“My wife invited her friends to the house to beat me; despite 21 miscarriages” -Oritsefemi-

Oritsefemi has a lot to get off his chest. He says his career has taken a hit because of several people he trusted and loved who hated on him, betrayed him and turned their backs on him.
He responds for the first time in detail to his wife, Nabila who came onto the media to accuse him of cheating on her in their home and having children behind her back.
He says he elevated her from ‘a kiosk’ and changed her life including with a multi-million Naira business but she rewarded him by bringing her friends to beat him up, disrespecting him in public, abusing his children, and colluding with his friends despite standing behind her during her ‘21 miscarriages’.
He has choice words for his former manager Danny and the man they say sponsored his wedding, Otunba Cash. He says the story of the ghastly accident that ‘almost killed him’ was a lie and he shares another version of the events.
From the car he sold to D’banj, to the time he housed Burna Boy in his Lekki home, from his first wife who disappeared on him after he sponsored her abroad to the lawyer Bayo who he accused of scamming him with a wicked contract, he tells a spellbinding tale of going from the streets of Ajegunle to the heights of Afrobeats fame, and slowly seeing his fortunes turn.
This one was heavy.
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[@Fasthebaker]

Where I come from, oritsefemi is regarded as a legend , big ups big bro

[@markmanucho4493]

I was born in Nigeria Lagos ajegunle. This guy was a blessing too ma life. Some of you might not understand what I'm trying to say, but when you were born in that part of Lagos for those of us it was a blessing. Kingman that's you are brother 🤝🤝🤝

[@lucasbrasi4625]

People bashing him for not speaking good english chill abeg...Men go through a lot, if he was fluent he would have exposed so many things...But kudos to him for not exposing too many things, thats how real men do..

[@adeyinkasotunde6870]

Only if your spiritual eyes can open while this man is narrating al this story then you will know that this guy is under spell while all these are happening. A lot of Nigerians are already dead spiritually. They're like walking corpses that can only boast of worldly intelligence only, and they will never see beyond this.

[@giftedchild9490]

He was the terror from what I remember

[@360Parenting]

A lot of people don't understand that being good at communication has nothing to do with speaking good English

[@lucasbrasi4625]

@@360Parenting ..True That!!

[@lucasbrasi4625]

@@360Parenting ..True That!!

[@abimbolatitus9356]

I don't know how else someone can be expressive more than this oo. English or no english his words and the messages it carries were very clear, my pray is God to just heal him physically, psychologically and emotionally bcs he clearly needs the help.

[@zizidora2821]

My best episode yet. Enjoy the raw honest conversations with Oritsefemi. Good job

[@olatunjishowole100]

,

[@osasosasco2615]

This interview made me like this guy more is pure and genuine

[@crossjoe1142]

The best interview so far because i see Chude interview someone from the Ajengule area. Sometimes i feel the people from the slumps will always want their formal person to be interview. Those of you complaining of this interview should go and hug electric pole. I'm not concluding he's telling the truth in all here but let's accept this Pidgin English and you all should know that English is not out language. I just 🏃‍♂️ to sub.

[@antoniawilliams2627]

I’m not even Nigerian but this interview looks good. I’m so intrigued

[@chyke_moni]

Yes but it lacks construct… he wasn’t fully open

[@ndidiamakaakpunonu1232]

True true wedding no be marriage. Dis their wedding was same day as BankyW/Adesua destination wedding. I remember people say dey go attend his own dat enjoyment go dey pass Banky own.

[@agudaebibert7702]

Learn a lesson from this. I dated my husband for 7yrs.one the day of traditional wedding, I became scared & wanted out. But, I was told it was normal & they urged me on. And yes! I should have opted out. Whenever you feel this way, no matter how close d wedding is once, u feel that nudge to opt out, have a rethink.

[@fatfarmers7360]

You dated for seven years and didn't opt out during the seven years until the day of the traditional marriage. Something must be wrong with you. All through the seven years you didn't see anything wrong with him, it was on the day of the traditional marriage you saw it? Okey. The problem is you and not the man.

