Why You Might Be Attracted to Bad Boys

[@benjaminreyes3624]

When you don't love yourself. You'll chase those who don't love you either

[@kamigriff]

Preach Benny

[@anthonyhenderson8371]

True

[@whoareyou6821]

You are so right👀

[@himyrisa]

Damn

[@fantaesy7791]

Amen Jeannie and Tamera. There's a difference between someone being nice and someone being a pushover😄

[@nmessai215]

Dats a paddlin feminist call that toxic masculinity nowadays smh

[@valadina4477]

I like nice guys with a backbone, a kind-hearted smart Nerdwith a lil thug in-em😌😍

Vala Dina females don't know what the hell they want 💯✌️

[@mojjim2177]

Nice doesn’t mean nerd though

[@yanikphillip9463]

Where u found him sis? Lemme go get one

[@valadina4477]

@@yanikphillip9463 we were childhood friends, our story is almost like the movie The Notebook. He is literally a genius, he scored 500 on his SSAT to get into college, meaning he got every answer right and he has two doctrines, he works for a major corporation and own his own business, he has two jobs 🤗. I'm telling you, Nerds are the way to go but a humble and kind nerd🤗 he has a brother who is the president of the South Florida branch of Bank of America, and Gracie FFFFINE but unfortunately he is married to a bitch😫 I can't wait till he divorce her😁

[@andreaexceedsrubies]

Vala Dina Yes!!!!! I am with you on that type of guy :)

[@riyyahinglis3148]

I absolutely agree with Jeannie. I was thinking that before she even said it. I can't stand it when people let others do what they want with them.

[@minasbaguette889]

@ You've commented this multiple times, you seem obsessed with Jeannie

[@ayjaybay93]

MinasBaguette seems? Nah definitely is lol it’s like he thinks if he calls her a whore enough times she’ll actually become one and then sleep with him. Weird and psychotic

[@LGSN96]

@ *seek help*

[@brittanyreid4855]

Denisha Explodes into the World Luke Perry aka Dylan McKay was a bad boy on Beverly Hills 90210

[@CourtGeorgee]

Remember when loni said “nice guys are boring” when they talked about this 2-3 years ago with Tamar? 😂 I’m glad she got herself a nice guy. James seems so sweet to her! This show is a place of growth

[@dilekben]

I had just watched that randomly a few hours ago lmao

[@CourtGeorgee]

A I hahaha I know

[@KeepinItOneHunnnid]

That's called a simp! You're in a relationship with a woman that went on record to say guys like you are boring.

[@FoxyChariot]

@@KeepinItOneHunnnid I see someone sees reason

[@GArmand715]

@@KeepinItOneHunnnid so he was spending money on her and not getting nothing in return ?? If it was even how is he a simp I would like to know just bc you’re nice and stuff doesn’t make a guy a simp you can be nice and all and still be alpha

[@ms.beautiful]

Ciara has a kid with bad boy Future and now she will have to deal with him for the REST of her LIFE!! Her son has a million other siblings because Future wants to be a ROLLING STONE!!

[@ms.beautiful]

@Danielle, That’s STILL dealing with him!! From parent teacher conferences and seein him when Future wants to pick up their son! Not to mention that Future and Ciara will BOTH be at their son’s wedding if he gets married and they will SHARE GRANDCHILDREN!! Ciara is STUCK with that Man for the REST of her life!!

[@daniellefennell3877]

@@ms.beautifulyour right but not in the same way she would have if she wasnt married or if she was still with him or still in love with him. When u wrote that it made me feel like you were saying her life was going to be miserable or whatever because it doesnt have to be at all. We deal with ppl everyday at work or family we dont like. You kust have to remember nobody in this world has any power over your life except for God!

[@daniellefennell3877]

Blended families are oh so normal!

[@kekeliams7489]

@miss beautiful I can totally relate...@Danielle fennel I think it's the mentality@miss beautiful means so even tho they have dnt have to deal with each other they still have to regardless I.e if the child comes home saying daddy did things this way or that way and she dnt agree they have to relate somehow like his state of mind will definately affect the woman somehow because it may reflect on the child till the child is adolescent so either way.its for life directly or indirectly that connection is there always

[@specialk1823]

The Black race isn't the only race with children born out of wedlock & the males can wrap it up b4 they give it up.

