Wife's Shocking Confession Damages 14 Years Of Marriage | KARAMO

[@damabelcedeno5524]

I feel bad that when men speak up about potential sexual harassment they are invalidated.

[@visme2240]

Exactly Karamo let a lot slide on his show and this shouldn’t have been one of them

[@Labelle1777]

He validated her cheating

[@empressmyalibragang89]

i feel bad too for those men cause it does happen everyday actually but in this case his lame abusive ass was lying period and karamo seen straight threw him as soon as he spoke with the mama u can clearly see she diidnt like him period and his wife cheating wasnt validate he told her that she was wrong but understood what brought her to cheat. 2 wrong dont make a right. whats funny is the husband really thought she was gonna stay with him after all the abuse he mustve fell and bumped his head checking out them instagram females.

[@marissathomas9327]

That’s very true , Howe ever in this situation he’s a liar . For one that whole my back is broke meanwhile he walking 🚶‍♀️ he lied as soon as he stepped on stage 😒

[@desireeperez3784]

Really though that ain't right.

[@essiekaayy8755]

This man's voice is BREAKING while speaking. He may not be a saint but oddly enough I believe the mother DID do something. She dislikes THEM together, her spite for their demise could definitely do what he said. A lie detector for all would have been clutch. Husbands truths could be heard and moms actions would be confirmed or denied.

[@alethiacampbell1365]

I agree

[@mashawndamack2315]

Right I think she did it so the daughter would definitely leave him.

[@PurtyLocdAndPlushed]

Right

[@troylynda]

I’m extremely disappointed in how this man’s allegations of being sexually assaulted was dismissed. They could’ve at least given him a lie detector test to get some answers. If he lied that’s one thing but if this man is being truthful then actions need to take place for an investigation. More men don’t report sexual abuse because they are hardly ever believed. Karamo this was complete negligence by you and your show.

[@Ghostaredead]

Facts if it was the other way around he would stay focused on it!

[@ify.a7437]

You are right.. Steve wilkos would have investigated that allegation.

[@lifewithyana2924]

literally it’s a pattern for Karamo to do this.

[@earthamacklin2482]

Facts. It seems as though the mother is controlling her daughter’s life.

[@kerrylarry8110]

Say it louder because if he kept saying it, there is something to find out of it was the truth or not, what upsets me I he always talking about gay this ans that but yet he didn't really hear the man out at all, she lied just as well and slept with someone else and refuse to fix what's broken and I believe her mother was part of it.

[@bluntzbottleznbaddiez4670]

They just totally disregarded the fact that he said the mother sexually assaulted him. And the mother wouldn’t let him speak at all which is a sign of guilt.

[@traviswhetstone8966]

Facts and what man would make that ish up

[@ninidaghee5937]

Sickening

[@lovelyculture3545]

Karamo, I'm going to need you to hold these women accountable.

[@lifewithyana2924]

LITERALLY.

[@aaroncoles2433]

he almost NEVER does

[@Miss_Understood00]

I agreed I’ve watched a couple of episodes with him being one sided it’s honestly making me not like the show anymore

[@Zombina638]

What are you on about

[@Zombina638]

@@aaroncoles2433see how idiotic u look bru

[@sleepy-peepy]

I’m not normally an “if the roles were reversed” person at ALL, but karamo? If a woman in a toxic marriage came on the show and alleged that her father in law came in her apartment at night and molested her while she was under the influence it would not have been skated by like that. Why would anybody ever lie about something so humiliating and painful?

[@Ebd1990]

Manipulation

[@dennismctye9048]

People have done it before to control a situation or to get back at someone for something petty like not having the same mutual feelings or they don't want to continue a relationship with them

[@thenewsheriffintown5121]

Thank you 🙏🏾 omg I was just saying the same thing I had to unfollow him

[@DaisiaMone]

The mom seems very overbearing. I don’t think she’s as innocent as she tried to make herself seem. I wish a lie detector test would have been done.

[@honey31786]

I agree

[@UndeadBimb0]

Karamo, this is horrible how you completely disregard the male guest's sexual assault allegations, picking apart any minor "inconsistencies" in his story to invalidate his experience, and then you chose to focus on his bad behaviors like laziness, not having a job, and cheating/talking to women on IG--- only to then reveal his wife cheated on HIM too!! How is it fair to choose sides and be so biased as a host, tearing the husband apart for cheating, something his wife did too, while empathizing with the wife and being so understanding about why she cheated; completely excusing her behavior! You seem very biased, and it makes me sad. If this was a female sexual assault survivor you would fight to believe the victim until proven otherwise, but since he is male you view it as "I won't believe you were raped until I see enough proof" VS "I will believe you were raped until I see evidence otherwise" That is incredibly MESSED UP... and I am a feminist and as left/liberal as you can possibly be, so don't think I am some men's rights right wing conservative. WE MUST RESPECT MALE VICTIMS AND BELIEVE THEM THE SAME WAY WE EXPECT THEM TO BELIEVE US AS WOMEN. I sincerely hope that you stop playing favorites on your show just because you like someone's personality, or treating abuse and rape allegations involving women victims differently from male victims... men can be raped too, and you don't need to talk about what a crappy bad person they are to distract from the allegations or to try and make it seem like they deserve it, or aren't worthy of being validated as a SA victim because they "are a man that doesn't have a job"... interesting too, because grandma said he used to work and they got along fine; but then after the assault he isn't doing well all the sudden. If it was a woman you would say it was trauma, no wonder she's not able to work she was assaulted! Do better, Karamo.

