YES I’VE CHANGED… Addressing Your Questions | Amelia Liana

[@carolwood9270]

As we grow, through experience, or because we value ourselves differently, our styles change. It’s an interesting thing. But when we change, our style changes too….

[@amelialiana]

Couldn't agree more! :)

[@sosoutherncustomequestrian4598]

Change is always good, it means your growing into yourself. If you think the 30's are good your going to LOVE the 40's and 50's!

[@amelialiana]

Ahhh hope so

[@sosoutherncustomequestrian4598]

@@amelialiana I promise!

[@EmilyRaskett]

I’m a civil engineer and work in the construction industry. It’s fascinating for me how you think your personality has changed working with men. I think it teaches you to be more direct in your communication vs being gentler if you’re used to only working with women. I never thought of it as being mean but I’m very thankful of how working with men has taught me to be direct and assert myself when leading projects

[@eulreyharrison9025]

Yes!!!! My thoughts exactly ✨💁🏾‍♀️✨

[@amelialiana]

Couldn't agree more xx

[@zoesands257]

I think its hard NOT to change. We grow and experience so much each year! I think it gets faster as you get ‘older’ fun fact.. we share the same birthday but 10 years apart! A few years ago i lost part of my bowel.. in emergency surgery and that changed me much more than i knew at the time 💖

[@amelialiana]

awh, I agree! I'm glad you're better ❤

[@lifestylewithkristen]

I LOVE this version of you!!! Change IS NORMAL, especially with the more life experience we have, it´s hard not to!! XOXOXO

[@amelialiana]

Thank you so much!

[@mariam316]

I’d say it’s less “changed personality” and more just evolution and growth! 20s into 30s are such an evolution of coming into yourself and owning yourself in the best way! 30s are awesome

[@amelialiana]

so true! x

[@unpetitagneau]

Strong yes- I’ve been building a house for TWO YEARS now and a year in I had a revelation. When I am nice, they take advantage of that. They use my kindness to cut corners, be sloppy, and not do things they way they know they should because they’re betting that I just won’t mention it for fear of conflict. I’ve absolutely changed, and now I basically just trust no one and if I’m paying you to do work for me, I’m suspicious of you.

[@user-ev4jg5dk2k]

Does it sound creepy but I enjoy so much living my imaginary summer and winter ski vacays through you! Change is good, be it styles or hair color, it’s waves of personal growth! Enjoying your content much xoxo

[@amelialiana]

I'm so glad! Thanks so much 😃x

[@glenn1970]

Been diagnosed with sibo a couple weeks ago. My symptoms were really different than yours (mostly upper stomach) no appetite, nausea, feeling constantly that I have trapped air on my left side, burping a lot. Been taking antibiotics to eradicate it for a week now. Still have one week to go and then going the more natural route to make my gut strong again. This invisible disease is a pain in the ass, eating low formaps for months, no gluten…I hope you and I will be feeling good soon.

[@AlicatStyle]

Hi Amelia, I don’t think that you are not as nice now as last year; I think you are less of a people pleaser and more standing up for yourself. Good for you! proud of you. Hugs from Miami 🧡

[@caralum]

Personally I’m your new style Amelia - but that’s not important - what is important is that you serve you! 💚🐛

[@sarahibowles7934]

One thing I really like about you Amelia is that you or Pia take the time to reply to messages and comments. It’s amazing! Some less popular content creators would never but I appreciate that! Makes it so personal!

[@kaitlynwilson-witte5037]

I just flipped through your instagram and I think your style has evolved flawlessly. It all just looks so refined and put together, but still girly and classically feminine. Like those gowns and your birthday dress, sophisticated, but girly in the best way

[@emmat5871]

I know what you mean about the stress of home renovations!! One of our tradesmen only ever spoke to my husband and explained things to him even though I was in the room!! Was the strangest thing lol

[@thepixiedust01]

I feel you on this one, they literally see us women as 2nd class citizen who knows nothing, talking from experience enduring ongoing house renovation. We got to stand up for ourself 💪

[@rachsmith4670]

I’ve experienced a very similar shift in my style and thinking since turning 30. I turned 30 in November 2020 so in a lockdown but i don’t recognise my pre covid self. I am definitely more comfortable with who I am! Anyone who is going through the same thing I encourage you to love and embrace the change! ♥️

[@queens6583]

Your style is changing because your evolving particularly at this stage in your life and that's normal. When you get to be in your 60's like myself you will find that there will be another huge transition and it's what we all experience. Also, I have come to learn that if you need to be on antibiotic's for anything, you should take a probiotic to avoid the Thrush situation. It nips that in the bud!

