Would You Have an Open Relationship? | Keep It 100 | Cut

[@alicethemadrabbit1842]

"i love him so damn much I don't want to see other people and I want him to feel the same." That sums it up for me.

[@Molehasmoles]

Sleep with other people*

[@philipbuffett3030]

that's toxic asf lmao

[@emiliamedea478]

yo pues quien más why?

[@eyeball000]

@@philipbuffett3030 It's toxic to want someone to love you the way you love them?? shut up 🙄

[@MarkFilipAnthony]

@@eyeball000 not to want it but to expect it

[@theunbreakablesoulscrewtal4365]

I don’t think my heart can handle an open relationship. It will affect my self esteem

[@Solidude4]

Same. Imo open relationships are really only possible or successful for people who are very secure in themselves. I'm not at all that kind of person, I would constantly compare myself and worry about not being good enough. I admire people who can be in open relationships but I don't think that'll ever be me.

[@fjellyo3261]

L O S E R

[@samantha489]

fjellyo32 how are they a loser ?

[@durururururururu]

@@fjellyo3261 with that attitude, no one is gonna love you, or even like you. even your own mother.

[@ioanaiordache4721]

Same...for me with one person in enough.

[@jessicavanzeijderveld]

"I don't want to share my food so I don't want to share my man" YES GIRL GET OUT OF MY HEAD.

[@vidarhagevi2766]

That's not what she said. "like I'll share my food, but I dunno if I wanna share my man."

[@jessicavanzeijderveld]

@@vidarhagevi2766 ah misheard it but cheers!

[@mariamalmosawi4419]

???? What-

[@rosegold973]

Well Jessica I feel YOU on that comment 🤣🤣🤣

[@philipbuffett3030]

well i don't wanna eat the same thing every day so

[@dangerjose8240]

"I dont like transferring energy with people I dont want to transfer with." I felt that.

[@jasmineaghedo4038]

Me too, I did an Amen on that one

[@justinegonzalez7400]

yeah that one made me think of open relationships in a way I hadn't yet thought of

[@kenshelby7801]

I was open to it before that tbh then I was like oooooohhh no get that out my house

[@tinto717]

can someone explain "people I dont want to transfer with" in that context?

[@LeahVassin]

tinto717 as in whoever their partner decides to sleep with, they transfer energy, & then it comes back to her when they’re intimate.

[@zoharnakash7361]

Would be cool if they did a poll at the end showing how many people are in an open relationship, how many had, how many people had not, how many would want, and how many wouldnt want

[@sergiodelrioreyes7655]

I've been thinking the exact same for some time

[@merialshyn2740]

Such a great idea

[@ryleypalmer]

A bar chart

[@AS-qi9mb]

I can't even grasp what it's like being in a relationship with _one_ person, let alone several lol

[@ejaaz7260]

I'm just sad that I could relate to this 😅

[@theguyintheback4714]

It’s hard just agreeing on the rules

[@infinitetranquilo]

Same

[@masonc975]

I never really understood the label "open relationship". The whole point of dating is the exclusion, otherwise it's kind of just "I'm having a friend with benefits relationship with my roommate, and we see other people." Not to mention usually putting the label on a previously exclusive relationship tends to lead in a break up or divorce simply because they were not emotionally mature enough to set the right boundaries for this relationship. It's very draining and the people in this video who said "no" really gave good responses to why they wouldn't be comfortable with that. "Here's my home, here's my husband.", "You can't have intimacy you're just friends." (I think this statement mostly implies that a split focus on being intimate distracts from being truly close to one person), and "I don't like transferring energy with people I don't know". It's just an incredibly draining process that takes a ridiculous amount of work to pull off.

[@joyj6793]

AS00400349 being in several just wow

[@hevymental6319]

“Would you ever have an open relationship?” “I have had an open relationship.” “How’d that go?” “It ain’t open no mo, closed book, deal shut, game ova!” 🤣😂 Bless the heaven that sent you all!

[@laura.bt83]

Your name is genius. Just needed to point that out. 👌🏻

[@rosem1740]

🤣🤣🤣

[@adamtak3128]

She always has the best closing remarks haha

[@playz4516]

Adam Tak I was waitin on somebody to say it

[@hevymental6319]

@Lauri B. Thanks love

[@adwoasarfoa5333]

“welcome to my house and my husband” 😂

[@MarieEvaVolmar]

I'm just I can't 😂😂😂

[@Kagiso22]

I died when I heard that 😂

[@alisonwilson2111]

😂😂😂

[@markusaskeland8797]

When did they say that?

[@Gabrielle-wg4ik]

@@markusaskeland8797 1:13

[@minna6079]

1:10 “I don’t like transferring energy with people I don’t want it transferred with” - well that sums up my reason perfectly

[@DA-js7xz]

New age shit is dumb af.

[@keytelherrerasuazo935]

She gets me.

[@britt1953]

Exactly, no one in this video could’ve explained it better

[@luckymia5]

Then wouldn’t you choose people that you actually want your energy transferred with?

[@ga9100]

But ur transferring energy even with out having sex with them

[@YananoBere]

The problem lies in wanting someone to "fulfill you" when what we're really looking for is validation and gratification aka Ego. That's why we get "bored". People become objects to be used and not subjects to be loved.

[@YananoBere]

@@emmabunch-benson7922 Couldn't agree more. The best definition I've found for true love is " a profound yearning for the greater good of the other" So you actually relish in the act of giving of yourself. That's when relationships are mutually fulfilling. That won't be the case when a partner is narcissistic like you rightly point out.

[@madisonbrown3296]

👏👏👏

[@onepunch2310]

do you like pizza? cuz I want a pizza dat ass then find another relationship don’t cheat or come up with an excuse like this to hide the fact that you want to cheat on your current partner but keep the benefits they give you.

[@ty_hens]

Very true, I think polyamory has been such a big thing caused by the way love has been portrayed to us. More as a goal to feel as though we can fill our daily attention and validation. Although I don't disagree with polygamy, I do think its often skewed to look like the person wants the open relationship because they want what's best for their partner. When I do think it has a lot more to do with them not being validated or have the attention of enough people. No hate whatsoever, just an opinion.

[@riparia2702]

Yes, that is definitly an issue. But I am still wondering, if it's not possible to love more than one subject. It would not mean in the same way, because every relationship is unique, but I can imagine loving multiple persons because of who they are and also wanting to sexually engage with them... You get what I mean?

