Isse Date Bolu Ya Therapy | Yahya Bootwala

A date can either turn into a relationship or into content. Aapki khushnaseebi hai ki meri aadhi se zyada dates content hi baan jaati thi. Here's a cute, funny and overall cathartic date story that I've been on.
Also, main apne naye show "Dialoguebaaz" ko leke aa raha hoon aapke sheher, so get your tickets now on BookMyShow!
I'm coming to Nagpur, Pune, Mumbai, Delhi, Kolkata, Bhubaneswar, Indore, Bhopal, Hyderabad, Bangalore, Gurgaon aur Chennai so see you at the venues.
Tickets - in.bookmyshow....
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Instagram: / yahyabootwala
Shot at - The Habitat
Video shot by - Harsh Shah and Linus Aranha
Sound Mixing and Mastering - Yash Barse
Edited by - Anuj Kont (StorySips Studio)
Colour Graded by - Aaqil

[@yahyabootwala9789]

"Dialoguebaaz" is coming to Nagpur, Pune, Mumbai, Delhi, Kolkata, Bhubaneswar, Indore, Bhopal, Hyderabad, Bangalore, Gurgaon and Chennai. To book your tickets, click on the link below. See you at the show ✌ in.bookmyshow.com/events/dialoguebaaz/ET00382139

[@cutetimer6238]

Is she your Wife now ?

[@vasudhasharma0306]

Congratulations Yahya. ❤

[@drishtirathore]

Congratulations bro🎉🎉

[@amor5860]

I also feel like we just want someone to watch a film together. I watched a film with a guy at 2 when I was sleepy I didn't like the film and it was in Punjabi I didn't understand that I still completed that movie.

[@aashiagrawal2757]

Please plan ahemdabaad some day☺️

[@aayushit1513]

It felt personal when you said "That day I learned how to take care of myself while having an anxiety attack. But I wish I didn't have to!"

[@ujjwalsarma303]

You also had tht kinda incident of such?

[@pallavikhamkar5767]

Share it with us........😅

[@yahyabootwala9789]

Hope you don’t have to go through it again that way

[@GamesAllGames-2023]

This line actually made me cry

[@simrandhaaniya6187]

mee too@@GamesAllGames-2023

[@khushisharma3649]

'Wo imandari se bas mera saath nibhana chahti thi' literally have my whole heart. Because when you love someone sach me... there are certain things jo apko bilkul pasand nhi hoti, fir aap unhe accept krte ho sirf unke liye. Truely a blessing unhe kabhi nahi khona chahiye. 'kabhi kabar akelepan se ladhne k liye bs ye chahiye hota h, ki bs koi apke saath ek film dekh le' was too relatable❤

[@Amishathakur_]

I feel what that therapist girl did was also to show you love. But since you didn't felt for her you acknowledged that as pity. and when your wife did that you had a different perspective cuz you actually love her. I feel thats what love is, noticing little things and doing those little things for that someone special 🌷

[@adbhutcivil]

Are you that therapist? Ur username is psych ed

[@GhostWriter_369]

​@@adbhutcivil 😂

[@nandinishukla4755]

i agree with you

[@Amishathakur_]

@@adbhutcivil umm no I'm aspiring to be one XD

[@prashantrathod6418]

If he did not know that she was a therapist then the story could have been different....

[@jasleen8817]

The line , "That day I learned how to take care of myself while having an anxiety attack, but I wish I didn't have to...." , I felt I spoke this line because even having a Partner and family no one cares much and everyone thinks you are just creating a big scene but it actually feels like death that time, I wish time becomes better in future and after becoming a therapist I help people like me ❤

[@gaurijadhav8535]

❤

[@riddhisiddhi08]

As a person aspiring to be a therapist, I would forever remember what I learnt today from you. Congratulations on your wedding..

[@simranpreetkaur1533]

Don’t go asking your patients to watch movies as a session

[@Your-Psyche-Spot]

Bro told whole childhood traumas , insecurities in a very good manner.

