Worst Life Decisions, Manipulative Men and Abuse | Tamara Kalinic

[@yochevedshvarzblat1427]

Can’t even focus on what your saying cuz your makeup is soooo freaking flawless omg!

[@francescaluiso9397]

You should better listen

[@irinouk87]

The makeup is looking really nice, but I think there is also a face filter

[@naazz33]

Lmaoooo so true!!! I was thinking the same thing and that Etro dress ❤️❤️❤️

[@carolina111uk]

She is flawless ❤️

[@ergiergi1]

so me

[@plushthumpers]

i’m just catching up on your videos and your hair looks BEAUTIFUL in this video! and so does the makeup 🖤🖤🖤

[@QHuda_A]

It takes emotional intelligence to self reflect and share the warning signs of narcissistic and abusive men, which sadly is a reality for millions of women around the world. I wish we incorporate what is a healthy vs. abusive relationship and behaviours are within our educational curriculum from primary to high school. Many of the women who watch you, including myself appreciate you sharing what you learned from it. I definitely learned from my past and it made me practice the method of awareness to be loving to myself, trust my instinct and seek non-negotiable values and ethical standard in my friendship and romantic life.

[@lizamartinezteran1922]

Tamara, you should make a video of how you started your journey to become a fashion influencer/ vlogger! We want to learn about your experience and how it is done. It is such an unanswered question on how it actually happens!

[@BrendaBaBoom]

What you’ve said about following your heart and knowing yourself, along with owning your bad decisions takes a lot of COURAGE. What strongly resonated with me is your willingness to FORGIVE oneself is truly golden and spoken purely from the heart. You’re inspiring and have great value .... nothing can take that from you! Blessings🌷

[@sp682]

I love that you were so authentic. You’ve added substance to your style!

[@sadokatdusbekova1994]

This Etro dress is so flattering on you and you’re glowing. Please do exactly this dewy golden makeup tutorial 😘♥️🙏🏻 Xoxo from California

[@adeleelzinga]

Sadokat Dusbekova I agree. Looks fabulous

[@ZoeMay]

Looking absolutely beautiful! The dark hair, makeup and white top combo is everything 🥰

[@vanessadiazmena9172]

Dear Tamara , thank you for opening up with us . There's this saying .." if you think someone's life is perfect is because we don't really know that person " so I appreciate that you shared all of this with us .. the important thing is to learn from our own mistakes and move on with your head up . Love from Costa Rica

[@rebellair9153]

Most important thing to me is that you motivate me, when you have this kind of videos, and I’m thankful to you for that. ❤️

[@MiaInChina]

I’m so glad that someone so successful from my country is now talking about this because we just need to spread awareness and help a lot of women not just here but from all around the world... You are not alone and stand up for yourself... Thank you Tamara! 🙏🏼

[@carolmorgan3875]

Wow such honesty. I can relate with you about some bad decisions about men. Still we survive and wish you well for your future.

[@Nikysek01]

Tamara I am so happy about the fact that social media world has been changing finally! People are more open, they speak about normal life! These things happend to most of us but we see only “posh” side of influencers and then we think that our lives are not perfect as yours. Very very good! And to be honest i am with you from your first video! You are such a big character and beautiful woman and your journey is amazing. Everybody did mistakes that is life but you know it. Kisses from spain Nikol

[@mila_la]

Three times in my life i’ve worked with friends. Every time i was overworked and under or unpaid. And the friendship ended. Very bad idea

[@dijanaganic]

“Učim kako oprostiti sebi za loše odluke” super video. Pozdrav iz Bosne ❤️

[@mj-gw9wb]

I’m so happy and excited you decided to do this video!! But fr please do not worry/stress about sharing your personal and private life, that’s your decision to make and we’ll still watch your videos religiously ❤️

[@AheliSen]

amazing Tamara. It is so lovely when you open up about both aspects of life, the bad and the good. people really need understand that everyone has hardships; ones that you learn from, the good that you get from it, some times not, and how you make a lot more great decisions without even realizing. LOVED this video. would love to see more of Paris and you talking about life in general, nothing personal. LOTS OF LOVE FROM KOLKATA!!!

[@TheVillageFairy]

It's truly amazing how humble and wise you are for being just 31 years old. Thank you for being a role model for us all

[@inescatorze4375]

Dearest Tamara, I’ve come across your channel several times, and I find your content quite interesting. However, a couple of weeks back, I’ve been finding myself relating to you more and more. I’m very glad that you filmed this video, and I can confidently say that you are one of my favourite content creators! Wishing you all the best!

[@gemqueen1866]

Well done you, a very wise head on young shoulders! Life will only get better from here.