[@TheBlueMuffin100]

Tbh if my partner asked me to be in an open relationship I would be scared that I’m not enough for them :/

[@cleoa6006]

yeah because why else would they ask

[@kenshelby7801]

@@cleoa6006 I'd ask because we have different sexual drives and I wanted him to make sure he had the chance to be ok ya know because I knowingly was like nah I in my core cant but we love each other so much but I'm domt want him to be drying up lol long story short he said absolutely no lol but that's a reason

[@Erikshan]

@@kenshelby7801 Then you get with a person who matches the sexual drive. How hard is it to understand this basic thing :) Its me saying like i want to eat pizza but i will eat burger but then i will eat pizza from somewhere else. If you want the damn pizza, get yourself the damn pizza on the first place :)

[@lucasfelipe024]

U don't have to be enough for anyone. Sexual attraction is not something u can't control and it has NOTHING to do with how much she loves u. Monogamy is just a cultural behavior. Monogamy is not synonymous of love. The society teaches us the opposite. That's why we get so frustrated when the monogamy doesn't work, but the question is: why does it have to work? Because is the "right" thing? Because I'm jealous and instead of treating this horrible feeling I want to take someone's freedom?

[@chel91]

Erik but why do you feel entitled to create these rules for the way other people live their life. if YOU think you should be with ONE person go right ahead and do that but calling monogamy and the restriction to one sexual partner a “basic thing” is gross and implies that people willing to explore themselves and other people and the world aren’t normal, and that’s not something you or anyone else can determine

[@idilvanderwoodsen3390]

isn't it interesting how some are saying that they don't believe that 'all their needs' could be fulfilled by one person? The real question behind this for me would be, why are you looking for your partner to fulfil so many needs for you? (i will say except emotional (love, support, etc) and sexual needs as that's essentially what a relationship is). this might be controversial, but i feel like people should come into relationships being whole, not expecting to find another half, a partner is meant to provide emotional support and unconditional love, what else do people expect? and I feel like if they don't and that you feel you need to be with someone better suited for you, then they're not the right person in the first place

[@moochimichimoo]

YES EXACTLY. I feel like if someone is constantly seeking love from others, there needs to be some work done within yourself. IT don't matter how many partners you get, it won't fulfil that gap within.

[@sarahgordis]

Plus, what about, you know, friends? Platonic love is real and important -- just as important as romantic love.

[@idilvanderwoodsen3390]

moochimichimoo i 100% agree with you!

[@idilvanderwoodsen3390]

Sarah G yes!! very true

[@justanotherpersonxo]

I think no one is truly "Whole" we all are constantly growing changing battling different insecurities no matter how confident we think we are and when we want a relationship we want to feel close enough to someone to tell them all our deepest fears. To be naked phisically and mentally and have someone care for us no matter what it's difficult to do that to multiple people for most of us. Is hard as is to do it with one person. To be open and feel accepted and to accept and love someone with all their flaws. I expect us to share the same core values and respect each other. I expect us to work hard to be as "whole" as we can but i don't need this person to be super perfect or to fulfill all my needs . If they have needs lest work through them together and let's work my issues too. That's what life is about. Growing together. Cause life can get very hard sometimes. It's easier to go through it with someone by your side. If you have multiple relationships i think is hard to be full with everyone. If you have multiple sex partners and can manage not to feel threatened that this person you gave yourself to fully will possibly find someone else to do life with. As much as people want to ignore it sex is not just a phisicall thing You release pleasureble hormones. We react differently to it and it can make things messy. I think some people can do it but not the majority. Not in a sustainable anyway way. Maybe for a few years.

[@Hypertoniclemon]

I understand the concept of doing poly because “it’s hard to get everything you want from 1 person” but, I have personally never expected that from a partner. There’s compromise.

[@RollyPagz]

I love your comment, so true

[@esmfamil5086]

Same

[@thenoseyskeptic]

Right? I guess we've been told so many times through pop culture that you need to find that person that'll fulfill you and your needs, which is unrealistic. Those types of relationships crumble to the ground

[@jocelynherrera1023]

perfectly said

[@ty_hens]

Exactly!!! You're partner is not there to fill every nook and cranny of your life. They are there to HELP you seal the cracks in the wall. To build and stronger foundation in which you and that person can build a house on. Not to be the medication to every one of your existing problems. Monogamy is accepting the marriage of two complimentary lives, not the bandages that cover each of your scars.

[@Jobe-13]

I could never. I wouldn’t be comfortable knowing my partner is banging and kissing on someone else.

[@gjenetashaqiriazemi.7868]

Same. I would puke, that's straight up disgusting.

[@lucasfelipe024]

@@gjenetashaqiriazemi.7868 other kinds of relationships are not disgusting. Disgusting is being jealous to point of taking someone's freedom specially when u love them

[@monicacreator3168]

@@lucasfelipe024 disgusting is using your partner love for you to have an open relationship, "if you love me, you would accept the fact that I want to bang other people" ? Well if you love me you would accept that I dont want to share my partner with others

[@lucasfelipe024]

@@monicacreator3168 "for me to have an open relationship" for ME? I'm dating alone? I want to be free and want my partner to be free too. There's nothing selfish and wrong with that. open relationship is not using someone's love for anything. I know a lot of ppl who have an open relationship and don't fuck with anyone else only because they don't WANT to. Open relationship is not polygamy. There a diversity of relationships beyond monogamy and saying one of em is disgusting is very ignorant. It doesn't make any sense for me the idea of "sharing" someone bc we're not someone's property. If u don't want ur partner to be free is bc u're jealous, insecure or possessive or all of them. But ok, u do whatever u want. But freedom is not a problem. In a open relationship we don't have this kind of conversation u mentioned bc both understand that we're free and that love must be this way. This is not use someone's love. But humans have always felt disgust towards the diversity, we've seen it in throughout our history. It is sad ppl think like this yet

[@erika2377]

Lucasfelipedelima Cunha you’re saying open relationships shouldn’t be labeled as disgusting but you’re shaming upon monogamy. The hypocrisy

[@j.j.7666]

“I feel like an open relationship is the same as being single” Wow that’s exactly what im thinking

[@guyphilippenguessan5856]

Me too

[@Mari_anne_]

Yess

[@danaltamirano2546]

Totally

[@xosommi]

Sameee

[@tiagomori4593]

@@danaltamirano2546 that's hard to hear when you're on an open relationship. Like, me and my boyfriend have all the same things monogamous couples have, except for sexual exclusivity. We love each other, want to marry someday, do cute things together, know each other's families... Why would it be the same of being single? I don't think romantic relationships are based on sexual exclusivity.

[@davidilogho]

Interviewer: Why? Guy: Why not? Interviewer: 🤔

[@binupeenu]

Why tho?

[@lordecsunta2738]

That was an easy but stupid answer

[@MetteMeers]

@@lordecsunta2738 it was basically saying ''idk fam i am kinda dumb lol so imma pass on as quirky''

[@laneythelame]

"I would never say welcome to my house... and my husband" took me outtt 😂

[@hannah3970]

She spitting straight fax 😂

[@cleoa6006]

I don't wanna have split loyalties. That sounds like a recipe for disaster, and therapy. I agree with the person that said having an open relationship is basically like being single.

