Will I Ever Be Able to Ride My New Horse?

After dealing with allergies, an eye infection, colic, and lameness, things are definitely looking up for Black Jack. But he's still lame. I wonder if I'll ever get to ride him?

[@slunt3123]

Consider taking lessons while you wait for Black Jack to heal. The better you are as a rider, the easier it will be for Black Jack to carry you comfortably. People don’t realize how sensitive a horse’s back is, and when riders aren’t centered with their horse, they are difficult to carry.

[@HorseTaleswithBlackJack]

Agreed. I am getting set up with lessons at my new barn. :)

[@nicsxnin6786]

Very true!

[@lilmissstfu1126]

When my horse was on stall rest I started doing target training with him. It was wonderful, it is full of enrichment and helps the bond. Look up videos like beginning target training or horse or clicker training. It really gets the horse thinking. Once you both get the hang of it, the possibilities are endless.

[@HorseTaleswithBlackJack]

Oh yes! What a wonderful idea! I’ve done this with my Doberman, but never thought to do it with Black Jack. Thank you for the great suggestion!

[@deerhaven3350]

I've been watching your videos and can't help but feel that whoever sold Black Jack to you was very much aware of his issues; I just sat here shaking my head when the person at your old barn told you he was "tender footed"; huge red flag. I wish you every happiness with your beautiful boy.

[@HorseTaleswithBlackJack]

Thank you! I think he was aware of his issues as well.

[@Machka-l1x]

My horse suffered a bad tendon injury while playing in the pasture in November 2023. The initial prognosis was not promising. However, with weeks of initial complete stall rest, anti-inflammatory meds (daily bute) and two treatments of PRP (platelet rich plasma injections) he has made a good recovery. In addition to the initial treatments, he has seen an equine physical therapist for radio frequency tx which really helped shrink the tendon and reduce the fluid. I think the physical tx has been a very important part of the recovery. I started exercising him slowly on hard surfaces Now I'm able to ride him at walk and trot without any signs of lameness. There will always be scar tissue but the leg feels firm. I wish you all the best with BJ's road to recovery. It's easy to see why you fell in love with him.

[@HorseTaleswithBlackJack]

I'm so glad to hear your horse is doing better!!

[@Machka-l1x]

@@HorseTaleswithBlackJack I would recommend talking to an equine physical therapist about treatment options. That really made a big difference in my horses recovery. Good luck.

[@SharonCSwink]

❤You made the right decision in changing Black Jack's barn.

[@HorseTaleswithBlackJack]

Thank you! Yes, he's at the Ritz Carlton for horses now, and he's visibly happier. And that makes me happy!

[@mamasplayinhookie3131]

Not sure if you've seen The Clever Cowgirl's channel but you should check her out. Lots of great information for horse lovers. I'm learning tons about horse care and issues. I wish you the best with Black Jack, he looks like an absolute gem ❤

[@HorseTaleswithBlackJack]

Thank you for sharing! I love her channel! And thanks for the well wishes!

[@1daySomeday]

One step at a time of course and the waiting is the hardest part in decision making. In the mean time there are options to consider and one of those is researching in supplements for horses with muscle and joint injuries and there are also specific horse feed that focus on specific aspects of the horse's health, and one of those aspects being joint and tissue repair. Those who have used it on their horses say they seen a significant difference over the course of time , roughly 3 months to 6 months of the horse consuming as directed. That could offer your horse better results. If you do find a feed and supplement that works wonders on your horse , you might be able to have the company brand be a sponsor for your yt that would help cover the funds for your horse's medical procedures.

[@HorseTaleswithBlackJack]

Thank you! I do need to research the supplements and feed. That's a great idea. I'd looked into supplements right after I purchased him, but I was really overwhelmed. So many choices! But I'll get on that this weekend!

[@gillianmcgough9743]

I've had horses for over 40 years, and I recently lost my old mare, who passed at 30. I owned her for 28 years I wouldn't buy another horse without out a 5 stage vetting and x rays as buying horses is mine field but I live in the UK, my mare had a superficial flexor tendon injury and came back into work 6 months later walking in hand will help as it will help strengthen the fibrils in the tendon, hosing the leg for 10 min twice a day will help the inflammation which is the main thing to get sorted, your horse may have been given bute to hide the lameness when you rode him before you bought him which can often happen if your inexperienced buying horse's ,it's something you wouldn't be aware of. the problem with tendon, ligament and joint injuries is they can often flair up and can be expensive to sort, I have a friend who had to retire her showjumper despite spending £10,000 on treatment this included stem cell transfer.

[@HorseTaleswithBlackJack]

Yeah, the treatment is outrageously expensive for sure…

[@mcanqb]

Black Jack was the name of my childhood pony, I got a 7 years old. 😭. Thank you for sharing

[@HorseTaleswithBlackJack]

@@mcanqb Do you know how they picked his name? My Black Jack is named after Black Beauty and also the Black Jack who was a military funeral horse.

[@brendabijak7171]

Isn't it funny how things work out! I am so happy for both of you! You are really learning a lot quickly! He is beautiful! I just love hearing about whatever....always a lesson in everything. Thanks for sharing!