[@Labelle1777]

We need to cancel his show smh this made me sad as a SA survivor he is full Of it it seems like the control this house he has no say so

[@UndeadBimb0]

@@Labelle1777 Yes!!! Same here and I couldn't agree with you more! I'm 30 now but was a victim of sexual violence as a teen and the way he was trying to portray the husband as a bad person to invalidate the possibility of his assault reminds me of being told "I deserved it" for drinking underage and having addiction issues. It's very much giving "you were asking for it", not long ago they wouldn't even investigate sex workers or drug addicts being raped because of their lifestyle... and yet Karamo really had to keep mentioning those painkillers huh? A victim of SA may have a criminal past, be a cheater, a drug addict, might sleep around, whatever: IF THEY DID NOT CONSENT & SOMEONE FORCED THEM INTO A SEXUAL ACT, THEY ARE STILL A VICTIM! There needed to be extra sensitivity towards this subject since men are notoriously afraid of speaking up due to stigma against male SA victims, and this episode PERFECTLY illustrates why! Is this what happens when male victims speak up, Karamo? We shame them and ignore them and invalidate them?? This needs a re-do and a SERIOUS apology, or else I just can't support watching this show any more. Absolutely PAINFUL for any victim of sexual assault to view. Lie detector and further investigation is necessary IMO, lets not protect rapists just because they are likeable charismatic people.

[@menalsaleh9222]

i thought the SAME THING. this show downgraded the karamo show i loved watching. So unfair till the point where the husband was unheard and the wife did great for cheating and the grandmother didnt sexually assault the husband and she had the keys to their house. Do Better Karamo.

[@menalsaleh9222]

whats to like about granny she didnt let him speak because she didnt want the truth out @@UndeadBimb0

[@UndeadBimb0]

@@menalsaleh9222 YES and omg you have to read these excerpts from this study on male sexual assault; it's INCREDIBLE how many parallels there are to the man in this video; the link is at the bottom if interested but I jolted down some VERY relevant quotes; "According to current estimates, over 27% of men and over 32% of women had been sexually victimized at some time in their lives. Victimization has a direct negative influence on the physical and mental health of those who experience it, leading to short- and long-term physical injury, fear, anxiety, despair, post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD), low self-esteem, social difficulties, and suicide ideation. Together with other socioeconomic implications such as being unable to work, dropping out of school, being stigmatized, and being shunned by their communities, it is also linked to an increased risk of sexual and reproductive health issues. A sexual act that is conducted or attempted against a person who is unable to consent or refuse by another without the victim’s free consent is known as sexual victimization. Men are generally seen to be as less affected by sexual victimization. Yet, there is evidence to support the idea that sexual victimization affects male victims mentally just as much as it does female victims and may even be linked to worse results. " ^^^^^^^^ THEY LIST NOT WORKING not being able to hold down a job, low self esteem, being stigmatized, etc this all sounds so much like what they were saying about him! "Between 10-20% of female sexual assault victims in the United States (US) are believed to have reported the crime, and the number of male victims is likely to be far lower. Male and female victims may decide not to disclose information to protect a friend or family member, out of concern of retaliation by their attacker, and out of concern that they will be blamed personally for their victimization. Another specific rape distortion that affects men is the belief held by the public and healthcare professionals that men cannot be raped [35]. Men may opt not to complain if they are simply going to be informed that what occurred to them did not occur-an invalidation of their experience. Furthermore, the idea of the “ideal victim” is still widely used within this gender-based assumption of sexual victimization research [4]. In this conception, the perfect victim of sexual assault is conceived to be one who society is most likely to label as a victim. Within this framework, a person must fulfill five requirements in order to qualify for this status: (1) be weak; (2) be engaged in a respectable activity; (3) be somewhere she could not possibly be “blamed” for being; (4) the offender must be big and bad; and (5) the offender must be unknown to the victim and have no personal relationship with her. The emphasis in this depiction is on men as sexual offenders and women as victims. In addition, some individuals think that rape is an act of dominance and control towards women, which prevents men from declaring themselves to be sexual victims. The attributions of victim responsibility found that men were more likely to be assigned blame than female victims. They also found that when the assailant was a female less impact was reported than a male-to-male act. Male victim bias perpetuates victim blaming. Specifically, the acceptance of male rape was a strong predictor of victim blaming, suggesting that acceptance of stereotypical ideas about male rape means that a person is more likely to engage in male victim blaming behaviors. This is of concern, particularly as it is likely that these falsehoods regarding male rape are accepted widely [70], as confirmed within this study with high levels of acceptance of certain misconceptions or false beliefs on male rape. This finding is supported by Kassing et al. (2005) and Johnson et al. (2006) The first systematic report on adult male victims was by Sarrel and Masters (1982) who interviewed men who reported women perpetrating sexual assault [24]. The researchers noted psychological distress, post-trauma reactions, and impaired sexual functioning. Later studies found that gay men are more likely than women to have pro-victim judgements and endorse male rape falsehoods, including victim blaming [56,57,66]. ^^^^^^;;;;;;;; WOW, okay and that last part for real!?? The study said gay men are more likely than women to victim-blame men and claim their rape was a falsehood. Karamo needs to look within himself, educate himself, and check himself. If you want to read the entire study, here's the link-- it's informative and interesting!!! Link= www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC10135558/

[@HippieWhit]

I believe the mom messed with him. Marriage is over and very toxic.

