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[@MahdiTidjani]

Talk to me in my private community here 👉🏼 www.thejanissaries.com

[@scrappychildhood6633]

Just told 18 year old Why I stopped talking to her and blocked her from using me as back up boyfriend or husband because believe in Virgin marriage. I'm 28 years old so may go over her head yet understand Female Hypergamy lay the law down and kick her out of your life.

[@EV-EV-EV]

Men must realise, that even if you do love your women....you must never express your love more than she expresses her reverence of you

[@margaretelbouch]

I’m glad me and my husband don’t listen or pay any heed to peoples opinions on social media. We create our own world and not a world people want for us. Wives just stick to your husband and husbands just stick to your wife in everything and with Gods guidance everything will be okay.

[@vegeta2703]

The Puddufication of modern man.

[@MahdiTidjani]

I like this

[@abdulrahmansaud5597]

What do you mean by pudduficaton. Goggle translation didn't understand the word.

[@HMD1986-]

@@abdulrahmansaud5597I did Google it lol

[@786halo]

😂 learn Punjabi brother it's a very colourful language

[@tempacct5812]

@@abdulrahmansaud5597means weak, cowardly

[@copainspammeur404]

Women have a heart of steel, men have a heart of wax. When women like you, and are into you, it's hard to change it. When they don't, it's hard to change it. They have a heart of steel. When a man marries a woman he's not fond of but there's still a decent level of attraction there, and the woman loves him, here's what happens : She'll work hard for his validation and to please him. At some point, the guy will acknowledge it (if he's a real man not a lil boy) and reward that treatment with gifts, going out etc. She'll see her hard work paying off and it'll create a positive feedback loop for her to keep going. His heart will melt like wax.

[@MahdiTidjani]

I like this

[@jcl9034]

W

[@AltimusSafi]

That s Diana analysis with the king, looking for validation until she started contradict herself maybe because of the husband fault, or sometime if it s not the most time "now she sure about his feelings, she got the control, the insurance (kids, good work, money), now she ll do what the devil ll dictates step by step.

[@attiyaahmed5506]

If men and women sought to love and be loved by their Creator, as the main mission of their life, all this is a non entity. Men obsessing over women, women obsessing over men ….all nonsense. All falls in to place when you focus on your Lord….or it doesn’t. But it doesn’t matter either way…

[@ashrafi7337]

Yes

[@Wilmao475]

My hijabi friend who never put pictures up of herself for years started doing just that. I knew from her profile picture or lack thereof if she was going through marriage troubles (usually an attractive pic meant she was angry and wanted to spite the husband) After a while, her pic stayed up for a long time and I found out she got divorced. The signs were there. They were gradual.

[@mercy1441]

damn..

[@L7Fx]

yeah I get what youre saying but should women not be allowed to express themselves and attract potential mates purely based on human biology??

[@Hermann329]

​@@L7Fxthis goes against islamic law

[@MahdiTidjani]

Classic

[@Professor4555]

​@@L7Fxbut she was already married to a Muslim guy,

[@fahadorky]

Listening to you, Mehdi, is like therapy.

[@Dianeek9]

I told my husband that I do not have a problem with it if he wants a third wife. Yes I know he does not need my permission or the other cowife's permission, but I wanted to let him know. But actually I am not really comfortable with the idea so hopefully Allah SWT gives me the strength.

[@H.a.q.q]

May Allah give both of you the strength and increase love between you to raise a strong family Ameen

[@Marwadear512]

Be very honest. You don’t have to speak in black or white, I’m fine with it or I’m against it. Plz convey that you’re actually in the gray area, maybe the brain thinking one way and the heart another, but just that you know it’s his right and his fitra so you’re ok with it but also not really Comfortable with it. This can prevent problems down the line by him better understanding you and the real situation. Explaining gray areas can bring you two closer rather than him thinking you’re really just fine with it and you trying to keep up an act hoping you can fake it till you make it. He needs to know how your heart authentically feels, even if it’s messy. Using words, not drama. Sorry for the unsolicited advice.

