Why Women Demolish Men Who Give Them Validation | Stoicism - Stoic Legend

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Please leave your thoughts on these, thank you! 🎯 Key Moments: Why Women Demolish Men Who Give Them Validation 00:00 - DON'T SKIP 01:21 - The Hidden Dangers of Compliments 06:21 - Initiating Contact Signals Approval-seeking 10:47 - The Illusion of Certainty 15:23 - Your Time Is Your Greatest Asset 20:03 - Your Body Language Reveals A Silent Betrayal 25:04 - The Pitfall of Long Conversations 29:15 - When Gratitude Becomes Weakness 33:48 - Saying 'I Love You' Too Soon 38:55 - Adapting Detachment as the Key to Attraction 43:33 - CONCLUSION

[@AlleneScimon]

I was that guy who constantly validated my ex, and she ended up taking me for granted. It hurt, but it was a lesson I needed. Now I focus on building my confidence from within

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[@roderickray8116]

Stoic Legend must be psychic because this video is preaching today… wish I could go back and redo some decisions I made, but an extremely valuable lesson was learned. My young sons will learn the act of stoicism very early and they will know how to move forward, not only in relationships, but in life.

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Thank you so much for your kind words! 🙏 It’s amazing to hear that the message resonated with you today. We’ve all had moments where we wish we could go back and make different choices, but it’s those valuable lessons that shape who we become. It’s inspiring to see that you’re passing on the wisdom of Stoicism to your young sons. Teaching them resilience and the strength to move forward in all aspects of life will serve them well. Wishing you and your family much growth and peace on this journey!

[@AlphaWolfLegacy]

15:23 - Your Time Is Your Greatest Asset. Thanks for reminding!

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[@LauraleeRankins]

Giving a woman a compliment actually increases her attraction for you when she's trying to get your interest level up. Only give this reward when she's putting in the effort. It always worked for me.

[@StoicLegend_Official]

Great point! Compliments can definitely be powerful when given at the right moment, especially as a reward for genuine effort. It’s all about creating a balanced dynamic. Glad to hear it’s been working well for you! Thanks for sharing your experience-I'm sure others will find this insight helpful too. Feel free to share the video if you think it could benefit others as well!

[@tiborhorvath1702]

Don’t forget showering them with gifts too, that’s validation also.

[@AngeMarey]

The nearer a man comes to a calm mind, the closer he is to strength.

[@StoicLegend_Official]

Beautifully said! A calm mind is indeed a source of true strength. It’s incredible how inner peace can ground us, making us unshakable in any storm. Thank you for sharing this wisdom! What part of the video resonated with you the most?

[@stoicexcellencepath]

This video truly resonated with me, especially the idea that seeking validation through excessive compliments or actions only diminishes self-worth. It’s a powerful reminder to focus on inner confidence and let actions speak louder than words-something I’ll definitely apply in my relationships. Thank you for this eye-opening perspective!

[@StoicLegend_Official]

Thank for sharing!

[@RoxiAckson]

Solid content as always! I needed this reminder today. Time to reclaim my self-respect and stop seeking validation.

[@StoicLegend_Official]

Thank you so much for your kind words! 🙏 I’m glad the message resonated with you today. Reclaiming self-respect and stepping away from the need for external validation is such a powerful move. Keep taking those steps forward, and remember-you’re in control of your own peace. I appreciate your support, and I’d love for you to share this video with others who might need the same reminder. Wishing you strength on your journey! 💪

[@ЛукасМуравьёв]

I’ve been guilty of this in the past. I remember constantly trying to prove my worth to a woman I liked by validating her every chance I got. It didn’t work, and she ended up dating someone else who wasn’t even giving her half the attention I was

[@StoicLegend_Official]

Thank you for sharing your experience. It’s something many of us can relate to. It’s easy to fall into the trap of over-validating, especially when our intentions are good. But as you’ve noticed, less can often be more. Sometimes, giving space and valuing ourselves first creates the dynamic of mutual respect and attraction. Your awareness of this is already a huge step forward. Keep focusing on your growth, and remember that your worth isn’t tied to how much attention you give, but how much you value yourself. Wishing you the best on your journey!

[@StevenPenn-h1r]

Let them have their moments in the sunshine. The attitude changes when they hit the wall.

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Thank you for sharing your perspective! 🌞 Life does have a way of teaching its own lessons when the time is right. It’s all about embracing growth and understanding that every experience has something to offer. I appreciate you watching the video and sharing your thoughts! Feel free to spread the message by sharing the video with others, and let me know which part resonated with you the most. 🙏😊

[@DavidBarye]

I choose gratitude without neediness

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[@SouzaRodriues]

I choose patience and presence

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[@yosephsenbato6892]

Really I appreciate this thought and I am really interested to check every step of the course.thanks for your effort, time and commitments.... that you invite everyone who have the ability to go with in it.

