Wife’s Down Low Husband Tries To Kill Her For Confronting Him

[@TrappinAnonymous]

We must not ignore the red flags & learn from the people in our community. I thank my guest for being brave enough to tell her story, thank you all for created a space to be heard. Hit me up if you have a story

[@ayana188]

Are you gonna drop an interview with the daughter??? We’re all very interested ❤

[@ShontaJones]

Definitely waiting on Part 2

[@LOVELY-131]

@TrappinAnonymous ❤ MAN U FINE😍😃 🎉

[@itsageminithingdewanavinso6243]

@@LOVELY-131girl I love listening to their testimonies 🥰 but he make u binge watch episodes back to back and rewatch em! Damn he fine…

[@thecreativequeen9685]

@@TrappinAnonymous I remember being a little girl in the car with my sister and a man with beads in his hair a short glitter mini skirt was standing outside the car , I got down on the floor and was so scared. It still scares me as a grown woman, it’s just not natural. I was hiding listening to this story, poor woman lived through it. This world is upside down 🫠

[@closingthedivide1187]

Y'all! I was today years old when I realized that being single is a gift too! For real. 😢

[@victoriadove3363]

Yes🎉🎉🎉🎉

[@5staresh]

Ameen

[@cicijones6065]

I luv it!!

[@sheambitious29lachelle17]

better believe it

[@kayjaykayjay1869]

It is the best feeling ever!! People try and make it like a death sentence because you’re single! Nope I’m peaceful drama free and I don’t have to care about nobody but myself and my family 🙏

[@lindsaywells5225]

Lowering your standards lowers your life expectancy. She is so blessed to be alive.

[@Sonia-cs2vw]

So true❤❤❤❤❤

[@katferguson]

There's so much talk today about being a middle aged woman and single - how it's the worst fate in life. I divorced my abusive husband because my life LITERALLY depended on it. Middle age and single for many women means PEACE.

[@atlantasfaithsmom]

Amen. ❤🙏🏽

[@pamelajacobs2863]

PEACE....Amen

[@butterflylovenj7300]

Amen

[@camiblutube7116]

Yes! Amen!

[@talithagibson3138]

Peace is irreplaceable...glad she made it out🙏🏾

[@tyranemckever4210]

That man was using her to cover up that he was DL that’s why he couldn’t let her go

[@TrappinAnonymous]

Smh

[@lovejones1897]

Like many narcs

[@mMeirachattman]

She was his beard indeed smh

[@BJC-pk8cm]

Yep. She was his masculinity.

[@mimisliveboutique3543]

Yep a coward trying to use her as his beard

[@truthersprotectingtruth490]

No one should judge this woman. She is doing a service for the rest of us. I see this as part of her cleansing process. She didn't have to share her experiences to cleanse but she did. I thank you for your openness.

[@TrappinAnonymous]

💯

[@china6930]

And the fact that she took her ACCOUNTABILITY in the "situationship " and people not understanding that is beyond me... I commend her 💯

[@RightToFreedomGirl]

@Truther : Uh-huh and thirsty ones still talking aboit find a "good one" 🙄

[@AmberColeman-gq1wn]

@china6930 They were married and childhood sweethearts… what situation- ship???

[@whisper2284]

@@RightToFreedomGirlChildren aren’t safe, PERIODT. There are predatory uncles, brothers, cousins, family friends all abound. The stepfather is among many who can harm a child. Society must change how Pedophilia is talked about and addressed. There should be more awareness of the effects of Pedophilia on a child’s psyche than focusing on Trans athletes or the rainbow flag issues discussed in K-12. Public Service Campaigns are necessary to raise boys and men’s awareness around sexual predatory behaviors.

[@margaretali5542]

I was recently attacked by my husband for wanting to bake cookies for a wedding. He pushed me into a fireplace and my head bled very bad. My grandson saw everything. I stopped babysitting him. He’s a 3 year old. I’m in the process of getting divorced and I’m trying not to give him a clue of what’s about to happen.

[@mrmg4379]

Leave and never go back, stay strong

[@gigiFLOWER2023]

Great for you💃🏾💪🏾🍍Remain safe. Many of them are snapping and killing the entire family. Go where he doesn't know. Your loved ones too. It's happening more each day.

[@ddoubleu170]

You’ve got this!

[@missmew]

@@ddoubleu170 Wow, thanks for sharing. Speaking out is the first sign you're ready to move on. 🙏🏽

[@mariaweb3703]

Stay safe. I 'll be thinking of you.

[@danielleh2983]

I hope this saves somebody's life. She is soo brave for this. Thank you sis

[@Ayeshalynette]

That’s all I want! We gotta save ourselves. Thank you

[@wandak1889]

Amen!! And to bring it to the public optics’s

[@dawnshirley3949]

Sooooo brave!!!

[@AnnBryan-r9l]

If won’t look how long she stays with him

[@chicparlor7590]

Ladies, sometimes it's better to stay single. I'm reminding myself, too. These stories are far too common, and our kids deserve better.