[@HorseTaleswithBlackJack]

@@brendabijak7171 Thank you! I’m really trying to stay in the learning mindset with all of this.

[@michelekeirle811]

I just subscribed I’m a life long horse lover and I applaud your commitment to BlackJack. Welcome to the world of horses A.K.A whatever can happen will happen. Lol Sending Prayers that he heals and doesn’t have any discomfort.

[@HorseTaleswithBlackJack]

Thank you for subscribing! The world of horses is a wild ride for sure! lol

[@rebeccaneal7133]

Blackjack's ankle/wrist is called the pastern. I'm hoping he's going to recover completely. You might get him some toys for his stall.

[@HorseTaleswithBlackJack]

Toys are a great idea! Thank you!

[@rebeccaneal7133]

@HorseTaleswithBlackJack if you search KZbin for 'horse with rubber chicken' there are some pretty funny videos of horses enjoying the heck out of rubber chicken 🐔 toys

[@MegJones7]

You might take some chalk and learn the names of the body parts by drawing them on him. That would be a fun video with your charm and self deprecating attitude. You’re so brave to do this video because the horse world can be snooty and judgemental.

[@HorseTaleswithBlackJack]

@@MegJones7 That's a cute idea! Thank you! :)

[@CastleMc]

You seem like such a nice person and I'm sorry that this happened to you. Unfortunately, it is likely that the sellers were aware of his issues. He is very pretty and it's such a shame. It's common for people to mask lameness by injecting horses with bute-lame race horses will run on it (very dangerous of course). I'm curious about the basis for the PPE vet's "neutral" evaluation. But moving ahead, changing barns was a great decision+ so was creating this YT channel as you are getting some good advice in the comments. I hope that Black Jack can recover enough for light riding and wish you both all the best. He is fortunate to have you!

[@HorseTaleswithBlackJack]

Thank you for your kind comments! The vet was neutral because Black Jack had some soreness in his back fetlocks; without a complete lameness workup, he didn't want to give him anything but a neutral evaluation. Obviously, next time I will walk away from a horse with this type of issue. My mistake was falling in love with him before I had the PPE done. I am LOVING the comments I've been getting! So much helpful information!!!

[@audreywineland1426]

Agreed. How could a vet advise purchasing a horse with any sign of lameness. Neutral?

[@HorseTaleswithBlackJack]

@@audreywineland1426 I don’t think he actually advised. I may have worded that not quite accurately. He rated Black Jack as neutral for my intended use for him… He did not give me advise on what to do. Kinda wish he had done so, but I guess that’s not necessarily what the PPE is for.

[@anneflynn9614]

You got a crash course in horse care with Black Jack. My friend's horse had the same injury and stayed sound with periodic injections.

[@HorseTaleswithBlackJack]

This is encouraging! That's what I'm hoping!

[@soniavassallo2558]

Thank you for sharing and for not giving up on your handsome Black Jack. He is so blessed to have you. I am like you, older and want to get my first time horse someday. The slaughter pipeline is so scary and it truly breaks my heart. I wish it would stop. I am enjoying your videos about Black Jack.

[@HorseTaleswithBlackJack]

@@soniavassallo2558 Thank you! ❤️

[@HorseTaleswithBlackJack]

@@soniavassallo2558 I forgot to mention that I agree with the slaughter pipeline. So scary, and I will never allow that to happen to my beautiful boy.

[@DB-bw1tg]

Wishing you the best!

[@louise7429]

I am sorry for the way this has turned out for you. But you are so incredible to take care do Jack the way you have. And your husband…..well, what an angel of a man you married. I hope you have the best of luck going forward.

[@HorseTaleswithBlackJack]

I have to agree…my husband is pretty great. ❤️ Thank you for your kind comment!

[@jaysmith8199]

So glad you moved barns - this one looks to have decent vets/ farrier and the horses are looked after properly 😊 He may be a pasture pet, but that's not bad. While he's recuperating, you could work on your own skills. Learn to lunge properly, take riding lessons, watch how other horses are groomed. Also, liberty work for Black Jack and tricks! Jesse Drent on YT is fab for tricks. Macho, Shetland pony stallion and Gaio, ex spanish bullfighter horse. He's an incredible horseman who teaches his horses with kindness and patience 😊 Black Horses Friesian have free reigning of their horses - big black dogs that roam around the yard 😄

[@HorseTaleswithBlackJack]

@@jaysmith8199 Thank you for those suggestions!!

[@leanneadams2549]

I knew it would work out and you guys are a good team ! I’m so happy BJ has you !! Thank you so much for being such a great horse mom !!! Your awesome !!! ❤️💯🐴 Ps Your husband sounds amazing!! Does he have a brother ? Lol. Just kidding. But I’m so glad your husband is so supportive and things are going to really work out now matter what the outcome !!!!

[@HorseTaleswithBlackJack]

Awwww! Thank you!

