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@Lets_Talk_About_it_Luv8 ай бұрын
Absolutely horrifying! This is exactly why DNA testing should be mandatory at birth. 🤦🏾♀️
@apsvend8 ай бұрын
Hell yeah. I've been saying this for years. They don't want this because this is a business.
@EricR-8 ай бұрын
Too much money is being made off of destroying men and not punishing women who lie on men.
@Ehlaar8 ай бұрын
Men could make it happen
@elliotsober70428 ай бұрын
Yeah nip that in the bud immediately imho
@NappyTresses8 ай бұрын
Married or not 🤷🏾♀️
@andrejones54418 ай бұрын
Gentlemen, protect yourselves at all costs. This is how disgusting many of these hyenas and the state will do to us
@princeboateng43958 ай бұрын
The state is behind them, that’s why they’re so reckless, unruly and disrespectful
@andrejones54418 ай бұрын
@@princeboateng4395 what's starting to happen now is, "Zaddy Government," is starting to pull away from them even more now, since they can't be used to shame (straight, masculine) black men into doing their bidding anymore. They're now fighting a battle on multiple fronts and LOSING!
@darrenhawkins90408 ай бұрын
What's up opinion seeker's, this just another form of slavery and they use our female's to do it to us.some men think he's not held in captivity if they get our pockets then it's hard for a man to do anything. once your base is removed from under yourself it's hard to get out and that's how they've been taking over on us from the beginning it's all been set up.
@KevinP322708 ай бұрын
AGREED!
@tingaseisay528 ай бұрын
CHILD SUPPORT IS A BUSINESS AND SPLIT'S FAMILY PERIOD
@blainemccants13908 ай бұрын
Not just that the whole court system is corrupt
@totenfurwotan44788 ай бұрын
@@blainemccants1390courts make money from child support. The government loves destroying the family because it brings them money. We are nothing but money generators for the corrupt government. Government produces nothing, they can only take. What they do to Americans is near treasonous
@adebrian17378 ай бұрын
Child support splits the black societies
@kingkweku97618 ай бұрын
The women know this but they will still take you!!!! The state will never ever automatically put you on until someone reports you or take you to family court
@Dimensionalalteration8 ай бұрын
No, families split and then child support becomes the obligation of the non custodial parent. If families don't split, there's no child support obligations. Just stop having children out of wedlock, it will reduced these cases dramatically.
@quinnchilds9148 ай бұрын
This is more common then you think. I had my first child at 14 with a 22yr. They tried to hit me with child support. So in court I stated that I was only14yrs and she was 22, do you really want to go down this rabbit whole. Long story short everything was dismissed because someone was in trouble 😂😂😂 I should Me too her ass.😂😂😂
@bjstallworth29788 ай бұрын
You did right, but if you was 22 abd she was 14 you would be in jail smh
@quinnchilds9148 ай бұрын
@@bjstallworth2978 facts
@ManagingMyLife828 ай бұрын
You need to tell this story in detail 😂
@quinnchilds9148 ай бұрын
@@ManagingMyLife82 no, my story isn't going to be part of your pillow talk😂😂
@terrencemcphail57828 ай бұрын
@@quinnchilds914 lol
@lamar58038 ай бұрын
Now…I get child support for both of my boys and the mothers of those same children cannot stand it. They hate paying the support but was fine when I was paying it. Long story short…the child support system is bogus and no one wants to be apart of when they are the ones that are ordered to pay child support.
@realphillystreets7 ай бұрын
You’re the GOAT 😂😂😂
@christopherdouglas76068 ай бұрын
The key point he made, he said was child support is to benefit the states and not the child. Until that issue is fix the issue will continue.
@OMIEntertainment8 ай бұрын
Exactly, it has morphed into a business and they gonna get that money no matter the circumstances.
@dblack03257 ай бұрын
You must understand where this concept comes from. It is believed and proven to a certain extent, that if the "father" does not pay child support then the child will be a burden upon the state. So if the child is being supported by the state, then the state will seek reimbursement through child support from the non-custodial parent.
@christopherdouglas76067 ай бұрын
@dblack0325 mmmm, a child is a burden to the state. When that child becomes an adult, the same state would gladly throw them in the army to defend state and country. The hypocrisy,bullying, manipulation. Politics is rotten to the core globally.
