Hello ladies! Thank you for watching! Just in response to a few questions regarding sneakers; sneakers can look elegant (depending on which ones and how you wear them). I'll film a video on this topic very soon❤
@Ruthie4j5 ай бұрын
Please film a video about earrings too
@SimmomsCaramanica5 ай бұрын
I know people who own so many really luxury brands, but they live in their mom's house. I own a house, drive a Lexus, and I do buy stuff *hotdups* to put money in my pocket.
@kimyoung18014 ай бұрын
Trying to find the logic behind your blouses and dresses being too small. In this video your buttons are stressed and there is a gap indicating it should be at least two sizes larger for a smooth and elegant fit to accommodate the bust size. In the previous video about shoes, in the blue outfit your bust area looks like melons forced into a can. Mom says a proper fitting bra and clothes are also required for an elegant look. When clothes fit properly, they won’t add weight to your appearance or look cheap. Just a few observations for the future.
@chisomsam-obasi26734 ай бұрын
Hey ma’am not me watching your vlog and randomly seeing my call to bar pictures. 😅 run me my coinsss
@chisomsam-obasi26734 ай бұрын
We should definitely do some collaborations too.
@denisedaniel93815 ай бұрын
Thank you for your content. I am grateful for my mother as well, who lived to by 91. I am now a retired teacher. God has allowed me to be an Evangelist and teacher at my church. My mother taught me how to dress and present myself in banking 20 yrs., General Motors 3 yrs, 20 yrs. teaching. God has been very good.
@StacieBussey5 ай бұрын
One i would add is a pair of nude pumps..or a color that matches your skin tone.. they are very dressy and go with any color
@CynthiaSteele-o2g5 ай бұрын
I agree!!!❤
@rosahacketts16685 ай бұрын
'Nude' does not mean pale pink - in fact when the term was first used there was an uproar - even Michelle Obama woke the fashion industry abouts its use.
@doll.ov.poetrii46825 ай бұрын
@@rosahacketts1668 I also hate that "nude" automatically translates into "white" basically. The undertones to the term are overtly racist; as if that's the default of what everyone looks, or even looks close too when they're nude. My skin is deep brown, And every time I shop for nudes (makeup, shoes, undergarments, etc.) the sales ladies bring me something beige and I just look at them like 😑🙄🤦🏿♀️
@StacieBussey5 ай бұрын
@@doll.ov.poetrii4682 I'm sorry you've had problems in finding a nude shoe to match your skin tone. I've seen nude shoes come in a variety of different skin tones before. If you search on the internet you can find different shades of nude
@SimmomsCaramanica5 ай бұрын
I have $5000 and would rather buy *hotdups* and deposit $4,500 into my bank account
@Nuhakikialeesha5 ай бұрын
I started my journey of elegance and I am learning a lot from you. Thank you ❤❤❤
@talktothehandreviews5 ай бұрын
Wow, what a great idea!! Thank you for making sense of the shoe question!!
@Ancient-Naga-Serpent5 ай бұрын
Can you do a video on bags for the elegant woman? Thanks.
@Elizabeth-fm2tf5 ай бұрын
Thanks!
@WomanOfElegance5 ай бұрын
Thank you😊❤️
@HeidiAusDenBergen-5 ай бұрын
My top multi purpose shoes are BOATSSHOES! They’re super versatile: -in summer barefoot and breathable -in spring and fall with a nice looking pair of high unicolor socks -they give sporty touch to elegant outfits -they elevate jeans onto an elegant level -very long lasting as it’s leather - and most importantly they are super comfortable for long days With this shoe you’re prepared for all situations coming up
@talktothehandreviews5 ай бұрын
Good idea! Boat shoes def look upscale and versatile!
@esthermutua12875 ай бұрын
Thanks alot for this informative message notes taken much love from Kenya 🇰🇪🇰🇪
@ruthaimwaura18055 ай бұрын
I love her advice.
