Xu Huanshan finally let go and formally asked Gu Jia for divorce in prison.

[@dothosie-kingham3207]

All I can say this Drama is very true to life. I thought wife. Absolutely wonderful. Very calm no screaming, no shouting, just deep hurt of what he did to the Family. This is a lovely drama to watch. Well done Admin

[@sansibal3635]

What is title please

[@kyla7030]

@@sansibal3635 nothing but thirty

[@sofialovianoy9682]

True i love it too

[@laressamiia2042]

Cats eye

[@kadeejaththahdeera8763]

What happens in the end ?

[@enyayang6691]

顧佳和幻山之間還是有愛的，但是信任已失挽回不了了

[@knnhzzh7924]

出轨就是完犊子了，挽回不了

[@ohcrystal]

All the actors in this series should win awards. They all brought out all d real emotions in those characters and us too. Too good.

[@daveh4208]

I wish I had a couple friends like those three women. That's probably a key ingredient to making life worth while.

[@rickmarr8784]

She lost almost everything, all because her husband just couldn't see what she was trying to do is to make a brighter future for the family. He falls for the sweet whispering of a young, know nothing girl and destroyed his life and almost his family's future but luckily his wife Gu Jia had the vision to buy a second business to make their future stable but ended up saving them from total financial destitute.

[@sudeeplohi6346]

she actually loved him and even he does but along the way .. he lost his way.. i relaly feel sad for him..

[@ninadj1074]

What is the name of the drama

[@rickmarr8784]

@@sudeeplohi6346 I don't feel that sorry for him. He knew what he was doing was wrong but he sought out the younger woman just to feel validated like Gu Jia did when they first met back in college. Basically she matured and he didn't. He should have grown also and not be needing his ego stroke constantly.

[@rickmarr8784]

@@ninadj1074 "Nothing but Thirty"

[@ninadj1074]

@@rickmarr8784 thanks

[@lynasok2558]

He became dependent on her because he could not resolve the problems he caused to happen. They did have discussions, however he made many mistakes in his work and it was her who had to deal with the consequences of his errors, after sometime, she had to make most of the decisions what should be done and what not and he resented her for that, not remembering how many times she had helped him fix his problems. Just take a good look at the blue firework's development. She told him that it would be pretty much dangerous if he'd continue to do it, but to please his mistress, he went against his wife's warning, which resulted in the exploding of the firework facility and him ending up in prison.

[@anniesia5143]

Thank you🙂

[@iagreewithyou3478]

Him getting imprisoned asap is kinda an easy way out for him. He should've gone to the mistress after he lost everything, and then he'll suffer because there's no longer a capable wife taking care of him, then his health deteriorates because the mistress enables his bad habits, they lose their money, and the mistress leaves him, his son is disappointed in him, THEN he goes to prison.

[@lynasok2558]

@@iagreewithyou3478 Most of the money he spent on his mistress was taken from his wife. When the firework company ran out of cash to pay for the supply, the manager had to tell his wife about it. It was good for him that he went to prison before the divorce took place, otherwise he would be in great debt, but Gu Jia became penniless when she had to sell all of their assets to settle for all the damages caused by the explosion. The price to pay for his adultery was extremely great.

[@lynabc3826]

@@iagreewithyou3478 but why do i feel like they still love each other. In real life, there’s a chance for reconciliation after the husband’s sentence in jail. What’s important is he reflected his mistakes.

[@aditia.2706]

@@lynabc3826 Love without respect lacks foundation. He already lost her trust too many times.

[@alvandaikee0434]

you can see the great regret on his face lesson’s teach him the saddest way, realizing he wasted an amazing woman.

[@lynasok2558]

It's always like that. They regret only when they're at their dead end. It does not have anything to do with being remorseful for the hurt and damage caused to the person they cheated on. There are wives who cheat on their husbands too, but mostly, wives are always the best life-partners to their husbands.

[@rafiqtsm1451]

He ruined his life because of his ego, poor decision making, cowardliness, incapable behavior, lack of loyalty. It literally cost the jobs of so many and got workers seriously harmed or killed. All over some broke, thirsty, 23 year old tail who was obsessed with trying to leach off the coattails of another woman’s efforts.

[@graciousj6494]

When he started his illicit affairs he never thought of the consequences, that there’s a price for every decision or choice he made.

[@leemav5136]

well written！

[@Masharette618]

I like the character gu Jia, her husband cheated on her but she in the rage didn't do any stupid things neither do as her husband did, she strong herself for her own and her son sake, and that's like a girl ❤️💙❤️🤔🤔

[@doriscastillo4438]

That is the way that we should be dont take shit from others,we have to be prepared for all this scenario, in live nothing is secure man they can pretend that everything is nice meanwhile they have other family.

