Wife Tries To BOSS Her Husband AROUND And Gets Put In Her Place | Couples Coaching

[@raymnsmith]

Cooley touched on it briefly. This woman cannot grasp that asking her man to check another man has the potential to quickly turn violent.

[@N8ive49er]

So here's what I find somewhat funny about that dynamic because of how true it is. We men like to talk about how women are so emotional, yet there are so many of us that lack emotional control/maturity to the point where we allow ourselves to be so emotionally impulsive/reactionary that simply being checked in a conversation could potentially result in physical violence lol...how is that logical and not also emotional? lol

[@bunchycarter8457]

@@N8ive49er Establishing a hierarchy isn't "emotional". When you "check" someone it's establishing an hierarchy, and or order, and setting boundaries. A reaction to it isn't necessarily "impulsive", but proactive for any future males to not step out of bounds. Wars have been started for less... You think like a female. Respectfully.

[@N8ive49er]

@@bunchycarter8457 Oh boy...so help me follow your logic, because you're trying to tell me (and anyone reading this) that reactions are proactive. I genuinely believe you don't understand that proactive behavior is the exact opposite of reactive behavior. A reaction isn't proactive. Establishing a hierarchy and setting boundaries are examples of proactive behaviors. When you lay out parameters, then people know what to expect in response when they violate those parameters. Now what is the purpose of establishing hierarchy? Generally it's to protect the ego from being challenged, because for the immature person (man or woman), when the ego is challenged they get flustered, and then react based on an emotional impulse/stimuli. This is basic psychology my friend; facts, not feelings. Now, the mature, measured behavior to being challenged is to respond (not react). I'll grant you the benefit of the doubt that maybe you meant to say that responding to your boundaries being violated isn't necessarily impulsive, because if that's what you meant, then we fully agree. I'm just pointing out that when you're using the framework of setting boundaries or "establishing hierarchy" for the sake of protecting yourself from being challenged, you're engaging in stunting your own growth. Strength isn't measured by a lack of resistance. In truth, strength is actually measured by one's ability to overcome resistance. Meaning if I never lift a single weight, how can I then make the claim that I'm strong and it be true? Whereas if I've lifted 100lbs, 150lbs or 200lbs, I now have a metric by which I can make the statement "I am strong". Granted there are different types of strength, both external and internal that I won't get into here, but just trying to use an analogy so you have a better understanding of what I was saying. Cheers dude,

[@thebassmentsoundtbs]

@@N8ive49er She wants Roy to check the hommie, but she cant even check herself

[@bigmizzymike]

​@@thebassmentsoundtbsBingo!

[@thankyou770]

Women need to know their place. Period. Situations like this is why dudes lose their lives. She wants her dude to go at his friend because SHE stepped out of pocket.

[@FFTsteel]

Facts. We aren't equal. When women are speaking to each other, I never get involved. They need 5o understand and register this.

[@MALTHEMASTERBARBER]

It is! Two men talking, KNOW YOUR PLACE ‼️

[@therealkflo..]

I just wanted him to say shimmy shimmy ya so bad 😂

[@toryp6652]

Ol'dirty😅

[@BroertjeSeverin]

😂😂😂 R.I.P ODB

[@richcreech8365]

🗣️😂😂😂😂

[@daredevil350]

"Give me the 🎤 so I can take it away" lol

[@cheetahgirlfan32]

lmao ODB

[@nofilter925]

For those who aint hip to Trini talkz: A lime is a kickback or party. Liming is the act of engaging in partying.

[@EdwinZ.Gonzalez]

Divorce is never the way out, My wife and I have been having issues before I sort out help from a spiritual adviser, i wasn't going to let my marriage of 18years crash

[@LauraWNolan]

amazing, i am kinda in a similar situation, how did you handle it?

[@EdwinZ.Gonzalez]

well not the orthodox way but i was referred by a friend to a spiritual adviser and healer

[@LauraWNolan]

please how can i get in touch with the spiritual adviser?

[@EdwinZ.Gonzalez]

her name is Quelani Eileen Freja, and she is a great spiritual adviser as well as caster

[@EdwinZ.Gonzalez]

you can look her name up online and you will find all you need.