[@Dianeek9]

@@Marwadear512 no it's okay thank you sister I was actually looking for an advice. It's not easy but I'll try Insha'Allah.

[@Wilmao475]

Understandable. No woman likes to share her husband or have less time with him. But Allah rewards your patience for accepting His law and that it’s halal. May Allah make it easy for you sis

[@Dianeek9]

@@Wilmao475 I would be a hypocrite if I made problems about him taking another wife, after all I came second. He had already 4 kids with his first wife, but it does scare me somehow. I know no one can take away what Allah SWT has allowed for him. I'll treat her well like the first one did with me Insha'Allah, if that's the case.

[@Allyoucaneatmeat]

This man is speaking truth. I speak from experience.

[@ady6837]

Truest words were never spoken( as a woman i do hesitate admitting this even to myself but it is the very real wish of a woman)

[@cnnewyam]

Can confirm this keeps the relationship dynamics in a very good and stable state 😁

[@aaliyah3037]

So what if a woman is aware of this tactic?

[@arashshukran8788]

​@@aaliyah3037if shes willing to throw her modesty away we just send her away

[@aaliyah3037]

@@SaltySultana... Well anyone can use this and anyone who is aware of this won't fall for it... Both Men and Women should fulfil their obligations towards each other for the sake of Allah. There's no need to play all sorts of games.

[@AbyazAbdullah]

@@aaliyah3037 it's not about playing games, its the natural order, it's how we've been created, A man has to be the leader of the family for the family to work, and that can not work if the man is infatuated, he makes terrible decisions and women have been created with the natural intuition to sense it before a man makes a terrible decision, that's why women pull back from men naturally who are infatuated with them, all women sense bad leadership and bad decisions before it happens when it involves them. I understand that it comes off that way because of how Mahdi explains it and teaches it, because I don't necessarily agree with how he's teaching it, theirs other ways to perceive it, but I know the point he makes is correct, Men shouldn't love their wife more than she loves him, it's a recipe for a man to make terrible decisions for them and/or the family.

[@aaliyah3037]

@@AbyazAbdullah You realise this applies to everyone. Everyone has responsibilities and duties and no one should be infatuated with anyone but for some reason red pill men seem to think this only applies to them, and their women should be completely obsessed and worship the ground they walk on. Seriously akhi, they talk about women as if their entire purpose is to please men as if she isn't a servant of Allah like them. If you want women to obey you, tell women that they should be obedient towards their husbands to seek the pleasure of Allah. Make it about Allah and not yourself. Scholars have warned both men and women against this type of love as it negatively effects your deen and connection to Allah SWT. If Mahdi focused on preaching from Qur'an and sunnah, his followers would be better equipped for marriage life.

[@stargirl8465]

Be like the prophet ﷺ in how he married women and how he treats them too! (If you marry for desires you will always follow your desires in wanting more wives, even if you had 100!) We are a strong ummah. Don’t let your logic be overruled by your desires/shaytan/nafs 💖

[@Solemonsta1]

Alhamdullilah I’ve had this mindset and also having masculine features it also enhances this mindset in potential spouses

[@pastresbeau760]

On my way to E.Elias I feel less and less « unconditional love » to woman since Allah promised us women of Jannah in his magestic Book. It’s up to her to be one of my wifes in paradise. Not me to be her husband. The best thing islam teachs is discipline and YES Fajr prayer is the best way to acquire this. Writing from France. Let’s continue grow the umma’s level

[@user-ve4zw6jp9i]

If I have to work that hard to keep a man.. no thank you. Love me or leave me baby

[@user-ve4zw6jp9i]

@@SaltySultana... enjoy

[@kjy05]

​@@SaltySultana... as a man I respect this

[@coolerthetyrant7923]

Gooo shoooo 🫳🫳 kitkit

[@r.a1301]

You can work hard for your future cats then

[@user-ve4zw6jp9i]

@@r.a1301 I've been married before son

[@perdana5786]

Makes perfect sense when you think about it.