[@its.mariyammm2307]

the fact that he didn't cry while telling the story >>>

[@yahyabootwala9789]

Aree, kyunki main baat ki tarah bata sakta hoon

[@gungun9712]

@@yahyabootwala9789 No it is because you are healed Hats off to you sir

[@aparnarai999]

Because he knew ki ...... ab to shaadi ho gyi hai 😅

[@Outof.khushi]

​@@yahyabootwala9789 ha aur hum baaton ki tarah bhul bhi jayenge ❤

[@suruchinagar22]

​@@yahyabootwala9789❤❤❤

[@omdwd74]

"my way of dealing with trouma is to hide it till i forget" not easy to hide from mind memory when she shaw you near by surrounding

[@T3NS0R]

"Kabhi kabhar dusro ke liye haarna bhi accha lagta hai", 'ye wala natak barso se karte aa rhe hmlog, hme aata hai", and that ending man 🛐.... life is too unpredictable

[@smrutinalawade]

All the roller coaster of emotions and then A Happy climax! Very beautiful writeup as always!💗

[@yahyabootwala9789]

Thankyou ❤

[@kanchikani2176]

Sending u lot of hugs for all that anxiety attacks which u face alone...bcoz only a broken soul knows....another broke soul....❤❤

[@subhashreesubhalaxmidash5143]

❤❤❤❤

[@tanayadeka9019]

I loved how beautifully you added those tiny jokes while narrating the entire story and hearty congratulations to you guys, much love.

[@yahyabootwala9789]

Important bhi toh hai :p

[@himanshi3884]

That line you said, " Ki jo log apko apna sara dukh dard suna dete hai na, wo apke judgement se nahi darte.... kyunki wo apne dard se toh bahut pehle hi jeet chuke hai. Aur yeh apne aap mein bahut badi baat hai.... hum mein se bahut log na abhi tak wahan pahunch nahi paye hai" This line felt so personal ❤

[@shruti1565]

Congratulations man! You and your wife make an amazing couple together but you somewhere misunderstood that therapist lady, as someone who can dissect people's personalities most of the time, i can say she was a gem ❤

[@yahyabootwala9789]

She definitely is in her own way, but somethings just feel different the way they are said or perceived during the situation, nonetheless, valid.

[@ramdularmandal7543]

If he accept his therapist then it's adjustment after month or years they broke up

[@satishsikhwall]

Immediately after the story, if she asked him for the movie. That is perceived as sympathy. But if she had gone/ booked it anyway for the next date. That would've looked like an actual effort. Still she gave it a thought. It's still a good effort.

[@shivanijindal8615]

I never comment on videos but I felt a genuine need to applaud for this set

[@ayushijain0701]

Just Yahya being Yahya - A complete roller coaster of emotions - 🙌❤️

[@singhpurvi1]

Congratulations ❤❤❤❤

[@hohohoooooo]

Respect bro for sharing something so close to you just in faith of helping us.. May Allah bless you and your wife...

[@shrutighosh2036]

I could relate to every story of yours. Thanks for sharing the story of people who never wanted to be lonely but were always left alone.

[@mayuramv.sankaran3030]

Hearty congratulations on finding your soul mate! God bless. Your story was very relatable and endearing!

[@AnjaliKumari-en8vl]

Congratulations man for your wedding! My heart just leaps up by hearing your words, it is that deep! Always.❤

[@yahyabootwala9789]

Thankyou so much ❤ And the compliment means a lot

[@AnjaliKumari-en8vl]

​@@yahyabootwala9789Pleasure was all mine 😊

[@santoshchavhan4301]

He said that day he handled his anxiety attack himself... actually i had also faced same situation in my life ..not because of breakup but because of stress of future.. when everyone leaves you that day you realise that you should handle your problems yourself... it shows importance of being independent..