[@Mona-e5c]

I admire your willingness to share your story. I can completely relate, having bought a horse a year ago. Black Jack seems like a real sweet guy and it seems like you’re trying to turn over all the right stones. I hope the lameness sorts itself out. If not, you might be able to find a vet specialized in lameness near you. If a vet sees no harm in it, there are a lot of physiotherapy exercises for horses that are easy to perform. I’m a big fan of Jec Ballou, who specializes in this approach. She’s written a book on the subject called 55 Corrective Exercises for Horses and has many demonstration videos on her KZbin channel. I’m looking forward to seeing more videos on Black Jack.

[@HorseTaleswithBlackJack]

Thank you!! I will look up that book! Black Jack is with a lameness expert now, so I'm thankful for that. He's just not sure such an old injury will heal up enough for riding.

[@janicewink4614]

You already know about Free Spirit Equestrian, because you purchased the bitless bridal from her. Could you possibly reach out to her for advice or guidance?

[@HorseTaleswithBlackJack]

I saw on her KZbin live today that she really can’t answer questions like this because there are so many variables.

[@btgoble]

Hey new to your Chanel and only watched your black jack story. Firstly your husband is a saint 😊. Second. Welcome to owning horses. I have a black jack in my paddock but he is red nut😅. No seriously he is beautiful Clancy. Will be with me forever. Hang in there you have the right attitude. Tracey (Australia)

[@HorseTaleswithBlackJack]

Thank you, Tracey! My husband is a great man; I'm very lucky. Say "hi" to your Black Jack for me! :)

[@patquinn2188]

Did you tell the vet about your original visit from the farrier? I hope you are able to continue with riding lessons while all this is going on. Take care, best wishes.

[@HorseTaleswithBlackJack]

I did tell him, and he said Black Jack has excellent sole depth and doesn’t need pads. 😳

[@patquinn2188]

Thank you so much for taking the time to answer. That at least is one thing resolved.

[@deborahrich2666]

We leased a horse when we were beginners as we rode better the horse we need changed. You could keep black jack and lease until you find another.

[@HorseTaleswithBlackJack]

Previously I was hesitant to lease because I might fall in love with the horse and it wouldn't be mine. But now I have Black Jack, so all my love could just go to him. :) Thank you for the great suggestion!

[@louisepoulin]

You can ask whoever is working on your horse.... get their permission so you can videotape :)

[@myhappygecko2895]

You’re a great horse mom. He’s probably had it a very long time and been in pain a very long time. He’s probably gonna need injections. You got sold a bill of goods but he’s a lovely horse and knowing you just want to walk trot him is lovely, I bet you can get him good! Did you ever get any answers as to how often he was ridden before you? He may make a lovely trail horse. I would bet you can at the very least do that. Have you said how much you paid for him? A reason he doesn’t run around his pasture is because his foot probably hurt. Once he feels better I bet you see him run around a lot more. Don’t get scammed on the second horse because you def did on the first. He’s so lucky you got him and a calm sweet horse is worth a million bucks so I bet you get him sound enough for what you want to do! Then your husband can ride him.

[@HorseTaleswithBlackJack]

I’m sure you’re right about why he’s not running around out in the pasture. He was ridden a couple times a week as a lesson horse, mostly kids and young teens I think. I paid WAY TOO MUCH,but that’s water under the bridge at this point. I won’t get scammed a second time, that’s for darned sure. He got injections a few weeks ago, and we’ll be doing another lameness exam I August to see if there’s any improvement. I’m totally willing to do regular injections if necessary!

[@kerstin.jitschin5861]

Sadly,we need more footage of your horse,while moving 😢

[@Tawny593]

You sharing everything helps others with buying or owning a horse. We appreciate you being candid. Those pads are a Red Flag a horse has hoof issues. Some people buy companion horses that they never ride.

[@HorseTaleswithBlackJack]

I was hoping my story could be helpful to others! I know I'm certainly benefitting from all the suggestions in the comments. Black Jack may very well end up being a companion horse, and if that's all he can do, I'll love him anyway! :)

[@ferngarner1]

Or maybe the seller injected him prior to your buying him. Happens all the time. Next time get a thorough vet check before you purchase a horse for riding pleasure. Sounds like you need to know a good bit more about horses before buying more animals.

[@HorseTaleswithBlackJack]

I had a PPE done. Black Jack wasn’t lame at the time on the front, so we had no way of knowing. While I say I know “nothing,” I do know how to get appropriate care. My mistake was trusting the barn owner who sold him to me.

[@ferngarner1]

@@HorseTaleswithBlackJack I agree. Since the recent vet evaluation showed it was an old injury, I would suggest the seller knew full well about Black Jack's condition. I am so sorry this happened to you.

[@HorseTaleswithBlackJack]

@@ferngarner1 yup. That could very well be. It’s hard for me as a generally trusting person to accept this, but I think it’s true. Makes me sad.

[@ferngarner1]

@@HorseTaleswithBlackJack That's the thing about having horses. They get hurt so easily, they are expensive in so many ways, and we expect more from them than a house pet. I sincerely hope you are able to attain your dream of having horses, riding them and enjoying the entire experience. It is a truly wonderful thing to do. There is nothing better.