[@razer0072073]

Women know men are visual, they'll make themselves look available and have a pool options to choose from

[@samunggalaxyi9000]

Nice finally my Name gets its deserved recognition (Elias) Thank you Mehdi 😂

[@yousseffahmy3068]

Bro thinks he’s Hamza with that intro

[@cosminahogea]

You’re right Mahdi

[@bareqn8626]

Great advice bro

[@Allyoucaneatmeat]

Mahdi is 10000% correct in this regard. This is coming from a man who’s been through all three phases. Alhamdulilah.

[@TheRedM856]

No back bone=no respect

[@Soundsaboutreet]

Women like to feel like they have to work a bit for their husbands affection, it’s true 🫣 not too much that they feel neglected, but just enough so that it keeps a women wanting to please and wanting more. It’s the way the brain works: Work= reward=dopamine response=repeat Why would a woman work hard to impress her man if the man made her feel like her work wasn’t needed or respecting his core values was an option? A submissive man is not attractive to a woman because women are programmed in the DNA to look for a mate who will provide, protect and lead. If they can’t fulfil that role they lack masculinity and are less attractive.

[@1saadx]

Thanks for the insight sis

[@Marwadear512]

Ya it’s true. Although it’s not ALWAYS true. But when women are thinking of leaving the marriage, they often start changing up their dress to look more attractive and working out or dieting etc. Often it’s not a conscious thing, not necessarily consciously trying to attract anyone else while still married (or maybe wants to see if men still find her attractive but she knows she wouldn’t act on it), but her emotional connection, the “pair bonding” with her husband is disintegrating and she’s gradually, subconsciously approaching becoming available to other men. And wanting them to like her. This is what happens when a woman’s connection with her husband disintegrates. And then once she realizes she’s at the line where her pair bonding effect has disappeared and her connection to the marriage has dissolved, then she requests divorce/leaves. It’s a common process that maybe is just part of how nature works. The woman tbh just totally stops caring what her husband thinks. Just doesn’t care a bit anymore. She’s done with him. But if she leaves too quickly she’ll later have regrets. If she sticks around for a long time trying to rejuvenate the relationship again but failing, and the relationship’s embers are just being ground into the dust, and finally after a long time she leaves, then she’s unlikely to ever think twice or to regret it. Then the woman usually looks as good as possible while single, then finds a new man and will become more conservative again as she pair bonds with her new husband and stops seeing other men. When a woman loves and is connected to a man, almost all just stop seeing other men. Like they don’t exist. So it’s easy to become conservative again. Because the only one worth pleasing is the husband. But then other times, it means nothing and the woman just got bored and is changing things up. Could be either.

[@Wilmao475]

Boredom can lead to a crisis, loss of Deen and even cheating…

[@Wilmao475]

On point!!

[@zenkahnz3859]

If she doesn’t like him, she must sit down and negotiate things with her man and not behave like an adulteress trying to flaut her beauty to seduce other Men and earn great amount sins.

[@Altair-El-Haddad]

@@zenkahnz3859 ikr like what's with this mumbo jumbo? I thought women are better communicators as they say? Then why go on about doing all these shenanigans 😂

[@Marwadear512]

@@Wilmao475 Anybody who cheats is a weak, foolish idiot who has no one to hold accountable for it but him or herself. Boredom is goes nowhere close to being an excuse for cheating. And anyway I wasn’t talking about that type of boredom. I meant when she’s bored with her old fashion style, especially if she got frumpy with kids and wants to return to trying to look nice again, or to develop a new style.

[@kani49]

What if she has anxiety issues and psychological issues already? doesnt this trigger fear of abandoning into her? In these cases they need more attention kindness and love, even when crossing the line, ?