[@MaxXxBoogie187]

Single and celibate for 9yrs soon as I had ma daughter I knew the party was over💯I’m thinkn with ma heart ma mind and gut not ma vagina and I see she tried that and a surpent got to her🤦🏾‍♀️🙏🏾

[@shawnlove4502]

It really is

[@chrystalbrown1982]

Absolutely.

[@Frija_the_goddess]

I agree

[@tinadavis2083]

Amen😔🙏🏾

[@ONLYLOVEIZATION]

Shout out to the wise and skilled young man conducting the interview. Done with genuine care and sensitivity towards the lady being interviewed 👏 very well done.

[@TrappinAnonymous]

❤❤❤

[@Cookie2u6319]

@@ONLYLOVEIZATION I agree

[@paulinairvin605]

💯 REAL TALK 👌🏽 💖 RESPECT ✊️ 💜 🌹

[@FrankyJames-p2d]

I will have to disagree on this one ..

[@aleayh]

And this is why when men say you’re gonna be alone with cats I don’t take it as an insult. It’s actually a Flex because I’ll be damned if I deal with abuse, just to say I have a man

[@mightymouse1005]

I'm alone with cats, dogs and I am at peace...

[@farmhouseonthemountain]

Why do you think that's what it was for her?

[@aleayh]

@@farmhouseonthemountain no one said that was the case for her. I spoke for myself that that’s the reason why I’m single because I’ve refused to go through what she went through. 😁

[@prettyvirgo85]

Ive been celibate for 3yrs. I think ill just stay by myself

[@gigiFLOWER2023]

I'm right there with you... Everyday, a more horrific matter exposed 😢. Especially when you learn the very child you gave birth to has not only slept with your husband, but now allows it to happen to her 9yr old daughter.

[@taez516]

Im close to 4yrs i dont have time for games

[@t.c.5456]

Or simply choose better

[@JustNishaa]

​@@t.c.5456Choosing celibacy IS choosing better...

[@joyell821]

4 years.. I'm good on these dudes. No one is ever truly happy with them.

[@123f89]

This happens in marriages more than we would like to admit

[@daniella8400]

Yup, I’d say 50% of married men are DL

[@whitleywhitley2280]

Sadly and it's a scary real reason why marriage is a turn off because somma these dudes think they own u and can do n e thing to you

[@BreTheBlkGenie]

‼️

[@ConnieMitchell-k3n]

@@123f89 that's why you're supposed to either get married to please God or be the biggest freak of a wife for your husband. Both pressure will calm his lil butt all the way down.

[@kakeisharice1669]

@@ConnieMitchell-k3nwho gets married for god. Either one person is in love and the other for the finances

[@Ayeshalynette]

This Interview is not about religion. It’s about abusive deceitful men. Thanks for watching

[@TrappinAnonymous]

Yup

[@Raquel_824]

Thank you for sharing your story 🫶🏽

[@tinadavis2083]

😢😔💔🙏🏾

[@kimberlyjones2314]

Facts

[@charchar2983]

Thank u so much. I had a ex who always wanted anal over vaginal. It was the same with his ex's. He is known down the bottom as a bigdick dude but don't mess with him unless u like anal. To this day he claims no interest in men and no man has claimed sex with him..but after years I realized this sex lifestyle is not for me and moved on

[@ebonyeyes7023]

This dude was trying to break her. He didn't like women.

[@Mz.TooMuch2YouBoo]

Exactly ❗

[@latoyastevenson8657]

He went to prison at a young age and got turned out🤦🏾‍♀️

[@inesplain8870]

Maybe before he went to prison because he was angry the way he pistol whipped that lady.

[@aieshatheteapot]

I was waiting on someone to say it. He got locked up at 16… He needs intensive therapy and to stay locked up for as long as it takes for his mentality to change

[@saharaloveland]

Yup

[@Tamfel_85]

​@@inesplain8870Seems more like prison since he was r'ing her he may have been aggressively sexually attacked which commonly happens with young men.

[@johnquayequao7026]

Yes he must have been a homosexual

[@QueenSugar72]

When I was young I thought I had to have a man. Smh at how naìve I was. Now at 52 I am so content and happy being single. Give me peace over a piece of man any day. Praise God that you made it out. Thank you for sharing your story 🙏🏾

[@LaurenPerez-x2v]

Yes me too been single for 5 years now

[@Kas-S]

Yes!! Right there with you. These men will have you in the dumps, for real.

[@shawnlove4502]

This is the marriage ppl think BW should want. The abuse women endure is insane. Absolutely not. This woman is lucky to be alive.

[@gigiFLOWER2023]

Very blessed... So many have lost their lost

[@noliaboy5037]

Who would expect a woman to want this type of marriage. Nobody should endure this type of shit. But this doesn't represent the majority of black marriages so we need not push that narrative queen....respectfully

[@tita8202]

​@@gigiFLOWER2023 *Lives*

[@blackcherry6877]

This is what so many blkmarriages look like. That's why some BW are divesting to other groups of men,or just staying single.