[@cryptohound]

She cannot admit to the fact she embarrassed herself ✨

[@lekeathonwilson4817]

She admitted she was wrong

[@ecc6277]

I actually have alot of respect for that couple . They articulated themselves very well, and she regardless of being wrong has taken the time to have a discussion about her actions which a lot of women would not even bother doing . Great one here brother

[@TyroneGladden]

Lmao !! This was taught to me as a youth. My mother told me to stay outta grown people business, told my sister to stay outta big man chat ! Father told my mother to stay outta big man chat !! My father never got into woman chat. So when we were around any friends and family this was just first nature because my father set the stage while we were all in his house !! Trini gyal the man friend shouldn’t have had to tell you mine yours ! You should have already knew your place.

[@chrisadams1804]

He was right and she should have stayed out of their conversation.

[@mynameismyname5124]

This is a situation of "lack of training. " the friend was actually the masculine one, and he followed his lead, and it was out of character for him, that's why she felt disrespected.

[@keithwhite1748]

exactly he never actually set that boudrie it was her choice from the gunbust not his which is why she hoped into the convo like that because if she knew better she would have said something to the effect of hey baby what are yall talking about to get context of the conversation first and for most but its his own doing ive been in a situation something similar to this and it had the same outcome she couldnt understand my standpoint but shoutout to cooley he give her a sermon now let the chuch say amen 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@steamsley]

She Sed this is how he is with everybody How did yall miss that

[@222lanna]

Right plus she felt entitled to know what they were discussing.

[@RealTV40]

Great pov😮😮

[@chrisg3126]

Women are meant to be seen, not heard 👀😂

[@nailahdawkins]

This is the 21st century, we are slaves!

[@RobertGreekSpencer]

Very Correct, Sir!!! They need to STFU

[@skrillztheentourage]

😂😂😂

[@davidirakoze8633]

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[@dcogent1]

Bingo....like Children.

[@PavlovTheory]

Thank you so much for articulating your response! I've been giving my girlfriend the Bombastic Side Eye this entire episode with a few arm nudges.

[@cvnyouseeit]

Any ladies watching this, learn from this, stay out ya mans convos, point blank period. For us fellas, don’t let other men talk crazy to your girl ‘cause any homie of mine woulda had to dress up that talk tho ngl

[@TheRealPrinceCastro]

He said this is my wife.... She then goes on to tell the world, we're not actually married, we're commonlaw married & have a kids together... She STILLLL not following his lead.... she supposed to 2nd whatever her man say.... period... it's a unit... her not understanding that, it's easy to see why this situation happened. If u stand by your man & be silent, you'll quickly learn what they're speaking about. True or false?

[@madlen3015]

!!!!!

[@222lanna]

Then you think your wife shouldn't respect all men, just you?

[@anraegodley-cooper6321]

​@@222lannaNAILED IT

[@cvnyouseeit]

@@222lanna she #will respect me MORE than any other man, long as she does that she won’t have to worry about OTHER men, but see that’s a main part of the issue with most women today, not knowing how to mind YOU & YOURS will leave you salty & $ingle …

[@Beyondmeasurable]

Appreciate your work. Really helping people get back to reality!

[@TankQ50]

There wouldn’t have been no room for disrespect had she actually know how to be a lady and mind hers. It’s not that she want to know, it’s how she went about trying to know. Could’ve very well asked him after the convo or setting what they were speaking on. He’s wild for allowing a man to talk to his women like that. Regardless if it’s justified or right you ALWAYS correct your partner in private, and slide behind them 5L in public. That’s law.

[@slaughtah2o342]

I agree

[@222lanna]

So the man can receive disrespect in public but the wife can't?

[@TankQ50]

@@222lanna well idk, if the man is suppose to protect and provide…wouldn’t it make sense that yk out in the world he take the blunt of the disrespect versus his wife ?? Reread what I said slower^^ clearly did too fast lmao

[@ivansent]

She was disrespectful, but the friend overstepped, he should have told Roy to check his woman, if your homie's girl is acting up you check your homie, because he should be checking his girl.