[@user-ve4zw6jp9i]

Average Abdullah and Basic Bushra are both settling for each other

[@fionaowen5164]

😂says almighty Mahdi the great conquerer

[@xavihernandes8262]

May allah give mercy and blessings to mahdi 🤲

[@yusufhassan-mn3xu]

U need to get a real job and leave the sisters alone

[@h20k98]

i am 17 years old and guess what , i learned this when i was 16. its really amazing how trauma gives experience thats priceless.

[@kjy05]

I love this❤️

[@samiulhudajisan6676]

Who is this exceptional ilyas?

[@abdulrahmansaud5597]

Basic Bushra Average Abdullah Exceptional Elyas You need to write a novel with these characters.

[@ikr2377]

😂😂😂

[@ikr2377]

@@SaltySultana... 😂😂 Go for it girl

[@Zaitoon15]

It sounds like you’ve been divorced 2-3 times. In each failed marriage you were the common denominator 🚩 Perhaps you should consider if you were the problem rather than the ‘shaytan women’? How a man divorced so many times thinks he is in a position to give marriage advice is beyond my comprehension 😂

[@ukurinyako8507]

Bro ,craving for more kids is it the right reason to marry more than one , I was born alone and I wish to have a big family?

[@Marwadear512]

This makes sense. Explain it to the sisters you speak with up front, explaining the reasoning is that you always wanted a large family with many kids and you’re allowed to do it. This is more of a reason that women can understand and choose to join in on, IF you are clearly competent, responsible, safe, reliable, a leader, and able to pay the bills without stressing her out.

[@sarahosman9030]

Depends are you an active father or just collect kids like pokemon. Also can you afford more kids and a whole mother family. Kids need love, nurturing and financially provision. In this day and age providing for many is harder. If you are a good father your wife will be more understanding and a new woman will be more willing to marry a good father and husband.

[@qmr0n]

Well, then make sure that by bringing another wife on board to have more kids that your first won't leave with the ones you already have.

[@ukurinyako8507]

@@qmr0n am scared already ,mmhh

[@qmr0n]

@@ukurinyako8507 I don't have anything against polygyny. It's a predicament I've seen time and time again, so this is just common sense.

[@yametekudasai.2979]

Mahdi ..can you please stop with the background music ? .. it may make the video more entertaining but it's haram ... I'm interested in what you say but the background music kills it for me...

[@MahdiTidjani]

It’s. Not. Music. For the last time

[@HMD1986-]

There are lot of beautiful nasheeds . But this background is annoying

[@hothaifaaleid7401]

Well said. Wouldn’t be surprised if other Muslim KZbinrs/Da3ees say this is wrong because it offends their female audience/clients

[@abdulkadiral-albani5994]

There is no man who doesn’t have problems with his woman.

[@ruweidak3158]

Usually your content has valid points. However, in this video, you take one of many reasons why Muslim women regress and present it as the ONLY reason. Not only that, you also center a man around her faith and as to why she regresses. Bit of a narrow view

[@aaliyah3037]

I don't know why he's complicating this. A woman who loves Allah will try to please her husband for the sake of Allah.

[@ruweidak3158]

@@aaliyah3037 exactly plus a woman covers herself for the sake of Allah and not average Abdullah

[@taimurahmad]

She covers for the sakr of Allah and het husband. You respect your parents ojt of love for them AND pleasing Allah.

[@coolerthetyrant7923]

@@ruweidak3158 And a men protect and provide 4 the sake of ALLAH Almighty not 4 basic Bushra

[@Wilmao475]

Mahdi’s never been average common

[@Sa7biUK]

Man is 6 foot 2 you know

[@Falastheen002]

Prophet sallallahu alaihi wasallam warned us of taking deen from people who are not ulamah. This is a fine eg This guy is spreading falsehood

[@DeeANZS]

I wish I could like this comment a million times... He lacks knowledge. Only Allah knows his true intentions but I hope it's not all about promoting himself ( making a few dollars)

[@Sa7biUK]

0:16 theres that Azad Kashmir Luton slang coming out 😀 LOL love it khouya

[@UsamaUllahUSA]

Best video

[@chamuelolivier1594]

the muslim manosphere, a sheer tautology...