[@abhay.rajak18]

ये जरूरी नहीं है की आप हमेशा सही होके ही जीतोगे, कभी-कबार ना दूसरों के लिए हारना भी अच्छा लगता है❤

[@soumyadubey6468]

many many congratulations to the person jiski vajah se maine poetries sunna shuru kiya tha....my first video was...kal hoo naa ho....i can't even explain what i felt after watching that video years back.....i love every single peice u have written and ofcourse your voice to kya hi kahein........likhneko to bhut kuch hai but rehne dete hain......once again many many congratulations to both of you

[@trishasingh1477]

made me cry💔........congratulations❤may god bless you and your wife

[@geetagupta5816]

sometimes all we need is to know that we are not alone in our sufferings and that there are other people who have been through the same. This was beautiful to listen to sir thank you.

[@Shifacore]

But the therapist was also very sweet and kinda genuine, it's just you saw it in a different perspective... Between ladies and gentlemen as a legend said- "kahani ki end mai sab kuch thik huo jata hai" 💗🫂 It's a happy ending, congratulations♥️✨

[@sachinshah8349]

last line of movie story when she said i want to be in my happy mood and dont want to get emotional .....reminds something hard

[@jiya3095.]

It felt like you said the words I wanted to say aloud but never had the courage to tell anyone... thankyou for letting me know that I'm not the only one who goes through these loneliness alone 🙃 loneliness eats the person everyday ! No matter what happens It keeps chasing you...most heartfelt things I've ever heard when I finished this video there were tears in my eyes not for sympathy but for myself what I've gone through... you're amazing💜 and lately congratulations 🎉

[@KanchiAngre]

Literally this video is amazing i watched it 3-4 times and still i wanted to watch again.... You know amazing thing is that i feel connected..... By the way I didn't follow anyone on Instagram but i follow you..... And yes congratulations 🎉🎉

[@yahyabootwala9789]

Hey, I’m glad aapko kahaani pasand aayi ❤

[@Divyygaming45]

Aap mano ge nahi mene bhi ye video 5+ time dekhi kya lines or kya felling thi just heart touching also I followed him

[@shadansiddiqui6953]

Isko "date" bolu ya "therapy" bolu❌ Isko "story" bolu ya "standup comedy" bolu 😊✅

[@urmiraj162]

Congratulations for your wedding 💒💒. Very happy to hear this good news 😊 I see so many of your videos and I genuinely wish that you get your love of life forever ♾️♾️

[@YogeshSharma-dz7cj]

Sometimes it is not just sympathy, it also comes from empathy 😊

[@mrbfacts824]

Congratulations broo..

[@AmritaKumari-zi7wp]

To be very honest i just loved it❤yahya i am your big fan..... 😍 the moment you talked about that anxiety attacks and those pain..i went through this and i can relate it so much ❤......and i like that you don't need sympathy you simply needed someone's "saath" ....that poem you recite for that therapist was also awesome ❤i was numb too when i heard your childhood story ....my friend basically treated me the same way 🖤 i used to feel like a left out person and anxiety was started from childhood only with me..but whatever the story and the concept of film ❤......... mujhe bhi problem hoti hai ki ye janane mein ki insaan serious hai yaa majjak kar Raha hai 🖤🖤

[@sumedharecites5804]

Magic is where Yahya is!🥺✨✨

[@meera1860]

Best show ever witnessed....I could feel the pain in each and every sentence... Never expected this to be so emotional...and ending itni achi hogi ... Congratulations 🎉👏🎉...... Beautiful marriage with a beautiful person .... So happy for you both.

[@prakaashmishra]

Congratulations! Khush naseeb ho aapko aisa partner mila jo bina kisi motive ke aapke saath kyuki bas wo aapke saath rehna chahte bina aapko pity kiye!

