Lawdy. When I was 19 a 35 year old man to me was ancient!!
@bossladiee5 жыл бұрын
My mama said older men had worms, that always stuck with me LOL
@BigReddSouthernGal255 жыл бұрын
@@bossladiee My auntie used to say that lol
@weltonvillegal62585 жыл бұрын
Same here!
@xDeadlyQueen5 жыл бұрын
Boss Ladiee your comment made me spit out my drink 🤣🤣🤣
@cherisedempsey96165 жыл бұрын
Sandra B not old man balls!! Noooooo 😩😩😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@Princessmom95 жыл бұрын
These older men get with these young girls and then expect them to act like they are grown women. They get on my nerves with that mess.
@therealdewaynewashington5 жыл бұрын
QueenbeeJudith i agree with you. It’s obvious she’s not ready. But she’s cute. Sometimes we men are so shallow
@XLR8Bit5 жыл бұрын
He didn't put a gun to her head, she chose to be with him it's all on her she could have went on about her business
@clipaqua88485 жыл бұрын
benjamin jackson 9x outta 10 order men will groom young girls into being with him.
@Mrs_Tug_n_tow5 жыл бұрын
QueenbeeJudith yes in my opinion he basically trapped her
@Mrs_Tug_n_tow5 жыл бұрын
QueenbeeJudith yes in my opinion he basically trapped her
@marcusellis11885 жыл бұрын
You basically married a kid sir. Just split up and co-parent. Find a woman closer to your own age.
@sibria5 жыл бұрын
KING LEO exactly
@nicoletrevino10555 жыл бұрын
KING LEO What 37 year old man marries a teenager
@mattiebarfield92695 жыл бұрын
She's a child to you find someone your own age
@marcusellis11885 жыл бұрын
@@nicoletrevino1055 Thats what i wanna know. Im 32 and I wouldn't even entertain marrying a female with the word teen still in her age.
@kva79220465 жыл бұрын
She isn't interested in parenting, or living with her own choices. She left her kids. You have 18 year olds on this show who don't do that.
@karmabutterfly79853 жыл бұрын
So he had this 19 year old girl pregnant working two jobs and he’s jobless gambling all her money and expects her to stay? Girl the only mistake you made was leaving your children, you should have gotten full custody and left that predatory bum.
@miminotbovered28572 жыл бұрын
Why? so she can struggle for the rest of her life? Let the girl have a future.
@lavender65002 жыл бұрын
He did it to trap her. He was way too old to try to play those games. He needs to take on his decision by himself. Enjoy your life woman.
@GrammaDhan2 жыл бұрын
@@lavender6500 she held no responsibility? Isn't she an adult?
@xavierjackson67792 жыл бұрын
a 19 year old WOMAN
@jimmytran59712 жыл бұрын
City boys we up
@AquariusDarkheart5 жыл бұрын
The audience was impressed that she left the food stamp card😂😂😂
@cassywilson80725 жыл бұрын
She wanted them to eat.....
@KoodaBaby5 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂
@mrscjcsr5 жыл бұрын
hahahahaha :)
@stephsays-5035 жыл бұрын
😭😭💀💀💀💀💀💀🤦🏾♀️... THAT'S big of her!!!
@NikkiSpencerNikkishotspot5 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂 I mean she did make sure they had food tho she probably even made sure she recertified 🤣🤣🤣
@sunshinegriffin29655 жыл бұрын
He went away for some time.... Here we go again.. Where did he go... Camp sleepaway?? Geesh.....
@bossladiee5 жыл бұрын
Vacation Bible School
@righteousree98375 жыл бұрын
@@bossladiee 🤣
@greeksun3695 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂 they use that script as if we dont know what it mean.
@sandraturner9295 жыл бұрын
He was locked up, in the slammer, arrested, in jail, in the poky, in the clinger, because she gave him away with his big gambling problems and now since he is out of PRISON ,He's brand NEW and trying to be self righteous but U basically married a child in maturity and life SO now deal with it ...
@user-lolo145 жыл бұрын
You guys are wrong for this 😂😂😂
@leggiemeggie58375 жыл бұрын
She was married to him at 19, I wonder how old was she when they started seeing each other?
@kenxclout5 жыл бұрын
Chris Hansen from Dateline NBC would love to know the answer to that question
@brooklynforever19905 жыл бұрын
You already know that answer💅🏽
@denaralove235 жыл бұрын
Probably 14 or 15
@user-lolo145 жыл бұрын
Ken Fulton {Baby Elder} NO YOU DIDN’T!!!! 😂😂😂 why are you this person? 😭😭
@marcusworld875 жыл бұрын
15
@liloskii48102 жыл бұрын
I just want to give her a hug, poor baby looks dead inside
@O.SugarHoneyIceTea5 жыл бұрын
I’m 22, a 37 year old man wouldn’t even be on my radar. Let alone a 37 year old, unemployed, jailbird. 🤦🏾♀️
@sourpatchkid9255 жыл бұрын
😂
@Fanofyxnott5 жыл бұрын
Good girl, get your education👍
@jokidasxm52885 жыл бұрын
Yaaas!!!!
@NinaMosley75 жыл бұрын
OKAY CAUSE PERIOD!!!!!!!
@uniqwiab86795 жыл бұрын
Ohh Alexis right lol!
@voskiwoskipeeskiweesi46255 жыл бұрын
Any woman that has to take care of a man she will lose respect for that man..
@beverlysw18665 жыл бұрын
out the door
@Mark-ko2ir5 жыл бұрын
Same as a man should lose respect for a woman he has to take care of.
@shysmoov5 жыл бұрын
Why? Married people are supposed to take care of each other respectfully.
@lelahill97785 жыл бұрын
True Dat
@beverlysw18665 жыл бұрын
@@Mark-ko2ir i beg to differ...ican see a man picking a woman up....but a woman carrying a man on her back.....MISSION IMPOSSIBLE!
@icetray27275 жыл бұрын
I’m 21 and I don’t even know what life is and she has 2 kids
@sibria5 жыл бұрын
Maurice King same here, there’s plenty of people here on this show in their early twenties dealing with this stuff and it’s just mind blowing
@Franskie2665 жыл бұрын
U knw females grow up fast right
@jamarciaclay60015 жыл бұрын
Stay on your grind. Young Man, enjoy the journey of loving you, learning you and when you know Who u are as a Man, or When you are secure in u as Man.....then you look to choose a woman ....later a wife that compliments you...and you her.
@feelinherself73345 жыл бұрын
I’m 21 and wish I was still a kid! These people doing the most! I don’t want those responsibilities lol!
@tomikaforresthardin40885 жыл бұрын
I was 15 when I got married, had all 3 of my children by 19. I'm thankful to say we made it and see still together and our last child just graduated highschool with honors. You can make it, these people are just very immature. But yes enjoy your youth while you still can, I don't recommend what I did. I am just thankful to have we made it. By the way I never quit school and I'm a registered nurse today
@rachaelbracek49512 жыл бұрын
Why does she allow him to over talk whilst she’s giving her testimony. So disrespectful
@myfavs3530 Жыл бұрын
She overtalks EVERYBODY more than the MAN does. Man, does she ever get on my nerves.
@LovesLakes11 ай бұрын
@@myfavs3530Really? She’s fighting for her kids, and he tries to shut her down all the time.
@myfavs353011 ай бұрын
@@LovesLakes REALLY? Right back at you!! She CHEATED on him, it appears with MULTIPLE men, by her own admission, and ABANDONED her husband and children for months at a time. Who WOULDN'T doubt paternity? She is actually STILL married to him. And the children are HIS, too. She can go back to him and be a decent wife and mother like an adult, or she can get a divorce and negotiate for custody in court. And she can stop running off and cheating, and pouting like a child when she gets the least bit mad about something.