[@lch7876]

Factz, I don't get why the majority of dudes in the comment section can't understand this fact. Even if my girl is out of line, you don't need to address her. Let me know, and i'll handle it. Especially if your my so-called friend. Don't put our friendship in jeopardy by stepping to my woman Infront of me just like I would show you the same respect if your woman was around. Common Sense, and Common Courtesy aint a thing anymore I see

[@dougferguson7079]

@@lch7876if your girl disrespects me she’ll get it back.. you should’ve taught her before you brought her out… you can’t tell someone how to react to disrespect… say she hits a man , should he come find you to check you? How will she learn her lesson? It’ll be at your expense.. better to not deal with disrespectful women at all

[@lch7876]

@@dougferguson7079 Why would "MY" woman just randomly hit you? What did you do for her to hit you, while she's with me? So, it sounds like in this scenario your the one that needs training, and would need to get handled, because in what scenario would my, or any mans woman randomly hit a man while their with their man? You gotta come up with something more believable than that my guy.

[@dougferguson7079]

@@lch7876 i need training lol…a job as a man is to hold himself and everyone around him accountable.. I have a “wife” of 13 years so I think I know wtf I’m doing… she shouldn’t be disrespectful to begin with and if she is you need to be man enough to understand a real man is gonna correct disrespectful behavior… he man didn’t cuss her out he didn’t call her out of her name… so really all he did was put her in her place.. my wife doesn’t disrespect that part was understood from the beginning.. we don’t have situations like this lol… ur woman must run u my guy

[@anraegodley-cooper6321]

​@@dougferguson7079NAILED IT, sick of these beta males and their masculine clowns acting like it's ok to do whatever they want.

[@Diamond-cz6uj]

Great question, phenomenal solution, beautiful couple. Good for sis taking accountability.

[@Miss_Loving]

As a woman, I totally understand and agree with what Cooley said, and his advice to the couple. 😊👍

[@PumpdaBrakes-ub8kp]

really? wow

[@momo4044]

You're tripping shouldn't no man tell his homie's girl to mind her business😂he should've told his homie to checc his wife✅

[@justinp9170]

Bottom line she felt entitled to jump into the conversation because her man is involved in the conversation. As if she has an instant invitation into the conversation. Also the response she got back from the friend is probably strongly reflective of how she jumped in. And he broke that down good. A lot of women want the "Effect" or the response to be a certain way coming from their men, but they pass completely over the "Cause" that got things to a certain point. A lot of women want men who will protect them and buss a man in the jaw for calling them out of their name, but we can't ignore how they started to say slick shit when the other guy did nothing to them. We can't ignore how she egged on the confrontation right up to the point of physical violence and now she want to tag you in to fight for her. If a lot more men would've turned to their woman and said "Know your place" there would be less men in jail and 6 feet under right now.

[@sidneyatkins6678]

Where I'm from jumping in grown men's conversation that's a no no

[@eugenetrammell]

I’m mind blown that he had to dummy down his lesson on manners, and she still seems confused😂😂😂

[@Lawrencewillbedone]

Why is she so interested in what any man is talking about other than her husband?

[@1965..]

Exactly

[@1965..]

She got checked and didn’t like it.

[@sogie1042]

Cooley the distortion of Good culture causes people to forget how to behave properly. I love your response.

[@Mr.DeeJay954]

When feminism of the modern variation meets Caribbean culture, it doesn't mesh well because the two philosophies don't mix.

[@godiswithme8653]

This has become one of my favorite KZbin channels. I am a new subscriber and I love the content ‼️💖🫂

[@devondevon6992]

great conversation!!!! great break down !!!! hope she learn some manners!!!!!

[@nigelrodriguez210]

Big up trinidad 😂

[@lch7876]

This is one of those situations where I would say circumstances dictate, who, what, where, when, and why. Personally I think the friend, and the husband were wrong. Firstly the friend because watch how you speak to my woman, because would you like it if I spoke to your woman like that. Mutual respect where if we were truly friends we wouldn't put eachother in uncomfortable situations like that with each others women. And, honestly when she explained the setting of the situation, her husband friend could have politely said something like, "no disrespect to you, or my brotha sista, but this is a private conversation between us."

[@ezekwu]

stop simping bro...

