Singaporean Girls Have This Toxic Trait

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Singaporean Girls Have This Toxic Trait
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[@YEOLO]

is telling someone about your day a toxic trait?

[@PokhrajRoy.]

No. People need to vent. If you do want to establish boundaries, then do it without being nasty.

[@whk4041]

Define toxic trait? If toxic trait is just a preference, then it differs for each person

[@bchpls24]

best solution. I'll start chasing males instead from now😂

[@blacksheepshepherd]

It's call Ah Lian culture back then..😅

[@lemonadeslices]

unpopular opinion: it is if it's without them asking about/after me - i.e. it's just a bad sign if someone chasing you never asks after/about you, but constantly talks about themselves. then that's a problem, i feel.

[@cva9928]

I realise that cursing, with absolutely no context, happens to be "cool" to these kids. Like how smoking does something but also harms the body, but it's still cool 😂😂😂

[@redsalviarathi3695]

Fun fact ppl who curse more often are more adaptable at picking up languages and they are also known to be more intelligent

[@TheGenuineDriver]

@@redsalviarathi3695 what, really?

[@anpdgbe]

@@redsalviarathi3695 makes them sound stupid though

[@pajamas86]

When they have a lack of vocabulary to describe extreme reactions, f**k is a great word to exaggerate any situation.

[@dooms8870]

agreed, they open greetings to their friends with "Oi fuck you"

[@ぷードーモ]

This kind of false feminist mindset most girls have in recent years is confusing. They would want to be treated as equals yet require men to treat them like princesses and when they are not pleased would resort to insulting men in general...As a woman and a feminist, I feel sorry for a lot of men and hope you all wouldn't think this is what feminism is about. ANY relationship, whether it's romantic or friendship, will not be successful if both parties don't respect the other. Where I come from, a man confessing their affections and doing nice things to please their romantic interest is called courting. Boys, when courting a girl, please do not forget her boundaries. Girls, if you do not like the guy, tell him straight out and don't let him waste his time and efforts on you. Know when things need to stop.

[@cbgh4637]

I think the issue here is that girls find it difficult to break it to them that they arent interested. Its not as easy as they have to make sure no hard feelings and some guys dont take rejection easily. Men cant handle rejection from women.

[@zdzislaw_sedsinski]

​@@cbgh4637 Doesn't matter whether it is difficult or not though, everyone takes rejection differently, but not telling them is the last thing you want to do. Like most things, you still have to do it even if it is difficult, since the alternative is letting it fester and become an even more difficult problem. P.s. sometimes it isn't even a problem at first if you tell them ASAP, it's when you don't tell the other person, waste each other's time and lead them on, that it becomes a problem.

[@Irfan87]

@@cbgh4637 Thats a rubbish assumption, most men would appreciate straight up honesty. A lot of women lead on cos they like the attention more than anything else.

[@Drippinonyou]

that goes to show social media is poison. Dont get tied down with comments and opinions. Live your live and go experience it first hand. Just be honest and straight forward with your intentions regarding dating. @@strawbeare

[@skillbopster]

@@strawbeare They have there equality so no they are not fighting for equality.

[@nerdee89]

Ok, I’m already married and met my husband from a dating app. Honestly, the more you date, the more you realise a guy who genuinely likes you, will show it. It’s really obvious, you don’t have to wonder and play mind games. You can be with a guy for years, and still not end up together.

[@musenw8834]

That's true, but unfortunately, it's also seeing the character of whoever's behind the dating apps. Sometimes it works, other times it may not.

[@falloutcat3412]

your pfp is taking me out lolll

[@wildside1507]

When my sister had a phase of acting like these girls on the podcast my parents gave her the belt💀

[@Reza.El-Fatih]

🤣

[@tenga3tango]

Better yet , your parents should have rubbed pounded chilli.padi unto all her orifices.

[@yunyung]

Communication is a problem globally, not just in Singapore, when it comes to dating. Seriously. Stories of breakups that I've personally heard is due to the lack of communication as well as trust. It's impossible to expect your partner to understand you 100% even if y'all are dating for a long time already and you can't stop your partner from socializing with others so why not talk it out, set boundaries and just be direct? And why are they blaming dating apps? It's not like the apps control the things you say and do...