[@moonie0813]

"Make sure you're independent and not codependent. " That's the real takeaway 🙌💯

[@moonie0813]

@VADOR 93 periodt!!

[@anthonyhenderson8371]

NO RETURN or parental assistance

[@zubh3860]

Thank You Guys! There is a DIFFERENCE being Kind and Considerate and just straight up being Passive, Soft and a Push Over. Learn the difference 🙌🏿

[@urbanopinionatedpodcast-wi4328]

This one of those subjects where women tell you what they think you wanna hear, but do or continue to keep dating the same type of bad boy etc

[@zahraenn]

It's shame being nice is seen as a weakness amongst all people, not just guys. There's nothing wrong with a nice guy/girl.. they too can be fun, exciting but will also treat you well!

[@Tomorrison28]

At the end of the day Humans are animals.

[@knivez786]

@Mario Kratt What kind of vegetable 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@bishaldhakal8141]

I don't think nice girls are treated badly. Where did you get that idea from?

[@AM-re3ik]

YES Jeannie speaking truth. You can be nice and considerate and still have a backbone. And I'm with Adrienne, I hate the fake nice.

[@anthonyhenderson8371]

A M I’m nice and self confident

[@courtneypillay2606]

Nice is being loyal, trustworthy, promise keeper, someone who loves Jesus and is humble

[@michellegarcia6302]

Courtney Pillay someone who love Jesus ain’t alway nice.

[@BoujeeBwiththeTea]

"Someone who loves Jesus" 😂 if he truly loves God, he will treat you right

[@QueenaCobra]

See here’s my thing when it comes to nice guys. Yes we need more nice guys. We need more guys that are courteous to women. But what I’m tired of seeing are all these “nice guys“Declaring that they are nice guys. If you’re a nice guy you don’t need to walk around telling everybody you’re a nice guy. The people who walk around saying that they’re nice guys are actually the ones pretending to be nice. People can see when you were a nice person but when you keep telling everybody that you’re a nice person it starts to downplay what you’re saying like you’re playing a role

[@xtelfolaj]

That's my thing. There is a different between a good guy and nice guy. A good guy is someone who treats women like queens, are confident and not desperate. Nice guys are the ones who are usually the friends, and get mad when you dont like them back because they are nice to you. They always showing their boyfriend resumé to every female. And crying on social media how they are nice and dont get picked.

[@cookiegirl891]

Kayla B FACTS

[@kaylaburse6319]

Wow at first, I thought this was my comment lol

[@QueenaCobra]

Agatha jay If a woman feels she has to dress talk or act a certain way that has nothing to do with the man that has everything to do with her self. If you love yourself and except yourself than that exudes from your body and the right man will come to you. When you walk around better or angry then you drive people away. But my comment can be said in reverse because just like men walk around talking about how they’re nice guys and you don’t need to do that if you are actually a nice guy women do the same thing they walk around talking about how they’re sweet and kind and loving to all these men and they get fucked over but every time they keep telling everybody the kind of person they are it makes it not as strong of a case. And as a person if you’re developing resentment towards a whole group of people because of how a couple people have interacted with you You’re at a stage in your life you shouldn’t even be in a relationship because you need to work on yourself first because if you’re having those feelings of resentment towards a group of people you’re not in a good spot for a relationship.

[@pinkstar9430]

Kayla B so true I met a guy like that before he was full of it. And he tried hard to be chivalrous. Idk and he liked to go tik for tak which was corny as hell.

[@ms.beautiful]

If you get with a bad boy and get PREGNANT or and STD; you have nobody to blame BUT yourself. Women get BURNED all the time; trying to chase and get with those type of men. Only to be holding BAGGAGE after the relationship ends!!

[@daniellefennell3877]

Women have to regain their power. No person should have that much power over YOUR LIFE SORRY NOT SORRY!