[@joysham4557]

這段的演技真的很內斂很厲害！

[@whilary5051]

好好的婚姻，生活，好好的女人不珍惜。等到什么都没了，才知道那些每天枯燥平凡的日子才是福气，难得的。 直到两个人都没有爱，也没有恨了，

[@SYen-bw3mq]

傻呆呆的，，，啊

[@kenichisegawa3981]

@@林鳳梅-q8u 有一次就会有第二次

[@OYALICE]

@@林鳳梅-q8u 為什麼要？

[@Надежда-е6ч1л]

Все так и есть. Как тут сказано Близко локоть да не укусишь!!!❤

[@serfeliztheng1053]

有些男人真的学不乖

[@catday2]

I loved how this drama make me so calm. Not emotional like other dramas

[@yorkiesweetpea23]

@orked : are you the same too?? Where some dramas, especially Palace empress evil women in harem type dramas. They can get your blood boiling!

[@florencewalter1683]

Gu Jia is an Angel. Better to divorce and remain friend for son's sake.

[@lesanairamai167]

Pliz send drama name

[@jaikim8898]

@@lesanairamai167 Drama Title - Nothing but Thirty

[@girlleo2807]

@@jaikim8898 no it is cat's eyes

[@riyaniwa]

@@lesanairamai167 nothing but thirty

[@ronacoronel5003]

@@jaikim8898 thank you

[@fanfare78]

I got married at 29 I had my best 20’s Best married life at 30’s Husband passed away at 44 (we are of same age) Depressed and anxiety Turning point at age 47 See what 50’s bring

[@abbylynn8872]

❤

[@lnclv370]

Definitely something amazing 🤩 be happy

[@ellielee490]

Stay strong...May the future brings you Happiness~

[@selinashaw4045]

🥺🥺🥺 sorry for your lost!!

[@meimei1919]

Keep up that great positive attitude! Life has many beautiful possibilities which I pray for you!

[@nmjt86]

His pitifulness made me cry when they were talking in prison omg. These Chinese dramas are the best and the worst. They make u happy and make u cry A LOT lollllll

[@DrRahulRamMDDNB]

S really .. I ll cherish this drama in my life. When she felt sorry for her side and said anything can be restarted again ...I thought they ll get back again ...but he in the peak of guilt accepted the divorce ... Anyway cheating is cheating. No justifications are there . But his eyes there was the real guilt ...he accepted his mistakes.. Pitiful eyes ...I was broken ... If I were his wife ... I would let him in the prison for three years ... Once he comes after I ll definitely take him again .

[@lisa010328]

如果顧佳沒有在電話裡說道自己也要反省在婚姻裡有錯的話 那麼幻山會想永遠抓著顧佳這一個依賴 但是顧佳退一步了，放下了自己的堅持、道歉了 幻山才突然懂了，顧佳不以他當自己的第一了，但是卻還是這麼得宜 甘願簽字了

[@OfficialAlbeeLudan]

這段每次看都哭到不行😭😭😭

[@sashamao3812]

He said “I’m sorry” when he hangs the phone and stand up, I’m crying. I know it’s his fault, but I still feel sad for this loved couple to be like this.

[@tinavilla4212]

Can you please explain what did he do? To end up in prison?

[@guangdali6460]

@@tinavilla4212 essentially the chemical used to produce the blue firework was dangerous to store (in moisture I think). But Xu produced it anyway, despite his wife’s warning, to please his mistress. The stored fireworks exploded eventually during storage, and he was responsible, hence.

[@tinavilla4212]

@@guangdali6460 thank you 😊

[@蔡孟玲-h9s]

不知道為什麽在點進來看，彷彿有什麼還未尋味出。 我覺得..顧佳從之前的果斷離婚，到現在的暖心問候， 她一直是個這樣的人， 即使受傷了最後還是會站起來並且鼓勵幻山， 簡單來說就是一個正向的人。 幻山提離婚的時候的眼神，認真的彷彿很珍惜最後看她一樣。 感覺是真的覺得自己配不上顧佳，想到自己僅有的才能還是靠她才穩定賺錢的，現在被自己毀了。 出來後還要再靠她幫忙自己的話，就真的是對不起她了，所以幻山這次提離婚，不是希望顧佳放過自己，而是想要自己放過顧佳。 這樣也可以解釋為什麼顧佳聽完幻山提的離婚後是笑的，她知道幻山的想法，她也覺得挺好的。 唯一的疑惑..是我真的讀不出來幻山掛完電話後對著顧佳說的那兩個字到底是什了… 有沒有人獨得懂？

[@DoDoMa910]

幻山掛電話後說的那句話是＂對不起＂

[@蔡孟玲-h9s]

@@DoDoMa910 😳😳謝謝你

[@franksu8565]

最後的疼愛是手放開

[@libragirlremoroza6027]

I cried watching this scene😭😭

[@regineemerald3044]

LOVE is like glass, once broken it will never be the same again as well as TRUST . broken glass can't be fixed.. So handle it with care.. Good job for being a strong woman.