@kimberlynnearazi93818 ай бұрын
Los Angeles county is NOTORIOUS for this
@wandak18898 ай бұрын
I use to work in HR and when I tell you how many women quit their job because they didn’t want to pay child support. The men had it so bad where they had negative paychecks!! I always tell men to get a Paternity Test before signing BC.
@sidesj6108 ай бұрын
We (men) need to rise up, and Challenge the System! NOW!!!
@darrensimmons70308 ай бұрын
With you on that
@babidiva80508 ай бұрын
I agree 100% why don't they make the woman post for the support SHE'S getting? Easy welcome to cage free prisons
@rwwdzzm56088 ай бұрын
Stop having kids
@blizzyhbk8 ай бұрын
@@rwwdzzm5608stop talking
@OneEyedLion8 ай бұрын
This was not a mistake. The state gets 85% of the child support. The story that the men didn't get served is common and deliberate.
@jakdurok5618 ай бұрын
How does that work? For example, if a parent pays 500/ month, how does the state get 85%? Just wondering, don’t know how that is or why.
@dionned.61768 ай бұрын
@@jakdurok561if the mother gets Medicaid, day care voucher, housing, or food some portion goes to that. The judge, the case worker and court fees get paid too.
@realphillystreets7 ай бұрын
No they don’t take 85%😂
@ManofHonour8 ай бұрын
I love the fact that child support issues are being exposed on this level because the madness has gone on for far too long without any accountability. Although I was the father of my child, their mother fought me tooth and nail not to be a part of my child's life for no reason whatsoever and when I got the courts involved, the mother continued to fight and the court upheld her end regardless of finding no adverse history on my part. I think it's a new day, and rightfully so both the system and money orientated and overly emotional mothers are finally and slowly but surely being held to account for their corrupt and nefarious behaviour due to the myriad of cases being exposed across social media today.
@kittoko98 ай бұрын
Tennessee just pass a law,mandatory DNA NOW
@King-Killa-Ca8 ай бұрын
No Kids Gang 🏃♂️💨✌️👑
@andrewwalker21538 ай бұрын
Central NJ is one of the worst in the country & I've said this for decades now. I was arrested over 50x for my sons I had custody of & 2 children that weren't mine.
@zaworld19978 ай бұрын
naa facts im from north jersey and it’s bad asl up here wit that
@andrewwalker21538 ай бұрын
@zaworld1997 I got my custody in Union County but once I got to Middlesex, it was something different. Sherriffs out 365 just for CS & they built a new courthouse right after the 92 reform bill.
@brandonburns53658 ай бұрын
@@andrewwalker2153it's a racket.
@migit6foot48 ай бұрын
Angela will defend the woman everytime! She and her sisterhood always disrespecting and clowning men for no reason. And the crazy thing is it doesn't even be true
@empowerment_0078 ай бұрын
SYSBM
@MRBIGDEEDOWNHEREINTX8 ай бұрын
Yep the same thing that I said
@Ricsteed19878 ай бұрын
J.R. it's real Georgia use to have a law for abandonment even though the child wasn't born yet. This happened to me in the 90's they arrested me every week because all she had to do is pay a fee and said i left her...FACTS! Every man is not a dead beat
@Blkcappuccino8 ай бұрын
That’s the thing. Many people don’t know that paternity had to be established first before paying child support. Only a child support lawyer working on a child support case will tell people that. I went through a lawyer and he said there is no thing as back child support. It only begins at the day of established paternity. It’s only established through signing a form acknowledging that the child is yours, take a dna test, or testify in court that the child is yours. Child support is a rip off. I set it up through the court to voluntarily pay monthy via check directly to my daughter’s mom and keep them people out of my business and pockets. They keep parts of the money and charge all kinds of fees that people don’t know about and the child doesn’t receive all the money. It’s a joke
@cuzheavy40798 ай бұрын
Nope it depends on the state some states play it dirty like that and some states will hold you accountable for just signing the birth certificate even if you eventually find out the child is not yours
@cuznboodro328 ай бұрын
Damn sure isn't true in Tennessee
@cuzheavy40798 ай бұрын
@@cuznboodro32 mane you better tell em Tennessee one of the dirtiest systems on the planet
@peacebalancetruth8 ай бұрын
@@cuzheavy4079 WOW!