[@conjunction7959]

Come on somebody! 💯

[@tianamiller6820]

I'm sure a lot of girls and women who have experienced such realise this after their situation is over. Instead of making them feel worse than they already do, extend kindness and words of encouragement.

[@Aquamayne100]

@@daniellefennell3877 And then they want a nice guy that will take them with all their baggage lol

[@anthonyhenderson8371]

Ms. Beautiful just like Ike and Tina

[@dimplepascua3921]

Yeah, don't be with the guy that needs "fixing". They ain't never gonna be fixed.

[@lissaa.6827]

dimple pascua my grandmother made that mistake 50 years ago she still regrets it.

[@oil1252]

Well maybe you should fix that awful thing you call speech

[@bryanbeeman5256]

To one person, you might be nice. To another, you might be a pushover. Just find someone that you compliment and that person compliments you.

[@indianajosephine4881]

First part is so true

[@valerie4912]

Pleeeeeaaaaase be nice, kind, caring, respectful, considerate, and self aware!

[@hampushaglund4613]

every girls says this. but still goes for the guys that only wants sex

[@airikkalerofficial]

@@hampushaglund4613 thats the fucking girls own issue lol. and not "every girl" says that, none of that "all girls are the same" incel bullshit. most girls who chase bad boys are prob not that high value themselves.

[@elizabethd112]

I'm a sucker for good boys 😍 a gentleman on the streets and a freak on the sheets yes that's my type haha

[@cookiegirl891]

Elizabeth D yes ma’am 😋😋😋 same ! 😍

[@ManPursueExcellence]

Hahaha 😂

[@lilly304304]

Elizabeth D yes😍😍 I also like those shy/quiet guys who are low key freaks

[@FoxyChariot]

@dante inferno My boy has been studying the AMS. Good job, Padawan.

[@cloakofanonymity]

I was dumped for a "bad boy" actually BOYS. I guess being responsible, going to work, paying bills, always being where you're supposed to be, not drinking or smoking, not being a party animal, being a good father etc.... is rather boring to (most) women. I value being disease free and not knowing what a prison is like or the backseat of a police car.

[@bookbag6432]

There is no such thing as being “too nice”. I think some guys are just push overs and not assertive so they are a turn off. But being nice and polite I doubt would turn anyone off.

[@SeychelleSunshine]

This is why I'm happy to say I didn't fall down the bad boy path that many women in my family and in every neighborhood I've lived in tend to fall into. I was never interested in them. Most people who grow up in generational trauma end up heading right down the same road or worse; a few end up running the opposite direction but it's much less common. I was determined to not put myself through the same soul-crushing stress, anger, resentment, degradation, and pain I saw/see everywhere. I am not about the struggle love life at all; seeing my brother's father emotionally do my mom dirty while she was battling cancer only solidified my desire to stay away from shitty people. My boyfriend Joshua of 4 years is the best man to ever come into my life. He is considerate, sweet, caring, loving, affectionate, funny, brilliant, talented, unique, mesmerizing, and solid while soft-hearted. He supports my personal growth and cares about what's in my best interest. We lift one another up while keeping one another grounded. I feel the most me by myself and when I'm with him; it's a wonderful feeling to be loved by someone's entire beautiful heart. I feel whole with AND without him; my self identity and independence intact. Despite all of my childhood trauma, I feel safe in his arms. I don't have to wait to exhale. He's my #1 best friend in the greatest ways and I wouldn't choose any differently. If you're attracted to bad boys, you might have some deep-seeded issues you need to address. Out here picking narcissists and aggressors, being neglected by immature fools, getting used by deadbeats, caring more about someone than they care about you; at some point you have to wise up and find some common sense. You need to care about yourself enough to stop helping others hurt you. There's no good reason to be that attracted to a shitty person. Gain some insight and change your choices. It's hard for me to have sympathy for people who cause themselves ridiculous unnecessary problems and don't even try to change them. Everywhere you look it's directly and indirectly made clear in many ways that bad boys and bad girls are a waste of time yet so many people are STILL choosing to touch the flame to confirm that it's hot. This conversation is so tired; we shouldn't have to keep reiterating this important message, which saddens and disappoints me.

