_growth]

I agree with you completely. If you are expected to be sexually faithful to only one person for the rest of your life and that one person does nothing to stay physically attractive for you - I really can't see how this is fair. If she brings sex and sexual attractiveness to the table and you bring in money and security. Does it mean that if she fails at keeping herself physically attractive you can also stop providing for the family?

[@ArizonaAirspace]

@@per_growth No, not if you are in the hook by marriage especially if you have kids. You have legal obligations as well as moral obligations. I never married so I don’t have that problem, but I do get attached emotionally to a woman I’ve been involved with, many times to my detriment. I have a really difficult time detaching myself from a relationship that has gone sour because of guilt and sorrow over what could have been. Honestly, I don’t mind spending my money on a woman I’m attracted to because I enjoy beautiful women’s companionship more than anything really so that doesn’t bother me. I’ve never understood how some of these men can have one affair after another without feeling any remorse or guilt over the ending because for me when an love affair ends, it takes few years for me to recover. I never cared for body counts because it’s the quality of pleasure that matters to me, not how many.

[@godleveleldritchblast5257]

To everyone in this comment section, no the academic research says other wise to women evolving. They clearly show they haven't changed at all in the last 30 years. They haven't changed but for the factors of being lazier and more sly. It shows that they don't regret the action of cheating but the act of being caught cheating.

[@ArizonaAirspace]

@@godleveleldritchblast5257 Hahaha. I think you are right based on my recent experience.

[@themick6586]

If a woman cheats, the man needs to walk, leave her, leave the kids, scorched earth, give no support. Cheating is the ultimate disrespect and betrayal to a man, and if she cheated those kids might not even be yours.

[@mohithart3824]

All i heard was man's life ain't easy but we keep rolling.

[@compostdave]

Nobody cares about that though. We're just expected to keep rolling with no regard for the build up over the years. This is the problem in society nowadays, men have no outlets for their traumas. This is often self-imposed though. Men, if your friend had some sort of issue, would you let him vent and get it out so you could talk it through? 99% of men would say yes they would, but they wouldn't open up to their friends who are most likely in that 99%. But that's the expectation, shut up and keep moving. No wonder the MGTOW movement got so popular, loneliness is easier to deal with than bottled up traumas.

[@mohithart3824]

@@compostdave true.

[@jonpool9030]

Men don't forgive cheaters. We tolerate for different reasons but, but won't ever trust again

[@RandomUser25122]

But staying around just gives her the green light to cheat again and again. And she will do so because she no longer respects or wants to sleep with the guy she cheated on. Forgiveness pretty much makes you one step closer to being a cuckold, IMO

[@ChillOut1716]

There are so many levels to this. As a divorced man of a disastrous marriage involving a woman with a secret secondary life. The protective steps a man needs to take these days before saying “I do” needs to be an open topic. And let’s be honest , not all men are loyal either so the subject matter should be shared universally. Thanks to technology, social interaction with others outside the relationship is easier than ever and we all need to protect ourselves

[@per_growth]

"if you don't stay on top of your looks, your partner will lose interest in you". 100% spot on. Letting go of yourself, gaining 20lbs because you lack discipline to look good will make you less physically attractive. Period. You will be less attractive to your partner just like you will be less attractive to anyone else. It doesn't mean he won't love you - but why would you assume that your partner SHOULD FIND YOU PHYSICALLY ATTRACTIVE when you're really NO LONGER physically attractive?

[@tiacann2571]

I agree. Also if a man provides a lifestyle that he can’t maintain- that makes him less attractive as well.

[@per_growth]

@@tiacann2571 agree 100%.

[@postworld1185]

Nah - fat married women get hit on daily by others - maybe not their husband - so they cheat and blame it on their husband's lack of attention- because losers will fuk anything and validate a fat women so she never has to change. Husband loses because he has a fat wife and he loses because she's a cheater.

[@RandomUser25122]

The irony is that even if she puts on 20lbs she will still be able to find some Chad who will bang her just because she lets him. I suspect for guys who are 20lbs overweight it is the exact opposite.