[@alveenarasool4451]

Hey Amelia - you popped up on my FYP and thought I would come and watch a wee YT video before bed like the good old times. You’re so lovely and honestly feel like we could be besties everything you’ve kinda been talking about in this video I feel like I’ve really related to. You talk about topics like “depression weekends” and insecurities in such a genuine and truthful way. I know we all have those days and hate bits of ourself (hate too strong) but the way you just say it deffo made me feel less dramatic about my feelings that’s for sure. I could go on and on and ONNNN but not gonna because it’s a bit weird lmao. You’re a lovely wee soul thank you xx Anyways I’m waffling

[@LauraIsOverstimulated]

I also have depressed weekends or days every now and then and I think that’s pretty normal. Every now and then just needing a FULL BODY REST

[@judieloveday1643]

It's natural to change as we age. IMO, your 20s are for experimentation and starting to figure out who you are. Your 30s are for continuing on that path. You've packed a lot into the last couple of years, and you've come out stronger on the other side. It's good that you're learning to stand up for yourself. BTW I love the dress you're wearing in the video. (Getting the straps altered to your body shape is a pretty easy fix. Just make sure that the seam is sloped so it doesn't keep falling down.)

[@amelialiana]

Thanks Judie 💕x

[@aa-yl6nv]

You splurging on your dog is goals. I have two cats and I splurge on them too. 💞

[@amelialiana]

love this!

[@suzannesardinha6337]

Muscles are amazing and you don't look muscle-y ... keep up with the weight training it will help you now (mind set and ability to lift things for yourself including yourself) and in the future (bones and overall health)!!

[@annahall1221]

Hi Amelia, you are glowing & absolutely obsessed with the new style! Is the Raemi role still available? I would love to look into details. I am currently moving to London from NZ & this role is super enticing to me 😍 thanks xx

[@manikainlondon3715]

I think you should still do a complete house tour once it’s finished. No matter after how many months.

[@roseg1333]

My style drastically changed pretty soon after I got into my thirties too and I was super girly too. I feel you 🎀

[@klm84]

Dmannose is literally a life saver!!! 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼

[@sounsliti4055]

Zimmerman dresses are beautiful but they are definitely not my thing… Amelia you re beautiful and that s ok to change .. We all change and that s life .. 💜

[@hannahwright4466]

Would love to see something with you and Etsy. Recommendations of stores etc, would love to see your choices.

[@parisbear6062]

I work with and engage contractors (co-incidentally all male) for my job and without fail they look at any male nearby and assume he is the boss - "she is the one you need to speak to" is a surprise to them. You need to be firm and take control and then gain respect as a female.

[@ajjudge7983]

You go, Amelia! Can relate - I had encountered perpetual male jockeying for position at work, on the part of men that frankly were less talented (I feel I can say this now that I'm in my 'don't give a crap 50s') than me. They were however much more skilled in engineering situations to maintain their hold on power. As that situation became more and more clear to me, I became more ruthless and less 'nice' in the face of such behaviour. And I LOVE the change. I am currently negotiating in a work scenario and I'm playing hardball. Sending you support and love, keep shining! 😘

Keep doing you Amelia! You’re doing great 💪

[@amelialiana]

Thanks so much!!

[@lauraloops...]

Hi Amelia, I have just ordered the Harpers. I cannot wait to wear them, just stunning! Keep up the fantastic work, you are glowing, your place is looking, out of this world! You must be so proud of yourself, I know i am x

[@staceydavis9195]

You are maturing into a bolder, more self-assured woman. Taking control of your life, health, and home renovations will make you a different person. Cheers to a new you! And Happy Belated Birthday!

[@fabz16]

Good for you! 👏🏻 Some of it will be your age too. As you get older you are clearer on what you want and what you will/will not accept or tolerate. You also tend to care less about other peoples opinions if they don’t align with yours (doesn’t mean you can’t respect other peoples opinions though).

[@ambern2842]

Only a few minutes in, but I'm obsessed with your nail colour! I think I know what colour I'm getting next 😌💅😁💖

[@alana.gr_1345]

YESSS I SOO RELATE when you talked about the zimmermann dress thing or items youve stopped wearing becuase it does feel like you unless its more masculine or structured I've now leaned towards more monochromatic chic outfits even in season like summer where everyone wears prints I tend to lean to the more trousers bodysuit or pencil skirt structured shirt look wayy more it just feels more fashionable to me and fierce / sexy

[@franthomas23]

Omg Amelia, I went through that phase too. I worked in an office with all men, and much older people than me. I was the always the youngest (by a lot in the room) and I became a much more stronger masculine woman. Eventually I started dressing like it too, which sharper lines etc. but the girly side has now started to come out again, especially when motherhood seems close at hand!

