영어로 💬 소외감이 들다 / 책임감을 느끼다 / 배신감이 들다 💡 자연스러운 영어 문맥 속에서 다양한 표현 배우기

I finally feel like I'm with the right kind of people for me. At my last job, I didn't have any problems, but I always felt a little left out for some reason and I never really understood why. But, I think I do now. Now, I definitely feel like I'm where I belong.
저는 이제서야 저랑 맞는 사람들과 함께하고 있는 것 같아요. 지난 직장에서는 문제는 없었지만 무슨 이유에서인지 늘 소외감이 조금씩 들었는데 그 이유를 알 수 없었지만 지금은 알 것 같아요. 지금은 확실히 제가 있어야 할 곳에 있는 것 같아요.
• the right kind of people for me : 나한테(나와) 맞는 사람들
• for some reason : 무슨 이유에서인지
• I'm where I belong : 나는 내가 있어야 할 곳에 있다
You know, everyone tells me that it wasn't my fault and there was nothing I could've done. And, I think I know that. But, every time I think about it, I can't help feeling just a little bit responsible for what happened. There's this voice in my head that keeps saying, "if I had just acted a little sooner...". My psychologist keeps reminding me that it's a classic case of Survivor's Guilt.
다들 제 탓이 아니고 제가 어떻게 할 수 없었을 거라고 말을 해요. 저도 그렇게 그런 것 같긴 한데 그 일에 대해서 생각할 때마다 그 일에 대한 책임감이 저도 모르게 조금씩 들어요. "내가 조금만 빠르게 행동을 취했어도.." 하는 생각이 머리속에 자꾸 맴돌아요. 제 정신과의사는 생존자 죄책감의 전형적인 케이스라는 것을 저한테 반복해서 상기시켜주고 있어요.
• there was nothing i could've done : 내가 할 수 있었던 것은 없었다
• can't help + ing : 나도 모르게, 어쩔 수 없이 (통제가 안됨) ~을 하게 되다
• a classic case of [ 현상이나 증상 ] : [ 현상이나 증상 ]의 전형적인 케이스
People are responding to this particular case much more emotionally than usual and that's probably because they had so much trust and love for that person for so long. I'm sure that he was thought of like a friend or family by many people. So, I'm not at all surprised that people felt especially betrayed when they heard about what he did and I feel more or less the same way. But, I'm one of those people who believe that people make mistakes. Sometimes, we do stupid things.
사람들은 평소보다 이번 사건에 특히 감정적으로 반응을 하고 있는데 그것은 아마 오랫동안 그 사람에 대한 믿음과 애정을 가져왔기 때문일 거예요. 분명히 그는 많은 사람들에게 친구나 가족처럼 느껴졌을 거예요. 그래서 그가 저지른 행동에 대해서 알고 나서 사람들이 특히 큰 배신감을 느꼈다는 게 사실 전혀 놀라운 일은 아니에요. 저도 비슷한 마음이긴 하지만 저는 누구나 실수를 한다고 믿는 편이에요. 누구나 멍청한 행동을 할 때가 있기 마련이죠.
• respond to : 무엇에 반응하다
• A is thought of as(like) B : A는 B로(처럼) 여겨진다
• I'm not at all surprised that .. : that 이하의 내용이 전혀 놀랍지 않다
• more or less : 거의
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[@HiJK_English]

정말 도움 많이 받고 있습니다. 고등학교 기숙사에서 아침방송으로 틀어주고 있습니다. 감사합니다.

[@danyoo22]

A: How do you like living in the Chicago area? B: Oh it's so much better than the rural Pennsylvania area where we are from. Obviously, Chicago is a big city, and there are a lot of Korean and Asian businesses and restaurants for us to patronize. A: Are your kids adjusting okay? B: The transition has been pretty easy for them as well. They are making new Asian friends and fitting in nicely. There are many different ethnicities in this area. So white, black, Asian and Hispanic kids are all used to mingling with each other. A: So it sounds like this is where your family belongs. B: For sure...you can say that again!

[@철원장-q4v]

두개의 엄지 척으로 고마움을 표현합니다

[@DareumNAM]

항상 감사히 보고 있어요! 뭐라도 해 드릴 것이 없어서 쌤 영상 광고는 스킵 안하고 끝까지 보고 있어요 :)

[@munjeongchoi3121]

저도요!👍🏻

[@sen2378]

정말 평소에 쓸 수 있는 유용한 표현들인 것 같아요! 계속 선생님 따라해서 반복적으로 읽었어요. 감사합니다 :)

[@BicMail]

항상 좋은 강좌 올려 주셔서 감사합니다. 잘 보겠습니다.