[@vesnasavevski2603]

Divno je sto pricas o temama koje nisu usko povezani sa modom,vec i sa “obicnim” zivotom. Drago mi je sto si shvatla da su te te neke lose odluke ustvari dovele do onih dobrih i do onog sto si sada. Ponosna sam sto neko sa ovih prostora je tako uticajan, a stoji chvrsto na zemlji :).Shaljem ti puno pozdrava iz Skoplja, nadam se da ces jednog dana biti goshca Skopje FW-a.Chuvaj se!❤️

[@rmshahable]

Tamara I’m so glad you opened up. It takes courage and open up to us makes the hurt from abusive men known to us so that we can try to help as your KZbin friends. Love you xoxo.

[@sstefanova]

This sharing is inspiration to me, you are inspiration Tamara! You have grown so much!

[@adeleyoungs4712]

Self reflection is the key to growing as a person. We all make mistakes, what’s important is firstly to forgive yourself & then move forward and learn from those mistakes to become a better human being. Thank you for taking the courage to post this Tamara 😘 Hugs Adele 🥰

[@siam8443]

honestly i have been watching your videos for a long time and none of the decisions that you talked about was surprising to me . you may not realize it but you are an open book. it is very easy to tell what you are going through

[@kornelijablasko7086]

Dear Tamara, I have been watching your videos for a long time,and I started watching them because you came from my country, Serbia, and I am very glad to see that one of our people has succeeded in life. It is in nature for a person to be superficial, to see your world as perfect, even though you, like everyone else, have bad days and problems. Thank you for sharing all aspects of your life with us.

[@gabrielgualdron820]

not only women but men fall for this too. It took me years to realize this, I felt like I was watching your video and I was reading the story of my last relationship. It is so difficult to realize it, I was codependent and lost track of who I really was. Ending it has been one of the best decisions I’ve ever met. I’m happy for you!

[@anselbaby2851]

Thank you for sharing your personal story! It's very strong and very heartfelt! In life one will always make mistakes, but, forgiving oneself is the key to moving forward! Thank you again!

[@randallm9025]

You look amazing, Tamara❤️❤️ Could you please do a video about how you started working in Fashion, your experience, tips, etc. Thank you, can’t wait for it❤️

[@miumiu3371]

Ovaj trud, rad i posvecenost moraju dobiti komentar.Pre svega zbog pozitivnog uticaja koji imaju na mene a verujem i na druge ljude.Svaka cast Tamtam ♥️ mozda mozda bi mogla tokom ovog virusa da ubacis jos jedan video u nedelji,a mozda i previse trazim.Mozda neki live?Ljubav do neba ako treba 😘

[@darinaangelova2882]

Dear Tamara, I'm so sorry you had to deal with an abusive relationship. Please don't think of it as a bad decision. Don't EVER victim blame yourself. There's enough victim blaming all around us. Plenty of smart, independent and talented women are blamed for being the victim of of a manipulative abuser. For not knowing better, for not chosing better, for not doing better. When all they did was fall in love or trust someone would treat them with dignity and respect. Nothing was your fault! Manipulative abusers spend their whole lives looking for victims they groom and gaslight into believing they deserve what they get. Into believing the relationship is completely normal and any issues are your fault. We live and we learn and hope you've learned you need to be treated with love, respect and kindness by any partner.

[@stylistcamilla]

This was a very honest video. Love how authentic you are. Love you girl!!!!

[@deezame]

Your skin and makeup is glowing

[@jadeinthashade]

I very much enjoyed this video, Tamara. Thank you for opening up even more and sharing the good and the bad with us. You are truly a lovely example and I appreciate the encouraging content you create. Love from L.A. ✨

[@closetbrave]

Thank you for being so honest and open with us 💕

[@feliciao.8326]

Incredible Tamara, I truly believe that everything that happened to you made this amazing and strong woman. I would love to meet you one day, learn from you. Cheers from Mexico 🇲🇽

[@valentinaandjelovic]

Hvala za ovaj video❤️ Ali koliko ja obozavam ove delice iz serije 'Friends', 'Sex and the City', a posebno sad iz 'Allo Allo', jedna od omiljenih serija! 🤍

[@fhd588]

One of my favourite vlogs!! Thanks Tamara for your transparency, it makes us feel normal

[@socialite8218]

Thank you for sharing your experiences. 🖤

[@NicoleAngelina_]

Thanks so much for sharing this video, Tamara! It must be so so tough to share this especially on such a public platform! I agree that every single person makes a good and bad decisions, that’s life! But we learn from our mistakes and also what we’ve done well. Our love and support is here for your always. Take care and sending love from Singapore xx

[@ChiaraAliesh]