[@roseelf6984]

Lol the irony is, I know a lot of guys who would say that they wanna date girls who can intellectually stimulate them, but end up going for empty-headed girls like those 2 in the "podcast" 😵

[@csy897]

They may prefer something but if empty-headed girls are easier to chase then bo pian lor.

[@user-kd2ez2mb3c]

These 2? Nah cringe. They attract guys that are meh.

[@fredastrology]

I personally won't tap those girls..

[@cmz2606]

Nah it's the same for both sides. Looks first, brains later. If you can have both sure why not but you'll prob just be insecure at the end of the day

[@DionLYA]

frankly speaking, a lot of us guys may say that we won't date these girls, but in reality, who will know whether or not these girls are like that until we start dating them? when we first see them, we instantly start going for them because of the looks, we never think so much about whether or not they are intellectually stimulating until it is too late.

[@PokhrajRoy.]

It’s the bare minimum to not be a gender essentialist when it comes to dating but it’s refreshing to see YEOLO being fair in his assessment of situations.

[@evelynang2890]

king behaviour honestly

[@vagrantastronaut]

Yeolo I love how you gracefully provide constructive criticism to the subjects of your videos with relevant humour. You're one of the best commentary KZbinrs imo, got substance and flair one 👏

[@nicoldddddd]

Girl on the right breaking the 4th wall or smth 😭

[@hom3r]

Bimbos being hypocrite. Hope this sums it up.

[@potatocarrot2756]

8:23 IM DYING this is too funny

[@yourmamandi]

No. 1 Toxic trait gotta be cheating, like what kind of sick satisfaction do you get going behind people's back and betraying their trust for you like that. There might be some exceptions to cheating but in general i think it should affect more ppl's moral compass. WAKE UP AND BREAK UP

[@RayMak]

Their beliefs and experiences formed their reality…

[@ashashraa6579]

You mean their beliefs and *lack* of experiences formed their *warped* reality?

[@sierraamber6196]

I lost my shit at the Dora the explorer segment 😂

[@2dots3dote26]

These girls sounds like me in my English paper 1 🥴

[@JeddtheJedi]

In straight relationships, I feel like with dating apps, the disappointment is front-loaded for guys because women get more matches, but then back-loaded for women because when they do on dates, it might not be a great experience. It's production line rejection, a rejection factory.

[@Pandaeyedninja]

The point is, you should learn how to communicate effectively before jumping into any form of relationships. Maybe they should enroll in some classes.

[@brianlee3508]

A dark empath understand how others feel n toy with other feelings. Any form of relationship need a strong foundation of shared core values n trust n communication. Not thru emotional abuse. For example silence treatment is not cute but its a form of emotional abuse. Beware of ppl who weaponised emotions to get what they want. They know n rather dun care if their actions hurt others in the name of love.

[@damatically]

This is why not everyone deserves a podcast

[@memyselfandi7529]

Unbelievable! No shame whatsoever smh Dating shouldn't be a game but yet the left one playing games herself She doesn't even look chio at all!

[@CL-it3zy]

Omg after watching their podcast I feel like I can produce better 10x quality ones.

[@grandxeno7288]

Broad vocabulary capacity from these woman HAHA

[@panipainpani]

"Where's the structure? Where's the PEEL?" oh man this sent me back to secondary school days 😂😂

[@piglink10]

9:17 'Dating shouldn't be a game' and yet she still continued going out with the guy even when she clearly knows she doesn't have any interest in him.

[@monicarai1497]

If only we knew stupidity could kill.

[@ericalin4884]

The swipper no swipping bro🤣🤣🤣💀

[@Cantetinza17]

I would think that it should be well known that people speak to multiple people. What is horrible is when they are and they lie and say, "I'm only talking to you". If a person hasn't told you that he likes you then you dip out first. Someone who truly likes you will not leave you guessing. If a guy that you like keeps you guessing it's because you are an option if the girl that he sees as his main says no or makes him mad, then he can fall back on you. I'm a Sailor and all I have to say is all that cursing shows that they have limited vocabulary.