[@lch7876]

@@ezekwu My bad you think being a respectful friend is s!mping, oh well we can't all be dependable and loyal Men. Snakes🐍 are in abundance these days 😁👍☕ and I'm definitely not your bro

[@lch7876]

@@ezekwu Stop being a disloyal $!mp, Snake 🐍

[@ezekwu]

@@lch7876 so you wouldn't check your girl???

[@Kgzfaccacekdldbxbdbdb]

You are so weak, call a spade a spade and grow some balls

[@earlsylvan1294]

My girl just suffering from a bruised ego, so she'll heal. Cooley's 100% correct in that regardless to how informal the setting, you hadda try and read the room. If you misread, doh beat up and humble yuhself.

[@StanlyTPT]

"you hadda"... stop perverting language. If you want to be seen as a man, then educate yourself & speak like a Man. Cooley is also guilty of this. He needs to be a good example of a well spoken man. The dumbing down of language is a direct result of the dumbing down of the people. Cheers

[@skrillztheentourage]

​@@StanlyTPTAre you ok bro? Lol

[@earlsylvan1294]

@@StanlyTPT I eh too sure who you is, buh I can assure you dat it's 100% proper trini dialect. Also, part of not just being educated, but edified, is your ability to get your message across to those who need it the most. Travel well.

[@JeromeAverett-wy9xl]

I didn’t know Caribbean women didn’t know how to mind their business when their man tells them 👀 the western world/internet really.

[@thankyou770]

They normally do, but you'll have a few odd balls here n there.

[@VaughnMcGregor]

So three things are at play here. #1. His wife was out of pocket for jumping in men's business while 2 men are conversing. #2. The man speaking to her husband was out of pocket for checking the wife instead of staying in his lane. #3. The husband checked his wife in front of the man instead of checking the man for disrespecting both of them. The husband should've took control of the situation by excusing his wife for later discussion about the matter meanwhile turning to the man in conversation and emphatically telling him to never disrespect him nor his wife like that again or it will be a problem. If my wife is out of pocket, that's for me to check (and not some other man). That man disrespected his presence by saying that to her and made him look soft and weak. You gotta check that whole situation, brotherman 🙂‍↔️👉🏾. 💯

[@lch7876]

My guy I gotta like your comment, and give you a 💯 because great minds think alike. It's like dudes in this comment section have no common sense, or respect for their boi's; because how you gonna check my girl Infront of me. If you got a problem with her either tell me to my face right there, or pull me to the side. But, you should never feel like you have a reason to speak to her in a disrespectful manner in-front of my face. Otherwise i'm feel like you don't have respect for me, or our friendship, and you trying to make me look weak in front of my woman and whoever else is there. Show me the same respect I would show you and your girl. Its like people don't know what respect and common courtesy is anymore.

[@madlen3015]

!!!!

[@222lanna]

So she doesn't have to respect men in general, just her man? What?? ... I would never ask a friend of my husband's what they are speaking about. And if I did and my husband defended ME I'd think he had a fever. But it wouldn't happen because I would never question another man.

[@VaughnMcGregor]

@@222lanna Please go back and check point #1 that I addressed 🤦🏾‍♂️.

[@charlesrogers8795]

This right here is the best, most intelligent response. Wisdom from witness and experience.

[@Raymundus1350]

Really good vid! The patient samurai with the explanations. Very informative.

[@MrBarksdale149]

Well said spoken like men in my generation. We black men over 60 gree up with females who never ever crossed the line of men conversations because it could lead to the female writing a check her ass can't cash (fight) then the men fighting over her feelings 😅😂

[@BrooklynMayor718]

She wanted to act like she wears the boxers around that "friend" of his.... She definitely gives off the vybe of she must of liked that man's friend or something😂😂😂

[@smartcookie3500]

I agree with this perspective.

[@sansharedmond9373]

Sista Zebi UK London. Sond advice. Hope this couple keep successful . I loved that Roy callrd in with his wife. Plus she'd just met this friend

[@itsJVP]

I’ll keep it 💯 I’d check them both. I’ll check him because you disrespecting my woman is blatant disrespect to me. “Know your place” bro you better know your place meaning if you have a problem with her you tell me. Watch your mouth. Next,I’m checking her because it’s rude to interrupt a conversation when if it isn’t an emergency you can hold on. Just disrespect all around and I’m not tolerating it from either party. Got a problem with that? I’ll replace you both.