@zolambithi57865 ай бұрын
Kumbe tuko wengi
@esthermutua12875 ай бұрын
Indeed 😊@@zolambithi5786
@perismkala42755 ай бұрын
We're here too love from 🇰🇪🇰🇪🇰🇪🇰🇪
@winfredgichanga54103 ай бұрын
Tuko hapa
@Thelotus20205 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for this Video. I am in a mission to get comfortable and elegant shoes
@nanaajoa61685 ай бұрын
Hahhahaaha, Vivienne, you made me laugh when i heard you mention your Ghanaian Akan name. Thank you for making us proud. A Nigerian friend just asked me if you were a Ghanaian and I gladly mentioned YES. Ayekooo!!!!
@doll.ov.poetrii46825 ай бұрын
❤️🙏🏿🇬🇭
@obengjemima64775 ай бұрын
I’m so happy to hear she is a Ghanaian.I’m a Ghanaian as well🇬🇭
@marcelleydile13875 ай бұрын
Vivien may the Lord bless you for your contents ! 🎉🎉 I'm naturally class & royal... & I aknowledge that your channel is the place I belong!... keep it up !!!
@debbiedorsey23715 ай бұрын
Great tips! Thank you!
@ToluliciousKitchen5 ай бұрын
Beautiful upload! I enjoyed watching it. Kudos 👍
@janemunene94075 ай бұрын
Awesome insights. Like it from Kenya
@mjaygeorge4 ай бұрын
Your accent alone us just it for me ma'am. I love how put together you look and sound. Thank you for this beautiful session.
@daisylee2985 ай бұрын
Love your selections, thank you!
@reelmermaid88445 ай бұрын
Thank you for another wonderful update Miss Vivienne. I've been watching your channel for some time now and I'm so pleased with how the channel has grown, as well as your loveliness. Best wishes and cheers from Canada!
@MargaretMilne-li2bt5 ай бұрын
I use my *yutulu* as a work bag and have had no issues at all. It’s a comfortable bag, fits a good amount and hadn’t lost its shape. With that being said, I also take care of all my bags and don’t carry a water bottle, pens, keys or anything that can damage the interior.
@remnantlove17165 ай бұрын
The best shoes to wear are the shoes of the gospel of peace. Ephesians 6:14 ❤
@MrJesuschristlord5 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂. Great
@JenniferBrown-.8.8.85 ай бұрын
@@MrJesuschristlordO how I gracefully say Amen in Jesus 🙏🇯🇲💜🤣
@JenniferBrown-.8.8.85 ай бұрын
@remnantlove1617🦅🦅🦅O how I gracefully say AMEN,GODS name be RAISED & PRAISED 🙏💕🇯🇲
@chizurumeboh45775 ай бұрын
Hahaha
@lindadelalifiasam58784 ай бұрын
😂😂😂❤❤❤❤❤❤
@AlwaysLearning20245 ай бұрын
Love your channel it’s not over the top and gets straight to the point. You are naturally beautiful and elegant. No botox, fillers or all that extra stuff ❤❤❤
@smores89825 ай бұрын
I have all of these shoes 🙌 indeed very elegant!
@janicechung49455 ай бұрын
TFS. This is a very practical list. The only thing I'd pass on are the Oxfords....no shade to anyone who loves them but I don't find them cute at all! They give me more of a masculine vibe to me. The only 1 I've ever seen that didn't look too masculine are the half black/half white ones. I'm getting into flats a bit now because the car park at my job somehow ends up damaging the material of my preferred patent heels, so I try to have a pair to wear up to my building. One tip I'd add based on what I've discovered since wearing flats is, if you're a lover of heels because you have a high arch type instep and heels just fit better, get a nice pair of flats that are beautiful but not as structured. I've found that the ones that are very structured and hard leaves a space where your high instep is and causes it to look a bit unsightly but it also puts more pressure on the middle of your feet. Something a bit softer with the same nice, clean lines mold more closely yo your feet so there is no space shown and your weight still feels evenly distributed.
@rosecouch73435 ай бұрын
Thank you! Great advice.
@flushthecatnip5 ай бұрын
I like these suggestions, I'm in the process of revamping my style but dont want to spend a ton of $ by buying a lot of things I don't need, at least not right now. Oxfords were my favorite from this list, I love a good, cute oxford ❤ I can always add more cute things along the way. I don't mind wearing the same 8 or 9 outfits and few pairs of shoes for a few months.
