Why Your Wife Is So Unhappy

[@Steverz32]

It’s sad that some women are so unhappy that they destroy their families. Even after they do this, they are still unhappy 🤷🏽‍♂️

[@racebannon96]

They are unhappy and usually delusional. They think jumping in a new relationship will fix their unhappiness. The ex-wife over here had her affair and moved in with her boyfriend. He is an alcoholic and with serious medical issues. She tried coming back two months later. I said No. I got the divorce done quickly. She was so mad at me that she went to my work ten years after the divorce and tried to get me fired. I am still relieved she is gone and someone's else's problem.

[@Steverz32]

⁠@@racebannon96my EX left me for her old high school boyfriend at 63, he is now husband #4😂 it was the best thing that ever happened to me. No more listening to the complaints ever day.😃 My new wife is so much better & loyal👍

[@thehappywifeschool]

@Steverz32, thank you for your comment. I agree. We leave a wake of destruction behind us, trying to find our happiness everywhere but within.

[@Steverz32]

@@thehappywifeschool I see & like every video you post up & comment on all of them😊

[@professorlayabout4878]

@@racebannon96 I know, right? Sometimes I think I should warn the new guy, but really it’s not my problem any more. 😉

[@ghostoferlock]

Many men could help women understand their unhappiness, but they don't trust us enough to listen.

[@IBNED]

Oh, I heard that...loud and clear

[@mgtow6287]

I don’t know if it is about trust, rather that they truly think that it’s all external … out there, that’s why I’m not happy! So, any suggestions that it might be an issue with her only results in defensiveness. I gave up on that losing battle.

[@postworld1185]

Nah. Theres a photo of a man and woman talking. The woman has a giant nail in her forehead. He says "I think the problem is the nail in your forehead." She says "Can't we just talk? Why do you always have to solve things?"

[@ghostoferlock]

@@postworld1185 frick. Lol.

[@IBNED]

​@@mgtow6287The lack of taking personal responsibility keeps creeping up time and time again

[@billbayes3261]

Sexless marriage for 40 years. Divorced now for nearly 10 years. Glad that is behind me. Advice. Confront her with it and give her a month to change. If she doesn't, get a divorce. It's her fault. It was the way she was long before you met her. Trust me on that one!

[@ChrisAthanas]

facts

[@Susan-fg3nv]

Facts!!!! Facts!!!! Facts!!!!

[@Josh-do8pg]

💯 say your piece, short, to the point and without anger. And be ready to walk.

[@nathanhale6477]

"It was that way long before you met her." Most definitely! My wifes "normal" from day one was withholding and excuses. Weeks, even months at a time with nothing started on our wedding night. When she did allow anything, she wanted it over with ASAP. She always had other far more important things to do for someone else. It's been almost 9 months without so much as even a hug from my ice queen, but she can get up every morning between 6:30 - 7:00am and start posting on fb taking care of everyone else's business. I don't even bother to talk to her anymore.

[@steveballard515]

Go see a councillor or it’s over, 4 yrs separated 30yrs together. Sanity Restored

[@vicetube]

She didn't have this problem with Chad...

[@theexteriorminister6786]

Or Tyrone, or Pookie, or Nook-Nook, or Dey-Dey, or the hot bartender she banged at the house party.

[@smokingcrab2290]

Chad is only temporary. If Chad was loyal she'd still make herself unhappy

[@vicetube]

@@smokingcrab2290 False, women treat Chad like their job/boss - that being, they're on their best behavior. They may be frustrated with Chad/boss at times sure but she wouldn't dare treat him like a throw rug/ Poindexter. One could argue she couldn't. With Chad/ boss its either get down or lay down. If not - NEXT

[@agm5424]

I think it is like that with the Chad/bad guys because said bad guys would bring some type of consequences for the bad behavior, like leaving the relationship or becoming emotionally or physically abusive which in the mind of most immature/unauthentic venusians is a sign that he cares and because it rallies up their feelings. On the other hand a good man would expect that another supposed adult would act properly and make the right decision, like upholding their vows on their own without any external motivation or consequences for failing to do so, to have self determination in their actions and do what they're supposed to do now their own.

[@monet8287]

@@vicetube Women are not happy with Chad, she’s entertained. Women will participate in toxic situations with men they perceive to be “Chads” because he will treat her as disposable. Women who lack maturity and humility (so nearly all women 😂) love the cat and mouse game. It’s quite sick, I’ve seen it up close and personal myself because I’m a woman and it’s really concerning when men don’t see that complex.

[@eliashachem7378]

Men sacrifice their lives for their families, women sacrifice their families for their happiness, than they regret it.

