Yes, You Can Be Confident.✅ 10 Steps to Get There ☘️

[@Ithirikaryam]

I may not consider myself the most confident person, but I can certainly say that my journey has been a rewarding one. I’d love to share some tips that have helped me build confidence along the way, and I hope they inspire you too. ♥

[@susanpaul2042]

Talking frankly about oneself is a great thing to do. Let this be a source of inspiration for people who are struggling.

[@Ithirikaryam]

Yes Susan. Looking at the comments and the stories that are shared with me, I feel this is a larger problem. Thank you for leaving this message here. Everything counts.

[@sreedivyalakshmi9664]

Thank you❤..Love watching your videos.. Wishing you all the happiness 🥰

[@Ithirikaryam]

Same to you!

[@arsha_03aj]

Atlast somebody who faced same what i felt through out my schoolings .i had same issue i tried hard to present in a class but can’t focus it .later on in college i realized i am a self learner as i couldn’t focus on lectures.thats a fact .same life story 😂 . 8:42 thanks for speaking out ❤

[@Ithirikaryam]

Thanks for letting me know that it's not just me. ♥️

[@rajithasandeeprajitha7624]

Its a genuine presentation. Loved it❤️

[@Ithirikaryam]

Glad you liked it!!

[@sreelakshmis3675]

Accidentally bumped into your video, very positive 👍 waiting for more.

[@Ithirikaryam]

Welcome aboard!

[@harikumar1849]

Attention കിട്ടാത്തത് എന്നെ ജീവിതകത്തിൽ ഏറെ ബാധിച്ചിട്ടുണ്ട്

[@Ithirikaryam]

♥️

[@Rinni-c1h]

Adhd ano check cheyu

[@SheWorld-s6h]

I am a successful person... But i struggled a lot in achieving my dreams.. At this point i realized that i too had the same problem.... Attention problem... But 😪😪I learned every thing..... Ithu കേട്ടപ്പോ എനിക്ക് എന്നോട് പാവം തോന്നി... അത്രക്ക് ഞാൻ കഷ്ടപ്പെട്ട് 😘😘😘😘😘... ഇത് കേട്ടപ്പോ എന്റെ കുട്ടിക്ക് ഇതേ പ്രശ്നം ഉണ്ടോ ന്നു തോന്നുന്നു 😢😢😢😢😢😢😢... Eye opening video ❤❤❤🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

[@jinojohn7735]

Confidence comes with exposure and experience, especially when you are away from your hometown.

[@Ithirikaryam]

True.. confidence also comes from acceptance of oneself…

[@Made_to_treasure]

Oh my dear..thank you so much for sharing.. I must be your mom’s generation .. touching fifty.. I felt like you are talking for me .. till this age I couldn’t find anyone talking about this.. thank you so much

[@Ithirikaryam]

Thank you for sharing this feeling. I thought I was alone. But after seeing the comments I am relieved and sad at the same time. I hope our society takes care of people like us too.. Lot of love and hugs Vini

[@jake1415]

Oh really love you❤same experiences

[@lifeasibin]

This video is truly wonderful and I deeply appreciate the hard work and creativity you've invested in it. Your positive energy and beautiful spirit shine through, and I wish you all the best in life. May God bless you with love and success, and I eagerly look forward to your next video.❤

[@Ithirikaryam]

Thank you so much 🤗

[@fathimam.m5612]

Njn enne patty kelkkunna pole . Thank you for this video

[@Ithirikaryam]

♥️

[@KrishnaKrishna-ic5fr]

ഞാനും ഇങ്ങനെ ആണ്

[@rosemarooi_123]

Relating so much to you. Stil trying to get out the struggling loop

[@Ithirikaryam]

I hope you get past this stage.. I can’t think about the mental pressure I had to go through during those days.

[@FrigaFriga]

Thank you for this video, waiting for more

[@Ithirikaryam]

More to come!

[@najmashehab2329]

I was in the same school too… had gone through the same situation… i had to change school to feel what you felt when you got in to ansar… I have attention disorder and its effecting even my daily activities 😢

[@Ithirikaryam]

Nice to see you here. Hope your situation has improved :)

[@FARFAZ-o2t]

Same 😢😢😢 Thank you ❤

[@nikithaniki4046]

Eniku puthiya oralodu samsaarikkan bhayangara budhimutta. Njan oru online internship join cheythu but njan live class attend chenille pediyaanu samsaarikaan.pinne puthiya aarkelum msg ayakendi vannal avar thirichu msg cheyumbo I feel tensed I don't know why I behave like this ..ellarum ennodu njan entha ingane oridathum ethanol ponillaannokke negative aayi parayum njan enne thanne confident aaki veykan sherikkum struggle cheyunnundu..ee video orupaadu ishtapettu ❤

[@Ithirikaryam]

Vere aalukal parayunnathonnum nokkenda. Namukku nammal cheyyunnathu onnu maattanam ennu thonniyaal maattuka. Enthano pediyullathu aa pedi maattaan nokkoo.. aa pedi athijeevikkumbol aanu confidence kittuka.

[@basheeraks6880]

I can relate..