[@angela_young]

이런 감정 표현에 대한 강의 너무 좋은 것 같아요! 그동안 의견을 얘기하는 방식에 대해 강의가 더 많았던 것 같은데 세밀한 감정표현도 많이 가르쳐주세요~ 친한친구랑 수다떠는 것처럼요^^ 늘 감사합니다!!

[@wakeup0630]

알람 받으면 기분 너무 좋아요. 열심히 할게요.^^

[@강지니-e3k]

영작과 한국말 번역 모두를 실어주셔서 많은 도움됩니다. 저는 영상을 듣기도 하지만 노트를 해서 영상 들을 수 없는 상황에 보거나 영작연습을 쓰는데요, 일일이 다 적어야 되는 시간을 절약할 수 있어 너무 감사하게 생각합니다

[@taijicome2013]

좋은 강의 감사합니다. 🎉😊

[@Emma-zi8mi]

라아 동영상 all 정복의 그날까지..^^ 주옥같은 내용 감사합니다.

[@Metene9999]

참 좋은 문장들이네요 👍👍👍

[@cabinjh]

영어 공부를 하면서 영상에 매번 감동을 받네요 😭최공영상이에요 감사합니다 ☺️

[@다커리]

Thank you for this useful video. I'm really surpised how you make these amazing videos. I think I know that how much time and effort you put in this channel and how much you feel responsibility for us.

[@초긍정-n8l]

1빠네요 ㅎㅎㅎ 오늘도 유용한 표현 감사요 쌤~

[@douddu6591]

정말정말감사합니다♡

[@chogandancook6233]

유익한 영상 감사합니다~

[@초록림]

오늘도 좋은 표현과 좋은 예문 알려주셔서 감사합니다~!!! 꿀목소리를 듣는건 보너스~🤗

[@sop81740]

선생님! 정말 감사해요.

[@pocketmart]

두번째 문장은 상당히 의미심장 하네요 유익한 영상 언제나 감사합니다

[@jennykho8638]

안녕하세요? 선생님? 정말 사용하고 싶은 표현들을 이렇게 알려주셔서 정말 감사합니다.

[@jihyunpark5656]

감사합니다 😊🙏🏻

[@keepgoingman5829]

이번 강의 내용 넘 좋네용^^

[@jinkim2277]

You are the best👍

[@annacga764]

I sometimes feel a little bit left out among slim people. Considering that you are what you eat, I can't help feeling more or less responsible for my body. Not because, I care about how others think of me, But because, someone precious in my life is not others, but me. So I pay specific attention to what food I have to stay away from and what kind of exercise are right for me. With that said, people who don't gain weight no matter how much they eat always make me feel deeply betrayed. I think anyone who has been on a diet at least once probably would feel the same way..

[@whitepuppy9373]

참으로 고급진 내용 감사합니다. 때로는 내용 너무 고민하지 마시고 짧고 간다하게도 해주세요 ^^

[@Illmakeit-d7d]

I want to work with people who are the right kind of people for me as well. But I chose a life that I would feel left out by myself for a while for some reason. And I would say that you're so lucky if you're already where you belong. You deserve it! Whatever you did, it was the right things or not, which made you right now. I feel more or less the same way that people make mistakes and do stupid things sometimes. And I also sometimes can't help thinking of mistakes I made before. But, you know what, If you could be back in the past, there might be nothing you could've done differently. That is the human being. But still we again try and grow. For a better life tomorrow than today. 오늘도 감사합니다!!^^

[@Lee-ok7dg]

최곱니다

[@forest.lim10_15]

넘넘 좋아요 :) 감사합니당 ㅎㅎ

[@longyellow1372]

I have been working this company for about 10years. Remember when i was first day in my office. I didn’t have any idea what to do. The only thing were that copy a tone of papers and clean tea room. My colleagues were too busy to care me. During those day i felt really felt out. After i got promoted. I felt a lot of responsible for many projects. Even thought i was really hard to work with can do attitude. But raising my salary was rejected with some reasons. I still feel betrayed. Hopefully i win the lottery this SAT.