[@yeohanchoi4951]

I know I'm heartless but it's so satisfying to see him suffer for the rest of his life.

[@tinavilla4212]

What did he do?

[@mamingdanggen575]

Yes he deserve that

[@Johnsonp825]

Lied, Lied, Lied. Cheated, betrayed his devoted wife, ruined his happy family, was too dependent on her problem solving abilities, then hurtfully accused her of being too controlling after cleaning up his messes. Even had the audacity to ask his wife to help him get rid of his young mistress whom he financially cared for with families money. Had he spoken to his wife about his true feelings the damage done might have been avoided.

[@kittie479]

@@Johnsonp825 but why is he in prison?

[@Johnsonp825]

@@kittie479 He’s in prison due to the deaths of some of his employees in an explosion in the fireworks factory where he was instructed not to make “Blue” fireworks which were unstable. He told his wife they were destroyed, but In actuality he kept them at his mistresses request because she liked them and her initials could be seen when they were ignited (U U).

[@leemary4833]

She finally admits she has faults too. No one is perfect, all broken in some way, different than the other. It’s a growth process.

[@aiaanab9876]

I don't understand where she is not perfect...I mean what we're her faults really??

[@littlemissdoka]

@@Sfnm86 Plus everything he said was his fault he never communicated this during their marriage and just expected her to know?? Honestly I’m glad she decided to take some responsibility because it comforted him but like y’all really think she’s as fault. LOL

[@blehbleh-bleh2840]

@@aiaanab9876 just because the 'flaws' arent depicted doesnt mean they arent there. Remember that everyone is human. And 'perfection' is just a perspective.

[@anthyavila9726]

@@blehbleh-bleh2840 LOL no, she just said that because she has let go of even the bitterness. She was just done with him.

[@rubiirae]

Sucks that it's the women's 'fault' for being too capable and independent 🙄

[@opportunityknox8575]

Look where he ended up and the mistress just went on with her life, no where to be seen, single, taking no responsibility for any of this. 😭🥴 his wife still caring about him.

[@k-drama.holics7425]

Why did the husband went to prison?

[@tranvu3531]

@@k-drama.holics7425 the family owns a firework company, the husband is a designer. He wanted to produce blue firework but his wife stopped him because this type of firework is highly flammable. But his mistress encouraged him to produce the blue firework, so he did it for the mistress. Then the warehouse exploded, 2 workers were killed. The company went bankrupt from paying compensation and the husband had to go to prison.

[@ธรณัสหนูยงค์]

ก็คนมันไม่รู้จักพอไงไม่รู้ว่าของดีควรถนอมรักษาอย่างไรไปเล่นกับไฟๆมันเผาเอาวอดวาย

[@ธรณัสหนูยงค์]

คิดเสียดายอะไรมันสายไปแล้ว

[@20PINKluvr]

​@@tranvu3531 so his wife was the one with the smarts in the relationship after all

[@nancymandap4754]

There are lots of lesson in this drama for a younger couple

[@evelyndial2421]

Common story, superb acting. Thanks

[@jadeos143]

I can see his regret but need to let go of his perfect wife. He knows she will suffer if she would stay with him.

[@myrlandejacques4723]

Why would you say it like that” his perfect wife”. She’s not perfect but she did her best, she has her faults in this marriage. She never think he was not worth it. I think man, can’t stand tough women ( smart, strong, independent, ), their ego does not allow it. Sorry my English is very bad.

[@lyzrhill4765]

@@myrlandejacques4723 well he went to jail for something she told him not to do and its not she thinks he's not worth it she's knows when a terrible decision and idea is a terrible decision and idea she told him that she did nothing wrong

[@lyzrhill4765]

@@myrlandejacques4723 also she owns her own company aswell so basically she was running two companies so

[@myrlandejacques4723]

@@lyzrhill4765 the women always forget is man when they are not above you they think something is wrong with them or they feel inférieur , not man enough. Men live for power . Things that men fear in a woman 👩🏻. ( independency , power, intelligence, money, ext…) that makes them equal , they don’t like that. My english is really bad sorry.

[@myrlandejacques4723]

I hope you understand.

[@arlenetimbas8646]

I really like this story....he should take the consequences...what he did is absolutely wrong!

[@annaa.mabior1423]

Sorry I haven’t seen the whole episodes of this could you pls tell me what he did I’m to lazy to watch the whole thing

[@neiae.s.6445]

@@annaa.mabior1423 Her husband have another woman , so she’s find is cheating on her. And about the blue fireworks was dangerous destroyed the fabric and kill or hurt employees, her husband was in jail because the blue firework.