[@EverestEbuka]

It's will always be cool if women are the one opt-in out but if na men , haaaaa

[@hustleempire6663]

​@@EverestEbukaThat's spot on..That's because most women are selfish by default, its how they are wired! Most women even believe leaving a marriage in pursuit of exploring and having fun is female liberation and empowerment, but the moment a man even thinks that way, he is termed an irresponsible man who abandoned his family😂

[@matthewonyeka6867]

Confused woman

[@olaidejabar4380]

Is only in Nigeria, you will be shaming people English as if English is your language. Well educated people abroad here, request for interpreter to speak English for them

[@ROYAL_EDEN_KIDS]

I tire for them o, but them nor de shame the bad English for his or others music

[@adeyinkasotunde6870]

Only if your spiritual eyes can open while this man is narrating al this story then you will know that this guy is under spell while all these are happening. A lot of Nigerians are already dead spiritually. They're like walking corpses that can only boast of worldly intelligence only, and they will never see beyond this.

[@KingSHK-he1tw]

God go bless you bro

[@chyke_moni]

He has many things to say but doesn’t know how to story tell, his story lacks context…

[@kehindeladeji4429]

Shows how uneducated people are.

[@mrjayikeh247]

Kai, men going through stuffs but we not ready for that discussion yet 👐

[@SarahAdamu-k7z]

So wen will u people be ready for the discussion wen u are dead or u have used ur past experiences to destroy the genuine people in ur lives. Weldon strong man

[@jonessmith5]

If you no fit update the complete video for KZbin make we watch forget about it

[@luckyomo6100]

He want us to subscribe and pay, it’s 4$ monthly.

[@sandraharuna8405]

Na only 1 person go screen record am put am up nonsense 🙄

[@Adejokelifestyle]

Wetin dey happen oritse femi don dey on collos

[@abatiloretta3348]

Orisetfemi I like him even if he can't speak well.i love his music

[@kimogbonna927]

Me wey Dey listen taya for the whole interview. It was stressful to watch. Chai!

[@HelenHunter-ii4xe]

We need the full interview

[@rosethatcher2079]

Abeg wehtin do Oritse femi? I barely recognized him...God pls come thru for him🙏

[@qudusayoola8326]

Na marriage oo.. I see reason why majority of those musician always opt for baby mama's... Na d result be this oo

[@filanioreoluwa8811]

I understand all he said but there was a lot of pause coz he weighed it in his mind n decided against it ….. that’s why it felt confusing…. But listen before u get the urge to comment

[@whitelistsupervisor2475]

Guys!!!!! Before you take a sacrifice or go out of your way to do something for a woman, make sure she is not an ingrate, make sure she is not something that you can't do for another person 10 times over, and make sure she is not taking the relationship as a means of survival, not only women including men also, before she go stand look you say what have you done for me.

[@omalegideon7302]

English is not a measure of ones intelligence though.

[@mayowaoyedokun9828]

The guy isn't speaking straight English but anyone that listens should understand what he's saying

[@clintonelochukwu4392]

Lmao I don't think Chude has ever been this confused about an interview

[@kellzugor]

😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@bogblessblessed3828]

Best comment ever! 😊

[@olajumokefaith2487]

😅😅😅

[@timothyseyi1943]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@MusaMuhammad-ii4nf]

Na comment wey I dey find b this 😂

[@ucynnamdi4380]

He has so many things to say but doesn’t know how to construct

[@chyke_moni]

Exactly

[@lucasbrasi4625]

He would have gone with pidgin, english isnt our forte...I could feel his pain, he also showed restraint by not exposing so many things...It shows that he still loves nabila, i pray he heals..

[@SensinyDaniel]

Ogar he tried....so una no understand Wetin dey talk

[@olusoweto2156]

Construct what Na road project

[@tolubrownie]

You're so right. Chude was confused as hell trying to catch up with all he has to say cos he just kept jumping from one unfinished scenario to another . I really feel that he had so much to say but didnt know how to put it together properly truly.

[@berkaklarice5811]

Chude had to bring on all his expertise to hold this interview down. 😂😂😂😂😂 Excellent Interview skills even under chaotic circumstances @Chude.

[@agunbiadekemi2622]

Love your wife,a command from God, she has her faults, just do ur own part,keep her away from too many people, u are so much admired by many, we love ur songs, don't forget devil may want to use her against u, But loving her will conquer it all. God bless you.

[@sussanonyenali1392]

This human being can Lia o,e dey pain am say the lady no want her again. But she was with ur daughter

[@hellenadenike2340]

Nawa o I pity English for Oritse Femi's mouth. But I don't know why I'm feeling like something is wrong with him, he's lean and not talking straight as if.... May God help you and heal you bro. One love❤

[@akwaraomamuyovwi2565]

The way some of you just come online and write nonsense When is it written that you must speak english to survive abeg leave him alone.🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️

[@laiclove8596]

Nothing bad interview understood

[@qudusayoola8326]

I don't even find it difficult to understand at all... Ur type are just fund of forming class..