[@princessprilly80]

Omg dealing with men in a work capacity changes you for sure. Men don’t like when I’m their boss. I can see myself change and be more masculine. Even my work voice is deeper. It’s funny but you’re right!

[@stayhappylittlemermaid]

Winning isn't everything, but wanting to win is.

[@amelialiana]

🙌

[@tede8889]

Listening to you is very enjoyable, great Q&A!

[@broadleyful]

Love this chapter you're in. Seems like a really great time ❤️

[@samplerstitcher]

I have had some major hits to my happiness in life lately...loss of pets, family problems...then my nephew committed suicide. I just can't seem to move forward past the anger I feel. I feel such pain thinking about what he was going through (he had schizophrenia) how bad it must have been for him to take his own life. His loss has changed me, I am hard and angry yet cry all the time. I am hoping I can change back to myself and be the cheerful person I was. Soon...

[@sundancer7562]

Also think your new style suits your kibbe body type more!

[@janetclark7300]

We love your style now xx

[@aseeshera5998]

We need to change to grow. I've been a subbie for years. I feel like your more connected to yourself now. You know what you like and what you don't. How your body,mental health works for you. I'll be 30 in September. I'm anxious about don't know how I feel abt it really.

[@TheZra96]

It’s true, working with a predominantly male-based corporate team also turned me into a colder, stern person in order to be taken seriously!! Either way I’m glad I’ve learned how to stand up for myself and well done to you too for building the house of your dreams down to every detail!!!

[@sundancer7562]

Would love to see your style evolve to dark hair

[@rachriri]

You look gorgeous in this video! I cant figure out what but maybe the hair? Wow 😦❤️

[@randomnessiskewel]

I would be interested to hear if you have any idea of the impact of the garment industry on the environment, and where “donated” clothes which one just decides no longer fit their style and personality end up. Yes, should of course be allowed to evolve and change and better ourselves but then we should also think about how much we consume. I feel like the luxury of being ignorant on these topics should not be granted to someone like you, with your education background, resources and free time available to research! Please, please think about how many pieces you will get for your “new you” wardrobe, and also their longevity and quality!

[@NeutralsInc]

please please please share about the pillows on your bed!!

[@bm152670]

Evolving is very important as you age that means you are growing as a person.

[@rmhxr6148]

I bought a house, had it renovated, a year later it’s still only a quarter done. Amelia my tolerance to BS is ZERO. I wish people & the world well but those I engage with get one chance. You have to be hard because especially in the renovation world, it takes the piss. Self preservation is paramount!!!!!

[@blonde761]

I’ve been taking D-Mannose for years. Nice to hear someone else mention it - my body does not do well w antibiotics either.

[@louloubell7288]

I love your genuine self and bubbly personality. So rare on here 💜💕.

[@sabrinasydney4239]

Leave you face alone IMO🤷‍♀️. Ppl point out the stupidest details! Never noticed your face was too hairy before! IT IS NOT!! Besides removing hair in that location doesn't look good on everyone!!! Sometimes they look odd forever!! You're 🔥 girl!! 🙌🙌❤️❤️

[@1989snb]

Totally related with dealing with contractors as a single woman homeowner I had to be a cold 🥶 witch otherwise they wanted to half-assed your home, honestly I had to get my step-dad involved a few times 😤

[@effie5238]

OMG! Dealing with handymen as a single woman is THE worst. You're always talked down to & I'm sure hugely taken advantage of bc you're female! Totally different situation, but I had an electonic device that needed servicing. After I got it back, it still wasn't working. Called the company again and don't remember if he actually asked but his attitude was like, 'have you plugged it in?' & even when he agreed to come by and see it, it was like, 'it'll probably be a waste of my time'. Until he realized of course, that I had been right all along!

[@willi_4569]

Omg I am going through that phase now and didn’t even notice until you explained it so well!! P.S.: I just love your openness, that’s why you are one of my favs

[@Victoriaward]

So amazing to hear you talk about how your personality has changed through working with an all male team while doing your house. I’ve had the same experience, although mine has come as a band leader leading male bands. I’m not sure it’s necessarily just because they’re men (although some of it definitely is). I think it’s a lot to do with not having direct control over who you are working with (i.e. because you’ve not directly hired them). This means you inevitably end up with some people who can’t be relied upon, and who fall back to BS and excuse making. It does make you a lot tougher. I found the reactions to that toughness were the hardest things to deal with. Especially if you’re the only woman in a group full of men, and talking to man who falls back on a very light and insidious form of misogyny to make it look like you’re the problem. And that concludes my TED talk.

