CruzanGyul they really are. Especially European men & the small populations of American white men who are still connected to their European culture. Italians especially loveeeee providing for & protecting their women.
@TM-sp4si5 жыл бұрын
@Paul "black women are the least desired" Aw, you're so cute. Men say that after they've been rejected by a Black woman. Try harder next time.
@sexytechreviews_5 жыл бұрын
@@FT-vv2lo I appreciate what you're saying. Just shared my own personal experience. I know that YMMV.
@misssincere57623 жыл бұрын
YES!
@chirciusimona43155 жыл бұрын
It s true, women fully respects a man who totally provides.
@MelaninMagdalene5 жыл бұрын
Chirciu Simona Ha!🤣🤣😂
@KDP7777 Жыл бұрын
Right! How can me? I will straight up treat you like my friend lol
@aminah761 Жыл бұрын
Period 😊
@user-fk8tr5ev8q8 ай бұрын
not always
@couturexolivia5 жыл бұрын
I watch two videos a day every to keep my mind right!
@KDP7777 Жыл бұрын
Same!
@krystallivingston44197 ай бұрын
ITs therapy for me Loll
@nansitey23895 жыл бұрын
This is right on time. I just ended it with a 54 year old chiropractor living with his mom who said he wants to date only me but for me to financially “pitch into” our relationship 🙄 Dusties are everywhere ladies!
@Prettywins5 жыл бұрын
Nansi Tey LoL what ! Dusties come in different forms. Some men can be rich or well to do but very stingy 😫😖
@sherrisolomon86735 жыл бұрын
@@Prettywins So true.
@sherrisolomon86735 жыл бұрын
She she raven let's keep it real. Globally the Elites(including the Black ones) need to be called out on putting the American Black women in the position of a 50/50 relationship. Most Black men are being sabotaged to remain at the bottom worldwide esp in America esp the ADOS Black man.
@MelaninMagdalene5 жыл бұрын
I think you’re dusty and unable to match the chiropractor dollar for dollar after the assets and liabilities are accounted for.
@Entertainment-eq2xb5 жыл бұрын
Smart man!
@whimsicallady97595 жыл бұрын
What you said about cheating is true, I cannot imagine a reason to even want to cheat when my husband fully takes care of me, not worth it!
@KDP7777 Жыл бұрын
THAT! Do your part I will be so damn faithful ❤
@Lolah0421 Жыл бұрын
Exactly! I moved out of a condo where my fiancé and I lived for 10 years because he bought a house and told me “ now we have to do 50/50 ! Do I went and rented my apartment and was like no, I am not paying half cooking cleaning and paying my own personal bills such as my car insurance phone nails hair ! No sir ! Negative!
@primalemerge2245 жыл бұрын
If your depressed watch comedies, walk in park, go around plants like at a garden center... Nature lifts your frequency your vibration. Lose weight by walking everyday and increase water cut drinks with sugar.... Replace all carbs ie... Rice bread pasta with vegetables. Just get started and stop asking Ashera the same questions daily.
@moonmaiden41975 жыл бұрын
Underrated comment. Vegetables, sunlight and nature are the recipe for natural radiant beauty. 🥰
@beautifulalien29875 жыл бұрын
Plant based is fhe way to go. Potatoes aren't bad... Just leave out oils and fats. I've lost 40 pounds so far, and i eat potatoes everyday
@rainbowflower33375 жыл бұрын
My mom is raising a dusty lol. Everytime we leave the house, my brother leaves his wallet at home on purpose. When we go to the store, my brother asks my mom for something. She'll say "Where's your wallet?". He'' ll say "I left it at home", but she will still get him what he asked for . He is in high school, but I don't see no hope for him lmao.
@rainbowflower33375 жыл бұрын
@@luxuryqueen42 Lmao. Right.
@chrisbelger67215 жыл бұрын
@@rainbowflower3337 So let me get this straight. You actually call men dusty because they choose not to spend money on the woman they are pursuing? So in a relationship a guy needs to pay all of the bills indefinitely? How are you contributing your money to the relationship or household? Aren't you working?
@rainbowflower33375 жыл бұрын
Lil Kim said it best " Why spend mine when I can spend yours?"
@chrisbelger67215 жыл бұрын
@@IYelevenThat's your logic? So a man is just a tool to be used for financial gain? What's the point of getting with a woman who is a leech? What are you bringing to his table? You actually think sex is going to keep him?
@rainbowflower33375 жыл бұрын
@@chrisbelger6721 All jokes aside, it just feels wrong to live with someone you love, pay half the bills, AND do most of the housework. That just feels like a roomate. However, make a valid argument and list how the woman is benefiting. Like to hear both sides
@prettylyricsmarie4 жыл бұрын
The best thing, you could do, for a dusty, is leave him, so he can work harder, to get a woman. A dusty doesn't deserve sex, and doesn't deserve a woman period, until he works hard enough, to be a real man. A real man protects and provides.