[@cartoon171]

She look like the type of ghetto aunty to try to touch on your bf/husband when she get drunk or high she’s definitely a sexual abuser she acts just like one

[@OneeCox-r5q]

Yes the body language is a bit too familiar and personal

[@rubyjaez]

The Mom is acting like a Mother who knows her daughter is being beaten. Her mother stated he reminds her of her daughter’s father abuse wise. I doubt she molested or raped him.

[@michaeldaniels6057]

Yup the apple doesn't fall far from the tree 🎄,the mom is loud mouth, this why our community is in dire straits masculine women, i would have been gone 💯

[@ricohall6124]

@@rubyjaez so you just believe everything the mom and daughter says to be 100° true????? Did you not hear the trifling wife. Say she has abuses him and cheated in their marital bed. I guess non of that means shitttt to you evidently.

[@longbranch11207]

She went and cheated and the husband gets blamed ? Karamo you’re so wrong on this one

[@brezy254]

He just down played the man's accusations of the mother in law...

[@deadmode9502]

fr

[@joycem4129]

I agree.

[@overcomer4060]

Agreed.

[@jacobTheeCreole]

I don’t like how they didn’t go into details about his sexual abuse accusations of her mother ! The mother did that !!! She wants that man ! And I believe she drugged him and took advantage once again women get away with sexual assault

[@Ohitslenci]

What makes you think that?

[@NubianP6]

I don’t agree with Karamo on this one. The mother is not innocent, and it would have been good for them to administer a lie detector, because it’s very possible that something did happen. I’m sure he would have had a lot more empathy had the person making the allegation been a woman saying that her father-in-law sexually assaulted her. Karamo did a lot of finger-pointing at the guy, and yes, he *definitely* has issues that need to be dealt with, but the woman sitting next to him has a part to play too. Why not suggest counseling? I just hate to see families break like this, but if it’s irreparable, it’s irreparable.

[@kayrup3712]

I think the mother did do something, it's sad that a man being sexually abused or manipulated isn't taken more seriously. If the wife could meet someone else, bring them home and have sex she could've left.

[@jadathomas-fj5dg]

1000%

[@UndeadBimb0]

I agree 100%! This was so incredibly sad, and so obviously biased. I couldn't believe they swept the sexual assault allegations under the rug just because Karamo got along so well with the wife and her mom, it's so obvious he was playing favorites! I was like, who cares if he has a job or not, I want to know if he was SEXUALLY ASSAULTED! Forget all the other stuff!

[@birdsmoko]

didn't read the title of the vid, so I thought this was going to be a Steve Wilkos vid and I'm disappointed to see that the guy wasn't taken as seriously. Really feels like having a lie detector would be better with allegation situations like this : (

[@moreilly9836]

agreed karamo couldve offered counseling as co-parents but he admitted to knowing the wife wanted a divorce prior to taping. if he'd taken a lie detector test i don't think the answer to that question of SA would've changed anything.

[@authorlydiagreen1862]

Smh I am 54. I was always told the loudest person is the person trying to cover up their wrong😂😂

[@OfficalMaryRuth]

Wow, I feel sorry for this man. He cheated, but it wasn’t physically. She cheated physically and lied to him about it. And I believe him, about being sexually assaulted. The mother is just spiteful and mean. The daughter is no better. She’s letting her mom into her marriage. He deserves peace

[@angelmac5380]

I agree The Mom seems envious, and unhinged! I get the feeling she is afraid to be alone, and will never allow her daughter to be in a happy long lasting relationship. She would rather her daughter commit adultery than try to work out her marriage. Usually when men cheat with a married woman it's because they don't want commitment, definitely not with the adulterer! She stuck her chest out proudly to let him know she cheated, and she was going to do it again. Her attitude was almost comical, because I know this man she's going to do it again with, will only keep doing it with her, until he can't Nothing long term will come from this. I hope her husband will KEEP her in his rearview mirror!!!

[@aries4901]

Cheating IS cheating! There is emotional cheating!

[@angelmac5380]

@@aries4901 I am an ♈ but in this case I do not agree because she is was probably holding out and doing whatever her controlling Mom tells her. I this case, can I believe his only crime is staying with her, and wanting his marriage work. Clearly her mom is hating and controlling because she don't have a man. Her husband probably needed socialization. There is clearly 2 people in his marriage and he is not one of them. I wish him well

[@tamarajaii9415]

Even though it'll never be enough, this man deserves a HUGE apology. No care or attention was given to him when he was on this show.

[@senceriamoore7084]

Once your child gets married, all a parent can do is give advice not break up a marriage.

[@sabrayachestnut9577]

and pray !

[@roscoeswetsuit1218]

I was sexually assaulted then harassed frequently and my gf didn't believe me. She convinced herself I was cheating (I would never). Then she cheated on me. It doesn't matter how much you love them. If they don't believe you for something as serious as SA, you have to move on.

[@perryplayz21]

I’m so sorry that happened to you and I believe you no one should have to go through that

[@dennislawson8713]

While both the husband and wife have issues in this case Karamo refused to listen or believe the husband. For a therapist or social worker I find it interesting that in this episode Karamo didn’t understand that there two sides to every story. The mother-in-law is truly toxic. I believe she did something to her son-in-law to cause trouble. She was in a toxic relationship and therefore she interjected her experience into her daughter’s marriage. The husband admitted his issues but he wasn’t heard. Yes he was wrong for talking to other women on IG. Chances are 3 weeks before the show wasn’t the only time the wife cheated. And she even said he forced me to do it! She did it herself and her mom seemed pleased with it. The wife also admitted that she would continue seeing the other guy. While I will live by myself lonely before I live in hell with anyone compassion should have been shown to both!

