Why you shouldn't MARRY a GIRL from a POOR FAMILY

[@roymustang.595]

gali dene aya tha like karke gaya.

[@saurabh.sri.vastava]

Thanks bro...gali na dene k liye😅

[@RuchiRani-qd8vb]

That's reverse psychology he played 😅

[@NihalSoni-u6o]

Don't give birth to children to suffer in this world please 😢😮😮😮

[@saurabh.sri.vastava]

Work harder and don't let them suffer

[@AnkitNikunj-v2l]

@@saurabh.sri.vastava Yeh chappri log kaha samjhenge.

[@yashkhandelwal9491]

some of your points were so valid and logical, thanks for sharing!

[@saurabh.sri.vastava]

This was just a trailer…you should SUBSCRIBE😏

[@riddhijoshi8116]

Some of your points are valid ki ladki ko paisa kamaana chahiye aur independent hona chahiye. But most are wrong jaise ki homemakers ke paas utna kaam nahi hota, zara socho kitne kam log ek househelp afford kar paate hain aur kuch log to afford kar paane ke baad bhi ladki se he kaam karvana chaahte hain. Aur ye kya baat hui ki ek to Job nahi karti upar se bacche bhi nahi paida karti. Aur kabhi lunch banake ke dekho, ek ghante me nahi banta time lagta hai.

[@abhayverma1149]

I don't know what kinda lunch you are having but girl... if you take more than an hour to make lunch it must be like a festival feast. I do agree with the point that girls are not there to give just birth. But I agree with the point that girl must be earning some money and it is essential now a days. Like really what are you even doing all day. Just chilling at home coz all the work is mostly done by maids. You need to bring atleast something to the table, keeping in mind that it is an arranged marriage and not a love marriage as you are not emotionally attached to the fiance before marriage.

[@saurabh.sri.vastava]

Main breakfast lunch dinner sb bnata hun😄....Job bhi krta hun aur ab to video bhi bna ra hun. A to Z sare kam main akela hi krta hun. Aur even if house help aap afford ni kr skte fir bhi agr bachche chote ni hain aur in-laws k sath ni reh re to apke pas bohot zada kaam ni hota.... It's not an excuse to not do something even part time work.....zruri ni hai ki ap full time job kro. But you have to make money...

[@ZoldicsDiaries]

Untill you don't earn equal to husband..wife must do all household work.....no maid....if you both earn eaxct same..then you can keep a maid

[@vishaljaiswal6984]

Girls always find excuses to ran away from responsibilities and they think doing household chores will make them maid. What about man who handles business and arrange all the groceries for home and do house work we men don't feel like Buttler serving in the house.

[@Er_maxxadventur7]

Really self-sufficiency is most important in 🧬 life😅

[@raider3739]

Excellent and a very practical analysis. Thank you for bringing these realities to front.

[@Crispr_cas9th]

Ekdm sahi bro... Mere family me ek low class ladki ko bahu bna kr laaye... Us par taras khaya ki ma baap bachpan ne mar gaye aur chacha chachi ne paal pos kr bada kiya hai... Aur wahi ladki bahu ban kar aate he kalesh start aur do mahine ke baad he batwaara kr ke alag ho gyi aur saas sasur ko ek glass pani bhi nhi deti..

[@bluerobin8743]

Shadi karni kyon hai. Aap log shadi hi mat karo. Aage aur auraton ke khilaf zehar bharo.

[@saurabh.sri.vastava]

Kripaya puri video dekhe bina apni opinion na bnayen🙏 Watch the full video until the end and then share your opinion please. Main koi zeher ni Faila raha. Sirf logical bat kr ra hun.

[@ZoldicsDiaries]

Untill wife doesn't earn equal to husband..wife must do all household work.....no maid....if you both earn eaxct same..then you can keep a maid

[@Neetukumari-qz2ke]

​@@ZoldicsDiariesjb ladkiya husband jitna kamane lgege tho shaadi hi kyu kregi

[@TanumoyMondal-k3k]

​@@Neetukumari-qz2ke And why should men marry an unemployed woman and take on her burden? Those things were from the old days. This won’t work anymore.

[@prashantkothari9565]

No wife, Happy Life..

[@priyanshu5302]

Best decision 😜

[@deekshachauhan8338]

Apka jo kehre ho theek kehre ho isliye mai shaadi nhi karungi i will take care of my parents or apne expenses khud manage karungi kisi or ki life m bhi kalesh nhi hoga ❤😂

[@saurabh.sri.vastava]

Half knowledge is dangerous😄 SUBSCRIBE krlo aur bhi videos aengi. This video is part of my playlist on MARRIAGE. There are many more videos yet to come. So SUBSCRIBE if you don’t want to miss out on those videos.