[@carlosalonso4436]

That's no true. If you are in a open relationship you have a partner that you really love and he/she loves you back, but you can have sex with other people. This is obviously different from being single. (Sorry for the crappy English :s)

[@shparto1118]

It's like being single in a sense that you're constantly seeking people, flirting, having sex and an emotion coctail from being intimate with all these other people. So yeah, both sides have a point but don't impose your opinion on anybody

[@Erikshan]

@@carlosalonso4436 So basically a hall pass, right? Like allowed cheating?

[@carlosalonso4436]

@@ErikshanIf you want to phrase it like that, yes. The main difference is that open relationship aren't unethical.

[@Erikshan]

@@carlosalonso4436 From my viewpoint those relationship are not exactly ethical to being with. For me that just shows lack of self control and respect. Its is all about sex. So in a sense its like being single as they can have sex with multiple people but if both the parties involved are happy that way who are we to say anything :)

[@thegirlhasnoname2749]

2:51 "ill open the door for him and tell him get out, get with it buddy" this lady is my spirit animal, RESPECT

[@cm-pr2ys]

“Would you ever be in an open relationship?” Hell NO.

[@thankyouforbeingafriend9632]

Charles Fournier Phaneuf polyamory is not for everyone. It’s the same as monogamy

[@thankyouforbeingafriend9632]

Charles Fournier Phaneuf what I mean as the same, I meant not every person is for polygamous relationship. Just like monogamy, not everyone is for monogamy.

[@thankyouforbeingafriend9632]

Charles Fournier Phaneuf what do you mean why?

[@thankyouforbeingafriend9632]

Charles Fournier Phaneuf dude...can you pick up of what I’m saying? I answered you first question. I shouldn’t have to ask any more

[@thankyouforbeingafriend9632]

Charles Fournier Phaneuf okay then 🤦🏻‍♀️

[@nya6743]

The last girl: It ain't open no more The ad: *Sorry, we're closed* sign KZbin: perfect timing- 100

[@jelenamaric3061]

Relationships are work and time. I ain’t got time for more than 1 😂😂

[@hannah3970]

Spittin straight fax 🙌

[@randomname7546]

Not all open relationships consists of love between more then two people. Like for instance a couple can stay together, while agreeing to sleep with a few other people, but not loving them or dating them.

[@hannah3970]

Random Name I don’t see the point in that. Just my opinion though.

[@jelenamaric3061]

Random Name I understand that too. I just feel like something’s gotta give. If it’s not your partner maybe it’s also your alone time, your hobbies etc

[@DA-js7xz]

Sometimes having more than 1 is easier. Less pressure off of you when someone else has your back. Or they have someone else to vent to lol.

[@inhduyquang414]

Is it just me or the one at 4:03 was hurt deeply in the past and the question raised really really bad memories and emotions?

[@eyeball000]

aw i didnt notice that at first but you're so right they're sniffing and in tears :c

[@brandonspence8318]

Gaby Nava I wonder who was the one to screw it up

[@davidtrujillo1689]

It’s a two second clip taken out of context, how can you make that judgment of a person’s past or feelings whithout knowing even their name?

[@inhduyquang414]

@@davidtrujillo1689 Judgement is a bit of a strong word don't you think? I simply just made my guess based on what I see. Yes, I can be completely wrong here and that is why I phrased it as a question and not a statement.

[@AzazelHash281]

That’s projecting but okay

[@melacid]

"I'd get bored" is something so selfish to say about a partner. People you supposedly love don't exist for your entertainment

[@christiemarie5856]

This hit me so hard. I’ve heard so many people say they get bored or the relationship isn’t exciting. But what exactly do they need? Chasing that high never ends; searching for someone to entertain you 24/7. People can’t be alone with their own thoughts.

[@bluetuholic5802]

_acidsmiles_ Definitely wondered poorly but I get what they mean. Anyway love is technically inherently selfish.

[@emilyinfp704]

You could say that about monogamy too?

[@eoghan.5003]

If they don't exist for your entertainment, then what's the problem with - with the SO's consent - being entertained by someone else?

[@marlenprax6620]

_acidsmiles_ exactly! When you're bored then it's probably not a good idea to even stay in the relationship because that sounds like someone who doesn't want to invest time in making the relationships less "boring"...

[@OMGitsShrimp]

Whether you want,or are in, an open relationship isn’t just down to confidence. It’s also about your love language: how you love, and how you want to be loved, and the values you hold in relationships. It’s different for everyone. To each their own. I can’t ever see myself in an open relationship. Invites too many risks and variables into my life imo.

[@eyeball000]

Think thats why i the idea of it. I need stability and reliability and i could never get that from an open relationship.

[@oliviabrasier6990]

I feel like a lot of people say they would but as soon as they try it out, they would realise how damaging it can be

[@eyeball000]

People like the idea of being able to sleep around but fail to realize that making love DOES have emotional ties.

[@MarkFilipAnthony]

Its only damaging if u dont agree or follow the rules established Sleeping around is not the worst part, its the trust issue part that is the problem Its the feeling of loosing controll

[@ArkadianDream]

I feel like that's because none of us has been raised and educated to maintain that level of open and honest communication. All we've seen is monogamous relationships and there's the romanticization of possessiveness and belonging to one person, like, especially in hetero relationships. I mean, I do realize it and I know it's not inherently good but I can't help but abiding by it cause it's so rooted in me. At the end of the day its fine tho I do genuinely believe monogamy works

[@nacional4ever]

@@eyeball000 sex can be had without emotions. People just don't know how to separate them. Sex isn't always emotional.

[@dan7564]

Gaby Nava not for everyone, you think every Hooker falls in love with every client?

[@varali915]

If I'm in a serious relationship it means I loooove that person so much that I'm willing to devote my time, and a part of my life to them, the fact that they get intimate with different people while still having a "main" person is quite disheartening for me, because it's our intimate moment, it's my life and yours that we've chosen to intertwine. Open relationships aren't my cup of tea, I consider myself progressive, just because open relationships does not walk with me doesnt mean I'm not.

[@philipbuffett3030]

🤮🤮🤮🤮

[@LeUtubeAcc]

Yup. Fact

[@avalonh-b.3412]

yo pues quien más ...

[@TimoMeijerify]

I've heard from friends that besides communication, scheduling is a huge challenge xD

[@phoenix9531]

Completely agree

[@jalerisun5831]

Having 8 kids is NOT the same as having 8 boyfriends

[@jeaninehicks2907]

jalerisun Agreed! You make children and some ppl do love their children equally. Boyfriends are ppl you find at bars, clubs, and in the streets 😂. No way These two situations are similar.