@brklyn29225 жыл бұрын
SheRa is so right. Women cannot respect men if he ask for anything. She is saying what women are thinking.
@aminah7614 жыл бұрын
Exactly
@SunShine-rz5lt5 жыл бұрын
you're right 50/50. is. null and void.
@charismaw10405 жыл бұрын
Thank you. I started watching you a few months ago. Unbeknownst to myself I already do a lot of the things you suggest, but you’re on another level . Grown woman status. I feel like I’m listening to one of my aunties lol 😊
@dreamceline20935 жыл бұрын
If you’re a man who is not a provider, this message is for you. 👉🏾 33:27 - 35:44
@angelicgirl3055 жыл бұрын
You are 100% right It’s the law of the jungle Man hunts, woman nurtures
@Lanainvestor5 жыл бұрын
u are smart, that''s why u have a 100% provider!
@ehayes44305 жыл бұрын
Please create a video for the ladies to tell them most men don't like women. That message may help ladies lose those emotions they have for these men and dusties.
@TheMorganVEVO5 жыл бұрын
Erica Hayes YOU ARE SO RIGHT! It's a much needed discussion among women. We are taught to find "soul mates" from a young age. When it doesn't happen, we're taught that something is wrong with us. Little do they know, it's simply not a likely occurrence considering the reality with most men. Women need to be taught reality, not fairy tales.
@joyce71615 жыл бұрын
@@laurodren exactly! A lot of men nowadays are bitter and confused.
@timeforcommonsense.31365 жыл бұрын
So true wow i said this before.
@sarinakarim25135 жыл бұрын
@@laurodren omdz thats exactly what the do.
@alexo51335 жыл бұрын
I work in a call centre at a security company and have a naturally deep voice which automatically changes to softer and higher while I'm speaking to a client. I have observed that the same male clients who speak rudely to my colleagues or who I have been warned about are mostly really nice to me and sometimes chuckle when I call them and give them information. They also seem to demand more when a man is calling them vs when I call they're like "It's fine, thank you for telling me" How you talk and act matters ladies!
@loveinautumn39784 жыл бұрын
A women can be as feminine as possible and some men will still be aggressive and rude towards her.
@KortCam15 жыл бұрын
OHKAY YOU WENT IN WITH THE LEECHES GURL !!!! *snapping fingers* yassss
@SayconTalks5 жыл бұрын
Kortni Hines girl read for filth
@Zhenn335 жыл бұрын
New subs here from philippines thanks I found your channel you have lots of incredible contents and I admire your beauty Im a mom of three beautiful children I am a Single mother and shout out to all beautiful ladies here
@nansitey23895 жыл бұрын
OMG you and your queen kitty @1:57:00 is life!!!! The look on your cat’s face from your loving 😍
@KDP7777 Жыл бұрын
We might as well be friends 😂😂😂😂
@bellad.12745 жыл бұрын
🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹 please talk about Wendy Williams marriage/seperation.... seems exactly in line with your message ♥️ I think she went into "sober house" to get away to a safe place to connect with lawyers. Annoying that it took her so long.
@sherrisolomon86735 жыл бұрын
Bella, why do you think she did the video?
@bellad.12745 жыл бұрын
@@sherrisolomon8673 Yes..sorry.. I wrote this comment before watching the video.
@NewAwakeningShifts5 жыл бұрын
Wendy annoys me. She’s a case of the energy she gave out was what she got back. She is very mean. Of course her husband leeched big time off of her.
@maxinesmith48735 жыл бұрын
Girl, you are the best!
@rickimcfarland22695 жыл бұрын
Chances are the guy you meet at target, or out running errands, also has a dating profile. In fact, I can almost guarantee he has a dating profile somewhere.
@airam64265 жыл бұрын
Hon that gained 30lbs don't let him damage who you was before you met him
@missuniverse79915 жыл бұрын
A women is never supposed to know what her mans pockets completely have in them. If she knows how long his money is, it makes her see limits. 50/50 women realize how pathetic and gross dusties are, YUCk!!!’ Thanks lady!!! 😘
@October30745 жыл бұрын
Everytime she uses the name "Bonnetta" I HOLLER! 😂😂😂
@MelaninMagdalene5 жыл бұрын
After these etiquette classes, many of these females need a millionaire matchmaker. Millionaires need screenings.