[@youmad9932]

@@annaa.mabior1423 his dreams got someone killed

[@gymmygymmy2685]

4:00 那段他是笑着的，但我感觉他心里是痛苦地哭着的

[@mimCanna]

Good story, they are 30, I almost 40y/o and single..I don't even remembered what I did when I'm 30,LOL,..the good thing being single is I can traveling with my single ladies too😘😘

[@tiasmukti5860]

Married couple must believe eact other don't cheating your wife or your husband and must support eact other

[@sriskandan9460]

You are absolutely correct

[@cakheri3542]

Gu Jia so smart and so polite....i like her character

[@dyonisiusdony]

8:36 It is interesting to see many people consider 30 years old as a turning point. I am also living on my own till now. When I turned to 30 years old, I am still in very high spirit, running catching bus, jumping to the bus, jumping from the bus. There is almost no significant impact of knowing that I turn to 30 on my spirit. Turning to 40s is actually more difficult as I find that my body sometimes do not do what my mind ask it to do. The spirit is still there but even more spirit and more self motivation is required to survive.

[@EdugeBDroN]

Truth is 30's are the best because you know what you didn't in your 20s.

[@meimei1919]

Every age is the best years of your life, if you make it so. When you get older and your physical capabilities are lessened, there’s always your mind. As long as you’re positive and accepting of life throwing bricks and bats at you (good n bad times) each year will be the best for you. I’m 70 and talking from experience. I married at 19, widowed at 21, with a baby, was married again at 30, to a husband who was abusive (emotionally and physically) but I survived. How? My guiding mantra, a Buddhist teaching - “This too shall pass” ie nothing is permanent. And an English proverb - every dark cloud has a silver lining.

[@meimei1919]

@@EdugeBDroN wait till you’re in your 40’s! You’ll know even more, especially as you reach each decade.😂😂

[@dyonisiusdony]

@@meimei1919 Thank you very much for sharing your experience with us

[@devdutt4366]

It's really simple but equally emotional seen.

[@merchecruzlobato6804]

El marido parece que ha madurado y pide el divircio, me alegra que ella comience una nueva etapa sin él, hombre que no son leales mejor que vayan por otro camino, él perdió todo por egoista, infantil y por un ratito de gloria. Me encantó este drama, tanto guión como actores ha sudo mágnifico y los temas musicles, preciosos!!! 👌🏼👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻💙

[@rosemaryhale8146]

I love her friends they.we’re the best

[@gymmygymmy2685]

许幻山演得太好了

[@Zhe-k6n]

幻山進去又是另一個故事了😂 好希望可以再出續集 很好看

[@make_the_world_better_place]

有第二部的

[@donnaosuch5210]

Texting from So Cal beach area USA. This show is one of my favorites. Cryed, laughed. So much meaning in true friendships. Thanks for this lovely show!!!💞🤗

[@alebaobao]

I love the naration at the end by the three wonderful ladies. Besties for life people. This is the friendship every woman deserve to have. This drama is awesome, lots of lessons about womanhood. Todays society expect capable and independent women can do every thing but at the same time labeling them as selfish, overbearing and coldhearted. But well, they actually just want a good life.

[@queenofswords4499]

geez! wait til you reach your 40s... being 30 is still young and still has lots to learn. well, learning is a continuous process and it doesn't stop whatever age you are.

[@dilyamartinez]

Gracias por este excelente drama. Entré en él por casualidad y me gustó mucho, pues refleja la vida real. Excelente trabajo 👌👍

[@evarubio9904]

Totalmente de acuerdo ,a mí también me encantó, creo que tendría éxito si se emitiera en las televisiones de muchos países .

[@cristinagerodias9598]

Yesss, finally he agreed.He has no choice anyway because he cheated on her and did not appreciate how hard she work for their family.

[@peiyingmiao6004]

錯誤的婚姻太可怕 互相耽誤 不如單身

[@tutorialchannelnot8541]

👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻對

[@demetriaguzman5266]

Gracias ❤ me encanto a pesar de haberlo visto fragmentado (sufri mucho cuando la engaño) felicitaciones 👏 para los actores y quienes traducen 👏🇦🇷❤

[@蔡月娥-w7n]

給這部影片❤讚

[@YYG-q8x]

他终于学会了担当

[@corinnekae1736]

I’m so blessed that I accidentally came across this series this Thursday. 😭😭😭

[@chanwinnie355]

呢套劇集超级好睇👍👍👍

[@gougrace1742]

Title please and thank you

[@esterrios3998]

One of my 3 favorite stories! Excellent story plot. Excellent! Excellent acting of every character!!❤❤❤

[@meimei1919]

There’s always the possibility that they’ll get back together as they share a son, so the contact is still there. Besides they still love each other, admitting too, to their own faults in the relationship. It’s just that he finally agreed to divorce her, unselfishly, so it frees her to have someone else in her life if she so wishes. It’s his ultimate proof of his love for her. She could have instigated a divorce even if he was unwilling, as she has grounds. However, they both waited for the other to decide, out of mutual love.