I love that you vlog so much in the last few months! I feel like we got to know you so much better!! xxx

[@littlemissbrown1235]

Hey Tamara! I must say that it is really cool that you are opening up more to your community :) People get to know a bit more your personal side which makes you even more likable :)

[@darinkasavin1163]

Draga Tamara, presrećna sam što si na ovako neposredan način ispričala i/ili iznela ono što je suština života, emocijalna inteligencija je nešto što je u nama i što nas čini osobama kakve jesmo, samospoznaja naših odluka, kako smo se osećali šta i o čemu, kome smo razmišljali dok smo donosili odluke ili nismo, sve su to stvari koje nas čine osobama kakve smo danas, ja konkretno radim na sebi u smislu da pokušavam godinama da oprostim sebi, osećaj griže savesti je nešto što me je duuuugo sputavalo da krenem dalje a da nisam bila svesna toga... Na jedaan spontan način si da se tako izrazim "održala jedno predavanje o životu", imam samo reči hvale za zrelost, svaka reč i misao imaju svoju težinu,... Želim ti sreću, ljubav lepotu u životu🤗❤️🤗❤️🤗❤️

[@aioaneimiriam1104]

I am so happy you decided to make this video! It s so helpful and I can really relate to your story. I am also a pharmacy student in the Uk that came here from a country next to Serbia and I also love fashion. Hope you’ll make a video about your moving to England experience and what you learned. Lots of love 💗

[@snjezanasnjezana8332]

Jedan od boljih videa. Tko je god poslusao, vjerovatno se nasao u mnogo cemu. Ljubac Tamara ❤👌💯

[@tanjapavlovic8961]

Thank you for sharing your experiences, this was a very relatable video, especially when you talked about relationships with men and your co-workers, totally on point.

[@ahlemb6499]

Soooo proud of youuu Tamara I've been falowing you since 2012 honestly you're shining year after year I love the wise woman you've becoming😍😍 you're such an inspiration,I really appreciate you ,you're always motivate me to do my best,wish you all the best Tamara Much much of LOVE ❤❤❤❤❤

[@nostalgicme3619]

my mum didnt like my boyfriend (now husband) when we started dating. Once she was so desperate to convince me it is not the right person she started crying (she never said anything about all my other boyfriends! ever!). 20 years later i am married to this person, she loves his personality, and we are all super happy. She even apologised for being so wrong at the time.

[@mvp5933]

Please could you do an updated makeup tutorial or let us know what eyeshadow you use? It’s gorgeous!!!

[@jasmeenk5740]

It's really nice of you of you to open up like this. And get to know more of you thought process. Please do a video about when you moved away from home.

[@kmiklec]

Great video Tamara.

[@Heartbeatt101]

BEAUTY QUEENNNN 👸 Tamara. Your skin has been looking amazing. Remember guys it’s only a mistake if you didn’t learn from it otherwise it’s a life lesson 😘

[@betii8925]

You are glowing. Makeup is on point 😍.

[@sandra_w]

You are so right, forgiving yourself is so important!

[@sisigateva]

Thank you for making this video. I always find it very helpful to hear others mistakes/ bad decisions and learn from them. You are very brave to open up so much to us.

[@Tamarabuckovic1512]

Makeup tutorial please!! You are glowing ✨✨✨ & you seem happy ☀️

[@yasminela7074]

Love this video, very interesting. You know when you actually already know something and then someone talks about it and everthing is clarified to you? I love that 💕

[@lindaalene8372]

Thank you for this video. 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽💐💐💐💐💐

[@kellidifrancesco6424]

Your skin looks so good!

[@naimaspicks3436]

I would love it if you could list the makeup you’re wearing in this video, it’s so beautiful, especially your complexion!!!

[@Handbagqueen23]

Great video more people need to talk about getting out of abusive relationships.

[@Cobra-fi1rj]

Your body always looks smooth and shiny😍😍 can you please do a video on how you take care of your skin? Not skincare just body care

[@thatsandrac]

Love this videos so much🥰

[@faheemaniazmand9633]

Hi Tamara, please also share with us what skincare items you use. Your skin looks flawless!!

[@cml89almada]

Actually I would like to know what products you're using for the vlogs make up lately, it's so naturally glowing

[@carlyh6913]

Don't worry girl - just because you made a bad choice, doesn't make you a bad person, unlike the man who betrayed you., and please don't close your heart off to love because of this experience. The best thing about you is your beautiful loving heart, somebody will come along when you least expect it who is worthy of your trust

[@nikajazz6226]

Thank you for this video, Tamara! As they say everyone who comes into our life has something to teach us. So, even bad decisions teach us something. I do believe that everything happens for a reason. As you said the wiser we become, we start reading those signs (like in Alchemist book) and act accordingly. Love xxx

[@emilijaradonjic3049]

Thank you for sharing this I feel that we are so much more connected now! Much love ❤️❤️❤️

[@josephineandrews6206]

Having a strong will power helps to rebuild. You are strong and courageuse. 🌷❤ .