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I'm so glad to hear that you found value in this! Your appreciation means a lot. Thank you for your kind words and for being open to exploring the steps of the course. I truly believe that anyone willing to dive in can gain a lot from it. Wishing you the best on this journey-please keep me updated on how it goes, and feel free to share your experiences with others who might benefit as well. 🙏🌟

[@CreaghCarek]

I love your videos. It is the way the information is presented step by step.

[@AemiOotsuki]

I’m tired of talking about how strange it is, that women react this way, and how baffling it is that they prefer to be treated poorly. From now on, I’m just going to do it, and damn trying to figure out why.

[@StoicLegend_Official]

Thank you for sharing your thoughts! I get where you're coming from - it can be exhausting trying to make sense of certain reactions. Instead of overanalyzing, sometimes it's better to focus on your own growth and stay true to your values. Remember, treating others with respect and dignity, regardless of the response, is ultimately a reflection of your own character. Keep focusing on being the best version of yourself, and the right connections will naturally come your way. Wishing you the best on your journey!

[@GorbunovaEdscer]

Great job. Thank you!

[@FelixOvie-ub3xz]

Thanks for your Video. This is happening to me right now. But I will retain my step now.

[@StoicLegend_Official]

You got this!

[@richardlopez8931]

Great video, thank you very much!

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[@MireilleMuslim]

You should never be attached to a woman. Always give her limited attention. She should fight for your attention through out the span of your whole life.

[@StoicLegend_Official]

Thank you for sharing your perspective! 🌟 I agree that maintaining a healthy level of independence and self-respect is essential in any relationship. However, it's also about balance. True connection grows when both partners feel valued and appreciated. It's not just about making her fight for your attention, but creating a space where both people genuinely want to invest in each other. What do you think about finding that balance? 😊

[@StantonFermi]

This was great thanks!

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Glad you enjoyed it!

[@jimnorris5095]

I am grounded and unshakable

[@riaanbreedt5490]

i don't give validation to anyone even to myself and if anyone close to me needs validation from me, it will not happen, i am not here to stroke someone's ego or their pride for that matter.

[@StoicLegend_Official]

Thanks for sharing your perspective! I appreciate your strong stance on self-reliance and independence. It’s true that not being dependent on external validation can help build inner strength and resilience. At the same time, offering genuine encouragement or support can sometimes be a way of strengthening bonds without feeding into ego or pride. It's all about finding the balance that aligns with your values. Thanks again for your input-it's great to hear different takes on this topic!

[@JasperYali]

I choose gratitude without neediness.

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[@AileyGoowins]

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[@JacobMeon]

Appreciate the content, but I think it’s important to remember that some women do value consistent validation and affection.

[@StoicLegend_Official]

Thank you so much for sharing your perspective! 😊 You're absolutely right-many women do value consistent validation and affection, and it's an important aspect of a healthy relationship. This video focuses on the balance between giving space and showing care, but your point highlights the need for understanding individual needs and communication. I appreciate you bringing this up! What other aspects do you think could be added to make it even more balanced? 🌟

[@БеллаЕфиова]

Gentlemen it's time to take charge of these cats or they will control us😂

[@PhilosophicStoic]

Instead of trying to gain attention and validation from women through compliments or actions, maintaining self-control, balance, and self-worth will create natural attraction. This not only reflects a confident man but also allows the relationship to grow based on respect and inner strength. The Stoic approach emphasizes focusing on what we can control-our thoughts, actions, and self-worth-rather than trying to control the emotions or actions of others. This not only improves relationships but also brings inner peace.

[@TheStoicBeacon-TGG]

Wow, such a clear explanation of the dichotomy of control! What do you think is the most misunderstood concept in Stoicism?

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As for the most misunderstood concept in Stoicism, I’d say it’s the idea of "indifference" or "apatheia." Many people think Stoicism teaches us to suppress emotions and become cold, but it’s actually about mastering our emotions and responding with reason, not simply ignoring our feelings. Stoics aim to experience tranquility by focusing on what we can control, not by denying emotions altogether. What do you think? Is there a Stoic concept you’ve found tricky to understand? Thank you for engaging with the video! Feel free to share it with others who might enjoy this discussion. 🙏

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[@PeytonBrambell-el8kh]

interesting video

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Glad you think so!

[@EnzaBianhi]

All this only works if she’s still in love with you or if she hasn’t already moved in…

[@RirisaMinami]

I like to think that I can’t function without my guy. He shouldn’t teach me that I’m wrong.

[@patohairclinic]

How to get a new girl friend?

[@ЕвгеийГригоьев]

Yes walk away she has someone else waiting.

[@oonojoe]

Conclusion: Get A Dog.

[@TajCrotty]

I choose patience and presence

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I choose gratitude without neediness.

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[@GaetanaLettiere]

I choose gratitude without neediness.

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[@BaeliKazag]

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[@BlakeMendelsohn]

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