[@wongkengmun1103]

This lady deserves so much more than getting back together with his ex who leeches on her talents n now losing everything only starts regretted his actions. This guy is not worth for her to be back together

[@lynabc3826]

@@wongkengmun1103 but everyone deserves second chances.

[@ABhattacharya]

@@wongkengmun1103 Totally agree. He repents though…which is admirable.

[@_WhiteW0lf_]

No. She could no longer trust him. As she said, it was like a thorn in her heart that if she tries to remove will bleed meaning she is constantly reminded by his cheating.

[@meimei1919]

@@_WhiteW0lf_ Time heals all wounds especially if you share a child.

[@adeleschannel5834]

I feel watching them having the telephone conversation that they still love each other. Those glances are so full of love. I think they will reconcile later on though in most of my comments about this drama, I say the wife should not take him back. Well, he has learned his lesson and maybe they will again be a happy family. The wife said she also had mistakes in their marriage. I think at this point she has forgiven the husband. Too bad the son will not have a father in 3 years. Sad.

[@adrianamoroconque3877]

Na minha opinião quem trai uma vez e é perdoado sempre vai trair pq pensa que vai ser perdoado e também quem trai nunca pensa no sentimentos da outra pessoa por isso que gostei desse drama que ela não aceitou ele devolta

[@teyoshariff5598]

Once a cheater always a cheater. Remember u can never stop loving someone,it's a natural phenomena,but you can always stop them from hurting you.

[@doriscastillo4438]

She is smart ,going with her life,that is the beauty of be prepare for everything no be a woman that her husband didn't respect.

[@mariahart755]

Love each other dont make me laugh. When a man cheats on his wife he does not love her because if he did he would not get involved with another woman full stop. Dont delude yourself.

[@satishchilakamarri]

when you love some one... respect their decisions which were the results of your wrong acts... it shows how much chaos can be created by a wrong thought or move in a happy family😶... really heart breaking💔 hope it will make them unite and make them together again with more strong bondage...

[@tigerexo6577]

愿每一个我们都可以保有而已的勇气。

[@monmon050992]

Title and where to watch

[@bike2708]

This is one drama, I would recommend everyone to watch and understand

[@merinashahi6656]

Can you name this? And where can i watch

[@mariegiardini]

Nothing but thirty and its on KZbin 😊

[@claudiadagata7285]

Bonitas Amigas ellas la ayudaran a sobrellevar todoo....

[@sutiniestiningsih4521]

Walau hanya menonton sepotong2, saya bisa menyampaikan bahwa dalam drama ini banyak sekali pelajaran yang bisa kita ambil, dari sudut pandang masing2 karakter. Banyak hikmah kehidupan didalamnya.

[@ninchicat]

Bener, baru kali ini nonton cuplikan video yang bikin aku ngerasa "pasti bakalan aku tonton ini drama".

[@Emy4316]

Mirip sinetron di indosiar 😆 suami selingkuh dapat karma

[@atienaza5951]

gu jia nama aslinya siapa kak?

[@sutiniestiningsih4521]

@@atienaza5951 pemeran Gu Jia adalah Tong Yao

[@sutiniestiningsih4521]

@@Emy4316 tapi kalau di Indosiar banyak didramatisir, banyak tambahan pemeran dan konflik baru yang kadang tak nyambung, dan terlalu lama penyelesaian sebuah masalah 🤔

[@Xuan1.9.9.9]

兒子好可愛ㄚ

[@renevalencia2260]

No puedo creer todas las cosas que el hizo, desperdició todo el esfuerzo, el trabajo, el amor de su esposa y destruyó su familia, por estupido y ambicioso y todo por nada, hasta en la carcel terminó 🤦🏻‍♀️ y lo peor es que en mi vida de 40 años, he conocido gente así de tonta

[@bhavikadevlekar4670]

Her smile saying all things she can't say she is hurts so much in her heart 💔💔💔 she still can't say anythings he said that 'Let's Divorce ' 😥😥😥 I no she feel really bad but his is the ending I was not sure about it . he is still love her that much he forced himself to divorce and he love his son very much this is so hard for both of him 😔😞😔

[@srinikasrinika3394]

He only loved his son, not his wife.... 😭😭

[@seemaoak469]

If he loved her,would not cheat.

[@adeleschannel5834]

The husband was remorseful and really loved his wife and son. In the end he paid for his mistake.

[@bhavikadevlekar4670]

You guys all right 🤗 I no he is do some mistakes that he is cheat his wife I also feeling really bad for that 😥😭😢and thank you for much to telling me all the true of this drama thankyou😊 and I got it now thanks guys ♥️💖♥️

[@bhavikadevlekar4670]

@@srinikasrinika3394 He really love wife not only for son I see all ep this drama 😊

[@andreachristina1617]

I know he has cheated her.. but this scene really heartbreaking 😢🥲

[@bernadettehorowitz8446]

I've watched this, very, very good. What a strong wife she is, I admire and am in awe with her role. Never see this kind of female lead in scripts, job well done.