[@bravokilo1972]

Most fights between Men are NOT til death. It's mainly to address disrespect & establish dominance in a corrective manner. Especially when between a close friend or simple acquaintance..

[@BossLady0707]

I'm from the Caribbean and he's correct. She need to know her place- she needs to mind her business.

[@beautybymj98]

I agree. Even when our landlord speaks to us I let my bf converse with him. Said landlord asked us one time if it was okay for him to give our daughter a slice of pizza he just got and i looked at my bf to answer 😂and i don’t ever think it’s cool to join in two men having a conversation.

[@KrispySwipesGolf]

Very good he is awesome ok Cooley that’s why I sub!!!!

[@lindajohnson878]

Cooley explained very well. Some women don't know their place. His friend should have told her to mind her business . She appears to be toxic. Some women need to look up the word classy She was very disrespectful and did not take responsibility......red flags

[@TacoPoweredTimeTraveler]

If a woman can hold down a job, she should apply to those same guidelines to following workplace leaders to complete a task. A relationship isn't much different. It's no surprise that many women who disrespect men also cannot hold down a job. They don't have a problem with men, they have content for authority. Choose wisely gentlemen.

[@dixbowman3452]

We need to bring etiquette classes back for both menand women.

[@Gchild2k6]

@Cooley When you are wrong, I hold your feet to fire so now that you are right, I have to praise you even far more. Your advice is 1bn% correct. Perfectly said on all front includeing most females not understanding the hierachy, being manipulative, not seeing how their insecurity and need to be right even when wrong puts a man in danager and need for females to know their place. Well done and keep up the great work. SHOUT OUT TO ROY and Leah for being open to discuss his issue in public. Lets hope if Leah learns. LADIES, The best way to protect your man is to know your place. Simple. FELLAS, Never succomb to female thinking or placate her feelings/emotions as it will encourage the Dmon to keep being wicked and evil. HOLD THE LINE FELLAS.

[@lch7876]

Nahhh cooley was right and wrong in this situation. If you truly consider me to be your friend, you should never feel like you have the right to address my woman in a disrespectful tone, or manner. If you have a problem with my woman have enough respect for me and our friendship to pull me to the side and speak to me about it, and I'll check my woman. Show me the same common courtesy and respect I would show you and your woman because you my boi. Cooley feet need to be held to the fire for this one.

[@Gchild2k6]

@@lch7876 Utterly wrong. Being a friend does not mean a man has to become a SMP for your female. The female did wrong and she needed to be corrected by the friend and her husband. Correcting a female is not disrespect. This is no.1 female manipulation where to avoid accountability they spin correction for their wrong doing as disrespect. EPIC FAIL

[@OfficialHorusMusic514]

Manipulation happens when you focus on the effects and not the cause 😮‍💨🎯

[@ChristabelleSkinner-ez6fw]

I am a Trinidadian woman and we were raised differently. Some of our women however are beginning to pattern and follow foreign influences especially in their relationship and the typical Trini man will not tolerate it. This lady is disrespectful and trying to justify it.

[@djcarson481]

Podcast reach the Caribbean 😂😂😂

[@dopekid111]

TRINIDAD! 🇹🇹

[@skrillztheentourage]

12:30 "All up in the Kool aid and don't know the flavor" lol

[@Dearest_Kenyetta]

To be honest as a woman I am like the friend. I'm an introvert and I don't typically talk to all people. So when I am having a conversation it is usually very private with someone I trust... and I don't welcome people who feel entitled to just interrupt or insert themselves into my conversations because I'm rather private.

[@PumpdaBrakes-ub8kp]

a WOMAN should never inject herself between two men. NEVER. I even told my mother that YEARS ago when I was young. Told her not to interfere why daddy and I are arguing. A song will argue with his father. Part of the process. I told her do not say anything. Years later, today, if my father and I argue (rarely) she just sits there and is QUIET. edit: before she would join my dad. lol I told her we don't need you in our convo. stay out.