[@thefabuloushebrew6313]

​@@blackcherry6877 I get why you're making that statement but if this is what so many blk marriages possibly look like behind closed doors, what the heck do the marriages with others look like? The grass is never greener. For those that have been able to find a great love, lucky them. For those that haven't or won't, I wish life would've treated those folks a little kinder. Race does not matter. Men are literally men. I have a blk friend that live in Cali and married to a whyte man who makes the money. She stays home. Looking at her FB you would never think. Outside of the abuse, she cannot teach their sons about being blk. She was also told that if she left, he will take the kids because he has money. She believes he has children in the Philippines as he takes several business trips there yearly and she knows he "utilizes" the young woman workers there. Smh. Some of these stories, my jaw was on the floor...I had no advice to give. And then I see the stories in the whyte mom groups....man listen....it doesn't matter!!! I even saw a blk lady warning others about an Asian man she got pregnant by and how he treated her. She told blk women that she does not recommend Asian men smh. There's good people, there's bad people.

[@traceymoses1449]

I am giving her BIG RESPECT!!! Happy for her! She is STRONG! She is HONEST! She is INTENTIONAL! She is HUMBLE! SHE IS BEAUTIFUL!

[@victoriadove3363]

🎉🎉🎉 yes she is...❤ Respect for this sister ...

[@maryyoung7373]

Absolutely ❤

[@brownsugako7772]

She really is very strong, much respect to her!

[@francinehawkins6957]

From what I have heard about jail...I feel b this guy getting locked up at a youn age for 8 some odd yrs. Their is a possibility that someone raped him in there or the other way around....since he seemed to be a bully of sorts......or he may hav been sexually abused as a young child....who knows? However, what is known that he is truly mentally messed up as a result from jump street or from other traumas. It is a blessing that you are out of that horror now and you are willing to try to help others avoid or get out of what they may be going thru and how to get out of it before it's too late! You are one Brave woman!

[@itsjustus3513]

I am so happy you made it out DV is so real I am a survivor of over 30 years You are strong and beautiful dear ❤️

[@MikaPoodle]

Just have to say this sister is brave and humble! She told her truth. No judgements just lessons learned. Thank you for telling your story ❤

[@angelicar.9953]

Please don’t ask an DV victim why did they stay. She was abused and manipulated smh

[@TiaSymone-uj7bg]

❤

[@EarthAngel333xX]

How will women understand why we stayed unless it’s being told.

[@4trucreations]

Sometimes staying until you plan your exit saves your life. I know it did for me.

[@ednamason8336]

I'll ask cause not gone beat me and make me like it. I'm gone cause I'd be in jail for hot grits or worse

[@farmhouseonthemountain]

People are ignorant to the fact that physical abuse changes your brain, it causes psychological issues. People act like they don't know that or their too lazy to Google why abuse victims stay.

[@PsychITgod]

A lot of predators hide under the guise of religion. Love and Light to all. May you get out sooner than later. 💜

[@SamanthasUniverse]

I agree. I hate how often religion is used to abuse women and children.

[@lakeshiabanks331]

Yes indeed.... the absolute truth it's disgusting if you ask me

[@mariel.weaver8351]

Very similar situation. Got out & moved to another state BEFORE outting him, stayed single and celibate for 3 years, while attending therapy.....Best decision of my life.

[@SamanthasUniverse]

I want to start therapy. I've been single about 3 years and celibate off and on for about 3-4 years.

[@fairisfair2986]

I am happy you are safe ...I have so many questions for you

[@mariel.weaver8351]

@@fairisfair2986 Feel free

[@tarariker3574]

My ex did similar. Broke my face- and ended up murdering someone last Aug.. And he got all the charges dropped: ALL of them. I have no words . I’m glad you and your kids are okay. ❤

[@gigiFLOWER2023]

Damn... It's the system... But let them try it in another country they'd been murdered too.

[@INGEN_Dahnie-el-aha-ha]

​@@Aina-u2k Y E P 💯 ...When you know, YOU KNOW...There is definitely a secret society in the mix somewhere.

[@INGEN_Dahnie-el-aha-ha]

@TaraRiker: I'm so sorry you had to go through that and I PRAY TO GOD that you moved far away, where he can't find you...also, I hope you purchased a 🔫 "Pew-Pew" 🔫

[@BlkDymond73]

😢

[@missnya4368]

Woah 😮

[@LilMoSweet53]

She was better off as a single mother

[@Passionatelyfruits]

I promise to never judge a woman for being a single mother, especially, I do not know her and her family situation

[@Tabitha_Lazarus]

FACTS

[@shawnlove4502]

Yup she is

[@snake991231]

Truth be told, most of us are!

[@MsM-y3d]

​@@Passionatelyfruitsright she may not want to share a painful story or expose someone 😔

[@cryptickink]

MOTHERS IF YOU HAVE CHILDREN NEVER LET A MAN LIVE WITH YOU OR WATCH YOUR CHILDREN!!

[@blessed78nc]

Never!!!!!

[@zanawashington1315]

NEVER!!!

[@dawnmega4491]

I have a 31 yr old son and a 12 year old daughter and I never let no man be around either one of them except for their father and still payed attention to they ass when it came to my children

[@Natural_S3l3ction]

EVER! IDC how many years you've "known" him

[@SinaAla]

This is my first time watching this channel. The interviewer is very sensitive and emotionally intelligent. He handled this with care. Great interview.

[@tashaw3636]

When she said his eyes were black and then snaped out of it, sounds like he was possessed by a demon.