[@stephjc23]

I’m so sorry that happened to you and your partner at the time did not believe you. That’s extremely heartbreaking!

[@charlotte6996]

I love watching this show but this one threw me off. I feel like the mom should have taken a lie detector test. I think she did what it took to get rid of him🤷🏾‍♀️

[@charlotte6996]

So true I believe the mom did what he said. I feel sorry for the new guy he got his work cut out for him

[@camronfrancess4235]

The mother stating, “I see me in you and her father as him” was very suspicious. Sexual Assault is a serious topic and this episode showcases why men are quiet when it happens to them. He was not innocent, but no one deserves that type of trauma.

[@savannahrichardson254]

Exactly

[@mynameislavender]

When she said those words, it made me think it's possible she molested him.

[@p1xiefru1t]

this episode was insane. both of these women need to be held accountable.

[@Labelle1777]

He is so wrong for that he literally ignored this man feelings he full of smh

[@p1xiefru1t]

@@Labelle1777 what makes me more upset is the fact that the guy ended up saying he experienced sexual abuse. it was ignored because there wasn’t enough “evidence”. ridiculous.

[@period8705]

Black women are never held accountable.

[@alethiacampbell1365]

​@@p1xiefru1texactly

[@theblackmanistheblackwoman8606]

​@@Labelle1777 WOMEN'S FEELINGS GET IGNORED ALL THE TIME,, AND NOBODY SPEAKS UP FOR WOMEN NOT EVEN THE WOMEN SPEAK UP FOR OTHER WOMEN, BUT ARE SO READY AND QUICK TO SPEAK UP FOR THESE GROWN ASS MALES INSTEAD OF LETTING THESE MALES BE THEIR OWN SPOKES MEN, BLK-WOMEN ESPECIALLY ALWAYS WANNA BE THE MOUTH PIECE FOR BLK-MALES...BUT DON'T HAVE SH!T TO SAY WHEN IT COMES TO BLK-WOMEN AND CHILDREN" IT'S CRICKETS!! HOW MANY OF THESE DUDES ADVOCATE FOR US WOMEN WHEN SOMETHING LIKE THIS HAPPENS HUH??? NINE TIMES OUT OF TEN THE TREATMENT IS MUCH MUCH WORST" PLUS IT'S WAY MORE OF THESE DUDES DOING THIS, BLK-MALES ARE NOT HOLDING OTHER BLK-MALES ACCOUNTABLE WHEN THEY HARM AND ABUSE THE BLK-WOMEN AND CHILDREN IN THEIR COMMUNITY'S...THE WHITE MAN ALWAYS HAVE TO STEP IN AND PROTECT THE WOMEN AND CHILDREN IN OUR COMMUNITY'S WHEN THAT SHOULD BE THE BLACK MAN'S JOB!!!

[@thepaulingfamily8187]

Karamo was dead wrong. He was so-one-sided

[@sandrarice4197]

This Mom is scary. She seems so low class using all that profanity. This mother should be ashamed of herself for sexually assaulting her son-in-law. My mother would never do that to my husband. We all were raised better. Where is this mother's morals? I believe the son-in-law.

[@soulflowerpeace9236]

She needs to take responsibility..you cheated because u wanted to...should have left...relationships are full of ups and downs and challenges...messed with that man because she wanted to.. it's easy to just blame the partner..2 wrongs don't make a right....grass is not always greener on the other side.....I do feel like that mom was on some funny stuff...why would he make up a story like that?? They both made mistakes tho...she's done though..women get tired.

[@angeebee1]

I usually love the show but the way the husband was treated is sad. Everyone invalidated this man. "She's done first" was combative like this man didn't go on the show saying he was assaulted. How was everything the women said and did ignored and he was dismissed?

[@carringtonlei6105]

I agree. That hit me hard when he made that statement. It was a bitch move, for me. It was like, “I’m not going to let you feel like you dumped her - she dumped you first.” Who decides that he would be a good host for a show anyway?

[@taylorsaunders1093]

I’m glad I’m not the only one confused cause all they did was invalidate his feelings. I was hoping for a lie detector test on his sexual assault story. No therapy was offered!! The momma need to mind her business. Like wtf was this.

[@mangobby1515]

Its hurtful enough coming on tv and talking about sexual harassment I wouldnt think he would lie

[@vidalsmith9160]

Karamo has a tendency to not hold women accountable!!

[@penelopeb1370]

You know what? I'm about to start paying closer attention. I recall him checking maybe one. But this MIL needs to be checked.

[@GTRsupremev2]

I agree

[@Moniethemom]

AT ALL!!!!!!

[@amberlycooper1001]

It’s a horrible thing. I can hardly stand his videos for that reason.

[@sweedy3333]

Whew big facts and I hate it!! This situation is way too serious to try to sit these to down together and "heal". SA doesn't heal after a sit down 🙄. I really feel for him

[@hazelboyce7230]

How did her husband make to lie down in their marriage bed with another man, when he wasn’t there? Woman take accountability for your actions because you did what you wanted to do. That man is going to continue to get what he wants free but he will not want the responsibility of those four kids.

[@tamarajaii9415]

They were oddly cold & callous to this man. She wasn't questioned and held accountable for cheating either, just disgusting. I hope he's surrounded by caring & understanding people.