[@garyhuebert8016]

Sent one of her 22 minute videos to my wife of 30+ years yesterday. She called 12 minutes later to say she watched the whole video. Must really think I'm stupid. But when she said "you quit watching that shit, it's total garbage"., I said "that's what she said you might say". Another red flag. Also she said 25 years ago, after 3rd kid " I could go the rest of my life without sex". Nice thing to hear. Still got some but like making her do something she hates.

[@godsspeedify]

I wish my wife would watch this video.. she hits the nail on the head 100% when she describes my wife.

[@JC-gw3yo]

If women would make sex a priority, they wouldn't over eat or do drugs. Sex is the bond that glues the marriage together

[@smokingcrab2290]

100%. If your woman is giving you sex problems and you're not happy in bed, it'll never get better. It rarely bounces back.

[@jamesyoung187]

Sadly, they make sex a priority outside of their marriage, in many cases. 😢

[@capricornsounduk6023]

I didn’t have a clue what to do about my wife’s behaviour until my lawyer said “why change with no incentive?”. That made things crystal clear….

[@johnsmith4900]

Women are like children. They respond to discipline, not being nice. Nice is weakness to them.

[@bearman6231]

This woman is outstanding. Thank you mam.

[@inyurhed]

"single women make married women single" - no idea who said it first, but it's very true.

[@ChrisAthanas]

We finally figured out the answer to Freud's question: "What do women want?" Answer: More and Something Else!

[@smokingcrab2290]

The correct answer is "stop caring". Because you're the leader not her. And when you live a life of trying to solve the problem of what women want, that makes HER the leader. It makes her desires the focus info your life when it should actually be your desires. Your life as a man and as a king should be focused on your mission to accomplish and build a life that YOU are passionate about. And her job is to follow you and support you in that. And in return you provide and protect her. But ultimately she needs to find satisfaction in supporting you and helping you as her king. This is why women are unhappy is because they don't understand their divine purpose

[@RS-ms1bz]

@@smokingcrab2290 100 percent. Modern western women despise the fact that men and women have roles to play in a relationship. They want to be what men were created to be. They think a women's role that God ordained them with is beneath them; that it makes them less than.

[@beesmongeese2978]

Corey Wayne will not save you, apprentice. You will not lead any woman, only a very few can. I forgive you for your ignorance. ​@smokingcrab2290

[@ChrisAthanas]

@@smokingcrab2290 I wish you the best of luck with that strategy, you are going with the most difficult group possible

[@SALTYCOMBATDIVER-ExInstructor]

Can't end a toxic relationship but can end a 24 year marriage? Make it make sense.

[@robertwerner683]

Can't!!!

[@orangeandslinky]

My wife filed for divorce after 35 years of marriage. She was a Christian and didn't even believe in divorce. No fornication , no adultery at all in our marriage. We were 60 years old when she left. That was 11 years ago. I was a good husband and a good dad too. I never got over it. To old to even think about being with old women my age. Women always say how beautiful each other are. They say they are dog moms and their families have paws. I have no idea how that happens. If women hate themselves as Karen says, there is nothing any man could ever do about it. We are always trying to make them smile. They say "MUST BE ABLE TO MAKE ME LAUGH." Wonder why that is a MUST?

[@chrischreative2245]

I’ve found from observation they fight much harder for the toxic relationships to stay intact vs the good ones.

[@peterharrell7305]

Ok. The husband is safe. The Chad is dangerous. She can beat the husband up and he will never oblige her with violence. She's afraid Chad will. Much in the way that abused children will point to the innocent person as an abuser. They know that person is safe, as in won't attack them for it. Whereas the abuser will.

[@orangeandslinky]

@@chrischreative2245 The evidence for what you are saying is everywhere. Does the good man understand it? No, not at all. Also when you are a good man, you can't just turn into a bad man. All the good men, just step back and don't engage women. We do not have any desire to fight at all.

[@sverre371]

We men let this happen for too long; sometimes women are like dogs, needing correction and being kept in their place to have things functional, with short but loose leashes and a treat when behaving well. Probably goes for some men, too.

[@mgtow6287]

Too much work. Period! Adults need to be adults.

[@sverre371]

@@mgtow6287 It's not really. Look at yourself in the mirror. Sometimes, you need to adjust, whether you like it or not. Nobody is without fault and perfect, not even if you live by yourself. Just like with a dog, a gentle reminder and it falls back in line.