@elizabethpace15915 ай бұрын
Love these types of shoes 🙂🌺
@abigailtetteh57165 ай бұрын
Thank you ma'am. You look great as always 😊
@sanvikabestwishe175 ай бұрын
Hi vivien you looks amazing. Luv the necklace
@naimatayo83005 ай бұрын
Darling you look absolutely gorgeous and elegant wearing your natural hair 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
@ameryek.96075 ай бұрын
❤❤❤ Shoes are the basis, literally & figuratively, of a person's 😅look. Good expensive shoes + inexpensive clothes = good. The opposite, not good. Court shoes are so called because they were required at courts. That's all. Those very high heels - stilletoes- are costly & difficult to wear. Fisherman sandals & mary janes, if well-made, may be worn by nearly everyone.
@hillary192523 күн бұрын
Thank you so much. You are beautiful and your voice is soothing. I am an elegant woman,but I do struggle with wearing the right clothing and shoes.
@MargaretMilne-li2bt5 ай бұрын
I got a *yutulu* ,Korean made, Jimmy Choo. It is 20 years old and still looks great.
@peppercat81885 ай бұрын
Thank you for your insights.
@Ruthie4j5 ай бұрын
Great video, thank you so much Vivian.
@mirabellngum81134 күн бұрын
I love , love , love your Content
@AMothersPurposeToInspire2 ай бұрын
Fantastic! Thank you for the information.
@annettefromhage25542 ай бұрын
Nice video. I will run from anyone who tries to force a pair of wedges or slippers on me. But I'm all for quality ballet flats, a classic riding boot or an elegant ankle boot. The Oxfords are lovely as well as a nice boat shoe.
@gmakriyianakis3 ай бұрын
Beautiful selection. Thank you
@janetannisette59655 ай бұрын
Good advice Vivian, and thank god there is no scandalous prolonged laughter like some other person with no glass.
@wandaparker36815 ай бұрын
Thank you!!! I was looking for new fall shoes. So, a pair of "Oxfords" and some tall black boots just made the list. Also, I wanted to say I adore your new hair style. It's classy without being matronly. And it really shows off your fantastic facial features 😊🙇♀️
@Rodney-z8j5 ай бұрын
Good choices.
@camilae59085 ай бұрын
Hello Vivian, would you consider a video on elegant jewellery ? I’d love your opinion on that particular topic. 🤍✨🤍✨🤍
@Nancy-nx9cf5 ай бұрын
I think a video on earrings should come. I feel that every woman should have basic pearl studs and 1/2" simple gold hoops. Costume jewelry screams cheap no matter what anyone has paid for them.
@parishers63515 ай бұрын
Not all of us got our ears pierced as children or even adult. It’s not a need.
@edennis85785 ай бұрын
@@parishers6351You don't need pierced ears to wear earrings. I wore clip on earrings for years. Earrings are a finishing touch to your appearance for which there is no adequate substitute. As Emily Cho put it, earrings are to a woman what a tie is to a man. But earrings are more versatile.
@edennis85785 ай бұрын
I disagree about costume jewelry. It depends on how it's made. I've had real jewelry that people assumed was costume and quite a lot of costume jewelry that people assumed was real. Glued in stones are a give away, even if the item cost hundreds of dollars. On the other hand, silvertone jewelry can many times pass for real silver, white gold, or platinum. You have to pay attention to things like clasps; cheap looking clasps downgrade everything.
@Ruthie4j5 ай бұрын
Thank you
@aaliyahalicia83835 ай бұрын
@@parishers6351it may not be of a need to you but others do need it don't be selfish
@fibergoddess15 ай бұрын
EXCELLENT!!! 👏🏽💜
@FrenchEssieNails5 ай бұрын
Great tips! Especially on choosing flats with a heel so they won’t wear out as fast
@OluchiSpeaksOn5 ай бұрын
Thank you so much Better Vivienne
@romybrater13535 ай бұрын
I couldn't agree more. You are right on point 😊
@rosahacketts16685 ай бұрын
Got all except Oxford and over the knee high-heel boots - not keen on them. Great upload though.
