Would You Allow Your Wife to Come Back After 8 Years? (Full Video Link Below)

Clip from Episode 2 of Talking Points with Live Caller Available on X and Rumble: Would You Allow Your Wife to Come Back After 8 Years?
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[@thehappywifeschool]

Clip from Episode 2 of Talking Points with Live Caller Available on X and Rumble: Would You Allow Your Spouse to Come Back After 8 Years? X: bit.ly/3AeaDtY Rumble: bit.ly/4caTTkF 📞 Submit a question for a chance to be on the call-in show: bit.ly/3Vxmo5M

[@kenofken9458]

I might, but only if she got on well with my other two girlfriends!🤣

[@racebannon96]

The wife over here abandoned our kids and me. She had an affair with an alcoholic with medical issues. Reality hit her hard and she tried coming back two months later. I said No. I got the divorce done as quickly as possible. I got custody of our children. Her hatefulness went 10x. Everything was my fault including her unhappiness. I am still relieved she is gone and someone’s else’s problem.

[@rockkstah2550]

I can relate Brother😂

[@lowbloodprsure]

Congratulations. You are only smart and lucky guy.

[@TheChosen1406]

Unfortunately my wife left me saying that she needed to find herself. She had a new man before we even filed for divorce. I suspect he was there the last couple of years at least in our marriage.

[@racebannon96]

The wife over here hated me but hated being alone even more. She lined up a boyfriend before she left. I helped her pack her stuff. I had enough of her hateful behavior.

[@quantumharvestllc2082]

Ditto.

[@xyzct]

What do women want? Something else.

[@ScriptureFirst]

EXACTLY! 💯

[@Ekam-Sat]

That's the concept of chasing tell... it's been like that since the beginning of time.

[@nolan9221]

My aunt is a divorce lawyer and she says - "To all men if you truly know inside that you're not her #1 or #2 choice don't ever marry her...if you settle to be plan B or C she will never love you and she'll start planning the divorce while pregnant."

[@Josh-do8pg]

💯 if your not her first choice, you will never get her best. Never settle for a woman who think shes settling for you.

[@nickdipaolofan5948]

@@Josh-do8pg Even if you ARE her first choice, give it a couple years and she will eventually see Chad from sales, mike from church, or Lamont the kids coach and wonder if she truly is with the best man she could get. That is hypergamy 101, they are always looking for something better. Even Tom Brady's wife cheated on him.

[@davidharris7667]

Why would anyone make such commitment just to be number 2? Do you want a company of #2's? Let me let you in on a little secret. Just plainly tell the truth and what your intentions are and they better be genuine or else you'll get watered down results. Does that make sense? Waste less time Money and recorcess trying to take short cuts and imagine what your return would be if it's not genuine like with a kiss, I can feel if your not real in your kiss. That's why some people avoid kissing.

[@rockkstah2550]

I’m trying to warn my landlord roommate about this and he’s not listening. I can only sit back and watch the drama unfold…

[@bashiruddinahmad408]

How do you find out your not her #1 choice?

[@anonymoussurname]

If a woman leaves you never take her back. If a woman rejects you - never take her serious but use her recreationally.

[@frogbox4184]

Even that offering too much apathy is the way better.

[@terrygugel3803]

Biggest mistake I ever made!! Gone for 18 years took her back, 20 years later costs me around 150k 😢

[@Steverz32]

You can NEVER take them back, cause you will never feel comfortable that they won’t do it again! It’s not an if, it’s a when😮

[@rockkstah2550]

The answer is a NO with a smile….

[@davidskues7153]

Karyn, talking with you was tremendously helpful! Our talk helped me move past some internal obstacles of mine. You encouraged me to see myself, my wife, my marriage with greater clarity free from the manipulation. You encouraged me to make my own informed choices based on my values. To take ownership and authority over my own choices and consequences, not as a victim, but as a competent and capable adult. Since our talk, I have been learning and growing in many ways, especially in self-acceptance, confidence, groundedness, contentment and peace. I am in a much more stable place mentally and emotionally and it shows up in better results in all my relationships - including with my estranged wife! I am not being manipulated or manipulating. Rather I am standing firm in my experience and values without any need to appease others or abandon myself for external approval. Not inconsiderate to others OR myself! Thank you so much for helping me make this perspective shift with kindness and truth. You are a 💎 keep on shining that light of yours every day!!! Numbers 6: 22-27 To you, your team, and your family with all my gratitude and brotherly affection.

[@shaynemcmillan8315]

She done the math after the paycheck

[@davidskues7153]

Yep. I see that fully now without any doubt.