[@smokingcrab2290]

She just fights you the whole time. You need a woman who submits voluntarily

[@sverre371]

@@smokingcrab2290 It's not about submission; it's about cooperation and what's logical and practical. Whatever feelings are guiding them at the moment need to be removed. Correction of focus.

[@smokingcrab2290]

@sverre371, she'll never cooperate if she doesn't understand you're the leader. So basically she either does what you say, or you leave.. Or you just keep the relationship intact and not really care what she does.

[@Nordic_Sky]

Your wife is so unhappy because she has lost respect for you and thinks she could do better. That's when the whole thing falls apart.

[@stefanmatton8778]

Oh so its not because of her own neuroticism. Its actually someone elses fault?

[@brianb5594]

No, be use she will not take responsibility for her own happiness. Instead, she thinks her husband is supposed to be the source of happiness. That belief will keep you women, (and everyone, men and women), who hold that belief that happiness is not their responsibility.

[@Karll541]

lol

[@smokingcrab2290]

She loses respect for you because of her own insatiable demands and expectations, not because you're a bad person. Even if you did everything right, it would make her look bad which would make her hate you even more. If she doesn't respect you it's probably because she sees you as competition, not a teammate. Or she just has way too many demands about how life should be - how YOU should be. The minute you have to ask her for sex that's when its over. If she doesn't want to give it to you, asking for it will only make her hate you even more.

[@smokingcrab2290]

@brianb5594, well to be fair, we all have relationship needs in order for the relationship to work and remain intact. The woman can't say "you're responsible for your own happiness" and then never have sex with her husband. So there are definitely things that need to happen for couples to be happy *in the relationship*. The problem with vvomen is that they are fundamentally unhappy with themselves and life in general regardless of the relationship or not, and they place THAT burden on the man.

[@spacespike6659]

This is very insightful! You mentioned in a previous video about the empty bottomless pit that exists within women, which, to some extent, is present in both men and women. However, it seems that women feel it more intensely. The reasons you provided, such as external factors like social media, are valid points. Does this mean that women in tribal community are more content? Why do women tend to experience this void more deeply than men? This feeling of emptiness has been exploited and weaponized by corporations to sell everything from food and cosmetics to luxury items like mansions, cars, jewelry, and even credit cards. Algorithms target you with ads, fueling this sense of void. The deeper we explore the causes and seek solutions, the more content we might become. From an early age, you can see the difference: boys often gravitate towards cars and bikes, while girls are drawn to bling. However, as years pass, men typically reach a point of compromise and contentment in simple things like beer, fishing, sports, having a drink in a bar with friends while for women, this void or sense of unhappiness often persists well into older age.why??

[@ibubezi7685]

Status - she's competing with (all) women around her. All she buys tells 'the world' (read: other women) that she is worthy (and 'successful'), as she has a good/better provider. Reversely - look at single, 'successful' women (careers, money) - are they happy? Are f'nists ever happy? Nope, as the one thing they want/need, they can't buy - and if they (can) get a man, they can't keep him. Women are their own worst en-e-mies - not all those hor-rible 'pat-riarc-hal' men 😉

[@Trizzer89]

Sounds like incredible laziness? Or more like a pathological need to do unhealthy things? Very bizarre. When I do something that hurts myself, I usually stop

[@toddgore2289]

Do you have recommended videos (or other resources) for men who choose to stay with unhappy wives? How to parent, not have shame, try to be a good husband and not shut down, etc?

[@thehappywifeschool]

@toddgore2289, thank you for your question. I will do a live show specifically on this topic soon.

[@smokingcrab2290]

Or how to stop your woman from constantly gaslighting or how to deal with the fact she'll never make you feel loved.

[@snowyowlz5992]

What puzzles me is rocket science is simple compared to human relationships. Especially marital dynamics.

[@ROForeverMan]

Because you dont have Chad.

[@thomasdonlin5456]

If she did, she’d still be miserable 😭

[@Savvynomad225]

Chad is only what they want while ovulating

[@smokingcrab2290]

It's like that movie Legends of the Fall with Brad Pitt. One beautiful woman was engaged to the youngest brother. But Brad Pitt was the brother she was madly in love with. She saw him taming horses and being wild and dangerous and when her fiance went to war she secretly wished for his death so that she could be with Brad Pitt. And when he actually did die she immediately went to Brad Pitt. Then Brad Pitt left her because he didn't know how to deal with himself and she waited for him. Then the middle brother proposed to her and she rejected him, so he went on to be a successful politician and she came running after him when she learned of his success. But the whole time she was still obsessed with Brad Pitt. And eventually she killed herself because she could never be with the guy she was truly obsessed with. If your woman isn't actually obsessed with you there's a good chance she'll never really love you.