[@WalhallaWacht]

​@HorseTaleswithBlackJack ohhhh noooooo .....your story is standard. Never buy a horse from a barn owner especially a barn with water conditions you showed....nasty waters is a massive reg flag for everything. I am so sorry you fell into that, that horse us lucky he found you otherwise he would have ended up dropped at an auction

[@sherrieaton6444]

As a riding instructor who is now 65 yrs old….my advice would be to not buy another horse yet. Spend time having lessons. What you need from a horse now will probably be much different in a years time. You are a beginner now…but who knows in a years time you may want to be doing a bit more and your beginner horse may not be wanting to do the things that you are then enjoying. Spend time learning and riding different horses…gain knowledge. You are such a lovely person deciding to keep Black Jack….that’s a great decision. It’s lovely that you feel responsible for making sure he has a happy safe life. But as you do more with horses you may find that what you want changes…. So you could end up with a field of much loved horses that you have progressed from. I would say wait minimum a year before getting your next horse. Spend time learning and as you improve you will find out what you want from your next horse.👍X

[@HorseTaleswithBlackJack]

This is very solid advice. Thank you!

[@fleetskipper1810]

I’ve owned horses for 50 years and I totally agree with this advice.

[@carolynstewart8465]

Well said. She needs to educate herself!

[@0116Lori]

I agree with this statement. I am someone who has horse all of my life. Your needs very well may change. Don't end up with a herd like me. lol

[@nicsxnin6786]

This is very solid advice. She needs a lot more experience. I’d advise reading everything you can get your hands on. Ppe should have had leg X-rays. I have no clue what price you paid but for a horse of any decent price (and there are plenty of good horses that aren’t expensive) you should never buy without seeing all the vet records and if they are due for all their shots dental and farrier it should be reflected in the price. I’m sure you have learned but never buy a horse that isn’t 100% clear on exam. Horses that are perfectly sound can find a million ways to get hurt, don’t start with a problem. A good seller will share cost of ppe or cover cost if horse doesn’t pass. Always use a trusted vet for exam before purchase. Your vet should have warned a novice not to take on a horse with potential issues. Glad you found a good facility to help! Best of luck to you both!

[@MadddyDawn]

There’s so much more to horses than riding. Show how you’re bonding with him. Grooming him. Show how you’re learning about feed, different hay, alph alpha, supplements, what grass is best for grazing so you don’t create more issues for his hooves. Do you want him shoes? Would you prefer him barefoot? What’s best for him? How do you feel about bitless riding? I’m wanting to return to owning horses again after 25 years with no horses. Things are so different now. So much better. People aren’t just taking what someone tells them for fact . They’re learning, educating themselves on all areas, without even riding yet. It sounds like you’re starting from scratch. Look what you’ve already been through. I’ll watch as learn because there’s so much more like training styles and saddle fitting, and you can really show how much work it is and how rewarding it is.

[@HorseTaleswithBlackJack]

@@MadddyDawn Thank you for such a helpful comment!

[@wenchegrytten941]

It's certainly good that Jack came into your care. He will have a good life with you. It might not be what you envisioned, but there is a meaning to everything. You will probably understand the picture as time goes by. It is a pleasure to follow you. Love horses but have no opportunities to be around them where I live. So I get to live out my dream through yours ❤

[@HorseTaleswithBlackJack]

Awww! Thank you! Such a kind comment. ❤

[@cmoorewv]

Thanks for sharing your story. I am sort of in the same situation. I bought a very well trained, very sweet gelding last fall. We were just starting out on our riding journey together after months of searching for fitting tack. After a few weeks of light riding, he showed gait issues during a groundwork lesson and a vet assessment revealed chronic Lyme and EPM. I'm not sure when he was infected but he's getting the meds and time he needs to recover. His prognosis is good and I am trying to keep a positive attitude. Good luck with Blackjack!

[@onion6foot]

My 92 year old mother is in assisted living with the widow of the veterinarian that figured out EPM. She sits at the table with her. I used to have horses as a youth and I cared for an unrideable OFF track mare a decade ago. I learned from "Baileys" to have a wonderful relationship without riding. They are valuable friends.

[@HorseTaleswithBlackJack]

Oh no! So sorry about the EPM and Lyme. Glad you figured that out so you could get the right meds going. Good luck to your boy!!

[@cmoorewv]

@@onion6foot for sure. If he ends up as a pasture pet, he will not be loved any less. Realistically, I bought him to ride but if he never returns to riding shape he'll be cared for and pampered in retirement.

[@cmoorewv]

@@HorseTaleswithBlackJack thank you. I feel the same way you do with Blackjack. We want the best life possible for them.

[@fish3339]

Thank you for your honesty with this. He is very fortunate that you bought him.

[@HorseTaleswithBlackJack]

Thank you for your comment! :)

[@anneflynn9614]

You absolutely made the right decision to move barns!!!!!

[@HorseTaleswithBlackJack]

@@anneflynn9614 Agreed! He’s so much happier now!