[@eyeball000]

@@jeaninehicks2907 ikr? Children are MADE from you. You get to hold their hand on the journey of life and help them explore and experience the world. You get to help them discover who they are. Sleeping with a stranger on Tinder is NOT the same wtf lol

[@toxicpositivity123]

all of this dude’s takes are fucking pathetic

[@Mabhonzoo]

jalerisun 😂😂😂

[@carmenbaby]

also my mom has only 3 and I could feel the imbalance like damn

[@luanaviana1966]

People in this comment section are definely mixing up open relationships with polyamory

[@esmfamil5086]

Can u explain? Aren't they the same thing?

[@flynnflanfck]

ESM FAMIL polyamory is having committed romantic/sexual relationships with more than one person. Open relationships are more just for the sex, but your commitment is to one person still. So sex with many people, short flings manybe, but you’re really WITH one person

[@esmfamil5086]

@@flynnflanfck oh ok thanks for the information. I thought they were the same👍☺ honestly i think your comment is underrated

[@enkelikarkki]

i definitely mixed them up too, open to polyamory, hell no to open relationships

[@yashminjamal6517]

@QUEENDOM ikr

[@Javijavijavi]

4:06 has been my crush since the first video i saw of them ❤️ lmao the swag is out of this world

[@tanealstewart8544]

1000% same

[@sandrodzneladze9490]

Isnt that a women from Kitchen nightmares?

[@wge621]

omg same. I'm a mostly straight woman, and if I'm into girls they're usually hyper feminine, but she is just so damn attractive for some reason. super confident and self-assured, I think that's what's so attractive

[@scotttape7622]

YESSSS ME TOO I LOVE SEEING THEM IN THESE VIDEOS ❣️❣️

[@lechatlola]

ugh, same!

[@MrsTrafford]

I have told my last 2 partners I know I'm not all that, so if you need someone else, tell me and we'll work it out. They both cheated. Didn't tell me about the chick they screwed who was dirty, then the second guy grabbed a girl from the bar and quit coming home to see our kids. I left. Just be honest. If you hide things from me, the trust is gone.

[@alicethemadrabbit1842]

That's the thing... I don't think cheaters actually care about freedom or desire or whatever... They specifically want to hurt the other person and cause drama. They don't break up with monogamous people and have to go out of their way to cheat on someone who says "sleep with whoever, just let me know", but they will fuckin do it. Because it was never about the sex, it was about what that sex meant to someone else and how it's thrilling to sneak around, take away someone's choice to stay with them and makes them feel powerful/desirable to make someone feel so anxious, paranoid and hurt all because of them.

[@Blacksnyder]

"I know I'm not all that, so if you need someone else tell me and we'll work it out" 😢😢😢 Saddest thing I've read all day, Sarah. You don't deserve to feel that way, no one does.

[@alicethemadrabbit1842]

I feel like polyamory is a seperate thing but some cheaters use polyamory as a tool to further manipulate/hurt their SO. Also, you're enough and deserving of being someone's everything. Those guys didn't cheat because youre not enoigh, they cheated to hurt you and please themselves.

[@useryoungsexy]

don't give them an opening.

[@ForeverGhibli]

"I know I'm not all that" - girl!!! Remember that you are a prize to be won. Open relationship or not, always remind yourself how great, valuable, and worthy you are 💪

[@sarahhllly]

“I don’t share my food, and I don’t know if I want to share my man”. BIG MOOD

[@coolsquirtlesquad]

Man I try to be open minded, I really do. But I just can't understand how you can say you love someone but feel they're not enough? The way I see it you either love someone or you don't and if you're considering sleeping with people outside your relationship then that relationship is basically a friendship with benefits. More benefits than usual, yes, but still just a friend with benefits. Whatever floats your boat I guess... Edit: typos

[@mariotovar8285]

Or maybe your definition of what love means is not the same for everyone. That could also be an option, right?

[@cmykimberly]

You can want to get a mortgage with someone you love, but want better sex from someone else lol

[@DA-js7xz]

Lmao, so brainwashed. What is your response to the man saying a parent can love multiple kids equally then? You believe that you can only love one child? You've been watching too making Christian influenced movies.

[@bunji_beans]

What distinguishes a romantic relationship from a friendship with benefits? Are you not friends with your partner? Do you not love your friends? Where is the line?

[@coolsquirtlesquad]

I never said they're wrong nor that I'm right. Ence the "whatever floats your boat" part. It's funny how y'all love to jump on anyone expressing their honest thoughts, just because it pokes your comfort bubble. It would be hard for me to be brainwashed by christianity tho, since I don't even believe in religion. I guess it just proves that you're the one brainwashed, because you can't even accept that some people just have different opinions. You attack the very purpose you claim to defend, such hypocrisy... Just to make it clearer to all your underdeveloped brains, I don't condemn polygamy I just don't understand it. P.S. to answer one of the questions, comparing loving more than one children to loving more than one partner shows you can't even put together a coherent train of thoughts. What are you going to say next? If I can love more than one of my animals then I should also love more than one woman?

[@nidazeneli3976]

“some people swing that way so I ain’t hate it”.... deadddd

[@tywashington8520]

Nida Zeneli I literally just passed this then he said it🤣🤣

[@sopochikaidze3482]

I luv that man. Dont u know who is he?

[@LordWinter]

I find it funny that 90% of the people with nose rings were like "HARD YES!" the bigger the nose ring the more likely you are to be open #science

[@lunade13]

😂

[@romyvdd2570]

LordWinter I can’t hahahahahahah why is it true

[@kathulhurises]

As someone with 3 nose piercings and prefers open relationships, I can confirm this statement to be true 😂 😂

[@upsideuop833]

I have 2 nose piercings yet I’m horrified about my partner to think romantically about anybody else, it’s not a soul love for me, sorry 😔

[@LfunkeyA]

all hippie narcs fall into that stereotype.

[@christine4613]

I honestly don’t get open relationships.

[@PSom-cq1qy]

That's fine. No one is forcing you to have one.

[@durururururururu]

well... one way(might be offensive) of describing would be... "One person can't give me enough emotional or sexual benefits. So I have relationship with multiple people and i am fine with that" I don't get open relationships either. it just takes the specialty and emotional attachment away. I would rather be friends.

[@elenatoplek3897]

@@durururururururu but why wouldn't you just find a person who gives you what you need? Its honestly just childish to me and i dont understand how can that be called a real relationship, when you are being intimate and all that wirh multiple people, where is the real love? But thats just me 🤷‍♀️

[@kennedylareign]

Hackermann why not just stay single though ?