[@RellyRell1207]

Are you serious right now???? How could a man say he was sexually assaulted and you didn’t acknowledge that? This episode was one sided! PERIOD! Hold her accountable for her actions aswell! He wasn’t in it alone! And to add insult to it her mom was a major influence in the relationship! This is the first time where for me Karamo didn’t do the job right! I feel bad for this man frfr watch him grow and flourish once he truly learns how to love himself! Then you have the audacity to sleep with another man in our bed and in our house! Yea I see why 3 weeks ago he was pissed!

[@thepeopleschampion2088]

You know these feminine men are going to side with the women over man every time.

[@deadmode9502]

fr

[@jessicagaines-mason9588]

Yea this was a weird one Karamo blew me with this

[@Girlgonewise]

Lady, you did what you wanted to do. He didn’t force you to open your legs to another man…you did that. Take accountability.

[@jeannietimberger2556]

She took accountability but she ain't sorry. And I don't blame her!! When you're done you're done.

[@TerriaJanee]

@@jeannietimberger2556nah cause she said he forced her to do it. That’s not accountability.

[@NubianP6]

Thank you! I was really hoping Karamo would correct her when she said that, because no one “forces” you to be unfaithful, it’s a conscious decision. To think otherwise basically means that you have no true control of yourself, because at any point, someone can force you to act out of character.

[@surislife]

I mean did he not cheat first..? Not excusing her actions but he can’t be mad if he’s been talking to women on insta. and being cheated on can push you to cheat if you know your partner has been disloyal to you multiple times before.

[@marcusblack8768]

Not only did she want to do it she did it in they house and bed so i guess he made her do that to disgusting how people want to blame they actions on someone else you bring another man in your bed you share with your husband is way past the line but he made you do get out of here with that be no respect for that man but you say you love me lol

[@lusiahaipinge]

This is not right Karamo. Not holding the women accountable is crazy. This man was not heard and one can tell that he was very disappointed and his feelings were not put into consideration. I feel like this lady's were lying especially the mother.

[@CarliJoelle]

Karamo NEVER holds women accountable, this is sick

[@montykemp5099]

because hes a woman

[@shalondamartin6398]

the fact that his sexual assualt claims were tossed aside was terrible. Also, the wife is no angel. no matter what someone does, you don't have the right to cheat. Be accountable enough to walk away from an unhealthy relationship.

[@sug8415]

Would he have asked a woman for more facts about a sexual assault, this is why men don’t speak up

[@SB-tc2jr]

Mom isn't wrong - BUT - she needs to shut up and mind her own business. This is not her fight. They are not her and her man. --- The daughter, is foul to have another man in the marital bed. Go to a hotel, in the car, or alley, whatever, but not the bed! The husband - well, not much to say there. Just wish them all blessings!

[@skysaksa6378]

I feel bad for him. You can tell she’s guilty look at how defensive she is. You can tell she’s off something too, she’s very mean and angry. I feel so sad for this man :( cheating isn’t cool, but sexual assault is traumatizing and should be taken serious from everybody.

[@lakeofalltrades]

Okay now KARAMO IM DONE!!!! You are bias and always take the womans side 🤨….. He wasn’t honored the opportunity to tell his sexual assault story and he never cheated SHE DID!!!!! She’s triflin, and you’re triflin by gas lighting this ignorant behavior 🧘🏾‍♀️

[@CabriniDivo]

Exactly

[@dontblink4961]

He did cheat he was sending videos of himself to other girls.

[@Personal_Favorite_ZW]

​@@dontblink4961she did the same and slept with thr due, not just that, in their bed

[@lakeofalltrades]

@@dontblink4961 oh please! 14 years, a non physical interaction online on his part, he fixed it, never touched another woman their whole marriage, she ACTUALLY slept with someone in their bed, and played victim 🤨 cried the whole time while yal beat up on a faithful man but for some odd reason on 2023 We think women are Gods and can do no wrong, she’s the wrong one, her mother taught her to be triflin, and her and her mother are going to be loud and wrong alone together and her mother raped him tooooooo…..

[@SugaaKoatedTv]

Damn they ain’t do a lie detector to see if he was lying about the mom touching him ? That’s what I wanted to hear

[@kathymclean3823]

Mom is definitely not innocent and being controlling..SHE did something to that young man ...I believe him...I hope you can get help you need away from these toxic individuals. Praying for you man..😢 where was the sympathy or compassion. 😢😢

[@cydneydean]

This was honestly extremely disappointing and heartbreaking to watch how this was handled. I don’t have a doubt in my heart and mind that he wasnt lying about what happened to him and at the very least that should have been acknowledged. I would have thought Karamo would have taken better mental and emotional care for a man in this situation instead of dismissing him. That poor, strong man was invalidated and pitted against. Those women are malicious and need to be held accountable for for their actions and truthfully disgusting behavior. I pray this man receives healing, closure, and a loving space for him and his children. That mother is only going to continue to cause bigger issues in her grandchildren’s lives

[@LeeOkemenaDaro]

Karamo is out here breaking family back and forth each episodes 😂🤦🏽‍♂️, “I think you in a toxic relationship you need to end it and I want you to end it now and tell him now here”” 🤷🏽‍♂️😂yooo

[@kkpuffs16]

This episode was so mishandled. That’s no way handle someone’s trauma he definitely deserves another opportunity to speak out on what happened to him. He said he DIDNT physically cheat and for his wife to commit adultery and act as though she has no remorse is something that should’ve been properly addressed. He didn’t even point out that her reasoning for being married wasn’t enough to justify the union smh this was all a mess .