@ElmerMclellan4 ай бұрын
Very beautiful *yutulu* bag . Thnx for helping to make this beautiful video for us gucids。
@LiaBunny935 ай бұрын
Love You! 💌💌
@anitamoses40715 ай бұрын
Interesting video I learned a lot about what kind of shoes women needs in the closet and at different occasion to wear ❤❤❤
@BubblyGumPink07075 ай бұрын
Hi there! I’m in high school but still like to be elegant. I only have blouses, skirts of different patterns and textures and a few staple pieces and about three shoes I wear on a daily rotation with my favorite pair being black penny loafers. I’m hoping to find knee length black suede boots for the winter. Does anyone have recommendations?
@Prettystyles4774 ай бұрын
Very good informative video thanks for sharing with us❤🎉
@Cecilia_Njoroge5 ай бұрын
Spot on
@chidokudzipanga50794 ай бұрын
thank you so much . i do enjoy yr videos em learning a lot
@tinychebani16965 ай бұрын
Thanks for the video ❤
@monikaszilviavinczenetarcs855822 күн бұрын
Szuper ❤
@rosaschmitt43793 ай бұрын
🙏 you are so elegant!
@boifavour17204 ай бұрын
Thanks ma'am ❣️
@angellawalker49485 ай бұрын
Hi Vivienne what about a pair of sneakers also?
@denisedixon91464 ай бұрын
No doubt, allstars/chucks/converse
@enojemz5 ай бұрын
Let’s talk jewelry and accessories next please
@OluchiSpeaksOn5 ай бұрын
@@enojemz I think she has a video on that. You can check out her page. You might find it
@esselembalayabassienne41714 ай бұрын
Oh I taugh you were Nigerian, but you're Camerounian🇨🇲. So happy to know your channel ❤❤❤
@liliannekesa86435 ай бұрын
Thankyou somuch madam viviene❤
@victoriamatovu60645 ай бұрын
Thank u dear. Much love from Uganda.
@nantalerahmah31385 ай бұрын
Wow, thank you so much.
@robbiediles42425 ай бұрын
This was very helpful thank you😊
@wandaparker36815 ай бұрын
I'm hoping when you have the time... If you'll discuss outerwear such as coats and or jackets. With 90 degree days, I know some will find that useless. However, for me and most budget minded Ladies, it'll give us a leg up on what's the best investment for our money. Coat, all weather coat, ectra. Oh, yeah scarf or hood?
@berakhahwomensministries66905 ай бұрын
She looks stunning
@G_Galore4 ай бұрын
I agreed with everything but the wedges 😂 no shade to anyone else, I’ve just never been a wedge girl
@tmeckeith2106Ай бұрын
Makes the 2 of us.
@akanunukaihoora96733 күн бұрын
@@tmeckeith2106even mi am not good at wearing wedges😂😂 even in my woredrop l don’t own any 😂
@atherinekalyati77785 ай бұрын
❤ the video. But what about snickers
@bolavictory81715 ай бұрын
Thank you very much 🤝 ❤
@priscillaofori99835 ай бұрын
So you’re Ghanaian ? I really love your videos waooow 😘
@Ever_Winning5 ай бұрын
Love your blazer. very chic. Wouldn't mind knowing where it is from.
@masiboleahesther1702 ай бұрын
I love this you need to do one about ear rings
@LOUEARLshoes2 ай бұрын
We have some great classic footwear designed by me. 😘
@lindaamponsah16185 ай бұрын
Wow..a Ghanaian..
@phylis39174 ай бұрын
Always chic sis👏🏿
@KAPEGINORAH5 ай бұрын
Thanks dear ❤❤❤
@sophiearshi27695 ай бұрын
I always try to dress timeless and classic , but sometimes I feel I am boring and feel old . any tips???