@commandericeman85888 ай бұрын
Yeah back in the day I heard many a horror story where a bitch could simply forge any man's signature on the birth certificate. Even men she didn't even know, had never met.
@ericcaesar54578 ай бұрын
San Diego used to suspend my license every 30 days...i would have to pay a renewal fee ... that happened for 1 year... and... they were garnishing to child support from my pay... didn't matter that I was responsible for buying all of my daughters clothes & I have her an allowance while she was still in high school...I was still paying even though my daughter has lived with me for the last 4 years...
@Zulu-Lemon8 ай бұрын
That’s extortion. Bc you need that for your livelihood
@ericcaesar54578 ай бұрын
@Zulu-Lemon ... every month, they would suspend my license, causing me to have to come off the road & go to DMV to pay the renewal fee.... THEN...I had to call the main DMV office in Sacramento, called the Mandatory Actions Unit, to make sure they received the email from San Diego DMV so they could release my license... if I didn't time it, so the phone is ringing in Sacramento at exactly 8am, you weren't going to get through that day... did that every month for a year....
@Armandrea8 ай бұрын
Why on earth have you not requested modification? Especially if your daughter has been living with you? You need to take action.
@dman80928 ай бұрын
FACTS!!@@Armandrea
@MrWhitesoxfalife8 ай бұрын
Cuz that process ain't so simple as you type the comment. @@Armandrea
@jameswashington93398 ай бұрын
How did the mom not get a statutory grape charge?
@brandonburns53658 ай бұрын
If you own a business, put it in a llc, then put yourself on payroll for minimum wage. They can only make you pay based off your income. Hopefully this advice helps someone.
@LDSKIPPER19118 ай бұрын
I’m not sure what state you’re in but in most states that doesn’t work. Courts will pierce the corporate veil and trace the income back to the noncustodial parent.
@BreannLaFaye8 ай бұрын
You would want to have the LLC in someone else's name. Friend/girlfriend/sibling for the best protection. You ONLY give them paystubs (NEVER your yearly tax papers) and nothing else. It will only stop an increase, they rarely do an decrease but that may help in the meantime for someone struggling. ❤
@theishgalaxy8 ай бұрын
Moral of the story... dont be f*cking when you're 12 years old... message!!!
@sylvesterhurt4478 ай бұрын
Now this is black history!🎉🎉
@perfectlyimperfect4924 ай бұрын
He said he knew back then, but did his parents know or NOT or care? If she got money somebody that was an ADULT..knew. The state notified sumbody by mail.
@Wgz9458 ай бұрын
Had a family member who’s ex wife got pregnant by her sisters first love(🤮), the only way he found out was because she was dumb enough to use THEIR insurance. He got a email for a pregnancy test, they used protection, these words are out of her mouth. This happened 2 weeks after he paid for a expensive destination wedding. They got divorced her punishment was all her debts paid, and money from his retirement. Gotta love that justice smmfh
@arnellwyatt1148 ай бұрын
Not new to me Moorish Americans been telling the public everything in law is based on your consent (except if your physically hurt or damage property) it's all a violation of your due process. The idea that you need a driver's license is based on your consent and you waiver your right to travel on the land. The only reason this stuff does not work in court is cause the court / legal system is fake it's self and ran bye criminals. Oh and filling tax returns with IRS is voluntary and based on your consent. But don't mind me I'm just a conspiracy theorists. Everything must come to the light. Moors been telling the people this 30 yrs ago. Our real Republican form of resprentitive govt was over thrown. Anyone dare say I'm lying?
@nafasisbebey66968 ай бұрын
Facts Moor… They too distracted by bullshit.
@ScottDreyfus8 ай бұрын
When I was 18 I went to buy a car and found out I b owed 40k$ in back child support for 12 years of non payment.my parents were divorced when I was 6 any we have the same name. My parents had charged off credit cards and taken loans in my name fraudulently. I had to get a lawyer and spend thousands of dollars just to get to start my life. I was literally sitting in front of a judge about to have to file c7 bk at 18. There are some sick people in this world and sometimes they are your parents.
@erinlb696988 ай бұрын
Damm the county really f’ed him… not that girl😐 the county
@theunrestrictedfreeagent18 ай бұрын
Oh she played a roll in this too, she had to say he was the one who got her pregnant (even though she knew he didn't).