[@ZoldicsDiaries]

Untill wife doesn't earn equal to husband..wife must do all household work.....no maid....if you both earn eaxct same..then you can keep a maid

[@AS-jo8qh]

2:45 my colleague wants to go to hill stations and other places (by her own money)but her parents always kill her dreams by saying shadi ke baad jana. So she is waiting for marriage to fulfill her dreams. Bechari apne sapne maar k bethi hai jabki khud kama rahi hai

[@AnkitNikunj-v2l]

She is emotionally hypnotised by her parents.

[@ZoldicsDiaries]

Untill wife doesn't earn equal to husband..wife must do all household work.....no maid....if you both earn eaxct same..then you can keep a maid

[@Suhanyy8]

This is my condition as well

[@ritanshu_gusain9556]

Bhai tune pura convence kr liya shadi na krne ko 😂

[@sds2658]

Very Good video brother.

[@saurabh.sri.vastava]

Thank you

[@anupamsavale9452]

Great brother

[@saurabh.sri.vastava]

Thanks

[@navrajsingh6373]

I wish I had the same intelligence at your age . I got married the same way and paid the price . I am the live example . And I wish every Indian guy should know this so he gets spared from the hell I went through . Be careful who you marry and you made a wrong choice you are screwed . Look for a wife not a sugar baby in the form of wife .

[@ZoldicsDiaries]

Untill wife doesn't earn equal to husband..wife must do all household work.....no maid....if you both earn eaxct same..then you can keep a maid

[@shreeRahulJi]

Most of the housewife of India they do nothing for 5-6 hr they just sleep or chill, because they do not have anything to do, or they don't want to do anything

[@ZoldicsDiaries]

Untill wife doesn't earn equal to husband..wife must do all household work.....no maid....if you both earn eaxct same..then you can keep a maid

[@IbrahimKhan-wk1by]

Yes, most of your points are correct. We as a society should teach our younger generation to be independent. We don't need bahus anymore. Kisi aur ki beti nahi chahiye apni personal life mae. It is better to not to get married and have children. Kisi aur ka boj samaj kar apni ladki ko theek se educate nahi karte hain. Getting married just to have sex is not a good reason. I am a independent girl who is very much happy with my single hood.

[@saurabh.sri.vastava]

I don't think that people get married just to have sex. And just bcoz you're happy with something today doesn't mean you'll be happy with it tomorrow! You have to think long term. I will be covering all these in upcoming videos.

[@ZoldicsDiaries]

Untill wife doesn't earn equal to husband..wife must do all household work.....no maid....if you both earn eaxct same..then you can keep a maid

[@SJ-ie3ty]

Ye kya? Sex kya sirf mard enjoy karte hai? women nahi? Husband ke saath aajkal ki aurato ko sex nahi karna but boyfriends ke saath karna hai... fir law mein husband ke against hi kyu?

[@IbrahimKhan-wk1by]

@@SJ-ie3ty life mili hai enjoy karne ko, naa k kisi aur ki responsibility lene ko. We need changes in our society. We all know what is going on with our men.

[@IbrahimKhan-wk1by]

@@saurabh.sri.vastava looking forward for good content. Keep up you are doing awesome

[@PShukla-p5v]

Subscribed ❤

[@saurabh.sri.vastava]

Thanks🙏

[@divyanshrawat2859]

very logical pov

[@saurabh.sri.vastava]

Thanks

[@dipi-11]

my gf's financial status is not gud but she's an angel and i plan to marry her one day. I got offended by seeing your video in my feed but gave it a watch regardless, before judging. The message in your video is right but your title is a bit misleading, i think your title should be "why you shouldn't marry an unemployed girl". But as i have seen in my family both my parents are working and they do chores together even cooking (in fact papa zyada achha banate hai😋) & i also plan to do all these with her. So if you're planning to marry a working girl then be ready to do house chores together!