[@zainuddinbrahim4625]

What i can say that dating games is part of something bigger, that what it is suppose to be, first n foremost dating app is like switching friends and flirting games, and if it is taken correctly, u cant just jump into someone instantly, thats spell danger..relationship involve 2 heads and 2 heads getting to know each other seriously n ignore the rest, where else flirting is just a one off thing.

[@zainuddinbrahim4625]

Strange to hear if negative thought before dating, why in the first place dating for.

[@part-timedebiru9681]

ANDREW BIN TATE ICANT

[@cabbagegrl1647]

Where can I find the original video?

[@dearfiyah]

Dating shouldn’t be a game but it’s ok to lead people on?????

[@francois.m]

Just cos they have microphones doesn't mean you need to listen to them 🙃

[@d_bak4585]

Messy podcast aside, they dont know that they are part of the problem they hate so much.

[@kamilminiakhmetov513]

I have always represented the people of Singapore as cultured and intelligent. Always inspired by the story of Lee Kuan Yew. A little disappointed with the manner of communication of these girls, more like stereotypical hillbillies.

[@sergelondon916]

Bro be serious you're comparing a statesmen with two entitled bitches🙄

[@justinjunjie8778]

Hi yeolo I’m early today. Great video 😊

[@musenw8834]

Never liked the "IYKYK" expression. Always feels exclusive by nature instead of "those who can relate, help others to understand the best they can!" The leading them on part is a toxicity

[@OdinsOdyssey5252]

Do they really have fans that follow them? What kind of girls talk like this “toilet language” (fu..., fu..., etc.)

[@hybridangel14]

I'm working for a SG company remotedly these days so I'm really interested in knowing more about SG culture, old or new.

[@eugenesyj]

Do a reveal on Netflix's Dubai Bling :) Please

[@aggrovixen231]

Currently living in the States, don't cuss too much it will lose it's meaning! Be like me, cussed out the American in Singlish, you don't chibai! LMAO

[@tutiens7943]

Yeolo, I like listening to you. That 2 girls? No. Bad English, Singlish pronunciation (swallowing many vowels & consonants similar to Gurmit Singh), and many other mundane chats. Are they trying to broadcast something important? The cussing doesn't increase the quality of the content, are they cussing to sound cool?

[@user-uy9pd6dr5y]

Nowadays people with a mic and camera can do podcast with no substance 😅

[@TragicHeroine_]

Normies are fascinating

[@Teddypally]

I think they did an analysis and found something like 80% of the women chose 20% of the men. Whereas the men were not as selective. What that means is the male 20%, having too many choices, had to juggle and reject women, which made the women feel like they were being treated poorly and rejected for poor reasons. These women then wanted to give the male 80% a taste of their "own" medicine and became very toxic. The first was by circumstance and the second was by choice. You see that girl is not pretty but juggles guys yet complains men don't give her attention. The first paragraph pretty much explains it. She picked the handsome men and was treated poorly and rejected so she starts playing with the regular guys, excusing herself by saying all men are bad. Definitely overly entitled and someone all guys should stay away from.

[@rogbfk6993]

These girls think too highly of themselves. lol

[@ToudouRenka]

It's either they're just dumb or they're trying to gain exposure doesn't matter good or bad. Who knows

[@WinterSistaCh]

It's ME . Hi . I'm the problem it's Me

[@hyejusoxinz]

podcast where to watch

[@michelleyee7858]

Why have your background changed?

[@gadenp81]

Sorry la. I dated girls that think dating is a game or no idea what they want or want EVERYTHING. I get burnt out by, so many try for fun ladies, I cannot take it. I want to get married to someone that I can walk with for the rest of my days. These girls all say anyone can but SG girls standards must assertive, do what they want, firm, nice, earn a lot of money, spend a lot of time with them, work hard, word life balance.... WTF do they want... Cannot stand SG girls.

[@humberabdulah4733]

bang u bagus memberi kesimpulan kehidupan normal orang singapur saya yg bukan orang sana jadi mengerti tentang pola pikir orang singapur

[@akaeka]

Well.. no one wanna talk to them either anyway, dora should be asking us to explore and find foreign gf

[@CJ-sin]

Men, go for an eye check.