[@budnspud]

I'm thinking that if you were to talk to the Clever Cowgirl who has a You Tube channel is pretty much an expert for a slow and steady reabilitiation process with horses.

[@HorseTaleswithBlackJack]

I love her channel!

[@sandracapobianco1983]

I have to say as your a new horse owner I’m impressed . There’s not many people who go the lengths you did to help your horse/partner feel better and have a good quality of life. Hang in there, your doing amazing for owning a horse for the first time, hope everything works out and looking forward to seeing more videos ❤

[@HorseTaleswithBlackJack]

Thank you so much! I’m really trying to do right by Black Jack.

[@PersonalTriumph2022]

This experience you’re having is more common than you think. I’m a novice and have had my first horse for two years now and have barely ridden him. It took a long time for us to figure out that he has a ligament injury and probably had it before I bought him. I literally reinvented the wheel trying to figure out what was wrong with my horse, even though everyone told me it was a behavior issue and that I needed to be tougher with him. However even though we have had these issues, I have realized that it’s taught me soooo much about horses, horsemanship, and caring for a large animal for the sake of the animal rather than for my own sake (riding). I have appreciated all of the lessons along the way and truly believe we get the horse we need, not the one we thought we wanted. Best of luck to you with your horse !

[@HorseTaleswithBlackJack]

Thank you for your comment! I'm so sorry you're in such a similar situation, but it's so good to hear that you're finding the good in it. Best of luck to you!

[@lyndsayhammond6884]

Your husband is a keeper! 😊

[@HorseTaleswithBlackJack]

I think so too! He's pretty awesome. :)

[@the_ethical_horse_girl]

I am sorry that this is happening to you and I understand that having a non-ridden equine sounds daunting, but there's so much possibilities! You can try liberty work (wich can be from a simple walk around me in a circle to difficult dressage movements), clicker training, trick training, walks not only around property, but in nature too and simply learning to just hang out and enjoy the time with your horse. My mare can't be ridden at the moment since she isn't trained, is young and has a foal by her side, we do a lot of liberty work with positive reinforcement/clicker training and both of us LOVE IT! While it would be a bummer if she couldn't ever be ridden, I've learnt to enjoy time on the ground too. Hopefully you can find that spark too!

[@weretalkingdog]

I love libery training! And I am having more fun than I imagined!

[@HorseTaleswithBlackJack]

Thank you! Yes, someone suggested clicker training and touch training yesterday, and I love the idea! I think Black Jack would respond really well, so I'm definitely going to give it a try! And I love your suggestion of taking him for a walk out in nature. That sounds lovely!

[@the_ethical_horse_girl]

@@HorseTaleswithBlackJack I'm sure both of you could have a great time, I remembered another thing, obsticle course, just finding random items your horse could walk on/through/over or interact with them in some way, can also be really fun. I'm wishing you both many adventures together!

[@HorseTaleswithBlackJack]

@@the_ethical_horse_girl I love this idea! I saw this on a few of the channels I watch, and it looks like so much fun!

[@huddyxzz]

I’m so so so happy for you and Blackjack!!! I’m praying that things go well for both of you!

[@slunt3123]

Your story is an important one about making sure horses drink enough water both summer and winter when extreme weather interferes with thirst (people too). Water with small amounts of molasses can encourage horses to drink (SMALL AMOUNTS). Glad Black Jack is on the road to recovering. As for his sensitive hooves, don’t give up on his potential to go barefoot. It does take some time for the hooves to acclimate to barefoot after long periods with shoes. Most important is that no sole should be removed unless it is already sloughing. Farriers often think they are helping by removing sole, but that doesn't help when transitioning to barefoot.

[@HorseTaleswithBlackJack]

@@slunt3123 Thank you! Per our vet, we tried adding Gatorade in the water, but he hated it. I like super clean water, which I was happy to give him. Maybe someday we can get him barefoot. Right now he’s acclimating to no pads.

[@sharonbeck-hl7cf]

Sounds like you landed in a good place, the new barn and experienced caring horse people. Best of luck on your new adventure.

[@HorseTaleswithBlackJack]

Thank you! I appreciate that!

[@user-wo8de6nr7d]

I may have missed it but was wondering if Blackjack's coffin bone is in a good position? It is often overlooked unless you xray for it.

[@HorseTaleswithBlackJack]

Yup, his x-rays actually looked great. The vet needed the ultrasound to find the injury.

[@gailholt5856]

If he didn't limp with the pads on, I'd put them back on or use a round horse shoe. He is beautiful, you are awesome

[@HorseTaleswithBlackJack]

We tried putting them back on, but he stayed lame. We've since found out he has an old injury, and we're trying to get that to heal. He had injections and is on stall/pasture rest.

[@ShintogaDeathAngel]

I hope he comes right for you; I haven’t ridden for years, but as a teenager, I did know of horses with sporadic lameness from old injuries in the stables I rode at. It’s certainly possible that is Black Jack’s case, too.

[@HorseTaleswithBlackJack]

@@ShintogaDeathAngel That’s encouraging! Thank you for sharing that!!