@mikegonz51088 ай бұрын
Without the girl....no fuqing happens
@Mike-uw1rw8 ай бұрын
Of course you would say something as dumb as that 🤬
@empowerment_0078 ай бұрын
How much money she give back to him?
@chriseze88938 ай бұрын
Once again relieving the girl of all accountability. No she FUCKED him up.
@dyrldouglas20878 ай бұрын
This happens millions of times thru out America, suspensions, garnishments, liens, & bank levies. Those county offices are constantly making errors that have to be challenged. Good record keeping is critical.
@antnedavis56868 ай бұрын
I don't understand why any lawmakers doesn't take this up or any presidential candidates that needs to be fixed and repaired the correct way losing a passport your license going to jail That's crazy insane
@lajosing998 ай бұрын
Every child should be tested AT BIRTH for Paternity!! EVERY!!
@peacebalancetruth8 ай бұрын
I did not know Fellas have to go through this. #F#ckin'SHOCKED😞😵😢This sh!t is sad.
@jericothompson86368 ай бұрын
They try to keep stories like this out of the public eye. People complain about child support not even knowing they don’t receive ALL of it in the first place. If they take 300 out of a man’s check, the mother MIGHT get like 230.
@sharonhorne27648 ай бұрын
He should sue the State for reimbursement of all the money they took, once DNA proves the child is not his support should immediately stop. Before they start taking money they should have DNA testing.
@Jonsey-u7i8 ай бұрын
Wow that's wild. Like the man was saying at the end, he used their own rules against them. This isn't a unicorn situation. What you don't know CAN hurt you. We must know our rights and the rules of the game better than those trying to enforce them. I would very much understand a man if he came to me wanting one. You men have too much to risk when it comes to children.
@LeoLeo-eu5sh8 ай бұрын
Can't he Sue the County
@mikegonz51088 ай бұрын
Wish he could...buit I doubt it
@nafasisbebey66968 ай бұрын
Yes.. the state too. But it has to be done in FEDERAL court where the constitution protects him. If you take the case “State” you in for a battle because your children are wards of the state through their Birth Certificate & SSN. It’s a scam. I just listened to the whole supreme courts ruling in 1997 where they ruled that child support is UNCONSTITUTIONAL. Child support is basically extortionist’s.
@shambetheking61618 ай бұрын
NOPE
@GHO5tMod38 ай бұрын
That is crazy smh
@kingkweku97618 ай бұрын
In NY. your lawyer will always request to establish paternity before the case proceeds. And your lawyer will make sure its a fair payment and contribution coming from both parents. They will check her tax returns, government assistance, etc....she cant run from that if you have a good lawyer. Yes you will pay child support but it will be a fair amount and probably pay less if she works on the book and wants to lie that she doesnt have money...the lawyers will dig into all that and also establish custody for you to see your kids at a designated day and time agreed by both parties and she can't travel out of state with your kids without your consent. My advise to all men, is to always have a lawyer in such situations.
@thinksetapartservices22028 ай бұрын
F’d up story. The crazy thing is…that this happens to GOOD dudes, whether they’re the father or not. But those pieces of crap…that’s just slinging pipe…don’t come close to going through any thing like this.
@jamarimack97618 ай бұрын
I've been through it. The negative impact to my health due to stress and PTSD.
@ogbrand38578 ай бұрын
I said this on another post or channel. My best friend found out last year his 25 and 22-year-old are not his. His ex-wife had an argument with him over money and their children. She blurted out that's why your kids don't look like you and you wish they were your kids. We all had doubts but he was sure they were his. He asks the kids to do a DNA test. Reluctently they agreed. The results showed a 0 percent change he was the father of his eldest son and eldest daughter. He went and confronted the mother and she had the nerve to be mad, and said, get over it. You raised them they are your kids. He used to be a happier man. Not so much now.
@zenadouglas-nash59378 ай бұрын
This was a great episode. I'll be posting it on my page. I wish that we could work something out with a mediator. Most parents need to realize there was a relationship before the child in most cases.
@RodneyD8 ай бұрын
Furthermore…. The mother doesn’t automatically get sole custody of the child at birth. Men end up on child support because they fail to challenge the mother for custody. If know it’s your child then fight for joint equal custody.
@thevoicehj8 ай бұрын
When you go to court never sign the papers agreeing to pay. This is what binds you to the agreement saying you volunteer.