[@lifeneedsmorechill]

I lost brain cells listening to the podcast....I started off with zero

[@maleman67]

Maybe they feel cursing makes them cool

[@metal2020]

hahaha what happens if we meet expat who came here yrs ago, knows our colloqualiness n acts kiasu ,argumentative n toxic around others except others who r lookin rich ? bet she or he be falling for a scam ,higher they are harder they fall ,ppl have to learn humility in any nation ya 😅

[@xa2827]

Thank god I’m GAY!🌈😂✨💕

[@tenga3tango]

又 想 玩 ， 又 怕 痛

[@34rolento1]

The malay guy did not say anything offensive at all

[@kimc7632]

Ah I think this video was taken a bit out of context…The girls are discussing toxic trait girls have and it’s not false, because usually girls tend to be more indecisive espc when you have a lack of exp or rather more choices and it’s common in both genders. The podcast is called overthink, so there is a lot of rumination back and forth probably unfiltered on purpose. Upon scanning the original video I do see myself as a girl back then, not as mature that can probably relate, but I do see why this cut was misleading. Personally been on the app and found someone after a long time, unfortunately played the game due to lack of exp and sometimes it is mentally taxing to want to find someone ideal that matches your energy and values. It is not easy to find someone, it’s draining to talk to many people, I guess when you like someone and they ghost you(my first match) it almost scars u in the sense that you can’t pin your hopes on one person now or you will get hurt if it fails. I realise this is also a common sunk cost fallacy most people tend to have. Dating is not easy, so is finding someone. End of the day is always try to be the best version of yourself, if someone ever ghost you don’t take it to heart, if you are tired of the dating game take a break and don’t give up.

[@celtic889]

Thing is guys get ghosted alot more than the girls, and no one enjoys rejection either. This whole "I am a modern women phase going on but expecting a traditional dude" to pop by wont work, things worked a certain way back in the previous generations. Its something the girls need to adjust. Most girls I know just want attention and validation that is about it. Best way to go about it is to not treat it like a game and be your authentic self, this will rule out plenty of time wasters.

[@poejoyer]

Interesting, so saying bro mean I not interested in you but not in a straight forward?

[@PokhrajRoy.]

This was quite fun and thanks to you, I follow Sam Driscoll who seems cool, I think

[@murtabakgoreng5834]

where can i watch the original podcast?

[@cookieMonster-ky8fg]

Try searching Overthink podcast.

[@xxx-wf5bu]

@@cookieMonster-ky8fg don't have eh

[@cookieMonster-ky8fg]

My bad, the podcast is call “Overthink”. Hahah

[@AshiTar]

What even is the podcast. A bit close to the mic so their voice is a bit muffled. If Yeolo does not explain I would probably not even understand. The amount of cursing obviously does not help.

[@PokhrajRoy.]

“Just don’t hook up with guys.” is fine but they’ll go on to deprive Queer People who might like them lmao

[@rishiprasath]

Savage

[@Afterthoughtsg]

#TypicalLians

[@mousefatfat]

wow, really "good" podcast lol, alright, time to go listen to Joe Rogan again

[@PokhrajRoy.]

I think my eyes have a little adjusting to do in terms of the video setup I see lol jk

[@jankoskai]

my dog

[@wetcabbage69]

11:22 like he did not just say what to chase instead of women

[@lemonadeslices]

i lost brain cells listening to the podcast girlies because so much of it made no sense - once again, thanks for watching and reviewing this drivel so we don't have to. your channel is public service for all of us.

[@abc-pz6xp]

There should be more resolutions and more depth into why “dating is a game”…. Like it just seems like a boring gossip session about why their life is so single and blaming it on guys and dating apps. Show us the pros and cons of dating apps perhaps or just don’t do the podcast if there’s no purpose to convey a message to the greater audience yk

[@rishiprasath]

Unpopular opinion here, as we see more YEOLO vids, We are starting to realize that even more of our youngsters in the Gen Z era being even more complicated towards one another and then complaining about it too which kinda boggles me. At this rate , at the bigger scheme of things, birth rates in the future will really sink really down low and even the gahmen will have no idea what's going on.