@dalet92079 ай бұрын
Daddy can’t get out of it now.
@kenmarshall2725 жыл бұрын
He should've not married that young woman at 19 he was 35 dude she's still learning how to be a woman 💯
@justqueeningit315 жыл бұрын
Ken Marshall 👏🏽 *EXACTLY* !!
@tempestlove95465 жыл бұрын
Right
@4656superman5 жыл бұрын
35-37 years old and broke...i think he still learning how to be man...
@kenmarshall2725 жыл бұрын
@@4656superman lol
@kenmarshall2725 жыл бұрын
@DogEatDog I'm talking about marriage not about her kids. You shouldn't want to marry a child at 19 and your 35 year old right
@ervinghenderson47805 жыл бұрын
Why would a 35 year old want to marry a 19 year old? You're grown and she's fresh out of high school.
@8087584 жыл бұрын
Control.
@ladyvictoria8204 жыл бұрын
He can't handle a woman his age. He needs someone he can control
@kayshawnsimmons68224 жыл бұрын
Thinking she young he can control her
@mcdonoghrahloh4594 жыл бұрын
She's fine?
@chancest.thomas51604 жыл бұрын
You'd be Surprised. I was 19 & Engaged 2 A 41 year old. We da best of Friends NOW, But Toxic 4 each other bacc then. He's Now 56. I'm finna be 35 in A Few Weeks.
@jokidasxm52885 жыл бұрын
He should know better than to sleep with a young girl n expect more from her....DUDE U MARRIED A KID!!!!!
@mattiebarfield92695 жыл бұрын
Exactly
@bookbag64325 жыл бұрын
Not every young woman is a thot. Some of us have self respect.
@yahdygirl5 жыл бұрын
jokida sxm let the church say “AMEN “
@juniordavis1685 жыл бұрын
Exactly
@marieknutson61395 жыл бұрын
How old you have to be to have common sense.
@NexusFantismo2 жыл бұрын
I’m in my late thirties and I could never in a million years fix my mouth to ever speak to a 19 year old girl. I know it would be legal , but I would be concerned that my oldest daughter is just a few years younger than her.
@eliaa.88145 жыл бұрын
He's 37 and she's 21... I already see where this went wrong. EDIT: The predators are out, y'all. 😂😂😂 Grown men are really still heated over this comment, lol.
@truth1675 жыл бұрын
Right! He married a child.
@IAmDrewselum5 жыл бұрын
Word. I'm 37 and could never entertain a 21 year old woman.
@eliaa.88145 жыл бұрын
The Truth1 He married a child and she’s behaving like one. The rational part of the brain isn’t even fully developed until 25. Not excusing her actions at all, but why was he even interested in her?! Something ain’t right.
@kva79220465 жыл бұрын
@@truth167 You can marry, drink, sign up for student loans and die for your country at 21. I wish people would quit infantilizing women.
@kva79220465 жыл бұрын
@@eliaa.8814 She was a legal adult. Quit infantilizing women.
@4656superman5 жыл бұрын
A beautiful young lady had two kids and married a broke older man. That is not how to play that game ladies....😤😤
@drdickskingofautomation5 жыл бұрын
Women do this and say hmmm maybe I can change him!
@Blueroute665 жыл бұрын
Facts
@shanicelashun8885 жыл бұрын
Well she's a sorry excuse for a mother PERIOD
@julioverne5797 ай бұрын
Why do you blame him? Love is age blind.
@4656superman7 ай бұрын
@julioverne579 wow a blast from the past😅😅 well we aren't blaming him she is the one who leveraged her youth and beauty for an old broke man. I blame her...😅
@wonderwend5 жыл бұрын
I suspect there's more going on here. She's holding back. I don't think he's as perfect as he's making himself out to be.
@candicel.76965 жыл бұрын
wonderwend1 agreed
@gabriellarobinson96515 жыл бұрын
Same thing I was thinking
@diofiglio15 жыл бұрын
Spoken by a woman....a dude takes care of 2 kids and something is wrong
@mmo95025 жыл бұрын
To start with : he us 35 years and trying to have a relationship with a girl almost half of his age yikes.
@dianebrown1055 жыл бұрын
No
@nathanscipio61482 жыл бұрын
Even if I was 19 I wouldn't marry someone that's 19!🤦🏿♂️
@jjholl004 жыл бұрын
I have been raising my two twin daughters since my wife passed. They were 11 years old and now they both are in their 2 yr in college. I DIDN"T have any help. And, I am not looking for any type of praise or recognition, it was my job as a Father. Man up! And, I am so proud of my girls and of myself. 😊
@nhall12703 жыл бұрын
👏👏👏👏👏
@rhiannabrittany133 жыл бұрын
I’m sorry to hear your wife passed, and I do applaud you, However I don’t think this is the same circumstance since this man is questioning paternity for one and for two the mother is still (luckily) Very much alive. I don’t think your being a man has much to do with it because society wouldn’t question a woman asking for support, so in fairness they similarly shouldn’t question a man because he is a man.
@bernadettewilliams76973 жыл бұрын
U should be very proud! Go daddy
@jjholl003 жыл бұрын
@@bernadettewilliams7697 I am so proud of them and thank you! :-)
@mjhansen92923 жыл бұрын
Can't imagine your struggle bro. But your the man we hope we can be. Godbless brother
@Miss.Donnell5 жыл бұрын
Hes controlling and manipulating....sign the papers and be free from this headache
@bossladiee5 жыл бұрын
💯
@brooklynforever19905 жыл бұрын
Give her free
@eugean265 жыл бұрын
I agree ,he is a liar , manipulator,controlling,he didn't have a job "lazy".... looks like he was using his head on her..I feel it for her.i can tell he did nothing for her to want to stay,he was not a provider.
@marciaweise55915 жыл бұрын
Also a great actor
@starlight78255 жыл бұрын
@@marciaweise5591and that opening act almost got me too! Narcissist
@anniejames67733 жыл бұрын
I love how the judge, gets them to see the bigger picture. “This is what you go through, growing pains with a 19 wife” I don’t think it even occurred to him. I believe what the wife said when she says she did everything on her own. Every time she tried to speak he would shout her down.
@riceeater793 жыл бұрын
Making excuses for someone wanting to be a hoe after they pledged vows isn't *"the bigger picture"* it's just trying to excuse a fellow female who has no morals or decency.
@incognitonegress2 жыл бұрын
@@riceeater79 making excuses 4 a PREDATOR lets every1 kno ur n good company.
@Truthseeker8morethan922 жыл бұрын
Can someone say Narcissist
@pamsteward75352 жыл бұрын
@@Truthseeker8morethan92 ..YES..!!! to the 100th degree...she needs to run..!!
@sparkyllite2 жыл бұрын
Same thing I was thinking, he didn't want the judge to hear how sorry he his. She just made him feel how she had been feeling. Alone and abandoned
@user-jv5pp8pv9l2 жыл бұрын
Whenever they say "your honor" and "you know what I'm saying" that many times I 100% believe they're lying. This guy seems like a creep.
@Sunshinegal3175 жыл бұрын
Wow! He put ALL the blame on this young lady. He did not take any responsibility for the issues they had in their marriage. He is the manipulator. I wish the young lady well. Poor kid.