[@tam-tam.9726]

Absolutely agree! Why in most Chinese dramas are females still portrayed as acquiescent and long suffering? It drives me nuts! I have several female Chinese (or mixed race) friends/acquaintances and they are not that soft, believe me! 😘

[@tam-tam.9726]

Yes…I did shed a tear too…wouldn’t be human if I didn’t.

[@waterbabe415]

爛男人 但是看到這段我還是好難過 🥺 用哭的看完

[@marcelalescano8338]

por dio, esa escena es genial, un aplauso por favor, me encanta unos genios!!! El por fin actuo de forma madura, lo mejor que hizo por Ella fue eso!!!

[@veronicasilva2974]

Hola cual es el nombre de la serie? Gracias, bendiciones.

[@marcelalescano8338]

@@veronicasilva2974 se llama. Nada mas que treinta es muy buena,solo que este corto es de uno de los cap finales,es super interesantes!!

[@veronicasilva2974]

Gracias, nena

[@marcelalescano8338]

@@veronicasilva2974 💝💝💝👏👏👏👍 dramas asiaticos a full.

[@sarahigraciamarquez4498]

Cuántos capítulos don

[@Wismed66]

是滴，离婚是最佳的选择。让大家都可以有重新开始的另一个空间。另一个能成为更好的自己的空间。

[@sukiholansong2203]

戏名

[@alexandriaelony6858]

Absolutely agreed with these three ladies' stories. Age before thirty and after thirty. Before marriage and after marriage. I used to (and still had some) hatred about Shanghai. Many years ago, before I was married, I was been send to that city by my previous corporate firm, temporary in charged of Shanghai branch office's management before they finds a suitable candidate (a CEO) for that position. And I was in my early thirty's and just a COO. I was willing to took up this temporary position and based there for within six months the most before the right candidate took over. And I was single at then. Before with that previous corporate firm, I was a cabin crew. There was uncountable European routings or long haul flights, Shanghai was a stop over city for us the fleet crew. It was very much landed there at night and straight away checked into the assigned hotel that was nearby to the airport for us to get a night's sleep before the next day we continued on our routes. At then, Shanghai was a city that sort of fascinated me, I wanted to visit but due to the tight schedule of flight time, I didn't got that chance. Until my contract with that airline had fully served, and I had resigned and joined that previous corporate firm. So when the management assigned me to be based at Shanghai for a temporary duration of within six months, I was sort of excited and looking forward to ventured into that city, understanding and exploring the cultures, lifestyles and peoples. Simplified, I was full of life before I went. And so I went ahead. At there, my story begun. My story, I was playing the role like in this drama the mistress "Lin Yo Yo". Honestly, I really didn't knew at all. My differences compared to "Lin Yo Yo" was, I was unaware this guy that I had a short "crushed" was indeed a married guy / man. In fact, I was been fooled by the entire branch's colleagues. Because I was a foreigner, an expatriate that managed that entire office there, as the COO, their superior. But just for temporary. This guy, he's one of (considered as a) subordinate under me. No doubt, the attractions between us was fast. Similar mindset, mentality, interests ... etc. But I knew clearly that we couldn't be long forever together, and somehow the day comes, I'll be still returning to my homeland. So I wasn't taking things in between us too seriously or with too much hopes. Needless to mentioned intimacies. We hadn't gone till this part yet. It was more on casual till formal datings / outings. There was no sign at all about this guy was married. He lived alone, and everything about him was totally like a bachelor. But the truth was, his wife was residing at his village or the state he was from, and he came to this metropolitan city to pursued for a better career with with better pay range compared to the pay range in his state or village. That's why he portraits exactly like a single eligible bachelor. And worst, in that branch office, several of his colleagues actually knew his real “status”. No one had told me a single word about it. They were like watching a "comedy" of me. Because I'm a foreigner, I'm half Asian with mix ethnic. Perhaps for him, I was like a “trophy” for him to date, it's like dating an Eurasian (European with Asian ethnic), like a "show off" when we goes out. And the rest, it's almost 90% similar like how in this drama the cheating husband "Xue Huan Shan" lied to me. Exactly the f**king same ways of lying. Until things got into the end of the fourth month. Out of the sudden one day, his village wife came to this metropolitan city to visit him. And it was blunt. She came straight to the office there and showed up to him like a surprise visit. And everyone was waiting to looked at my reactions, as seem I was their clown, their joke to laughed at. I then realized, what a messed I'd caused. Not just it hurts me, I was almost hurting another lady as well without my knowing. In just that brief one night at my own condominium, I'd realized what a cruel joke these people played on me. This bastard played on me. They was hoping I'll crashed, torn, broke, or jealous and angried like a fool. Fortunately, I wasn't that category of people that they thought I should be. Remember I'd mentioned earlier, way before I was a cabin crew. As cabin crew, we was trained to handled situations with the most sensible, logical ways, regardless how annoying a passenger could be. So yeah, they had underestimated me. I didn't felt for their cruelest joke that they waited to see. And I also realized, I almost hurt another women, just like in this drama "Gu Jia" the wife. Fortunately, things hadn't gone too far deep developed yet between us. Coz I'd mentioned, I knew I won't be long in that metropolitan city, I'm just there temporary, and what can I expected much from there ? Somehow I'll still needs to return to my country. And next my rational thoughts - I really need to take a move out of that city as soonest as possible. I ain't gonna be their joker or his joker. So I contacted my chairman, the owner of my previous corporate firm. And I requested an immediate return back to my country, reasons being “I'm Not Used To The Working Culture and Lifestyle There”. I need to retrieved immediately. Fortunately, my request was granted instantly. And the following week, as I packed up both my personal belongings and wrapped up my work, I left this sh*t city with myriad emotions. Angered, Hatred, Vengeance, Regretted, Exhausted and Devastated. They thought after I'd left, the "comedy" was over, and they had enough fun on me. When I returned back to my country where the head quarter office I'm based at, I was then beginning to felt emotional, upset. And I was on leave for two weeks, absent from work. My chairman / boss had noticed something ain't right about me. The following week, I was been called in to his office for report. And so I told the truth. It was clearly I was been humiliated, insulted, deceived. The conclusion - The chairman resend another more higher ranking officer, a Caucasian male CEO to be based at that branch office with his family (wife and kids). I was just a COO, and by my tasks and rank, no doubt I should be reported to the CEO. When this new CEO took over the position at that branch, his first priority was to terminate that bastard and quite several few staffs that was involved in this humiliation game they placed on me. Not just for me, it's an unwanted culture and attitude of work the corporate firm expected. It was been ordered to executed so by the chairman to that new CEO, and he was been pretold about their working cultures and attitudes. Ever since then, I can't denied, I hated that city. I hated their culture. I remained with that corporate firm for another three years then I resigned and move on to joined another multinational firm as CEO of S. E Asia & Asia Pacific Regions. But I'll never forget that lesson I'd learned. And this drama, I didn't watched it, I was just watching here several short videos and I got the whole story what was all about. It reminded me that unpleasant experience. But thankfully, I didn't hurt another women. That's the differences between my story compared with this drama's the mistress "Lin Yo Yo". And I also believes in retribution as well. In my experience, I think I have the right to says, it ain't my fault coz I really didn't knew. The retribution should goes to him, not me. Now looking back, certainly it doesn't felt any much, and I'm happily married with someone, at least my current husband if he lied, he knew his "limits". But usually are common lies, nothing too cruel or ruining away this marriage. Coz he too knew my this unpleasant experience. And he knew too well, if it's something too "over" he'd done, I'll be capable to walked out this marriage just like "Gu Jia" did so in this drama. And this experience, it was about two decades ago. Today, I'm a retiree and doing my freelance work from home.