[@dreday77764]

It’s funny how there’s next to no females in the comment section. Accountability really is kryptonite to women..

[@josephlawlor7458]

This woman is extremely intelligent.

[@henrydavis121]

An old man once taught me that divorce is so expensive because it’s worth it. Keep your old friends.

[@misaghkhosravi4541]

IF HEART IS NOT ENGAGED , NO ONE IS LOYAL :)

[@Dansyoung]

There are billions of people on the planet, no sense trying to make a relationship work with someone who has already established they are not trust worthy. If you have kids it even more reason to show them there is a time to walk away. The choice of being single is also a wonderful option. Being single is better than being with someone who has zero respect for you

[@per_growth]

I've seen first hand how a damaged famiily has affected the child. It is not a pretty sight - and I fear that won't get fixed anytime soon. Having kids is the same as having a 20 year sentence. If they become adults and can go about on their own - that's the only time I would freely leave. Other than that - I'm dad and I'm here for you no matter what.

[@Dansyoung]

@@per_growth Doesn’t work that way. You cause the children more harm by staying. It teaches them that it is acceptable to live in a toxic environment, they will mirror these relationships in their future.

[@anthonyvandenborre9823]

I am 40 years old and single. What i dont have i cant loose. A partner is never truely yours, there is never a guarantee.

[@BigHammerz]

Its better to have loved and to loose than to have never loved at all.

[@coolwater1573]

Why men self delete. Suffering in absolute silence and pain.

[@lsporter88]

I'd be careful with the idea that Men forgive more times than not. A Man with options is more likely to dump you and move on than deal with disrespect. If he doesn't have options, or confidence, that's probably why you cheated or thought you could cheat in the first place. But then the question becomes, why did you pick him in he first place if he wasn't your best option? Which leads to another point which is that many times, Women miscalculate or don't know what level of Man they can actually retain long term. You can get plenty of Men to sleep with you, even good looking or rich Men, but that doesn't mean that those Men are good for you, or will commit to you. More discernment and self awareness (introspection) needs to be developed in some Women. If you aren't sure (and sometimes you aren't) ask a Male Relative or Friend to help you evaluate the Man you're interested in. Don't let your pride or your passion keep you from seeking trusted Male advice. And if you don't have any Man that you trust, you should then ask why that is. Is there something you could be doing differently to change that? Because you need to. Great video.

[@daledisharon6015]

This is the ultimate level of disrespect some men may be able to forgive others are more primal and just will not accept the disrespect!!! Women who choose to do this better know which of these men they are married to.

[@godleveleldritchblast5257]

How to stop her cheating requires you to train her. Yes some of you would disagree but thats part of the requirement of a relationship. She needs to understand, she cheats you walk. That needs to be drilled into her head. Two you need to show her you are the dominant one, the leader and the captain. A cheating wife is one who has rebelled against your leadership and should not be dealt with. Basically, disrespect and cheating is akin to mutany.

[@simonthepukkapieman1387]

Forgive her for cheating and work out where your responsibility lies, be it choosing the wrong woman or acting weak but don't stay in a relationship with her, your asking for trouble if you do.

[@brucepowell7892]

Good job Sadia. I really b hearing ya

[@sircefiro]

I've never cheated even though I've had opportunities, it''s a behavioral thing, if they cheat, they're gonna do it again, if people wanna be with someone else, just break up with the person you f'ing weasels. If a woman cheated on me, zero chance we're getting back together.

[@johnblaze4464]

The ladies to smart and aware.

[@RaulGuzman-jo3nr]

No it's tough there's a difference

[@swanandpatil9675]

A relationship only works when one is willing to give more than himself to the other when both are invested in this way emotionally they put the other before themself it will be working as stated by sadhguru

[@RandomUser25122]

So forgiveness by the man will make things worse for him and she will most likely continue. No surprise there. - 30+ years in and more than a decade into a sexless ‘marriage’

[@toshioikene8200]

You know, it would seem easier to clean off a hotdog that someone spit on than to clean off a pizza/burger that someone spit in. Both are nasty, but one just seems dirtier than the other. Just saying...

