Why you “can’t find” a Traditional Man

[@krystanicoleeee6022]

Girl EXACTLY! Once I dove into inner work more and more, I realized that I am more a traditional woman. The hook up culture is DUMB and full of people who desire more than hookups but hide behind hookups. I had to really take a TON of accountability, but now I appreciate the polarity of relationships and masculine/feminine energies! This year all the men who have approached me literally either stepped up or got cut off lol, and even from the jump I have men who will pay for little things like gas, groceries, nails, etc.

[@feraluxe]

yesssss baby!!! i love seeing women step into requiring more - the secret is, it uplevels both us AND the men!

[@krystanicoleeee6022]

@@feraluxe I love seeing that too!! and girl RIGHT that really is the secret! Keep up the wonderful videos! You are doing great!

[@mikesteelheart]

You're not a traditional woman, you're demanding traditional privileges while offering none. It's called being a gold digger.

[@RR.LL.3B]

@@mikesteelheart they aren’t married how is she supposed to show him she’s traditional except from loyalty?

[@RR.LL.3B]

@Mabus Nero hey incel 👋🏼

[@DzikiFinansista]

Great video. I think it's extremaly important to promote those ideas in today's world. Thank you, man from Poland :)

[@Lavender3333]

So happy I came across your channel! It's so rare I encounter like-minded young women like you. Thank you, your videos are in alignment with my views. I appreciate your insight and advice. Many blessings your way ✨

[@naomiwinter9468]

I totally agree with you 100%! I think what refrain some women from accepting traditional and conservative men is the fear that some of them might be supportive of the extreme right wing political movements which sometimes include white supremacists. As a black woman living in Belgium, I know that my journey on dating traditional men is sometimes complicated because some of them have a problematic vision on dating a non white woman (fetishising me happens a lot too). Until now, I've been treated more seriously and traditionaly by international men (non european) working in my country. This situation shouldn't stop us women from not accepting less than a man who claim traditional values but the reality of not being treated the same way by some men who value more white women than others can be hard to live, especially in Europe (or U.S.A?) where it's the majority of people. I'm not a victim but I cannot ignore this tendancy which can discourage other women. I love your videos ! ❤️ Sorry for my English (my mothertongue is French).

[@cynbod]

Je te comprends tellement...les hommes tradi en Europe sont vraiment fermés et conservateurs...en gros il faut être née dans la bonne famille, avec le bon nom déjà...vouloir 3-4 enfants etc etc..

[@tristessesdelalune]

C’est drôle parce que je suis aussi noire et je vis aussi en Belgique. Je peux vraiment me voir dans ton message.

[@enzogalante5986]

The men you are talking about are not traditional men, they are simply fascists.

[@JosieJHVS]

Keep these videos coming 😍 Women need this guidance more than anything right now!!

[@WeRNthisToGetHer]

I love her pep talks, but honestly I am just thinking, "Easy for her to say, she's so gorgeous!" I know that is not just it, though. I'm 40 now and have more self-worth than I did when I was younger and prettier. What she is saying is true. I feel like she understands the lost art of divine femininity. I wish I figured this stuff out when I was younger. I wasted so much time and energy throwing my pearls at swine and compromising my values to please men.

[@MB-xv7er]

Well beauty and youth do matter. Masculine men value youth and beauty and then value your morals next. I married a masculine man and my beauty was the first to magnetize him to me. Older women naturally will struggle to land top tier men because you’re competing with very gorgeous women

[@MB-xv7er]

@Sayin wat false

[@vaibhavjoshi6319]

you are truly a Girl who knows whats real women empowerment is and you also know about your traditional value Best of luck I wish your channel grow more

[@bethventuresx8283]

At this point I truly believe that any man who complains about the traditional wife, just wants to be the traditional wife. Because that is NO husband.

[@tobiaslawrence8928]

Please explain?

[@bethventuresx8283]

@Tobias Lawrence no

[@JohnatonSemore]

What exactly do you mean by complain about the traditional wife

[@bethventuresx8283]

@JohnatonSemore someone who doesn't see the value in their wife just because she doesn't bring a dollar amount into the home/take for granted all she truly does for the partnership, home, children ect., it's very saddening.

[@JohnatonSemore]

Ah I understand

[@basicinfo2022]

A video on indicators of a genuinely traditional man would be helpful too and spotting toxic men who pretend they are traditional in the first couple of dates.