[@Jackie-ez8gq]

@Amelia I take D- Mannose for years now. It's really helpful! ❤️

[@stephanieness8344]

I love your style more now and love your straightened hair! 🪬💖

[@khaledabegum5604]

Sorry to be stern but Please own your success and work towards getting over this imposter syndrome. You have no one to please but yourself and self congratulating is not a form of arrogance as long as you are humble about it which you are. Having worked in an industry full of men and gotten over my imposter syndrome recently and owning my career success I have found I have become me again. It’s also inspiring to people because you are giving them permission to own it too unconsciously. We as women must start removing these inherited shame across all facets of our lives.

[@KS-jy1pu]

I love your new style ❤️ Keep doing and changing what feels good and right to you 🥰 🥰 🥰

[@ivydeangelis9121]

Stay strong Amelia . You are beautiful. Everything will fall into its place .

[@zahraonokevbagbe2725]

I hear you about changing through the pandemic and having your acceptance of BS going to a big zero! I feel the same way and I think that’s a good change!

[@jules.sbro8]

I hardly ever watch Q&As but yours are so entertaining & interesting I love them. I managed to get my hands on the hot pink earrings you are wearing & the silver & yellow version for my mum as her birthday is coming up, love your jewellery brand! Have a super week Amelia 😘🧡😍

[@kcmorris4875]

For your cebo have you tried PRObiotics? I have similar chronic issues and I started a year ago taking 50 billion probiotic capsule per day and it has totally changed what I can eat, my symptoms and now I feel a million times better! xxxx

[@nuria_gam]

Even if you changed it feels more than evolving into what you were meant to be if that makes sense? I see more of like a change to suit a new Amelia that was afraid or just needed to take her own time to become! And as my mum always says, the only thing constant in life is change.

[@crystalchang8171]

I've been waiting for your podcasts!! It's not true that people stopped listening to poscasts during covid😭😭

[@missimi3210]

how did you get your hair to grow so quick? it looks so healthy! xx

[@Fivetimesthree]

Alana, I love love love how proud you are of your Mizrahi background and that you call yourself an Arab 💕💕💕

[@Whtpaper]

Do not apologize for tooting your own horn! We see what you are doing and are accomplishing but many women aren't that lucky unless they speak up and talk about what they've done. ❤

[@dianemilligan7370]

Well, I didn’t get to finish my thought - but working with men taught me to be more direct and assertive - I needed to give concise instructions and opinions, once I mastered that, things went along well and I grew to like the simplicity, and productivity of working that way. I was young and behaving that way, especially with men that were older and more experienced was challenging until I proved myself. Go Girl!

[@KariTSays]

You are supposed to grow and change! Always be you never change for anybody and do what makes you happy. On my 50th birthday I had an aha moment, I wish I can’t give that wisdom to all you younger men & women…

[@kdramamania4597]

literally took my guts out! looks good without guts.

[@ruthmuinde4200]

Change = growth🙌🏾 I might try Veri. Thanks for the recommendation

[@phumzilenkomo9571]

Obsessed with your patio,I took some notes,very inspired💝💝

[@turkanfeyzullayeva9720]

In Turkey you should definitely go to Kapadokya (Cappadocia)and Oludeniz (Fethiye ) and do a boat tour 💕

[@jesseeec]

I’m enjoying your style change. I’m not one that likes to wear “look at me” pillowy, florals, puffy clothing. Classic, timeless, effortless, comfy…that’s where style is at

[@amelialiana]

love this x

[@sudetoros9830]

I’m Turkish! Would love to give you a list of restaurants/beaches etc. once you know your route

[@alisonkovacs9871]

Oh Amelia babe I really feel for you you having ceebo and certain issues with it I hope you are ok sending my love xxxx

[@aseeshera5998]

I understand what you mean I'm just trying to figure out my style. I use to shop and buy all the time. Now my style changed I'm more particular.

[@dianemilligan7370]

That dress - Fabulous on you! You look like a Princess that just got touched by a fairy!