@nuke0828838 ай бұрын
Sad part is that he has to take the state to civil court and then that becomes a long process because the state is constantly going to tie him up into litigation
@JRWisdom8 ай бұрын
What would you do?
@Tha_HeauxHealer8 ай бұрын
I understand why people kill people.
@roguerage748 ай бұрын
Can't really do anything, I'm going through it in Arizona and the double the amount you actually owe to the other parent.
@peacebalancetruth8 ай бұрын
@@Tha_HeauxHealer ☠️
@clintonjohnson54358 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂 @@Tha_HeauxHealer
@patriot1011018 ай бұрын
That's a lawsuit in federal court for millions.
@assanen70338 ай бұрын
Good job mister Tillman👍🏾
@no925joblifestyle78 ай бұрын
What is the actual logic behind suspending somebody's license because they don't want to pay child support
@MisterJackson-so9lo8 ай бұрын
If that person desperately needs their vehicles to make a living that license suspension is devastating. This gentleman is just one of many victims of anti black man progrom that America was established on.
@caseyj7796 ай бұрын
They need to give this man his money back! Everything the state took from him they need to give back! They also need to compensate him for all the trouble.
@noahbates15668 ай бұрын
I was driving home from work when I got a phone call from child protective services. They said that they were going to start garnishing my pay starting the next day and when I asked them who this child was. I had no idea what so ever who this child was. I told them that there was no way that this was my child. We ended up in court and when asked if I would pay for a DNA test I said yes. In the meantime they have frozen my bank account. And the woman in question has not taken the child to have his blood drawn. In the end I won the case the nurse in charge told me that she wish more men would do what I did but at the time DNA testing was expensive ! Men get a DNA test no matter what or how they might feel about it.
@lowbo47omsascotave8 ай бұрын
*Eastside Low Bottoms sh*t !* _Tappin' in from South Central LA_ I had my brief run-in with the LA County child support system in the early 2000's. They're merciless ! Jfi, I recognized his face in the thumbnail immediately ! He's out of Compton I believe. He used to rap. He was a part of a duo. If I'm not mistaken, I think their group was Young Hoggs or something like that. He and his partner are freestyling on a DVD produced by Mack 10 titled _'Ghetto, Gutta and Gangsta'._
@Tiger24kicks8 ай бұрын
I got put on child support for a women's child that I didn't father they did similar to me, and this women is married and did paternity fraud. She was on public assistance and the city was paying they home. While they lived rent free, it took me 8 yrs to beat this case.Cass. I was never served .
@thaiboxing678 ай бұрын
The woman who did this should be under the jail cause this is infuriating
@orlandodiazortiz81878 ай бұрын
I went thru this I'm still pay back pay that I don't even owe
@Searchforuhuru8 ай бұрын
Ole Forever 21 Slim Distressed Jean Jacket Azz
@jolee36338 ай бұрын
There is an only one way to correct this injustice towards men is mandatory DNA testing at birth married or single! Just the mother’s word is not sufficient!
@RANDOMZ1618 ай бұрын
I tell people child support is voluntary all the time. I got my case dropped due to the Federal courts agreeing child support goes against the constitution and human rights. My case been closed 13 years now. No woman can ever make babies with me then leave and put me on child support ever again. If yall need help let me know
@commandericeman85888 ай бұрын
This is why I argue that you cannot wait until your boy turns 12yrs old to begin talking to him about the importance of protecting his seed. It's way too late by then, between his raging hormones and today's precocious girls (and some grown women) he aint trying to hear anything about the consequences.
@erinlb696988 ай бұрын
🙌🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
@bmailey758 ай бұрын
Angela Yee is the worst interviewer EVER!
@PamelaBates-op2qr7 ай бұрын
That's true they kept my areas and I was working since my children were babies
@CalvinWhite-z2p8 ай бұрын
They understand exactly what child support can do to flatten your tires of life. This is why the do it to derail a person’s life destroy his life who’s doing pretty good in this corrupt system or dig the hole deeper for the ones who are not doing so well even if the child is yours or not it’s a tool to keep track of their property. Get it
@mortonbeard22408 ай бұрын
Treat this like a crime. Get dna day one.
@yaaqobyaaqob78708 ай бұрын
This country is WOW. They just don’t care.