[@monicacreator3168]

@@elenatoplek3897 more than childish, its selfish, it's like saying you're not enough for me, I'll have to find someone else to do what you cant.

[@lleexxii]

In my opinion the whole point of a serious relationship is being loyal to one person who's loyal to you. If that's not the case then I wouldn't consider it a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship. It's more of a friends/roomates with benefits relationship. I guess I just feel like if you truly love someone and feel like you want to be with them forever then some part of you would have a problem with them loving or being intimate with someone else

[@cornetemelyne98]

If *you* truly love someone then *you'll* have a problem with them being with someone else, that's your idea of it and you're entilted to it and it's valid. But to me the point of a serious relationship might be something else, and it's valid too. The point of this video (while I think it's not been reached cause people keep arguing in the comments but I guess it's KZbin so what was I expecting?) is to show that people have different ways of doing things and they are all VALID as long as no one gets hurt and everyone is consenting.

[@lleexxii]

@@cornetemelyne98 bruh, I started my comment off with "in my opinion" I know it's for ME. Jesus

[@cornetemelyne98]

@@lleexxii And while the first part of your original comment reflects that, the second part felt like an opinion on all relationships. Sorry if I misinterpreted :-)

[@dontmindme.imjustafraidofe9327]

Here’s my answer: Hell, no. If I’m dating somebody, I expect them to be mine and mine alone, and I theirs. I’m not going to share them with someone else. That makes no sense to me!

[@vilumoreno4054]

OMG, why people in this comment section are so possessive! You do not own your partner, monogamy is built on agreement of exclusivity, it's a decision, but a person will NEVER BE YOURS AND ONLY YOURS

[@fatherofdragons5477]

@@vilumoreno4054 If a person wants it so bad, I would break up with them.

[@absurdist_cackle2523]

@@vilumoreno4054 yes thank you

[@montereyjackcheesestick8912]

@@vilumoreno4054 um in terms of sexual and otherwise intimate relations yes they will be "mine." Or they're getting the boot.

[@Leozzye]

"personally I'm not a cuck" lmaooooo I lost it 1:53

[@danielcrase]

The way they edit this is so good cuz you see so many different takes on reality it’s craaaazy

[@juanpaula152]

It messes with my head this open relationship talk, because on one side I really think life's way too long to be spent with one exclusive partner and also think that we are meant to find love in multiple ways and forms but on the other hand I'm really insecure and self conscious of my flaws and will always think my partner wants to end things. Arghhh

[@Wiivol]

I guess one solution is to try to fix your insecurities first (I know it's not that easy tho)

[@davidtrujillo1689]

First think, if someone wouldn’t love you or cheat on you they would do it in an open relationship and a monogamous one, the key factor is conveying trust and expect the same trust. Be sincere, be truthful, if someone is ready to be with yourself for who you are and you give them the trust that you will be there for them no matter what, it will work. Do not be jealous, and treat the jealousy with logic, because jealousy is lizzard brain, lesser form of thinking. But it is true, apart from trust, a relationship must be two people sharing experiences together, not two halves trying to fix themselves with eachother

[@lionoaksimba2154]

IMO first you need to be honest with yourself and figuring out want you want . then convey what you want with your SO and try to work it out no matter the labels and PLEASE dont be afraid to cut a relationship you dont want

[@annarocha3254]

A think a long life is needed to find out all the intricacies and subtleties of a single human being. That's how I look at it. :)

[@Erikshan]

Even though your partner might not be thinking of ending things, he is getting something more from another person than you. Like a girl in video said open relationship is just like being single. You fuck around. You are just trying to bang more people. That is what its all about.

[@obedaddae7652]

"ive had an open relationship" - how did it go? "It ain't open no more" Hahaha that got me

[@Bigotedechivo]

The lesson you can take from this is: If you are a monogamist that's ok! if you want an open relationship that's ok too! but the other person is not your property just because they date you.

[@angelagaviria6448]

thank you, someone had to say it

[@MatthewCoast]

"Have the courage to say no. Have the courage to face the truth. Do the right thing because it is right. These are the magic keys to living your life with integrity." - W. Clement Stone

[@celebstalker8209]

That lady at the very end I love her!! Every time she is in one of these videos she has me cracking up 😂

[@lolokay7044]

3:00 my point exactly.

[@khumo4945]

1:52 this guys a whole mood. No simping 2020

[@Gormfork]

Khumo sad life

[@khumo4945]

@@Gormfork explain yourself

[@mazvitaselemani]

I think the perspective that open people or polyamorous people have of monogamous relationships is insubstantial. The notion that "one person can't satisfy all your needs" so see more people is unfair to said one person. As a monogamous person I don't see being involved with one person as a way to have "all" my needs satisfied, seriously they are just my person not fricking Clark Kent. I don't expect them to be perfect. Besides, how many needs should I have inorder to be unsatisfied by one person? 🤣🤣🤣🤣 In the grand scheme of things just do what makes you happy man🤷🏽‍♀️🤷🏽‍♀️🤷🏽‍♀️

[@samahita-vca]

I believe what people do and believe in their adult lives are shaped little by little starting from the time they have conscious mind and ranging mostly in the age of one to teens. What I'm trying to say is, there are underlying reasons why someone become that particular person, and they may or may not realize them. For example, let's take the girl saying that she's not interested in having her emotional and sexual needs met by one person. Perhaps, just perhaps (because only her know what's going on with her life) she had experienced an extreme case of having been isolated and she seeked comfort in a large number of people, that's the only way she finds comfort. Or perhaps even she's never alone and cannot be alone, IDK. The point is, most likely she had experienced something from which she finds a coping mechanism in multiple people. There are a lot of strings to be pulled to actually, utterly understand why someone behave the way they do, and it's why someone shouldn't be judged as we don't know their underlying pieces of life.

[@beaukeeley1899]

I would say that the views of the people in open relationships in this video definitely does not mirror the views of all people in open relationships or who are polyamorous... I completely agree that it's just about loving who you love x

[@naomi-art-stuff]

what if you wanna have sex with someone w a dick but you fell in love with a woman and want to raise kids with her and grow old with her? those are very different needs and theyre both valid

[@monicacreator3168]

@@naomi-art-stuff ok but if your partner want to end this relationship because of that need, shes valid too

[@ayaebony4461]

@@naomi-art-stuff then stay single and have both

[@Iwish387]

The last lady always gets me. I love her! “I did have an open relationship.” How did that go? “ It ain’t open no more. Closed book. Game over.” 😂😅😂😂😄🤣🙏🏿😀😃.

[@themalarkey1413]

I could imagine that one of the biggest problems of having an open relationship is that just one of the partners really wants it. Probably a lot of men and women say yes to an open relationship because they don't want to lose the other one

[@prosperenfantinylosgeograf2721]

Yes that's indeed a problem. I'm polyamorous but I'm always scared that the other person would accept it just to "not lose me", so now I'm trying to meet people who are polyamorous from the beginning too.