[@saurabh.sri.vastava]

I agree with it. When the woman starts making money, men also have to start sharing houshold chores. Also, my title is exactly what it needed to be. You wouldn't have clicked on it otherwise😅

[@TOP5हिन्दी-p5k]

NIBBA

[@Lifeisamirror]

Bro main Gen- Z girl hu and ek young adult hu. The title caught my attention and I decided to watch the video. Aur main agree kar rhi hu aapke points se. Badi achi baat h ki ek male apni POV actually mein sach aakr on camera bola pa raha hai because males se usually yahi expected hai ki chup chaap suppress kar lo bas. Shaadi mein 2 log saath judte hain and yeh ek bhot hee serious cheez hai. Thoda bhot difference chalta h lekin mera maanna h ki zameen aasman ka fark nahi hona chahiye. Exceptional cases mein it works lekin most of the cases mein it will be a disaster. Points ek dum valid hain. Ghar ke kaamon ki bhot suwidha ho gyi h aur expenses bhi bhot hain aaj kal. pati patni dono ko kamaana chahiye aur sath mil kr ghar chalana chahiye aur suwidha rakh lo kyuki waise bhi cleaning, dusting, bartan ke liye maid ab ek necessity ban gye hain. They are no more priveleges. Toh kaam krna chahiye. Lekin uske liye yeh bhi zaruri h ki ladki ke ghar waale usko padhaaye likhaein aur oppurtunity toh dein . Lekin bhot se log ab bhi ladkiyon ki oppurtunities nhi de rhe hain but haan ghar ka bhi nhi krenge aur bahaar ka bhi nhi yeh sach mein galat h . Shaadi kari h toh aap par zimmedariyan badhi hain toh unhe suchaaru roop se nibhaana chahiye yahi sahi hai. Main feminist hu lekin main pseudo feminist nahi hu. Maine kuch comments bhi dekehein ladkiyon ke jinhone baat sune aur samjhe bina kuch bhi bolna shuru kar diya. Kehte hain na half knowledge is dangerous than ignorance. Aaj kal men jyaada peedit hain shaadi krke jo bhi main dekh pa rhi hu apne aas paas. I belong to a financially strong family! Aur mere aas paas clearly saas dar kr baithi h ki pta nhi kaisi bahu aayegi aur bahu kuch hota nhi h ki court pahunch jati h aur family ka band baja kr rkh rkha hai. Main maanti hu ki kuch bahuon ke saath itna bura hota h which is beyond imagination lekin thodi si khutar putar hote hee agar iss tarah ghar chhorne lage toh ho gya kalyan. Kya mata pita ke sath kabhi koi anban nahi hoti? Kya bhai behen mein ladai nahi hoti? Lekin in rishton mein hum sort krte hain . Peeche ka forgive krke in case kuch ho bhi gya h toh aage move on krte hain aur evolve krte hain lekin kyuki pati patni ke rishte mein option h isliye chhor ke chal do? Aapne sach mein pyar kiya tha jo itna sa na sort out kar paaye? Itne gharon mein pati patni baat tak nahi kar rahe hain alag mein. Public ke saamne ek jovial couple ka facade aur peeche se ek theek se baat nahi. Pata nahi chal kya rha hai!! I know bhot lamba ho gya and shayad aap padhein bhi na isko. That's fine!! But aap bhot acha issue highlight kr rhe hain and it is courageous of you to come up over a public platform and say all this. Kudos to you bro!! Lekin ek baat aur btaun. Working ladki ek kam financially strong family se jab stronger family mein aa rhi h toh thodi si bhi kuch bardaash nhi. Yeh bhi fact h ! Uss ladki ko alag hee tashan hoti h . Meri maid iss time single mother h. Pati se thodi si jhadap hui. Maid ek governement school mein primary teacher thi. Naukri ka bada ghamand tha. Pati se kuch baat hui sab chhor kr chal di bacha utha kr. Ki main toh chali! Aur koi abuse ya aisa kuch nhi tha ki chhora jaaye usne khud clear kiya h. Itni toh kaha suni hoti h boss sath rehne mein. Main ek aur lady ko jaanti hu. Shaadi ke pehle she used to financially support her family and is a very strong and opinionated woman as well. 3 jobs kare same time pr part time aur full time mtlb pura din kaam kiya apni mother and bhai ko support krne ke liye. Ek khud se thoda financially stronger ladka marriage prospect bna and she married him. Shadi ke baad she stopped working (professsionally) {She used to be a radio jockey} and she is now at home. Shaadi ke ek saal ke andar jethani ko villan bna diya sb ki aankho mein. Jethani doosh ki dhuli nhi h aur pati ke sath alag ho gyi. Sasurji bhi sath nhi rehte. Sasurji ka tiffin pack krne bol diya pati ne toh saaf mana ki main nhi krne wali. Unka bhi chahiye toh cook rkh lo warna main fruti aur hawa paani pr jee lungi apna dekh lo. Of course, now neither is she working kyuki itne saal itna kaam kiya h and ghar ka bhi kuch kaam nhi. Har kaam ke liye maid h. Aur apna jewellery utha kr bhai ko de diya gold loan lene ke liye toh pati ne naya ghar khareeda usmein kuch amount chahiye tha toh gold loan bhi nhi le skte hain. So, indeed bhot bura haal h. Agar comment pura pdh liya then really hats off to you bro!! And I loved your video!!