[@harrykim3420]

영어 공부하는 곳인데.. 쌩뚱맞지만.. 항상 궁금했던게 있어요.. 혹시 마이크는 어떤거 쓰세요? 너무 클리어 해서요. ..

[@christine0725]

영상 감사히 잘 보고 있습니다. ^^ 질문 하나 드려도 될까요? "내가 할 수있었던 것은 없었다"를 "There was nothing that I could do."라고 하면 틀리나요?

[@똥은꼭출근해서싸그래]

ㅎㅎㅎ영어 실력은 못따라가지만 매번 잘 보고있습니다 언어는 해도해도 어렵네요

[@hyeim1220]

Whenever I'm with my daughter at the playground where there are many white moms and children, I feel a little left out for some reason. Noone looks down on us and even they are so kind for us when they are waiting for next turn for a ride. But the fact we are only Asians here makes me shrink. Even I've been living here for 3years but I'm not still familiar with people here.

[@lastkstree]

1. 연습 - He was thought of the leader of that group. - Sometimes I feel like left out a little. - It's a classic case of my obsession. - I felt like I was betrayed when they said like that. - I can't help getting nervous. I need to have some rest. 2. 개인정리 - feel (a little) left out : 소외감을 느끼다 belong - for some reason - can't help ~ing : can't endure doing sth - a classic case of : basic case - psychologist - betrayed : 배신당한 - A is thought of as(like) ~ - I'm not at all suprised - I feel the same way : 나도 같은 마음이다

[@wide_and_deep]

There's a special group in my company. They made up of SKY graduates. When I see them, I feel left out. As a local college graduate, I feel responsible for promotion. It's because I want to show that local graduates can work well. One day, I saw my alumni who were among them. She cheated on her school to go with them. I felt betrayed and felt sympathy at the same time. She didn't feel the same way with me. 우리회사에는 스카이졸업생들로 이루어진 특별한 그룹이 있다. 내가 그들을 볼때 소외감이 느껴진다. 지방대졸업생으로서, 승진에 대한 책임감을 느낀다. 지방대출신이라도 일을 잘 할수 있다는걸 보여주고 싶기 때문이다. 어느날 그들사이에 있는 동창생을 봤다. 그들과 함께 하기 위해 학교를 속인 것이다. 배신감과 동정심이 동시에 느껴졌다. 그녀는 나와 같은 마음이 아니었던 것이다. Thank you for making such a good video^^~

[@ar-fd6zs]

I'm already a senior in university but I've still felt a little left out for some reason. I wanted to be with the right kind of people for me. But I think I'm not where I belong now. 벌써 3학년이 됐지만 여전히 무슨 이유에서인지 소외감이 들어요. 저와 맞는 사람들과 함께하고 싶었는데 저는 지금 제가 있어야 할 곳에 있는 것 같지 않아요. You know there was nothing you could've done. I know you can't help thinking about what happened. But what's done is done and the only thing you have to keep in mind at the moment is you had acted feeling responsible for it. 너도 너가 할 수 있는 게 없었다는 걸 알잖아. 너도 모르게 그 일에 대해서 생각하게 된다는 거 알아. 근데 이미 지난 일이고 너가 지금 마음에 새겨야 하는 건 너는 그 일에 책임감을 느끼면서 행동했었다는 거야. A: What is your plan today? 오늘 뭐해? B: I think I'm going to go shopping. And then I think I'll probably see my friends. I haven't seen them for a long time. I might feel a bit awkward. 쇼핑하러 갈까봐. 그리고 아마 친구들 보러 갈 것 같아. 오랜만에 보는 거라 어색할 지도 모르겠다. A: I would feel more or less the same way if I were you. 내가 너였어도 비슷한 마음이었을 거야. A: What is your plan today? 오늘 뭐해? B: I think I'm going to go shopping. And then I think I'll probably see my friends. I haven't seen them for a long time. I might feel a bit awkward. 쇼핑하러 갈까봐. 그리고 아마 친구들 보러 갈 것 같아. 오랜만에 보는 거라 어색할 지도 모르겠다. A: I would feel more or less the same way if I were you. 내가 너였어도 비슷한 마음이었을 거야.