@christopherbarge4142 жыл бұрын
You are feeling sorry for her, when she not only (by her own admission) left her kids for seven months but also did not contest sleeping with four men while in a relationship with this man? WOW!! and double WOW!! If a man had done that, you'd have called him all kinds of trifling, deadbeat dog, yet you had nothing negative to say about her. SMH!! Gives birds of a feather vibes.
@83kiarra5 жыл бұрын
She is exhausted.... 19, and he is 35 and broke??? 😳 hustling backwards
@twilliams8425 жыл бұрын
Danna Dennis what. She’s exhausted. Who
@dianerobinson49415 жыл бұрын
37 years old!
@KCorrina35 жыл бұрын
Danna Dennis she doesn’t get to be exhausted when she decides to lay with the broke man. And she especially doesn’t get to be when there are two children on the line.
@hannahmorgan39765 жыл бұрын
Corrina Vargas that’s out of line. You can be exhausted with one child and a man who is there and working. Her feelings aren’t any less valid because of her situation
@parlayphresh30625 жыл бұрын
@@KCorrina3 Amen
@ARMY19921004 жыл бұрын
Just a thought, if he married her at 19, how long before that had he been seeing her??? That's scary!!!
@brianal71434 жыл бұрын
Yup, he was a grown 30 something year old man chasing a teenager barely outta high school. Then somehow expected her to be super mature and support him. He gets no sympathy from me.
@mrs.northernminnesotasasqu78284 жыл бұрын
Me and my husband married at 19 he was 29 and i was 18 when we met and started dating still together 11 years later it will be our 10 year wedding anniversary in 2 weeks
@ebonitaapplebum92193 жыл бұрын
Right!
@kieamorris57613 жыл бұрын
Facts
@weantoine3 жыл бұрын
@@mrs.northernminnesotasasqu7828 That is fine. This guy was almost 40! (35)
@allthingsmelanietj55453 жыл бұрын
I can only imagine how overbearing and controlling he is!!!! I wouldn’t even be surprised if he hits her. He just wanted sympathy for doing what he supposed to do. He probably made their living conditions so unbearable that she HAD TO LEAVE. All I know is that I saw right through his words tho.
@cadillacdeville58285 жыл бұрын
As a woman who dated significantly older men, Please find somebody close to your age.
@sixteen.candles.46445 жыл бұрын
Yep
@CoreySmith238035 жыл бұрын
@Lyndsey Roach 79' Amen I love the fact that women need to stay in your age bracket. If you're in your 20s ladies stick with your age range.
@Eveningbreeze7215 жыл бұрын
In my younger years I had 2 long term relationships with men 15 and 16 years older than me. At 40 I started seeing a 39 year old man. Perfect age difference... Now. I dont think I liked younger men when I was young. Now I love a man in my own age group.
@jpat9895 жыл бұрын
Did you lack your daddy's love, care and protection? I am interested in the psychology behind it.
@jpat9895 жыл бұрын
@Kimberly Monique The only reason to be with an older man is for his resources. It is a trade off. You spend your youth with him and he shares his money with you. This girl was stuck with an old, broke bum.
@Acosya25 жыл бұрын
Demonizing a 21 yr old girl! She was too young for you!!
@shea52875 жыл бұрын
Demonizing?? I guess y'all forgetting she chose him too. She could've said you're too old for me but that didn't happen either. She laid with him just like he laid with her. She was grown enough to open them legs for him so don't pull the "she a 21 year old girl" card. Everybody in PC comment section knows that don't fly for a male of any age.
@Acosya25 жыл бұрын
@@shea5287 she went with what was convenient and easy. Like every other 19 yrs old. He wanted to be her daddy. Now he is. She's going to cheat again
@PeggyRabbit325 жыл бұрын
She had choices.
@pheena_michelle5 жыл бұрын
“She’s too young for you Bro!” In my Jersey Shore Pauly D voice 😁
@knightvalor87445 жыл бұрын
Demonizing really? So u saying she's right to behave the way she did cos she's 21? Come let me show you 21 year olds taking care of a full family. She's making the wrong choices not cos she's 21 but cos that's what she wants.
@melsoswell11224 жыл бұрын
He knew those were his kids, he just mad she left.
@ingerboredickson15333 жыл бұрын
Is he a unwrcoc3rhild molester. He's older and taller makes her look like a child. He is sad. No job at this age???!!!!
@myballsitchsomethingfierce63193 жыл бұрын
@@ingerboredickson1533 Shut up, 19 is legal in some states 16 is legal.
@explosivebest37033 жыл бұрын
@@myballsitchsomethingfierce6319 she is a child
@Lyax31803 жыл бұрын
he got mad that she left because he wanted her to do all the work and she got tired of it
@simonmahlangu9232 жыл бұрын
She slept with other men, he has every right to have doubts.
@lesawilliams28753 жыл бұрын
This young lady was so overwhelmed with having to do everything for the family rather than them working together as husband and wife
@Empress635 жыл бұрын
This guy had me hating on the mother but she was holding it down on her own for a while. He was trying to make her look bad when in reality he really wanted her back. Kmt.
@brooklynforever19905 жыл бұрын
Yup he was a bum
@dramanot5 жыл бұрын
How much is she sending now that she's not there in child support if she's not sending anything that makes her a bomb just like him
@1977kita5 жыл бұрын
and....he wanted credit for taking care of the kids by himself for the last 7 months, but I wanted the judge to explain to him that woman do it all the time.....I feel like he should have been more tolerant of his wife because she held 2 jobs and took care of the kids when he didn't or couldn't, so it was good the tables turned....he wants her back because he didn't realize how much work it is to be a single parent too
@chysel48605 жыл бұрын
@@1977kita How much taking care of them was she doing if she was getting government assistance? Obviously she wasn't doing enough and then chose to have another baby. We can blame him all we want but she birthed those kids and left them for 7 months. She never said he left the kids. She just said that he didn't have a job. And the kids are barely a year apart. So she wasn't doing all the "providing" by herself for that long.
@sheenarehema275 жыл бұрын
@@chysel4860 but she had 2 jobs? missed that part
@carmenseabrook34905 жыл бұрын
This is what u got when you married a child...don't play victim now!
@logicman50105 жыл бұрын
Does that go for women who have children by no good young men too ???
@brishaberries01015 жыл бұрын
💯💯💯 Right he mad she walked out on him and he a single father....so men do this to woman all the time.
@brishaberries01015 жыл бұрын
@@logicman5010 that's what society shows us and tell us. They actually blame us for it all.
@Mspeaches19825 жыл бұрын
He seems to have a lot of insecurities and probably likes to deal with young girls. Bc she was a teenager when they got together smh.
@helentalia99235 жыл бұрын
@@logicman5010 True
@mamaducksc5 жыл бұрын
She's a CHILD. He was wrong for even engaging in this relationship
@valainebelton16175 жыл бұрын
mamaducksc
@kimsechrist41395 жыл бұрын
Uhh, she engaged in it, too.
@StephanieRaePowerhouse2 жыл бұрын
He knew he was their father, i dont believe half of what he said, he's a manipulator, that's why he's 37 with a 19 year old
@lisamyers97773 жыл бұрын
She never doubted anything, every time she say something he trying to talk over her to look like the hero. If he was handling his household she probably wouldn't have to apply for food stamps. He wanted control.
@nhall12703 жыл бұрын
👏👏👏👏
@memebrown77322 жыл бұрын
I caught that food stamp comment, too! Like, sir, if you were working and contributing to the home, why did she need food stamps???
@elizabethmenegon80578 ай бұрын
He keeps her on check with the children. She won't get rid of him easy. I'm so sorry. I hope she keeps strong and gets her baby away from that predator asshole.