[@nawalbaswedan]

Have not really come across guys that are “too nice”. Most of them are seemingly nice cuz they want something in return

[@lianet777]

If you’re attracted to bad boys, you probably have issues.... I don’t want a bad boy, I want a strong Nice and LOVING Christian man of God. And by Christian I mean -living righteously, not drinking, smoking swearing and none of that new age crap. Cuz plenty call them selves Christian but ain’t living like it I’ve legit heard women say “I like a thug”..... what?? Nah. You want abuse

[@TheNewYorker7899]

Amen to that! I'm 23 years old and I've never had sex, gotten drunk, had any past relationships, go to church, but if I gotta put people in their I do it! Its difficult to live in this generation as young people. Prayers up 🙏

[@FoxyChariot]

The amount of cap in these comments is painful. Half of y'all dating one right now.

[@milesjohnson7423]

Thank you Jeannie for differentiating passive and nice!! People always swear they were the same thing, but they're not.

[@Bluecape5]

Tamera psychology degree coming through at the end! They all had good points 💯

[@marliemarlie1922]

I really like sweet man 😍😍😍who can treat me like a queen, a good gentleman 😋

[@YolandaReyesXO]

The worst is when they’re bad AND nice. Please tell me someone knows what I’m talking about 😭

[@cookiegirl891]

Yolanda Reyes lol a sociopath ? Narcissist? A bit of both ? Lmaooo ik exactly what ur talking about

[@Krzrrazrrokr]

That's the best type though

[@pinkstar9430]

I used to be a bad(attitude) n nice woman lol. But I’m working on my bad attitude because it has repeatedly hurt my relationships.

[@pinkstar9430]

VADOR 93 knowing my place means I need to be feminine? Umm ok lol I’m sure there’s more to it.

[@ishitadadhwal5276]

they are narcissist physco sociopath . nice when they want some thing from you bad when they donot get what ever they want from you .

[@ElohimWorshiping]

Sometimes we need to work on ourselves too. When we know our boundaries, our values . When you know things about yourself , you often know what you want in your life and who you want to be part of your life. The moment when you loose your self you take whatever comes out your way because you don’t see your worth. Ladies in 2019 let’s not go for just the physics and be limited on what is to be in a relationship; be able to define what you really want at first before entering a toxic relationship and be oblige to stay just because you want to fix what was never there ! In other words I do give some little chats on my KZbin channel as well.

[@kayekaye08]

Thanks for getting to the point Auntie Loni

[@shanice_a]

I can relate to Tamera and what she said . Been through that I don't know how many times ... smh . Then you always end up aggravated and disappointed in the end when it doesn't work out or go positively . Ladies , Never settle for a "Bad Boy " . Work on bettering you so you know what to actually look for and what qualities you need and want in a real , grown , mature MAN.

[@BritneyWaldron]

A woman is married to the best man in the world untill they break up...👀🏃.🙆 than you hear "Girllll, he beat me, he cheated, etc. 👀

[@Womanhoodandfemininity]

Tamera looks stunning as well as the others

[@riichobamin7612]

Women think they want a nice guy. What they actually want is a guy who is good at talking and is charming. And those guys are rarely "nice".

[@kanamekuran23]

This also comes with age. As we mature, we leave the bad boys for the good guys, but struggle to find such a person in our maturity timeframe. Those few lucky women get the good guys while they can and we get stuck trying to find the good guy

[@BriaBarrows]

my bf was so quiet when we were just friends...l was like hell nah, he too quiet... I thought he was too passive too, but he grew up. and now, he's the sweetest guy I've ever known. so nice guys can be underrated because they are amazing lovers. just don't be a pushover

[@lindalately]

Yeah that was my type a couple years ago but it’s crazy cause I’m actually shy and introverted, I just liked the adrenaline

[@gigachad1983]

Hi i'm a guy and looking for advice, so what the bad guys do to make you get the adrenaline?