[@ssikwon5656]

Sometimes it’s hard to keep up with your pace 😂 but still l’m really appreciated with your enthusiasm and consistency. I feel myself keep improving slowly but constantly

[@wakeup0630]

(To spill my guts-속마음 터놓기) 'I can finally express what the friend is like without any hesitation. She is the kind of person who is self-centered or selfish. Those words like selfish or self-centered don’t sound good to me, so I feel a little bit sorry for explaining her. ' We don’t have any special problems but I sometimes feel a little bit uncomfortable for some reason after we met up. I’ve tried finding out why I felt that way but actually it’s not a big problem between us. I'm gonna understand and accept what she is like. I think we've been going together while understanding each other just the way we are for 30 years, And I definitely feel like I've been going to where I belong.(where I’m supposed to be?) I’ve cut down on carb and increased intake of protein such as soy foods and chicken breast and vegetables such as carrots and salads. Also I’ve been walking for one hour 3 times a week. But I feel betrayed whenever I check my weight. I’ve gained 3kg for 2 months. Some people tells me that it’s not easy to control weight with just food. Every time I eat something, there’s this voice in my head that keeps saying, “If you had just put down your last spoonful of that, you could’ve smiled later” People of this age are responding to their health issues much more sensitively than ever and that's probably because they felt their physical strength was declining every year. I’m one of those people who really believe that people need to exercise a lot as they grow older. I’m not at all surprised that I’m getting older every day but I’m really shocked that I’m getting weak physically.

[@taskforce5429]

선생님 영어 너무 잘하십니다. 부럽다.. 예문가져가서 필요한거쓰겠습니다. 특히 I think we've been going together while understanding each other just the way we are for 30 years, 너무 맘에듭니다.. 이부분 ㅎ

[@ckacka82]

-Last night at the party, I felt a little left out for some reason. - Yeah!! I felt more or less the same way. -It's partly my fault. I'm feeling a little responsible for this. Let me make it up to you. -How could you do this to me? I felt really betrayed when i heard about that.

[@Hwnagtaekyung]

I get around to 는 I finally feel like 와 어떤 느낌이 다른 점인가요?

[@우영무-i7c]

질문있습니다. is it as we thought it would be. 문장에서 would be와 we thought에 대해 설명해 주시면 고맙겠습니다.

[@snowwhite2353]

영상 보면서 많이 배웁니다 👍👍 아 광고 보기 실천할게요

[@KimDeKhan]

🙏

[@johnyoo7367]

Around one month before we were starting to run our business, one partner who was going to work with me told me that she couldn’t work with me. When I heard that, I felt betrayed. However, there’s nothing I could’ve done to change her mind. I can’t help feeling just a little bit responsible for her decision and feeling a little left out as a one owner. Did I disappoint her with my business vision? As I had to run my business by myself, I should decide on my own business , and this might make me feel lonely every now and then, but every one owner would feel the same way.

[@wldo4704]

it is the best!

[@hyeim1220]

I've heard from my daughter's teacher that my daughter follows the class rules very well and even points out her friend who was out of the rules and told it to her teacher. When I heard of it, I thought I might've forced her very strictly to do the right thing and yelled at her too much everytime I found her do something wrong. I feel kind of guilty and responsible for her behavior.

[@roeniss]

5:33 why use 'this voice' instead of 'a voice' or 'the voice'?

[@julieson4491]

for so long 하고 for a long time 의 차이점이 뭘까요?

[@골드맨-g5p]

혹시 발음도 교정 해주실수 있나요? 한국인들 특징이 음절로 끈어서 발음 하기 때문에 예를 들면 have 를 해브 로 둘로 나누어 발음 한다든지 No 를 [NOU] 로 발음 하지 않고 노 라고 발음한다든지 한국식 발음 느낌이 많이 납니다. 정말 네이티브 발음 교정 수업도 코스로 만들어도 사람들 반응이 좋을듯합니다.

[@Lily-oz8do]

I felt like out of it 이건 어떨까요?소외감을 느꼈다

[@baby_musician]

I am especially sensitive respond to matter about mother-in-law😂 I am not at all surprised that Kids do silly thing.

[@매버릭-d8x]

She was complaining about what I did last night. She felt betrayed because I had left the party without any single word. She kept saying I might have felt the same way if she had gone away. But I couldn't help leaving that place because I had felt left out because there was no one that I'm familiar with. I had already knew my fault and felt enough responsible for my action so I just hoped her to stop yell at me.

[@aaspeech]

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[@young692]

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