[@Someone-fn3ij]

i dont think i'd do it but it seems healthier than just going behind the partner's back and straight up cheating

[@sadmanx005]

Open relationship = waste of time and energy, if I'm not enough don't stay with me, I'm not open for discussion in this matter.

[@breerivera8865]

Omg yes, in my opinion, they will never be satisfied ! I'm not a needy person, I'm perfectly happy with my partner and if he leaves I know how to be alone I don't need other people.

[@alwaysglistening]

Bree Rivera definition of strength

[@jocelyncooper1738]

PREACH

[@dreamlaughwishful]

Personally, I would have difficulty trusting any person in an open relationship. I think it would be a lot easier for people to manipulate or use me, and use the open relationship to justify poor actions. However, open relationships should be more socially acceptable, and we need to respect people who feel this way. Then, the people who are interested in that can be together, and hopefully this could decrease cheating among people who are set on a monogamous relationship.

[@philipbuffett3030]

you come from a great mindset buddy people are judgamental asf when it comes to not mononagamou relationships

[@TimoMeijerify]

imho, open relationships do not solve or cause problems, they just bring issues that can simmer in the background unnoticed to the foreground.

[@flynnflanfck]

Why are you with someone who could potentially manipulate you if given the opportunity anyway

[@_aiko020]

I like your insight sir. I'm glad you brought up the fact that we should respect all people and their own desires, though its seems really controversial at first.

[@monicacreator3168]

Some people in the comment section think that not wanting to share a partner is toxic. Do they realize that saying things like "if you love me, you'll let me see other people " is really toxic and manipulative?

[@kb-ww1uw]

I think it really depends on the mentality of a person regarding sex. For me, I view sex as something really intimate and emotional so to share that moment with some random person would really be a kick in the dirt. But other people view sex as just some fun thing to do with no emotional attachment to it so that might be the reason they open themselves to multiple people

[@cm-pr2ys]

100% But it’s only wrong when someone that doesn’t agree with them does it 😂 other than that they have every excuse in the world

[@malorie8557]

I'll never understand the open relationship lol and you're exactly right. If you start dating someone and they aren't for the open relationship trope, don't think of them as intolerant. They are only expressing their opinion and TBH, the opiniom of majority of people. Don't try and force them or tell them they are wrong for thinking so - just don't date them and find someone who does share those "values." It's not fair to them to force them to share you if they assumed they were getting into a monogamous relationship.

[@iamphoenix3564]

It’s just called wanting to cheat on their partner but they don’t wanna break up with their current gf/bf because of it

[@nealaholoqueen2551]

@@iamphoenix3564 It’s not cheating if both parties are fine with it

[@themotleymirage]

I've seen open relationships fail catastrophically, and I've seen them succeed for decades. There are a lot of factors. The biggest one is communication. Y'all have to talk your shit out before, during, and after (should a partner move on or you choose to close the relationship) . Even and especially during, when insecurities come up or new boundaries need to be discussed. Also: if you're doing it to save you monogamous relationship, I can guarantee you it's going to fail. Couples that open their marriages because they feel the relationship dying need to go to therapy, not get another sexual partner. You have to be secure in yourselves and your love before bringing another person into the dynamic who's magically supposed to become your "fix it" button. It isn't fair to your relationship and it isn't fair to the new person. They didn't come to be used as a therapy stressball for your marriage. If your solution to a failing relationship is essentially another relationship, you already had one foot out the door anyway. Just be as self aware as possible and talk to each other if you're gonna do it. And do it for the right reasons.

[@chrisk5562]

Damn the guy at 2:59 is telling truth

[@hannah3970]

Fr though

[@Jobe-13]

Chris K fr

[@misscommentarycleveland7142]

The real: I would like to say indeed open relationship/Poly has its place in some very Honest and capable individuals lives. Not a position to be played with however.

[@emilemil1871]

i don't think i can be in an open relationship lol if I'm not enough, then leave

[@andrewcarter968]

Exactly. If they're not enough, they're not the one

[@Gabe-z8o]

They’ll just cheat but go off

[@emilemil1871]

Gabe L if they already don’t think of you as enough to begin with, they’ll cheat either way, or they’ll favor the other person. If you’re okay with that, then go ahead and settle for someone who doesn’t think your enough for them. I won’t.

[@xx-ig1vm]

As someone who used to be opposed to open relationships I somehow found myself being in one haha. With us being in a long distance relationship, and him just beginning to explore his bisexuality, we decided to temporarily open up our relationship over the summer. I think ultimately an open relationship has to be built upon a foundation of mutual trust and love, and I’m definitely hoping this arrangement works out. P.s. open relationships are different to polyamory in that polyamorous relationships focus on having deep emotional connections with several people whilst that is not the case for open relationships.

[@bignicecookie7769]

2:37 I love her style!!

[@mia-en2os]

being an in open relationships involves a lot of trust that boundaries set will be trusted. i think that everyone has different styles of loving.

[@gavinreid5387]

But , by definition, an open relationship is where you and your partner go with other people. All is permitted, otherwise it is not open.

[@mazvitaselemani]

3:53 Having a romantic partner and having a child are two completely different entities buddy😕

[@turbo8355]

Mazvita Selemani lol exactly

[@razingflame]

RIGHT WHY WOULD HE COMPARE CHILDREN TO A PARTNER- low-key creepy

[@RK-xk4qw]

He’s saying that some humans are capable of distributing maternal/paternal love throughout multiple children, and some people are capable of distributing romantic love throughout multiple partners

[@liss8481]

I noticed that when people are welcome of an open relationship their arguments are based on THEIR side. It's about SELF fulfillment. SELF pleasure. It's about themselves and how they usually like to "pick" personality/physical traits on multiples people. I think they just can't deal with the fact that they cannot have 1 partner and love them as they are and try to complete each other, so they have multiple.

[@cosmic_vacancy]

relationships, polyamorous or otherwise, aren't about completing yourself. a single or aromantic person is still a whole person. if you want to be in a relationship just because you think there is a part of your missing then I think ya need to do some self-reflection. being poly is about open communication and the understanding that love is not finite. you can romantically love two people at the same time. this, along with the fact that some poly people in a previously monogamous relationship will pursue one person together, isn't about self-pleasure, its about love and communication. there isn't anything wrong with loving another person, as long as your partner is informed about this and fine with it, the only reason a lot of open relationships fall apart is because one party is only pretending to be okay with it, which is why communication is so important.