[@blueskykayzee9009]

Girl, I feel you. I like guys who know how to take a thrill.

[@KingPharon18]

Being nice is not the problem it’s the sensitive insecure part that is. Most nice guys are too clingy and that’s the turn off! Women want a gentleMAN! Be a man at the end of the day!

[@zak27986]

-Bad Boys: Confidence (No Compassion) -Gentlemen: Compassion & Confidence -Nice Guys: Compassion (No Confidence) Whether you agree or disagree with me as long as you are tolerant. As a straight man myself I am warning both gay men and straight women around the world do not even bother dating a bad boy & a nice guy because they are both trash. The bad boys in my honest are just too arrogant which makes them narcissistic and the nice guys are just too insecure which makes them creeps. The gentlemen are empathetic and responsible & in my honest opinion they are the best type of men in this world because they could definitely provide & protect. To all my fellow human brothers and sisters around the world be cautious & stay safe of who you date.

[@KeepinItOneHunnnid]

Excuses excuses! Yet they can't understand why so many black women end up as single mothers!

[@silkenflare6989]

I don't think woman necessarily like 'bad boys'. I think some women, maybe as young, inexperienced, or 'broken', mistake a bad boy's bravado to be that of a take-charge man - alpha type. They don't realize, many times until it's too late, that 'bad' takes advantage, not takes charge.

[@cookiegirl891]

Silken Flare this deserves a lot more likes

[@silkenflare6989]

@Agatha jay Interesting.

[@QueenChastity]

Yes I love a man who's kind...but you indeed need to have a backbone.

[@Lolita10]

A guy who is not afraid to hurt your feelings as well as making you happy. One who will tell you the truth no matter what.

[@etf42]

Do not listen to what women say they want. The last thing men should do is “be nice, and be yourself”. Women do not want “nice guys”. They want confident men who have higher status than them. If a man doesn’t treat a woman well, she assumes that she must be beneath him in some way, which makes her more attracted to him. If a man is nice, treats a woman like a princess and does all sorts of favors for her, he signals that he in beneath her, which lowers her attraction to him.

[@MasonPerry7]

Yeah, at least in my experience, Even in my circle of friends, We make it a mission to protect and treasure the ones who have the most genuine hearts. Sometimes it's Questionable, You can't tell if he is flirting or if he's just being nice. I'm 100% Guilty of this, I confuse everyone, and Confused by everyone, cause I can't tell if they're flirting or Being nice either.

[@beanybway]

Women over 30 don’t realise that nice guys around the same age usually aren’t as nice as they appear. In my experience having been completely overlooked during the woman’s best years (teens and early twenties) the “good guys” hold on to some form of resentment and will usually be unfaithful given the chance and trust me the good guys in their 30s get plenty of chances. A good guy in his 30s is as sort after as an attractive girl in her early twenties or late teens, everybody wants them. Ladies if you genuinely want a good faithful man choose one whilst you still have your best years to offer him. If you were playing around with loads of different guys during your best years don’t be surprised if men want to play around with different girls during their best years.

[@poeticjustice8420]

Everyone thinks 'nice' is a push over 😂😂 Nope, i think nice is having manners and being mature.

[@shitturukayat802]

When Loni laughs or makes that sound......😂😂😂😂... I love me some of that

[@sahrasancar1]

yes, say it louder for the ones in the back! I totally agree with everything that was said in this video!

[@mol9133]

A good woman wants a good man not a bad boy

[@pinkstar9430]

Tamara is speaking truth. Look up codependency if you feel that you are always carrying the weight of the relationship on your shoulders. My life changed dramatically after realizing this.

[@crem2121]

Thanks for the advice, Mama Tamera

[@brandi17able]

I want a nice guy that is a protector

[@teaandtv]

Adrienne hit the nail on the head. Nice is being able to fight and argue, but being respectful and kind in the argument and looking to resolve rather than cause pain and harm

[@RicoLamar987]

It’s not about being a bad boy, it’s about being nice and kind but having the “appearance” of a bad boy...again, while actually being nice 😂😂

[@cookiegirl891]

RicoLamar987 lmfaooo exactly !!!!!