[@RandomUser25122]

😂

[@billal-dz]

Sadia is like the sister of the internet for everyone who is single or need help with relationship 😀

[@krahzeekat6164]

Shes not interested in helping you. It's about her make up and fillers in her face.

[@MelanieMartinezxxx]

She’s hot

[@ypmm53]

I’ve seen “ men cheat and women betray.”

[@user-kv6cw5km8m]

How to have her loyal…. Listen to her needs. If she keeps telling you what she needs it’s not nagging, she keeps repeating because you’re not giving her what she needs!! Yes, I understand men want desire! So do women!! When a man desires another woman in public, online etc.. women lose desire after they see how easily another woman can distract a man from their “ loyalty” Stop the porn!! It’s killing relationships.

[@RandomUser25122]

I don’t like porn but him turning to porn is a sure sign that she isn’t fulfilling him, or something is missing in their relationship so this works both ways. She isn’t giving him what he needs. Modern women have people telling the, they look cute every time they post a photo so over time that tends to go to a woman’s head. That explains why 80% of US divorces are initiated by women. Sadly evidence is that many regret it when they find that the grass isn’t greener and social media Likes and comments do not translate into a replacement relationship.

[@shaunbuchanan9070]

💯

[@MrDoppiocazzotto]

How to have them loyal forever: 1. Have a great sexual chemistry (satisfy her multiple times, everyday) 2. have respect for yourself and don’t let her, nor anybody else, step on you. She will respect you too. 3. Stay in shape and don’t become lazy, especially after marriage. 4. Always try to improve as a person, husband and father. 5. Always try to be more competent and make more money. 6. Choose a wife material girl, even if she’s not a top model, even if she’s not perfect (nor you are). She will be the best wife for you, and the best mother you can give to your kids. Good luck

[@jamesapplegate3370]

My honest opinion understanding is everything but as humans we always want ownership in life we always have choices as a man once I give commitment I’m pretty much stuck there’s so many repercussions the deeper you get

[@edferguson8991]

Heard, she's a single mum, rich family, rumours? Either way advice is always beneficial

[@asifmuniruniverse7732]

Doesn't mean all but mostly

[@elizabethsolomon1254]

For many many years women forgave cheating only to be cheated on again. We kept saying may be this one is different but through the hard way we had to learn if he cheats it doesnot matter what type of relationship he had with his cheating partner he just said I don't value you or the relationship. Short term staifiaction is way more important sad but true.

[@nwezecharles806]

I don't agree with the fact that men forgive women more. In the past, men made fun of it, and in recent times, women made fun of it shamelessly as well. That doesn't mean that men forgive more. men do not forgive cheating. they leave or go have a happy home elsewhere. any man who forgives cheating has been doing it without remorse and is okay with it. Have a look at Will and Jada. Will only found out he made a mistake by allowing an open marriage because he wasn't always around or his wife cheated, and he wanted to cover it up with an open marriage. Men can't live with the imagination of his wife submitting to another man. If you say men forgive, then for how long will they live with it. That's the question. Men who forgive and live with it longer are the ones who their wives provide for them rather than the other way round. No man, who is the provider, forgives cheating. Please go and do your research and get back to me at the @sadia Khan podcast.

[@TomFox1]

3:05

[@doncoder13]

She always talk with not enough data or prove, is all based on 20 zoom calls she has done

[@stefanmatton8778]

So the same as 99% of feminists then😂

[@dustinmezz461]

If you have done empirical and theoretical statistical research, you would know that there are many studies not done yet and lots of research has many limitations. Sadia is how new research comes about

[@mohithart3824]

Most of her stuff makes sense of things which i am inexperienced, secondly when she spoke about escorts and men's feelings i was shocked, it was accurate, i never imagined someone would understand all that stuff you know, she knows stuff.

[@krahzeekat6164]

​@@dustinmezz461what are you saying? Do you even know what you're writing? Why should new research come out because of her? If she dares to make general and blanket statements, she needs to have solid data to prove them. Don't expect others to prove her theories. She refers to her channel as psychology, she better have solid statistical data to prove her so called psychology.