[@SamanthasUniverse]

Most people explain that when people are truly evil. My ex, who is a Narcissist, got the Blackest eyes ever when he was choking me. He even started laughing maniacally. It's hard to explain it if don't see it with their own eyes. Might be a demon. Just pure evil. I had to escape him to save my life. I truly believe he would have k*lled me if I'd stayed any longer. The violence was definitely escalating and I've seen abusive marriages my whole life. I knew it wouldn't get any better.

[@DiannaHarrieth]

Narcissist the evil in them is unimaginable.

[@laprellwade614]

When anyone is separated from God, the enemy can get in and control your every action.

[@daishamouton1471]

he is the demon wtf

[@Millionaress1]

@@DiannaHarriethit’s spiritual and not of this earth I also deal with a narcissist. This is what science calls an evil inhabiting a human 😮😮😮😮😮😮, I thank god I got away from him . The laughing maniacal tells you it’s not human 😢

[@veniestagourdine3881]

This poor lady and her children went through hell and back . I pray for her and her children.

[@naychagirl2389]

Being a stay-at-home wife and mother is not being "kept".

[@harrietboateng5239]

what is kept then?

[@naychagirl2389]

@@harrietboateng5239 “Kept” is a woman (traditionally) having a nice “soft” lifestyle, paid for by a man who in return expects her to be available for him. “Kept” is not a couple making a decision about how best to raise their family. It’s certainly not a woman looking after children, a home and a performing “wifely duties” for no pay and little appreciation.

[@NandiJohnston-p6f]

@@harrietboateng5239 if I may... from what I was told years ago: being *Kept* is or was... like a #mistress; she lives separately from the man; in a place he pays for, be it rent or mortgage. He covers all her bills + gifts too. She's really not required to do any of the proverbial heavy lifting. A stay-at-home Wife & Mother does mucho heavy lifting, figuratively, emotionally and literally! She has to keep the house clean, food cooked, raised the babies, and cater to his needs: #ego, stroke that and his lions. The wife pays dearly! 'Some think cause she's not paying the bills she's getting off easy. Nope!

[@imdatchyck505]

sure didn’t feel KEPT when I was doing it 😂

[@livelystones7773]

Maybe ‘trapped’ wife is more applicable in many cases

[@HaitianBlackGinger11]

Why would he ask if she’s outing him? That’s why evil continues to reign, due to our silence. Due to not exposing evil doers.

[@preciousandrare1777]

It's just a question.

[@SunnyKayy]

1. Being a wife... didn't mean being rap3d!! 2. Being a kept woman comes with a LOT of sacrifices!! YOU ARE RIGHT!! 3. I'm so sorry about what happened to your daughter. That is one of the reasons why a LOT of women don't start dating again when they have female children. 😔 4. I'M SO GLAD that you said you asked your sons too. Too often we forget that our boys are in danger too, and it's not just our girls. SMH

[@RudeAttitude_3]

I’m glad I watched this all the way through. My mouth was on the floor at the end 😮

[@TrappinAnonymous]

😮😮😮

[@nijahk7583]

Girl! I had to come back to yr comment by the end of this video 😮

[@nicolescriven1432]

Yes took me out!!

[@tommismith2]

Just when I was thinking this is terrible it got worse 😢

[@LuxLife24]

Yes. Wow

[@PaulaLuciano-xr2xb]

I Appreciate Her Shareing Her Story. She Is A Very Beautiful And Brave Woman

[@TrappinAnonymous]

❤

[@444clockit]

Breaking free is never easy. I been with my child’s father 3 years, just had my first child by him 2 weeks ago, I should’ve stopped fooling with him MONTHS INTO THE RELATIONSHIP. There was many red flags…However, I just found the courage to move back to my mama’s & change my number after he didn’t show up to my daughter’s birth & refuses to sign the birth certificate. Taking it one day at a time❤

[@AmberColeman-gq1wn]

❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ everything will be fine. I’m proud of your strength. Take your time to get to know your baby girl and heal.

[@444clockit]

@@AmberColeman-gq1wn thanks lovely 💓

[@SonjaElizabethTeal]

Good for you for your courage!!! Prayers for you and the children!❤

[@444clockit]

@@SonjaElizabethTeal thank you 😭💓 means a lot to hear encouraging words

[@Mzbossladyrise]

❤❤❤

[@aquaabundance4077]

My heart breaks for the kids raised in violent homes 9:45

[@yogib1442]

A lot of the comments are shaming this woman, as if no one’s ever made bad decisions or weren’t in their right mind. She’s extremely brave for telling her truth. Where’s the compassion?

[@mrs.lovely8527]

I would never be with a gay man.

[@patriciamay2690]

Thank you for saying that.

[@farmhouseonthemountain]

Absolutely. "Just to say you have a man" is such a gross thing to say in light of her story.

[@iraanderson66]

There is compassion. Why did she marry a man who wanted to dive into her back door? If I am gonna get with a man who says he wants the back door before marriage, it's on me to accept that or walk away and not look back.