[@Mr.Muslim123]

Akhi, do you edit your videos yourself?

[@pensatorseven1898]

If you are advertising you are selling.

[@alexross2671]

Why would anyone take advice from a guy who has himself failed in his relationships ?

[@abdulkadiral-albani5994]

because due to his failures he learned the side effects of not navigating correctly the ship

[@r.a1301]

It's the failures you learn from. I thought concepts like this are known even by 7 year old children

[@alexross2671]

@@r.a1301 you judge a tree by its fruits

[@muhamed36]

Is there an 'alim who says that women are allowed to post their pictures in hijab online, on which their face can be seen? I don't think so. Moreover, it is haram to post a picture in niqab on which your eyes can be seen, as men will look at them. Therefore, it is also haram when Mahdi posts pictures and videos of women on his social media.

[@zeusor]

Exactly, brother. May Allah Bless you and Grant you Jannatul Firdous.

[@drdopamineofficial]

Your so funny 😂 some very valid points you make.

[@jamesboth3785]

This guy looks creepy as hell

[@relaxtion.56]

Lol what a puddooo indeed exceptional eliyas this dude needs to write a movie

[@mahmoodsaciid--9467]

what is this music beat bro Mahdi Tidjani

[@itwasaizensplan007]

Is he copying hamza's video style lolll 😅

[@Altair-El-Haddad]

That exceptional elyas and the 4 wives bit was straight outta @Hamza 😂

[@Mini_Makou]

Ur intro is kinda of hamza its like jeffrey and adonis

[@mumshorts]

Omg i can a hundred percent testament to this lol

[@katekayuda3216]

Happened to u?

[@mumshorts]

@katekayuda3216 yes loll

[@SharkyyHamilton]

“One of my wives”

[@abdirahmandama3266]

Would you have preferred if he had said my open marriage?

[@copainspammeur404]

​@@abdirahmandama3266😂😂😂😂

[@MahdiTidjani]

@@abdirahmandama3266 look

[@-glitch-8195]

The way this man continues to slander is ex-wife is strange. This woman was wearing a hijab, which btw is only to be done for the sake of Allah, and he found a way to make it about himself. I'm not saying there aren't women who beautify themselves before leaving a marriage, but to use an example of a woman wearing a hijab? Thats low. I wear hijab myself so I know a lot of brothers truly believe we cover ourselves for them. And that it's all about them and their desires. We already have non-Muslims make that assumption about us. Not to mention we get profiled even worse than brothers do. I've had people say very hateful things to my face for wearing a hijab. Then here we have brothers blabbering about how their ego is hurt and their manhood is under attack. CRAZY.

[@sieg6635]

Womp Womp. Cry about it. It’s fax. Fragile femininity at its finest 😂

[@sieg6635]

@@SaltySultana... sultana banana? I missed u 😔

[@-glitch-8195]

@@SaltySultana... Well, yeah of course

[@-glitch-8195]

@@sieg6635 She's married bro. Why are you saying I miss you to a married woman? Haram!

[@sieg6635]

@@-glitch-8195 quiet you overused fleshlight.

[@mohammedsaqlain9613]

Salaam my bro hope om not disrespecting. Are u shia

[@gladiatorfarid1580]

Salafi

[@dmironyuk]

Ahmed where's my money buddy???

[@ibrahimm4098]

4:15

[@ikr2377]

What if the woman is dressing up for her husband....

[@ikr2377]

@@R-zj9rd so each time he WhatsApp her .he can see her...

[@Altair-El-Haddad]

@@ikr2377 she can do that in their own privacy, I don't see the point of "dressing up" for a pfp to impress her husband. 😂😂😂

[@ikr2377]

@@Altair-El-Haddad well do you want a shoddy looking wife in public. In private she can wear intimate clothing for her husband but still wants to look good and presentable in public

[@Altair-El-Haddad]

@@ikr2377 there's nothing shoddy about wearing a full on black niqab. A man with gheerah would not want his nisa to go out dressing in a way which asks for attention. I don't see why she'd want to look good for others in public. Are you saying niqabs don't look presentable?

