因民族、社會經濟狀況、政治環境、教育體制及個人性情等諸多條件而異,照我認識和說得上話的人所言,開始時男人要有幾個閒錢、外表、空閒、口甜舌滑,不露(有家室)底,遇上的單身女性十個中六七個會感興趣,至於搞不搞到一起,沒有甚麼定規可循。A woman when fully committed to a man can no longer reason.
A friend of mine is a member of the Lion Club, and most of them are not mainly for charity but to show off and get business, if really want to do charity and help people i don't think the Lion Club is the best way