[@krahzeekat6164]

​@@mohithart3824it doesn't mean she's smart..it just means you are not smart and you don't know how to carry yourself with common sense

[@benjilachlan8314]

The audio is sooo bad.. 60 cycle hum is outa control. GOD while I love your work SK, this is unwatchable

[@manvirsandhu9315]

any man that has forgiven a cheating woman (idc if its just emotional cheating).... is not a man. He is a little naive boy with insecurities who doesn't have experience with woman nor a mentality of abundance.

[@joanesaduol9913]

She'll remember the forgiveness,not the betrayal 😢

[@BarrieFitzgerald-ch2rw]

By your title that means you no everywoman and there private lives or this a generic title

[@per_growth]

I disagree about "selfishly fulfilling the need elsewhere". If your needs aren't being met by the ONLY PERSON in the world you're allowed to get it from - then finding them elsewhere is hardly "selfish". If you're supposed to be loyal to your boat and ONLY your boat - and that boat happens to be sinking - you are allowed to jump ship.

[@javiermelendrez2462]

Bitch you think like a hoe.

[@rishabhsharma2804]

Hiw many people did you cheat on ? If your needs are being unmet and you are finding yourself attracted to other. Why not breaup ? Rather than lying and destroying two people.

[@FrankBendler]

Hey Sadia, yt tracks just 3 hashtags in your discribtion. Just for info ;-)

[@nigel7880]

Joe and Charlene Andersen are the new way to approach matrimony. 25+ year carnivores and look much younger than 66 and 51! When the ladies figure out this is the way to stay young, it's over. Sadia must see this for herself!

[@RaulGuzman-jo3nr]

I gain weight im k with it so men n ladys be happy I am as a man

[@stephenowen7180]

Why doesnt this get shutdown like Andrew Tate ?

[@ABUJ1000]

why forgive cheating. move on try again.

[@compostdave]

More men would do just that if the courts were as much on their side as they are for women. Men know if they move on they'll lose their kids and as shocking as it seems to be for people nowadays, men love their kids and don't want to lose them. Historically the courts have leaned towards "kids need their mom" when in reality it should be "kids need a stable parent" it doesn't matter which one is the "better" choice, the decision should be made based on which parent the kids will be more supported with. I've never seen a case where the courts sided with the dad outside of cases where mom was into hard drugs or was in jail etc. That is why men don't just move on.

[@user-tv1iw3ji3e]

Starting to look like it was she

[@Sakib-lb4iv]

OMG Sadia you are Amazing young women ❤️. 😂🎉❤witty giggle sweet woman. Ur hubby I'd fulfilling Ur expectations. Happy wife Happy 🏡 crown 👑 belongs to you 🏆

[@jeffproulx8584]

Get better locks. Throw her out the door and get someone younger.

[@user-pj9hh9gd3f]

Male and female can be loyal only when they are single.!!!😂

[@carbonfiberfan]

She does not miss! 🫡

[@1907senior]

What a feminist approach. If a woman cheats, she doesnt go back, but man does. Huh. As a man, if I start thinking to cheat on my girl friend or my wife, it means something is wrong with the relationship/marriege. Then I speak to her, if I am sure the problem will not be solved I inform her and I leave. I don't cheat. Cheating is for loosers. Cheating is fooling yourself. If a person, whether man or woman cheats, then it is all about their lack of personality and character. It DOES NOT ABOUT GENDER. Do not try to show that women are higher version of human kind. And Relationship/marriage is a commitment and has to be managed equally by each side.

[@bjorn1034]

Just a lot of bs that comes from a lady with no life experience..with no kids and no long-term relationship this lady is telling you a lot of crap..cannot believe how many that actually follows her..

[@jellyjams7217]

Learn poly amory and these problems go away.

[@LuxuriaLifestyle2]

I love Sadia Khan and respect observations however here she missed the ball completely. I disagree. Women accept cheating more then men. Most men would never accept a women cheat because they know there are feelings involved.