@НиколаСтаменковић6 ай бұрын
@@elizabethmenegon8057 Predator ashole she isn't a kid anymore , and she cheated on him, I'm sorry bu she don't deserve custody.
@donnarosanna3 жыл бұрын
That poor girl got manipulated... how is she more mature and articulate than him.
@bellestarr40403 жыл бұрын
Handsome boys
@muziquebox3 жыл бұрын
When I heard their ages, all the empathy I felt for him went out the window! Sorry, man. You did this to yourself!!
@bawisang49813 жыл бұрын
She prolly like him first
@thtsmypurseidkyou3 жыл бұрын
@@bawisang4981 child
@bawisang49813 жыл бұрын
@@thtsmypurseidkyou you know how this generation is foo💀
@mellowmorningsasmr37703 жыл бұрын
@@bawisang4981 doesn’t matter
@bawisang49813 жыл бұрын
@@mellowmorningsasmr3770 why should U care isaBella💀
@sherdeneshorter32 жыл бұрын
I felt her pain...l felt sorry for her...my heart goes out to her😭💔 when she 'says l have to work two jobs to support him and the boys and pay the bills
@stacycamacho595 жыл бұрын
This guy is something else. I would be warning women to stay far away from the likes of him. His demeanor, the way he tries telling the stories and then doesn't let her speak. No no no. And he is definitely the one cheating!!!!!!
@Majestic_Dark_Horse5 жыл бұрын
Reminder: The female chose that Male. She was already "chosen" Males. All Females "chose" the Male (s). Wait!? He was raping her......!?
@kanedralee49865 жыл бұрын
What happened to his tears though? This guy...
@greentee59935 жыл бұрын
yes
@elijahmurray3195 жыл бұрын
Amen
@googleme77545 жыл бұрын
This 35+ year-old clown got this teenager pregnant and is just standing there running game and acting like he has done something special by raising his own children. He didn't even work, "went away" and let this girl work two minimum wage jobs to support them all and just basically took advantage of her youth and inexperience. To stand there in court and on television and say that she left the food stamp card is beyond trifling. It just exemplifies how little support he was giving. I feel sorry for this young lady.
@lizzyw85 жыл бұрын
Google Me - Spot on 💯‼️
@mfcmxtt64905 жыл бұрын
Well said
@hazeleyezluv4 жыл бұрын
Omg same.
@deniser454 жыл бұрын
Exactly!!
@mom2suns8574 жыл бұрын
Yessss
@captain1906695 жыл бұрын
Never been a fan of older men dating younger women. Two different mental stages as well as different life experiences.
@THELASTREALKING935 жыл бұрын
What about if it was the other way around ?
@captain1906695 жыл бұрын
scareface936 there’s no difference. If there was an older woman and younger man, there will still be a difference in mental stages. Honestly i think this scenario is worse. I personally believe older women and younger men will not work. From what I’ve seen, older women expect a specific level of security, maturity, comfort and financial support that’s a younger man SOMETIMES can not provide.
@queennubian25735 жыл бұрын
Not necessarily
@yolandalujan97265 жыл бұрын
Agree . Works both ways.
@MamaBearHomeschools2 жыл бұрын
I hope it works out, however I've been in this exact same scenario, and the man just wanted to control me and not have to work. While I was working 2, sometimes 3 jobs. This went on for 7 years before I finally had enough abuse. The difference is I never had kids, just miscarriages with him. I now have 2 girls with a Godly man. My heart goes out to this young woman! Praying for her and the kids!
@fariahleahmuhammads59355 жыл бұрын
He knew he was the dad ..he was just mad he can’t control her as he intended. Girl get away from him !!
@felinefokus5 жыл бұрын
Fariah Muhammad big factz especially how he laughed when the results came back and said, "if she wants to work things out I will reconsider it again" 🙄✌
@soniarena52505 жыл бұрын
Get out of there, but take your kids with you.
@lyric24395 жыл бұрын
I agree!
@vonniesmith7335 жыл бұрын
Fariah Muhammad young girl is going to be taking care of her old man....he is pimping her
@lolitaines33385 жыл бұрын
Don't say ever go away from him read the bible said. that lady need counselling i was 17years old when my man is Mary me but still I'm respect him as a dad of my 3 kids he is the babysitting and I'm working i didn't say anything because i respect his age.
@CamilleRobinson2275 жыл бұрын
I wish PC would have a 'Where are they now' episode. I would like to see if these two and all the couple's were able to work things out.
@keshaj54185 жыл бұрын
From these comments, Google works too..I swear reading the comments I see all kinda updates on past guests!! ( Thank yall for the updates PC fam an Google u too! )
@Jenelle955 жыл бұрын
she’s with another guy now that is older as well 🙄🤦🏽♀️
@mikalouis2295 жыл бұрын
Jenelle Lemon Lol are you serious? So how do you know?
@Mrs_Tug_n_tow5 жыл бұрын
Camille Robinson if the producers come up with a where are they now she would get another Emmy because some of the fathers have gotten killed or passed away since learning paternity sad just said
@kimyatawilliams45885 жыл бұрын
Look them up on Facebook. They are not. She has a new man now and he looks old and questionable as well.
@tionebrown55785 жыл бұрын
Ppl like him need to be evaluated because what could u possibly have in common with a 19 yr old at 35
@rbee48215 жыл бұрын
Tione Brown his maturity
@michellefletcher85285 жыл бұрын
He seem slow though
@mixumup15 жыл бұрын
Nobody wants to raise seed and start a family with a used up single mother who feels entitled to be liberated... Women dont know their worth and when their value depreciates. Smh. They can do no wrong
@millieschattime99245 жыл бұрын
Wow I guess I need an evaluation ? My buc was 28 when I got with him though... He's 32 Now seeing him at 19 😂 that would not work
@naysaynetwork52715 жыл бұрын
If you have zero kids at 37 youre valuable, you seek a young woman at child bearing age(19 is that age) to carry on your seed. Who wants a single mom? Who wants leftovers? She may have more money and career, but shes also biologically washed up 🤷🏽♂️
@syngen462 Жыл бұрын
I am so happy they are his kids. I hope that they work it out. There are too many children growing up without fathers in this world.
@godseeseverything_1 Жыл бұрын
May I ask you. . . Did you have your father?
@trfaison5 жыл бұрын
He thought he was going to control her 🤦🏾♀️, he's a fool.
@Acosya25 жыл бұрын
Exactly!!
@askatrucker55485 жыл бұрын
He too old to be struggling like that he going take the best years of that girl life.... how 37 with two kids still taking the bus back and forward.. talking about u need with the bills from 21 year old
@Acosya25 жыл бұрын
@@askatrucker5548 Agreed!! I think he's been locked up a few times
@mzthicck5 жыл бұрын
Exactly what I thought! And he seems jealous and insecure. I mean u married a child while she took care of you. I would have ran too. She would be a fool to go back. She better signs those papers n co parent
@sherrodmacs34725 жыл бұрын
She had 2 kids for him so he is controlling her.
@kdove1444 жыл бұрын
I wish the judge would've asked her how long the relationship was prior to the marriage when she said she was married to him at 19 cuz he probably started talking to her as a minor
@MussoliniLondon4 жыл бұрын
That's what you wish
@DipsyMum294 жыл бұрын
The Goat no that’s what likely happened. Certain men who want a certain level of control in a relationship tend to go for minors. When he said ‘she doesn’t listen’, or that he knew because he’d been there and done that at her age. That spoke volumes of the power dynamics in their relationship. It’s ridiculous when adults mess with teens who are at the stage in their life where they tend to immature and non committal in their lives, and then complain about their immaturity or lack of commitment.