[@ayseyh]

the audience were kinda dead, i loved every bit of this 😺❤

[@yahyabootwala9789]

Aree aisa nahi hai, bas feel mein thee woh log

[@aparna4883]

Missed your writeups!! And this was a great, emotional and beautiful comeback ❤

[@thenamesAbhishek]

Gosh! Felt this on so many levels - from people asking me to sing a song for absolutely no reason at all, to "my way of dealing with trauma is to hide it till I forget it", from moving to a new school midway and trying to make new friends, to getting bullied, from watching umpteen movies alone to watching someone choose a moron over me, from crying when nobody's around, and acting 'normal' in front of everyone, to getting pity from people (which I absolutely don't want).

[@karishmajethwani6778]

Congratulations and no wonder you never leave a chance to amaze by your writing, simplicity and narration.Keep growing is all i can wish. ❤❤❤❤❤

[@sachin438]

Watching this with her screen sharing se kyuki long distance hai . Or vo jo line boli na dar pe jeet paa li usne . Same bro Ek din usne sara siyappa khol ke rakh Diya . ❤️

[@sangitamandal2154]

Oiii❤️❤️

[@vasugarg939]

Congratulations Yahya! Missed your writeups. Keep posting

[@yahyabootwala9789]

Pakka will

[@vartikabhardwajofficial]

Congratulations and lots of love❤️🧿 . Could relate way too much 💘

[@Enthusiastic_soul27]

I think that was not pity but empathy for you ,she cared for you too ❤

[@yahyabootwala9789]

Maybe, par kayi baar bolne ke tarike se kuch aur lag sakta hai.

[@Enthusiastic_soul27]

@@yahyabootwala9789 ya that can happen 💓

[@flowercasette]

congratulations, i'm so happy for you!! i've been feeling terribly lonely, so this made me laugh and also made me cry. but it has also left me with some hope. thank you for sharing your story! 🌻

[@keerthivijay1242]

His story reminds me these lines... In life's storm, with you, I abide, Your love, my shelter, where I confide. With gratitude, I say again, 'Tumhare ishq se bani hoon main... Pehle zinda thi... ab jee rahi hoon main.'"

[@srideviraman6662]

❤

[@priyamhazarika2744]

A little sad ,a slight pinch of lightness ,joy and very very heartwarming❤

[@pbandita4636]

First, i thought you've started being a stand-up comedian, but slowly it developed and such heart touching... Loads of love and respect ❤

[@poojachouhan05]

4:03 jo log apko apne sare dukh dars suna dete h vo apke judgment se nhi darte h kyuki vo apne dard se to kahi phle hi jeet chuke hote hh.. It exactly hits me❤🥹

[@sashanksuraiya9642]

Bro! Those lines were so beautiful! Literally could bring out the emotions which were buried somewhere inside me

[@angelpaul8410]

It's relatable to the extent of making me cry.. Thanks for sharing❤

[@kasishdas08]

the moment he said "well we got married" i screamed with happiness

[@Sta907]

@yahya, I am just blown away with this video.apki story ke beech me wo learnings ya realisation, that gave me goosebumps. I have been following you since your video"Shayad wo pyar nahi" and you are just awesome.

[@shivanithummalapalli8300]

Soo happy that I got to see this live in the trial show.... It was one of the best stories and an amazing experience to watch you perform the story live first hand!!🙂❤️ Also congratulations once again on your married life!!🥳❤️

[@Medico2008]

Congratulations bhai..... Bolne ko bhut kuch hai.....but samj nahi ara kya hi bolu......😊 Well just i saw is always be happy.......and keep smiling......❤

[@swastikaarajput]

Youuuu yahyaaaa❤ Thank you for this beautiful comeback!

[@yahyabootwala9789]

Aree aree cutie ❤️ Shukriya

[@aayushanand2685]

Bhai bhai bhai❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ Couldnt stop clapping. Love u bhaiya❤❤❤❤

[@manasibaindur3880]

Congratulations! The set was superb. And I got the difference between the both of their reactions. I don't think it was wrong on the part of therapist but I understand the nuance that you're trying to convey. Also, thanks for the lesson. 🤗 Hope you have gret year ahead!