[@ikr2377]

@@Altair-El-Haddad there are two types of abayas I wear . The one for every day rush to the shops to get my groceries.thisbis an old one which I wash but I don't bother ironing so it's just something to cover me ...not attractive.aldo I wear an old pair of slippers or shoes with it. But when I am going out with family or going to work I wear my new abaya which is ironed down and looks demure.i wear heels with it and ensure that everything looks very impeccable.its black too... So can an abaya look shoddy ...yea it can if it's old and not ironed and an abaya can look very demure when it's new ,ironed and it's ment for going to work or with family out and you assessors it with appropriate shoes and hand bag....

[@mdhamza3015]

You are the muslim hamza

[@silenthill1035]

I think what you are saying is correct. But the problem is that you think the average man is at fault for not being alpha enough or rich enough. But please try to understand that even in the past good old days, average men were not alpha nor they were rich, yet their wives used to listen to them and tried to please them. That used to happen because marriage itself was something highly valued, even the idea of divorce used to bring shame and judgement from society. But now marriage is merely seen as a means to an end by average women, hence they call it quits as soon as she stops getting what she wants.

[@ThinkFitMind]

It doesnt matter if its halal - LOL typical controlling muslim loser. He will keep saying muslim must do that because its obligation but then when he doesnt agree he says nah bro doesnt matter if its halal, i dont like it. Bro has been divorced 3 times 😂😂

[@Marwadear512]

Depends. Everybody wants their spouse to have self-respect. If I’m being a brat for a long time and he’s not willing to let me go because of it then he doesn’t have much self-respect, or he’s scared, and that’s the issue. I don’t ever personally want to put a man in that conundrum so I am not a brat to my husband. Only immature women are. HOWEVER, there’s a balance. If I’m speaking with a man who likes to make it clear that he’d readily leave, when there’s really no good reason to say or show that, then I’d think he’s not truly committed to me and I’d bail. Too risky. Or if he is my husband who uses it as a threat, I’d resent him and start seeing him as immature and tyrannical for threatening me in such a manipulative way. This is awful for a marriage. Or if he made it totally clear that he could leave and we didn’t have kids yet, I’d be like “Ok fine leave I don’t need to put up with this my entire life” and I’d think he didn’t really care much. And if he didn’t leave my emotions would die down due to the apparently weak connection between us and I’d leave. If we have kids and he was saying this inappropriately or too much then I’d probably inwardly despise him and find him to be a poor leader whom I couldn’t trust. I’d plan how to live life despite him. But as a targeted response when it’s truly called for, to shock and set things right when she’s clearly in the wrong, and she trusts his thinking processes, then yes everybody needs to show they can walk when needed.

[@zenkahnz3859]

He's immature tyrant if he threatens to break the marriage??

[@aaliyah3037]

Honestly there's too much focus around men and women and not much on Allah. If both fear Allah, they will fulfill their rights towards each other for the sake of Allah as things should be. There's no need to play all these games to maintain attraction/respect or whatever. We should accept men, women and practically anything can become boring over time and focus on things that are more important. The problem comes when you think you're more important or special than you really are. Literally anyone is replaceable.

[@Marwadear512]

@@zenkahnz3859 If he does it in an immature and tyrannical way, then…. Yes. Not sure what’s difficult to comprehend here tbh.

[@Marwadear512]

@@aaliyah3037 Problems also come due to mood disorders and mental health issues and deep subconscious issues developed in life that the person is incapable of recognizing in themselves. Or through the imprint of poor role modeling.

[@Marwadear512]

@@SaltySultana... Some women think their husbands will never leave no matter what. And often that is true. And Mahdi said he was basically one of them, which was a mistake.