@lobmob32354 жыл бұрын
LittleMiss :o it's also messed up that such a little girl would think she's "grown",open her legs and agree to be married to such a man
@Browny2414224 жыл бұрын
@@DipsyMum29 Preach!! 🌹🌹🌹
@kris214994 жыл бұрын
Jj. I will iuuuhb , oqpqppq
@anodaone65255 жыл бұрын
Little 19 year old working 2 jobs and a grown man is sitting down saying he is taking care of the children. Shame on this old man.
@rashidageorge80125 жыл бұрын
You are preaching!
@Keiji5555 жыл бұрын
Why shame on him? Doesn't the reverse happen all the time? Oh wait. Sexism. Right. what was I thinking. Sorry about that. I assumed you didn't like gender supremacy. Plus, she's an adult, and she made those choices. If he is manipulative, then he was pretty bad at it, considering she ditched, and left the kids with him. Oh wait, she's a woman. Ergo, she's the innocent party. silly me!
@trappnest44904 жыл бұрын
@@Keiji555 It's not a matter of gender. It's about the fact that she was a 19 year old. She was way too young to support by herself 3 persons. As a man in his mid 30's he should be ashamed of himself
@Keiji5554 жыл бұрын
@@trappnest4490 in your case it is. As I mentioned, if it was a 30 year old woman and a 19 year old man, you would say the opposite. My mom was 19 when she had me and my older brother and my dad was 28. He worked and supported us. The woman in question in the video was 19. She is university and college age. Legally able to consent. Unlike what you think, there is half of the responsibility that falls on her, and she abandoned her half. My mom was her age, and she mentioned before that she was tempted to leave, but she never did. In fact, she raised me and my older brother at that age, and had to get costudy of my teenage uncle at the time. (Family matters) And she stuck around. My dad also stuck around. And with your logic, you are disrespecting my parents because of their ages. They took responsibility. If she is able to consent, she is able to take responsibility as an adult. And she abandoned her responsibilities. If the reverse happened, and the young man ditched, then you would deny that he is a proper man, and he should have kept it in his pants, and that she's a hero. Let's face it. He raised the kids. She ditched. She consented and only came back when it was convenient. She wasn't a child when she got knocked up. To you, and most of the people in the comment section, it is about gender.
@trappnest44904 жыл бұрын
@@Keiji555 I would say exactly the same thing if the genders were reversed. Someone in his/her 30's should not even be with a teenager but if they want to they should at least take care of them or help provide for the home. It's pure logic
@prettyandpurposed68172 жыл бұрын
This is how it is when you marry a narcissist. Bless her heart
@IceWolf1102 Жыл бұрын
she's the narc, and the one who abandoned her family..
@BigAsh5515 жыл бұрын
I hope that when my children are in their early 20s that they aren’t pressed to have children and start families. I believe women at that age should be living life, dating, traveling, struggling to boil noodles and that sort of thing.
@Cybo-185 жыл бұрын
"struggling to boil noodles" 😂😂😂
@timothynoah31715 жыл бұрын
Struggling to boil noodles at 20?
@tezesquire52645 жыл бұрын
Living life = having multiple partners, i.e, having fun
@bossladiee5 жыл бұрын
My older kids are 26 and 21, living their best lives; pursuing a higher education traveling to places most cant pronounce and living life. I engraved in their brains the struggles of being a young parent and refuse to allow them to do the same as me. My oldest is getting married next year and they plan to continue to live life more before having children. Thank God
@BigReddSouthernGal255 жыл бұрын
I became a mom young and drilled into my daughters head about not trying to grow up too soon as far as dating and such. They are 22 and 19 and doing well and living life and not burdened down young. They have time.
@silentlynotknowableasmr4 жыл бұрын
He’s nearly 40 expecting a 21 year old girl to take care of him? Yikes
@amazinggrace68813 жыл бұрын
Too take care of him and the kids
@johnathanjordan52943 жыл бұрын
FACTS
@weantoine3 жыл бұрын
@@amazinggrace6881 NOPE ! English grammar professor/ college. Your grammar is incorrect.
@brendagray33743 жыл бұрын
@@weantoine 😂😂
@brendagray33743 жыл бұрын
@@amazinggrace6881, wrong!! Too is use as an addition or agreeing. Such as(me too)
@latisaparker72975 жыл бұрын
It's a big age difference she's still trying to find herself
@michatw145 жыл бұрын
LaTisa Parker exactly.
@RacieRain5 жыл бұрын
Amen! That's why she got with an older man. It seems he wasn't all the way together either.
@kurosawagin5 жыл бұрын
I disagree with that. It doesn't take 70 yrs old to be a perfect mother or faithful wife. She could've done better than bringing guys over his house
@damienkirksey70265 жыл бұрын
@@kurosawagin Thank you
@vicakwe5 жыл бұрын
Sometimes it's not the age difference but the age itself.... if a 50yrs old man marries a 30yrs old woman, the age difference will be a massive 20yrs but it will be ok because she's already very matured and ready..... in this case the age difference is even less than 20 but she was a teenager and that's the main issue...ijs
@carrolllinda25192 жыл бұрын
She is very young. She has alot of growing up to do. As a 37 year old man claiming to have been there and done that; what did you expect. I feel that he chose her because he surmised that he could control her. He needs to accept that she is as much his child as those babies.🥺
@TheOriginalTator4 жыл бұрын
He seems like the type of dude that will let you clean the whole house by yourself and THEN expect a thank you for him taking out the trash.. He’s a grown baby..
@touta18323 жыл бұрын
Did you not watch the video she LEFT her kids with him and he was raising them by himself for 8 to 9 months
@onlyme81823 жыл бұрын
@Touta yes but he only stepped up when she stepped out. He’d been raising them for 7/8 months but the oldest child is 2.
@katiemilady42323 жыл бұрын
What we call a Maybe...man baby
@nasjajohnson26303 жыл бұрын
@@touta1832 so ? is it only okay when the father does it ?
@Cityweaver3 жыл бұрын
@@nasjajohnson2630 No need to be illogical. Nothing about being angry that a woman abandoned her home implies that he thinks a man doing it is okay. The real meat and potatoes of the matter is that one minute he LITERALLY says he didn't suffer any financial hardship from her leaving, but he STILL needs to complain about it because otherwise no one is going to know to shame her if he doesn't make it seem hard. He's complaining, complaining, complaining, and then immediately saying he doesn't actually need help. She's wrong to abandon her kids, but he's freaking annoying. LOL, like most times when it's the woman demanding for money from a man she's not even sure is her baby's father. XD Like so many couples on this show they both "deserve" each other. She married a man who is by her recollection homeless and jobless. He married a teenager who was cheating on him from the beginning. She's using all of these tiny subcategories to rationalize cheating "we was together but I mean not really together, we were living together but you know it wasn't serious yet". And he has a whole dictionary of insults against her character but can't be bothered to STOP sleeping with this TEENAGER.
@mrflynn013 жыл бұрын
He wanted to publicly shame Destiny and it backfired on him.
@tanyad94835 жыл бұрын
He seems to be an overbearing man who stressed that girl out to the point where she had to walk away from her entire life.
@stephaniegreen66065 жыл бұрын
TanyD that’s how I felt. I rarely take the side of a deadbeat parent, but she seemed to have had all the spirit drained out of her.