[@HopeIsaac-g7r]

Half baked interview won't force or make people to subscribe to your channel. In fact, it will make people to angrily unsubscribe. It's only when you give out full interview and people get satisfied with it that's when they will want to subscribe in other to get more content. Why will i want to subscribe to a channel that doesn't give full interview or cunningly try to force people to subscribe with half gist? It doesn't work for me.

[@fanirangideon.g2166]

lol why u dey vex

[@Melissathebrand]

​@@fanirangideon.g2166 I wonder too oooo😂😂😂😂

[@teedbeatz]

I am certain that the number of subscribers will shock you. Since you think you know what works and what doesn’t. It is his sweat and he will distribute it anyhow he wants.

[@mummy_of_mbaise]

Tomorrow 5Pm

[@freemangrace355]

If you don't like his channel, you can leave. Open your own channel and interview people, I will subscribe and watch you. Idiots everywhere writing nonsense.

[@amen2040]

Such a chaotic interview

[@victoro_oladutemu8594]

very chaotic! 😂

[@michaelchilaka3113]

Oga stop that, because he can't speak English doesn't make the interview chaotic. Everybody must not know English even in the public space

[@victoro_oladutemu8594]

It's not even about his English 😅 His English was clear enough

[@crossjoe1142]

Because are English is not good to you? Is English your language? Chude did well to also invite Ajengule guy to speak so it won't look like he loves only educated people. Let's appreciate pidgin too.

[@giftedchild9490]

Lies too much 😂😂😂

[@owaborkingsleyehijene7484]

After subscription,you don’t put up the full interview,is it not better to unsubscribe?

[@rachaelogbidi1189]

Some people should be interviewed in their fluent language. This was confusing to say the least, but its obvious the guest had something to say.

[@nelsonamen1704]

Alright miss Britain

[@CabriniDivo]

This guy been through a lot awww chai 😭

[@adetunjinafisat765]

For those of you bashing this guy in this comment sections.....your elder brother,younger brother,your son will encounter what the guy face in thy mighty name of God](AMEEN]).

[@ibawon]

This Man seated here is a legend! Apamaaaa Sweege!

[@PrinceShadow101]

Pidgin is our mother language. I'll continue waiting untill Brokun-Pijin becomes official language in Nigeria. Interesting interview

[@jesutunmbiolaitan5613]

Why can't u put the full episodes here, at least KZbin would pay u., not everyone has the ability to pay...

[@ololadepepper364]

This one just dey cap 🤦🏾‍♀️

[@stan_zicci]

This man is pained

[@osasosasco2615]

You can tell his telling lot of truth is good to talk out people

[@adaogbeyi3947]

Nabila and Femi are a mismatch and should have never married. imagine saying she was driving a Honda Civic, whats wrong with that? Marriage should elevate you and not downgrade you. People can still be civil after a divorce. The mudslinging by both parties isnt necessary. He said he only wanted a son not marriage, if both parties want different things, they had no business getting married.

[@adeyinkasotunde6870]

Only if your spiritual eyes can open while this man is narrating al this story then you will know that this guy is under spell while all these are happening. A lot of Nigerians are already dead spiritually. They're like walking corpses that can only boast of worldly intelligence only, and they will never see beyond this.

[@marthaikio5023]

Word.

[@olatunjiahmed5286]

Have you heard what she said in daddy freeze or fridge😅 live?

[@oriekenneka4924]

Subscription is quite difficult,I don't know if it's the card I'm using

[@derbyjames9550]

Nawa ooo so this marriage didn't last as supposed. No be me talk am that time oooo

[@maryoshi5023]

Eiyaa it's well with u oritsefemi

[@kellzugor]

This is incomplete

[@fabriquebyfabz4991]

I never got finish one complete statement to comprehend

[@rotimilalemi2206]

Its understandable based on what you typed 🤨

[@beno6316]

I see intelligence here. Respect to Mr Femi

[@temmie234]

A lot is going on. Peace be unto you both

[@abdulazizlawal9962]

Oga post full video if not we know go watch you again oo

[@tolulopeelizabeth104]

Chai, wetin do oritsefemi like this. He use to be favourite those days.