[@liss8481]

Amateur Latte polyamourous is about liking to cheat but without compromise

[@maj_.]

open relationships just seem like its for people who don't wanna settle down

[@pixel_ocelart]

Or people who more romantic opportunities while still having a long-term relationship

[@hoodpriestessphilosophy7669]

Where's the actual romance in it?

[@gjenetashaqiriazemi.7868]

It is.

[@racksonracksonracksonra2313]

Don’t criticise a lifestyle you’ve never experienced

[@kathulhurises]

I was living with my partner and we were in an open relationship. This was the most committed/settled down relationship I ever had in my life. When you don’t know what you’re talking about, it’s better to just shush.

[@dandelion_.]

I hate how some people make it seem like it's a self confidence issue.. NO I'm confident and secure and won't allow such thing period

[@_lux_aeterna_]

Been with the Mrs 30 years either of us have never played around never felt the need to look around for someone else keep it fresh go out separate and then meet up as if your strangers ect it all helps to keep it fun 💯👍

[@shoobadoo123]

Neither of y’all have played around, that’s what you think at least

[@pooply3053]

@@shoobadoo123 great let's try to make him feel insecure 🙄. Or make some weird assumption that people can't be loyal based on a projection of our own lives 🙄.

[@babyshark1701]

shoobadoo123 just cause you or others have been cheated on, doesn’t mean this individual has been cheated on lol but okay

[@stephi6792]

@@shoobadoo123 too much projection, buddy. Bugger off.

[@shreya2696]

It would honestly scared me to death if i ever found my boyfriend thinking about this. Gosh i am feeling so negative rn.

[@sulorangepaper4721]

If you find out he thinks about it then just tell him you don’t like it. That’s why so many people said communication is the most important in open relationship.

[@alicethemadrabbit1842]

Yeah... If someone suggested that to me, even if they respected a "no", I'd find it hard to feel comfortable or secure with them ever again. Like... They're enough for me but i'm not enough for them, feeding into insecurity... It couldnt last after that....

[@philipbuffett3030]

wow you all are insecure asf

[@shreya2696]

@@sulorangepaper4721 I am a very possessive type of person and even if he does not think about it (as far as i know) i still get insecure. I see a future with him but these kind of things that exist really freak me out. It feels like I am stuck.

[@shreya2696]

@@alicethemadrabbit1842 you know what, i want a family with my boyf and he feels the same way but in todays time a hell lot of options exist and even if you feel the love, you dont know what exactly is going in their mind. I wish I was a little less possessive like the people who said yes.

[@sulorangepaper4721]

3:21 “there are too many interesting people on this world” that’s a good point.

[@kris.krustev]

So sleeping with them is the only way to find out? lmao

[@LiveConcertJunkie]

Sul Orange Paper how that a good point? You can find out about someone without trying to fuck them lmaooo

[@Jadencee07]

@@kris.krustev But open relationships and polyamory don't just involve sleeping with people, you can literally build a romantic relationship with people. So it isn't just sleeping with them. I think anyway lol

[@MarkFilipAnthony]

@@Jadencee07 this!

[@eyeball000]

@@Jadencee07 thats just a platonic relationship then!!! just friends!!! polyamory does have amorous intentions otherwise it's just friendship! its literally in the name Poly*AMOROUS*

[@gabrielaelenadias1223]

2:51 QUEEEN👑👑👑

[@kadenkay5353]

"Personally I'm not a cuck, I'm not really into that lifestyle". Facts

[@jumpypride]

Asked my ex if he was open to being in an open relationship when we were together but really it was just me avoiding the fact that I didn’t want to be with him anymore.

[@JUANCAMOO]

Oof

[@LYlmaz]

Facts. Thanks for being honest

[@ponatshegomoselakgomo4792]

"There's too many interesting people in this world" Damn this is a big knowledge drop🤔🎤

[@prosperenfantinylosgeograf2721]

basically my reason for being poly. i'm not searching other people to hook up with, i just meet amazing people and it can happen organically

[@christine4613]

0:46 is personally my opinion

[@GiWok564]

People in open relationships never seem stable. Something is always off..

[@MeggsNEggs]

When I first started seeing a guy, I gave him the opportunity to keep the relationship open. He said no, stating he thought the idea was ridiculous and he only wanted to be with me. He cheated on me less than 2 months into it, then when I found out, he lied about it. If he accepted the open relationship offer I proposed earlier on, I wouldn't have been mad about him hooking up with someone else. But the secrecy and lying was ultimately what ruined it.

[@prosperenfantinylosgeograf2721]

Tbh, if they were a dishonest person, it's good to know from the beginning lmao I'm into open relationships & polyamory but I would never ever cheat if I'm in a closed one.

[@BR14Nx]

3:57 True, but like with childs, you will always have a favourite..

[@iidalotta426]

most open relationships do have a main partner that they do love more than their other partners. or thats what i've heard. so its not really a problem for open relationships that you have a favourite i think

[@tayo2810]

Pretty sure my mom didnt have a favourite. We all though we where the favourite anyway

[@BR14Nx]

@@iidalotta426 I can't see the difference between that and a sex friend. For me, when u define a relationship, then there is only one parrner

[@teasimonovic3122]

Pretty sure every normal parent loves equality their children

[@prosperenfantinylosgeograf2721]

@@BR14Nx But isn't a relationship: being friends and lovers with one person? I mean, it's sex friends with feelings, which imo it's a synonym of partner. Exclusivity isn't the difference between sex friend (coz you can have just one sex friend and not sleep around with anybody else) and partner, romantic feelings is the difference.

[@ruthless3253]

So glad that both sides of the debate are being represented! I’m in a happy open relationship, almost at 2 years now ❤️

[@sayso2536]

There’s always that one partner who feels jealous

[@kolbyap3467]

my relationship has been open and poly since day one and for me it’s the best thing ever ☺️

[@poisonrose1705]

There's a difference between an open relationship and polyamory. In an open relationship you have two people who are committed to each other etc who agree (for whatever reason) to have sexual (and potentially romantic encounters) with other people every now and again. Polyamory is a relationship with three or more people where the participants are committed to the relationship in some way. One of them is like couples getting into kink and BDSM: something to spice up a Saturday night if things have gotten too vanilla and repetitive. The other is a long term commitment that takes a lot of time and energy and dedication.

[@PutingPinoy]

I believe we ought to have more sex positive. Possessiveness is not necessarily a good thing. Communication is important. Jealousy is not a good thing. Monogamy is not bad. But, the constraints that have been set up are really unfair and people ought to be more open.

[@alicethemadrabbit1842]

I think there's a reasonable ammount of jealousy, and an unreasonable ammount.

[@SaturnVII]

This sounds like a great example of "good on paper to many but honestly only like 3 people are cool with it in practice" And they're gay or women.

[@editingandtutorials]

No for me I can't be in a open relationship.