@briannamarz93435 жыл бұрын
TanyD no excuse
@MrRottweiler725 жыл бұрын
maybe she put him in that frame of mind
@marismellla65895 жыл бұрын
@@MrRottweiler72 or it was the gasman ;)
@marismellla65895 жыл бұрын
@Gregory KEROR Davis funny how the guy takes custody after she left the kids and still he gets bashed by the "ladies" here.i aint a lady;im a woman
@Kings132242 жыл бұрын
I don't know if he's the father yet, it just grates on my last nerve when men are commended for doing basic parenting that women do every day and get minimal recognition for. Also, what was he expecting when he married a child?! How old was she when this grown man started dating her? He deserves all he gets. I just feel sorry for the kids and hope the woman isn't damaged too much from this experience
@Divineisthecreatorslight5 жыл бұрын
Wow she was 21 and was working two jobs to take care of the household ! Wow she’s a good one she seems like she was just overwhelmed
@diannarobinson64235 жыл бұрын
QueshasLovely kids no excuse to leave your children. My mom had us all by 22 and raised us by herself. Don’t have children if you can take care of your responsibilities.
@oppsendless38145 жыл бұрын
QueshasLovely kids I don’t care how overwhelmed you are. You don’t leave your children.
@INDIGO.GODDESS_5735 жыл бұрын
@@diannarobinson6423 Times ain't the same . She was trying.. she got overwhelmed.. she gave him a taste of his own medicine.. don't Make it right.. but I hope he learns to be a re grown from this..
@embracinglady-jess30805 жыл бұрын
She is not a victim because she STILL left her family....
@cocobenji61235 жыл бұрын
@@INDIGO.GODDESS_573 times aint the Same but common sense is... No excuse.
@shavonsavage28555 жыл бұрын
He knew he couldn't NEVER run that game on a women his age. PLEASE!!! Classic Narcissistic behavior
@mcdonoghrahloh4594 жыл бұрын
Women his age are not attractive?
@shavonsavage28554 жыл бұрын
@@mcdonoghrahloh459 I beg to differ. Im his age and still attract young and old. Dont sleep on the well seasoned SEXY
@mcdonoghrahloh4594 жыл бұрын
@@shavonsavage2855 I edited it(slightly)Thanx for the reply
@damienkirksey70264 жыл бұрын
What game
@kellsjoy30784 жыл бұрын
Sharon Savage correct. Narcissist all the way. He won't let her get a word in. He paints yourself as a saint. As well, every word out of his mouth is this guy that man she cheated. He knows they are his boys and this court process and all the threats are a way to drag and control her.
@Breakfastwithmo5 жыл бұрын
I'm sorry... Don't dog me y'all. But, he is talking about him being on the bus doing all this for his children because he didn't have anything... Sir 🥴 Why don't you have anything at 35?! I can't. Babygirl, if you're going to snag them older, make sure he has ATLEAST secured the bag 🗣
@bossladiee5 жыл бұрын
💯 I don't feel sorry for him
@talondah85555 жыл бұрын
Facts..
@Breakfastwithmo5 жыл бұрын
@@talondah8555 💯
@RismaO965 жыл бұрын
Facts !!!
@eyeamkandake26805 жыл бұрын
BreakfastWithMo facts
@naturligabandet7032 жыл бұрын
She was the one who give birth to both children and she IS the mother. The father is a narcissistic child who dosent know how to take care of a woman. He just talk about him self. I feel sorry for this woman. She needs support!
@christophersims81612 жыл бұрын
What she left his life and kids
@christophersims8161 Жыл бұрын
1 month later this comment still makes me mad
@michaelj1552 Жыл бұрын
@@christophersims8161 yeah I’m sorry but even as a man, I myself would never walk out on my daughter. And I feel it’s worse when the woman does it because they give birth to that baby and should have a connection to that baby. But nowadays people only care about themselves and what they wanna do instead of their families and responsibilities! The comment that started this is wack
@Humblearrogance_TX5 жыл бұрын
Hes no more stable at 37 (job, car, place of living, emotional) than she is. That's why he got with a woman her age.
@spreadlovenothate50175 жыл бұрын
I love your tag(name). 💜💜
@tamiajackson5 жыл бұрын
100%Positive
@designhub360customapparel5 жыл бұрын
Yep
@rosalindm23075 жыл бұрын
No thirty seven year old woman would put up with that.
@Patchwork855 жыл бұрын
Facts!
@lucys69965 жыл бұрын
I believe EVERYTHING she is saying.
@flawlessjocelyne67324 жыл бұрын
Me to.... I know that feeling.
@TabsT-vy5jy4 жыл бұрын
Abandoned her kids and somehow u made her the victim haha 😂😂 u a clown.
@bluprecision19144 жыл бұрын
Of course you do because that’s what u type of women do and play victim!
@settogo17624 жыл бұрын
Lucy S of course you do, only because she’s a BLACK FEMALE.
@wildfiregirl15563 жыл бұрын
@@settogo1762 Pure ignorance.
@mrsa2you3655 жыл бұрын
Dude is the master manipulator. I see right thru his bs!
@indiamoore39535 жыл бұрын
YES
@inquizative445 жыл бұрын
Oh here we go, and ......she's the victim of his manipulation? Yeah right!.....No, he's a responsible father and she's an unfit mother who abandoned her young children.
@obinna2025 жыл бұрын
@petty labelle Lol what?
@javiervassell65855 жыл бұрын
Really?... that's all you see after watching this?
@DJSJ20115 жыл бұрын
petty labelle That’s the same thing I was thinking
@JustBeYouTy3 жыл бұрын
He didn’t wanna take care of those kids lol…he was hoping they weren’t his
@melissacandi5 жыл бұрын
He's not even letting her talk. Just imagine the home situation.
@Mzsweetheart895 жыл бұрын
Im sure hes given her plenty of time to explain herself.
@Litandharryginny5 жыл бұрын
Who really cares she walked out on her kids that is all I need to know to know she is a horrible mother
@brick_housedee67115 жыл бұрын
All about control poor girl
@TakiraThompson5 жыл бұрын
I’m glad the judge said something about the age difference. However, he has some maturing to do himself 🤷🏾♀️
@154angel1545 жыл бұрын
YUP like Get and KEEP a Job!!! Take care the family!!!
@YT4Me575 жыл бұрын
She's light years ahead of him in that area!
@mrs.pettway75065 жыл бұрын
He has some issues there.
@NewMediaMaiven5 жыл бұрын
That's why he chose a teenager.
@pink12374805 жыл бұрын
I learned a long time ago that age doesn't always come with maturity. I was 19 and dated a 35 year old and he had very immature ways, I was honestly shocked into reality when I saw it lol.
@elishlalvarmoi9135 жыл бұрын
I feel there is some secret pain within which the woman can't express in words. I could see it in her eyes. Rooting for her.
@MC-bp1dm2 жыл бұрын
I thought so too like as if he persuaded her while she was underage or something else
@elizaleroux91732 жыл бұрын
I agree 100%
@honeyplug2 жыл бұрын
Everyone has secret pain
@DivineTai2 жыл бұрын
I agree
@EveryoneHasAVoice2 жыл бұрын
Evil is her secret pain! Alot of beautiful women are filled with evil!
@kathleenphillips29332 жыл бұрын
She is almost 20 years younger than you... what did you expect to happen???
@alegriafleur5 жыл бұрын
She was too young for all of this. I feel her stress through the tv.
@pjnash015 жыл бұрын
Exactly. Me too.