[@gizmogizi]

Uhhh, have fun in Turkey! The food is pretty much great everywhere. You need to try baklava, fish/seafood, köfte, manti, lots of cay (black tea), turkish coffee, fruits!, I love the small cucumbers there as snacks, tomato salads, fasülye (bean stew), cacik (yogurt with cucumber and mint)

[@misschubbun]

I cant wait for the podcastnn

[@jehonahaxhijaj7563]

Cant wait for all the summer content 😍🥰

[@harrietgoodacre]

I love the new Amelia! I think the video title coupled with the thumbnail pic makes it sound like you’re upset about it or had some hate and there’s a negativity to it (didn’t get this vibe in the actual video) but honestly I think it’s been refreshing and an evolution or growth rather than a reaction to something bad if that makes sense?! Although if you could go back to florals as that ain’t my style my credit card would be a lot happier as I’m not as influenced 😅😂 . Seriously loving the blonde, the matt eye shadow and your new style and the house of course! 🔥 Would you ever consider doing a mini round up of your glucose monitor? I’d love to do it but the potential maintenance of it and living with it, even putting it in scares me so a bit more background on it would be truly helpful if you felt comfortable talking about what it’s like to live with? X

[@amberalonzo8462]

If you look up freestyle libre here in KZbin you will find plenty of people describing their experiences - this is a device made for type 1 diabetics to be able to have some sort of freedom in their daily lives as opposed to finger sticks all day. It DOES hurt a bit to put on… if you are scared of needles I would stay away. The needle is only visible and in your skin for a short second but it is rather large. I can no longer where them to monitor myself as I am allergic to the adhesive they use for the skin. I don’t know much about using it for any other purpose than diabetes but if you have questions about the device itself I can help :)

[@princessmorning5332]

There’s a new product called Liquid IV they have a probiotic and it is amazing. I also love the tangerine it’s for immune support. Both have hydration multiplier’s.

[@julie_fitzgerald]

Your nose looks good!! It looked good before too. You got a rhinoplasty because you wanted something fixed and that is fine. Whatever makes you happy even if people think it's unnecessary.

[@katies.172]

You're waking up ✨✨✨🦋

[@alisonkovacs9871]

Good morning beautiful amelia I hope you your lovely family and duke and Leo are well babe it's so lovely to see you again thanks so much for sharing your lovely vlog have fun stay safe babes xxx

[@machshau87]

Please don't stop lifting weights! Everytime I see a woman with muscular arms, I'm like 'you go girl!' I think it's awesome and all women should embrace their muscles!

[@KLD76]

My son uses the sensor for his type 1. It’s really good

[@tinacarrol6702]

Have a Great Week Amelia. Happy July. Xx 😊😘😀

[@LDYVIP]

💖✨💖✨💖So inspirational as always

[@christinegregory1942]

I work in Construction and I was the same way (regarding working with all men), so now in real life I'm more communicative and straight forward as well.

[@amelialiana]

So interesting!

[@fridaoropeza8965]

of curse the pandemic changed us, I personally wear a lot more color and I am not as afraid of wearing cute stuff even do I still wear a lot of structure pieces like colorful suits and that kind of a thing when before I used to wear black and some neutruals and that was it (which is the contrary to what happen to you ) but I guess is because even do the pandemic was really hard for me and my family ( a lot of family members pass away, my brother had cancer and I even had an emergency sugery ) I guess it was my way of trying to embrace any kind of joy I could get and honestly it was the first time in over 6 years were I was not struggling with depression so... I was not mentally ill anymore and that makes a world of difference so...I am incredibly thankful for that because I think all the lessons life gave me were what allow me to go true such a difficult time and maintain a positive and calm look into things and of curse, it wouldn't have been possible if I hadn't seek treatment like 2 years before the pandemic so things were in the works for a long time and I was finally getting healed ; so I totally understand what you mean when you say that your style reflects the changes in yourself; I really never thought I could wear so much color, but I love it and I guess finally loving myself and putting my happiness and well being before anything else really made me be in a better place were and as you mention there are still things that I like from before the pandemic and I wear them sometimes but they don't make me feel happy as my colorful clothing does

[@emilestari7526]

Amelia.. there's no wrong with your nose! ... you are God creation, and you are beautiful!... Don't let one offensive sentence about your nose, sticked on your mind and made you insecure.. Lots of people are jealous with you.. Again I said, you are prefect and beautiful.. And God will send a correct / right / perfect match for you as soon as possible

[@janetclark7300]

You have turned in to a swan babe ❤

[@jacquieincolour9084]

Curious about SIBO…I know you’ve said you eat rice, fruit, honey in tea and candy every day. Have you stopped eating those sugars and carbohydrates (which is also sugar) as well as the alcohol? Thanks for sharing!

[@lianna1869]

I'll be in Como the first week of September! If I see you I'll totally WOOOOO! @you 😁😁❤️