[@God.sDaughter]

Women can be confusing can they? “ We don’t like passive men. We also don’t like aggressive men. We like gentlemen. But he shouldn’t be too nice.” Men: So, what do you like exactly? Women: We like nice guys. Don’t be too nice though. Men: Makes so much sense. 😂😂😂😂😂

[@cookiegirl891]

Mary lol honestly though . It’s crazy out here

[@somegirl8410]

@@God.sDaughter LOL true haha

[@FoxyChariot]

This makes no fucking sense. This is "Tupac with a degree."

[@TrishaaaBbz]

This wig makes loni look 62

[@tashafinnprayeatlaffluv4giv]

LOVE LOVE you LADIES!!! Heeeeey Adrienne u are extra glowing!!!!

[@EASJR1991]

And I want saw a video from some celebrity news of logger who cited an article from psychology today magazine which talked about how people are attracted to people whom they consider to be familiar. If one is attracted to bad boys are bad girls or whoever. It’s because that behavior is something that they considered to be safe, not because it is behavior that they consider to be good, but because the behavior is familiar to them. Humans are attracted to familiarity. If you go up in a household where there is people who are abusive. But there is one parent abusing the other parent. Or a sibling abusing you. Or however it may manifest, you’re likely to be attracted to people who display those character traits, not necessarily because you’re being those character traits are good, but because those character traits are familiar to you, as though your subconscious mind considers them to be safe. That is at least one reason why someone might be attracted to Bad boys.

[@cookiegirl891]

Ellis Sutton honestly tho .

[@dance4life1208]

Never been In to bad boys I just want a regular guy and can’t even get that 😩

[@BlackGirlMarvel]

Faaaacts!

[@Eve-hb]

dance4life1208 same sis 😂

[@dumpd6227]

Where are u looking for these guys

[@dance4life1208]

dump D is there a specific place where I should be going?

[@dumpd6227]

@@dance4life1208 college campuses, football and Basketball games, grocery stores. What ages are u looking for

[@lucianateresacastellanos8958]

Just read the title and thought of Manny Montana aka Rio from Good Girls 😆

[@Alina-ju8nb]

I was a good girl with strict parents and never able to go out. That's my reason for liking bad boys😂 it's the thrill.

[@Krzrrazrrokr]

I agree with you 100 percent. I'm in the same situation

[@gigachad1983]

Hi i'm a guy and looking for advice, so what the bad boys do to make you get the thrill?

[@blueskykayzee9009]

I have strict parents too.

[@dieKommentatorin]

I don't like bad boys & drama but I used to like guys with psychological issues because that gave me the impression of being needed since I wanted to fix them. After my narcisstic ex-boyfriend, that quickly changed. I rather have a nice guy now & someone that is there for me, not just me being there for them.

[@aliciawedderburn9652]

I like a nice guy treats me right and knows how to take charge when needed.

[@ashlynnsmith369]

I’ve never understood the whole “bad boy” thing bc from a young age I’ve seen what my dad has done to my mom and it just makes me resent that kind of man I don’t play that game

[@达努佳]

Okay they all talking for me 👌😂😂 I agree not passive not fake but nice and good.

[@TC-xu5nx]

2:19 I felt that, my man now was just like a bad boy he was independent and I was too but I knew he needed me and when I finally left bc I couldn’t deal with his actions anymore he completely turned his attitude around and loves me unconditionally and I think you can make a bad boy actually be good, and a strong man if you’re show how good your intentions are and they become aware of changes they need to make

[@godwillbongani5240]

Ur really naive😂

[@TC-xu5nx]

@@godwillbongani5240 Bitch this was years ago that I didn’t even remember writing this and you want to reply 2 years later get a life more im more than good over here 😂

[@yas_her4056]

I believe it all comes down to respect/(A man being respectful) I can usually tell how a man is by the way he treats his mother! If he has NO respect for HER don’t even waste your time! ✌🏻

[@naturalMLO]

Tamera is looking so cute!