[@rishiprasath]

Am I really a millennial, or a boomer born late? I find myself ranting like one.

[@jk-er2zt]

@@rishiprasath at least some millennials are fond of books eh?

[@ionisur]

@@rishiprasath nah

[@ashashraa6579]

@@rishiprasath Well according to most of Gen Zs, millennials like us are considered boomers. Let's wear that title as a badge of honor considering most of Gen Zs are a lost cause of generation.

[@caekes2628]

as a genz, i just think that pretty much every generation had this phase. pretty sure ive heard millenials talk about dating being complicated during the internet tumblr phase, its just that gen z seems to like to air such opinions online more, especially with the increasing accessibility and normalization in doing so in online spaces

[@jiayilee1873]

1:23 "Where's the PEEL?" As an O level student, that made me chuckle

[@nomotivay]

"Don't talk to guys" No one's stopping them from dating girls. They should date each other, seem quite compatible. I support

[@cmz2606]

Gotta admit even though we are educated, many of us just aren't smart nor exactly what I would call, socially conscious. Eq definitely not higher than many of the foreigners I met too, probably due to how our life in SG is structured since young and guess what. We always feel like the boomers can't understand us when were young, heck now I realize how it feels. The younger generation just get more and more messed up in a sense.

[@elaineoh3984]

In my opinion, there's not much content, so the cursing is just filler. Otherwise they don't seem to have the vocabulary to make it engaging or long enough.

[@angnobel]

I continue to go out with him 1-on-1 and reply to his text. Why would he think I'm interested in him>

[@shuwenwen]

I saw their vid on TT and honestly was too cringe to watch the whole thing lol. As a girl from sg, I do not claim them 🥴

[@dooms8870]

I dont take anyone on Tiktok seriously either lmao.

[@PokhrajRoy.]

YEOLO gave the best tribute to ‘Dora the Explorer’ and I loved it ❤ #SwipeOrNoSwipe

[@whk4041]

False "popularity" in dating apps and higher expectations r a few factors tat led to the complexity of dating in SG. Even though SG has been much developed, but the mentality of dating is still outdated. Most ppl still hold on to the old values, e.g. guy must chase girl, girl must wait etc. There r other factors, but I will let other ppl chip in on their 2 cents...

[@csy897]

Close to no exp with dating apps but when I did use them I ended up ghosting a few in a row before stopping altogether cus I realised they were talking to more than one person. I guess I'm ok with that, but when it comes to a point where you're confusing me with someone else, I think maybe it's too much.

[@marcustay242]

Why i stopped dating Singaporean/Malaysian girls

[@NathanNoon]

I just feel like dating apps do not work for majority of men now because there are so much rules laid out by women. I understand that this their way of filtering out the bad characters but most of the times they are filtering out the good ones though. and then they go on to shame men's conversation skills and choice of date venue or activity or spending power further.

[@Bernardjytan]

Yeolo to start a podcast seems more interesting.

[@yuetmei_0826]

Yeologist all the way

[@Lololol555x]

This podcast is just.... omg.

[@hyejusoxinz]

where u watch

[@justsomeguywithhalfamustac4600]

Better conclusion, don't date just for the sake of dating

[@jytan740]

lol swiper no swiping

[@proxyacc5017]

Fffff nooo not the Dora the Explorer comparison 😭😂. 08:35

[@BK8MoneyMaker]

Dating app is just a medium I can say, relationship not only needs dating app, but also time & communication 🤔

[@GenericMedusa99]

why do they keep cursing? us men dont use cus words like that :(

[@misterigato]

FUCKING ANDREW BIN TATE!!!! HAHAHAHAHAH😂😂😂

[@tancharlotte-jayne4157]

I guess there's a reason why they're still single :/

[@dreamyo]

not the "where's the PEEL??" 😂😂

[@janel9468]

Where is the PEEL? LOL!!! Love it 😂

[@lydialee2309]

Who are they????

[@PokhrajRoy.]

Worst Listening Comprehension Passage AAAAAAAAAA I CANNOT RIGHT NOW 😂