[@juliawigger9796]

Give him a whole year before riding him again, get to the bottom of what happening with lameness. Pleae can you look at us, its strange you constantly looking at the right

[@HorseTaleswithBlackJack]

I’m still trying to figure all the videoing out, so I’d appreciate some grace.

[@juliawigger9796]

@@HorseTaleswithBlackJack hmm just stop looking at yourself! look into camera!

[@serial71thriller]

​@@HorseTaleswithBlackJacksome people are brutal keyboard carriers. Kudos for telling your story/journey. Some good advice but some downright rude. You're doing the best by your horse ❤

[@jessicatindall7315]

Patience is key, I know the time seems to drag when you are waiting for them to heal but during that time continue with your bonding. Even just grooming and hand grazing does wonders to let him know he can trust you. Your feed just came up today and I look forward to hearing more!

[@HorseTaleswithBlackJack]

@@jessicatindall7315 That’s exactly what I’ve been doing! I’m so glad you found my channel!

[@carolynstewart8465]

You dont have to ride a horse to enjoy it. So much more to them than just riding. Take time to get to know him from the ground. It will pay big rewards❤. Also, dont barn hop! Moving a horse is VERY stressful!

[@HorseTaleswithBlackJack]

Yes, I've been researching all the possibilities for him on the ground, but I want to wait for the vet to give me the okay to do more than he's currently doing. He's got a check in August. I'm not barn hopping. In fact, I can't see myself ever leaving this new place until my husband and I retire and buy land of our own.

[@goberianchloex3646]

It very interesting just listening to you and seeing your clips of black jack :0) Don’t worry about it being boring. Your experience is what many experience so helps people x

[@HorseTaleswithBlackJack]

@@goberianchloex3646 thank you! I do worry about not having much to show with Black Jack! Lol

[@sadiq81]

You are not the only one.. all what I can say is keep doing what you do. Sometime you plan for something and end up doing something else. God gave you this mission to help someone, like this poor animal.. just because he needed this care to get back to his condition.. always be proud of what you do and never give up, no matter what others are saying to you to sell or if you did a wrong decision when buying him. Never care! I’m saying this because I was going through this, and still.. bought a good horse breed for jump and suddenly he has been lame, most of the time. It’s been two years since I had him, he had an ongoing lameness, you solve one part next day you find another issue. You ride for a week or month then give him a recovery rest for two months.. countless of spend, efforts, and time are put.. I said to myself I will walk all the way with this horse.. The positive side of this, is you are learning. Horse keeping is not just riding, it’s care at first point .. what you give to the horse you will get back.. learning from the different issues you face with the horse is teaching you something new everyday.. all aspects of the horse keeping, nutrition, using the right tack, body language, basic horse care and treatment of minor injuries.. We put plans and think they are the best, but always remember God is putting the best plan for you, just keep believing in this all the time 🙏🏽

[@HorseTaleswithBlackJack]

What a lovely comment to read first thing in the morning. Thank you!!

[@edithhartley4562]

You are such a good horse owner. Black Jack is so lucky to have you. I'm learning a lot from your videos, thank you. Lesson #1, horse people are shady

[@HorseTaleswithBlackJack]

Yes! Hard lesson. Glad you could learn from me rather than the alternative!

[@joannmay-anthony1076]

You definitely had an unscrupulous seller. You could find a rescue and he could be a pasture buddy for someone.

[@HorseTaleswithBlackJack]

In a few years, my husband and I are going to retire to a place where we can have a couple horses. Black Jack may end up being the perfect companion for our other horse, whoever that may be!

[@tonifly1979]

you boys is gorgous xx i have a irish draught x called zena shes 19 years old 16.2hh and bay x

[@HorseTaleswithBlackJack]

I bet she’s gorgeous! I love the drafts and draft crosses!

[@kimcentofanti2694]

I really hope he gets better..even if he needs a special shoe

[@HorseTaleswithBlackJack]

Thank you! I think he's on the right path now!

[@MozeyDnTheTrail]

Wonderful idea to make BJ a companion horse (if it comes to it)! Some ideas for filming: What to do to support/stimulate your horse while in rehab, educational resources for new horse owners or prospective owners; clinics, literature, horse clubs, etc. Also maybe what you are working on in your lessons. Thanks again for sharing! 🥰

[@HorseTaleswithBlackJack]

These are GREAT ideas! Thank you so much! I've been so impressed with how helpful everyone has been in the comments, and I so appreciate it!

[@MozeyDnTheTrail]

@@HorseTaleswithBlackJack I would love to see that content! 🙂

[@oldageisdumb]

I think one thing is certain… he’s lucky you bought him. Too many horses would be passed around and resold. I have faith you’ll do the right thing, be it keeping him or finding a spot for him as a pasture buddy. I don’t think you’ve made as many mistakes as you think you have. The only mistake might be buying him anyway after the bad ppe but other than that you’ve done everything right.