@lelahill97785 жыл бұрын
Me Three
@ny78r815 жыл бұрын
Alegria Fleur he seems to be possessive and controlling
@damienkirksey70265 жыл бұрын
No she choose to put yourself in this situation and I don't feel sorry for her
@NikaNeek5 жыл бұрын
Yes but she chose this situation, at 18 no one over 21 could say hey to me without me looking crazy I’m just saying 😂😂😂 birth control should’ve been her best friend even girls raised in the worst situations are taught about it
@thewrongshoes4 жыл бұрын
She was too young and honestly if he would have let her grow up first she would never have picked him because no grown working woman want a no job dude
@grindhard43124 жыл бұрын
Well in that case she shouldn't have married him. And what do you mean 'if he would have let her' as if he stole her from the front porch of a house LOL. Like she had no choice or say so. Ppl really be online saying any feeble thing.
@heathab...._-_4 жыл бұрын
EXACTLY Queen Cee
@darkchoklit63994 жыл бұрын
THAT PART‼️
@1strights4 жыл бұрын
Truth.
@teadott3 жыл бұрын
A grown man would have never picked a grown women when he has many choices.
@elliekatx5 жыл бұрын
I like how they commended him for taking care of their kids, but she was pregnant working 2 jobs trying to take care of him while he sat at home with no job. She’s also commendable.
@zuritribe4844 Жыл бұрын
Facts it’s because as women we are expected to be strong and endure a lot ! I noticed they didn’t give her any praise for doing the same stuff he had to do as a “single parent”
@shirleyrussell7089 Жыл бұрын
👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 for the young lady if he doesn't get a job she shouldn't go back to him she should get her children and 🏃🏻♀️🏃🏻♀️🏃🏻♀️ away from that LAZY man using her SNAP card.
@darnylgaming4377 Жыл бұрын
She cheated though so no she’s not 🤨
@darnylgaming4377 Жыл бұрын
@@shirleyrussell7089 get over it
@nsynclover95 Жыл бұрын
I feel bad for all of these young girls choosing to have babies before their lives have even started. Having to work 2 jobs while having 2 kids at 19 has to be hard.
@beekay96072 жыл бұрын
Thank goodness he’s the father! Best wishes.
@celly97195 жыл бұрын
We dont get points for handling our parental duties
@TabsT-vy5jy4 жыл бұрын
And u don't get points for abandoning your children. No matter what the situation.
@MrDmackk4 жыл бұрын
Points for doing something your supposed to do naturally.
@nhiocazafar78704 жыл бұрын
She too young to have two kids with a man that has NOTHING
@darlenemcnealy63064 жыл бұрын
Nhioca Zafar when he said she don’t listen...he thought he had a young fool... looks like she wising up, she loves the babies not him so much. 😒
@meadowgailer56594 жыл бұрын
@@darlenemcnealy6306 She left the babies
@8087584 жыл бұрын
That's what these bums do. Try and trap a young woman or a woman with little life experiences.
@lobmob32354 жыл бұрын
S Forbes She's 19....yes very young but she should know waaay better than to sleep with such a man nonetheless agree to marriage with him.
@justkeedy5044 жыл бұрын
That part!!!!!
@lisajordan56504 жыл бұрын
37 years old and doesn't have anything or work?? How did she end up with him? He's such a bum.
@stephensmith57244 жыл бұрын
Facebook
@pickingwilddaisies9453 жыл бұрын
That why he was going after 19 year olds
@thomasmartin53193 жыл бұрын
So it's ok for a woman not to work or own anything? She's called a stay at home Mom and is praised but if a guy does it he's a bum?
@stephensmith57243 жыл бұрын
@@thomasmartin5319 you got a point
@Suny-Halo3 жыл бұрын
@@thomasmartin5319 Bro she was 19. Fresh out of highschool it may not be illegal bit its very strange he would want to be with someone that young.
@withloveakina2 жыл бұрын
At first his testimony made her look so bad but after finding out the age difference and seeing her talk about the pain of the relationship. She didn’t give up on her kids, she let go of him and he can’t stand it.
@wokoscrafts4 жыл бұрын
Some men think being a mom is easy now the guy had the kids for few months now he thinks they ain't his
@TheUniquemariah3 жыл бұрын
Bloop 😂😂😂🤣😅 that part
@D3nMe3 жыл бұрын
Yep
@beautiifullash5 жыл бұрын
That girl is depressed and tired...this man is draining her.
@lacecocoa62725 жыл бұрын
Facts I see it
@kreshanakelley61945 жыл бұрын
Lacedra Minor Me too. I went through something similar except I didn’t cheat.
@mjwmjw38645 жыл бұрын
If he did not support her while she gestated the first one AND WORKED TWO JOBS, then why did she have another son with him? Why did she marry him? This family is gorgeous.
@inchargenow3205 жыл бұрын
I don't consider whomen like that human
@OliviaBaeBy5 жыл бұрын
You can see it all on her face! Poor baby girl smh While he up there doing the most.... By his body language and his choice of words, you can tell he's a liar and manipulator.
@roni19765 жыл бұрын
He sounds controlling!! Just throw the whole man away... he up there acting like hes innocent smh
@kayshawnsimmons68224 жыл бұрын
Yes! That's the part that's blowing me
@actual_doge32214 жыл бұрын
Controlling how? I get that he's not a saint because he admitted he cheated too. But I never thought he was controlling.
@latashalewis13384 жыл бұрын
@@actual_doge3221 he won't even let her speak
@goalzenlife35314 жыл бұрын
@@actual_doge3221 Everytime she open her mouth a lie comes out. Marriage wasn't meant for them. If he wasn't working in the beginning I'm sure he was there taking care of his kids. She not one time said he was clubbing, hanging out with the fellas or nothing. She just wanted to run the streets and hoeing. She wasn't ready to settle down. Marriage is sacred. I got married at 19. Never once cheated on my husband. We were committed to our vows.
@actual_doge32214 жыл бұрын
@@goalzenlife3531 That's how I feel too. I am 19 right now, but how you gonna have kids while you're partying? Simple, you can't. Kids are always #1 priority. I get that sometimes a break is good, but to me she just seems irresponsible and like she was doing it too often. They do not really communicate well with each other, and it will affect kids later if it hasn't already.
@babiface55082 жыл бұрын
Don’t put on like she wasn’t handling her business! Such a manipulator. My ex did all that
@rmukuzwazwa Жыл бұрын
she hasnt even seen her kids in 7 months, so no she wasn,t handling her business.
@QBee2405 жыл бұрын
Her stature..the length of their relationship and her age has me looking at him sideways
@Splexsychiick4 жыл бұрын
I peeped that too.
@detrajackson59924 жыл бұрын
He is a creep, and an abuser. What I REALLY wanted to hear was when did they first meet??
@oliviadriver13624 жыл бұрын
When I was 22, I was dating a man that was 41. He treated me bettet than anyone else in my 71 years! Stop knocking a mman that cares enough to fight like this.
@Splexsychiick4 жыл бұрын
@@oliviadriver1362 good for you. I just want to point out that you can be perfectly happy while in a toxic relationship. Still, your great relationship with an older man is not what the majority of young girls experience. Also a Toxic relationship is more than just poor physical or emotional treatment. The reasons for being a relationship with a person can be unhealthy for the people involved. E.g. girl wanting to find love in an older man because of daddy issues, past abuse, fetish. Man wanting to be with young woman because it's not illegal to be with a girl who looks like a child, fetish, etc. (Not saying any of this happened to you but explaining my point)
@QBee2404 жыл бұрын
Olivia Driver you were of age though despite the age difference..that wasn’t the point I was making..you should have understood that given that you are old enough to but with age doesn’t come common sense
@bambidaydreamer35 жыл бұрын
His intentions were to make her out to be the bad person/mother. When he speaks she allows him but when her time to talk comes her cuts her off and doesn’t want her to defend herself. Man I hate that. She admitted to her infidelity. He just likes belittling her. 2 seconds after calling her a liar he wants to work things out? Ok dude
@KMBrown-ro7dh5 жыл бұрын
Bambidaydreamer3 Psychological Issues
@lovelife7735 жыл бұрын
Exactly.