[@saurabh.sri.vastava]

Thanks for spending so much time for writing this comment. Yes, I read it all. I appreciate the case studies. It will help me in my content. Thanks for sharing 🙏 I am grateful that I am getting Subscribers like you. Really!

[@bluerobin8743]

@@Lifeisamirror bakwaas madam ladki kya table par laati hai if she isn't working? Sex and kids which are in themselves priceless which a man cannot procure from outside. This one thing makes even a non working woman's contribution "to the table" priceless. And if this has no value then why are men getting married at all? BTW I'm married for 20 years. These men don't want to do anything for their wives. As for men suffering more lol this is all hype nothing else. Still most rape cases go unreported. Horrible gangrapes and dowry deaths happen everyday. DV case me 10 saal k baad biwi chhodane par 14 lakh alimony. Khud ka affair hai husband ka biwi chhodane par zero alimony. Because lawyers are ghaagh like you. Bas poore waqt aajkal ke mard rona rote rehte hain about this or that. Aurat kya laati hai ?? Ek lehar labor pain ki jhel nhi sakte jis se bachha paida hota hai. Belaar baat karte hain idiots.

[@ZoldicsDiaries]

Untill wife doesn't earn equal to husband..wife must do all household work.....no maid....if you both earn eaxct same..then you can keep a maid

[@Lifeisamirror]

@@ZoldicsDiaries And what if the wife earns more? Uss case mein husband ko saara kaam karna chahiye na ghar ka .... without maid ya phir tab maid rkh leni chahiye?

[@Lifeisamirror]

@@saurabh.sri.vastava 🙏🙏

[@Shyamayadav026]

Pahli baar kisi ne sahi baat boli hai mai aapke baato se sahmat hu bhai ❤❤❤❤same thinking meri bhi hai

[@StyledbyKJ]

your some points are valid but in many area womens want to work but the husband and there family member are not supporting than and some area thing womens can't work I know some women have to ask for money for there baisc need but the husband just say i didnot have money . but they have money to for them self .

[@saurabh.sri.vastava]

Share your views in the comments please🙏

[@julies5085]

Business kar sakti hai na. Agar naukri nahi karna, ghar ka kaam nahi karna, toh khudke hobbies me busy reh sakti hai, hobbies ka phir business bhi bana sakti hai. Ya phir agar pehle koi parne ka mauka nahi mila toh ab parhai bhi kar sakti hai.... but ha ye sab baatein shadi se pehle discuss toh karni paregi.

[@ritulverma9700]

shaadi Naukri vali ladki se karo ..bilkul karo ... pr pehle ladko ko bolo ki ghar aake vo bhi kaam kare ... Women are not idiot jo bahar ka bhi kare ghar ka bhi kare ... dono bahar ka karo fir dono ghar ka karo .. that's how life works

[@ZoldicsDiaries]

Agar husband se kam kamati hai to ghar ke kaam to krne honge

[@ritulverma9700]

@@ZoldicsDiaries kam jada se kuch nahi hota .. time toh vo bhi 9to5 hi derhi hai baahar kaam mein ..

[@diptiranjandas5860]

​@@ritulverma9700If a working woman is doing household chores solely then it is inequality. But when it comes to household expenses if she is earning less than her husband then the husband will have to pay 70% of household expenses which is again an inequality and it is whitewashed by feminists. If a woman is not able to pay 50% of household expenses due to her low income then she should marry a man of her equal status. There are many marriages where a woman is earning merely Rs 35000 but her husband is earning Rs 100000. In such situations, the woman does 50% of household chores and paid 30% of household expenses due to her low income(excluding personal expenses)as compared to her husband who did 50% of household chores as well as paid 70% of household expenses(excluding personal expenses). Was equality achieved between men and women as feminist want equality. 🤔

[@ritulverma9700]

@@diptiranjandas5860 then men should marry accordingly ... why they marry women who is of less calibre ??? so that they can be the decision maker .

[@ritulverma9700]

@@diptiranjandas5860 man can't handle when women earns more than them .. they can't handle when their wives are at much better position than them ... that's why they prefer women of less calibre so they can dominate... whose fault ??