@doll.ov.poetrii46825 ай бұрын
It may not be your aesthetic or it may be your aesthethic but you may belong to a different category of it. For example, you have classics/elegants that are more edgy, artsy, romantic or modest. It's still classic/elegant, but it's a different layer to it. You can find many examples of this online. Also, my biggest tip as someone who doesn't dress classic (I'm a boho-chic romantic beachy woman), is to not be afraid of color or prints and pay attention to necklines and hemlines. You can dress classic/elegant and still have a solid hot pink trench coat or a blouse with a pattern in your closet. If you are petite, some hemlines can make you look frumpy and certain necklines don't suit all feminine figures. Learning what your undertones are and your body type can help you make your wardrobe more flattering and fun. Try not to put yourself into a box, an elegant woman is an elegant woman because she's elegant in decorum; her pearls and blouses are just the cherry on top. There are many fashion styles like boho, gothic, eclectic, preppy, etc. a style quiz online can help you determine what's best. i hope this helps!☺️❤️
@Thatgirl12-fp3uq5 ай бұрын
Look for classic hobbies
@sophiearshi27695 ай бұрын
@@doll.ov.poetrii4682 Thank you 🙏
@newwineskin54945 ай бұрын
I love oxford shoes,super sytlish with stockings..❤❤❤ but my legs are wide feet, so i cannot dare wear them.😂
@minmin-zo7im2 ай бұрын
thanks you
@rosemanyara88588 күн бұрын
Thanks
@viviandankwahnyarko31162 ай бұрын
You are my name ooo Vivian Abena❤
@veeboogie23565 ай бұрын
I love the champagne color sandal.
@1MsParham5 ай бұрын
I never received my elegance handbook after following the instructions on your website. Hope to receive that soon.
@WomanOfElegance5 ай бұрын
My apologies! Please send an email to info@womanofelegance.com where this issue will be sorted for you
@הילהקובו-ו6ל5 ай бұрын
THANK YOU
@ingreedralph15215 ай бұрын
Hi Vivian How about over 60 can’t wear heals “ stilettos” what would suggest for a evening gown. Great advice for Torbay can wear heals.❤
@ByseJoerg5 ай бұрын
One of my wealthy coworkers collects *yutulu* bags, but because she’s dressed to the nines from head to toe, no one would think her bags are fake!
@philomenakaschana33145 ай бұрын
Thank you.
@ByseJoerg5 ай бұрын
Hi ! Was there a time when LV Mono Vernis Perle Read PM Monogram.does not have a date code? My aunt and I were trying to authenticate an old Vernis white bag. The bag size, the monogram design is on point. even the stitches ,the color of the thread, the color of the inner lining. the lock,the hardware,the stamp,the zipper even the LV near the handle does not overlap.The only thing we noticed is that there was no date code. Accdg to my aunt that bag was given t her by her aunt in 2009 .But that *yutulu* was gifted to her aunt in 1998. There is only a slight discoloration but it looks fantastic.
@nadiamaameboamah31743 ай бұрын
Beautiful
@catherinematabi41383 ай бұрын
I like your channel ❤
@kathybuerk79945 ай бұрын
What if you are already almost 6 feet tall and feel very uncomfortable wearing heels? What would you recommend as alternatives?
@WomanOfElegance5 ай бұрын
Short block heels are great. Loafers too💙
@janiceodalo63455 ай бұрын
Please for those of us that have wide feet which type of shoes can we wear.
@florencemuya28035 ай бұрын
❤
@veeboogie23565 ай бұрын
I love my Oxford shoes with a dress. 3:46
@RachealJoy-tu2vz2 ай бұрын
Where to find them??
@Cjones123 ай бұрын
I see you haven’t posted in a while, but I really enjoy the content so far and would like to subscribe. Hopefully you’ll post again soon. I’d love to hear your thoughts about jewelry and other accessories.
@WomanOfElegance3 ай бұрын
New Video tomorrow my dear❤️
@Cjones123 ай бұрын
@@WomanOfElegance yay! Subscribed ❤️
@skylaellis3 ай бұрын
Hey Twin!
@judeab91422 күн бұрын
Yes, love them all except the boots...in my country, you'll be laughed at for wearing boots...yes, like you said, in tropical areas it may not be ideal.