[@xayxayasmile5737]

wtf dude. are you trying to make a novel yourself...

[@alexandriaelony6858]

@@xayxayasmile5737 Excuse me ? Novel of myself ? You didn't get it don't you ? I was sharing my old time experience what I'd went through, and sort of a little similar with this drama. I'm saying there's another "category" being the "secret mistress" as we ladies. Which is, when I realized I was being placed on this unexpected dirty secretive role unknowingly, my choice of category was, to leave before I hurt others. This is the category I'm saying, instead of continued on and caused more damages. Why ? You think my story was too dramatic is it ? You think it's nice to goes through this sort of ugliness is it ? I'm sharing a truth of what I'd been through, in case any other ladies / women are going through somewhat similar, I'm saying there's another option here. Is to leave before causing too much of damages, not only to others but to ourselves as well. I didn't expect this is the way you viewed my comment. My goodness me, you're so shallowed and narrowed minded. My novel ? I'm laughing my way to the top that, your mindset is so naive. Probably you haven't or had never been through this type of situation, being fooled and played by others. But you remember, if should your day comes one day when you're facing this sort of sh*ts, don't you regret. You may say "Oh I won't", but let me tell you, long ago I too though oh, it won't happened to me coz I'll knows. But I had underestimated destiny or fate. But I didn't blamed it, in fact I'd learned something, a hard lesson. So, you may comment anything as you wants, but remember, don't be too over confident. What you'd criticized about my story, I hope if should one day you comes to this sort of sh*t with your man, you have the guts to face it yourself.

[@ARWINGGGGG]

​@@xayxayasmile5737exactly why I did read all lol

[@zerahcolaso7292]

The scene where they smilr at each other is just painful.

[@kiato8681]

Please guys, what is the name of this wonderful series?