[@maliyahg5630]

I do think that Karamo should’ve held her accountable for cheating on him though… it was more so Karamo just skipped past the fact that she literally slept with another man. He talked to females on instagram but no physical cheating. She should’ve been held accountable. Leave the relationship! But cheating is never the answer

[@vamp1re_gurl]

karamo also shouldn’t have brushed over the fact that the guy was allegedly sexually assaulted

[@isolatedrose9583]

I honestly believe the mom wants him and thats why she dont want her daughter to be with him. He’s not unattractive. But I do believe they’re both trifling. They both toxic and they both are cheaters. He talks in circles, he doesn’t really answer questions straight out and that’s the behavior of someone who lies. They don’t wanna tell the whole truth but they’ll give you a piece. It was best for the both of them to separate.

[@Tboogiewitdabun]

KARAMO IS MAD CRAZY for this one… I really wonder if he plays this back & views his mistakes as a host. He’s very biased…. He seems feminine to understand man to man what the husband is saying. He sided with the women & it’s not giving! Why no lie detector or anything?! Hmmmm

[@Lovely_1One]

This was gaslighting in its purest and strongest form. These women ain’t always in the right and need to be called out on the bad things THEY do too. The trifling behavior and the justification and validation behind it from Karamo disgusts me. I love his show but this was completely done wrong! That man didn’t deserve to be embarrassed, humiliated and bashed this way. This is how people snap and go off the deep end due to their mistreatment from those they’ve invested themselves into. These women especially are disrespectful and out of line and need to be told about themselves too. Should’ve addressed each and every one of them not just him.

[@nickynick_]

if this was a woman saying that someone sexually assaulted her- The whole show would’ve been about that

[@ItsAllLove4Real]

She's gonna get her's bet that...Nobody forces you to be unfaithful, DIVORCE!!!

[@MrErnestlawson]

He completely disregarded the male guest's sexual assault allegations! I hope he has more information

[@Joi004]

This case was extremely messy and had a LOT of moving parts. Karamo looked exhausted trying to handle this one. I think your producers made a bad decision to try to treat this situation in 30 minutes. This family, all parties involved, need mental, spiritual and physical surgery. I'd like to suggest a follow-up with this family in 3 months, but only with the mother and son-in-law. Then maybe the following 3 months with the wife and the husband. Just a suggestion. I appreciate your valiant efforts Karamo.

[@LiyyYasminee]

They are equally as wrong idc. Ain’t no excuse to put your hands on either , or. Period, and if the man cheating two wrong don’t make a right . LEAVE. We make ourselves look bad trying to ONE UP the one up is leaving before we gotta take it there. So I can’t even sympathize with the girl. Definitely need to split equally toxic and that’s not good for them kids . That woman blatantly sat there and admitted she’s put her hands on him before too so they equally should’ve been held accountable. That man was talked about like a dog , and what better is she if we allowing other men to sleep in our beds in the home we share with our partners ? She is just as much as the problem as he is

[@brittanysamuel3458]

I totally agree

[@ricohall6124]

Karamo be so biased on most of his shows. He was so quick to brush past her cheating in their marital bed. Now let that man have said. She pushed me to cheat. He would've been called and talked to like a child.

[@ItsAllLove4Real]

@@ricohall6124🙌🏾🎯🙌🏾🎯THAT PART!!

[@rhaniya3943]

Usually when women mention they’ve been sexually assaulted he automatically offers condolences and acknowledges their trauma however this guy did not receive the same treatment meanwhile the woman who possibly assaulted him is in the same room as him and is freely allowed to yell at him

[@lindylou11]

They admitted the only drugs he use is Percocet, no antipsychotics so I don’t believe he’s just making this up. A lie detector should’ve been initiated. However, I still agree the relationship has ran its course.

[@Brielle333]

I’m a woman and I find it very annoying that karamo almost always sides with the women. Just ignoring the men’s feelings for the most part. He didn’t even give a lie detector test and just ignored if he was sexually assaulted or not. It’s hard enough for men to come out when things like that happen and it’s messed up when they’re constantly ignored. Then she admits to cheating on him and somehow that’s still his fault. If you aren’t happy in a relationship to the point you feel you need to cheat, leave. It’s not right for men to cheat when they’re unhappy just like it isn’t right for women. He has such a double standard and this was done so wrong. Just like that episode he had with the young couple when she was upset at her boyfriend for going to strip clubs. While she had a porn addiction and he told the guy basically his feelings on that didn’t matter but validated the girls feelings. He is very biased and it seems like he looks at women like these weak fragile beings and these men as the villain. As THE HOST, his bias is very wrong and needs to be corrected.

[@Ravenstormx_]

I typically like watching Karamo since he’s a breath of fresh air compared to all the other hosts who did/are doing what he’s doing. But he disappointed me with this one. Sexual assault accusations regardless of gender should NEVER just be glossed over on. He was more concerned with the other details than the one that mattered most when there’s a man crying for help on stage after being violated. He never does that to his female abuse victims and it’s sad to see another example of how men’s sexual assault or trauma is never ever taken seriously. Men are already hesitant to self-report sexual abuse… this man is crying for help and received nothing meanwhile the mom and wife are treated like victims. Super disappointed

[@c0cobr0wn504]

This is exhausting 😞

[@lauraf.3851]

Lately all the episodes have been!!!