[@jab0623]

Thanks for for posting this! You look breathtaking today! Continue to stay safe and healthy!!🤗

[@wowalyssa]

I like you because you seem so nice despite being so famous and rich and elite. I hope you get more subs :)

[@andreajoanne2860]

Wow Tamara! you are so authentic ! Looooved this video ! Looking forward for the next one :)

[@lolamaven3971]

Such an honest video. thank you xoxo

[@nedabejbe]

Amazing video Tamara❤️

[@TiffanyDArtist]

You are so inspiring!

[@denyah85]

I love this vlog a lot . As you were sharing I was comparing it to myself. I have always been hardworking and ambitious but I always did everything by the book and tried to please everyone and never really took risks and maybe that’s why I feel like I have not achieved anything for myself. I’m working on myself and watching you and you vlogs I’m learning so so so much. So thank you Tamara for sharing 🌸🌸

[@tajnapodbreznjak8500]

Hvala za divan video. ♥️

[@haniawroblewska5531]

Great topic and video, thank you Tamara

[@lizamartinezteran1922]

This was amazing! Super useful and insightful. Very proud you for sharing this content, learning from them, and keep being the amazing person you are!

[@Lea-kd9dw]

tako volim kad reces da ces snimiti neki video upravo to i napraviš istog trena!

[@Noekovacss]

Im so sorry that this things happend to you !!! 🙏🏻you look amazing ☀️

[@aliciadel1606]

Hi Tamara! Great video, thank you for sharing your personal experiences🌈 actually as a backup plan or as next business idea you can create or do the collaboration for skin care or makeup line as you have a degree in pharmacy since you studied chemistry and biology. You know how certain components function.

[@dinavienna]

Ooohhh Tamara your first breakup resulting in assault made my heart skip A beat.. I worked with women who d experienced violence by intimate partners as a young lawyer .. it makes me so sad that for many young girls, as young as 18, this can end SO terribly 😢😢😢 glad it went alright for you (at least from what I get from your way of telling it 🤞🏻)

[@yinglin9537]

I am a Pisces too and i can tell you what i have learnt in life is that some peple should act on their head and some on their heart and Pisces are in the second group. whenever i try to find resoning in my decision it ends up being a disaster so i always listen to my intuition which as you said is more developed than other peoples. I dont think we dont learn from our bad choices it is just that we have a genuine believe in human beings and we never like judging people so we always give a second chance but then once we have reached the point of disappointment we make a decision to move on and there is no way to change that, we are very strong minded people 😊

[@zaneloteozola]

I liked this video, I think it is very important not to only learn from our mistakes, but also learn from others. Also we need to appriciate that we made good desicions more times than the bad ones 💞💞💞

[@mariac.b.5410]

Muy buenas reflexiones. Me encantaría escucharte hablar de tu experiencia de como liderar un team. También de como lo construiste. Me encantas!!!!

[@Antonioexbbbdaltoro]

i never comment on anything, but this video is exactly what i needed.

[@guilhermecavalcante8151]

I love your videos. I’m from Brazil 🇧🇷and I love your channel !

[@kimoodle]

pls dont feel stress for not sharing your private life , ur Vlog always GOOD :))

[@faheemaniazmand9633]

Hi Tamara, I love your style and your new apartment, it’s very beautiful and chic! Please tell us what make up your wearing, your skin looks amazing!!

[@nikailic]

Best, best video Tamara! 💙

[@markodejanovic1635]

The most important takeaway from this video is, always listen your intuition. The biggest mistakes I made was because I listened other people

[@snezanastefanovic8370]

Mogu samo reći svaka čast. Pozdrav

[@fionaolivia704]

Thank you do much for this video, great insights to learn from x

[@ash-uz1gm]

wow you look amazing Tamara !!! 🥰🥰🥰

[@marijatodorovic8595]

Bravo Tamara!💕

[@jelenadjukic5504]

Your makeup is an absolute perfection 😍

[@ildaukic93]

Thank you soo much for this video! I found it very helpful, especially the studying abroad part, as I'm going through the same situation now and I really needed someone to encourage me 😅 please make more videos like this ❤️

[@eb2944]

Loved this video. Could you please do a make up tutorial? Your make up and skin is flawless x

[@rosacordero8304]

Tamara tu eres una GUERRERA pa lante...... la vida continua y hay mucho que aprender y disfrutar de la vida.....