[@Thelightseerservice]

she salty AF. lmfaoooooo

[@bchisolm44]

A lot of women don't understand the power of having a man's life in your hands. As Cooley said, we're willing to die for you. You can't be willing to gamble my life on something so meaningless. Use that power wisely, you may only get to call on it once sadly!

[@robertwilliams7144]

Thats the problem, society has us out of order. Her life is in OUR hands is how it's supposed to be. The feeling that she felt is natural, and she's looking to her man to help her with it, which is what we say we want. She didn't tell him HOW to respond, she just expected him to address the disrespect she felt from his friend. As men, only base level thinking would assume that the only response is to act a fool, and that that's what she wanted. No, He could've accessed the situation and pulled them to the side individually to check both. If the friend respects him, he'll be open to listening, and their can be an understanding between men on his boundaries going forward when it comes to his woman. He can also let her know how to move in that setting/situation, and if she still doesn't feel comfortable, THEY leave. His responsibility is to his woman, and feeling safe/protected isn't just physical, but psychological as well. A woman getting checked a certain way by another man in front of her man, regardless of right or wrong, can cause damage if you don't address her feeling unprotected. The responsibility of being the head.

[@bchisolm44]

@@robertwilliams7144 he said he addressed his friend, she didn't think he did enough. That's what my point was referring to.

[@g4do]

I've encountered a lot of people, mainly women, that rudely interject reacting to something that was said even though they weren't a part of the conversation. One of my uncles was notorious for randomly joining a conversation with people he doesn't know at all . I don't like it . Don't interject or randomly join my conversation especially when it's getting good. It's worse than taking food out of my plate when I don't know you .

[@mizkeen]

No! The proper way is sit your ass down and try to catch up with the conversation.. Imagine interrupting a group conversation introducing yourself and ask what they're speaking about! That seems even more obnoxious .

[@quebusiness72k]

Good. Job Brother 👍 🎉🎉🎉

[@dinkdaplaymaka]

Example of they do not want to understand!!! This is baffling

[@eddyalvaross2195]

She want Roy to at least tell the friend : "why do you have to be aggressive like this bro?" Because she was hurt emotionally and needed the help of her husband. The best thing to do is to avoid anything which could potentially lead to an escalation. It is wisdom. Now, if the woman is hurt, she can avoid to speak to that friend of him again and just ignore him, not even greeting him. This way she could show how she's hurt without causing any escalation or harm. Wisdom matters!

[@TrollSumn]

She would never be in a situation to do so if she didn’t insert herself into their convo.

[@eddyalvaross2195]

@@TrollSumn Unfortunately, she can't reverse time and have the chance to avoid putting herself in the unwanted situation.

[@ericnelly]

this is common with a lot of black ladies and they keep doing it !

[@mariamoncadajamaicamelovet3995]

I wouldn’t have interrupted them in the first place. I know my place.

[@lch7876]

And even if you did interrupt it's not my so-called friends place to say anything to you about it. I'm the one who is supposed to speak to you about it, and not him. That respect, and common courtesy goes both ways, especially from a friend.

[@thedeanogaming]

@@lch7876 be quiet

[@jilearjackson9863]

You the man coolie

[@jessicaanthony9300]

That’s Caribbean women 😂😂😂

[@beneditoxanichamaximiano6008]

Nanananana ... She jumped in the conversation cause there is something wrong and got her triggered. Simple. She's got skeletons.

[@curlinghaldane9390]

OHHHHHH! Somebody that's in touch with reality finally, thank you, proving my point, these chicks is the same all over the world, especially in the black community!!!

[@ThesisOriginals]

She is gorgeous lucky man

[@isaiahgomez6671]

I think they were both disrespectful. My friend as a man should look me and have the courtesy of saying yo check your girl. Also the girl was being disrespectful as well butting in. I think he should say yo that’s my wife respect, then I will be the one to correct my wife not another man in front of me.

[@lch7876]

facts

[@extremeking425]

My Grandmother does the same exact thing.