[@GemalesWife40]

Those the ones that will be looking crazy when they go through it. Yes they dodging it now but by judging this woman they going to overlook the signs that she's put out there she's educating them why they judging her hope they don't have to go through it to understand it. But some people have to go through it to understand it instead of taking heed to what she saying

[@HI-gm8ih]

When she said her mother and father would fight and her children would see and or hear her and their father fighting that just shows how the generational curses repeat itself I pray to God that her children break that curse and don’t put their children through what they went through 😖!

[@MarleneScott-r6t]

HE'S GAY PERIOD

[@perdybirdie]

Yup. He unfortunately got turned out in jail or beforehand and is now fully gay. But using women to hide his sexuality because he's still ashamed. There needs to be an investigation on the correlation between gay black men and jail/childhood sexual abuse. I think a good 80% of gay black men come from those two pools and we need to talk about it.

[@chaunabatts1621]

I agree with you. I believe her husband was abused as a child or something happened in prison. Whatever it was it was violent.

[@ahhmzzbriightt1023]

​@@perdybirdie80% of black men are 🌈 PERIOD!

[@joyell821]

​@@chaunabatts1621 bingo.

[@GrievingSister]

Very from his first 17 year old stay in jail!!

[@simplygem8449]

I had a friend that this happened to.. I'm always suspicious of men that say, ' I'm not into breasts, I just want big asses'...😢 What visually separates men from women are breast

[@ValeriePerez388]

Well, that’s about 99% of Black & indigenous Hispanic men. Always lusting over cheeks.

[@joyell821]

Interesting that a lot of Blk men say this.

[@INGEN_Dahnie-el-aha-ha]

​@@joyell821 Many BM are DL. You didn't know? Lol I'm being very serious. Many of them HATE women and would rather "be with" their homeboys. All you have to do is observe them more closely to see what I mean. 😊 My ex husband was DL...Still shocks me til this day. He was tall, muscular and masculine....TUH.

[@AmberColeman-gq1wn]

BINGO!!!!!! I feel the same exact way! Because t-trans can also have big butts, men can even have hips! Even with that back door mess, they won’t know the difference with a man or woman- because we all have that back door…. I don’t like men who literally don’t like the things on a woman, that make her a woman.

[@Misandrist-hitler]

Not really men don't have big butts . There's alot of signs a man is dl other than that

[@KnoNow9]

Why in the hell would marrying a man that already has a wife seem like a brighter idea? 🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️ The abuse her daughter endured knocked the breath out of me and made me tear up. It went from bad to worse.

[@ggloria55]

I really like his line of questioning. He comes in right on time. He's also gentle with his words. This woman is very open and honest with herself and throughout this interview.🙏🏾.. She didn't out him. He outed himself when he scooped that Vaseline.

[@lavenderblu253]

Wow! As a victim of being molested and having a daughter this is deep! I’m so close to my daughter it’s crazy I don’t even want to go to work so I won’t leave her. It affected my life forever. May Allah continue to bless your path.

[@TrappinAnonymous]

❤❤

[@rita-ow2wm]

Awesome interview! I’m from Philly and I send all prayers and blessings to this woman and her family. Ladies we have to fully heal 1st before we can entertain another relationship let alone a marriage.

[@Ayeshalynette]

Thank you for being compassionate and humorous at the same time. I was so nervous! I feel like a weight have been lifted

[@TrappinAnonymous]

God did it.

[@Ayeshalynette]

@@TrappinAnonymousand to God be the Glory

[@sweetzmamakitchen7815]

Do you have a go fund? If not set up one I will donate. You should have some relief and just focus on loving and bonding with your children. 💕

[@Ayeshalynette]

@@sweetzmamakitchen7815I never had one or or thought about it! I appreciate the offer

[@honeynicolereign5804]

As Salamu Alaikum Sister. Many blessings for you and yours Ameen.

[@Page57]

Just got out of something similar. Found out the man I was dealing with was DL. I broke up with him. I'd rather be single the rest of my life than to continue on with someone like that.

[@fairisfair2986]

I'm happy for u doesn't it f with ya brain how did the signs go unnoticed they are deceitful

[@neshaarenee7587]

Stop bringing these men around your kids. It’s always the mom’s significant other’s!!!! That poor baby

[@TiaSymone-uj7bg]

Exactly.

[@CherieButler]

Sending love and healing out to her and her children because this is their trauma too.

[@blaqueroze1805]

This is Majority BM today I refuse and rebuke them all. That area is for exit only. Sorry Hubby

[@jozejeaux3962]

The sad truth

[@SamanthasUniverse]

Same. This woman got mad at me because I said I have no empathy for men. And she is a Black worshipper. I, promptly, left her chat and unfollowed her.

[@teelacara8922]

Sad but true, most now want anal sex and act like it's the norm, it's not and I would never submit to something that I'm not comfortable with

[@geraldinevermaak2836]

That's exactly my thoughts...how sick and low life you got to be to go up the stinker/sewage pipe...men are just frkn disgusting

[@Misstonyah]

No it's not. All BM are not violent. DON'T MESS WITH FELONS.