[@judylau4087]

雖然許幻山自私貪婪，諉過於人，但到此境況，都要默認顧佳是一百分的女人，是他佩不上她，故離婚，放手不再糾纏，也有一點良知。

[@leivaniaalves209]

Pode me informar o nome do dorama?

[@ingreentime]

@@leivaniaalves209 三十而已

[@amalab5308]

اخي ممكن تقوليلي اسم هاد المسلسل

[@patriciaestherdesalgastiza1997]

Porque el fue a prision? Me explican Gracias!!!

[@camvannguyen5999]

Anyone post movie up, please put episode 1,2,3, so people can watch know

[@烏拉那拉如懿-z4b]

他這麼努力為什麼不能最幸福？

[@nithyasuni1633]

This lady has dignity

[@charming-po4wm]

結局不錯

[@藍色的小象]

這 娃 真可愛。

[@kwaifankwok7278]

顧佳心想講離婚，但渣男坐監，難以開口，等渣男開口講離婚。*\(^o^)/*

[@玲玲姐的生活日志]

续呢

[@katiamaria6021]

Ele teve o que merecia, gostaria que ela tivesse a oportunidade de conhecer um homem decente.

[@bl9978]

會不會有那麼一瞬間 其實顧佳想說她其實不想離婚

[@Mika_restart2023]

我覺得是，但是幻山覺得自己只會拖累顧佳，也在這一刻他才終於懂了顧佳的好，顧佳也是在這一刻知道了，幻山現在終於懂的她的好了，所以他反而釋懷了

[@DrFlippin]

What a bitter lesson for Xu Huan Shan... I doubt that even You You (Mistress) would take him back (even though they deserve each other). I wonder if Hua Shan's weak and immature character is similar to a lot of sons brought up by wealthy families. Everything is done for them, all problems and hardships are handled for him. The extraordinary woman who he marries ends up being kind of like a 'mom' to him. As much as I despise Xu Huan Shan, I absolutely hate the rich playboy dude that was screwing (in more ways than one) Man Ni. They should write another episode where a number of the women that he exploited, all go on another luxury cruise with him, and they end up throwing him overboard one night, somewhere on the East China Sea. 5 years later, his half eaten, decomposed body washes up on the Alaska coast, under a beautiful Northern Lights sky. hahaha!

[@ainamanda2227]

😅🤭then that would be a thriller drama...👍

[@rubiirae]

You You thought she was fighting for a prince but didn't realize he's just a frog without his wife.

[@pilarsilva3874]

@@ainamanda2227jajaja.

[@ahakzable]

Season 2 pleaseeee

[@mariana1hunnit655]

Buena telenovela china 🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟

[@siskaasvandiari5570]

Bgs deh akhirny bercerai. Sekali selingkuh tdk ada kata diterima lg

[@THEMARREROS2019]

Is this the ending??! I've been watching from 2 channels to put things together

[@abbylynn8872]

You can watch the full series here on KZbin, just search. You really miss a lot. The clips are great. I watched 3 times but still watch the clips when they come up.

[@velquizberrocal8258]

Gran realidad de la vida me encanto este drama...

[@aisyahwijayanti2982]

Manusia itu harus bisa menolong diri sendiri. Perjalanan ini panjang...dan kita tidak tahu ujungnya

[@joannachuang7884]

玻璃反射顧佳沒笑 鏡頭轉換到顧佳在笑 好出戲😂

[@sarashih7691]

玻璃反射的是顧佳的內心。

[@baby4613]

@@sarashih7691。。。

[@joycehawks8987]

Well, he lost everything because of a little girl that stroked his ego. He's in jail because of the little girl convincing him to do it.

[@wtrujillo9250]

NO NO NO he's in jail cause he's weak, had no self control, a spoilt little boy who wanted to feel important. The mistress did not hold a gun to his head and say bang me or else. Why make excuses for his immaturity.

[@paulapena1038]

El personaje de Jia es impecable. Mujer fuerte, decidida y sabe lo que quiere. Dio todo por ese matrimonio y familia, y no supo valorarla incluso llegó a cuestionarla por ser tan decidida, casi como culpándola. Ahora verá lo que es estar sin ella...

[@Johnsonp825]

This drama “Nothing But Thirty” demonstrates the strength that women have to deal with the numerous complications life May bring. The three female friends never waver in their convictions regarding their lives and the path taken. Excellent drama which I have watched 3 times.

[@lettyalvarado6146]

Como se llama este dorama ?

[@mamingdanggen575]

I love the actress

[@kossttamojaan]

the realization of just how badly he had screwed up everything in his life and the moment he knew it was truly over - the most mature and dignified action he ever took and all it took was going to prison to get to this point

[@sevincisrayilova3230]

What a great show 🌷

[@jeanettereinoso293]

De todos los dramas chinos es el que más me ha gustado…

[@mariasalete2869]

Por favor me oh a o nome te agradeço