[@shabnak7198]

Hai vinni thank you give me get postive mindset...❤❤ feel more confident

[@Ithirikaryam]

Thank you dear

[@faseelamansoor3545]

My school life I can relate so much to you... But now i could totally change 😍

[@Ithirikaryam]

That’s great.. keep going ♥️

[@deepasreenivasan5609]

You are confident dude 😍😍

[@Ithirikaryam]

Things are better now, but it was not the same. Thank you for being here :)

[@deepasreenivasan5609]

@@Ithirikaryam ❤️❤️

[@RasmiP-w1j]

❤️❤️ Thank you dear❤️

[@Ithirikaryam]

❤️

[@Sunilkunisseri]

Trust yourself 👌

[@Ithirikaryam]

♥️

[@arya_chand]

Enikum ee perfection undayirinnu 😝

[@ammisadukkala]

Hi a new friend koottai now,a great vlog and great information shared,what you did is true,like223 ,see you thanks ❤❤❤❤😊

[@Ithirikaryam]

Thanks a lot :)

[@rajla-786]

Njaan ipoya kellkunnad ithokke....... First portion 😂same to u.. Congratulations daa ipo adipoliyayallo... ❤

[@Ithirikaryam]

Ellarum adipoli aakatte

[@dainaninan4662]

Heyyy, I can do much relate to this. I don't know why I have tears in my eyes. This is the most relatable thing I have ever watched. I am also a student in Germany. Can I connect you somehow in person?

[@Ithirikaryam]

Hi.. I was hesitant to put out a video explaining all this initially. But then I thought I would have benefitted if I had seen something like this.. And now I am glad I made this video. You can contact me on instagram. My id @vinithavenus

[@Anjimaah]

Thank you mam❤

[@JJ-up4xt]

i feel you are saying my story somewhere

[@Ithirikaryam]

❤️

[@shurooqshanavas6697]

Ningalk lesson vaayikumbo undaagunna budhimutt enik sharikum und.. Ee perfectionism.. Kurach padicha pinnem orkum entha padich enn.. Pinnem back il k pogum. Next day um adh nokeete aduthad noku. Angine kure time pogum. 😢😢

[@Ithirikaryam]

I know.. sharikkum vattaakum

[@praseethamv8340]

Ente high school kalathu enikkundaya anubham ithanu....avar adikkilla ....but they will torture me mentally...made fun of me....and that effected me badly .... thankyou for sharing your experience.....❤

[@Ithirikaryam]

I know the feeling.. Just keep telling yourself that it was never your fault and that it took a lot of empathy to understand what we were going through. Treat yourself like a warrior who has come a long way. Lots of love and hugs :)

[@shurooqshanavas6697]

Aahaa.. Ansar il Raji miss ennem padipichind.. 😅😅.. Kottuvaa ittadha orikkal Class il.. "you come and derive on the board" enn.. 😁😁

[@Ithirikaryam]

entammoo... :D

[@anooppaul4462]

Thank You ❤️‍🩹

[@Ithirikaryam]

You’re welcome 😊

[@nijinakp9135]

chechi njanum ethe poleya koode ulla kuttikal enne avoid cheythirunnu.apol padithathil njn abadamayi. epolum njn evideyum ethiyilla.psc nokkunnd bt attention kittunilla. parents polum kelkunilla nammude problem

[@Ithirikaryam]

Hello dear.. I can understand when you tell me that no one else understands the issue. Nammal thanne nammale sahayikkanam.. Ee problem manassilaakkan pattathavar nammal veruthe ozhappukayanennu parayum.. Don't be hard on yourself, listening to those words. PSC kku padikkukayanennalle paranjathu... Try to attempt more mock tests and analyse where you went wrong. Angane cheyyumbol attention enikku kurachu koode kittarundu.. Try that and see if it works for you. Lots of love Vini

[@fidhaah.]

Same friends onnullathe ayappo padikkan nalla confidence nd but athum fool ava😢

[@BRIGHTWAY-mk8np]

Correct😮

[@deepap2642]

👏👏👌

[@fidhaah.]

Try cheyyum but njan pettenn tired avaanu.. nallonam dout choichum notes okke crct ezhuthum okke settakki vekkum examalle parnj kalikkanonnum pokathe nikkum but examn mathram nte avastha mosham avum njan classl ulla pole alla vittilethiya nkk athe tension Vanna urakk kudum full kidatham book thodan thonnillaa.. njan oru cheriya karyathil attention kittya mathi bayagra confidence okke varum..😢njan angne padichirunnu but ee examin aa subject okke fail ahn examin njan athre ezhuthittillu..oru sub mathram urakk illathe full night padich ezhuthi nalla confidence nd aa mark kelkkan nkk nalla easy ayirnn aa sub allarkkum tough ayirnn aa sub.. so athil nkk athrekkum paper kittan agrahand bakki ullathokke urangi nkk mind out ayi irnn padikkathe poyi exam ezhuthiye pettenn examin nkk padikkan pattathavum tension okke Vann book touch cheyyan thonnilla oru kidatham madupp dheshyam okke avum😢

[@Ithirikaryam]

First of all it's ok. Don't stress. Ellarum super aanu, njan mathram ingane ennonnum vicharikkenda.. Ellarkkum avarudethaaya issues undu.. So namukkum nammude issues melle deal cheythu shariyaakkaam.. Positive self talk eppolum cheyyanam.. Oru kunjine pole swantham mental health care cheyyanam,.. Nammal okke ithrem etheellee, iniyum pokum munnottu,,, setbacks undaavum.. undavatte.. ellam nerittu kure learn cheythu pokaaam.. Hurry cheyyanda,. We will all be fine

[@roshnapj9189]

I SIMPLY lOVE YOU, DEAR... YOU.RE SUPERB!😍☺

[@Ithirikaryam]

Thank you so much 😀

[@fidhaah.]