[@AyeeJayyxx]

Men be so quick to ask for forgiveness when they cheat and treat them bad, but be crying, throwing up and grabbing their chest when they women do it to them. Sad lmao

[@Lee-q8o1r]

Karamo picking at his story and completely disregarding the story is crazy

[@dejenaelatrice9364]

I think men sexual abuse should be taking extremely serious. I have 3 brothers and I would lose my damn mind if any of them came and told me a woman violated them. I’d be in jail quick asf ! Especially me as a victim of it for YEARS and NO ONE did anything. 💯 karamo is selective tho. He’s proven that.

[@matisewebster6543]

Karamo is WEAK MINDED. How are you picking sides? And then the wrong side at that lmaoooo done watching him

[@JashonA-c7g]

Is it wrong that I chuckled when he called her “Slim”? 🤭😂

[@SB-tc2jr]

He has the Shallow Hal syndrome... lol I wonder if she used to be...

[@ForeverYoung20092]

I was wondering if I was hearing right . Slim ? Wtf

[@sunnyctv7526]

Slim is a common term for us here in the dmv , kinda like bro , dude , cuz , man .

[@girlfriennn3645]

That's a term we use in dc and parts of maryland.

[@ForeverYoung20092]

@@girlfriennn3645 oh I didn’t know that, It doesn’t mean thin ?

[@paradise1eleventv9]

I’m 3 min in and the way the audience just laughs is sad

[@ianrobinson7322]

Been together 14yrs....”I’m tired, you put me through a lot”.......IF YOU SO FUCKING TIRED, YOU SHOULDVE LEFT LONG TIME AGO!!!!!

[@Lovely_1One]

The daughter the husband they all just need to move the hell on already with all this cheating. Too many stds out here to be sticking and busting in all these holes and letting different dix inside. The loud mouth mama is nasty and needs to be held accountable I’m sorry. I’m sick of Karamo not holding these heaux accountable for their sick actions. You already know that woman slept with that man simply based off of what and how she was talking and it’s being so overlooked! She came on this episode and she slick got off too easy. No lie detector test given, no questions asked or anything. I’m just disgusted and this episode is a MESS. Whew! 😮‍💨

[@hamptonsfnst2014]

"when a woman's fed up, there ain't nothing you can do about". He's deflecting

[@jeannietimberger2556]

💯

[@SB-tc2jr]

"sang" that song... lol

[@ItsAllLove4Real]

And she's an adulterer, a divorce is how you handle it, it's too easy, but she laid in their marriage bed and screwed another man and on national tv she declares that she ain't sorry nor will she stop....What kinda mess is that to cosign and cheer for, smh. Meanwhile her mama sexually assaulted him, but I guess it doesn't matter when the script is flipped, unbelievable and crazy.

[@jeannietimberger2556]

@@ItsAllLove4Real he started it. And I don't believe him at all about the mom thing.

[@hazelboyce7230]

@@jeannietimberger2556So because a man is a 304 you will become one?

[@marcusblack8768]

So he cheated but she cheated in they house and home but i guess she right because he cheated first huh lol

[@moddadon5612]

I love this show but damn the alleged drugged & sexual assault got brushed off like it was nothing. Overall this whole situation is all over the place, they need to move forward with the divorce. It’s too much going on.

[@byekitty5153]

Horrible way for Karamo to handle it. He barely addressed the SA allegations against the grandmother and the fact that the wife cheated. Just because the husband was guilty doesn't mean he is any less valid as a potential victim of SA. There was no excuse for the wife to cheat it takes two to tango and it is also partially her fault for staying in nearly a decade and a half of a toxic relationship.

[@doyouknodw]

I got a feeling that other dude she messing wit ain’t gonna want her now that she leaving her husband for him!

[@ashleyjohnson3397]

So they couldn’t do a lie detector test on his allegations of being drugged and touched?? 🤔

[@menalsaleh9222]

Karamo, you really dissapointed us on this one, you overlooked everything on the husbands side. SAD

[@brittneyperkins8423]

I wish someone from the audience ask “what about the sexual assault allegations?”

[@Sharon0530]

As a mother I want to protect my child but at some point you have to let them make mistakes

[@joyleentyson308]

I really don't believe this young lady is as inoccent as she would want us to believe. Mama know all that's going on her daughter is a cheater just like her husband they painting the young man black and trying to make the young lady look like saint. I wonder if Mama really did try a thing with her son in law 🙄

[@honey31786]

I agree

[@timboslice9905]

She admitted to hitting her husband and it was never spoken of again. Only that he covered her mouth.

[@tyne2005]

Listen, there is a double standard. If a woman said she was assaulted by her husband's father, it would not have been dismissed like that. Additionally, why is she getting consoled before him?? This is messed up

[@butterflyblessbless5836]

The only person exhausting is her mother!!!!! Accountability for all Kamaro!! I’m disappointed they didn’t give Mother & Son in law a lie detector test.

[@NDB82]

Why did they start with that mama?! They should have let him tell his side first and then the wife and then bring the mother out last. Why did Karamo let the mama talk over him & antagonize him like that?