[@edwardgilbert3232]

Exactly, she was definitely out of line, women interjecting in men's conversations have caused fights

[@hazir38]

By her holding the phone towards her most of the time.. told me she don’t respect her man.. she wants attention from other men.. this is really why she wanted to bud in the friends convo.. she can’t be trusted..

[@cincyfanjunglecity9871]

Off subject , I love the Jamaican accent.

[@premiersignconcepts8808]

Trinidad 🇹🇹 🇹🇹 🇹🇹 in the house

[@Mike-yr4iy]

yea ain’t no man checking my wife including her father. Especially in front of me.

[@extremeking425]

I gotta get my Grandy to see this, she from Trinidad lol

[@ryanking1223]

I agree with u bro "know your place "if two men are reasoning how can she inject herself and even ask what the convo was about🤦🏿‍♂️🤣🤣 how would she react if he did it to her when she and one of her friends were speaking ? 🤔your wife should not expect u to check him on it since it was not u or her business either 👎🏿💯stop trying to justify being malicious or nosey 😂😂

[@byronherbert6951]

Trinidsd in the house❤

[@Gr8rome407]

I agree mostly but the friend is supposed to speak to the husband and express to the husband "your wife is out of line please address that with her"

[@that_kng8120]

I’m sorry, no man is speaking to my wife that way. If they disrespect my wife, they got to see me.

[@StanlyTPT]

you be da sofa king... sofa king wee tawdit

[@ezekwu]

stop simping bro...

[@that_kng8120]

@@ezekwu simping? No dude tells my wife to hush. Address me and I’ll address the issue. If a man talks to my wife like that he clearly lacks respect for me.

[@SeawardMari]

​@@that_kng8120just like your wife has no manners like yourself

[@MarMar89]

@@that_kng8120yo wife just might wear the pants in yall relationship lol.. simp

[@gew12]

He he didn't need to add the know your place part. Cooley please no attempts at west Indian accent 😂

[@RemoteControl-q4o]

This was dope

[@sansharedmond9373]

We Woman spend much if our luves shielding our Men/Sons from avoidable trauma- she placed her man in s position indicating he should confront (address matter) with the friend. I know Trinidad people/culture- She Knew & dods know. 👌🏾

[@unclejunior123]

She’s messing with the other guy most definitely

[@babiii3m]

And she more embarrassed him more than herself

[@babiii3m]

The friend wasn’t masculine. The masculine thing to do would be to hold his home boy accountable for his wife

[@starlyght_illumine144]

The woman was wrong, but I’m the one to address my woman not another man! If my friend does this I view this as a disrespect to me. If he respects me he would talk to me off air about addressing the situation, but he wouldn’t have to, I would nip it in the bud.

[@michaels8607]

The issue is that she was not trained properly by her father to mind her business and stand down...

[@SeanKarleone]

Well handled.

[@toiloloreactions9874]

I’m not letting no man Hush my wife. Just like I wouldn’t Hush another man’s wife. It can turn violent but that’s the line that he must be willing to cross by silencing my wife. Would I correct her of course but I told God that I would love and protect her. I never said anything about my friend in those vows. If a man allows this then he is probably more afraid of the guy so he doesn’t want to react.

[@pharriscollier1506]

cool show Cooley, beauitful couple

[@jackdope]

Nah they were both wrong, even though she jumped in conversation, it was her husbands place to tell her to stay out and he would do that from the side not right infront of pple and he was supposed to tell his friend he is not supposed to tlk to his wife like that Coz if your friend disrespects yur wife infront of you ,that means he doesn’t respect you too The friend should be like hey man, tlk to your wife , this and this ain’t cool

[@keithingram8690]

Well, truthfully, if they have been lifetime friends, everybody at the party it shouldn’t be a problem for him to say what he said, and it should not be a problem with the husband because we are all family in this and friends. People are taking the little comment way out of context she put her nose in someone else’s conversation in the wrong way and then decided she wanted her husband to have something to say about something that involved neither one of them.. and depending on the way, she reacted, it could’ve gotten things taken in the total wrong direction because the man did nothing wrong. All of you people in this comment section are attempting to make it a respect or disrespect thing when it was not about that it was a simple statement made between friends.