[@HorseTaleswithBlackJack]

Your comment makes me think of that line in Pretty Woman when Julia Roberts tells the sales lady: "Big mistake. Big. HUGE!" LOL Making a decision with my heart rather than my brain was not the best choice, but I sure do love him. I agree that he'd be passed around, resold when people figure out his issues, and eventually he'd end up at an auction and into the slaughter pipeline. I won't let that happen to him.

[@oldageisdumb]

@@HorseTaleswithBlackJack Don’t be hard on yourself about it. It doesn’t sound like this is going to break you financially (although vet bills are never fun) and even if it was a “mistake”, it’s a good one. I bet you wouldn’t change it. Our companions don’t have to be perfect, they just have to be loved! I have a lot of respect for you.

[@CherylMillard-i5o]

You lack confidence in yourself, there was no one there to help you lunge your horse when this is something you could have done yourself. There are so many YT channels that can teach you the basics like Pat and Deb Putnam, Buck Brannaman, Painted Desert Ranch.

[@HorseTaleswithBlackJack]

I'm working on my confidence! I had tried to lunge him, unsuccessfully, before. He simply didn't want to move. He just stood there and blinked at me, and then tried to get me to give him scratches. I had a couple other people with a lot of horse experience try to lunge him as well, and he wouldn't do it. He acted like he didn't know what we wanted him to do, so we kind of figured he was never taught (which I've heard happens with cow horses). However, when we took him to the lameness vet, he lunged beautifully! So I don't know what's up with that, but as soon as we're clear to move him faster than a walk, I'm going to get it worked out. And thank you for the KZbin recommendations! Always looking for great horse people to follow!

[@CherylMillard-i5o]

@@HorseTaleswithBlackJack One thing I do with my dogs when I first get them is run them through basic obedience not to see what they know but to see what they don't know, (but I have a horse you're asking yourself) I would recommend restarting your horse not only to see where he's at but just as important so you will learn groundwork basics from the beginning. I would stick to instructional videos, Pat Puckett is amazing, I'll list more later. The Clever Cowgirl channel is an intelligent horse woman, some of her horses have or has had soundness issues. CC is also extremely experienced, science minded and a self sufficient woman.

[@MozeyDnTheTrail]

Also, I hope prospective buyers are doing the math in their heads. A lot of people don't consider the cost of rehabbing a horse on top of the purchase price of the horse. This is a extreme case but these unexpected expenditures are faily common during the course of horse's lifetime. Be mindful!

[@HorseTaleswithBlackJack]

You are NOT kidding! It's not as simple as paying board and calling it a day. Thankfully, I did actually realize the potential costs involved in owning a horse, I just didn't think it would hit all at once! LOL

[@MozeyDnTheTrail]

@@HorseTaleswithBlackJack Yes thankfully you were prepared, but I read subs where a lot of people ask about the cost of buying a horse and have no idea of the potential costs after the sale. I'm grateful for people like you who are willing to share the "what if's" because "what if's" do indeed happen!

[@Helen-rr2yb]

Do you think that's why he had the pads on his hooves? To make him more comfortable/ hide the lameness

[@HorseTaleswithBlackJack]

To be honest, I'm not sure. Maybe the owner honestly thought the pads helped and didn't know Black Jack had a serious injury?? That's what I'd LIKE to believe, but I'm not 100% if this was ineptitude or dishonesty.

[@karencuster6030]

Any time I have seen a horse with a Flexor injury part of the recovery was working with a Farrier. Shoes and pads are used according to the injury by raising or lowering the heel to take off the pressure. Much more complicated than that. I would talk to a good Farrier who is knowledgeable on lameness.

[@teresadasilva4777]

I am enjoying your journey ! It can only get better

[@HorseTaleswithBlackJack]

Glad you enjoy it! I think it will get better! I just have to be patient.

[@carolynstewart8465]

Not necessarily with horses!

[@shashakeeleh5468]

Take the horse to Texas A&M and see what can be done.

[@HorseTaleswithBlackJack]

Hopefully it won't come to that, but if it does, I'll look into it!

[@shashakeeleh5468]

@@HorseTaleswithBlackJack It's not a last resort veterinary evaluation, but the best. If you insist on spending the money because you want to keep the horse, take him to the best initially, and they can likely tell you what the chances truly are.

[@miric6224]

Hello from a horse watcher only. You’re so caring about your beautiful pony, he’s stunning and sweet natured. The glow off his coat is stunning. Enjoy walking him around and bonding more and more with him. I have two 30lb -poo designer pups. They bring us joy just having them around and taking them for walks. For time being, Pertend you have a big dog! Will subscribe, so keep posting. Mary from MaryLand.