[@danieldomaschenz]

Sometimes it feels like the whole world hates poly people, so this video was a refreshing take. I'm in an open relationship and we're all happy. I think the important thing here and the positive takeaway from this video, is that it's making it okay to have the discussion--to ask yourself whether you're monogamous because "you" decided to be, or because you're following the game plan that Roman Christians laid out for you a few hundred years ago. You're choices are valid people, but remember to make sure that they are actually "choices".

[@davidtrujillo1689]

Thank you so much. The comments in video on open relationships of jubelee had me about to cry, there was just hate and disgust about a totally fair lifestyle. I feel that people doesn’t understand the level of trust and love that goes into this, that there’s just too many great people out there to meet. And a lot of people feel attacked just by ask them to think about it.

[@r.trinidad3656]

I have a question: I am in a 1,5 year relationship and I do immensily love my partner on an emotional level (still she love me more as I can cleary see) and since the start I told her that I prefer to leave her instead of cheating, but in the last 6/8 month I told her I would like to try 3some because in a sexual level I'm not satisfied because I get easily bored(I only told her that I want to try it since it is a delicate topic and we haven't had real conversacion), when I was single I had multiple partners but even there I got bored after a 2-3 months and changed them. I know that I love her but i feel like since sex is a separate thing from love I want to do with other people to enjoy that feeling in differents way but at the same time i don't want to fuck up all or being in unhappy relationship when I feel something can be done. So my question is how did you do it? what where your premise? How you make things work? And in your relationship there is any "love" with others partners or is just sex? In short for me: relationships = loyal + trust, But I want sex without feeling gulty or breaking that loyalty + trust

[@harrybo_1]

For me, sex is an act of love, of showing your love for someone, not just for me to get pleasure, I can do that by myself😂So I need to be in a relationship with someone who has the same belief about sex as me. So an open relationship would never be a possibility for me, I couldn’t handle the idea that my partner was showing their love to someone else and I wouldn’t be able to show my love to anyone else. If you’re into open relationships that’s cool, as long as you communicate, it’s just not for me.

[@ShamelessSexualityYT]

I feel like a lot of people in the comments basically say "to each its own, BUT..." and then list off all the reasons they don't believe open relationships are a valid relationship choice. I used to see the same arguments 10 to 20 years ago about gay relationship / marriage. You don't have to be interested in having an open relationship, but that doesn't mean that people who choose that relationship structure are wrong. Nobody said you had to be in an open relationship if you don't want to be, and I just find it a little annoying how whenever the topic is brought up, people feel they need to list all of the reasons they would never be open. Imagine if your gay friend came out to you for the first time, and your response was to tell him all the reasons you could never be attracted to the same sex.

[@avacx]

But people can also comment the reasons they do want to be open. The comment section is meant for a place of discussion on why or why not they agree and from what I’ve seen, no one has been rude toward either side so I see no problem with it

[@philipbuffett3030]

sister i see the same.That people who don't believe in gay marriage will(or did)die with that old and hateful believe as the new generations believe the opposite.Its a pattern that repeats on multiple things

[@4everInTheClouds]

ava c Agreed! I was just going to say that the comment section is a place for discussion tooo. It’s perfectly fine here for people to list their reasons.

[@anatomicalvenus]

Can you not compare people's sexual choices with being gay, which is an innate part of oneself. Thanks :)

[@Wiivol]

@@4everInTheClouds it's fine to list THEIR reason. But most people that I see here just try to argument on how it doesn't work in general and not just for them.

[@kqlona]

0:26 answers it as of it was a test question lmaoo

[@beaukeeley1899]

I went from an 8 year marriage with my ex husband to a polyamorous lifestyle 6 months ago... I now have two loving boyfriends and several other very fulfilling people in my life... I think it's important to address the difference between an open relationship and polyamory... they are different things... and explaining compersion to people usually helps them understand why it's appealing to some people. There are a lot of misconceptions with open relationships and polyamory that you can't have intimacy and commitment, when this really isn't true! If anything, the amount of communication, love, and mutual understanding involved in polyamory is more intimate and committed than any monogamous relationship I've experienced. Still... each to their own! Would be interested in seeing more on this subject Cut! :)

[@tiffnashami5443]

So are your boyfriends also dating or you are dating them separately, because if not I think you might be polygamous..

[@TheWorldofSam]

1:28 "I don't share anything!" Periodt!!!

[@yarrow4012]

The energy transfer makes so much sense!

[@sydneypowell2080]

"I would never say, welcome to my house... and my husband" Girl me too 😂

[@jeaninehicks2907]

I barely got time for 1 relationship 🙄

[@larabadermanjon5022]

THIS

[@heyyomary]

But people in open relationships are in just one relationship.... Being open just means that you're not sexually exclusive.

[@shreyaambade6688]

*I have trust issues as it is* Accurately sums me up

[@deerdip6594]

The dude with grills always has something interesting to say and Is honestly the highlight of this vid

[@d_oneee]

3:00 PREACH

[@iidalotta426]

open/poly relationships have always seemed normal to me and this commentsection is making me question if sometjing is wrong with me lol

[@DragonDancer]

Ignore the comments.

[@justine801]

Everybody has an opinion about it, and your opinion on open relationships is totally valid!

[@ugh1428]

things outside if the norm are always frowned upon, but people should be able to do what they want with their relationship, as long both parties are consenting adults. live and let live

[@nianewton2551]

Nothing is wrong with you. I feel the same

[@chloedavies1053]

I wouldn't personally have an open relationship but we are all individuals and however you feel and whatever you want from a relationship is totally valid.

[@Julioyowyo]

Tried once, feeled being left aside. As the participant sayed "Somebody always feels they aren't getting enough". This is hard for some people who don't have this kind of self confidence like me. shm

[@prosperenfantinylosgeograf2721]

Just like there's many ways in which a monogamous relationship can fail, there's a bunch of ways an open/poly relationship can fail. Maybe you were indeed lacking confidence, but also maybe the other person wasn't paying enough attention to you, or maybe it just isn't for you. Anything is possible. But if it interest you, there's things that can be done to overcome all of that.

[@PinkyToeThief]

I really think it only comes down to whether or not you're polyamorous. I don't think being in open relationships makes you greedy, horny, or a cheater. I don't think being in monogamous relationships makes you selfish, jealous, and toxic. I don't think it's something you choose. If you have the ability to love two people without it effecting you and your self esteem, or taking away from the love you have for one person, you're just not a monogamous person, simple as that. If you don't have that ability, then you're monogamous, simple as that.

[@skyemccuien2998]

3:18 had me rolling. I love how she answered.

[@ailynnmckae1130]

I don’t know why whenever I talk to more than one person I always feel less for fulfilled. anyone else?