[@alphakingsrecords]

I can't wait my best Artiste and mentor is here

[@nnekaokonkoh4112]

Omo this interview confuse me oh

[@enitanoluwafemi5291]

The Vidio is not complete

[@tushkhalifa2493]

Man dey go through alot but man nor be story teller

[@kirasecretskincare9055]

Drop d full video na

[@WithChude]

Please visit watch.withchude.com or listen.withchude.com for the full podcast.

[@debbieinicarwin2979]

This one na street marriage God Abeg Oriste Femi Dey stressed. Life Dey stress am Eyah

[@ayoolahalimat9944]

I swear he don change very sad

[@michelleannie7734]

😞 so sad

[@Itsurboionemama]

Lenged run for your life ooo

[@Shakara247]

Me i understood everything that he said and some he couldn't say because he was trying to protect the image of the woman.peace

[@victorfash]

The Eagle and the Crow" is a fable about a crow that sits on an eagle's back and bites its neck. The eagle doesn't fight back, but instead opens its wings and flies higher. The higher the eagle flies, the harder it is for the crow to breathe. Eventually, the crow runs out of energy and falls. The fable illustrates the idea that wit and wisdom can be more valuable than physical power.

[@ayodeledediare824]

Are you sure she did not purposefully Dey take pills to commot am… Hmmmm

[@Adebayobamidelealfredmoses]

Hmmm ! I want to believe dat Oritsefemi endured a lot in dat marriage o ! It's not easy @ all

[@shanicegreen5438]

ode

[@luckyomo6100]

Please how do I watch the complete video, that is Elewo crooner right there..

[@WithChude]

Please visit watch.withchude.com or listen.withchude.com for the full podcast.

[@OdunayoRichard-bk8ku]

Omo 😪

[@nuzi_dee]

God of mercy this is deep!

[@nuzi_dee]

Femo Lala ti fe slay mama !!!

[@ROYAL_EDEN_KIDS]

Hahahahaha please leave me alone

[@ibidunibiezugbe2950]

Una Dey craze wey Dey bash this guy!! Okpa Dey una head!! Block heads

[@dukesamuel8399]

We wlll not subscribe...Nedu go run better interview for us...chop your half video

[@Cheque17]

This Nabila looks to classy for this guy… see Oritsefemi hyping himself oooh… lmao.. this guy is just contradicting himself…. He first said she was an Uber driver?? then later said she was working in multichoice… I thought I had also heard that she was his music manager abi producer?? Caroline don receive receive stray bullet, I didn’t even know she marriage Tagbo.. really? Oritsefemi claims Caroline called him a diamond in the rough.. Pls how did these women get entangled with this kind of razzoid?? This interview is so chaotic.. See Oritsefemi dey claim he made someone, as if he’s made himself…These two do not fit each other… Everyone, especially women need to be more intentional about who they marry…What a rubbish!

[@akwaraomamuyovwi2565]

Foolish statements Who the fuck is caroline and Nabila,didnt Danjuma caroline ex divorced her....stop this childish statement coz oritsefemi is richer than you and doesn't knw if u exist sef....Good riddance to bad rubbish

[@qudusayoola8326]

In are typing rubbish 😂🤣... Nobody even took u serious, abeg delete am

[@dhandy4359]

Money bro. Women don't care about your class, especially when they're trying to milk you of your money to make way for themselves. They'll even kiss frog. Dey play o.

[@ayoolahalimat9944]

He looks very different. Not looking good😢😮

[@fatfarmers7360]

Drugs.

[@ekwevie]

It's Nabila oooo

[@ChidinmaCollins-k5d]

This guy has so many things to say hnmmmmmm life!😢😢😢

[@arqulia7154]

We can't subscribe because your videos no dey complete bro

[@oyegokecomfort4699]

God have mercy hmm

[@omenigboelvis8574]

Drugs is dangerous

[@beautifultiana6578]

😂😂😂😂😂😂 y r u lai this?

[@ChidinmaCollins-k5d]

Stop this na but his is making sense!

[@qudusayoola8326]

Until life hit u.. We self go dey here

[@kehindeajayi5228]

What's your problem sir/ma?

[@YinlaifaHamuli]

Poor Nabila, what's happening here? Men were chilling with your wife and your arrested them????

[@fajenyotoyin740]

Make we no lie this our former celeb is high on ice aje 😢

[@samayaafrica2137]

You are the one high on ice not him

[@kehindeajayi5228]

Rubbish talk, toyin!

[@my3mids386]

Oga STOP it! Did I hear u say daddy freeze no get money that u have more money than DF??? They play...Abeg DF na dangerous millionaire! DF get money pass u...