[@CC-jl7jz]

What many women didn't realize is that men don't have time to take care of themselves either but are expected to never complain.

[@Zodiacconnections]

This video really resonated with me. 🌟 It’s so true that our happiness often lies within our own actions and self-care. The way you broke down the gap between what we do and what we know we should be doing is eye-opening. Thank you for shedding light on this important topic and for encouraging us to take accountability for our own happiness. 🙏 Your insights are truly valuable and much needed. Keep spreading this empowering message! 💪✨

[@johnottway8074]

The sad part is there are almost no women in these feeds. Not to learn but to listen. There are so many men talking about how hurt they are and how lonely they are and how betrayed they feel etc but no one but the other men hear it. That's a good thing by itself because we know we aren't alone but as men it reinforces the "share your feelings" but we know she won't hear or its wrong. We all know that. Share your feelings but never anger or sadness or frustration. If a man did Anything in this video it would be considered abuse. Ultimately my hope is lost and i don't care anymore. I'm just Boxer from animal farm and when im not usefull anymore ill be sent to the glue factory. Somehow itll be my fault too. Such is life. Good luck gents. I hope you get any kind of happy ending.

[@daviddunham9785]

Also to add to this, us guys still get blamed for the un happiness

[@DavidLoveOfficial]

Notice how few women are in these comment sections when it is women that most need to hear this. Shoutout to all the guys trying to figure things out. Don't sacrifice your happiness for anyone.

[@LastRebel1978]

Spot on for all human beings.

[@loverofgolf]

My ex wife's unhappiness was from being married to me.

[@goforitrazz]

Un happy with out you also.Your fault

[@knotwrong]

Women are contentious, always creating some sort of conflict

[@daviddunham9785]

Ya know, my wife had admitted to me at 2 different times that with in the last 5 years that she knows she's a bad mother and a bad wife and I can't agree more with her statement of that, It's been obvious based on her actions and lack of interest in anything

[@SKBottom]

Women mostly caused their own unhappiness? In other news, water is wet.

[@loverofgolf]

I wake up grateful every day that I am no longer married and having to deal with this stuff.

[@johnsmith4900]

@@loverofgolf Without listing reasons, its sadly come to the point that women just aren't worth it. Their actions match that of evil: They steal kill, destroy and parasite men while giving nothing in return but cost and heartache.

[@DamonvanDerSalm]

I sometimes say(to myself and others) that my wife creates her own storms and then blames me when it rains. After listening to this channel it's nice to know that I'm not crazy

[@omardavids8912]

Material things make woman unhappy!

[@jerrykudos9445]

How many years it took you Karen to realise all that? You made your husband miserable through all of them. You expect him to be happy with you then and now. You see nothing wrong or unusual in that. You kill a guys soul slowly over the years and when he is dead inside you are then ready for his love and are surprised that nothing makes him feel anything.

[@jerrykudos9445]

Now that you are ready he is dead inside and he sees that you are what he wanted you to be. To just be happy withbhim. He can't. You killed it. He wants to feel what he felt for you years ago but he can't. You make him feel missereable in this new way. So it is his turn to lie to you and pretend that he is happy.

[@jerrykudos9445]

He is with you just because he remembers what he felt for you. He can't really feel it anymore. He just remembers.

[@jerrykudos9445]

And you are ready now after all this years not because of your mentor but because you are old.

[@sc6802]

something does seem off with the way she speaks of her mentor. thinks of this figure in such a high regard. maybe its me.

[@funcygames]

Not sure why this personal attack... are you an ex boyfriend of hers? Lol sorry she didn't learn all this within your time requirements but it is a fact that many women never learn or refuse to learn the true source of happiness. They are miserable and take it out on everyone around them. Karen is doing for good men a great service being the first person in their lives to say not everything is their fault. And for the tiny percent of women that can receive this message they benefit too.

[@madbug1965]

I can't believe that I got banned from a sexless marriage group on Reddit because I recommended your KZbin channel. They said i was being permanently banned because of a "red pill" violation. 😂😂😂

[@joncho9689]

Reddit is a crap hole. Consider it a badge of honor. Highly suggest reading no more Mr Nice Guy by Dr Robert Glover. Follow it up with Rian Stone's two books.

[@professorlayabout4878]

Don’t poke crazy

[@froggacuda1605]

But they're all crazy

[@professorlayabout4878]

@@froggacuda1605 it’s a spectrum

[@MayorOfBodybuildingTV]

It’s your responsibility to make yourself happy.

[@RandomUser25122]

I agree with her but I find it hard to understand why modern women hate happiness or don’t want to be genuinely happy?