Chechide poleya njanum class l irikkum shradhikkan pattula.. perfect ayi padikkanam bayagra agraham ahnu vedum vedum first irunn padikkum examin bakki padikkula... Oru exam full chapter padich poniyya..Xmas exam thanne trap ayi😢 but frds okke parayum ankk mark ndavumnn Karanam nte samsaram njan notes okke nallabole ezhuthunne okke kanditt orkk athre onnum ndavillann.. but nte agraham ath athrekkum padikkanam nn bayagra agraham ahn..njan ath mindl vech nadakkum but padikkan perfect akaanayitt irikkum..😢 ini papers kittumbo nte hope pokum athrekkum markvenganam chechide aa chindha pole thanne njanum frds onnum nkk settayilla appo padichal angnoru sthanekilum ndavum vijarichu..but ithum fool akaanu😢

[@Ithirikaryam]

I know dear. Don't try to please anyone else as it will be difficult for others to understand this situation. I tried to please people and it backfired. When I started living for myself and being kind to myself, things improved. So never give up. Love yourself and be kind to yourself. You deserve happiness and peace and yes you can get good at anything you want. Don't give up

[@Shijithaunni]

ഞാൻ ഇങ്ങനെത്തന്നെയായിരുന്നു ഒരുകാര്യം പോലും മാറ്റമില്ല ആഗ്രഹിക്കും വലിയ പ്ലാനിങ് ഓകെ നടക്കും but നടക്കില്ല

[@Ithirikaryam]

Plan cheythathu chilappol kurachu koodi poyathaavaam. Easily doable aaya urgent and important aaya 3 things mathram aadyam cheyyan nokku Ini Vere issues aanenkil athu address cheyyoo

[@anusree1554]

Relatable

[@sreethathamban2882]

Same prblm aayirunnu

[@shanashibin8866]

I can’t relate.njan above average aayirunnu 😊but confidence illaaannollu

[@Ithirikaryam]

above average aalukalkku too much pressure to succeed kaanarundu.. Pinne the pressure of expectation.. Otherwise you should be fine I think :D

[@positivevibesonly1415]

എനിക്ക് ഇതുപോലെ ആണ് ഇന്ത്യൻ പ്രതിജ്ഞ, ദേശീയ ഗാനം, മൗലിക കർത്തവ്യങ്ങൾ എല്ലാം 😜

[@Ithirikaryam]

haha

[@sreegyansan6817]

Note undakarilla text nokki padikkum .theerathum illa

[@Ithirikaryam]

Questions vachu padikunnathaanu nallathu .. allenkil orikkalum theerilla

[@muhammadashrafmt]

❤

[@DigitalJasmin]

njan ith pole thanne ayirunu

[@Ithirikaryam]

I hope you are in a better situation now

[@22vidhu]

❤️❤️

[@raseenamuhammed3421]

👍🏻👌🏻

[@shanashibin8866]

Ink chiri varaa first portion kandappo 😂😂😅😅

[@Ithirikaryam]

😋

[@milanantony2111]

Nice talk… enta job ta time change ayee.. oruma undo enee😅

[@Ithirikaryam]

Ormayundallo... Happy for you!

[@sreegyansan6817]

Njan ingine ayirunnu

[@avani5589]

Njn 😂🙂

[@rajla-786]

Single mom aan oru video cheyyaamo

[@Ithirikaryam]

I’ll try dear

[@anandu4793]

Which school did you studied??

[@Ithirikaryam]

Hill blooms and Ansar

[@AswathyMuraliS]

ചേച്ചി.. ഒന്ന് സംസാരിക്കണം... നമ്പർ ഒന്ന് തരുമോ

[@Ithirikaryam]

Instagram voice message ayacholu @vinithavenus

[@Shannshana-p1y]

Ithu njan thanne😅

[@Ithirikaryam]

ellarum ingane thanne aanalle appo 😅

[@nasinas-hg9zh]

Eth year batchaan… ansaril

[@Ithirikaryam]

romba pazhaya batch aanu.. 2005

[@nasinas-hg9zh]

@@Ithirikaryam 🥰🥰ente csnte batchanonn nokkanernn..averokke athukkum pazhayathaaa

[@Ithirikaryam]

@@nasinas-hg9zh :D

[@leayahjose]

❤❤❤❤

[@fathimanizar7600]

❤❤

[@jayalakshmiajay]

❤

[@jismoljoy5142]

❤

[@sivadethmk3424]

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