Why Women Put Nice Guys In The Friendzone | How To Get Out Of The Friendzone

[@JostenJ]

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[@reggiebullock33]

How much for the him Hoodie?

[@Dru2maBoii]

If you're not getting what you want from a woman, you leave her alone. Your responsibility as a man in a woman's life is too great for you to accept any consolation prizes. Stop entertaining women who don't like you. You're playing yourself. And you're messing up the game.

[@jasondongoyoe702]

u said it all my g

[@MISTERPERFECT3806]

Straight like that 👊🏿

[@Yaruandromedano1998]

📖🙏

[@DariusW-2000]

I don't have women friends at all because I'm married to my beautiful wife at home.

[@mjsteward5508]

I had a female who friendzoned me was pissed when I stop calling and texting her when I told her that I want to be more than friends and she told me that she wasn't ready for a relationship so I said okay no problem so I ended up cutting it off and moving on with my life. She ended up calling and texting me so I ended up blocking her so she won't bother me anymore.

[@tercial]

The first guy needs to respect himself. He got to stop hanging with that girl

[@davidcp889]

Facts. Thank you sir

[@tokyo9766]

First impressions are truly everything with women. You come off as a guy who takes her on dates all the time and never let her pay, she's going to see how many she can get out of you.

[@JostenJ]

Facts

[@TheAlexLionheart]

I'm 35 and have had my experiences, but damn do I wish I would have seen this video back in high school. I would've saved so much time, learning things the hard way.

[@JostenJ]

The past is the past

[@trevonwilliams5197]

Facts

[@ubilambda]

Yo man, I watched your videos for couple of days and as soon as I entered the office the other day, everybody noticed the difference on my vibe and aura and commented positively on it! Thank you so much! We'll be HIM one day brother and it will be thanks to your priceless effort!

[@ShaddyraddyNY]

How you start is how you finish bros It's better to act as a lover than a friend.

[@wavestation999]

If you have self respect you will never enter the friend zone in the first place. Only deal with women who give you the energy you are looking for

[@JostenJ]

Exactly

[@krinkle7695]

Awesome video, I be was a dope by putting myself in an ex girlfriends friendzone. We would do all kinds of stuff together (shopping, eating dinner etc) finally I made a move on her and got rejected but I felt a weight off my shoulders. I then told her the friend thing isn't working for me etc... Everytime id hangout as friends I'd feel pathetic as I was driving home. Fellas it's much better to risk rejection.

[@JostenJ]

Glad you realized you were being a fool never let it happen again

[@juanchocorleone]

We've been all there. You learn from those cold experiences.

[@mjsteward5508]

Josten is right, I had to learn the hard way that I need to do better as a man by being directed and let her know what I want and if she doesn't feel that way then I cut it off and move on with my life. You don't have to lied to get a woman, just tell her what you want and leave it from there. I'm not afraid of rejection anymore.

[@jahbrae]

There’s literally no benefit of having girls as friends… they get you and all your greatness for free?! Nahhhh 😂

[@JostenJ]

Thanks for tuning in brother

[@4585329]

@@JostenJ I use some girls that dont like me for social proof, so other girls see me with them and think I'm used to beautiful women. I dont go out with them one on one and pay for their food or anything like that, I mean like in groups and such. What do you think?

[@rasheemthebestfirstone3274]

@@4585329just don’t play yourself bro

[@mjsteward5508]

​@@JostenJ Thanks a lot for helping men like myself get out of the friendzoned simping mindset.

[@FanHavenOFM]

​@@4585329 Same here bro! Have girl "besties" for social proof, but if you are really smart you can even use them for business for example O F and earn money together. Sometimes it shouldnt be all about sex, you can get hoes for that.

[@edwardlouiscruz]

Never been in the friendzone, although some have tried to put me there throughout the years. Fellas, please stand on your principles and beliefs!!!! The thought process is simple… If she isn’t contributing to the process of your progress, giving you sexual attention, and/or making your life easier in some way… NEXT. No if’s, and’s, or but’s about it. There’s literally no point in being a friend with a woman.

