Xum Ua Txiv Neej Tus Pog Dai Siab~11/01/2022~

Once you are married everything changes, instead stay single so you can hear the positives.

[@pangleechannel4031]

Koj hais yog lawm os mog.

[@seethao1486]

Tu siab tshaj plaws yog yus yuav tau ib tus txiv zoo li koj zaj dab neeg os. Pab koj tu siab ua luaj li os. Peb coob tus viv ncaus ces raug tib tug dab xwb mog.

[@jackieyunan4899]

Xum ua poj nrauj thiab ua luag tus leej muam dai siab kaj siab tshaj nawb cov mi niam tsev aw...

[@colleenchan9872]

Koj txawm tag kev cia siab rau txiv neej los koj txhob rau txim rau tus neeg tshiab mas! Yeej pab koj chim siab tu siab uas koj lub neej xaus rau txoj kev lwj siab chim siab kawg os

[@kelbra3689]

I agree with you. You can experience love, fall in love, live together until your last breath without being married.

[@songvang1309]

That's call Mr. FIRST Impression. I feel your pain hon, best self love.

[@xeeyang5867]

Cas kj txawm siv muab kv txoj kv yuav hais mus hais naj🤣, yeej Yog nkaus li wb zaj nov tiag22 li hos, yuav tu u tus kheej kom zoo, txawm u laus lawm los kom u zoo huv si, u ua ibtug mi neeg zoo, g txhob mus rhuav leetwg lub neej li luag rhuav u lub, cia u nyob rau luag hlub thiab luag ntshaw xwb, zoo dua,

[@jackieyunan4899]

When the truth comes out it's time to let go and move on...

[@mivayang1317]

Your have a good plan. I would do the same. You have your freedom, love yourself.

[@Paulnhia68]

You have my support, sister. Live your life to the fullest, no game no pain.

[@susanlee7349]

Very true sister. It’s not living in the past but what is also good take it. Because there is such thing has a happy marriage after all

[@maivue6325]

Ua txhua yam rau tus neeg yus hlub tabsi luag tsis hlub yus....tu siab khawg li os tus Viv ncaus 😪😪😪

[@pahouajohnnasack4713]

Wow, some Hmong men sure know how to hurt a woman's heart with words they say!! Karma will bite him in the ass sooner or later.

[@my2cents54]

Feel sorry for you tus sister, but I do hope one day u can learn to have trust again. Not everyone is the same but i do understand your POV. Hope for the best and happiness for you.

[@BeautiQueen25]

Sister we don't know what the future hold, but you deserve to be loved. Stop letting your past holding you back. Use your past experience as a stepping stone to move forward into what has been waiting for you.

[@herlee2985]

I would go the F off about buying her a bracelet!!!!!

[@kaher9238]

Don’t let your ex husband stop you find love again.

[@touvanglovesongs1259]

Koj puas yog me vaj tus niam hluas os

[@dolliilov3144]

As long as you know everything about your new man, take that chance of loving him. If things doesn't work out just say next and move on with your life. Life is too short being afraid of feeling hurt and not taking risks.

[@magicalunicorn5853]

You can compromise with your husband as far as the outter appearance but don’t lose all of yourself. My closet is all black and gray clothing with a splash of color here and there. That’s just who I am. Be careful when your hubby starts controlling you and asks why too, just don’t take it as it is. Do your homework on his past. If I wasn’t his number one, I’d leave to become someone’s number one! You’re so naive! Your husband giving $500 gift to another woman? Come on! Stand up for yourself, demand love otherwise leave that relationship. Take your time to heal your heart and have a standard until you’re ready. No need to make a commitment til you know exactly who you are.

[@dongdick1730]

To the lady of this story...how stupid are you not seeing the signs and started questioning his motives?????

[@xiameevang9131]

Same sister.

[@bchang227]

Don't let the past define you. Move on and marry your current bf. He maybe the one. If you have doubts, do a thorough background search on him. Ask around about him. Hmong ppl talk.

[@kanetoews7747]

Don’t let your ex husband have that much power over your love life. If you find true love go for it

[@82Brightstar]

Omg that ex husband is really a dumba**!! What makes him think anyone can accept such degrading comments?? You did good leaving the dork!

[@atlasanyaandamazingplaces8597]

Go for the new man.. never know how it will turn out but find out before get the M.

[@alexjohnson9499]

Good you divorce him but, not everyone is the same as your ex. Life is too short.

[@yingvang1276]

Her husband is gaslighting her

[@miabhlub63]

Sister, not all men are the same.

[@chang3568]

Sister, I know you're hurt but I think u found a good man. He moved there for youm Don't live in the past or else you're gonna lose him.

[@xiameevang9131]

She is living in the present. I know how she feel.

[@xiameevang9131]

Kuv mas paub koj kev mob zoo os Vim Ncaus aw. Been there.Mob siab tu siab tshaj li os. Txawm yus yuav ua zoo npaum cas los yeej piv tsis tau li os. Because the grass is always greener on the other yard. If you are still young leave him and he will realize how green you can be too. Sending hug for you. He have no right to make you buy her gift and pay for.

[@laceitup96]

You should've told the other husband so he knows the real relationship of your husband and his ex. He's only befriending his ex's husband to get close to her.

[@shawj7876]

It’s too bad that your boyfriend has to endure the baggages of your past. He deserves all of you with a clean slate. I know you’ve been hurt but you mustn’t hold back, you must give it your all, your 100% because every relationship depends on it whether it’s your first or your last.

[@lucyvang21]

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[@myprecious6751]

Sister do not give up a good man and your happiness on your ex husband. If anything live your life to the fullest for your ex to see what he lost.