@dontrustwhiteyevery15 жыл бұрын
Nah she just immature.
@bambidaydreamer35 жыл бұрын
@kilamanjaro Mountain did you not pay attention to the age difference part? he's a 35 yr old who married a *teenager* so what does that say about him? She may be indeed immature, but at 19 it's justifiable.
@foreignbentley1735 жыл бұрын
@@dontrustwhiteyevery1 well I'd expect her to be immature she still had teen in her age when he married her. If a man/woman is that old messing with people that you some wrong with them and they like young people they can mold and control
@latoyiab795 жыл бұрын
I'm 38 & my oldest is almost 20....wth was he thinking? He's old enough to be her dad. I'm sure he's going to play the "good dad" role in order to find another woman to fool....I mean date.
@Kelsey14424 жыл бұрын
No he’s not. When I think that someone is old enough to be their dad or mom I think of them being at least 18 years older not them being teen parents if they had the person. He would be 16 years old.
@soulbakin4 жыл бұрын
Yeah just because you can have and raise a child at 18 does not make it a good thing to do. 🙄
@SnowFoxParty4 жыл бұрын
You had your daughter at 18 o.o
@juwongowild16994 жыл бұрын
You gave birth as teenage and you're shaming him because he married a younger person, girl if you don't gtfoh
@Jujubean97954 жыл бұрын
Right. He can take those kids and move on. Let that girl grow up.
@elinorchishimba Жыл бұрын
My Heart raced 💗💓 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 am happy for you two. Thank your honour 👨🏻⚖️
@celly97195 жыл бұрын
She worked two jobs, he gambled and didn't work. Welp, Ray Charles could see where it went south.
@aggiealoy28664 жыл бұрын
Lol
@charlesmuneri5 жыл бұрын
I'm not sure what about this man that makes me not trust him. He doesn't sound genuine. Very manipulative.
@soniarena52505 жыл бұрын
I know what it is, he is old enough to be that girls daddy.
@paradiseparker76345 жыл бұрын
Sonia Rena so is my husband which means nothing I am way younger and will run circles around him y'all don't know her ....
@ImJustJonnY.5 жыл бұрын
Sonia Rena no he would be 14
@mel37605 жыл бұрын
Paradise Parker We obviously do know her. She introduced herself to us, when she brought her ratchet reverse cougar self on the show
@francinewashington13625 жыл бұрын
He is very manipulative
@pccc1455 жыл бұрын
See how quiet he got when she started explaining what happened??! He’s a liar and a manipulator. Further, he’s too old to be in this situation.
@sonofthunder55742 жыл бұрын
So what did you bring her to do? Humiliate her?
@TheDanyelleSpell5 жыл бұрын
Pause. I’m only 1 minute in and I’m like.... Of course she abandoned everything. She’s a 21 year old CHILD with 2 children who’s MARRIED to a 37 year old man! Like... and the fact that he was in his 30s perusing/marrying a teenager is disturbing to me. Predatory at best🤷🏾♀️
@trfaison5 жыл бұрын
She even looks like a child
@jamarciaclay60015 жыл бұрын
Yeah huge sign of insecurity on his part...she felt oppressed and overwhelmed
@gloryathomas87845 жыл бұрын
I guess I'm the only one. Although she was young and 19 she appeared to act older than 19. I know some young adults right now that's in their late 20s who appears to be more immature than she is. What he did was marry someone that was young and he's the one that comes off to me as insecure which appears to be causing most of the issues not saying that she haven't did anything wrong but for some people that's older than 19 and 20 that do the same thing. At the end of the day I hope they make it. Cute couple . Cute kids 🤗🙂
@Dbutttt5 жыл бұрын
Exactly. Men like that disgust me.
@qarinero64075 жыл бұрын
21 year olds are adults airheads.
@kingderick71005 жыл бұрын
Why did he not work? Broke guy talking down on a hardworking lady. Even though she cheated, he should be working!!!
@The9thwardhotgirl5 жыл бұрын
If she's crazy, it's cause he's making her crazy. She left her kids with their father. I'm not applauding a father for doing what he's supposed to do. It's still something that she's not saying.
@tanq82224 жыл бұрын
.trUth . ..he's a LoW Life
@marzi05744 жыл бұрын
April Farmer im with u on that. Sounds like he was abusing her and she fled the house instead of calling the police on him. Knowing he go back to jail. He in turn called the police on her saying she abandoning the kids. Of course he got an sympathetic ear(judge and police) . No where in history when the kids are left with the mother do we call the police and he looses his custody rights for abandonment. Js! He is manipulative narrasistic borderline pretentious predator. He probably a felon and cant find a decent job. So he messed up his meal ticket. Smh
@hazeleyezluv4 жыл бұрын
Yea. That man is hiding something. 🤔
@billcipher7794 жыл бұрын
I agree he’s a snake, but you’re wrong. A father isn’t supposed to be the sole parent for children, don’t say that, and don’t act like it doesn’t deserve praise. In this case, probably not, but in most cases, fathers alone are great parents and go above and beyond parenting expectations.
@billcipher7794 жыл бұрын
Zanetta Beck Actually, women force men to lose custody over much smaller things, very often. Everywhere in history you will see that.
@realmommee8093 Жыл бұрын
I know this court is not currently on and Judge Lake is on another show. Would be interesting to have some specials on where are they now to update cases like this.
@cheriesmith92635 жыл бұрын
Hes up here in paternity court looking like a top notch fool! 😂
@lyfeofthewisefamily57415 жыл бұрын
CeCe Kansas Ayoooo👍🏾😂👍🏾😂😂😂😂😂
@fontainehiggins36385 жыл бұрын
Trust me . Listen to what he's saying if she wants counselling
@artfulTheOne5 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂
@mkxv4 жыл бұрын
I’m 5 minutes in and he’s rubbing me the WRONG way
@mcdonoghrahloh4594 жыл бұрын
Because you are not faithful either!
@embracingbeauty81534 жыл бұрын
So you cheat to
@doggcript39494 жыл бұрын
you might say that you may be young but as you get older you're gonna understand his position.
@silenceisbetterthannonsense4 жыл бұрын
Dogg Cript Understand his position to be in his mid 30s messing around with someone fresh out of high school? That doesn’t even sound right.
@doggcript39494 жыл бұрын
I respect your comment, and think of this young woman's situation what happened had happened and now she has kids with him besides the reason to comment is to educate each other.
@ghana_rviews46695 жыл бұрын
I felt bad for him till i heard their ages smh you had babies with a baby!!! What do you expect?!?!?!?
@askatrucker55485 жыл бұрын
Tribaby baby I fell bad for her when I heard him say he taking the bus back and forward.... she marry to old man who failed at life.... he going take the best years of her life
@lelahill97785 жыл бұрын
True Dat
@lelahill97785 жыл бұрын
@@askatrucker5548 that's deep but so True
@damienkirksey70265 жыл бұрын
Stop justifying her actions
@lavidaloca23445 жыл бұрын
@TribabyBaby same, soon as I heard the age difference I snapped out of my sympathy trance, the violins scratched, the piano stopped abruptly with a loud noise 😂😂😂