[@SmartestDumbGuy]

Guys who aren't prepared to be sole providers shouldn't be considered as a partner. The whole point of a man is to be a provider. He is failing his role as a man. Guys are leveling up on a video games, watching sports, doing hobbies instead of becoming what a man is supposed to be... security, and provision. They do it because you gals still hookup with them anyways. Women need to up there standards. You only care about dumb crap like height and looks. Guys need to up there standards for women, and women need to up their standards for men. Hookup culture made everyone pathetic and gross. I'm sorry ladies and no offense... but I judge women based off of who they dated. I can't accept you after I know you were with that guy. If you want a confident accomplished guy who thinks highly of himself, then your past absolutely matters. Only low quality Guys with low confidence and low accomplishments don't care about your past. An incredible woman broke up with me, and 1 year later she came back (couldnt handle me challenging her, so thought grass was greener). I found out who she was with, and it completely changed my view of her. I thought so highly of her before, but not anymore. Respect yourselves. Your lowering your value by putting yourself out there. That's why you end up with the 50 50 type Guys. No impressive man gives a crap about paying. I love taking a woman out and giving her unique experiences. I can buy anything, but I can't buy true feminity. However no impressive man is going to lower himself after he hears about your past. If he respects himself, he can't do it. Unfortunately I've had to let down so many beautiful women in my life because their past matters. If you date that loser, it also means your a loser. So clean it up and respect yourself. YOU ARE WHO YOU DATE! You don't have testerone so why is it so hard to keep yourself pure? Stop hurting your future husband.

[@accountant02130]

Excellent !!! in summary ... relationships are reflective .....

[@RR.LL.3B]

Dump crap like heights and looks ? Yeah like you would date an ugly woman that’s taller than you cmon dude you know it isn’t dumb

[@bethventuresx8283]

Can I question you for a moment- you're telling women to clean up and get up essentially. Do better. What is your opinion on a woman who had a messy past, but has since truly uplevelled her life. Let's say for example, become celibate for 3+ years, gone to therapy, entered true femininity and healed. She HAS done better for herself, she took accountability for her past and changed- is it too late in your eyes because she was once a different version of self? Or has her actions and new self made her deserving enough to find someone with equal standards?

[@zephorazonum]

You are so beautiful and inspirational to me. Much love Sister 🤍❄💫

[@chunli2586]

I'm so happy i discovered your channel🥺

[@feraluxe]

❤️❤️

[@0l0l00l0]

Me too

[@yzma6142]

how do I stop attracting men who value my ambition... I don't advertise my job but I keep running into men who are successful themselves but keep saying they want a woman who is equally as driven career-wise... I don't understand it.

[@yzma6142]

@@4everflow I do not have sex with them (I’m waiting until marriage and they know this), and they still pursue me… I’m confused

[@yzma6142]

@Sayin wat I'm not saying equally SUCCESSFUL but they keep harping on about ambition and they don't count wanting to be a SAHM as ambitious.

[@christineanderson92]

You are so wise! 💕

[@feraluxe]

ty!

[@QueenQueenly]

Love traditional men

[@Poison_Orchid]

I agree with you but there is some problem then for women who don't want to have children and family, and its ok for them to be just in couple with their man (for example I am a childfree and this is my situation). So the problem is that traditional men are always want children and even demand it. As for me its so terrible than I would rather be alone, haha) May be this looks crazy and weird, but I m afraid of traditional men because they need children and see women as mothers. And I never wanted to be a mother since my childhood. So I think I discovered right now the second reason why some women dont want to be with traditional men and play feminine role.

[@jakejalbertdirectorofphoto2345]

Great content!

[@timwo1f]

What a based young lady

[@feraluxe]

🙏

[@mareemirkovic6273]

How do you think masculine men want women to contribute to the relationship?

[@feraluxe]

they desire feminine energy

[@TheAGODAMI]

🎯 *Damn right.!! ThinK oF iT this way (you can learn a lot from animals) watch a female cat when she saddles up to a chosen maLe now observe as heR feminine energy and prowess is on fuLL display and this in turn spurs him on and activates his inherent masculine qualities and powers & then weLL aFTeR thaT NaTuRe undoubTedLy taKeS iT naTuRaL course as iT aLWaYs shouLd be.!!* 😉

[@David-ej1ps]

@@feraluxe that doesn’t answer the question though…? 😒

[@MailmanNick]

Being his peace, caring for him, support him.

[@AfsanaAmerica]

I think if women want to be a traditional house wife/home maker and expect their husband to provide a fancy life then they would need a lot of value because it's not a hard job. If they have so much value then why aren't they doing something else. Even though house wife/home maker is like a job some women aren't comfortable with depending on their husband for money. The traditional values of masculine and feminine roles in society/life is nature's design such as women taking care of children and men working. A person who enjoys having sex with multiple partners isn't high quality. High quality individuals look for different types of connections for sexual attraction. Cheating in a serious relationship/marriage is betrayal so it's better to move on. I think when couples try to work it out they can't get back to the way it was but that also depends on the person.

[@nikki7168]

Are you married yourself?

[@LiaBunny93]

I agree 100%

[@feraluxe]

[@g_factking]

Look like women want handouts. Like kim kardashian said "get your F word ass up and work." The smartest thing that woman said. Inflation sky rocket, wages stagnant. You need 2 incomes

[@isabella6075]

Quoting Kim Kardashian wow you really dense

[@Pay5699]

😂 sorry but the Kardashians would be the last people I would ask for advice.

[@Poison_Orchid]

@@Pay5699especially when you know how they' ve got their rich lifestyle)

[@RR.LL.3B]

@@Pay5699 it’s still relevant though you need two incomes lol