[@dudleyviban2764]

That’s what I tell my acquaintances.

[@mjsteward5508]

I been in the friendzoned one time but I ended up letting her go and moving on with my life because I told her how I felt and she told me that she wasn't ready for a relationship so I said okay and cut it off.

[@mjsteward5508]

I used to been one of those nice guys who got friendzoned but videos like this help me got out of the friendzoned simping mindset.

[@AndrewMycol]

One of the biggest pieces of advice I heard recently, and it helped me get out of the "nice guy" phase is: Don't be desperate. Women can tell if you're trying to get a girlfriend just because you want a girlfriend. Guys, if you get to know her a little bit and you can tell she doesn't like you the way you like her, move on. Yea you can still be friends, but don't be this super nice guy just to get that same girl to like you back.

[@mattd5121]

chick ive been seeing for a bit now decided to meet up with me last night even tho i told her i had the corona... when women have high enough interest there literally nothing they wont do for you

[@extrabaron]

The first video was sad honestly

[@JostenJ]

And nobody’s going to comment on his goofy ass for allowing the bullshit the comments are only going to blame her it’s hilarious

[@NickM_FirstofHisName]

Was it? The truth should open his eyes. She was open and upfront, he knows where to put his attention and energy now!

[@NickM_FirstofHisName]

​@@JostenJExactly! He did that to himself!

[@The-DAWG957]

The guy is a brainwashed nice guy lol, he should have walked away as she said no but his mangina wouldn't allow him.

[@NickM_FirstofHisName]

@@The-DAWG957 I hope he breaks his attention flow toward her as soon as the camera is over. Don't worry, these chicks red medicine these guys. Some need a stronger dosage...but don't worry, he'll come to it.

[@DariusW-2000]

I learn to get out of that friendzoned simping mentality. Thank you Josten for these advices.

[@Kareem_Alcindor]

Better to voice your desires and be denied so that you may move on to someone who can appreciate you, than to accept a place of limbo and mediocrity that will never get you to where you want to be with a woman. S Tier advice right here, my ninja! 👍

[@JostenJ]

Thanks for tuning in

[@anderwsa]

Don't think it's any different if you've got a wife. Be aware what's going on or you'll end up there too

[@JostenJ]

Thanks for tuning in

[@dengmayol2800]

You deserve more subscribers Josten, you always dropping valuable info. Guys let’s get him 1 million subscribers by next year🙏🏾 let’s go boys let’s go💯💯

[@JostenJ]

It’s not about the subscribers bro it’s all about the message just pay attention to the message.

[@dengmayol2800]

Thanks brother for the good work wish you more success.

[@sk8mafia214]

Forget the friendzone, you are in the quantum realm good-buddy

[@Zhello79]

And it is inter connected to with the phantom zone and shadow realm. You attempt to escape, you unexpectedly enter the other one.

[@yungt320]

Merry Christmas Josten🎅🏼🎄

[@JostenJ]

Happy holidays brother

[@Celadil]

Im so glad I discovered your channel Josten, you're like the big brother every man needs! much love

[@JostenJ]

Thanks brother

[@jamowicc]

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[@JostenJ]

That’s what I’m here for

[@skipspeakonit2911]

This is the type of game I needed when I was younger but it's still right on time to make me a better man that's on top of his game! Thank u💯

[@Mustache_14]

Man the first clip is just brutal man

[@JostenJ]

He did it to himself

[@Mr82sizzla]

Big Bro Josten J, again spitting out them FACTS!! 👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿

[@BrandonHayes-db5dv]

Wise worlds from a wise brotha thanks bro

[@JostenJ]

That’s what I’m here for

[@TheMindofRobert]

IM VERY CONFUSED. I have a coworker I’ve know for about 9 months. Didn’t like her at all at first. After we began working closer together I developed strong feelings. I started giving kinda "boyfriend energy". Eventually I just told her how I developed these feelings. She never gave me a definitive answer back. She never said "I don’t see you that way" or "we’re just friends". She just said she was "ok with me liking her". We still talked and worked together like normal. Then she eventually found me on Instagram and followed me. She even talk about making plans to hangout together after work. But then it all kinda faded. I told her I wasn’t getting the kind of attention I wanted and unfollowed her. She said she was ok with that. Then she still tries to act and talk like things are normal on the job. I’m very confused by her. There’s some good advice in this video.