[@SweetyPaul-jf5rz]

I literally have tears in my eyes right now. I could relate with him in every part of this video and the most important thing that hit me was , I don't want sympathy, nobody wants sympathy. a similar situation has happened to me as well. I'm glad I found this video .

[@aarjavgupta6797]

Extremely happy for you, felt like if i could possibly watch a movie (by which I mean be there for you) with you when you needed Amazing Spider-Man ke time pe hi. But ig I was a solid 8 years late☹️ But I'm so glad that you've found the one. Congratulations on your marriage Yahya bhaiya 🥰 All of it just went right through the heart ❤️

[@Adwitiya15]

"Jab aap school k bare me sochte ho n , to aap hmesha dosto k bare me hi sochoge" Totally Relatable Man! 🌸

[@believe1828]

Congratulations Yahya!! Missed your writeups a lot, keep posting. Also, this is one of the beautiful comeback❤

[@mridultiwari3560]

Very sweet relatable set with fun part in between...I liked it very much

[@shivani9308]

Congratulations!! This was sooooo emotional, lovely and just peferct. As always loved it ♥️

[@yahyabootwala9789]

Shukriya ❤

[@rhino7618]

I loved the entire video. It's amazing and it gave me nostalgia too even when I had nothing to relate with it except I love watching movies. Its kind of soothing and tells so much about life in a easy way I feel. It was that much nostalgic that I stopped the video in between and talked to myself for half an hour about life and good memories as well as about the things which I also experienced as a student, kind of bullying but not only by students but by teachers too.... That's sad but from the start I was never ready to get any sympathy from the people who were not even real. So that was the second thing I relate to. ❤loved the video and love you yahya and congratulations for married life.

[@tanishkapurohit6833]

I had a whole big smile while listening to this❤

[@sarasharrma]

not gonna lie this is my first time listening to u. I obviously came with expectation of just casual humour cuss words, basically, how every other the stand-up is.. but I left with some bittersweetness.. it was truly beautiful

[@rachayita_roy]

I really loved how well grafted the entire story is ❤ felt personal at places 😊

[@maheshdhirubhaidesai-karac6159]

Congrats on your wedding. God bless the young couple. Thank you for keeping the contents so clean without vulgarities. Please keep it that way. I am a big fan

[@anirbanghosh1217]

For the first time I am watching ur video as soon as it is posted and it is as usual ❤

[@yahyabootwala9789]

Bahut bahut shukriya yaara

[@anirbanghosh1217]

@@yahyabootwala9789 haaye😍 bro u made my day.... Btw shaadi mubarak ho🌝❤️

[@NikhilMalik-x4q]

Bhai itna personal nhi hona tha really felt when you said mujhe fark samajh nhi aata kon kab majak kar rha ho or kab serious h 🙂 damn true men respect the way you conveyed

[@animashrma]

sir m b 23 ki umr me hi hi sikh chuki hu is anxiety attack ko smbhalana pr na kbhi kbhi ye nhi smbhala jata 3 3 dino tk otherwise maine b akele jina sikh liya h kyonki abhi tk koi aisa mila hi nhi jo apna sa lge

[@MyPersonal-u1m]

Yhan Bahut ate h hasane Wale But aap jaisa bahut km ata h Itne true person Shayad koi ek hi ❤❤❤❤❤

[@niya11_k]

Watching this show live was absolutely magical thank you for the wonderful show❤

[@yahyabootwala9789]

I’m glad you enjoyed it ❤

[@SehajArora-o3c]

I really liked everything about ur words in the video... Nd yeaa heartiest congratulations for ur wedding. Best wishes.. hope u get many success ahead

[@manan001]

Better than a psychiatrist session 🙌

[@chhavikhurana5209]

Congratulations Yayha! Glad to see you back in action. I was missing your poetry which I felt was lost for quite some time.

[@newarnivlogs]

Missed your writing so much 😩💗

[@yahyabootwala9789]

And I missed these beautiful comments

[@newarnivlogs]

@@yahyabootwala9789 😩💗💗

[@abhinavgharde6845]

Welcome back champ ❤congratulations for,marriage ❤

[@ifeelBijay]

Saadi ho Gayi kya ?