[@Brigantia-mg1fw]

He tortured her for having to stay with her and the kids He didn't want to be there anymore But he didn't want child support either It's a shame he didn't honor the mother of his children I'm so glad she chose to tell her story And you gave her a platform to speak her truth

[@lovejones1897]

He tortured her because he is a demon and a narcissist and hated himself and the family is always the enabler and they are wicked

[@inesplain8870]

Not true. He was the one fighting to keep her there so he could continue to abuse and take her. He tried to kill her for leaving him. What about that says he didn’t want to be there?! His whole intent in marrying her is so he could do what he was doing to her.

[@Aprylbaby]

That's horrible. I'm glad you survived that sister. He was a sick demon. May God be with you through your life.

[@Aprylbaby]

She's from Philly, I knew as soon I clicked on the story. This is really sad. You never know who you are married to.

[@Freedomrings4433]

Wow I pray she heals mentally and emotionally ❤ thank you for sharing your story sister

[@helgapataki4156]

You can't love destruction out somebody.

[@JamesIssacNeutron3]

🫰🏾 🫰🏾

[@geraldinevermaak2836]

Truth be told...a demon is a demon

[@ashleymonet6046]

I have so much respect for this womans bravery in sharing her story. Stay strong n blessed my sista.

[@KGarvin9325]

My heart breaks for this Mom. The very thing she didn’t want happen, happened 😔 praying for her and her daughter

[@Wavytay-gh9jg]

This be why they’re so angry fr

[@crystalv.2418]

This why who be angry?

[@jozejeaux3962]

@@crystalv.2418The DL men battling their demons with their sexuality. They're angry and I've seen it for myself

[@SilkyDanielle-]

Exactly* Be gay as hell and too cowardly to live in their truth.

[@RightToFreedomGirl]

​@crystalv.2418 Correct, he was frustrated by CHOOSING to keep up appearances of Christian, hetëro & her complaining about filling him

[@SamanthasUniverse]

Yep!

[@evelyngilbert5020]

If you are not being respected, you are not being loved.

[@beautyinthedark7406]

He should absolutely be outed, exposed etc. NO sympathy for a chronic abuser, liar and cheater. That’s wild to ask if she thought it was right to out this Bastard🙄Where are the kind words, prayers for her and the kids. The only reason narcissist get away with their BS is because of the enablers ie family, friends. Also narcs count on the victim feeling so ashamed that they’re too embarrassed to tell anyone out of the fear of being judged💯💯💯

[@na-nathomas4212]

Stay single until ur kids are grown...our jobs as a parent is to protect our children....their well being is more important than our own

[@Welcome2keemasworld]

I got married 8 years ago with 7 kids 6girls 1boy My husband is the greatest I also watch my children and we talk about everything All men are not like this but I get where your coming from

[@teelacara8922]

My daughter's father died when she was 12. I never got her a stepfather or let a man move in with us to protect her. People have always looked down on me for not having a man. They cared more about me being so called undesirable than they did about my child's safety

[@rhondaharvey4654]

I immediately wondered, did she worry about STD's and if so, how did she reconcile the possibility of contracting something that could take her from her kids with choosing to remain in that situation? If not, how did she not entertain the possibility? I thank her for having the bravery and confidence to tell her story in the hope of helping other people. 🙏🏽

[@harrietboateng5239]

she knew but didnt care because he took care of her. conciously or unconsiously she knew being taken care of was payment for her tolerating his behaviour. only reason the marriage fell apart was because he tried to kill physically...if not,,,it would have continued.

[@TotheT23]

You were pregnant … He was in the basement with his “friend” and he asked to pass him the Vaseline& he handed it back to you with a glob missing 😳😳 NAH

[@TrappinAnonymous]

Glob

[@perdybirdie]

Whew that said it all. That dude was DEMONIC

[@tash_tash711cr6]

🤢🤮

[@CharisseTaylor-ij6zc]

😮😮this ish is mad wild yo😮😮

[@jasmincardriche1294]

And she still stays with him 🤯🤬

[@rickiericktv3320]

I’m flabbergasted!!! I’m disgusted at what she and her daughter went through with these POS men!

[@TrappinAnonymous]

Legit

[@GodessIsabelRaina]

She gets out of one marriage then jumps into another when she has a job and kids. She also jumps into another matriarch religion 😂 the §t00þidity of women with no commonsense is truly embarrassing 😢

[@davidbishop937]

She said thats why she stayed in her first marriage, then turn around and leave her baby with her husband and his wife 👀

[@GodessIsabelRaina]

@@davidbishop937 She's a g00fball. Went from one matriarchal marriage to another more insane one. Some people are afraid of themselves, especially when it comes to alone time Frightening 😱 📙👻

[@HI-gm8ih]

@@davidbishop937right I don’t wanna be insensitive but she’s a big dummy

[@celestenicole3861]

She’s very brave I know it must be hard saying these things but it helps woman see red flags . Thanks for sharing . Hope you have a great life after this . ❤❤❤

[@sm0859]

i can bet money something happened to him in prison after he robbed that lady that led to this

[@t.beatty8072]

I was thinking the same thing

[@_SevenKay]

Yup

[@Frija_the_goddess]

Or before he went to prison which probably led him to be an angry kid and do something like beat women and rob them. Then prison made it worse

[@The_Neighborhood_Oasis]

That’s exactly what I thought.. he got SA’d in prison .. especially since he was so young when he went

[@aplanefliesabove]

I agree! His age made him an easy target

[@karennesbit]

This is too much. I feel sorry for the daughter.