[@sandeep_k55]

Many women will try to shame or guilt trip you for this but this is the stark reality facing men today... Such a woman is poor in money and also in character and mindset being brought up in such environment... Never make a contract with someone who has nothing to lose... Ultimately man will be the losing side... Having to part with reputation and property

[@ZoldicsDiaries]

Untill wife doesn't earn equal to husband..wife must do all household work.....no maid....if you both earn eaxct same..then you can keep a maid

[@sandeep_k55]

@@ZoldicsDiaries men understand these to some extent... Where is the Indian woman who understands this?

[@BaljeetKaur-s3k]

You missed to say anything about who should manage household chores when both husband and wife are working or if only wife is earning.

[@saurabh.sri.vastava]

Ek hi video me sb kuch bta dun? Subscribe krlo. It's a series! Everything will be covered...

[@ZoldicsDiaries]

Untill wife doesn't earn equal to husband..wife must do all household work.....no maid....if you both earn eaxct same..then you can keep a maid

[@nbcworld2410]

Right

[@akashkumar-cv1zm]

Lekin bhaiya logo ki thinking ye hai ki agar ladki job karegi to extramarital affair jaise case milne lagte hai to ye bhi log accept nahi karte....

[@saurabh.sri.vastava]

Affair to kisi ka bhi ho jaega.....aj kl ki ladkiyan agr job pe ni jaengi to ghumne firne to jaengi hi.....unka affair to ho hi jaega waise bhi age unko Krna hoga to....insta fb tinder hai hi..... Lekin job wali ka agr pakda gya to usko maintenance to ni dena pdega!

[@akashkumar-cv1zm]

@saurabh.sri.vastava oo I got it

[@exquisiteBeauty678]

Topic is good ... But naration could be good

[@saurabh.sri.vastava]

I am working on it🙏😄

[@Vandana-vh1pb]

Rs. To ldka kma hi rha h ...shadi karni hi q h ? Job struggle boys face kr rhe h girls Ko job opportunity bta dijiye?

[@saurabh.sri.vastava]

Boys ko job opportunities kon bta ra hai?

[@LakshmiKant-v7l]

Lagta hi bhai ka abhi abhi rishta cancel hua hai 😅

[@saurabh.sri.vastava]

Thukra ke Mera pyar mera intekam dekhegi

[@BaljeetKaur-s3k]

Misogyny at its finest. Homemakers ki koi izzat nahi. Ap jaise logo ke wajah se log maid nahi rakhte aur sara kaam karate hai everyday. I’m saying this on behalf of my mother. She’s a homemaker and it’s an insult to their work.

[@saurabh.sri.vastava]

This doesn't apply to your mother's generation. They used to work a lot. And I've also mentioned how women in older times used to have unpaid jobs in their in-laws house and Mother-in-law was the Boss....please watch the full video.

[@BaljeetKaur-s3k]

How can you say it (and say it out so loud and confidently)that it doesn’t apply to our current generation? You are very privileged if you think this. You are talking only about the top 5%-10% of people and ignoring the rural and even urban women and families which represents the most population. I’m only commenting here because you are sending out a wrong and one sided message without having ground knowledge. I’d say speak to women around you to know what what’s wrong in this video

[@BaljeetKaur-s3k]

I’m ready to even acknowledge that you come with a good intent in this video but the way you said it, your choice of words was wrong , misogynistic, and insulting to women of “this generation”. It’s a constructive criticism which would go a long way in your journey. Take it or leave it.

[@saurabh.sri.vastava]

​@@BaljeetKaur-s3k This video is not targeted to poor and rural section of society. It specifically is for the middle class. And yes, nothing applies to each and everyone....there are always some exceptions. But any housewife who is living in a city away from in laws is living a life of luxury basically.

[@TanumoyMondal-k3k]

Earn money. Help your husband financially. Keep a maid. The days have gone when you would sit back and enjoy your life on a man's money.

[@mdnafiziqbal5595]

Bhai, i am not marrying anymore

[@kumarnivas502]

😅😅😅😅

[@Cutestar6757]

Bhiya apki kitni shadi हुई है?😮😮

[@saurabh.sri.vastava]

Ek bhi nahi😄

[@AppuKhote-f6u]

कुछ बाते कड़वी है पर सच हैं।

[@JigyasaUnveiled]

gaali dene ayi thi , vhi deke ja rhi hmari maa n to kuchh kra hi nhi netflix chlaya 🥳

[@saurabh.sri.vastava]

😂 arre maate...puri video dekh lo pehle🙏🏼

[@HimmatsinghG]

G

[@pktamanna]

Ye aurato ko bhut chubegi, kyunki aurato se sach nhi suna jata

[@saurabh.sri.vastava]

@pktamanna aurat hoke ap ye bat bol ri hain😂

[@viralmemes87]

Bhai logical nhi reality bolra ahi