[@RemindMe268]

Wtf does this guy have against men? #1 karamo should have asked the mother to keep quiet so the guy could speak. He didnt. #2 karamo showed no interest in the guy's story #3 it was as if he spoke to the mother and daughter before the show and brought the guy on to make him look bad #4 the guy seemed genuine about trying to change but karamo offered no understanding. #5 karamo literally had the crowd laughing at the guy's rape story. If that was a woman, karamo would be pissed. #6 this episode reminded me of a past episode where a father wasnt accepting hus son since he was gay. Karamo took that personal and refused to position himself as a referee. Instead, he started to take it personal and held the side of the gay person. Thought he was a qualified counselor

[@dontblink4961]

About #4, it didn't matter if he was trying to change. He put his hands on her. He's an abuser, and abusers don't change.

[@RemindMe268]

@@dontblink4961 he covered her mouth. Not in a violent manner. If he did, she would have made it a bigger issue when he mentioned it. Instead, she skimmed past the incident. Please stop nitpickingand trying to paint him as an abuser. There was no indication that he was abusive!

[@ladyteka2430]

@@RemindMe268Sounded like they have both been abusive. But that wasn’t the bigger issue on this show. I was so disappointed with the outcome.

[@creativebeauty100]

🤔..Mama got that Bobby brown jaw.. might be some truth to his story..🧐

[@onlychas]

Karamo!!!!! We need more accountability on this show! Men being taken advantage of does happen and the mother needs to go. I think the mother is too much in their relationship.

[@nariahmoore7224]

this is really messed up. he was raped and it was totally dismissed. don’t think i’ll be watching karamo anymore.

[@valenciawilliams5112]

I totally do not like how Karomo handled this one. Love the show…. But there was no accountability for these women on this episode.

[@racheldorval3869]

A LIE DECTECTOR TEST SHOULD HAVE BEEN GIVEN!! PERIOD! EVERYONE ELSE IN THE COMMENTS SAID MOST OF WHAT I WANTED TO SAY..AND THEY GOT IT RIGHT.

[@Monnie98]

Down playing a man being sexually harassed is crazy

[@kayciealcee3919]

I BELIEVE HIM. I BELIEVE THE MOTHER ASSAULTED HIM. She never denies it!!!!!! she uses a loud volume, belittling him, constant interrupting, clowning remarks etc, and does not address/deny the accusation made against her.

[@lakeofalltrades]

The mother said “ I see me in her and her father in him” what the fuck kinda shit is that to say 🤷🏾‍♀️ but we’re going to disregard his sexual assault story and not console him when he found out his wife actually cheated and see how toxic the mom is and fake into account we have details about her cheating but this so call cheating and abuse she claims has no examples. Wouldn’t be surprised if she cheated The whole time. Just triflin! This episode was triflin and attacked that young man. I’m low key pissed

[@RecklessInspirer]

The mom wouldn’t even allow him to speak! She wanted to dominate the conversation. I think she’s guilty!

[@Jesusmyall21]

I also feel bad for the guy. It's like it's all on him as though the rest done nothing wrong.

[@hafsakamous1594]

This man has not been treated fairly here. He was cheated on by his wife and her mother SE d him. And he got blamed only. They too need to take accountability.

[@millicentsimbi4605]

The mom is clearly toxic. Karamo you have it all wrong this time. Men get abused too and to disregard that its totally unacceptable. If it was to be the other way round it would have been a different story. The man clearly stated growing up in a growing home but no one offered help. Karamo this time you are wrong. Grandma was soo exhausting she is shaddy

[@contonniaturner7830]

The wife's mother is toxic af. She seems like manipulative bully and I wouldn't be surprised if she did drug him and sexually assault him. Hes not good enough for your daughter but you'll have sex with him on a drunkin night. I didn't care for how Karamo handled this. How you just gone gloss over the sexual assult because hes a man. It was like no matter what these women do they are always the victim. Clearly this man is in distress ,but Karamo is so blinded by bias towards the plight of the women that he can't see that this man is being bullied by this woman's mother. He literally excuses her cheating without any real context as to why... 14 years of frustration is not any excuse to cheat.

[@taneishateixeira8902]

This was HORRIBLY handled Karamo. If it was the other way around, you would have never disregarded the woman’s SA allegations so nonchalantly & the impact something like that could have had on someone. It’s really bad. I’m very disappointed. And then not even acknowledging how hurt he could be finding out his wife slept with someone else.

[@joyceidornigie4631]

This man said he was assaulted. Karamo needs to look into that. A man doesn't say things like that lightly.

[@lesterwilliamsjr649]

I'm going to keep saying this if you stay with a spouse that you have continously hurt you shouldn't be surprised if they hurt you. This is why I hate when a cheater just automatically wants to get back with the spouse they cheated on without considering that fact. Some people really think live in world that they can hurt that won't hurt them back.

[@HAZELLTHOMAS]

She should just leave the relationship if he did her so dirty

[@robdanni7102]

I was sexually abused at a young age by my father girlfriend at the time and it feels sad to listen to this and the male be unheard 😢 we deserve to be heard as well.

[@phasekasumi4459]

I feel like this show is catered to helping out women more.

[@florence4155]

It is

[@doranroberts4895]

And or lgbt community member

[@duchessngy8454]

This is really terrible!!! Instead of recommending therapy or something here comes these ppl glamorizing adultery and encouraging broken homes!!!

[@kingphred]

So the best way to end a 14 year marriage is to sleep with someone in your martial bed and tell you husband "sorry not sorry" national television?! wow! Then he had the nerve to say "Good for you".

[@Army_Brat1980]

I'm in the military, and men are sexually assaulted, too. It happens more often than we think.

[@berrihill2750]

Give him a chance to talk. You can tell by the Trimble in his voice he wants to be heard. They aren’t listening. He said he was sexually assaulted and they looked over that.