@Moonie_MonRozE5 жыл бұрын
Love you Shera!!! You’ve changed my life thanks for helping and sharing you’re knowledge!!! ❤️❤️
@serendipityinc.34925 жыл бұрын
Yo her comeback to the leech comment was SUPERB. I CSNT STOP LAUGHING 😂 SHE SAID A DIFFERENT SCIENCE WITH A DIFFERENT POINT OF VIEW AND THEN BROKE IT DOWN IM WEAAAK
@GoddessAries Жыл бұрын
Right???! I’ve noticed in many of her videos people tend to come for bw negatively when we have high standards, calling us derogatory names and such smh. Thanks Shera for getting them together ever so intelligently. 😂 👏🏾
@judithnamatovu52886 ай бұрын
The best calibration space. Thank you She Ra
@peekaboots015 жыл бұрын
This GORGEOUS woman is a blessing. Amazing! I should be collecting donations too. How do I do it Ms Wisdom? Your daughter(s) is/are blessed.
@EmpressofChrist5 жыл бұрын
Great video like always babe🌹
@EmpressofChrist5 жыл бұрын
You are my inspiration 🌹
@KeepTheFaith005 жыл бұрын
If anyone knows a good place or area to freestyle in Charlotte, NC... let me know please! And good luck to all the ladies out there
@DivineChakras7775 жыл бұрын
The South Park area and Ballantyne Area!!! All money there haha
@mom2suns8575 жыл бұрын
If anyone knows of a great freestyle area in NYC and Long Island please let me know
@KeepTheFaith005 жыл бұрын
@@DivineChakras777 Thanks!
@Makeupsokayy5 жыл бұрын
Ballantyne/Marvin Ridge area!
@Lovejoyful6065 жыл бұрын
No lashes..still too cute!
@chocolategoddess40565 жыл бұрын
Chris Belger she didn’t ask about her lashes hun, she made an observation that she’s beautiful without any lashes...I’ve seen your bitter ass in a lot of the threads in here. Did your pick me finally wake up ?
@claudiaenlightened36725 жыл бұрын
😍😍😍 she so pretty
@anneleegirl15655 жыл бұрын
Exactly! For them they think masculinity is now laying there, and helping them pay bills is not going to make a woman submit. If he chooses to be a roomate then he wont get much sex unless he decides to take on an important job..and even if she is a submissive he will know how to take care of her and work more hours..its like a reward..if he wants all that power he has to prove that he is successful enough to provide..you can claim to be a provider all you want, but that's different then doing the actual work. As far as that wall thing goes, men hit the wall too, women just embrace it because now she can see through his bullshit...
@gilbertrodriguezjr55085 жыл бұрын
The character once called woman is now being played by confused freedom fighters...
@MelaninMagdalene5 жыл бұрын
Enjoy the show
@krissiberry90875 жыл бұрын
Please do a video on vices and if it makes sense dealing with it. Thanks.
@peekaboots015 жыл бұрын
I know my comments do not have anything to do with this video just stating facts, I admire SheRa.I admire your hustle.
@michellefiery7395 жыл бұрын
Powerful video. Thank you 🌹👑
@chrisbelger67215 жыл бұрын
What's so powerful about it?
@CammieCammie5 жыл бұрын
Preach SheRa
@airam64265 жыл бұрын
They only do what we allow. He will keep doing it as long as you stay with because theres no consequences. He manipulative ,verbally abusive ,insecure. My ex husband was this way ansd used to tell me no one would want me cause I have a child
@TheMorganVEVO5 жыл бұрын
Tiffany Howard Wow. I'm sorry to hear that. I'm glad he's your EX husband now though.
@uliarakovich65304 жыл бұрын
Why to the women get flack if we are being taken care of? If she has access to his funds, it's because the man allowed it, not all men want to split the expenses either. If she doesn't work, it's because that's what the man wants. He is literally forging an experience for himself at home that is distinctly different from that at work. It happens at the mercy of the man's free will specifically, go be mad at the men if you are jealous, lol.
@Melanie-le6mw5 жыл бұрын
Love this video 💞💯
@HappyBeeTV-BeeHappy3 ай бұрын
Women shouldn't submit to anything. Cast that out of your heads, ladies. A man paying for everything isn't a reason to sell yourself.
@belledamebebe5 жыл бұрын
Hi Shera. Can you type down the FB group so I can join please?
@laceboutique8805 жыл бұрын
Any ladies in the London, UK? Looking for rich men hunting buddies :-)
@sarinakarim25135 жыл бұрын
Lol for a husband yes
@acham32585 жыл бұрын
Yes thank you for this video-alaina
@brklyn29225 жыл бұрын
SheRa stop saying I am sorry for telling the truth!
@Paola01.5 жыл бұрын
I’m going to be like this!