[@CharisseTaylor-ij6zc]

GIRL!! 😮😢

[@Hendrixtanell13]

Yes tooooo much 😢😢😢

[@joyell821]

I don't fuck with this lady. Her desperation to have a man got her daughter assaulted.

[@lzumm]

Right

[@JessicaLeeAnnWrites]

Woah 😳 I wasn’t expecting the end. God bless you and your kids sis 🫶🏾

[@TrappinAnonymous]

❤

[@thecreativequeen9685]

The Vaseline took me outttttttttttt

[@irianaav.6120]

Okkkkkk

[@daniellebrint2913]

😂😂😂🤦🏾‍♀️

[@ConfusedHiker-ns1mc]

Disgusting 🤮🤢🤮

[@Jaxjax1314]

A big scoop is insane

[@latashaepps1060]

And she just let them be down there in the basement. 😮 If my husband in the basement with a "friend" he bet not ask me for no d vaseline. I'm staying right down there .

[@kyrabarr2846]

My heart goes out to this woman. You can tell that she's emotionally, spiritually and mentally numb from all of SA and violence that she's had to endure. For the people in the comments making horrible jokes and not recognizing her situation don't think that this couldn't be you. We always ask people why they don't leave, we don't know her circumstances we don't know .❤

[@Designsbysommore]

Don't feel bad she make this monster and now she Wana leave him

[@carolynjackson1350]

​@@Designsbysommore He is the monster, sounds like someone can relate.

[@sherrisolomon8673]

​@user-ju2iz2bv5u Yet he has parents ?

[@Tabitha_Lazarus]

My 25 year old neighbor is the mother of 4 children of under 6 years old and her husband beats her and as we speak she needs surgery for her finger that he broke and all the things that he has done to her are too much too long for here but the denial that she is in is sad and dangerous because she still thinks that he loves her after beating her up. Women needs to do all the inner work to avoid these DL men that use women in so many ways.

[@agelessbeautee5.04]

……I really loved how the interviewer handled this lady with warmth, kindness & most importantly respect but he definitely doesn’t understand why woman can’t or won’t leave-patriarchy is a hell of a drug

[@TheHouseofcoolstuff]

As a Muslim woman this breaks my heart that something so horrible happened to my sister in Islam and her babygirl! Please don’t blame yourself for anything as the devil work through that man. You didn’t do anything wrong. I think it’s the fear of every woman who are divorce and have have daughters to protect our daughters from evil devilish acts done by adults who meant to protect them. When my sister got divorced my nieces were 4 and 7 years old and right then she decided that she wouldn’t ever get married because she said she couldn’t trust another man to be around her kids while she was at work. She wanted them to comfortable and relax in their house and never have to cover themselves head to toe in front of another who wasn’t their dad.

[@bajancharm7601]

Lord have mercy! This woman ignored so many red flags and went from the frying pan into the fire!! There's some healing she needs to have better discernment on her decisions. I thank her for sharing her story and being vulnerable

[@ericanadine1854]

…💪🏻Woman, keep telling your story!

[@clayomay25]

Exactly what she was fearing actually come to fruition. OMG…..This is so sad

[@aisharambert456]

She needs to heal, and she needs to be more cautious.

[@TrappinAnonymous]

😢

[@itsageminithingdewanavinso6243]

Love her testimony and I’m super proud of her courageous decision to stand in her truth🥰

[@TrappinAnonymous]

❤❤

[@annardh2006]

Ladies please get therapy and clean up those old wounds before dating. Trust, you will have the clarity to choose wisely, if not remain single.

[@XoShyanne888]

Praying for your continued healing and strength. May you and your family be covered.

[@hazelsunshine1502]

He's a great interviewer

[@TrappinAnonymous]

Thank u!

[@harrietboateng5239]

yes he lets her talk....i love his style

[@Ricoque-u2m]

He doesn’t ask the right questions. And most are in the comments are confused by the order of events.

[@latoyaowens3645]

I saw so many in my family go through this that I promised myself I would never allow a man to put his hands on me. I thank God for my husband when I see stories like this.

[@fancyreyes4962]

I knew she was from philly. Her accent. Im from philly. It's a lot of that confused undercover DL mess in philly. Ppl say ATL nope .

[@TrappinAnonymous]

Really????

[@fancyreyes4962]

@@TrappinAnonymous Yes, Sir

[@chosenonenot2588]

I said the same thing , I knew immediately she was from Philly.

[@kyky519]

Me too… then she confirmed it when she said Lindbergh Blvd

[@Itsblueeeeee]

NYC too

[@SomaliRoyale]

Assalamu alaikum, as a mother and a woman my love for my daughter, her future and providing a healthy environment has been more powerful than any fear, marriage, man or any dire situation i been in. I refuse to be on my deathbed knowing that i altered and wired my child's brain to think abuse, dysfunction and avoiding red 🚩are the normal. May we all be empowered and committed to breaking every cycle inshallah 🤲🏾☝🏾📿

[@TrappinAnonymous]

❤

[@lovelyl9061]

She is brave to tell her story to bring awareness. Thank you for your honesty and transparency. Prays go to you and your family.