[@ROForeverMan]

Because they only want Chad.

[@mohammedabdulsamed8150]

Oooh you nailed it to the point 👍👍 - Not doing the things that should be done and expecting the husband to it for her then getting unhappy with the family

[@goforitrazz]

X from near thirty years ago turned 65 so out fora few drinks just to be supportive old guy,still complaining,her 44 year son was moving and told her to go home so he did have to listen to her complain.

[@DailyPaily]

Accountablity = Internal Dialog.

[@mniks8860]

Women aren't, and won't, watch or listen to this.

[@Lex_Koncord]

Anyone else’s wife talks disrespectfully to the kids and you, then when confronted she says “well I talked with other moms and this is normal”

[@joncho9689]

Read no More Mr Nice Guy by Dr Robert Glover.

[@timmiestix]

Rarely do I speak, with regards to this channel let me explain thank you for the hard work that you do it is not lost in my home that being said I have had to rebuild my wealth twice in this lifetime and I am now retired getting a prostitute not a problem having somebody that you can confide in and love that is a problem because along with those traits loyalty is so difficult to find however that being said I keep a smile on my face do the best that I can and one last thing I really want to thank you for all the hard work and the patience you must have I don't see you on the television very often but when I do it is always nice thanks again t i m m i e s t i x out

[@stephenm5662]

I am so so So glad I'm an older divorced guy now. I just cannot image living with a woman again.

[@MDrod2011]

I would like to know how can I send these videos to some of my friends, any recommendations? I'm a happily married woman, and some of my friends just don't listen to me, they don't realize what a blessing a good husband is. I would like to send these videos to women I know, but I'm scared to.

[@ROForeverMan]

Scared of what ?

[@JayWren-n3v]

How do I get my wife to watch this? You are 100% spot on.

[@ibubezi7685]

Tell her it has chocolate in it...Seriously, tell her you will leave if she refuses to change - and that this video could make all the difference - her call, but now she knows you will stand up for yourself.

[@joncho9689]

You also should be doing the work. Read no more Mr Nice Guy by Dr Robert Glover.

[@Ekam-Sat]

When the honeymoon phase is over, it often signifies that the woman is gradually withdrawing from wanting to be physically intimate with her partner. Unfortunately, many women are biologically predisposed to this pattern. Initially, they may draw the man in by being very physical, only to reduce their affection later in the relationship once they've achieved what they wanted. If a man is fortunate, he discovers this shift before marriage, giving him the opportunity to reconsider the relationship. However, many men aren't so lucky and realize too late that the person they married has significantly changed from how she initially portrayed herself during the early stages of the relationship. In my opinion, most men remain attracted to their partners, and for them, the end of the honeymoon phase doesn't necessarily mean a decline in their desire for intimacy. Instead, it usually indicates that the woman has begun to withdraw from wanting physical connection with her partner.

[@Pedritox0953]

Great video!

[@andrewcombe8907]

So why are men constantly blamed for women’s unhappiness?

[@astrodb4487]

I could not find a link for "The Marriage Rescue Course"

[@roha8993]

Speech writer for Kamala?

[@dr.mathamagic3157]

Please distinguish between Western (US in particular) women and others.

[@moxenman]

Nr. 6 (actually Nr.1). Women know that they can not keep loving. They want to but they can not keep it up while a man's love can forever go on and even grow. That must be a devastatiing ephinany when you know for real that this is you.

[@smokingcrab2290]

Women don't actually love they just get enamored, like when a child gets a new toy

[@kodamooshface1108]

Well she's married to me of course. That must be it right?

[@DougKremer]

❤

[@indiankite7358]

Don't waste your time on women!

[@platoonsergeanttracemiller]

The concept, of happy? Happy as the young female, young male, older female, older male? The body thing, is just do not eat any sugar, none zero, your the female, sugar is alcohol. Same for him to make a baby. Minimum, 110 Days before conception, total correct diet, walking or to three miles a day and actively working 8, both baby makers, male and female, higher protein more pure water. 10-15%. Happiness, expectations,vand then some lives goals and interests that get you up to the walking everyday to have full health mostly the whole way. But they will never create the baby scientifically best possible. They do not think of their baby before they, create it. Married, and Married in creation,,, of New persons. If your not religious, it's holy matrimony, to creating, a new being. Your naked before God, and it is not, an ancient, Caucasian, supreme being, but none the less, it does create, new life.

[@ROForeverMan]

I am God.

[@eshrath]

Looks like it’s mostly me here. Women don’t seem interested in learning anything here.