[@kazami5699]

It is alright to be a nice good man as i believe there were good woman out there . If a woman who only know how to take advantage of nice man and friendzone them don't deserve your time

[@jking23258]

Great video and perspective i find myself as the friend guy and everything you said its so accurate i just went full no contact with all of them having women friends isnt beneficial at all its not worth it

[@SuryakanthPawar-o6o]

Bro u r doing really great job...this one video is enough for the boys to save their money, time and energy from girls who play friendzone games...its better to be direct and get rejected then to be indirect and get played by our wallets....keep making videos brother....love from INDIA...

[@doubleg1878]

This is one of your best vids Josten. All facts great work!

[@JostenJ]

Thanks brother

[@bobbyoriaikhi3272]

Bro I’m 20 and I’m ngl I think you saved my love life. Bro your advice turned me into a new man. I know how to deal with women better now

[@Mr82sizzla]

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[@johnnycage8327]

Maaan i really felt sorry for that dude in the beginning lol.

[@JostenJ]

Why? He did it to himself

[@gaget5455]

I don’t feel bad for him. He’s a beta

[@Humblewon]

Bro got friendzoned in a moncleezy 😭 💀. He got drip doe just gotta toughen up 💪

[@JostenJ]

Clothes don’t make the man

[@captainmarvel-fp9wj]

Love the content all facts 💯

[@JostenJ]

Thanks G

[@SeanMusumba]

Appreciate you Josten for this high quality content.

[@JostenJ]

That’s what I’m here for

[@Tayte25]

Facts bro 💯 we uplift. Him Gang & happy holidays

[@JostenJ]

My brother 👊🏾

[@mikhailcrawford1165]

If u ask a girl to hang and shes no.. thats being direct enough to just walk away right?

[@JostenJ]

Idk bro I talk on these videos for no reason apparently

[@antlopez6179]

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[@juanchocorleone]

The answer is YES! Don't stay with a woman that gives you 0% interest. Walk-away!

[@HeBinShootin]

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[@edwardlouiscruz]

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[@dosemulero3963]

LET’S COOK!!!HAPPY HOLIDAYS HIM GANG💯

[@JostenJ]

Happy holidays brother

[@Roby48068]

Thanks a lot for sharing the knowledge and the game J! Happy New Year bruh and to all the other bruhs!

[@robertleehendersonjr]

Is she walking around campus with a guy that is not her boyfriend…

[@Ehremah]

Truth💪🏼

[@JostenJ]

💯

[@TheDon6]

Fax

[@michaelwalton8549]

I’ve been in the friend zone with this chick for like a month or so now and there was a point recently where we hung out and it was an intimate moment. I missed out on the opportunity to take it further and didn’t realize until the morning after. I’m worried that I missed out on my one opportunity and that I won’t be able to get in the same situation again. I’m debating on just letting things go with the flow or trying to keep up with the chick.

[@Stefan-vc2ef]

When you say intimate do you mean you kissed her or what?

[@Kutboyz256]

Can’t be on the bench I’m not Lou will!!

[@scorpion32]

How in the hell did the first girl get soooo arrogant? Wtf?

[@gaget5455]

How was she arrogant? The guy was a beta soy boy. He did it to himself. Her friend zoning him wasn’t wrong. Man yall just love to blame women who are keeping it real.