[@TrappinAnonymous]

🙏🏿

[@Sheshe661972]

Goodness, this interview held my attention the entire time. Thank both of you for allowing this so that hopefully somebody will be helped by hearing her story! My God!

[@mauriceherrington3]

🚩🚩🚩🚩 I’ma young Gay guy in Atlanta , this Is MORE COMMON than these ladies think 😅 they swear it can’t be their man but it do be ! When he go to the store , work and or when u leave out they hit us up … I’m so serious ! … a lot of guys mess around with us on the low .. then kiss their wife and kids smh …. Ladies CHECK THEM PHONES & that phone u don’t know about … pay attention! What she said was 💯 right .. them homeboys watch out for 📝

[@TrappinAnonymous]

😮

[@Ayeshalynette]

Thank you and I appreciate your honesty! Please be safe

[@female115]

But you in the scene to. You quilty to. Together in this disgusting lifestyle. Warning woman on the act you commit to.

[@klr9717]

So gross

[@Passionatelyfruits]

Mess up ppl in the world.....betraying women along with their bs.....Do you w/o including innocent ppl in your lifestyle

[@Mumof3Eight3]

He finna get used and abused in prison, I hope they make him feel helpless like he did her. Disgusting!

[@patray3502]

He's going to enjoy it, because that's the type of sex that he's used to!😮

[@jmatthews5685]

He's going to like it.

[@donishahill7993]

You have to not want it to get used and abused. He’s going to be free in there.

[@ConcreteRose-h2e]

@@jmatthews5685No ones likes being raped though..

[@denisecounts5381]

He gone be in heaven.....you really think he's gonna get abused.....

[@Zee-mu1zj]

Sister, I pray you have a decent & honourable life, going forward 🤲🏽

[@ashmoney12]

He probably was turned out when he went to prison at 17. Just be gay smh

[@lovelife2186]

Stop

[@Itsblueeeeee]

Lmaoo

[@latashaepps1060]

I was thinking that.

[@lgoogleaccount2521]

Sadly a lot of them are. When u are young in prison that’s what happens

[@BELLAnotnice]

@@lgoogleaccount2521 exactly people thing its a joke and it happens and they just act like nothing happened

[@sheeronnae331]

My mom's a SA and DV survivor so she raised us super tough and independent. I remember in my younger days going to jail for cutting a guy who thought that he was gonna hit me. I'm 100% sure that I would've HURT my husband (or probably been left), but DEFINITELY killed the rapist! Ladies, NO BLAMING, BUT we have to stop running and hiding behind these religions..Remember that wolves come in sheep clothing.. this is so disheartening! I commend her for having the strength to come up here and put her business on the front line. Prayers and healing to you and your kids❤️🫶🏽🙏🏽

[@lemonadelexus]

The desperate women trying to hook up a woman. Some women know these men are wayward & stand back to see a train wreck! I've heard some of these Islam. Muslims with their eat once a day stuff are perverted. Flds you have to becareful with all organizations.

[@tarariker3574]

The fact she is telling her story so nonchalant tells me / shows me she got to A very dark space dealing with the man. She overcame so much- this hits deep. My stomach turns. 😢 I am so sorry ugh

[@harrietboateng5239]

Yep.....a few std results too

[@ebonyjet9249]

Damn! Helluva story..thank you for sharing. Blessings to you Sis

[@TrappinAnonymous]

❤

[@Itsblueeeeee]

Always and women ignore it

[@RanaeV5]

I've watched a ton of your videos and man this is def one of the craziest stories!

[@JustShayShay]

I had a so called man like this and he took me through the wire. I kept ignoring the signs til he choked me until I passed out and while passed out did the same as this woman's husband. He made me think I was crazy. I believe something happened when he went to jail at 16 and was sent to a grown man prison not juvenile and was taken advantage of.

[@Ayeshalynette]

I’m glad you made it through! Stand tall you survived! We gotta save ourselves

[@TrappinAnonymous]

I can’t imagine what you went through 🙏🏿

[@Ricoque-u2m]

What difference does it make WHY he did it? He did it and should go to jail.

[@abiolabenjamin]

Too many red flags we as women need to move away from Individual once the show you who the are

[@michaeladean158]

The interview skills are AHMAZING‼️‼️

[@TrappinAnonymous]

Thank you

[@Jeanpierres2023]

Thank you for sharing your story, you are helping a lot of people 🙏🏾

[@razoraikens5567]

This was really hard to watch...I did not see that coming with the second husband. Praying for them

[@TrappinAnonymous]

🙏🏿

[@joyell821]

I did. I thought she had Aids too.

[@Asinglemothersstories]

He did what to her daughter? He still here? Nah

[@Gigigraccia]

If you find out he’s DL, just go get tested and leave QUIETLY. Save your life and don’t risk it trying to expose a guy who doesn’t deserve you.

[@roseeze166]

Not with kids

[@sherrisolomon8673]

She wasn't being valued either.

[@monadeberry9060]

I wish that I can give her a big hug, prayers up for you and your children