@dumitruedelean595 жыл бұрын
12:37 so true lmao
@4yourhonour5 жыл бұрын
NEVER,NEVER,NEVER
@hiufuxthevideographer98773 ай бұрын
PICK A STRUGGLE
@sammi62795 жыл бұрын
Yas mom 👏🏼
@clauaome25 Жыл бұрын
1:57:10 preach!!!!
@misssincere57623 жыл бұрын
facts!
@Shayvideos15 жыл бұрын
Very honest video
@rvsaid19895 жыл бұрын
Guy I’m getting to know invited me to his nice place later should I go or not and Male excuse
@amaj_lex5 жыл бұрын
Im really starting to think I'm too late to find someone. Im 34😢😢😢
@nkreseknowledge22415 жыл бұрын
Girl you young!!
@theobservermelanin17465 жыл бұрын
If you listen and you want the Looks , the Body and Money? YOU WILL BE UNSUCCESSFUL
@piscistauro3165 жыл бұрын
You could always go older too :) A 20 or 30 something year old guy may think you’re “old”, but a 50 or 60 something year old would be delighted to be in your presence :) Not to mention, the older they are, the more money as they’ve had a longer amount of time accumulating their wealth in comparison to younger 30 or 40 year old men just now getting to where they want to be. And men age better so they’re less likely to look their actual age if you can look past that factor
@amaj_lex5 жыл бұрын
OutThere2017 that's excellent. I been following her strategy. At this time I dont have any female friends so I'mA do what Shera said and just go out by myself. I gotta get that courage. Ima catch up to you. Lol wishing you continued happiness😍😍
@chrisbelger67215 жыл бұрын
@@amaj_lex Don't listen to these women on here. Do you want to remain single forever?
@toribandz17135 жыл бұрын
puffy daddy got cheated on lol
@MissLovely8811 ай бұрын
36:00
@jubenysmartinez47905 жыл бұрын
Fabolous Video Letcia
@narc6995 жыл бұрын
Can a dusty be turned into a provider?
@NewAwakeningShifts5 жыл бұрын
Renee Patterson with the right woman they desire maybe.
@nnennajoyenekwizu16985 жыл бұрын
Yes, when you knock him over the head🙄!
@Michael.P2475 жыл бұрын
Renee Patterson yes that can happen if you’re patient and focused with him....
@El-fp5ek4 жыл бұрын
@Scarlet Rose right, my mum has been "patient" for 20 years and still counting
@T.a.s.h.o.n.n.a5 жыл бұрын
😊😊😊😊
@Lanainvestor5 жыл бұрын
smart
@ciarrabuzza5 жыл бұрын
The mother I have is you! You are great you are smart ask James friend to talk to me let’s be closer xox lol I just love. Yuh
@kbb6495 жыл бұрын
Hey beautiful😍
@tashaauset97305 жыл бұрын
I build for many years and refuse to stop!...me and Pickmesha coming for you stop taking our men..lol😁
@Michael.P2475 жыл бұрын
But some women met their guy when he didn’t have much and they’ve been together till now when he has more$$$.......if this was the women’s attitude from Day 1 then we won’t have cases where a man and woman evolved together. I like your videos but some of your principles are misleading to many women, just a few a okay. . Broke Men are Dusties, that’s funny lol
@PharaohLawLess15 жыл бұрын
Listennnnnnn All I'm saying is men should be with a woman who is a great teammate. He has her back and she has his back while they work TOGETHER to build an empire. Say if I was to deal with a gold digger and we only live and survive soley on my back....GOD forbid I get into an accident and then what...... Well, I'll tell you what's gonna happen....she gonna pack her bags and leave me in my time of need bcuz I can't provide for her anymore. Men have to be wise and find a good teammate who is really a ride or die and has his back through thick and thin, for better and for worse not be with dead weight. I could imagine I bring a chick to meet my mother and my mother asks her what does she do for a living and she says "she is not working..." My mother will slap me and tell me to get rid of her ASAP in front of the girl. My mother's mouth is terrible. She worked hard kept (she already inherited property and stuff from her father) and build her empire so she believes all women should "level up" and be business savvy NOT dead weight
@AmaLoveGoddessTV5 жыл бұрын
Thing is couples like that never end up building an empire. Instead they both might top at 50k each totalling 100k. I make that on my own
@PharaohLawLess15 жыл бұрын
PrincessAmandaTV That’s not true my mother and step father build a nice empire and both of them are doing great
@PharaohLawLess15 жыл бұрын
Cool Chicka Vlogs She inherited that property before she was born. She worked hard build and bought more properties with my step father. My biological father owned hotels and properties as well. I’m not gonna have dead weight with me so she can divorce me and get for laying on her back. I can do bad by myself. But the reality there are a lot of women who sees things my way
@AmaLoveGoddessTV5 жыл бұрын
@@PharaohLawLess1 she can divorce you and get alimony either way dummy