@marco7858 ай бұрын
Exactly why we need mandatory dna b4 you leave the hospital
@stevegonzales72958 ай бұрын
Why is Angela acting like this is crazy when she agrees with the foolishness🤡
@robrokswing81108 ай бұрын
HUGE lesson at 5:36. If you cant afford a lawyer find one that will give a free or low cost consultation because you dont know what you dont know. Why? if a potential client has been 'sued' for anything, "When were you served?" comes up quickly in the consultation because the date of 'service' determines when a 'response' is due. sadly, he couldve sidestepped 20 years of financial mayhem for free or nearly nothing....heck,a chip on their shoulder lawyer might pro-bono soley for the purpose of ramming the bs down the throats of the state and the mom.
@douglasbershell85268 ай бұрын
Child support is a 44 billion dollar a year racket
@Dajinx13138 ай бұрын
And folks are wondering why the birth rate is dropping every year. The foolishness if our broken law system is starting to hurt the very country it empowers.
@randywilliams20508 ай бұрын
They took $11,500 from my account and I was paying it though my Afla and they told even I had proff it was paid , the mother had to write the letter to say she receive the money and after my son and daughter reach the age they made her pay back the money and it was over ten years to get that money back ..crazy and my ex wife can’t look me in the face this day because she told me that she never received the money but I knew it was a lie …cold world
@antoinebradley63318 ай бұрын
My younger brother (41) is on child support for a 65 yr old man! Clerical error in TX... been 8 years
@nessparadis69488 ай бұрын
I’m sorry but that’s hilarious 😂. I hope he can resolve this and get back all they took soon.
@la-th5do8 ай бұрын
😅
@on1ybigdaddy8 ай бұрын
Man my BM filed for TANF and child support while I was paying all the bills and giving her an allowance. Took me about 2 years before anyone would actually get a day in court. 2 years living in a van. Lucky me I had a great GOL and the kids came with me.
@Passionatelyfruits8 ай бұрын
They were both underage....She became pregnant by another boy or maybe someone much older. Put the baby on him and created stress in life.....Male minors and men of all ages before signing bc get a dna at the time of the baby's birth....Good Luck!
@nreynolds752438 ай бұрын
Yes, paternity should be established first. Once established, then as a loving parent take care of your kid. If your child was living in the same house as you, there will still be expenses. Children are expensive! (medical, dental, vision, clothes, food, rent/mtg, school fees (my daughter's school was always asking for something), daycare, diapers, milk, extracurricular activities, vacations, salon, eventually college. My ex-husband paid the bare minimum in child support and complained about that. The child support stopped. I could have taken him to court but didn't. I had a life to live and took care of our daughter. No government assistance. Own a home. She's 25 now and lives on her own.
@thevoicehj8 ай бұрын
When you sign a document, you are agreeing.
@ScottDreyfus8 ай бұрын
The judge has I financial incentive to put someone on it. The state gets a federal subsidy.
@watsonh.50448 ай бұрын
I know a woman in Texas that sued her son's father for back child support. About 25K. Her son was a grown 22yr old man. She got about 3 or 4 checks. Then she got a letter from the state. "We're sorry the rest of the money is ours for back medicaide, food stamps, etc 😂. She heard some ambulance chaser on TV looking for back child support broads. She called him up and they got the ball rolling. She thought she had a check coming every month. It's a scam. The state probably gave the lawyer 20% of the back total. And they now get a monthly amount from the father until paid in full. Scam. And with all these immigrants coming in. Its gonna get worse fellas. The states will get money anyway they can without shooting and robbing you.
@thankyou45278 ай бұрын
System here is so bad
@alexbostic65298 ай бұрын
I make 1850$ a month my ex made 6790$.. She got awarded EVERYTHING!!!! Im 1 step away from the street... 25yrs 15yrs married and this is what i got!!! smh
@KingDLJ8 ай бұрын
He should be able to sue the state and the mother
@azrael45338 ай бұрын
Mandatory testing is only part of the issue.. the state needs to be held accountable as well. They get money and putting their welfare above the welfare of the person. The laws have to affect the state as well before change can be accepted
@thevoicehj8 ай бұрын
The state keeps pass through payments. To payback what the mom gets.
@jacquitagreen15248 ай бұрын
Where they messed up is that they should have did a DNA first
@sjb79638 ай бұрын
4:35 this is quite normal Bro. This happens to men on the regular. Once a woman says the child is yours, then the baby is yours until you prove not!
