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[@DeedsReadz]

I totally understand what you’re talking about with “the purity you” vs “marriage you” conversation! I’m going through this right now. It’s so hard to break down this wall.

[@Milagroshappens08]

I get it, regarding the part of intimacy! Im almost going to be 2 years married. In the beginning it was difficult and I’m so thankful to God for my husband. He was very understanding. Something that helped me was praying before we had intimacy and it helped so much! I get what you are saying I was in that same situation.

[@NastasiaGrace]

yes praying helps us so much too!!

[@evelync7149]

This was so informative and so helpful! I would love for you to do another video regarding the marriage bed and how to transition from being single and pure to being married and able to make love again. Thank you for your transparency.

[@JessSaysHi3]

This was so encouraging! 2 years married and very inspired 💕 thanks stas!

[@karlidilon5736]

I loved this video! The Holy Spirit was speaking through you. Please make a video about intimacy in marriage.

[@sandyhardy3419]

We have been married 16 years… And I can attest to the fact that my husband’s health is better… Men live longer when they’re married… And yes the sex gets better the longer you are married it is a covenant and God honors that covenant

[@kaileyduncan2914]

You said it all girl 🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻 100% on point church girl purity how to transfer over to the marriage side &&& and also with the high high standards!!!! Love it, this blessed me!! I thought I was the only one who thought this way about intimacy & purity!!!

[@isabelbetancourt1095]

Thank you for being so honest and sharing your experiences with is. God bless you and your family ❤

[@karenfahmy8958]

This is amazing advice! Thank you so much for sharing what you learnt! It’s so good to know this before going into marriage to prepare for marriage! ☺️🙏

[@latonyadampier9449]

This is definitely a Blessing and will help many who have an ear to hear 😊GOD Bless🙏🏽🌈

[@mamun376]

Thank you so much for opening up to help others

[@LoveeeeelyM]

I hear you regarding the intimacy part. It’s also a very confusing thing to go from being engaged intimately when you’re in the world and then engaging intimately when you’re married in Christ and you have to re-teach yourself what is no longer appropriate and sometimes you have to grieve what you once knew or did.

[@lisaweaver7881]

Your videos are my favorite!! I am married 7 years (with no children, we deal with infertility) and I relate to not wanting to serve my husband, not enjoying cooking etc. In the last year I realized I have to get up EARLY and figure out how to get done what I need. I help my husband with his business so I am away from home 4 days a week, then work from home 1 day and I do all the house/home things as well, because I believe that is a wife's place. It sure is a challenge but I am so much happier since I started embracing it instead of complaining that I dont have time to cook, clean, etc, because I'm working away from home.

[@LoveeeeelyM]

What you’re saying in this video doesn’t sound silly or stupid. It’s so much truth about the human condition and how limited we make our experiences when we focus on anything but Christ. Thank you so much for sharing your heart. Truly, thank you! Like so so much ❤🙏🏻

[@somethinggood9267]

You made a lot of great feelings about marriage in this video.

[@alecktra1]

This is a great video for brides , wives & spouses. Your explanation on secular "intimacy" vs "purity culture" made so much sense. You do a good job of verbalizing things many of us can relate to. Unrelated Question: What kind of hair tool did you use to get those curls?

[@NastasiaGrace]

Thank you so much!! And I use a curling wand haha! So it’s just a curling iron with no clamp.

[@Mtd2700]

Yes ma'am!! You worded this so well. 💛

[@NastasiaGrace]

thank you!!!

[@gotteskind_7]

The timing of you uploading this. Thank you, I needed to hear it.❤

[@briannaschatz2960]

Yes Nastasia!! Thank you!! ❤

[@LoveeeeelyM]

Absolutely our relationship is not based on feelings but take a look at the relationship stages so it can also give you some idea on what stage your guys’ relationship might be on.

[@lifefoundinhim]

Stas, not related to the video, but you're glowing🤍

[@NastasiaGrace]

awww thank you!!! it's the highlighter probably LOL

[@somethinggood9267]

This video shows me how much God is growing you through marriage!!!

[@WondurfullyMade]

What you said makes sense about the jump from purity to marriage and physical intimacy. I think Hebrews 13:4 sums it up pretty nicely. The marriage bed is undefiled but God will judge the fornicators. My understanding of that is most- if not all things in "bed" between husband and wife are allowed. Barring the perversions that have come about in modern times. It might feel weird, but be straight-up with God in prayer about it. Give Him the details and He can help you with the struggles you might have! Invite Him into that area to fix it.

[@NastasiaGrace]

I agree!

[@eveclosson3333]

Hi Nastasia, I love listening to your advice and life updates; I hope you're doing good, and not being too hard on yourself, and I feel like I relate to the way you think, and I understand what you're saying lol, with intimacy. God bless you❤

[@NatalieJulianne]

"Use this time to better yourself for Christ." AMEN

[@ddraper4819]

I get what you're saying. You're told "dont have sex. sex is wrong etc" for 20 something years of your life. You get married and are "allowed" to have sex, but dont know how to make that transition. Like your virginity was almost a part of your personality and now people know you're not a virgin anymore.

[@alecktra1]

Can you do a video of your favorite/easy meals to make?

[@NastasiaGrace]

Sure!!

[@daniellekramer93]

This is part of why Twilight is so huge it’s because they waited till marriage for sex.

[@wordsofjames]

Wait.....there are times you don't brush your teeth for 2 weeks?

[@NastasiaGrace]

hahahaha no

[@monasequeira1996]

Stas im glad you mentioned physical intimacy. I have learnt that some things are indeed wrong, even in marriage. Like oral sex (sodomy) is an abomination to the Lord and anal sex is simply unsafe health wise. It's risky! Using toys is again stimulating oneself with something other than their husband, and so is masturbating. So these are few things I've been taught. Most worldly men have such expectations from the porn they've watched before and they wanna play it out with their mate. I don't know bout Christian men tho but I am taught that there are certain things that are not okay, these ideas are borrowed from the porn hub.

[@ddraper4819]

This is legalism. You can have oral sex as a married couple as long as you both agree and consent.

[@somethinggood9267]

Who told you oral sex is sodomy?? Anal sex is sodomy