[@jeremiahonah3370]

Post full video werey

[@florenceflourish6367]

Say NO to DRUGS. Orisefemi don turn to Mr SHALAYEHHH😊😊😊😊

[@allnature76]

Where’s the complete video

[@WithChude]

Please visit watch.withchude.com for the full episode

[@oluwaferanmidavid4721]

How do I subscribe ooooo. I don't have ATM card

[@WithChude]

We apologize. For now, we do not have an alternative to ATM card

[@TesterTester-sr6pr]

From the few things we heard so far, it seems Nabila na like Wunmi (Mohbad's case). But his friends no try ooo, the least they could have done was to tell him the history of the girl he wanted to settle down with. Complete street girl. Again, the 21 miscarriages na suspect, they are probably self-induced. Maybe she get eyes for street or don get another offer elsewhere. Things dey happen sha!

[@kehindeajayi5228]

2:40 I just wan gbaga! I don laugh tire 😁😁😁😁

[@ezinneerhirhieneeukaogo1439]

Can 2 walk together except they agree? The incompatibilty in orientation, the purpose of the marriage destroyed the foundation.

[@aderibigbetoheeb6610]

Matter plenty. Talk plenty to talk

[@aminababangida1250]

Belle fall how ?😅

[@Debby9710]

Tagbo married Caroline? When? ahh I've never been so confused by an interview in my lifeee

[@ChidinmaCollins-k5d]

Watch again to understand dear

[@360Parenting]

This guy was going to call the wedding off but people begged him to go ahead, very wrong advice. Even at the alter before you say i do,if you notice any red flag, please turn back The pain of a failed marriage is harder for both couples even if it's your fault,& the scars most times never stop hurting

[@OldArmadillo]

The comment section tho….all them talks….and y’all can’t even stand in front of a camera….make we hear word….the ones wey Dey complain say baba nor sabi speak English….una papa nah English man???

[@giftedchild9490]

From what I remember this man was the one oppressing his wife .. bringing different women home...hmmn who is lying now? He is a talented artist though...he dropped nice tracks. His English is not that bad why are people complaining?

[@brandiator-io]

Miscarriagement 😢😢😮😮

[@gbeduweydeykillvirus]

You are a full 🤣🤣

[@olajumokefaith2487]

😊😮😅😅😅

[@Keepingupwithasg]

Who is a social woman sir ???

[@osasosasco2615]

English na our language abeg make una go drink ogogoro joor his speaking our nigerian language ❤

[@odogukelvin2791]

Egede won gbaga

[@farodoyeadebola1446]

Ki 😮

[@WilledWest]

FIRST he said she was an Uber driver, then later she was working in multichoice earning peanuts a distinction holder? ...fawlch

[@DvineExploration]

I tire na Ice deh make I talk rubbish

[@BB-wd4ly]

You re not following the storyline properly . He said she was driving Uber ,technically at the same time working at multichoice. People do 2 jobs in nigeria . Femi ain't on ice ...

[@damilarebalogun5798]

She Dey drive Uber car meaning she was driving a small car , not big car - he didn’t say she was doing Uber ..

[@WilledWest]

@@DvineExploration 😂

[@WilledWest]

@@BB-wd4ly Nah Nah Nah

[@qb4ever2004]

Say No to drugs!

[@victoriaossai5]

Stop it .let people be free to voice out without u guys placing it as drugs stop it

[@ChidinmaCollins-k5d]

U sound like you are too

[@xavierbrorien2911]

Which kind suspense be this ?

[@iamorlandoh]

😂😂😂 i tire bro

[@OdunayoRichard-bk8ku]

Lol 😂

[@akpojotorgodspower8551]

Nawa for this ur interview oo why u con end this video na

[@kennethaustine7553]

😂

[@MOOREPLUSMULTIMEDIA]

Anything you do, don't do dr. Ugs

[@apioharrietdoris6084]

But why dont you like to put up complete videos,some of us are outside Nigeria ,we want to follow but this is a half baked cake...so what do we do? Unsubscribe?

[@reginaj.a.m9492]

He wants people to pay to watch it on his personal platform. Mtcheeew

[@soniaberry8132]

U have to pay to watch the full video

[@brafyking2924]

He wants to make double portion 😅😅 Dstv subscription + Chude subscription + Netflix monthly

[@preciousokereke5656]

I just tire

[@Reyblinkx_vmt]

On Netflix???

[@serwangerstark8406]

I've never been so confused listening to an interview. Chude you should have stuck to pidgin English with Oritse