[@johngmulhatton9794]

Once bitten twice shy, irrespective of who throws in the towel first; that is where the partnership ended. Over and out, thanks for going calling quits. ( Male or Female) You wanted to test the playing field, keep going.

[@kellygreenii]

No. Had a gf that I would have married, try to double back after 18 months. She learned that there was nothing waiting for her. She had shown that I could count on her loyalty. After that I was done.

[@quantumharvestllc2082]

I made up my mind as a teen that any woman would only leave me once. In 40 years, I've never had reason to doubt that choice.

[@leontsiaousis2610]

It's been 3 years post divorce, she is still smashing random men from what I heard. I will never take her back.

[@leontsiaousis2610]

@thehappywifeschool-2 anytime, bless you.

[@johnrathbun2943]

There is no "I'm leaving to find myself!" The meaning of that statement is I'm leaving to see if I have better options. Yourself is within you. It isn't around the corner. When you stood in front of the world and agreed to your vows and to your loved one, you had a choice and you agreed to go along with the marriage. Either keep your word or just stay dating. Life is about making promises and if a better option comes along then it voids your commitment. A marriage is about placing your loved one before your wants. Your a team and a family.

[@davidskues7153]

You got that right Brother!

[@budatrox9171]

I had to watch this over 5 times. These are the exact words she was telling me. She wanted to find herself and her identity.

[@racebannon96]

These women are miserable, and they think jumping into a new relationship will make them happy. Let them leave.

[@stephenvarney334]

I hope you divorced her

[@namaste758]

​@@racebannon96 And it works for a few months until the limmerance wears off. Then they are left with themselves again and nowhere to turn

[@Fitlife4L]

THE ANSWER IS A RESOUNDING NOOOOOOOOOOOOOO?!!!!

[@kaiserhead]

One chance, per woman, per lifetime. Never go back, always move forward.

[@atcustompainting]

Her divorce doesn't sever the one flesh union God had established. I feel like half of me is dead.

[@jeffdutcher3676]

No but her becoming one flesh with another , adultery does , that is why Christ did permit a divorce in that case alone .

[@s1n4m1n]

I’m a meal ticket.

[@JeffersonRah]

She said the same to me when she left

[@JeffersonRah]

"I need to find myself"

[@User31084]

Draft ALL adult women, unless they have school aged children that live with the draft aged female!!!

[@JamesMorris1301]

Never. Revenge is best served cold

[@davidskues7153]

I appreciate the quote fro. Star Trek The Wrath of Khan. Roman Emperor Marcus Aurelius has said that the best revenge is to live well and not be like them. Paraphrased....

[@1gramps4julian]

8 hours, days, weeks, months or years... take her back? NFW! 👎

[@mrwillwgp]

No. Maybe as friends but nothing more.

[@VinceA-jq6ds]

I wouldn’t take her back after 8 seconds. You wanted out and left.. done. Gone. Git. Buh-bye.

[@artryan5330]

Absofuckenluty not!!

[@stephenvarney334]

Best response I’ve seen

[@melkerner]

Mine calls it "focusing on self care". Never mind that she hasn't kissed me or touched me in 8+ years and essentially sexless for almost 16. It's all about her she still gets wife treatment and taken care of without all that nasty and risky affection. 1 child left in the home.... just a few more years...

[@garrettgrimes7561]

You should respect yourself more & divorce her. Life is too short young man. Staying w her is like feeding the monster. Stop it!

[@jasoncarter4343]

Why would you allow this?

[@damianwright3690]

Because as sure as anything, you're currently setting the example of how awful a marriage is and that you should stay. That is not a lesson any child wants to watch because while they're not mature adults, they're also not stupid, they can see the hurt, the constant sniping, the rejection. Stop doing it to yourself and stop showing them that, if they're male, that they have to take that behaviour for years and, if they're female, that dishing it out is how a proper marriage should be.

[@melkerner]

@@damianwright3690 That's just it, there is no sniping, just dead zone avoidance of sexual intimacy and personal touch. we get a long, have fun, play games, travel, hang out - she is just shut down to all sexuality. We don't hash things out in front of the kids. They are adopted and don't want to feed insecurity or create problems for them. So people keep asking "why do you stay" - because it's a d*ck move to abandon the kids to god knows whatever her next avoidance / check out will be.

[@solomonsilva]

You're a fool for staying, don't you think she's thought about the same situation as you. Don't wait. Start all over now. You'll be happy you did

[@scu2r]

The second your wife/ GF says that, dismiss her instantly and don’t ever look back. She is a cheater.