[@gaget5455]

Tell me how she was arrogant? If anything the dude was a clown. It isn’t her fault for being open and upfront. The guys clearly a beta simp. He did it to himself.

[@scorpion32]

​@@gaget5455just cos he is a simp doesn't mean she had to act like a diva and disrespect him. If the roles were reversed you wouldn't say the same

[@Arvidje]

@@scorpion32 thats the whole problem.. woman have no respect for guys in their friendzone only.. they onlu use them as an emotional tampon..

[@trapped-ion]

Thanks

[@bigplb2133]

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[@Freethinker_94]

I had a girl at work months ago that I liked she was decent looking just started working there so somebody told me her birthday was coming up so I didn't pay it no mind at first but I got her a card for her birthday a month later asked for her number she gave me a fake number when asked about it she said are you sure it was fake I left it alone for a minute months past with mixed signals and all that Back and forth until last month I had one last talk with her she basically said she doesn't like that people are pressuring her to be with me and also she doesn't date people at her job so after that I hardly speak to her now women make rules for guts they don't like smdh

[@Freethinker_94]

Oh ran into her today didn't say nothing just Kept walking

[@Arvidje]

@@Freethinker_94 she has no romantic interest in you.. she wanted to get rid of you.. again a woman that likes u makes it easy to meet up.. never talk to her again, is she is reaching out to u somehow.. say what u want if u dare or just ignore..

[@joaquin3768]

Hey guys im in my path but im 26yo without sex experience bc PMO, im 1year without p*rn an 2months without mastrbtion. Still afraid of aproaching women w sexual intentions. But my life has gone far beyond i imagined to be since i start my music carrer and things in my life are getting better and better, my social circle my finances and work, muy new friends. Some advice in the field of women? Im realizing im always have been a simp, My english is not the best im from argentina. Thanks Josten and this crew

[@edwinmoya8042]

The first guy and girl clip is too brutal. That kid gets totally slayed. It's good to start learning early, though. Rather get done in like that so you start getting how women work and how you are to relate to them. The friendship thing is never really there, there's always sexual tension, no point in pretending otherwise.

[@VINCENZOMENTORING]

Dope

[@JostenJ]

Thanks G

[@GodsProphet23]

Yo i applaud this topic guys need to understand if theres no attraction its just extraxtion theres nothing you could do to make a women who naturally dont like you only use you for attention and validation let your intentions be known straightforward of rip i used to get asked this in high school. How do you get out the friend zone? It's simple you're not never her friend, if there's no mutual interest you need to move on Men are made to procreate in nature Not be platonic with a female its goes against gods divine order self respect fellas purpose over pleasure🫡👑

[@StaticbeyfrmSemoran]

Peace Titan👏🔥

[@mikepierucci8353]

Someone answer asap, should I tell her over text? Would if she’s my best friends, best friend and had a boy friend but I’m pretty sure wants me?

[@KACHKATV]

Cannot understand women idea what bad boys are good and cool. Being asshoule and apathy is not hard and pretty simple, no effort need to be like that, thats why girls average bodycount 20. But being empathy and have power to be polite to some shit, it is need real power and will. Wtf?

[@TiGA-g3t]

What if she just wants something "casual"....f..k buddy situation...

[@joimonae4090]

Because they are waiting for chad

[@islandboy1505]

lmao dude talking bout “ we vibing man fr “ shit sad out here gang

[@mikejohnston7111]

👑

[@JostenJ]

HIM GANG!

[@fabioaguirre1918]

How can contact you?

[@fredericbouh4955]

Once you're in the Friendzone, setting your truth and the frame could get you out of it and change her mind?

[@JostenJ]

Why would you need to change a woman’s mind if she likes you… she doesn’t like you just leave her alone it’s simple. You shouldn’t need to change a chicks mind about you that’s weak.

[@fredericbouh4955]

@@JostenJ ah ok, respect and accept the opinion she has IS the better way to spare energy thoughts and time

[@jorgethecoach]

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