[@yahyabootwala9789]

Thankyou so much baba

[@mehwishhassan7055]

Is he really married???

[@PokhrajRoy.]

Fun Fact: I heard you asking a question at the ‘Welcome to Paradise’ book launch.

[@niyatis4]

As someone who dealt with anxiety attacks and loneliness always, I can't tell you how relatable and sad this is. Anyone who's dealing with loneliness, and lacking friendship; I truly hope you find the right ones for you. ❤

[@thenutriship]

Ab samajh aaya ke tumne weight gain kaise kiya hoga....😂😂 Heartiest Congratulations 👏🏻🎉

[@thatintrovertedgirl8293]

that wanting to have stories to tell from school group things felt so personal and I been there only to realize nothing matters later seeing you grow in life they change and start referring to you as their "best friend". But you do have one or two gem of heart people who still want to be in touch after being so far away...

[@harshparmar4837]

Is it me or Everybody finds Zakir in him?❤

[@anujdada]

Congratulations to both of you 🎉

[@HRMentorshipHub]

You are so strong 💞 this is the exact story of my college life

[@yahyabootwala9789]

Hope sab badhiya hai ab, take care

[@ahmadbabar]

This was so wholesome. Best of luck. So great to see you found the one

[@p_prags2]

1st time I saw a comedy content where there is also story well conveyed with meaningful message Congratulations 🎉 on ur Marriage 💞😄

[@YamRaj]

Congrats bro, as being a complete opposite of your personality, I never wanted to make friends but ended up having many. That skill helped me in business and landing clients. I guess we all are blessed in different ways.

[@ritu5472]

Brother , the part when you say mujhe dar lgta hai aise logon se jo sari baten bta dete hain because wo aapk judgment se nh drte ' fall me to watch full episode on you tube , it' amazing literally, it could not said to be funny but having another level of deep understanding of emotions

[@omnarayan_27]

Congo ❤...also your narration was top notch as always. Also i think that therapist girl asked you for movie to make you feel good not for showing sympathy 😊

[@khushigarg6196]

Panic attacks are real and sometimes we find ourselves alone and it's quite traumatizing to handle such situations alone when you don't have any hint how to deal with it. Felt it really hard.

[@mahadevipatel8276]

CONGRATULATIONS!❤️ it’s beautiful how you talk and express

[@02aditisingh41]

firstly congratulations and this is your first video i saw....i have no words, no words. Im so deeply impressed by your talking style, sense of humour, your delivery of story, im honestly soo touched i cannot express. Proud of you for coming so far thr all of that, i immediately hit that subscribe button man you went thru ups and won but this version i saw/first met of you is AMAZING, such charming and ...just amazing man looking forward for more of your vids, lots of love❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@fablihaanika829]

Missed you on stage..glad to hear you back again..wishing you all the best for your days ahead..kind of fighting a hard time..your therapist story really helped!

[@sbcreation1461]

❤ bahot hi khubsurati se dard bataya h tumne ..... Mujhe uss therapist.....ko jaisi tumne respect dii h vo bahot khub laga....ha shayad kuch logo k pas dard hota h!!! bas dard hota aur tab unnnhe khud k liye khudi se khusi mangni hoti h.....kya kare aakhir judgement jaise se sabdo ka jo sirf bole jaate magar hame apna nhi bana lete h...... Kitna cross karke finally u reached at ❤....god bless you both 💫

[@heartkelvin9031]

That’s so heartbreakingly beautiful ❤️

[@mansoor7781]

Hi yayah, first of all very well congratulations on your cute little picture at the end of the clip, which helps me wipe my tears off, and yes this STAND-UP is a little different, and yet I'm proud of you of how you felt-dealt with all the situations, and yet all those are personal, yet you shared reminding me, that "I'm not the only one who's dealing all those", thank you!