[@lch7876]

Factz! 💯

[@lch7876]

@@keithingram8690 Naahhh although I understand what you trying to say. It don't matter, because you don't know which way the wind is gonna blow that particular day. If you truly consider someone your friend, then show them the same respect, and common courtesy you would want them to show you infront of your girl. Their is a difference between the woman I lay with, and my boi. If you have a problem with her, or my kids you speak to me, you don't have nothing to say to them period. I don't care how long you've none them, because if your my so-called friend you've none me long enough to show me respect by pulling me to the side, otherwise your risking our friendship over some petty shiii that could have been handled respectfully. Your pride ain't worth losing a good friend over.

[@madlen3015]

Im sorry but if a man talks to me like that infront of my man and he didnt protect me we are going separate ways

[@deeel5692]

I'm a Man and the guest was rude to his Hostess. The husband was weak for not checking the guest on his tone when he spoke to the Mans "Baby Momma". The fact that she is not his wife may have been a factor.

[@giovannimiles1]

My homie better not tell my woman to shut up….and she shuts up.why would she be doing what another man say do tf.

[@boodrowwilson1894]

Respect has NOTHING to do with women. They should stop using the word.

[@weldscholars8253]

I would have checked the dude then I would have checked my lady

[@j_o1ne483]

Cooly I normally agree with most things you say but aint no man going to let his friend talk like that to his girl.

[@bigo975]

Sounds like your women wears the pants!

[@Lil_warner]

His friend did nothing wrong ppl are too soft emotionally

[@j_o1ne483]

@bigo975 I wear the pants. My friends would never talk to my girl like that and I wouldn't talk to his girl like that for the simple reason because he knows that If she acts up I would handle it. You letting your friend talk crazy to your girl is wild.

[@bigo975]

@j_o1ne483 U must be from the new era of men, u guys are just too sensitive, hence the reason women don't respect men anymore!

[@Vision-dd8fl]

​@@j_o1ne483How is that crazy talk? It's heiracy. Her husband and the friend are higher in the hierarchy, therefore she got checked. You weak boy and in your feelings

[@AthleticJawn]

Although she was wrong for intervening that way; the husband should’ve checked his friend! Nobody should be checking your woman other than you. The friend should’ve been checked just like she should’ve

[@j_artis_b]

Agreed

[@mosesprops5754]

lol it can kinda be right but it probably took that to make the husband stand up better to his wife it probably was good it happened like that .

[@T.image79]

No. Anyone in a conversation has the right to close it off to ANY intruder. You invite yourself to any place or conversation then you have to be ready to be pushed out by ANYBODY. It is a simple case of manners. Anyone can tell you anything if you push yourself into any place.

[@T.image79]

If no one should check your woman but you then that means you should teach your woman manners first. Women acting like this caused needless fights between men. So it is all about putting the woman in order first.

[@j_artis_b]

@@T.image79 I disagree. If she doesn’t have manners, then why is she your woman? A real woman should not have to be put in order. You as a man can’t teach a woman to be a woman. She should be willing to follow your lead

[@broshawnwest]

She doesn't know her place!!

[@bokcmeatyvstheworld8273]

Wu tang is forever

[@MANifest_So0ManyLikeVibez90]

Im a little under 20 mins late, my dear its not that youre expected to be perfect or anything but due to you being in the wrong, youre man isnt required to defend you. It would be his requirement to correct you so things go much smoother in future interactions. And it will be all good mon!

[@KwameR.Sankofa]

ODB gotcha all in check.. whooa

[@Chief_thunder_charging_bear]

You see it too?😂 what's crazier is odb gotta song saying his great grandfather name was chief cuffie of the shinnecock Indians in New York. He say chief cuffie sold Manhattan to the dutch....

[@KwameR.Sankofa]

@Chief-thunder_charging_bear wow I didn't even notice that maybe homeboy is a ODB fan

[@Chief_thunder_charging_bear]

bet money they blood related... the truth is stranger than fiction 💪🏾

[@RoyCuffieTV]

​@@Chief_thunder_charging_bear WTF yall serious. Thanks for that info. imma Google that shyt.

[@RoyCuffieTV]

​@@Chief_thunder_charging_bear well we about to find out

[@James-ju3ok]

Great video