@AlSween7 ай бұрын
He was screwed but child support is NOT optional. He ran into a crooked system.
@ruthcook85998 ай бұрын
WHAT IN THE WORLD 🌎 😳
@corinnecs31008 ай бұрын
You can not have child support ordered without either taking a DNA test or signing the birth certificate. If you sign a birth certificate you are the father period. You signed for it legally and have to take care of it. If you are on a child's birth certificate and are not the biological father you have to go to court to get yourself removed. If someone has neither taken a DNA test or signed any paper work ghat says they are financially responsible for a child and get Order child support legal action can and should be taken asap. Soooo....
@kennethdupree42077 ай бұрын
I'm glad their passing a law stating that you have to have a DNA test before you are put on child support..thank God..
@thevoicehj8 ай бұрын
What you should have done was petitioned the court for proof of voluntarily offering of support. Petition the court for proof of signing certificate.
@eddiephears8 ай бұрын
Damn Los Angeles County, ruin everything, had to hustle to get around B S, and trip all the while I was a present father and working 😢
@Godessofwisdom8 ай бұрын
This is beyond a horrendous our system need to do better DNA test for ALL
@jamarr277 ай бұрын
This is CUHRAZY. All it took was for her to say he's the baby's father and they did all of this to him... WITHOUT EVEN verifying its his child.
@blokblok20098 ай бұрын
Which is ridiculous without a DNA test?
@Bashanvibe8 ай бұрын
19 years ago I was caught in a baby mama situation!!! I did what I was supposed to do!!! Mind you I’m in Atlanta and she’s in Tampa!!! When she said she wanted to put me on child support the court here I. Atlanta said we have to do a DNA test before we grant her child support!!! Tell me a month later test came back I’m100% not the father 0% probability!!! 18 years later we reconnected the boy still has my face!!!2nd DNA test results came back he still not my child!!! She been lying to that kid his hole life!!!
@MisterJackson-so9lo8 ай бұрын
See this is the legalized extortion that goes on in America every day.
@donsmith91948 ай бұрын
And the fact that the state is adding interest to this crap is evil.
@DemitriusChilds8 ай бұрын
Even as kids had to make a contract once over someone just playing around. You never know.
@abhmmedia65568 ай бұрын
Child support in Delaware: "...After the petition is filed, the court may order genetic testing to establish paternity, if necessary."
@DADZRITES7 ай бұрын
Involved with a case where the mother forged and falsified the father's name on 3 Acknowledgment of Paternity documents in NY Family Court. She fraudulently went to the County (Suffolk County) to get support from the Suffolk Dept. of Social Services. When that ended, the NY Suffolk County Dept. of Social Services went after the father for reimbursement. He has fought the forgery and fraudulent paternity since day one. He was arrested for owing support and then released immediately when the question for the forgeries and fraudulent paternity docs was raised. He's been thrown out of court by the Family Court Judges and ordered to pay support, even though he had filed a properly filed Federal Petition for Removal of the state case to federal court, which divests jurisdiction of the state court unless the Federal Court rules or remands the case back to state court. The original support order was ordered when the case was removed to federal court, which means that the NY Family Court Judges acted in the complete absence of ALL jurisdiction. He had a document and handwriting expert evaluate the signatures on the 3 Acknowledgment of Paternity documents, found they were forged, and issued an opinion report saying the paternity docs were forged and fraudulent. The NY Family Court in Suffolk County willfully refuses to hear the case because they want the Federal funding to come to the state so it can be put into the pension budgets (where the judges, cops and other state workers have their pensions; an unconstitutional conflict-of-interest). So far, we filed an Article 78 Petition with the NY Appellate Division to issue an order for mandamus and/or prohibition to vacate the support orders and vacate the ongoing support judgments, which are now over $100,000 dollars, even though the fraudulent orders and judgments of support was far less. The State of NY is using fathers to pay for judicial pension plans by using the very same judges to enforce orders against the fathers.
@Jonathan012338 ай бұрын
So what was the end result ? Did he sue and get some money back ?
@lesterlewis787 ай бұрын
Yes Texas got it Bad for Doing This
@RiQWitDaBliQ8 ай бұрын
I seen on another video on yt that there’s a case where the rules state that the parents that’s supposed to pay are the absent ones not the parents who are present in the child’s life. I believe it’s being fought in the Supreme Court.