[@Reesemuffin]

Good advice Tamera

[@emilyw530]

Oh Loni you nailed it once again!!

[@lissettedelarosa6679]

Have you guys seen the show You? That’s why I’m on the edge about “too nice” guys.

[@Cynthiaa.c541]

the "nice" men be the one ones that will kill you #lifetime

[@kimdavis9575]

My ex was so emotional it got me nervous and uncomfortable. Sometimes, he'll start crying over things that can be resolved maturely. Guys, be nice but not clingy. Ladies don't take nice guys for granted.

[@anthonyhenderson8371]

Lonnie’s response to this topic had me dead 💀 😂

[@moniquewilson1703]

I love these ladies! I be answering questions and talking to the tv like I’m there. It’s crazy. Lol. I don’t understand the saying about nice girls liking bad boys. Who came up with that? Also, I definitely did not like bad guys back when I had bfs. I wanted someone nice and considerate, but the thing is, we think when someone is too nice, they can be soft. There are some nice guys who can be manly. I also like the fact that Loni has a nice/great guy. He seems like he really likes her and she likes him. I can’t wait until he comes on the show Loni! We’re due for him to come on this yr. 😊

[@Swanxman62]

Monique Wilson anchor.fm/hoodoolounge/episodes/Why-do-women-choose-bad-men-and-do-women-really-know-what-a-good-man-look-like-ed9q73

[@Marie-md5yj]

You gotta be kind with a backbone, not a pushover who will not defend me.

[@jonathanfarley2023]

Why do you need defending? Are there saber-toothed tigers roaming around?

[@godwillbongani5240]

Why do u assume kind men have no backbone

[@AbigaillOwusu]

Why do these women talk as if they’re single? “I want a guy that’s....” but y’all all in relationships🤔😂

[@sulekha3771]

Abigail Owusu lmfao fr

[@bestforyouall]

I never found nice for anyone to try to define what should be the right personality of a woman and obviously I don't think is ok to do the same with any man. We (ladies and gentlemans) are unique in our own way and what is meant to be will alwYs find it's way.

[@enigma7341]

You are not saying anything worth saying.

[@bestforyouall]

Leslie Watson reverse psychology? haha “you are not saying nothing worthy of saying”... but so are you! 🤔wtf! 😂 yt IS the perfect place for shallow people... definitely 😏

[@enigma7341]

@@bestforyouall , you are only saying some PC bullshit!. Just be honest, women are confused. Both sexes are not equal in anyway. There is a reason why the Masculine represent order and the feminine represent chaos, symbolically.

[@bestforyouall]

Leslie Watson i think you are probably confused, please don’t generalize. It’s so awkward, you make me feel really sorry for you and the way you think... like we are in 2019 but your way of thinking is 1930. I can’t relate to what you are saying. I came from a family of progressive thinkers, very successful in life, in all sense of the word, I am too, and definitely can’t relate to what you say. Our success is due to the fact that we saw each others as equals and while some outsiders were playing roles, brain washed by society’s rules, we were all making plans to succeed in life, helping each other grow, and we did. Good luck finding success in life with that way of thinking.

[@enigma7341]

@@bestforyouall , you sound like the girl thats always attracted to the bad guys, gets cheated on, abused and still can't understand why it keep happening. So lost and clueless Then after you hit the wall then you go for the good guy to get married to him. Then cheat on him with with the same bad boy.

[@nqatha2229]

I agree with Tamera. There's no need of going for a bad guy so as to fulfill your need to nurture. You end up wasting it on him and the kids get the tail end of all you had to give in nurturing.

[@RealTalkRelationshipTherapy]

Loni is too real love it ❣️

[@Parisroam]

I like considerate men, that know what they want, and also play video games when he gets out of work.

[@DarthFurie]

My husband is sweet but still knows how to act like a man and make me feel like a woman... they're out there 😍

[@auroraperezolivares4828]

True and unfortunate it goes back to the first live and relationship thatvus a s little girls had with our fathers, how did they treat our moms? How did they treat us? It is sad but thats where it starts. We cam mature and grow to learn that that is not what we need but often times by then years have passed, we have kids, and now there are many more obstacles other than just worrying about our selves

[@itsyaboi1846]

Most of the women in this comment sections is probably the reason why a lot of women can't find anybody.