[@cheryang3622]

Poj niam ruam siab dev aw ca ruam ualuaj li os.

[@95leefamilychannel33]

Sister there were too many red flags for you to know but you didn’t know because your love for your ex too much to acknowledge it. Glad u divorced him. Let him suffer & live in his dreams. You should give your boyfriend a chance & price to your ex that you got another man.

[@dongdick1730]

I dont get how she did not see the signs....it was right in her face and she didnt question it..

[@tobiasboon346]

Why didn't you tell the husband of your ex's girlfriend about your husband and his wife? Your ex and his wife are actively deceiving him and you not saying anything makes you just almost as sick as they are. Shame on them and shame on you if you stay quiet.

[@PM-oe5mk]

You need to get yourself into therapy or else your negative past experiences (baggage) with your ex will ruin all future relationships. It's your choice to marry again or not, but if you end up letting the right guy get away because of your fears, then how will that make you feel? Life is a gamble, and what matters is that you choose wisely for a greater chance of success. If you give up on love, you pretty much will prove everything negative your ex-husband said about you. The best way to get back at someone for hurting you is to find a new happiness with someone else.

[@ThePrincessWorrior]

I agree on where healing needed first, rather than bringing hurt to hurt the relationship with the new guy

[@MissPeachie]

I am happy that you left him and moved on. I agree that you should just date and not get remarried. If you are happy where you are, then just live that way. Sorry you wasted 20 years with a man that didn’t love you. Should have seen the red flags when he tried to change you. I hope you find happiness and make him regret it forever.

[@m.muaslis6902]

Your bf doesnt deserve the way you are treating him. You should not take the pain someone caused you and take it out on someone else. That's selfish.

[@Loves_DuckSR]

Awwww... so wrong of your husband to trick you into looking like his ex so he'll be happy. Just too wrong.

[@heymaiv]

Don't take it too long. If your new man treats you right, go for him. Everyone is different. Don't wait too long as he will leave some day if he can no longer can wait. Yes, wait until you heal but there is a fine line with healing vs comfort. Comfort doesn't last long but healing and moving on does. Goodluck.

[@xeeyang5867]

Maiv vaj, 99% men are not truly love,

[@ouradventuresnspecialmoments]

How clueless can a lady be? If your husband is always comparing you to another specific woman, it's obvious that he has a thing with her! Move on...find a man who truly loves you!!!

[@มายาวี]

😭💔 So sad so broken hearts ❤️‍🩹😭😭🥹

[@tusiabmoua9169]

PHOOJ YWG XWB ES NIM YUAV SIV $500.00?? YOG LI CES HAUV (INSIDE) MUAJ SOMETHING LAWM OS,,,, KOJ TUS QUB TXIV MAS THIAJ TXAWJ RUAM KAWG,,, TSEEM MUAJ 2 SIAB RAU LUAG TEJ POJNIAM,,, TSEEM YUAV KOJ HNAV KHAUS NCAWS LI NWS NIAG QUB HLUAS NKAUJ!!!!

[@5tuglis573]

That's not dai siab os.....it's crazy. Glad you moved on. He doesn't deserve your love.

[@lovetoplaywithyou3530]

Wow! $500 to go buy a gift for someone else wife

[@itskalani2009]

Ikr lol

[@Muunchiez]

I cant believe there were no halloween scary story told in the month of October by Mab.

[@Faifferz]

I think people don’t submit them. She only tells what she can get

[@MsPangY]

I’m Sad With You Too!! Someday They Will Miss Crazy They Label When They Created A Monster … Sniff Sniff 😢❤😞😔😭🌸❤️💯💋

[@chuecha2617]

Very sad and lonely story here. To me this looks like a triangle game. She was hurt by her ex-husband and then leading on the new contender. She should just tell him to moved on.

[@leejmuam1]

Good for you for leaving your ex husband. He deserves to be alone and envy his ex gf life. I hope her husband find out and kick him😂. He so obsessed with her, she doesn't like you because your husband dress you up to be her twin🤣🤣.

[@youavu1433]

Your ex is crazy to live in the past. You should move on..not all men are the same.

[@kouavang5928]

"kuv tus hluas nraug hlub hlub kuv", I think you lying to yourself again and you will face broken heart again and again. don't use the word love, "hlub hlub" ever again. this kind of false self judgment will make you an easy prayer and victim again. use the nws ua zoo zoo rau kuv. what your boyfriend is doing now is only zoo zoo so don't confuse with hlub hlub. any bad person can do zoo zoo for anyone he really wants. love comes naturally and has nothing to do zoo zoo.

[@duancaiyang9359]

Koj paub tsawg os sister aw22 koj niag txiv ces twb nyiam niam Pham lawm los mas koj ces paub tsawg xwb os.

[@Mloogzoo]

Time is the taker and healer of all things. Make time your friend not your enemy.

[@evabhmongocadventure9831]

Your husband has feelings for that woman and you don’t know

[@yingvang1276]

She knows, deep down she knows but she's playing blind to it before the amount of pain she doesn't want to endure

[@ellysavaj5656]

Your ex is sick

[@ylt4072]

You're going to make your sinicism come true. Then you will only have yourself to blame

[@kondiminoi4333]

Siaj koj niag txiv ntawv ua faaaabbbb thiag!! Nws Xav kom nws tau nyob ze nws tus qub kiav roj xwb mAs. Tus txiv zoo li no ces muab nrauj ntev lawm os. Zoo ua koj muab nws pov khib nyiab os.

[@chuethao5093]

What an ugly color blue and green Especially green lol

[@82Brightstar]

Those are not ugly colors Don’t you know statistics say In the world blue is the favorite color?? Also green is one of my favorite color!🙂

[@hlubforlife]

Your husband is SICK!