[@teddyattwood7441]

What can I do as a good man? Been in a sexless marriage for 19 yrs now. Feeling neglected, cheated, bait & switch, no connection or passion, roommates with constant tension in the air. I've tried many things and made multiple attempts to encourage physical connection to no avail. Any help please.

[@frankslevett3436]

Women want “More & Something Else” she wanted to be with other Men or a man she had lined up. Plain and simple

[@michaeldwire7200]

Tried to reconcile after four years after divorce ! She abandoned me! You try! But you have to let go! Its been eight years this year! Not even God will go against your free will! At least I was willing! Not anymore! When the ship goes down! Grab a life vest, and hang on! It's a rough ride! But If you truly love Christ, he'll get you through anything! If you're an idiot and don't believe in Christ you can go down with the ship! 😂😂😂

[@michaelsanchez8457]

She wants Fabio.

[@erictoombs4842]

...but she can only get Flabio.

[@quantumharvestllc2082]

....right up until she gets him.

[@richo1177]

I wouldn't take back after 1 month let alone 8 yrs later

[@SC-or2ek]

I want 10 million in my bank account b4 i take you back .no money no hotdog 😅😅

[@SweepTheLeg2023]

🤔 *No.* *Wait what's her portfolio look like?*

[@jackdeniston6150]

Yup, do the math.

[@MemphisBBQ640]

LOL

[@SweepTheLeg2023]

@@jackdeniston6150 👊🏼😃

[@davidskues7153]

😅

[@steveprice9737]

Would cost her a lot financially after screwing me over. She realised her mistake about 2 months after leaving me to find herself and all that nonsense, moved in with a guy , it turned bad quickly but I moved on emotionally due to her cruelty, my daughter was really ill in hospital and my dad had just died and I got no support from her. So million quid nonrefundable deposit to start with... second thoughts... nah😅

[@nycepapi]

fuuuggggg no 😂....Duet 24:1-4

[@cowboy101lisa]

I came here to say this

[@sickpuppy575]

Hell to the no.

[@allinfortheKing]

Of course

[@EDP1]

absoluut not .

[@geraldbrown8711]

That's painful to hear

[@KCBluesJams]

No

[@surrealg]

Just off the title....HELLLLLL NOOOOOO!

[@BrolyPowerMaximum]

No. And cheating is straight out a divorce.

[@1werewolf]

Its ridiculous how some women act. Good riddance.....

[@iamwhatever1394]

I need your help, my wife had been acting weird for the last 2 years she won't go on dates with me or anything she just wasn't into intimacy anything and I did everything to do and show her love and then she went and filed for divorce which I had no idea I got an email at the final judgment and made it to the last hearing it was all take place without me knowing and the judge granted a divorce and I was kicked out of the house 10 days that I built she took everything she's become a monster towards me and I absolutely never knew any of this was going on have a good husband a good man loyal to her devoted to her good father I do it all

[@omegaman2767]

Absolutely NO!! The grass is greener on the other side, because there is alot of 💩 over there....😃

[@kodamooshface1108]

My who?

[@atcustompainting]

Yea I would. I love her as my own body and and have always striven to love her as Christ loves his church. The institution of marriage is of God. Its not a human institution. I pray for my wife every day.

[@AKITAHUSKI]

I bet you're being ironic, right?

[@doobyskoo8046]

He is speaking the Word! Don’t ever mistake God’s Truth in this fallen world! All things are possible through Christ! Stay on that narrow path True Believer!

[@Pieterpittigeportiepeperpathe]

​@@AKITAHUSKI Too much believe....

[@davidskues7153]

Amen. Even our Heavenly Father has his limits and cuts off the relationship at some point. Yet He welcomes us back when we confess our sins AND repent AND turn to him AND trust him going forward. It is possible between us too, but the boundaries have shifted and become much more fortified. There is NO MORE SLACK OR WIGGLE ROOM and access to any part of me is severely limited AND requires pesistently consistant proof of actions and behaviors over LOOOOOONNNNGGGG PERIODS OF TIME.

[@Allan_aka_RocKITEman]

@thehappywifeschool >>> Great video...👍

[@SALTYCOMBATDIVER-ExInstructor]

Wow, thank you Karyn!

[@thehappywifeschool]

@SALTYCOMBATDIVER-ExInstructor, you're very welcome.

[@SALTYCOMBATDIVER-ExInstructor]

@thehappywifeschool you know it has been two months since my wife filed and I'm having a hard time accepting the reality. I really do appreciate you Karyn, very much!

[@krakoosh1]

No

[@jamesyoung187]

Why? If she wasn't happy or a wasn't good wife before, she isn't going to have changed any....... If she comes back after that periods of time, then how do we know she's not coming back to "recharge" another allotment of cash and prizes?