[@itsyaboi1846]

@Mario Kratt Broly won tho

[@itsyaboi1846]

@Mario Kratt you're lying he has a movie in 2018

[@Thelegendmia]

Can’t be to nice and can’t be disrespectful 🗣

[@MartellThaCool]

All I see is future cat ladies and single mothers. Fellas, don't date single mother's

[@amalahmed176]

2:38 Why was Tameras "thx loni" so sweet?? My heart

[@jaszlyyy]

Kind: is being considerate. Nice: is avoiding being real to not hurt other’s feelings. ex of kind: thinking before you say something about how it might come off, genuinely caring how you make someone feel. ex of nice: avoiding arguments to keep SO happy even when you have an opinion that should be expressed or letting people walk over you so they are satisfied

[@gigachad1983]

yea but girls like to argue and fight then ended up get abused which you can make drama from that and repeat, thats how stupid works

[@semkiki4069]

I love the show❤️❤️ Love from Amsterdam😘😘

[@jodynanci]

Nice is great, just don't be boring!

[@Mrsselena361]

Loni so direct and blunt,,,lmbo

[@Stefan-jk7mw]

I can guarantee 90% of the women in the comments saying they like nice guys are liers lmao. I have always considered myself to be a nice guy, am 31 years old, college educated, and always keep up my appearance. Here in LA when girls see me they look the other way, especially black women who I have always been attracted to. I have a friend that loves to drink, smoke, party, and even admitted to me he uses women for sex. Needless to say, every woman I work with and have even met recently at my job are attracted to him. Maybe it's his tattoos or the fact that he smokes..? Black women are so insecure, and half of them don't know what they want. They for sure don't want nice guys.

[@AndresLopezZarate]

Addriennes face when that one girl yelled "YES"

[@marshacreary2442]

How does parenting style influence how a man deals with conflict? How do they learn how to communicate effectively? How did their family members deal with conflict? Does that make them more passive? If so, what are some things that they are doing to correct those behaviors? Does it influence their confidence in their ability to provide financially? How do they feel about you being financially stable with or without them? How did their childhood experiences influence how they approach romantic relationships and friendships? How do that effect how they approach intimacy with their significant other or spouse?

[@xtelfolaj]

I agree with jeannie. There is a different between a good guy and nice guy. A good guy is someone who treats women like queens, are confident and not desperate. Nice guys are the ones who are usually the friends, and get mad when you dont like them back because they are nice to you. They always showing their boyfriend resumé to every female. And crying on social media how they are nice and dont get picked.

[@teri_p]

Why tamera repeating the same damn thing Jeanine said. Gurl she said that smdh

[@SeychelleSunshine]

Adrienne's contour and blush look wonderful here, I don't like to be negative but she's had more than a few very harsh contour moments that haven't done her any justice. I get that the fullness in her face is a soft spot for her so she wants to make sure she looks chiseled but sometimes I actually feel it gives off the opposite effect. Nevertheless, she's gorgeous and that blazer is everything honey

[@alishak4061]

When you're grown kind is attractive.

[@KeepinItOneHunnnid]

You mean once you've started aging and the bad boys don't want you anymore.

[@onlyonemrxonlyonemry306]

These are the girls that sit at the high school table and think they're all that and nobody pays them any mind

[@Rare7Breed]

GREAT POINT!! 😍😘💯

[@Catalaya0549]

I've dated a too nice guy and he was "nice" but not good. They can be nice but... very petty as well. have to be careful with all this niceness, people want to be seen as nice and not as themselves and yet every lil nice thing they do for you they expect something more in return. have to know the difference between a nice person and a good person... "Good people aren't always nice" Nice people are'nt always good.

[@BoujeeBwiththeTea]

Being too nice is definitely not a turn off. However, being corny is. There's a difference 😐 awkward, no game, too needy 🤢 NO!