[@HorseTaleswithBlackJack]

Thank you for subscribing! I also have two big dogs (a Doberman and a Pyrenees mix), and I now I walk a lot of animals. :)

[@constancesmith8881]

I have much the same issue. My Paso had laminitis, he’s got EMS, and we’re going through treatment now. I adopted him almost 2 years ago and have yet to ride except for a brief walk after he recovered from laminitis after I brought him home. It began days before I picked him up and I decided just like you did, if I didn’t take him he’d end up in a bad place. So he came home. I had him tested for metabolic syndrome shortly after I got him and have had a rough time finding the right vet,etc to get us on a path to recovery. It’s a commitment and because we’ve bonded so well, it’s one that I intend to see through regardless of the outcome. I’m trying to save his life, bottom line. Hold on, it can be a rough ride and an expensive one! But it’s worth it. Every day and every dollar could not be spent on anything that is more fulfilling than giving him his health back and a home where he is loved.❤

[@HorseTaleswithBlackJack]

I'm sorry to hear your in a similar boat. It's rough, but if we don't help them, their future is not a bright one. :(

[@suzycue9278]

I continue to think you are doing absolutely awesome with Blackjack and remember they’re always reasons for things happening when they do and so perhaps the whole reason this happened is so that you would save Blackjack and find your other horse and then you’d have a companion horse in Blackjack and the new horse would have a buddy… so who knows at this point what the plan is….Patience is definitely a virtue but perhaps your next horse is just not available yet and that is why you’re going through what you’re going through with Blackjack and saving him at the same time. 🤔 You are doing great…continue to hang in there.

[@HorseTaleswithBlackJack]

Thank you! And I love the idea that my next horse is just not available yet! :)

[@helgsy]

I hope for both of you that he can make a recovery, it seems like you’d be a great match to go for rides and enjoy each other’s company 🤞🤞 one thing that occurred to me with regard to his old injury and your test ride, is that he may have been on pain meds. I don’t know the seller, of course he may have been fine - I know that some sellers will sedate a spirited horse to make it easier to handle, same thing can of course apply to pain… either way, you have each other now and deserve a good outcome!

[@HorseTaleswithBlackJack]

Thank you! I do wonder if he was on pain meds...hard telling!

[@Bajkowski1]

Trust me in this that you’re not alone. I bought my first horse with an old sesamoid injury (unknown to me). He’s now retired but it really crushed my dreams. You’ll get thru this!

[@HorseTaleswithBlackJack]

Oh no, I'm so sorry! Did you get to ride him at all???

[@weretalkingdog]

I totally understand your frustrations! Look into April Love, and there is another body worker (I forgot his name) that address all types of body work I was able to do on my horse as a first time horse person.

[@HorseTaleswithBlackJack]

Thank you! I will look into her!

[@pegs9781]

Maybe when you rode him the first time and he seemed fine it was because he was "drugged " to " hide" the problems. Im sorry you were duped. It happens all the time. At least he is with you now and not in the pipeline. He is a lucky boy. Give him a good life. He is a beautiful fella. I have had a similar experience , you are not alone. My boy is happy and healthy now after thousands spent on meds and rehab, and I wouldn't give him up for the world.

[@HorseTaleswithBlackJack]

Thank you! I've wondered if he was drugged, and while I think it's not the case, you certainly never can tell. I like to give people the benefit of the doubt, but we ALL see where that's gotten me!!

[@edithhartley4562]

Yep, poor horse

[@susantescione8007]

I know of two different people (one in the UK and one in Michigan) with three horses, all of whom will never be ridden after taking these horses to vet after vet. Both people finally took their horses to a university veterinary school, where they received imaging that showed permanent damage to the soft tissue. None of them will ever be ridden. One of them was in such pain that after a year of treatments, he had to be euthanized. The second horse (Belle) will eventually have to be destroyed, as well as the third horse in the UK, which was a home bred (Ari), who apparently injured himself in the pasture and since he had never been ridden, the injury went undiscovered. It was not found until he went under saddle and began training for jumping. I would recommend taking your horse to a university vet school. For their stories see Free Spirit Equestrian and Elphick Event Ponies.

[@HorseTaleswithBlackJack]

That wasn’t necessarily encouraging! 😉 But yeah, I get it. These injuries suck. I love Free Spirit Equestrian; in fact, I bought one of her beautiful bitless bridles.

[@susantescione8007]

@@HorseTaleswithBlackJack I don't think I was necessarily clear and that's my fault. What I meant is that is best to take the horse to a university veterinary department and get a definitive answer about the horse. Because you can dump money into endless rounds of vet visits without being sure of what is wrong. A lot more than $2,500. I think Shae from Free Spirit Equestrian spent tens of thousands of dollars in care for the first horse that she had with that kind of injury. At no time was she told that the injury could result in having the horse put down. This went on for a year, until she finally decided to take the horse to Ohio State University's College of Veterinary Science and by that time, she could not save the horse. Her second horse, also bought at auction, was Belle and this time after one or two vet visits she took it straight to Ohio State. Belle right now is staying at a neighbor's farm until Essie and she adjust to the weaning of the filly. Meg Elphick had Ari trained to ride and then he was put out to pasture for the winter. Several months ago, she began training him for eventing and noticed right away that Ari seemed to be in pain. She took him to a University Veterinary Science Department right away, where he was diagnosed. They have decided to keep Ari for as long as possible as long as he isn't in an extreme amount of pain. At the moment he is babysitting 2 foals that were born last year and the Elphicks plan to keep him as long as they can.